Essence of Chasidus #32- Be Yourself in a Holy way and others will follow you - Airline story 2022

so we're on page uh in the mimer in the essay contest we are on page 83 thank you so the rebbe has explained to us taught us the various ways of looking at maidani based on shattered site and this mimer here right now he's going to teach us how we look at it from a perspective of of um and qasid right you remember that yeshida citizens of the four levels of shah rabbis university in maidani zebras are all connected one with the other [Applause] is the recognition that man comes to that the novelty the kiddush of ex nilo that something the world which is something created from god being nothing is not just from uh a manifestation of god rather from the from the highest level of hashem known as oxibolus essence of the infinite light of god which transcends all worlds the explanation that we brought earlier of the kabbalistic concept of maidani m [Applause] everything from the most celestial loftiest levels of of world and of of godliness are all created from nothing and not absolute nothing or not and being recreated i don't care how holy they are if not for hashem recreating them every moment there would be zero habear next let's continue page 85. now the explanation brought regarding the that we the the the maidani with the remnants within the hint level of terror if you would say that the world will be created through malcolm's kingship the last vira itself mccabe is tapes and welcome since the world the energy that creates the worlds means the worlds have some kind of recognition and importance of then there would be there wouldn't be a a a com a complete what we're getting at over here that was getting at is that when you say something is new it means that it's literally new and and without any without the force that's making it new it wouldn't it wouldn't be it wouldn't exist so he says should the fact that the soul enlivens the body should go higher yes does the does the body exist as a body without the the vitality of the soul yes the vitality of the soul enlivens the body but the body is emitting as an existence so here we're saying that it's not that way that it's even more or less of an existence it's it's it's it it wouldn't even exist at all if not for the energy of god recreating it from moment to moment alba mccable but being that we are we're on the trajectory that where does creation come from get get used to these words may asmus or insof not just for the infinite light from the essence of the infinite light which means look look further stop of 87. again he repeats where worlds and the all these great levels have no value whatsoever renews itself of the infinite light of god over mela therefore so the person the partition the the petitioner comes to the recognition that in what manner is the actus is the unity of god with the world that god creates be even in a manner so we sing the song we say the words encapsulates an entire mindset now listen for some of [Music] us we don't have blockages in this area and by for some of us it's a simple fact either and i have no questions and i see god in everything the truth is when you start poking and something doesn't go exactly the way we want it to go um i'm not sure if at that time the person feels annoyed but if one does that's a real that's that's a that somebody has really come to a place of elite movadry yes hilo i just i had a friend who was facing a very very difficult situation in court once he said i wrote another melvado on my hand so i could look down at it at the court yeah yeah but it's so it's it's easily said the question is do you are you really living with ayleid movado and this is the whole idea of shahrukh token in the flavor cellar brothers and the altar evan tanya and then together such a true you know that that famous story of mizell's in the in poland in the 1600s 1700s he was a very he was a great rabbi but he was a psychiatrist he was also a businessman very successful and a student comes from the basement says rebbe the bar says in broca's here that you have to make a break on on things that are good a table so the student says remy if i told you that uh your logs that went down the river he was in the lumber business were were floated there were great winds and storms came and they blew them all away and you lost a fortune you're fortunate would you also say that god is good so he said for sure well rebbe let me tell you that's what happened to your things and he collapsed on the spot [Music] ain't novada a rabbit a rebbe a reshiva rabbi a rogue but till it hits home then you you really you collapse you lost your fortune so what i'm saying is when we learn here sid this over and over this concept and we're learning here how that ever says that one second motion that ever says only if your perspective is from saying will you then recognize and it will resonate with that you understand with that story that to live with yeshida is not knowing another page of gomorrah or another my mercy this it's not yeshida it's important to know more and it's important to know my mercy this is important to give sadaka it doesn't yet mean you're in a bovada yes my [ __ ] hey ruby dolphin i think i think we brought up the story at least once before this year if i'm not mistaken correct me if i'm wrong i think what happened though was when he was revived he became two and and then they found out that actually it did not happen with the logs i don't i don't remember that there's a famous story there's a famous story that's connected to this that they told him the news and and what happened uh no i i i didn't hear the story that way i heard the story that that when they when he was told it happened to him he fainted anyway it's it's it's it's a different story all right what what what were we trying to say with you in the the point of the story is that you can preach about it that you can believe it you could teach others about it when it comes to you it happens to you you're faint i where's your belief and when the world comes to the table you understand you're not getting it you're not yet at the level of it that's it and it's not a it's not a put down it's just a reality check okay let's continue over here he says chicago there is no there's not nothing else besides him what does nothing else speak mean you know it means also holy worlds not just kashmir's the physical and the material but even holy worlds angels souls celestial beings anoint milwaukee they are not an iota closer to the godhead to osmos and since this is so har it's felt by the person who lives this way in the in the most simple way with his cloud that his physical flesh his physical life has no existence it's one thing connect being connected to god if you could say god is here that's it that's what makes it important what is covaya this is important what is covea what sets the agenda what tells us whether this is correct if you could say god is here if you can't say vis-a-vis your feeling and your your understanding and the reality that it's only god then it's loved afghan loved afghan it doesn't necessarily mean it's that way let's continue as we explained earlier when you fulfill a commandment of god it is impossible to mix i feel a lot better for even not in an ancillary way their existence has to be one-on-one thing only because of god's will of canal as we said earlier looking to explain that if you're living yeshida all the other levels of the mind the heart of the practical of the kabbalistic are a contradiction why because they have a message they have a description they have a definition right you look at someone you come at the show you look at someone say oh he is a businessman he is a rabbi he is a psychologist he is a father and he is a teacher without saying it in your mind you know what you've done you've basically created a box around yourself and around him and because you're in a box you put him into a box is it true that he's a teacher yes is it true that he's a rabbi yes is the truth that absolutely but that's not that's not the person that's what the person does i'm using this as a a way to explain what we're about to learn here when you live yeshida the the other four levels of of shot remiss and sight another contradiction to yeshida you don't have to remove those four aspects of understanding and and and and explanation and levels oh what what is going to say now is that they are all enhanced through yeshida but abraham not that they make either less an example a person who is respectable a person who is refined you can put them you can put him in the most terrible situation with low lives and everything else and he isn't tainted and he remains the same it might not smell good it might be very uncomfortable i i'm telling the other day flying back from florida which we had about hashem a seven hour delay it's pretty good we didn't have to sleep overnight anyway so behind me sitting a woman and i hear her saying later in the conversation she had a bach mitzvah and her mother her mouth was like a toilet a toilet and she was tipsy and and probably you know a little drunk and i was embarrassed for myself first of all the thing she was saying and there was a guy next to her and another woman on the right and you you would have thought you are in a uh a brothel or a you know it was disgusting and she don't care and she's you know she's smart and has humor and you know she knows how to handle a crowd and she's talking out loud and everyone hears her and no one says a word i want to my wife didn't let me so i didn't say anything well guess what uh part of our delay took us back to the gate which now i understand why the excuse was because a few people wanted to get off one had an elderly mother said we can't this is ridiculous we have to get off so they went back from the tarmac to right to the gate and then i see these three bovans oh big bouffants the sheriffs with the guns and the bomb things over here come on to the plane and the gentleman comes on a supervisor and he says to the woman he says uh the pilot says that he's uncomfortable flying with you please take your things and come off and this big uh mouth this big mouth and yiddish we say like a little tata it's an expression a a little acclaimed in other words this big monstrous big mouth and big shot becomes what's the word scourge you know becomes like a little nothing and shuts her mouth and takes a little poopy doggy that was quiet the whole time thank god and she walks off and she's no dress she's not drunk anymore you understand that's how drunk she was and she says well i hope a guy but i hope we get this all on video notice if she walks off the plane papa and then they got someone else to back they asked to walk off the idea of novada the idea means that a person wherever they are that you know so i was thinking to myself but what but you know and it was a gentleman sitting next to me an older gentleman yeah he was he didn't say anything and i ended the delay was driving everyone nuts you understand hours so i say to him he says it's part of the game today flying is delays if you can't take delays don't fly and it was you know it's like yeah you're right you know you're right in other words a person who's a refined person who works on themselves regardless of the situation where you can be put in a situation where like you're in a toilet excuse the expression mama she was like i was sitting next to a toilet with the schmutz that was coming out and in a comical way it wasn't you know you know what i'm saying but it was come on it's like you got people around you i mean i don't want to say it's disgusting it was it never had such an experience and you have to ask yourself why did hashem put you there why did hashem put you next to a toilet that's something i'm still thinking about what's it says so why did hashem put me there and the interesting thing is when she got up to leave i was told to leave my wife said a few words there and she was so pleasant so nice and you know she said please excuse me for my language in other words she saw my yarmulke and my beard then you know and she she you know she lives in manhattan she knows what an orthodox jew is and i felt that that was a truther that was a truther are you gonna ask me what did she do the next day i don't know but saying you know please excuse my language was like a schtickle truva but anyway the point of trying to make is that you have to maintain your commitment wherever you are my mother will show them you know in the suburbs go out to the catskills my father you know for a few weeks whatever they would find respite at a hotel a motel in in in in in monticello and then sometimes the winter to florida and she saw i don't she saw people she recognized but she saw the title her neighbors in bar but she saw the neighbors you saw people from borough park women and she saw the way they were dressed and she and and she'd say like you know just because it's not boro park you don't have to dress a certain way and she wasn't at saudis but she to begin with you know she grew up in costa rica didn't have a jewish education you know what i'm saying and that ever told her to put on a shaytan and the debbie gave the women paid for the women that have beautiful shaytards she put on a shaytar and she she and she became a barbecue woman but her background although she was a survivor and came from poland okay but you know she wasn't educated that way so here she comes she lives in the community and then she sees all these all these people i you don't you don't drop your standard if you're really there okay you know no no one's not saying you can't go to the beach and it sneers away you could so what we take away from this is this nakuda that we're learning here about yeshida doesn't contradict the four levels yeshide incorporates them and elevates them let's look into the text now it's the essence of all the specific levels skip this parenthesis please skip the parentheses so where does this parentheses end over here in the middle in middle like three four lines later therefore very important to unite the details with the essence maisha when you when you draw you drawing details somehow all of those details have to describe the essence of what you want to communicate so you we need details we need a mountain and we need a sun and we need this and we need that but if you lose track and you get caught up in the protein and the protein are bereft of exp of denoting the message of the xm in this case what you want to show in this piece of art it's not going to be a good piece of art a good piece of art is that the protein the details describe the essence and the same is true here in our context let's continue itself was united with your actually hotel becomes one like we said the king life and eternity over melee [Applause] with the name laws right there are laws why you shouldn't do this why you should do this the main thing is not the reason but the will of god that transcends reason the indiana the same idea we find in creation which is [Applause] when god created the world and finally being here when it comes to shock feeling when a person gives thanks that he's alive tomorrow we will continue as we continue this next site fantastic story i love this story it's a good night it's a good message if there's many you know i don't like why does god put you there how do you how do you control yourself what do you say what don't you say i was embarrassed because you know people see a uh today you know in miami the flowering of new york everyone knows what this represents a yarmouk and a full beard everyone knows my wife you know they might not think she's jewish even though probably that he can't get away with but me it's what i call conspicuous judaism you can't right so so and here i am and i'm cringing i'm like to myself this is one of our people this is a yid now she didn't listen she didn't look i mean she actually was dressed with you know sneeze relatively speaking but nevertheless you know anyone that has any sense of what's going on can smell and taste that this is a jewish girl a jewish woman no she was in the 60s probably 60s yeah and uh so so for myself i was very embarrassed here's you know all there's going all around non-jews and they're quiet and decent and mentally with the six seven hour delay and all that and one of ours is acting out like this is vulgar and it has a mouth of a toilet so you know the amos that puts you it's really this is the first time that i've been flying you know all my life and a lot and this is the first time that i was encountered with you know with such a thing you know you know what i'm saying and and i said to my wife thank god none of my kids when they were young had to see such a thing and here's such thing because it's very very it's it's embarrassing it's challenging it's but at the same time let's bring it home and ask ourselves the same type of question i i i don't want you know there's no time for it but i once was an airport another airport story and i saw the barbecue okay and he was holding the hand of his wife as they were going through he didn't see me i saw them and they both came from chabad of 150 years ago they had the pedigree and i wanted to like collapse and drop that go under the under the floor and go into the earth i have no problem with two modern orthodox people holding hands they believe that's that's that's fine even in public no problem but you are a leba chair you're a hussain you know what you come from and you know we don't we don't do that what are you doing i just and look look this is now about 30 years ago it still sticks in this mind because it made and i was very far but i just have to turn my head i noticed [Music] there is there is a way so you have to ask yourself one end to what it's it should i go up to them and embarrass them i have to have it independent sometimes you drive around and you see not sneers very bad not sneers and i and i want to get out in the car or to scream for the window what are you doing this is a fruit community what are you doing you want to dress this way go to a beach or another community but at the same time is that going to help is that going to change the situation you have to work from within and privately you go over to a person and you sit down and you say look i am and you talk to them and then when they feel you're you know you have a statistical relationship that you could talk to about issues that are you know should be improved and that in your private life you know if you want to lead a life a certain way you have free will yeah free will be in public too but nevertheless remember they're all of us and in public you you're making a a statement to everyone else so in public halacha and torres says yes you have to behave a certain way and you have to dress a certain way that's public the domain of public private there's another domain now what we learned today is that yehida impacts all four meaning that even in your nephew which is your mind your heart your practical and and your will should be permeated with yakida okay that's that's why we're learning that that's why we need to think about how and what can i do so that when i'm in an arena which is not my arena whoever i am and what i represent should impact and to me just to conclude when she said to my wife i'm sorry for you know for the use of my language that's what i mean that's that at the end she she recognizes hey i have an or i have orthodox jews husband and wife in front of me and i shouldn't be speaking this way in front of them at least that yes motion so on that note and especially what you just said i'm curious did anybody in the plane ride around an immediate area did they hear her say that to your wife um i think the the man that was next sitting next to her and and the the woman on on the isle and yeah they probably heard in other words it was already with the three the police there and the supervisor it was intense and you know the energy was focused elsewhere and this is when she when she kind of got up from her seat and she saw him after my wife said a few words to her so the answer is yes a few people heard it but it wasn't with that same you know uh starkite you know like the way she was uh mouthing off and using her her you know speaking like a toilet you know what i'm saying it wasn't the same way what my point my point is the reason i'm asking is because that's a fascinating interchange then in other words she spoke that way she had that reaction the moment that she saw you and if other people heard that that could be a real kid of hashem in the sense that people see oh this is how she was behaving the whole time right and then she gets up to leave and then she turns around and the moment she sees you all of a sudden she's like that's like that's a reality check for her and yeah that that that could be a tremendous kadish hashem you're right you're right you're right you're right you're right that's i i wish you wouldn't i wish it would have came earlier in the flight you see i wanted it during the flight to to say a few words to her but my wife said i shouldn't so i listened to them good husband no i i i didn't want to say something you know rude and outrageous i just wanted to say you know they're they're other and that's what really got her kicked off she wasn't you know she didn't hurt anybody i mean but but you know then all of a sudden she says you know she was a little drunk so a little i don't think she says something about a terrorist about this or that so you know and and the stewardess make themselves they smile and they like laugh but meanwhile someone snitched to the pilot and this is a lesson for us guys and for others you got to be very careful what you say loud in planes today because people here all you need is one guy in the back to hear you get on the phone and communicate it over and and it gets to the pilot or to the head stewardess and you're off the plane yeah that that that happened to my wife that happened to my wife she was on a plane a united flight leaving from leaving from uh here from eritrea she's on the plane with some of our children this was back like two years ago two and a half years ago and uh some kid behind her is like speaking loudly and he's you know he's like a like a like an older teenager slash around 19 or so and he's like some kid who's visiting here but he's looks like he's quite like maybe he's like like a religious you know like keep on so forth maybe baseball cap i'm not sure he starts he's saying he's saying things and he says something about he makes a joke about like doing something that's going to bring the plane down and within they went out they were taxing out and then they had that they made an announcement to call it an announcement they have to go back for something and they go back to the to the gate and then the security you know security comes in the exact same thing his security comes down and they take him and then the stewardess the stewardess says to him those oh i think a stewardess was passing by when he said that comment she turned she stopped she looked and she said that's not funny and that's how it that's how it started and when when they cleaned the kit off he was like white he was like white he was obviously embarrassed he but yeah i mean you you can't people can't say that you know those things that that's that the overall message my [ __ ] is that you know there's there's a place to talk loud the place not it's it's a people around you okay zygozote take care