Farbrengen With Rabbi Berel Krof

but the the wants and that that has to happen no matter what and that took him in every situation the point is like this the celebration of is not the of that's one of the things speak about those that were in Russia and came they lost it afterwards sometimes they you get caught up on the style of going sometimes you have it you speak a lot about someone goes on [Music] how hard it is for it's true true deserves admiration if he Tak does it properly it deserves admiration but a lot of times people get caught up on the and the idea of going far dealing with even that are far and there's no one around and it's so hard a person has to be ready it's a right thing and a good thing for a person to be ready if necessary if he looks out for it to even go so far to be even so far but there's a life behind it the life behind it is the that matters matters and that's the only thing that matters nothing else matters everything else is just here to help that be accomplished and therefore wherever I am whereever situation I'm in I go full force to bring that aish into my area the area around me to whever I have a reach I could reach have starting for myself there's something deeper the idea is it brings out it brings up the the the the truth of yourish that's beyond your circumstance and not only that it tells you what the circumstance is about the that made the world makes the world the one goal to bring the into the wom so whatever situation you're in that's what it's about so if there's a hardship who cares not who cares let me look for the way how to how to bring it in through that hardship because it's only there for me to break through bring when a person has that recognition that's relevant always it's p one for not a bunch of there one p he's higher he's m he's above the world he's living with the truth and that he sees everywhere and no matter which situation he comes and he sees how to apply it there so in Russia had to do it in one way right in PO he did it in a different way America did it in a different way without hesitation because the same truth is there and the situation is only there for me to accomplish it to bring you there and that's a celebration of was relevant all times we're celebrating the fact that we have we're in touch with the truth of the truth of our and that has the strength to withstand every single situation to be brought into every single situation and that's relevant now as then no difference and then we have the pride we have something so rich so precious that nothing else is worth anything compared to so nothing else could stand could stop and therefore we we celebrate the we have this that we could bring it into every situation no matter where be there's the pride which comes together with a responsibility brought before the that is the the ear the atmosphere around the person which has an effect in a person and a person has to work on changing that a how does he change it through the strength of says that it has to do with the a of America a lot of a person doesn't realize how much the a around them have an effect that whatever money matters whatever everyone else says matters mainly whatever whatever people around you say matters very much so that has an effect a subconscious effect of the person and a person could keep keep every single detail but nevertheless it seeps in whatever is around him seeps in but a person is not meant just to worry about that protect himself about that he's meant to bring out his as the strength of his that's so much deeper than that so much more true than that and then he could change the a around him since he has something so real something so true and he brings it out and he lives it then he is not following the people around and he's affecting them he's showing them something real he's showing them as and through that he's Noto from them and they also get affected by it so that's take this strength of the to celebrate the fact we celebrate the fact that we have afterwards we see how to apply that afterward we know we have this we have this that could withand could be applied to every single situation and then we have to see how to apply to actually change [Laughter] [Music] she [Music] me for you [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] the [Music] J [Music] l [Music] I'm come me [Music] me May [Music] might by [Music] [Applause] [Music] by the [Music] speaks about raises a person to a higher place than he was before the idea of is there's nothing true to it created the world the world is a true existence true meaning meaningful there's something to it now what you see have you have to look a bit deeper it's here in order to bring out the to serve the and that's our job to find to bring out in the world how how it serves how it brings the how brings the then there is something which disturbs a situation which disturbs serving the aish love the on one hand something real on the other hand something unreal describes it it's a real imagination in other words there something real is a real situation you have to deal with but there's nothing real to that situation there's no substance to it it's only there for you to overcome it and to bring is the idea that person when he's dealing with the world he has to look at the world and deal with the the the the nature of the place that he's in in order to to people the style of the people in order to bring the to them in a way that they could relate to but then there when there a situation that seems to be negating stopping someone or or people around them from connecting to the which you also have to deal with you have to know the people around you have to know the situation you can't be oblivious and you have to know how to bring into them the way the strength of to overcome these these sins but the there has to be that attitude that there's nothing real to them other than withstanding other than bringing the through them a person to himself when he feels something stopping him or when he feels around him when he feels around him there's an atmosphere situation which seems to be negating the values the life Ed people like to talk about situations they like to to to speak like toing out you know bad it is how big issue it is says means things that have no effect things that don't bring out any result you will speak about situations doesn't usually have a result but the main thing is the attitude a person has when he says there's an issue over here he's looking at the issue as something with real substance if something someone reminds made the world and makes the world constantly and he's running the world constantly so anything which doesn't fit with aish doesn't have anywhere to live from doesn't have anywhere anywhere to stand I see it I see so I have to deal with it because the created it they made a disturbance as a real imagination something with strength that you have to deal with but it doesn't have something real to it it's not something to take in consideration something to listen to something to change your values based on or even when talking with someone else to look at him as someone who who who represents something negating to yish or negating to to the ofish okay he's someone confused he's someone confused and it's not that I am the one who's not confused they to help me that I'm in touch with something real so I could share with him in a selfless way in a way that nothing to do with me I'm just trying to share with him something that we spoke before about the a says how do you how do you how do you fix a with and a have a connection you a if you want to change the atmosphere around you there has to be if a person lives that's what we said is not even the way a person withstands any something which disturbs his or others connection to the is not with the strength which is directed geared towards the to break through it rather a person strengthens what he does have a person strengthens the that he has a person strengthens the truth the truth that he lives with he reminds it himself he tries to live with it and he tries to Shear it to spread it talk people in that direction or even just his behavior if a person really lives with this in a real way which automatically will be in a selfless way it's not about him being better than anyone else it's that he's taking in he's taking in something alive something real if he walks around it spreads light if he talks with someone that spreads more light if he has a deeper conversation with him it can even spread even more light the point is he's spinning light around there something a lot light comes from source of light life light comes from the fact that there's something that's a there something which gives light is and you're in touch with it and you trying to be in touch with it you're trying to be in touch with as much as you can and with that the way you're addressing others is that there's nothing real to it it's only there for me to be able to break through it with the Earth and to break through with the Earth and therefore the way I do it is is is more being alive being in touch with the EMS that I have and chearing it more than the t of breaking through the bearing because it's like this that whenever a person deals with different first of all this is something which withstands every situation no matter what happens what's the situation around him nothing changes not to change there's nothing to to analyze the situation the people today and they to think that now we have to educate people in a different way with different with different values because they only something else talks to them before getting into any discussion if there's only one thing that's true which is the and one thing in me that's true which is my and only thing one thing which that's true said they're so the only thing I can deal with is I have to find the way how I could bring out in this situation right now but it's the oneish that I'm trying to bring out that that goes on the that's beyond success in beyond what says is considered something valuable that's the only truth that there is whenever I look at any situation that changes is how do I bring that same truth to the situation now but the same truth nothing else could change the message we live with the message we we tell others the message we our children nothing could change it because it's not changeable because it's a truth that's beyond any change and therefore it doesn't matter which situation and on the other hand we're not fighting those that say otherwise we're trying to live and spread the light of to everyone around us it's light it's shines it's something which which which is is and and and it's our real life and everyone's real life and it's not about us being better than anyone else it's about letting that light which shines in me Shin to someone else also and when you have that it doesn't change and and the situation cannot be a situation that really has something to it which could stop so then you don't you have that strength that P of P break through every situation but it's a p that's one p he's living with one thing with one em and Nothing Stops it and nothing stops IT and therefore and one he's not SPO from the people around him say but other hand he's not breaking through he's shining through the light could shine to everyone there's something real to say something real that we have to live with that we have to say and that breaks for every single situation [Music] from oh [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] yet yet from [Music] [Applause] [Music] just want to say there also tonight and there one thing celebrating the fact that we have that doesn't change came out as much as you know not the point but that's the fact and it came on is a very strong message says is more important than me me as in me I'm living my life is more important I'm ready to give up my life for that today when people try to sell this word of this they usually try to sell it that it's the best best thing for you which is true someone wants to be happy wants to feel fulfilled wants to have Security in life thinking about the learning it's the best thing it's true it's even brought down as something you're supposed to tell you never you have a selfish Soul we all have it it's looking for benefit in life you tell them come on don't run around don't look for nonsense the best thing you have to do for yourself open up think about the he's real he's Everlasting if you have any to him anything to do with him you you'll live life the best life possible be a happy be a happy person it's true it's true it's true for in other words in other words we're supposed to work with we're supposed to tell him that we're supposed to even live with that that's not where we're basing things on means that is more important than me I'm connected them my says I'm ready to go yeah that means that I really have something valuable because he's connected to the which is beyond me and there he's ready to give himself up for the abish and there that's something which is Everlasting if the abish is here to serve me the truth is sh happiness because if it's all about you getting something to give you make you happy then you're the source now let's be real we're here from a certain time weren't here before and is coming people are here for a while for a person to focus on himself and to look at as a good tool to build himself doesn't make sense logic a person to look around how he could achieve things in life and then and then and then succeed and that should be doesn't make sense logically who am I serving Who Am I who Am I who am I achieving something for it's not something that has any any substances any doesn't last if I'm doing something to is connected to is Everlasting this connection to the is Everlasting that's worth something and that will even translate in our body have because the will take us over and therefore we won't feel ourselves we won't pay attention to ourselves we able to last forever 100% but it's because we're ready to put him first to put him first and that's not a very popular thing today to put the before our own success and for that we have to actually say tell over the stories of M the stories of mish are relevant today not just because the message behind it is so strong that that's relevant today also that attitude that I'm here for the he's not here for me I me he's here for me as well that's his choice and I'm very thankful to him but that's not what it's all about it's not about the fact that he's here for me I'm here for him because I'm here for him because he's he's the real thing and I'm lucky to be connected to that's what brings out and that's something which a person could and should and has to have in mind because that's the basis of the basis of of any truth there a truth greater than you if it's a truth based on you it's not a truth so of course wants us to be happy wants us to be healthy wants us to succeed and we're thankful to him for that and it gives us good life in gash and we're thankful to him for that that's not why we're devoted that's not what is based on we' be ready even if it take her take take her life even if that that will be the case and brings that that's what the truth that's so strong that it brings the and we succeed in that also the was saved so that show that but it's and the that this is our life that is that it's helpful also the first disturbance for a person's success or for a person's happiness is the fact that he's busy with it he's looking to be happy he's not sure if he's happy he's get things that make him happy also he's looking to succeed in he's looking to join that talks to him in a way that talks to him whatever it is that actually talks to which is good also a person should look for things that talk to most but but a lot of times that's the emphasis that's like the the I'm looking for something which will talk to if a person has you said forget what talks to you he's real he's here you're connected to him move go do it's real regardless what you feel regardless how connected you feel to it it's real it's precious think what he wants from you and and and and be happy with it then he could be happy in a steady way also again if you're looking for that happiness is not going to work if you're looking because it's real on its own it's G to work the is here the has a mission you're part of it you're big part of it you're your essential part of it do it do things that lead that head that create that that that bring things that he wants to accomplish and in your mind be happy with that it means value that realize how precious and then he also wants you to feel it so we're on that SEC a secondary thing first of all behave in a way that and then after that look for ways I could talk to you it's important it's very important but that's secondary that's afterwards first the says is not about m i don't have to be the hero that you know give up my life I'm ready to let go of that I'm ready to let go of myself he's real I'm lucky to be in touch with him then he wants me to connect to that we bring it in every MIT is the idea the basis of the something so realted beyond my understanding Beyond anyone's understanding that's the truth of a mitah and then the brought it down into understanding because he wants you to relate to it he wants to live it he wants you to feel it work on that as well so you work on both Avenues number one what wants it matters because it matters forget about me then no don't forget about me wants to answer you as well bring it into you 100% but that's second that second that will be that will happen have to worry person's worried to let go of himself and because what's gonna be with me don't worry but don't worry you saw this that's not it's not the basis and doesn't make sense that it should be the basis there nothing real to if it's the basis if the basis is they should Beyond My Life that it's real and then I can appreciate it also whatever I'll tell my that it's the best thing the most enjoyable thing is because it's real because it's not dependent on me and I'm lucky to be connected to something which is not dependent on me that's what I'm happy [Music] here [Applause] [Music] that's [Applause] [Music] [Applause] oh [Music] oh [Applause] [Music] am [Music] [Applause] oh oh you [Music] the [Music] I [Applause] [Music] oh I [Music] points out about children that it's something which it didn't make sense that it should succeed didn't add up they'll be able to succeed to actually kids in it properly but he knew that it has to happen because have young goats you want have old goats in order to have even living properly the way it's supposed to be you have to train them from the young so it has to happen if it has to happen it's gonna happen so we're gon to make it happen so there's aish of it and has to happen I'll do it no matter what but there's also this conviction that it's going to work although it doesn't add up because if this has to happen from the aishes perspective if it's going to happen the is recognizing and he's in charge of everything he's running everything now he has a goal in mind and what he has in mind is going to happen in whatever situation is and therefore I don't look at what's probable what's practical from statistics from whatever I if this has to happen I make it happen you have to have truth in mind in order to do that in order to succeed but this the that it's real and if it's going to succeed whenever a situation comes it's a different style different type of behavior different atmosphere and therefore you think that you can't demand so much that's the ver of America is andish you can't demand for people in America because the trend is different mindset is different can't expect and the answer was no why no Judaism is real it's real it's it's applicable everywhere and real Judaism is applicable everywhere because real Judaism is real it's applicable everywhere everyone why go out and and to spread to places that it doesn't make sense that people there will want to listen and want to change their life because Judaism is real so it applies to every you it's not because of the and how much I could succeed and how much it's worth it to invest in that it's because it's real it's going to succeed that mindset brings a s it brings the that we have something we have something that everything else is before and therefore we're going to succeed how what when I don't know doesn't make sense to me but it's going to succeed for us to bring to ourselves our families our children the people around us authentic Judaism authentic matters MIT matters matters it's alive it's real it's livable but he wants the life that fits the him is something which I could live and I'm made for and I'm able to live with the PO it's not just I could do things that are just okay can't demand so much from people today is a there is something to deal with you can't just BL keep your eyes blind from that the question is how to bring that how as in for sure I could question just which exact way could I bring the same em that was there throughout the same exact no change and that brings a a person has the right attitude it bring it's here it's here I have it they have it also I just have to bring it to them says that our today is to be prepare ourselves some people around us be ready to so ready Masia means we're heading to a situation that reality will be living with a that will be what everyone feels what everyone cares about what Everyone likes that will be reality and what we're doing now is heading toward that not just doing the things that could be for that actually preparing ourselves to live with that we could live with it people around us could live with it and we have to start working that to have that mindset what's real what matters and that we could we could not just because it's a real thing because it's going to be reality in a very obvious way in a very tangible way and we're heading in that direction in other words we're heading to something which will in we will live the and therefore it's something that we could live and everyone around us could live I we look around and we're not just oblivious and we see people we see what they live with that's all a situation to deal with to bring that u ah it doesn't add up the question is where we start what's our what's our em is our EMS looking at the situation or is doesn't change and if the said we're heading so then the reality that we'll live daytoday life is and therefore we are able to and we're expected to and we're capable of living that life and bringing that to the others also so this the way we we look at the situation is how do we bring in this situation that truth because it's there because it's here because we have where exactly in other words it what he wants from us will be done with no doubt question just where to start says that time was sort of to bring in the G the fact that go doesn't matter wants matters until the Gus itself has to help you is giving a shine into the Gus idea of sh style Taste of will be but it gives a to live that to feel that to bring that into the others and to bring that to bring the is we celebrate the fact we have that whenever demands something whenever a demand something it's with the fact that there's a first is the that we have something and because of that there's a demand someoneand something demand and we see we're here we care we live we have it and then the question is how do we apply it we're able to apply there's no question because we have it we live it and if we're able to bring an every situation there our children to our people around us to live with the full truth in a live way in a happy way in a way that talks to them but in the real thing [Music] [Laughter] I yeah [Applause] la [Music] I am am my [Laughter] [Music] d [Music] says in part of is by ding by learning and a person forgets a lot of times seeing is a very hard thing are very holy things things that a person has to deal with whatever it is and whatever stand usually the Simon was when he want to know the people are ready for people on their phones some people have on phones also but if they didn't have on the phones on the phon very very important and sometimes this messages about very very important things it's very hard for person to have this it's very important things I need to accomplish but the comes first nonetheless and then from beginning of to the end of [Music] even whatever I need to accomplish I don't know where I don't know what comes first and I'll succeed whatever I need to succeed in in a much better way I'll talk to person doesn't realize how precious it is to D have em to them but they have a em to them it's very hidden people help each other people lie by default by default if someone's talking to you and smiling to you because he wants something that's by default you have the odd person who really means it it's very hard to find that odd person people are like letting go of thems of it you can find that person but that generally you talk to that person he's your best friend by default he lying is odd case or Not by default he's lying the doesn't talk to the he really cares about you're able to like just distract from anything else and just talk to the say the words of daving and just listen to them you're talking to someone who listens to you for once for once someone's listening to you what you saying matters and he's the only one that whatever you say really matters then say it listen to it forget about everyone else and anything else I need to save the world save the world soon the world belongs to the if you talk to him you'll save the world much better wait a second put everything aside sh shut your phone put it away for no no no no no no F shut your phone put it away yeah airplan yeah airplan just put it away and just Na and forget about everything whatever happens will happen the runs the world from now and then before and after I'm talking to him and for to live to live to live a person has to person D sincerely no matter how no matter what everyone according to his level doesn't matter how long it takes it matters how focused he is it matters how serious he takes it I'm ding that's the center of my day the center of my day is have then I translate that in learning because I know that really in learning is I don't see it I don't feel it it's real I believe in daving it tells me I have to learn learn right afterwards but during daving I'm talking to the it goes one day most days it doesn't but I'm still talking to him he still listens just the fact that a person may D and he shuts his phone and the so the socializing he leaves it before and after but during that he can hold himself in not because he doesn't care about his friend not because whatever there's something more important and during that something more important it's not they're not talking I'm busy def I'm listening to what I'm saying it's good to talk to the aish that's the best thing you could have in your day whatever you have in your day could be good could not be good I mean learning is this is good you're talking to the abish sometimes you understand you don't understand fine you still learn abish he talk to the he listens you dive into the most precious part of you day whatever matters in the rest of the day you're in touch with right now afterwards you have to matter you have to bring it into the rest of the day you have to learn you have to behave in the way the fits of you're in touch with him the rest of the day but when you're in touch with him in a in in a conscious Ways by that if a person develops an appreciation for that no matter how much I understand no matter how much I relate it I just appreciate what I'm doing right now this is the best thing in the world I could talk to the if I learn a bit more about ding I understand that a bit better could help but it's not based on how much I understood I felt I'm talking and I'm listening to what I'm talking I can understand it's much better but I'm listening that I'm talking to someone and he's listening to me it matters to him what what I say it matters to him that I recognize and I appreciate how great he is it matters to him that I appreciate how much he does for me and it matters to him that I ask from him something and it matters to him what I need the things I even matter to him and it matters to him like it matters to nobody else so you can utilize that time it's not a matter of like not it's a matter of yes I'm busy with DAV it's the best part of my day D someone just yesterday told me a story before his birthday he wrote a title whatever never answerd him and at the end he walked out he didn't know what to do he says and then there's no one to talk to spoke to people there's no one to talk you know to do try to H try to ha staing the walls [Music] he next year try so when you next year answer his questions it could it could help half I don't remember all the details that was in he saying he doesn't do anything he didn't have any guidance you TR any and that accomplishes a person tries D seriously he's taking the aish seriously once in his life once serious and that has an accomplishment that that affects the person'll do one less or anymore because they was serious in his life was real is just a concept of belief that I believe in that I I lecture and I and I I and I argue for him then then then whatever there a limmit but if they is real is alive he's active then I don't want to do something he doesn't want when a person sits down to DAV seriously then it accomplishes something it accomplishes the D is real in his life he succeeded to focus succeeded to understands exceeded to connect that's a bonus the more you can connect the better it's a bonus the fact that a person sits down and thinks himself talking to the take it seriously be done said from then on he lost his T DAV he can't he tries that it doesn't go doesn't have to long it doesn't go the time he lost it statistics show that if a person DAV a bit calmer a bit slower a bit more patient he usually spends 10 minutes extra in them Max just you know you wants expand more endless PR is not rushing he won't lose much you don't gain much from russan TimeWise you don't gain much from russan it's the feeling finished done with it right but it doesn't really add doesn't really you don't really gain and what you could gain again if daving is serious what are you getting from Russ and if it's not serious I shouldn't say that see D DAV Speedy should hold on to it 100% but logically doesn't make sense logic is if you're trying to connect to the just connect it it's good to talk to people in for after in Alexandria they just put people amongst their their people with their Trad so talk of it you know they would find out help each other it's not about not talking it's about I'm involved in D I'm ding when I finish I see people around me talk with them share with them something in the middle of I'm not talking I'm just busy I'm just busy that busyness in a positive way it's a shine it it it gives him life for the day sh give life for the week you keep people alive daving is alive serious it's paid attention to it gives a person life nothing else matters all someone's real and everyone else that have to please they're not real they're real because they're they're not real what they care about what they think about what they want is so insec significant because there something so much more real that I'm in touch with that it's worth it it's a good life to live a life that something so much more valuable matters is a good life it's worth it person to invest in this D everyone according to their POS capability makes no difference what they're capable love how much they understand how much they could focus the fact that they focus the fact they take it as something real something serious had a start have a best friend and he want to talk to me has a lot to share and I lot to accomplish you know someone's messaging me about something that has to be done right now and it's like is a real feels very real but it's a if you get over it you see a there something so much more real that's a lie that's real super [Music] [Applause] [Music] ah [Applause] [Music] B [Applause] [Music] it [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] to [Music] [Applause] Hal [Music] ah [Music] [Applause] I [Music] is the of the was brought out through the connection to the re it's brought [Music] out but that was brought out through the a has within himself that's voted to but a doesn't naturally feel that a naturally feels himself feels his own goals for a person to feel his and he has to be connected to the Reb he has to remind himself the Reb think about the Reb have the of the in front of the brings out in a live way what our really is is real is real only that matters and therefore matters for real it's something which the re lives the brings out in himself his life brings it out and we are able to to get that through our connection to the re we think to ourselves in every situation in life remind ourselves what he says about this what he would say about this but his approach us about something you do it for real we could live in any every situation properly the lives and therefore we're able to connect to that EMS in every situation we stop we do something we stop and think really have the says this is going the right path we we can make a mistake sometimes but if we stop and think about this frequently to ourselves not to others then we're able to see if our things are going in the right direction ourselves we can make mistakes our own goalss it gives a reminder that our connection to the has to be guided has to have the right direction the re lives that direction and we could connect to it we can remind this this particular the life watch a video of that has a very strong effect we could see what theb lives with how he says it how he cares about it how it matters to him in a very real way if we listen to as a we just listen to what he's saying that could enter us that could affect us that could make us get part of our life we have to stop every once in a while and ask ourselves if what we're doing we're heading [Music] when we ask ourselves that we we make that we could do every activity that we do with that life do a lot of good things question is what's what's the life within it person can do a lot of Mitzvah and it could be dead person still do MIT it could be dead because he's not living the he's not caring about him it's not alive by in order that it should be alive a person has to think about connected the Reb which lives and never could give that life to you then he has to live learn everyone according to their level doesn't matter gives that life to a person brings the to life 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the morning shabas morning for it doesn't matter same the same life same truth whatever you get whatever you understand whatever you don't get but you get something around it has the same truth it and it's good for us it's good for our [Music] families want in the morning to go out care of the kids yeah for you for your kids for everyone they should live with come out in the morning andn every time works for and encourage others to come alone but to learn that people will know it gives life to a person whoever then all all the vi were chasing their wife their husbands out of the house husband live tell us tell them you know you want us to be alive want us to be here got got to get out of the house shabas morning it's 9:00 sit down benefit everyone benefit you benefit the family benefit everyone and share it share in the that you learned shab table something you could share something you can take from it share it you learn in a way that you're trying to live with therefore you have what 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