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Fashionably Late Interest & Bribery - Rav Yona Reiss
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So this kabura is uh about a couple of
different inyanim but they're all
related and uh one is
ribbism ribbis muheris is relevant in
the realm of hovah and it's also
relevant in the realm of dionos as we
shall see uh that uh there's a notion
that both with respect to ribbis if
there's a payment that's made after the
loan has been repaid sometimes it's
going to be a problem of a ribbus at
least what we'd call
ribbon
theoskins is a lower level of ribbon
where there isn't even an obligation to
return a lot that's
what but nonetheless
still if it's clear that the payment
related to the loan that the borrower is
adding on extra relating to the loan why
is it not
ri because it wasn't stipulated there's
no kit if it would be stipulated up
front that the borrower has to pay an
extra amount of premium him over the
loan by by virtue of the fact that he
received the loan. So even if the ribbis
payment is paid a little bit later,
that's still
ribbut. That's not what we're talking
about. We're talking about when the
borrower on his own decides that he's
going to give an extra payment to the to
the lender. That's ribbis. Now there are
certain exceptions as to when we say
that it's going to be permissible. it's
a sufficiently low-level is that we have
the various exceptions that will be
applicable if it's not clear that it's
relating to the that's relating to the
loan cuz what are you going to do?
You're going to prevent a borrower
forever from ever being able to extend a
favor to say shalom uh to open up a door
to give mishmanos to somebody just
because once upon a time they extended
alone at a certain point in time. to say
that it's already uh sufficiently
removed or the amount that's given is
sufficiently a small amount that we're
not going to relate it to to related to
the loan. So those are some of the denim
of ribbis but there are certain
situations where we say this is such a
big gift that it's obvious that it must
have related to to the loan and certain
other situations. And certainly the
borrower doesn't do himself any favors
if he says, "Oh, I know I'm giving this
to you late, but I wanted to just give
this to you because I know that I put
your money out of commission for such a
long time and therefore I'm giving you
this extra amount." So that's a really
bad idea. That's going to be also
according to everybody no matter what
the size of the gift and no matter how
the far removed it is from the time of
repayment. But what's interesting is
that this also is combined in the it
sort of goes neck to neck where the the
about what sort of favors are allowed or
not allowed during the term of the loan
itself. During the term of the loan
itself the same way that we say with
respect to ribbis that sometimes it's so
far removed from the loan that we say
that for sure it doesn't relate to the
loan and therefore the payment the late
payment by the borrower is going to be
permissible. Sometimes we'll say even
with respect to little favors that a
borrower may do to a lender over the
course of the loan that it's
sufficiently removed from the loan that
it's clear that it's not being given
because of the loan is being given
because they had a pre-existing
relationship because these were favors
that were rendered in the past and so
forth. We have that certainly
the base with respect to being that we
say that even is prohibited is something
that nobody pretends is going to be a
problem after the loan has been paid
off. After the loan has been paid off,
no problem of ribbis anymore of saying
shalom or anything of that sort. That's
all going to there's all going to be
permissible from the standpoint of
ribbis. But even to the extent that we
don't allow ribbisum during the during
the course of the loan, it's very clear
that this is only when it was not the
common practice of the borrower to say
shalom to the lender prior to the loan.
If it was the practice of the borrower
to say to do other things that would
constitute
ribbar just words of and things that
don't really have a monetary value,
opening up a door for the uh lender
beforehand and things that people
wouldn't pay for but that we would put
in the category of ribb. Uh so that
that's going to be permissible even
during the course of the loan. So
the
discusses and then discusses these
other that there are similarly other
items that might be more drastic than
ribbar and there might be things that
have a objectively a monetary value. I
have a shovel that I sometimes loan out
but I could rent out my shovel. So has a
monetary value if I give my shovel to
somebody. If the borrower was in the
habit of giving his shovel on a regular
basis to the lender before the lender
extended his loan. So he's allowed to
continue to loan out his shovel to the
lender after the loan has been extended
prior to the time of payment of
repayments of the loan. and some of the
gradations and some of the exceptions
and some of the discussions that relate
to to ribbis muharis of what's going to
be permissible in ribbis muharis context
what's going to be forbidden in ribbism
context are transposed by the by by the
meshim as also being applicable in this
type of situation as well which is why I
feel that these two in yanim go together
and I wanted to discuss them uh in
tandem with in tandem with each other uh
there then finally Finally, what I
wanted to touch upon is the comparison
which the post can make between these
cases of ribbis of certain things are
going to be prohibited even after the
payment of the loan and certain things
will be permitted to the question
of is not something which is so
explicitly discussed in the sources.
There's one gimm and a question about
how you interpret the
gimra is also derived by certain posts
including the
vagonia regarding ribbis that the same
way that we say ribbis it could be a
problem even after a loan is repaid. So
it could be a problem you give a dian a
gift even after the dian has adjudicated
the case and has decided the case. It's
a little bit more complicated because a
loan ends when it's repaid. As we know
from the bezdon, sometimes it's hard to
tell when a case actually ends. There's
a it could be, you know, maybe 20 years
later, you can it's clear that a case is
over, but you'd be surprised how many
cases come back because there's some
sort of an addendum, there's a footnote,
there's a new problem that that arose
afterwards. So, that also creates an
additional layer of complication when
dealing with the situation. It's not
always so clearly.
uh you know I sat on a case where it was
a divorce case and uh we decided the
case it was a zablo so this is well over
20 years ago I think it was a zaba case
because they couldn't agree upon a bezen
so I sat together with um Rabbi parrot
Steinberg uh was was a
secondh was the third dian it was a
zabla zabla case and hashem we were able
to decide all the issues that were
presented to us they only presented the
financial issues to us and the get
issues. So we took care of the get we
took care of the financial issues but
the parties between themselves we didn't
endorse it but they decided they're
going to go to court with respect to the
child issues because uh bezdon process
all the vagaries of bezda and who knows
how long it's going to shle out let's go
to court then 3 years later it's still
shleing out in court the child issues we
had to decide all the monetary issues in
3 months but then all the issues
relating to the children were shleing
out in court and there was some
discussion that they wanted to come back
to the bezdon maybe for the bezen to
decide by the child related issues
because it was just draining all of
their resources and it wasn't being
resolved in court and in the midst of
all of this I get in the mail the person
who selected me it was the wife who had
selected me as the dian I sat as a bow
rare for for her side so to speak I do
this I normally wouldn't sit on a zablo
but to for an auna case to see to what
the woman receive yet so I agreed to sit
on on the case and suddenly I get this
beautiful package a couple of like a day
before perm in the mail I open it up
it's this beautiful
who sent to him. So this person she
said, "What's going on over here in my
house?" She said, "Oh, this is just to
show my appreciation for everything that
you've done for me. Not necessarily a
decision, just you always be there. Be
you've always been there for me and so
forth." I said, "Number one, that's a
problem according to, but number two, it
looks like the case might still be
continuing afterwards." Uh, so I uh so
so I picked up the Mishlo Manos,
repackaged it, and sent it back to her
in the mail. But even though I sent back
the mish manos, nonetheless, we know
from all the cases of the in the towards
the end of little favors, you just have
a bird go, you know, the shua bird offer
the dian's head or something like that,
help the the dian across the rickety
bridge. So the so even if the um even if
the dian or or you had the sharecropper
who wanted to bring his payos better
case to the dian and the dian said, "Why
are you bringing it early?" Or because I
have a case in front of you. So he said
well that I'm not going to be able to
sit on the case even though he turned
down the peros. So now I turned down the
mishlo but nonetheless I still might
have a feeling of closeness towards this
individual. So I called up the other
data immediately on the case and I said
listen this is what happened. The person
gave me these monos. I sent back the
mish manos but uh I don't think I can
sit in this case anymore. So I said if
it comes uh that this is going to reach
the next stage. So I'm I'm disqualifying
myself from sitting on the case. But
lisa it never happened. and they never
came back anyways was was it was okay
but that becomes you know much more
complicated so we'll talk about that as
well
um so what are the different gradations
so first of all we'll start I have the
source sheet so we'll go through the
source sheet try to do this we have
the has brings down what really was a
locus between the and the with respect
to that the way it's codified in the in
the base it's a
mishna says there such a thing ribb is
misus right some money is paid before
the loan is is even given the borrower
sends it as an inducement right for the
lender to loan him some money but it's
not conditional so that's why it's
called ribbis mcdis if it would be
conditional that would be ribbut even if
it's not conditional that's considered
to be ribb such a thing as ribbis mus is
also such a thing as
ribbism borrower borrow the money return
the money to the
lender but now he sends him a little bit
extra a little bit extra and he
says because I put your money out of
commission this is why I'm giving you
extra this is says the rash the case is
very clear I'm only worried if the
borrower opens up his mouth the borrow
should teach the borrower just don't
talk so much right so if the borrower
opens up his mouth and he says this is
why I'm giving to you it's a problem if
he doesn't open his mouth it's not going
to be a problem that's the simple
understanding that's of of the case.
That's what the rash says. When the ram
codifies this case, the ram says, "No,
no, it's always a problem." The Ram
doesn't specifically say that the
borrower has to open up his mouth. It's
just a stamp case that the ribbis is
given very shortly after the loan. It's
understood that he's giving it because
of the loan and therefore it's going to
be prohibited. Never mind the fact that
the has this confusing
ruling where he seems to indicate that
you could be make if a person has in
mind that they're going to give a maton
even at the time of repayment. Time of
repayment.
writes and everyone loves to quote him
about this but it's very you know in the
in in the literature like the most
problematic time most problematic time
is not before the loan after the loan
during the terminal loan most
problematic time is the time of
repayment you're going to give a little
bit extra the time of repayment there so
that for sure is going to be the biggest
possible problem who's the make on that
it's based on the
but seems to be a make on that even in
the case of says Okay, maybe it's a case
of you're throwing in a little bit of
extra about whether you're paying or
throwing in a little bit of extra money,
but certainly
that's we don't really accept this
particular of the seems to hold it even
at the time of repayment itself. A
person makes it very clear that they're
just uh kind of throwing in some extra
money into the bone that wouldn't be
noticed. It's just like they're they're
they're including it so that the lender
will only discover afterwards that
there's some extra money. So that's also
that's also a problem. Some say no it's
only a problem when he counts originally
the t says he counts up the money and he
says now I'm counting up some additional
money. That's that that's going to be a
problem. But the case with the raisel
about is where I as I said it's all just
sort of swallowed up into the only then
is it going to the others say no it's
not true that the ra is not really
permitting it.
says it's only that it doesn't have to
be returned. But of course, it's but of
course it's so whatever you do with
Raom, you could say that the Ram is
talking about a case where it's just um
completely um disguised in the um in the
payment and so clearly that it's only
being done from a ton of purposes going
to be make or the RA is only make it's
not really only you don't have to return
the money or we're only talking about a
mecha case. Never in mind the fact that
the ra seems to explicitly be talking
about case. There are ways out of that.
But it seems very very clear that
leaving aside the ra for a moment
certainly adding extra at the time of
actual repayment that that's going to be
the biggest the biggest possible
problem. But what this says is that if
it's after the time of repayment, so
then the Rama says that for sure if it's
not 100% clear that it's for the sake of
mat, the ra is mir in this case and the
ra is m in this case even if the person
doesn't specify.
is like
the very clearly seems to bask like just
says that if the payment is
made that's this is considered to be and
it has the status of we said a
lighter lower form of a ribbus that
doesn't even have to be be returned but
according to the as long as it's pretty
clear from the context that it was being
given because of the money of the lender
that was being put out of commission. So
that's going to be the says only in a
case of pure. So that's that's that's
what we have so far. Now then the
next in the um oh there's one other
important thing that the Ramas says. So
the Ramas says that either when the the
borrower pays back the money he
specifies he's paying it because of the
loan. That's going to be a problem.
Fine. Then he adds something else. And
this is where we have our bridge so to
speak between this and the things that
we're going to allow during the course
of the loan where it
says or it's a very very large gift very
large gift like there was a loan that
was made from the lender to the
borrower. He loaned him a million
dollars. The borrower the borrower
repaid the million dollars and then a
day later the lender looks out his front
window and he looks and what do you
know? Lo and behold, there's a new
Rolls-Royce which is waiting for him
outside. So, where' the Rolls-Royce come
from? The borrow he gave the
Rolls-Royce. They didn't say, "I'm
giving you the Rolls-Royce for this
particular reason." But why else would
the borrower have given the Rolls-Royce?
It's obvious. It's not like he gave him
maybe a box of chocolates. We we we can
explain for other reasons, but if it's a
Rolls-Royce, it's a matuba. So, then
says
to meaning that it's quite clear what
the intention is. So this idea that it's
quite clear um when you have a matanuba
that gives us a little bit of a bridge
with respect to where we draw the line
when it comes to things that we allow to
be given during the course of the loan.
When we say certain things a borrower
might do during the course of the loan
it's not really related to loan it's
related to their relationship. Well,
that might work if it's a small little
thing, but if it's a very very large
thing of something which is very
publicly um pronounced what we call so
some of the post say that this is in the
same category of what we call the
matuba. So take a look at the next in
the we have two things that has to be
careful not to do to even if they have a
relationship prior to the loan you know
they had a relationship prior to the do
loan. One is that even if there was
something that the lov would have done
to the Malv for the Malv prior to the
loan being made he would have allowed
the Malv to live in his courtyard. He
would have allowed him to do that
because he said they have they're good
friends and the lov the mala sometimes
goes down to Orlando needs a place to
stay. Lov says I have a place in Orlando
you can play stay in my place or no no
no no no problem. So even if this was
done before the loan, nonetheless, if
the malves says he's going to he takes
advantage of the goodwill of the Lov so
that while in the past the Mauve would
have asked permission of the Lov but now
that he extended the loan so the Malva
feels that he's in charge m right he's
he has some extra leverage in this case
so he takes advantage of that leverage
by just going straight to the place in
Orlando he knows where to get the key
whatever and he and he doesn't even ask
of the borrower for for permission. So
that is not allowed. That's not allowed
because now he's taking advantage of
that relationship. This idea of taking
advantage of the relationship is only
while there's a relationship points out
this particular exception that there are
things that that the borrower would have
done for the lender
but that we're not going to allow the
lender to take advantage of when it's
shalom. That's only during the course of
the loan because clearly the lender is
taking advantage of the current lender
borrower relationship. If that's
miser situation, we don't find anywhere
in any of the literature any comment
saying that the lender wouldn't be
allowed to take advantage of the fact
that the borrower always allowed him to
do something in the past and and even do
it without asking the borrower if it's
if it's after the loan was paid off.
Kokus M points that out that would be
okay because that's only something which
is a function of the relationship the
lender borrower relationship which only
exists during the course of the loan. So
that's one rule shalom. This is both of
these rules that appear in Zim come from
a toos based on the
sugal in the gimarus. That's rule number
one. Um rule number two is um that if
it's something which is done with the
das with a full knowledge of the
borrower and it's something that the
lender would have received from the
borrower even prior to the borrower
making the loan. So then that would be
okay. That would be okay. uh that's
maybe in the same category as what we
would call matan muetes right uh that
the borrower is giving something to the
lender you know after loan is over
doesn't appear to be related to the loan
this would be okay even during the
course of the loan however here we have
another
exception as long as it's not something
which is publicly pronounced as long as
it's not my case where the lender is
going into the courtyard he's going into
the house he's going to the the the the
Orlando winter and summer home of the of
the borrower so Even if the borrower
gave permission, that's a dish for to
leave in the live in the person's
courtyard is
a and even if this is this it's like a
home. It's a home that the borrower lets
people go in without their having to pay
money for it and the lender has is the
law of he doesn't need this for himself.
Nonetheless, it's still going to be if
it's a shell for and those are the exact
the example given like to live in
his or to utilize the EVIT of the
borrower you could justify this under
normal circumstances. Well, the
borrowers away and the the Eban's not
doing any work and this way he's going
to keep the Eban in good shape to make
sure that the EB remembers that he's
supposed to be working uh and that he'll
remain on his toes. So normally the
Garra says that might be something that
would be acceptable but no it's not
acceptable under these circumstances
when it's in the context of taking
advantage of the of the relationship
with professia people will see that it's
very public they'll know that a loan was
extended from the lender to the borrower
and they'll think that this is a special
favor the borrower is allowing the
person to use the courtyard of their
house the the evid because of because of
the loan this all stems from gimar to go
into all the details of the gimmar you
know the garra the gimar based on the
mishna and sama
um that talks
about that the person extends alone.
He's not allowed to live in his
courtyard for for free. And the Garra
says this isn't only in a situation
where a courtyard is generally rented
out of even if it's a situation where
the courtyard is not normally rented
out, it's still going to be
prohibited because of the fact that the
borrower owes money to the lender. So it
looks like ribbons. So Tossus asked a
very funny question, very funny question
when you think about it because it's a
kasha that wouldn't necessarily occur to
all of us to ask to because I might
think that there's a special rule in the
Torah that there's a certain hashkafa
that the Torah imposes upon us that okay
maybe yesterday you were friends but but
but but but today the borrower needs one
friend needs money from the other
friend. So now going forward until that
loan is repaid they're not considered
friends anymore. They're considered to
be lender and borrowing. All the rules
change. All the rules change and they
have to be very very circumspect with
each other. Kind of like you know what I
would think should be the case in a dian
situation right I'm a dian for somebody
the case my wife knows she invites
people you know to the house and so
she'll give me the guest list these are
the people I want to invite for shabas
and I'll say okay this person hold off
inviting them you know because when
you're in the middle of some sort of a
case before the bezen so that that
friendship has to be you know tempered a
little bit. So it says to what are you
talking about? This isn't a court case.
This is a friendship. What do friends
do? Friends friends loan each other
money. So they shouldn't be friends
anymore. Says what? Because the now
they're good friends. They're always
doing nice things for each other. Now
the lender loans some money for the
borrower. So the borrower is not allowed
to open up a door for the lender. The
borrower is not allowed to to to to to
loan his shovel to the lender that he
always loaned to the shovel to the
lender in the past. He's not allowed to
allow him to use his horse that he
always allowed him to use in in the
past. How can such a thing
be? You're going to prohibit number one
the special favors that the borrower did
to the lender. Okay, you might have an
argument for that, but even that I don't
understand, says Tossos. But you're
going to go so far that even things that
the borrower would have done for other
people, even that the lender is not
going to be able to
enjoy like the courtyard. The borrower
wouldn't have charged anybody to to to
hang out in his
courtyard. You're going to tell me this
is gives two separate reasons. You could
say the two reasons each one has a each
one is standing independently. One
explanation is that the courtyard case
is a worseman's case is the worst case
because it's ornament's case is the
worst case because it's so I could have
picked and choose I could have said okay
I'll choose this I'll choose the
other you know that would be okay and if
it would be a shalom case and it wasn't
for that would be okay so we said no
we're going to go the in both directions
that's in both directions if either I
have a situation which is like living in
the courtyard Or I have a shalomi dao
where the lender takes something that
normally he would have taken he would
the borrower always rent always loaned
out his shovel to the lender. He always
loaned out his lawn mower to the the
lender. No problem. And now the lender
goes one day and he needs a lawn mower
and he sees that the lawn mower is just
sitting in the borrower's front yard and
he figures okay I'll take the lawn
mower. I'm not going to ask him. Um but
normally he asks him but it's in the
middle of the loan the middle of the
loan term. So then we're not going to
we're not going to allow that. And
that's we ask like like like both of
these. Okay. So we have both of these.
Now bear all of that in mind. As I said
the is one that only applies during the
course of the but not in a ribb
situation.
However that could be a different story.
So look at
the
ink has
the I'm sorry
in it's going on in the this is very
important because it tends to be
confusing. You know you look at the
shock which sift is he going on the shak
is talking about the sif in the that's
going on ribbis and he talks about why
is it that a matuba is going to be user
in the case of a ribb so the shak now
draws the comparison between the two
look very carefully the
says it could be that even if was
something that was that was regularly
given by the borrows and lend He was
always giving Rolls-Royces to I don't
know it was interesting relationship the
bar was always giving Rolls-Royces to to
to lend her nonetheless that's still
going to be prohibited
why something which is so big and so
fantastic and so glamorous that's akin
to a mil so just same way that we don't
allow milia in the midst of the course
of the loan something which rises to
this level of milia so in people's minds
they're going it's a marion thing in
people's minds they're going to
associate that with a ribbis payment the
leader. So therefore that's the reason
why it's going to be prohibited. Um and
then he mentions um one other thing that
becomes sort of a a third variable. So
we mentioned that we have a maklous
between the raim and the rush in the
case of ribbism. The ram says that as
long as it is clear that it relates to
the loan this extra payment is going to
be user and the rush says it's only when
it is specified. Right? Okay. So, let's
say that it's not clear that it relates
to to the loan. It's not clear that it
relates to the loan. Uh and um it might
be like well after the loan term is
completed. Maybe it's 10 months later.
It's 2 years later. It's not clear. Even
though according to the it should be
perfectly fine. But person has in mind
the lo has in mind. I'm giving this out
of appreciation for the the food alone.
I'm not going to open up my mouth. I'm
not going to open my mouth. I'm not
going to say anything. But I know this
is my kabona. My kavana is that I'm
giving this extra amount better of
appreciation for the fact that I put
this fellow's money out of commission
for a period of time. That's why I'm
giving the money says the shock that's
also going to be our and the shock says
that within both opinions the shock is
saying that even within the opinion of
the Rama the Raos Paskkin like the Rash
who says that it's only a problem he
says this is just as bad as Kishap means
that even the even the lender is not
allowed to accept it because the lender
knows that that the borrower has in mind
that he's doing it for the loan but from
the borrower's perspective it's going to
be user for the borrower whether he
opens up his mount or whether he only
has it reside inside of his heart.
That's still going to be a problem. And
that's what's that's what the shock
says. A very very interesting thing
disagrees because the shock quotes the
balotumos. He says I this is what the
balotum says that's nice. This is what
the balotum says. Valotumos is only
saying this within within the Ramom
because there's a mlocus within the
Ramom that it could be that according to
one one interpretation of the Ramom the
Ram holds that it's only user when the
Lova has actual cabana and according to
the according to the other day in the
Ramom it could be user even if there
wasn't even if there wasn't cabana and
the Batumos is talking about that um
that type of situation he says that if
the person was rogill that if they
normally gave gifts beforehand we would
otherwise be make so then if he has if
he wasn't if he doesn't have but all
this is all is only within the so he
says but according to the rush says and
according to the the Torah that the
poskins like them so it's only when the
borrower opens up his mouth and he says
I'm giving it because of the loan so
therefore means that we don't care
what's inside of his heart we'll
say we'll
say whatever he has in his
So who knows what what lurks you know in
the hearts of man that that is
irrelevant in terms of the is of and
therefore that would be 100%
permissible. So this is a very important
namina because if you had like a
matanuetis for example that was given a
couple of years after loan was over. So
according to the sha
um if you say muetes that it would still
be user if the person has kabana even
though he doesn't open up his mouth he
still has kabana that he's uh has that
he has in mind that he's going to give
it that for the purpose of that the
borrower is giving this this amount this
gift because of because of the loan
according to rabbi it would seem that
that would not be that would not be a
problem okay
what it's Not entirely clear. It's not
entirely clear that it would not be the
that that that he would be make in a
case which is not s who is in a case
which is not s if it's very even in a
case of niskav. So that seems to be the
bas yoseseph. The bas yoseph seems to be
malleable in that case because the bas
says that if it's something which is
very far away in time um then even a
matanuba is going to be is going to be
mut like even if the borrower gives a
rolls at some point in time which is
let's say two years later to the lender
that's going to be
permissible.
Matanuba. So it sounds like if it's a
matanuba, it would seem like that's
equivalent to a case of misab and the
bas would agree. Everybody says that if
it's pish, even if it's much later in
time, pish is still going to be a
promise. It would seem that bas would
draw a distinction between
pishabin if I'm dealing with a matano
which is muog that's being given at a
much later point in time. It seems to be
that way. The basio is a proof text.
What's the proof text of the basio? The
proof text of the bas is this weird case
and
the vase where it's talking about you
know normally the lov is supposed to
write up like the contract of
indebtedness and then give it over to um
and give it over to the lender and it
says has to do with a a an item that
belonged to a woman and the husband's
writing to get on this item. Did she
know to be machna the item to the
husband or not? So he's bringing a proof
text from the situation of an old man an
old man in some hick town somewhere and
he was the one who was always making I
mean in some sort of a you know country
bumpkin little place I don't know and
he's the one who's always making city
loans for everybody in this you know
city area or whatever this is the
village city area so he's so this old
man um it says would have he would write
the documents himself because they
didn't know how to write documents and
they would sign the documents so the
question is that it doesn't seem like
this is a case either where they it was
coming from them. It was coming from
him. It was his document. Said no, he
was an old man. So he was a man of the
world. So he knew to be mocking the
document to them. That's that's a sugar.
So Tossas has accasha. He says, "No,
we're talking about a loan document, a
loan document. He would have a sheep on
them anyway. Strictly speaking. So it
would only be aashi if I'm talking about
like a sale document. They would be
selling peels. So but the Gar doesn't
talk about selling peels or gifting
peels or anything like that. So Tossas
makes it up. So Tossa says that you have
to infer from the gimmar the fact that
he's making these loans to these
individuals in this um in this it's
called an ear. It sounds like it's an
ear with people who are not that
knowledgeable but he's writing these um
the these these loan documents. So it
must be that there are also sale
documents that are coming from them to
him. Why is that? Because he's
constantly making he was constantly
making loan documents to them. They must
have loved this guy. They must have
loved this guy and they must have had
such incredible appreciation for this
guy that it must be says to he makes up
the whole story that it must be that uh
they were gifting their fields to him
after a period of time like oh every
everybody loved this guy he was their
big you know mascot whenever they would
have their big village parades he'd be
like the grand marshall everybody loved
this guy so they would give their fields
to him or they would sell their fields
maybe at a discount to him and
presumably it would be done the same way
that he would write everything and they
would and uh and they would sign it. So
that's the kasha because here the
document really has to come from them.
So how could it come from them if he's
the one who's writing the document? So
that's must be what the Gmorra is
talking about. But Tulsus doesn't seem
to have a problem with this concept that
because of the fact that he was making
these loans for them that they were
gifting their fields to this fellow. But
why is that? So says the bas clearly
because even though a field a field is
very much a matanuba you give a whole
field to somebody it's a matanuba even
though it's a matanuba nonetheless it
was something which was mugg it was a
much later much later in time so it
sounds in the b y that even mscav in
that particular situation would be okay
so comes along the um the shukar shaw
says that there really two different
approaches over here he says that one is
the approach he quotes from the shock.
He doesn't say the shock's name
says says that if a person regularly
gave gifts in the past so then it would
be okay as long as he doesn't have in
mind this is talking about context that
he's going to do it because of the then
he says there are those who are
mater right there so that would be the
opinion that argues with the shock who
argues with the shock ties argues with
the shock those who argue
Okay. So he says that that there is an
opinion that says that even if he is as
long as he's not it is okay. Then go
down a number of lines
says that if I'm talking about a case so
then that's always going to
be also because of this idea that
But if it is going to be at a much later
point in
time, then it doesn't appear
like even if
it's like the case of the
right and he throws in he throws in
what's implicit in the bas you see. So
he does our work for us. So the bas so
the shakar throws in what's implicit in
the boss. says, "Even if he's misguided,
even if he's misguiding, but but but but
all of this is only a long long footnote
to the second line of this excerpt from
the shukar and which is the follows the
first line which is the right um so then
he says so therefore he
says that would be as
even if it's a very very far in time
lift
According to this opinion, but according
to the first opinion, which is what?
Which is the opinion of
the you should be makmir like the first
opinion namely that of a shock. So the
way he's understanding the first opinion
is that the first opinion you would be
machmir even with if I'm dealing with mu
even if I'm talking about mule is har
I'm talking about a much later point in
time for a matuba I would still have to
be makmir in a case of niskav according
to the shock now how in the world you
know should we pasin there are the
various you know people who have written
on this issue so I found you know some
articles written by various decom about
how to what we should do the ma so moh's
Zilberg in an article in Orio said that
h you know we're talking here ribbes
it's mule and it's a very far away in
time. So he thinks that there is a rumor
to be make um like the um shitos that
say that if you're not misgav that even
if you are misgaving if you're not
mfares so then he thinks that you can be
um he thinks that you could be mal um
especially in the case of especially in
the case of mulog um so I don't know
that everybody would necessarily hold
that way but it's not entirely clear
it's not entirely clear I just wanted to
point out according to any time in which
you have a situation of it's always
going to it's always going to be
problematic Um then he goes on to say
that even according to
the you should only be um you should
only be make in a situation of a
matanuis if it's right um and um and
where it's known the person who's giving
it knows that he would have given this
amount even if not for the even if not
for the um I'm
sorry that the even though I'm sorry
this is the first if you sold the held
like the second spar so then even the
even if it's niskavin uh then it
wouldn't necessarily be be a problem but
it's not something which is broadcast to
the whole world that it's related to the
loan however if it's something which is
going to be broadcast to the whole world
um that uh the everybody knows in other
words that will be obvious apparently
obvious to everybody that it wouldn't be
done without the hab so then he says
that's considered to be a matan ruba why
am I quoting from this second this next
paragraph because this par next This
paragraph adds another dimension to
matanaruba that when we say matanuba is
the one sort of carve out in the in the
bib's case even if you hold that it's
not a problem as long as you're not
mfarish and even if you hold that it's
not a problem even if you're
miscav nonetheless he says that
matuba that suk is considered to be a
problem and anything which is a
situation where the world looking at
this gift would say there's no way in
the world that this gift would be given
If not for the fact of the hava will
qualify as a matan ruba. Matan ruba is
not a magical thing that has to be a
rolls. It could be anything where the
people looking on um would say that this
is obvious that it's only been given
because of the havah. So even if I
whether I return I compare Matan Ruba to
Farhesio or I compare it to this
situation it seems like it's not doesn't
have to be per se Fares to be a to be a
problem since remember that the we're
not talking necessarily in the Rivaris
case about people who are friendly with
each other who did these types of favors
for each other beforehand because Riv
Mukaris is Mut even if they didn't do
these favors before and so therefore
it's going to be a little bit of a
stricter standard in terms of this matan
ruba it's not going to be dka for hessa
thing. It's going to be anything where
it's sort of clear that from the context
that anybody would be able to figure out
that it was based upon the loan. And
then he has his famous his famous
paragraph about Bashas Pon everything is
off limits the time of repayment called
Loab. I don't care if it's merchandise
or money. I don't care if it's I don't
care even if it's
no I don't care if the person is
everything is going to be 100%
prohibited. We know who disagrees with
this particular statement of the none
other than the but himself is sort of a
question mark as to how far you you
apply or disagree or agree with the
we'll get to that in a second.
Now, I just wanted to read to you
says and then he gives you all of the
scenarios and then go to the next
page. So here he also see Mr. Paskkin
like the shock. He says explicitly he is
like the shakers well the niskavin is
going to be but he draws the following
distinction which we hinted at before
something that the didn't do he said
what's the um significance of niskavin
the significance of niskavin is that
from the perspective of the malv if the
lov doesn't say anything and it's not
clearly related to the loans so the
malva can assume that the lo is not
doing anything hankypanky he's not doing
anything wrong so then it would only be
an isa for the lov but not for the mala
if he's ncab but he doesn't say anything
and we're talking about like a matan
muetes after the loan that's not clearly
related to
loan. He doesn't have to assume that is
he doesn't have to ask the question why
are you giving me this box of
chocolates. This would be sort of the
classical matanamu at this right. I made
a loan to somebody. The person returned
a loan. Now a week later, a bouquet of
flowers arrives at my house before
shopping. A box of chocolates. That's
not a matan ruba. Not a matuba. I mean,
it depends how expensive the flowers
are. It's like a $6 bouquet of flowers.
It's necessarily not a matuba. So I
don't have to ask him the question. I
could just say, okay, this is perfectly
fine, right?
However, if the loan knows then it'll
be and he says as well even if it's so
this idea that the Bose seem to have
introduced that if it's mugg so then
everything is fine even if there's he
says no no no no if there's kabana if
there's I mean the base didn't say
kabana it's implicit from the base
there's kavana so just the same way the
says the problem says the problem so we
have a number of say kabana is very
important over here the law knows that
this is why he's giving the extra map so
the law might not be problem for the to
take it. He doesn't have to assume the
worst. But but it's a problem for the to
give
it the doesn't have to assume the worst.
He'd be allowed to take it even if
you're
matan as long as the bar keeps his mouth
shut. Be sure that so then it would be
so then it would be permissible. So this
is the way that you can potentially you
know reconcile these different opinions.
Now how do you define this category of
mule that you say oh if it's mule so
then even if it's a matan maruba so the
ma can assume are the best so what if
the lender and the borrower they didn't
have any shyus with each other other
than the loan and then suddenly this
Rolls-Royce that shows up from the
borrower years from the borrower a year
later so what else what else is the
lender supposed to attribute this to
other than the loan right so shy says
that maybe you can this is razam he says
He said that you you can define mugg in
one of two different
ways. Some say one month is mugg. Some
say a year is mugg. Some say a couple of
days is mugg. It doesn't really appear
to be a very clear shar. I mean it's
hard to imagine a couple of days is mlo
but it doesn't appear to be a very clear
shear with respect to mug. Certainly
I've seen one month with respect to
says have they moved on to another stage
of their relationship. In other words,
the loan has been paid and now they're
moving on to something else. They have a
business deal with each other. They have
they're they're planning a trip with
each other. They're going to a ball game
with each other. They having a kusa with
each other. They've moved on to the next
stage of their relationship. So at
whatever point they move on to the next
stage of their relationship says this is
very misab I think he says that is when
it's mugg because then you can easily
attribute the gift to something else
that's mugg he says that is one
definition of mlug right um oh
ml or it's a really really really a long
time away now that raises a question
let's say it's a really really a long
time but they didn't have anything else
to do with each other so then what is
the lender supposed to think like how is
the lender mameus that it's not
something related to the loan when
suddenly it's okay. So the he made a $1
million loan to the borrower. He got his
money back. They didn't have any
conversation any deals with each other.
Now it's 20 years later and suddenly a
Rolls-Royce so shows up at his house if
I'm the borrower. Why is that going to
why is that going to be okay? So um hold
that thought. I think I might have a I
think I might have a suggestion. Um so
the Mak has this interesting idea. Makim
says if it's crystal clear 100% clear
that something is being given because it
is a gift. So then he says that that for
sure is right. That explains the
difficult Ramom where the Ramom says
that if the person just inconspicuously
throws in some extra coins into the
purse that he's handing over to lender
when he pays back the loan and it's more
than to toe and it's more than a person
would normally make a make a mistake. So
it's clear that it was so seems to
indicate that that's okay and as we said
that's very very problematic and we as I
said we probably don't bask in that way.
So I mean we don't bask in that way
really but nonetheless that's you know
sort of one of the points of it's one of
the points of data. So it says at the
machim that I believe that there is the
following he talks about the situation
of the osen the osen where the bas said
that this is a matanuba and the bas have
to give a terce well matanuba if it's a
long time away so that's going to be
okay so he says I don't think it's a
cash at all because we would be talking
in that case when when the people gifted
their fields to this old man you know
what they said they said old man we want
to give you a gift and those are the
magic ical words in the same way that
according to the rush a person saying I
am paying you this money because of your
money that I put out of commission when
you loaned it to me that that is the
kiss of death so too a person who's pish
a matana that's the kiss of life you say
matana that makes everything mut no
problem it's good matana matana great
matana nothing to do as a with ribbis
this is a matana yeah sure I'm giving
you a matana because I'm so happy that
you gave me money that I was able to
borrow but I'm giving this to you as a
matana
says that solves all problems. That's
what he says.
which is why people are not so thrilled
with it can't be it can't be if a person
has that they're giving something as
interest and they just throw in the
magical word mat that everything is
going to be but that's what the says
because this way he's able to explain
he's able to explain away all kinds
of then he says is like
the except that we say not that's that
it's money per se and also it can only
be up
And nobody's real has a dinner nowadays
is what's added by the delay post. But
why is that? Because he says so it's
quite clear that they're giving mat even
if they don't open up their mouths even
if they don't say that it's matana when
it's like crystal clear. So he says that
would be that would be perfectly that
would be perfectly fine as well.
Furthermore this is the explanation of
the what happens in the he doesn't
really spell it out so much. the case
above you have aimera is on his deathbed
and he says I want you to give this
amount to my creditor my creditor I owe
money to my creditor but I want you to
give him like he really deserves he
wants if he saysovo so you just pay up
the amount that he owes but if he sayso
like he deserves so that means that the
person is saying that this was such a
wonderful fantastic fellow I want to
give him a gift I want to give him a
gift and in fact what's the hook
that if the individual on his deathbed
said like the gimar says. So then you
pay back the loan plus you give this
fellow ko. You give him like this 200
whatever the amount is that the person
said I I want you to give this extra
amount could be double what the amount
of loan was but I want you to give this
amount because clearly he wanted to give
it to to him as as a gift otherwise why
should this be mut you're paying back
the person's debt plus you're throwing
on this gift to the creditor that should
be ribbous right? No, but the fact that
he said coro so shows that he had in
mind that that would be that would be a
matana. And of course this also explains
the ram of the person who th who folds
in a little bit of extra money for the
individual that he that he owes money to
um that that he include he sweetens the
deal so to speak. Um so why is that
permissible? Because it's clear that
under the circumstances that it is meant
to be that it's meant to be a matona,
right? Um so this is a this is a very a
very very interesting uh very
interesting question. Um so it it sounds
a little bit um like the case in Baba
Basra certainly seems to very strongly
support and but this position but there
is there is there is there is another
way of understanding the GM and Babas
and this opens up a totally new portal
and this is something I don't know if
you've seen this but you find this theme
um in a number of the different postkim
um that talk about this issue certainly
the brispas that by wind was considered
to be one of of the foremost authorities
in Hosis nowadays and you find this in a
number of other places as
well which is the question of what if
there's a relationship that is created
between the borrower and the lender that
didn't pre-exist prior to the loan but
the loan creates a relationship. The
loan itself creates a relationship. Yes,
it creates a borrow lender relationship
but it also creates a smoozing
relationship. you didn't smoo with this
person before because you didn't need
the borrower didn't need to ask for
funds. Now that the borrower asks for
funds, so they're on speaking terms, you
know, you can have the person's like
your biggest enemy, but if you had
something in common with them at one
point in time, it creates a bond. You
ever like meet somebody up, you know
that you went to yeshiva with, you went
to elementary school, you spent 10 years
with them, you were the you you were the
worst enemies with each other, now you
meet up 20 years from each other. Ah, my
old good friend, you know, remember the
good times we had together. You didn't
have any good times together. You hated
each other. But the thing is that there
was a relationship because of the fact
that you had some interaction with each
other. It creates a relationship. So so
too there's a relationship that's
created between this lender and
borrower. It's the strangest thing as a
result of this loan. It actually creates
a relationship. So the rasha has like a
slightly different formulation and you
could say that it's a very
docistic formulation but it may be a
question of is the person giving extra
because of the loan or they're giving
extra because they have an appreciation
for this very fine benevolent fellow who
extended the loan and according and it
could be that if they're giving
something extra not because of the loan
but because they just want to show
appreciation to this really really good
guy um that they now have become close
to as a result of the loan. So it could
be that's okay. Could be that's okay. So
and that's a better according to
the even if the person is giving the
extra money
to as something that relates to the loan
itself but they're giving it mat. So
that's okay. But that may not be true.
It could be that what we can derive from
the case of Baba Basra is that if the
person is giving some extra money not
because of the per se but because of the
appreciation for the so maybe that's a
different story. Look at the raspa in
the on
the says this is going the says if the
individual then you just give the amount
of loan said so then you give the loan
plus you give this extra gift about so
second
line we don't say he's giving it because
of the ribb and therefore it should be
prohibited based
on he's saying because this person he
uplifted my spirits he uplifted my
spirit said this is somebody who had the
individual in question had a profoundly
good positive effect upon me and that's
why I want to show my appreciation this
could give us a different insight into
why it would be okay according to the
case of the zakod that the people
especially if it's a mu and the way to
presents it is that they just love this
guy they love this guy this guy always
took care of them maybe he took care of
them in other ways as well but he always
took care care of them. So because of
the fact that he always took care of
them. So that's why he's that they they
want to give their their feels to him.
It's not as a repayment of the loan.
It's not that they're giving extra
because of the most sets. It's because
they want to show great appreciation for
this guy. It's a funny thing because
when brings this case of the he says,
"Oh, so we assume that if
the said it must mean I want to give
him, you know, good. I want to give him
a special gift because he was so good to
me and Mama he also like he must have
done other good things for me as well.
I'm going to read from some
other Oh, so the says take a look at the
brisk.
Okay. So he talks about a couple of
scenarios. One scenario is where you
have in the middle of the where the
lender and the barber will become
friendly with each
other for reasons other than like they
become relatives, they become
neighbors. So then the lo is allowed to
give to the males things that that he
would give to any neighbor or to any
relative even though he didn't give it
to them before. So this we understand
it's not related to the lot it's related
to the fact that their neighbors are
their relatives. However, look at
this. Then he says or if they became
friendly because they got to know each
other by virtue of discussing the loan.
I mean, he spells out that it could be
that they would have become friendly
even if the loan hadn't been extended
just because the borrower asked for the
loan and then they smooed a little bit.
Oh, why do you want the loan? What's
going on with you with your family? What
do you need it for? And even if he
wouldn't have extended the money, so
maybe they would have developed the
relationship anyway. So, the fact that
he that he extends the loan um does not
to does does not to take away from the
fact that now there is a genuine
friendship that has been um established.
The dogma like for example
If the
borrower generally would allow only his
close circle of friends to utilize his
cell phone, obviously we're talking
about a flip phone over
here. So then it would be permissible to
give that to the mal as well. Even
though their relationship only came
about due to the due to the that's what
he says. Okay.
Even though it's only because of now
that he became acquainted that he became
acquainted with him, nonetheless that
would be that would be considered to be
to be good enough. Um so this is
something which is also um uh which is
also stated by the uh by Ramosa Zilberg
who says that it would also be
permissible to give a matanuetes to
somebody who you became friendly with
only as a result of the hob. It's really
a fascinating thing
says let's say they didn't know each
other before the val day. This is an
article in the or you saw as I
mentioned and they only became close
with each other because of
the he says that this would be
considered to be like a gift that's not
related to the
loan any a small matana would be
permissible even prior he's not talking
about even prior to the loan being paid
back unbelievable unbelievable but you
find this in a number of different
writers a number of different thinkers
that they say that this could be
potentially permissible. I saw it in an
article in the Ruain journal by Rab the
Liel williger where he also talks about
Mishlo Manos giving Mishlo Manos during
the term of a loan where he makes at
least the suggestion. He says that not
necessarily everybody would agree that
even if they only became friendly with
each other because of the loan but
nonetheless the mish mon is not being
given based on loan but based on the
friendship that they have with each
other that this should also be
considered to be potentially permissible
um because of the fact that uh that's
not that now they're actually they have
a relationship with each other they have
a relationship with each other it's um
uh I don't know exactly how far you're
going to take this per Okay. But I found
this to be a very revealing sort of idea
and it could explain as I said the
babbas on some level and it could
explain also the story regarding the
person who is the um the but if so then
we can really understand very well the
of
both that if in fact when the lov is
extending this bismanog at some later
point in time they really aren't
escabing because of the loan. So maybe
that would be problematic. But as I
mentioned, otherwise uh if there is no
nuscave and it's not purish and the
lender himself just sees this
Rolls-Royce roll into his driveway 20
years later. So maybe after 20 years,
it's not you could say it's not because
of the loan anymore. It's because like
uh whatever relationship we establish at
this point in time, obviously the
borrower still has warm feelings towards
me. Uh and he doesn't have to be a do me
a you know at this point in time. must
be because you know he feels that I was
a good guy and maybe that would be some
type of a justification. I'm not sure
according to the rit not sure according
to the maybe according to you could say
that if if there well were a couple of
other things as well that they had in
terms of interactions. So if he has the
ability to attribute it to at least one
other type of tova that maybe was done
by the um by the lender to um to to the
borrower outside of a loan context. So
then certainly there would be room to be
made. Mi even according to even
according to that opinion the um uh go
back to source to source test so says uh
that what is considered to be paria and
this is something which the mahashal
talks about marshall talks about a case
of somebody who's a borrower and they
buy an aliyah for an individual in the
basset they buy an aliyah for an
individual in the basset so is that
considered to be fario
so this is talking about a sh you know
this is before the day of steeples I
guess everybody's gathered together in
the sh and now the borrower is buying
the aliyah for the for the lender and um
it's during the course of the loan so if
he had done it beforehand I would have
said well maybe that should be
permissible but not because we say if
it's a it doesn't matter if he did it
beforehand it's still going to be it's
still going to be problematic so he
quotes that he says if it would
be so that's going to be a problem but
there is a potential exception this is
an exception that the Marshall writes
that that is accepted by pretty much all
the post which is that even if our
situation if
it's if everybody knows that the
borrower always did things for on behalf
of the lender before the loan was
extended. So then even is going to be
okay. In other words, that the case that
Tossus talks about that paresio living
in the courtyard would be prohibited is
only when not everybody knows. Could be
that some people know, could be a lot of
people know but not everybody
but that everybody knows. So then he
says that is going to be perfectly
perfectly okay. Um and then he takes it
a step further. says once we're going to
say it's going to be perfectly okay for
even the other case of shalomidas is
also going to be permissible if it is
known that the and the hear it doesn't
have to be everybody knows because it's
not perhia it just has to be I know that
two two parties know in the shalomidas
case if it's if it if it's no if they if
if it before the loan was extended the
borrower would allow the lender to live
in his courtyard or forget the courtyard
case that's for you but to to to borrow
his rake um or his shovel or his lawn
mower um even without asking the even
without asking um the
um for for for permission of the
borrower but it's something that the
borrower would automatically do um even
if it was shalomidas even without his
knowledge he would always allow the
lender to take advantage of his lawn
mower and so forth. So then he says by
the same logic by the same by the
extension of the same logic we should
also say that that would also be
permissible. In other words, that these
are not absolute categories. It depends
upon context. If I did have a sit or
let's say I had a situation where the
whole world um would take something from
the borrower without permission like a
tissue box in the base medish. Everybody
takes from a person's tissue box without
permission, right? I think so. Um
because that's what tissue boxes are
for. Um so presumably since the whole
world would take beforehand, so the
lender doesn't have to teach it to treat
himself any more stringently in that um
in that particular in that particular
situation. Okay. Fine. Um so the
um um once you he he notes oh there's
one other important thing that he picks
up from the
shar when he talks about the favors that
are done prior to the that are done
prior to the repayment of the loan. So
we said that those things are going to
be permissible if I have number one it
was done beforehand. Number two it's not
shalomidas unless it was always done
before shalom das number three it's not
beforeia unless the whole world knows
that professia was done beforehand as
well as we just said but he adds the
condition of the shak the condition of
the shak that the shak mention with
respect
to so he mentions in this context as
well if you take a look at the bottom of
page four of course
here too he throws in this
consideration. So sums up basically what
are the four conditions that would be
necessary and he says that we should be
more mahmir because the rules as we know
of a bak certainly more machm during the
term of the loan than after loan has
already been paid up. So here the kabani
issue should be taken more seriously um
because here the the loan hasn't even
paid been paid up yet said you really
need four in order to allow the ma to
take a tova from the lo during the
course of the loan. Number
one number
two unless you know this extreme
exception applies. And number
four shalis it has to also be shalis.
Okay fine. So we have all of these
different conditions that are more of
the conditions with respect to before
the before the loan has been repaid. Now
shalom has a tremendous that you can
feel free to disagree with. So when he's
talking about basically this um
um this you know so to speak
that he says certainly all bets are off
even if it was wrong that the person
generally gives him and so forth but he
says it seems to
me getting back to the he says we don't
reject the entire it's just that
normally we have to be suspicious of
whether something's being given as a But
let's say at the time of repayment, it's
very clear that it's a gift. And this
also may help us understand the suga in
Baba Basu because Baba Basu what's
happening? The fellow is disposing of
all of his assets and the creditor is
going to get two things. He's going to
get this gift and he's also going to get
his loan. It sounds like he's getting
them both at the same time, doesn't it?
Right? So he says if it's very clear
that it's
a mitzvah like for example the shows up
to the bar of the because now they
become good friends as we mentioned
right
oh and he says this is a great
opportunity for me to repay my loan and
also to give a wedding gift or mitzvah
gift right
maybe says I think that would be mut you
wouldn't believe me if I didn't read
this insights okay um maybe the ritual
says otherwise But he says he says this
is going to
be even if he actually repays the at
that point in
time but he has to know that he is not
intending to give this as ribbis but
just as a mat and as we said it could be
that under these circumstances maybe
because their relationship has developed
that he's even getting invited to the
barit the wedding of the m that he
really intends it as a wedding gift and
not something he but he says he has to
be careful example that he's not going
to give us a larger gift than what he
would have given him if not for the so I
don't know that's a little bit
complicated I suppose um so he says that
um however if it's if it's after the
payment has been made so then he says
that maybe even if it's a larger gift it
would be okay as long as it's not in the
category of matuba if you're not going
to be makme like the shak in the case of
niskav so he has this incredible uh
incredible um in such a um in such a
case but it's uh it's mistav in terms of
explaining at least that other suga that
might be an explanation as to why that
would be that would be okay when it's
clear that the additional amount that's
being given is being given um maton okay
um now the um question then arises
nowadays what's this business of faresio
what's paresio who knows that a lender
loan money to a borrower it could be in
the olden days everyone knew the affairs
of what was going on inside of the
community and it was known this is the
lender this is the borrower and so forth
but in our communities you don't know is
the lender is a borrower so you really
have this issue the borrower is going to
buy an aliyah for the lender is it
really going to be a problem is anybody
even going to know about it altogether
he's going to live he's going to go to
his summer home in Orlando or whatever
his winter home in Orlando and the the
borrower is going to be sitting does
anybody know the lender has extended him
any money so it
says take a look at the bottom of your
test this is
in nobody knows
as is often the case
nowadays. He does not he does not have
sign or
anything. He just gives him a private
document. Maybe he he put something down
in the mortgage land records, but nobody
really takes a look at
that loss. It's not advertised in the
newspapers. You don't have a magazine.
Army magazine doesn't say, "Oh, the
following lender just extended a $1
million
loan. Few prohibited these cases as
well." So he
says if the is only known to very few
people and whoever knows about the knows
that they have a very close
relationship and they know that whatever
favors the borrower is doing he would
have done in the
past. So he says in such a case this
would be 100% permissible because this
is like it's yall in the sense that it's
ydul who need to know because anybody
who knows about the law knows about the
relationship. So that's what he says but
there are two other approaches. What is
the brisk that's of when he says
no if the ribbus that's been given the
this this being acquired for somebody is
being done in
public. So then you have to be worried
that that eventually the people who are
there in show might find out about the
hava they might find out about the loan
that took place and once they find out
about the loan that takes place they oh
but this borrower who took this loan he
bought this aliyah for this person in sh
allowed him to live in his winter home
in Orlando so then we have to be worried
that it's going to become a problem
afterwards says that we're worried he in
his article he says
You don't know who knows about the the
loan. It could be that when the loan was
being made like maybe it was being made
in a conference room somewhere, somebody
was like, you know, walking by the
conference room and that person, you
know, happens to diamond in Schola. They
have a brother-in-law is going to dab it
in when the alias is purchased a couple
of weeks or a couple of months later or
whatever. She asked if I ask you this.
You don't know who knows about the loan.
So therefore, he says you have to be
worried that there are people who know
about the loan. The Brisbin says you
have to be worried that people are going
to find out about the loan. when they
find out about the loan, they're going
to put two and two together. So, I think
that that
particular of the shalom I think is is a
stretch strike. It strikes me strikes me
as a stretch. Now, what about if the
person actually bought the aliyah? What
does the mal do? There's the somebody
wrote an article about a borrower who
bought the Torah. He bought the Torah.
This is an article by Rom Levinger also
from so he says I guess that's what I
quoted. So, he this is what happened. So
the borrower bought an aliyah and now
what's going to happen if the person
refuses to accept the aliyah it might
look like he's a pagan let's say he's a
coin you know so it might look like you
know something wrong with his kun or his
levia or his Jewishness if he doesn't
get up and you know and and take the
aliyah so what does he do under those
circumstances so basically everybody all
said they all say the same
thing also has a about this I
think they all say that under those
circumstances you just the lender just
has to make sure not to benefit
monetarily from what the borrower is
doing and to pay whatever would be the
value of the aliyah for himself talks
about this he have to pay the full
amount let's say that the borrower spent
$250 for but from the lender's
perspective he wouldn't have paid a
nickel more than $50 so how much does he
have to pay so he thinks that he would
only have to pay $50 in that situation
and um it's not clear from the others
who talk about this whether they agree
that you could get away with paying that
amount or whether you would have to pay
the full amount I'm sorry what feel to
it was an auction and if that was the
winning bid then he could not have got
away with a lower bid. Um yeah but it
could be at this but it doesn't matter.
This person himself wouldn't have bid
more money. Um and the the Levinger
makes a very good argument. He says that
for certain things that that lova would
do to a ma he's not allowed to do it but
it's not the ma's fault that the lova
did it like ribbar the lova stops in the
street and say sham alaikum shamikum how
you doing? He wouldn't have said shalom
before ender. So does the lova have the
right to then insist okay I said
shamikum you got to pay me $2. It's
worth $2. Let's say it's a $100 loan. So
he says shalom 50 times and he won't
have to repay the loan. So he says it
can't be uh that you have to pay money
for this for a ribbon drama situation.
If it's something that doesn't have a
monetary value the lender. So then it
doesn't make sense you would make him
pay for it. So he's stuck in a situation
of course he has to accept the aliyah
because otherwise it's not going to look
good. Maybe it'll bring like a
tremendous embarrassment. It's going to
be a hoba. So he can take the aliyah but
he doesn't have to pay more than it's
worth to him. Whatever is the difference
between what it's worth to him and the
amount that the borrower would paid is
basically ribbis. So is it to him it's
not worth this amount. So therefore he
says that this is the total amount that
he would have to pay under those under
those circumstances and that seems to be
the um the shy's uh loon
iso I'm not sure sounds like maybe
whatever the person paid the says he has
this in one in his he says that these
things
um what this would have been worth to
this individual
um what he would have paid somebody else
in order to receive this kib. So he says
very much along um along the same lines
I think that's um I think that's
basically mist I think it's mist even
though the bach had quoted ra said that
when a person is moxikto this is the
quoted by the at the end of
simmon the person is moxikto so then you
should be moxiktove in return that's
what the raio said that the borrower
says to lender oh sham so the lender
just gives it right back to him oh
shamaikum to you so now he doesn't owe
him anything because he's basically paid
him back in the same shamikum So he says
that or sounds a little bit like the box
saying you got to pay back. The way the
remark codifies the hawk is not at all
like the ravio just says that being
moxik tove is okay if it's a type of
thing that the two parties would have
always been moxytove towards each other
anyway like you have the situation the
double door situation double door
situation I have a lender and a borrower
they're walking through double doors
okay so the borrower opens up the first
door of the lender and then lender goes
to the second door and opens it up for
the borrower so there is a classic
example of the rabbi gets prepaid right
away no problem whatsoever but even if
you didn't have that particular scenario
the way the da codifies the is that
yeah, anything that they basically would
do for each other anyway would be
perfectly fine for them for them to do.
But what I'm sorry you can buy an
I don't know. I don't know that it's a
possibility. Maybe it's a possibility. I
don't know. So Leger says that um if you
look at the Bach the Bach doesn't say
that you always have to pay money when
he quotes the Rabia. He quotes saying
that perish the the box says perish when
he's quoting when he's explaining the
rava when he's doing he's doing like a
tangible deed the borrower does a
tangible deed for the lender so then the
lender should say I'll do the same for
you like he says I'm going to talk to
the president because I have a
connection that's something he's a
broker that's like a broker to make a
connection that's something that would
be worth money so he brings a from this
that even the ra is only talking about
paying back something that's worth money
to you if it's not worth money to you.
So then you don't have an obligation,
you wouldn't have an oblig obligation to
do so. Um it's um uh it's interesting
that the Mosha Feinstein has a chuba in
which his father it turned out that a
person's father-in-law had borrowed 25
rubles from Mosha's father and now
Ramosha discovers that this check was
given over by the son of this individual
um to Ramosha Feinstein for the amount
of $100. And it was because the nifter
namely this person's father-in-law um
had commanded him had been bin Mab
before he died like a case he said to
his son-in-law I want you to give to
Mosha Feinstein um the um the $100 for
this for this debt of 25 rubles that I
had borrowed from from Feinstein's
father in fun um many many years ago. So
Emo Feinstein sort of ponders. He writes
to this fellow, "Thank you very much for
the check, but I'm not 100% sure what to
do with it because you know there's a
potential ribbus problem over here
because it seems according to what your
father had said that my father had
loaned your
father-in-law 25 rubles and you're
paying back $100." Right? So this is a
big, you know, so he has a whole over
here, right? You
know, you know, 25 rubles, 25 rubles. So
he has this, you know, sort of situation
scenario. what in the world am I
supposed to do? So he said well he said
I think there are a few reasons I can be
malle ultimately rahosha was not so
comfortable being mal but he said I have
a few spurs to be malle number one to be
mal is that it could be uh that that the
was already um uh that if he was if he
really was a he would have paid it back
you know many many years ago so if he
didn't pay it back then it must have
been that it was really a matana that my
father gave and even if at the time my
father said it was a hab but probably is
a good chance that he been that money
was never paid then it was probably
forgiven in which case it didn't have to
be returned in which case this is
clearly a matana. So again relying like
the if it's clearly a montana so then
there's room to be to be makeo
particularly when we're talking about
something where he says that there was
either never no loan to begin with or
there was a forgiveness of the loan.
Number two, he says that it's perfectly
possible that the value of 25 rubles is
now at least $100 because the 25 rubel
note was apparently um no longer extent
uh at the time in which this loan was
repaid from Russia or whatever. Um and
therefore he says that you would have to
I guess based on dina dea translate the
25 rubles into 25 rubles worth of gold.
That's what he says. Um, and this would
certainly um have to would have to be
paid in whatever was its value in gold
and whatever was it value in gold would
certainly be worth $100. I don't know if
there's maybe a deemed of consideration.
Number three says that the father-in-law
of this individual was a and of course
he knows that ribbus would be prohibited
and therefore he's giving it as a matana
and we have
the are allowed to give matas to each
other and certainly whatever he would
describe to call himself this was you
know something that was supposed to be
paid back to his father so certainly and
would also qualify obviously so we have
here a repayment of towards each other
but he
says could only pay up to 20% more
accord away is code in chok but you have
the other as far as to maybe it wasn't
maybe it's not worth the more than the
25 rubles anyway and also maybe it's not
really a loan but then he says that I
still want you to examine in your head
because the father-in-law wasn't alive
anymore what exactly did your
father-in-law say did he say that it was
a really a really exactly then why um
did he not pay the money back um and
certainly um he would not want to pay
extra money that would be ribbous. Or is
he saying that he borrowed the money a
long time ago, right? Um but he's not
saying that he still owes the money and
maybe the amount that he's giving right
now is
only is because of a friendship and a
love that he had for my father. Meaning
if you look at it sounds very much along
the lines of what we're talking
about like the whole
discussion and
the he's not saying that he owes the
money anymore. The money was presumably
paid up already but now he just wants to
pay this extra money because of the
friendship that he has towards my
father. But then he even adds the words
bish and seems to indicate that's
legitimate. Right? Look at the words.
Look at the words. Okay? I challenge you
whatever you know you're welcome to
interpret it in some other fashion. But
that seems to be that seems to be what
is saying. Okay. It seems to be okay
just I'm just
saying because this is not considered to
be a ribbus. That wouldn't be considered
to be ribbous. So you know I'm just
throwing it in the mix. Okay. Fine. So
that's all I have to say about the
question of the of the ribbis of the
matana of the of the matan muetes during
the course of the loan that's not
related to the ribbus itself the
tremendous stringency of the shaspiron
and the regarding ribb ribbis muer now
um in terms of adian in terms of a dian
you have to realize there's a very
different dynamic at play because what
are we worried about in the case of
ribbis I'm worried about ribbis I'm only
worried about I don't have a problem
with friendship. I'm happy for the
lender and borrower to be friendly with
each
other. This is what we want. This mashia
is wonderful. We love that. Okay. We
want everybody to be friendly. That's
not a problem. What we want to avoid is
only ribb that it shouldn't be a ribbus
payment. That's was to be sometimes if
it's matan as long as it's not haram,
right? Um that's why if they had a
pre-existing friendship so then know we
could be no mal even if they only became
friends now as a result of circumstances
of the loan we see that there certainly
are there certainly are with respect to
that situation as well and I would
submit that there may even be a basis
for that in the various suggest but
ribbis is a different but but is a
different story is what it makes the
dian like one with the one who gives him
the money it's not because the money is
being given to pervert justice we know
that because that's
You're not allowed to lobb you're not
allowed to pervert justice the person
the problem as we all know is even when
the balding gives the money to the dian
says I want you to judge the case
correctly I want you to judge the case
fairly and correctly even if I lose no
problem but the dian already is tilted
he's going to be um he's going to be
slanted in favor of that individual
says whenever I have a court case the
dian is automatically going to be
slanted by virtue of the fact that he
accepts money even if he intends to
conduct himself with integrity if it
will be an isra situation. I discover
after Pesak that I inherited right
before Pesak $5 million worth of beer.
Okay. Um and I didn't know to sell it
and now I have to make a decision. Oh,
do I rely on that everything was
included in the sales? I don't know. And
then I passed myself. I he said yes. I
decided this 100% motor even though I'm
so no gay dumber. The kas says no. This
person is a dying of integrity. Even
though it's even though he stands to
gain a lot of money, it's not a court
case. That would be perfectly
permissible. the
Torah
that the is going to distort a person's
justice. That's a totally different. So
here we have the story of the
right killed somebody. It
seems you decide the case. And then
there were two aid that that Bama
brought to um to Passel um to the um
Tasel, one of the witnesses that he had
committed the um he had committed the
murder and the um and Rabi and Rapuppy
um argued basically like he proved that
the like Rabi mayor that if they were
possibly imominous they're also possibly
and as a result that puppy was able to
demonstrate that lock is like Rabbi
Mayor. So these aid with the pass one of
the Aiden who testified against Bahama
and Bakama was not punished as a result
and puppy got him off the hook and once
puppy got him off the hook was so happy
and so
ecstatic that he kissed him on his
feet and said and I'm going to pay all
your taxes okay for all the years I'm
going to pay all your taxes okay that's
what it
says that he was as a token of
appreciation was going to pay all of his
taxes that he owed to the king for the
rest of his life. A very very good deal.
So the question is but wait a second
what about shood? So the rush says yeah
there would have been shun over here.
there would have been shenan over here.
But he says that the um that in this
particular case because of the fact that
he says that this was something where he
that a puppy wouldn't have had to pay
the tax anyway was not doing him any
favors. You know, it was not doing him
any f
favors. Whatever. I mean he he's he was
an Indian giver kind of um gesture. So
because of the fact that a puppy wasn't
really getting anything of substance
because he didn't owe ow the taxes
anyway therefore it wouldn't be like so
we see otherwise that this would be and
of course this led to the comment the
famous comment of the right um the
quoted by the
hilos says that even though a puppy
himself was not the actual dian we see
that anybody who's in this um important
uh position of author ority right that
he's malatib even though that he would
um be that even those who are malibor
despite the fact that they're da not in
Torah I think he wasn't talking about a
puppy specific position he was assuming
a puppy went together with the um with
the other dian who was on who was on the
case but it wasn't like a real capital
case it was such like a class case like
a kas case so he said that we see from
here that even people who are not like
strictly real real life they're just
community leaders but they have to make
a determination um nonetheless they
would be subject to laws of sh that's
one explanation the gives a different
explanation the says that the reason why
this was okay was not because puppy
didn't get something of value but he
holds that since a puppy himself was not
an actual dian he was just somebody who
was arguing in favor of bakama he was an
onlooker who was offering hisma he was a
he was maybe a a towing right? You know,
he was a to ra maybe not hired as such a
per se, but he just kind of like
intervened based on maybe they figured
I'm going to help out this. So um miss
since he wasn't a dian that's the reason
it would be okay but otherwise it would
not be okay someone would interpret the
saying that oh we see he was only
concerned about so he holds it really
wouldn't be a
problem that's one interpretation of the
well but it doesn't really matter at the
end of the day because the like
the even though this made his um
commitment after the case had already
been
decided and the then gives him a mat
because of the fact that that he helped
him out. He ruled in his
favor. Sounds like it's
what sounds like. Okay, fine. We just
say we say but sounds like an incend but
nonetheless it's says the yeah because
it's like what it's like. So here we
have our match made in heaven between
ribbis and shud right says the same way
that when it comes to sh it relates even
if it's afterwards unless it's it
doesn't same thing is true with respect
to and what's said the pro text the
proof test it says is the
case and it's only because the time not
they had to pay mass anyways of the bim
Ayes talks about a Dian who helped her
to resolve an Auna situation. Then the
Auna is so appreciative because he was
able to figure out arguments as to why
the husbands really didn't. She can
remarry so she gave him money
afterwards. And the question is was he
allowed to keep the money. It's very
fascinating. He keep asking he can keep
the money. basically can keep the money
because he says you could argue it was
just and really she didn't need all of
his minations and it wasn't like a real
dorra in which she was pitted against
somebody else and she didn't really need
him because she could have just said on
her own mace Bali and we would have
believed her but I mean what does that
mean because she could have lied so
therefore that's why he gets to keep the
money I I didn't understand that
argument didn't understand that argument
but there is such a chuva in the um in
the beric on the other hand there's also
chuva by um
in the Torah in in the Torah to the um
which I think is a cha by right the so
he says the so he says as follows so he
says that I had a who wrote an argument
on behalf of one of the balin gave it
into the dian the dian was so impressed
by this argument that they ruled in
favor of the side that he was arguing
for and now the question is whether he
is allowed to receive money because he's
receiving his is he allowed to receive
the in such a case or is that considered
to be shar when he's paid afterwards so
do we say that he's not one of the or by
virtue of the fact that they wouldn't
have decided if not for his learned
opinion so therefore that would be
considered to be
like and apparently in this case it was
a case so I don't know what the do
actually this chuva of the because it
seems in this case they says what makes
it particularly problematic fact is that
it was stipulated beforehand by the
party that he wrote this opinion for
that the party would pay him money in
the event that he would end up winning
the
casear that there was actually a tan
that was made with the party that
enlisted this individual to write an
argument to submit to the in his favor
and he quotes from the suga of and maybe
whether he would win or lose but it
doesn't really matter for these purposes
and he quotes from the suga of Barama um
in in Sanhedrin and he says that it's
quite clear that a puppa was not a dian
in the matter he was just somebody that
was relied upon because of the fact that
he was such a distinguished scholar who
was able to give opinions that the dian
in the case of would rely upon and so he
says maybe so since this person wrote
the chuva is bringing all kinds of
arguments that the are relying
upon therefore he's considered like
and and therefore he's not allowed to
receive any payment because of even if
it would be paid after the
fact and certainly when it was
stipulated up front so what did the do
with this cha I'm asking what do they do
with this cha doesn't this sound like
you know like a major pagam on every
single situation of a rabini doesn't it
no no I'm just asking the question is
anybody have any way out of this here
out of maybe he's just the tone don't
think that the judge
necessarily based their time based on
they're just presenting information and
but they're writing up chu they're
writing up chu for the bat to rely upon
they're not doing like a lawyer in which
they're just presenting the lawyers in
front
of they're just presenting the facts of
the case and uh and giving sort of the
litany of the um of the circumstances
and the uh and everything that happened
so that so that the can properly apply
the to the facts of the case but here
and making whatever you know claims uh
that that they're asking for and and
whatever you know uh recovery they're
they're seeking but here the the dwanim
I know because I've sat on cases where
people have submitted briefs from dwanim
and so forth they're they're arguing
they're submitting haloc briefs that
they would to convince the datam of the
correctness of their position so I don't
know I don't know I don't know what to
do about this but I'm just you know
throwing it out there um this is one you
know clear application um in terms of
worrying about the the sky in this um in
this particular case um it says of Mosha
Feinstein if it's stipulated that
there's going to be a scabbata. So then
a scabbata is um uh would basically
would would basically be okay. However,
if the person is paying up money to a to
a dian because of the fact that the dian
ruled in his favor. So he says oselo the
cablo. So he says that is going to be be
problematic. um and uh if it was
stipulated up front um so that he's
going to give it to to the Diane and it
wouldn't be just that the parties agreed
that they're going to pay Scapatola to
the Dian. So then he says obviously that
would be an issa dissa even if it's paid
after the fact and that doesn't count as
an issa as we said with respect to
ribbis if it's stipulated up front
obviously that's also going to be an isa
an isa dissa um I think that um if you
take the does the money have to be
returned by the dian so the shok says
strictly speaking the money doesn't have
to be returned by the dian if it's not
if it's not requested but the shoken
says of course it has to be returned and
the adds
You're not allowed to tilt a case
because of love or hate of the parties.
It's certainly based on a very serious
matter. So the piscua brings a makus
between the dash and the beio as to
whether if a person had you given
services to a dian a doctor and he
provided free services to the dian
before the case. So does that disqualify
the dian or not? So he says that if the
person had charged for his services so
maybe it's amidas for the doctor to
recuse himself in the case if he has a
caratto towards the doctor but that
certainly wouldn't possible him but if
it was provided for free so then he says
if it was only provided the services
were provided for free when the patient
realized I mean when the doctor realized
that he had a case in front of the dian
so he said oh you know what I'm going to
give you free services and lo and behold
two weeks later he has a case in front
of the dian so that's a problem but if
he always had this relationship so then
that would be perfectly fine um That's
what he says. However, because he says
it's very
similar that if it was basically um
something that was done before the loan
and then it could be done even after the
loan as well. And the same thing would
be true for a Diana situation. But the
be
picp and he says he's not really so sure
that this would necessarily be the case
because I mean we speak about a dian the
paskins based on the lion of the a who
has to borrow caim from this individual
um
is ple is lun and he says that it could
be that this is true I mean even with I
mean it sounds like this is true even
with respect to a situation where the
dian was generally doing this beforehand
before the didn't came to um came to
pass. Why is that? Because of the fact
that the dian is going to have a
predisposition in favor of this
individual. It's not a question of
ribbus. RI is a question or are you
doing it because alone with the case of
a dian it's a question of anything
that's going to create a predisposition
of the dian to be slanted in favor of a
party is going to be problematic and
therefore these types of relationships
even if they were 100% legitimate
beforehand it doesn't matter it still
creates the possibility of a tilting in
uh in favor of the um of the individual
um and yes go ahead question I just I
mean you alluded to this earlier with
the shonus let's They uh they bring the
Rolls-Royce and D says, "Hey, thank you.
I'll give you the Rolls-Royce." But now
I recuse myself bring the Rolls-Royce
anyway. Is there any doing that? Oh, I
only gave you that you stay in the bed
and No, no, no, no, no. You can't take
it if a person's giving it under this
context. So, we see from the stories in
that it has to be the person both
recuses himself from the case and he's
not allowed to take it and he's not
allowed to take it either, right? Um but
uh but I think but he says at the
end there's no from the case of so I
wanted to say based really on the it's a
totally different consideration with
respect to the river scenarios. Now
sometimes there may be a small
relationship because Dian knows lots of
people in the neighborhood and so forth
and it's not like there has been like a
tremendous favor that was given to the
diet and they just you know they they
know the person around town they go to
their sharim and so forth. Maybe
they've, you know, said to may maybe
they've done nice things for each other.
They've invited each other to their
class and the things of their variety. I
don't think necessarily disqualifies the
diet, but it's at the very least a
disclosure issue. I say that there are
two different issues when it comes to a
diet. Some things are disqualification.
Certainly, if it's a doctor regularly
performs services for free for the diet,
so that's, you know, much more
problematic. Um, if it is that they
happen to be neighbors, you know, in the
neighborhood and everybody brings
mishloaf monos to the rabbi, I don't
think that, you know, if it's not like,
you know, fancy schmancy misho monos,
especially during the time of the dora
that was bought before, I don't think
that would necessarily be a
disqualification, but it's at the very
least a disclosure issue and then if the
other party is uncomfortable with it,
the d would have to step down. I mean,
it becomes sort of a general, you know,
issue with respect to data in general.
You have to really assess at one point
in time that the relationship is too
close. That's why very often what we'll
say when we know the parties in the say
we know the person they come to our shir
and so they ask us shilus but but but
we're not socially close to them because
if you're socially close then that
creates a um it creates a different
dynamic for one thing that's certainly
not a problem and this is true both in
the ribbas context and it's true in the
dionist context is if the dian does
favors for the individual if it it
doesn't go in the other direction that
you have a dian who said like he does to
people in the community the fact you've
done to the person doesn't disqualify
you from the dian being a dian the fact
that a lender does to a borrower is not
something which is user even during the
course of the loan. It's only in the
opposite direction unless you're dealing
with other issues but you know leaving
that aside. Um so that that generally
that generally will be um um will be
okay but nonetheless even though when I
have people in my home so you could say
I'm doing by having in my home but one
other but but but it also creates two
other things when you have somebody in
your home. When you have somebody in
your home number one you're giving them
access. Um and access is also very very
important in terms of a person could
just like slip in something that could
relate to a case um that they have that
a close relative has and you have to be
very careful. You want to avoid that.
And number two as we saw even from the
loan context that too much of a close if
it's a very close relationship that a
person comes regularly even though
you're doing the but it also creates a
friendship when you have like a very
close smoozing relationship and eating
together relationship. So that also can
become uh problematic um in terms of it
creating uh certain expectations of
doing favors and so forth. So that also
is something that could becomes much
more problematic in the Diana's context
than it does in the ribbons context
where it could actually um dispel the
possibility that what's being given is
based on ribbus. But in the dionist
context it could create a close ga which
could also create this joining of the
hearts which is particularly problematic
in the context of um adjudicating a
dintor. Okay. So that's basically
everything I wanted to say about this
subject for today and uh thank you all
for
okay was once asked to be a d on some
case for community in in London and they
sent him a beautiful uh portrait picture
something painting in advance of the
dtora. Oh my goodness. And he called him
up and said thank you so much I'm hustle
now. Yeah. Right.