EMETTalk - Rabbi Nissim Musheyev - Being Mevater / Giving In

Please help me welcome Rabbi [music] Nim Mash [applause] Yavam Ben Navat. Who was he? After King Solomon, his son became king and the kingdom split up and unfortunately he was not the highest level king. Unfortunately, he stopped the Jews from going to Jerusalem and he instituted a lot of avo come back come back. And Yeram said, "Okay, if I come back, who will be in the head? Who will be in the head?" So, Hashem says, "David, Benishi, the son of Isai, David, you and me are going to be in Ganedin." [music] He says, "But who's going to be at the head?" He says, "Davidik." He says, "If he's going to be at the head, I'm not doing [music] chuva." Imagine he lost everything. He lost everything. He couldn't let go. Ysef had sadik. He had everything. His brothers threw him in a pit, sold him. Could have been very resentful his whole life. Could have been very depressed. In the end, he became He became the king. He became the king. Did he take revenge? He didn't take revenge. [music] He let it go. He stayed. Hi. So, in life, if we let go, we always win. If we don't let go, unfortunately, [music] it's the other side. this story un unbelievable story in there's a couple who couldn't have kids and lad like New York very hard to find parking very hard to find parking not easy Friday afternoon Shabbat he's trying to find [music] parking gets a parking spot wants to pull in someone pulls in in front of him he says I'm going to start arguing to go the guy is yelling and screaming at him says I'm not going to argue says Hashem I'm being mater I'm letting go. Please let me have a [music] child. Give me a child. He told his wife, his wife said, "This is an opportunity. Let's dive in and let's pray to have a child. You let go." Few weeks later, they get news that she's expecting a child. In life, we're going to have situations, couples, business, at home, children. When we let go, of course, you have to talk it out. very healthy to [music] talk it out. But when you in the end let go and it doesn't really let go, you win. You become healthier and is that you always be on top. My to all of us to be able to let go in [music] our rel in anything that's hurting us to talk it over to be open to talk it over but in the end let go and when you let go you become connected you become one and you become on top. Thank you.