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Welcome everyone. Want to welcome everybody again. Thank you so much. Just for the sake of time, we are going to begin and we hope that morning shamas will join us as we're going ahead. Bashem is still a good turnout and we appreciate everyone who made the time on a Sunday evening. For those have other things going on like super style stuff on a Sunday, we understand. But David Bashem is a holy holy place. I'm standing in front of an Aaron Kodesh. I have the Rav of the Kilas here and Bashm. We're going to have some beautiful nigim from Shalom. Shalom Machai Benstein and you can check him out on Spotify under Shalom. That's Sh O L O M. We're going to hear some beautiful Nigim. And this is all in honor to really prepare ourselves for a special special guest. And everyone knows who he is. Gadalia Fster. He's not someone who really needs an entrance or a welcoming but uh or an intro or anything. He's beyond that. He he speaks for himself. So, we're going to go first into the nagunim and we're going to welcome up um Gdalia when he's ready to sit on the sit up here. He's going to be leading the speaking for us tonight. Before we do that, we will ask to also come up please to welcome Gdalia to our kila as he he is the right for us and we thank Hashem every day that we have a r like and everything that goes on in shid. It's such a blessing. I've been here now more than three years with my family living in the frat and uh I thank Hashem every day that I found a Kahila like this and I have the merit to bring one of the most important teachers in our time in my opinion. Someone who every day is in my ear and everyone knows I always have something going on in my ear. Is that right? >> Yeah. There's always something going on. So we're going to put some beautiful nigurim now into our hearts and open them for shalom. Thank you. [music] >> Okay. >> [singing] [music] >> That's good. [singing] [music] >> [singing] [chant] [singing] [music] [singing] >> So beautiful to hear such a nishama from the mirrors. I've gained from it so much myself personally and I'm sure the community is gaining so much every two years to have these beautiful souls. I want to shout out paneerjerusalem.com. Hanima Janat Matias and Ben Talida they they partnered with our event in Shalam as well as hosting within a few months I don't even know how long from the summer they already managed to create a program that you've already heard about thank god cuz it's doing so well and uh they we have a bigger chorus of of Schlommo and his staff of Yas Bronstein who've created a program that's creating programs that someone on Gdalia's level could come and feel feel like this is a for him to speak at. Tremendous achievement within such a short time. I want to thank the Cabana app who partners and and Rivera and Sarzo all the people that helped make the big USA event possible in the great synagogue. You know, just it was so beyond words. The feedback has been amazing like unbelievable. But then to climax this whole tour after being in Talib with Rabbi Hill and being uh throughout the whole land of Erat Gadali has really made his way around all the Makoma's Kadoshim and it's been just watching his journey here and all the Sadikim as well maybe with a few more stills to see. So I want to invite up Rashommo and once again I thank you all thank sponsored and thank anyone who wants to continue to sponsor. They're still from Red side. Please ask to introduce Gdali everybody. Thank you so much for coming. I just want to hear Gdalia songs. Going to get right to it. I want to thank the for setting up so beautifully. All the love and setting it up. Thank you so much. I want to thank Kelly Goldman for working so hard to make sure that all the events take place. [applause] That was absolutely beautiful. Absolutely beautiful. [applause] I think I could also speak on behalf of Gdalia and say that it's it's on behalf of the whole Kahila. It's a tremendous cover for us to have Rabbi Fang Kramer with us here tonight as well. [applause] And thank you so much for being here. This morning I was driving to Shalim and I was listening to a random podcast of someone that was being interviewed and asked about his journey and he said to me he said that after living in many different places he ended up in some shul very early in the morning in Aventura with the Maserati and the rest of his life basically began from that morning. He sat in on a shear not knowing that there was a shar happening after the nades minan in this random minion that he happened to stumble across. And that person today is a big mashia in Israel as well. And he said that it took a few minutes of sitting in a shir with gadal. I think he said there were bagels and lock not that you ate it but that there were bagels and locks happening in the in the lobby over there. and he sat down and he like many many people including many of our in this room received the words of the rebi through that every door has to hear it in different ways the rebi I think it's in turn in where the rebi speaks about how every person has that's what makes us we have and everything everything I want to go somewhere it's I have choice to go I want to do this I have choice to do it and choice leads to What this person felt that she what I feel many people here feel is that the way presents for us the aod is the way that this story needs to hear not any quick fixes it's about looking at the aod of today and going with all your might and soul with the scholarship students of the economy team and it's our third time now together with us so this is where when you're bothered by time it's to tell you hey You're looking at the situation wrong. You're not seeing the situation right. You're you're completely off. And our job is not to make things go quicker. Our job is to change our energy towards that thing. I always say very simple. When you're motivated, you look at everything as an opportunity. When you're not motivated, you're looking out. The problem is is a lot of us when we're going through situations, we we have we don't we don't know the desire we want. So what happens? There's no clarification. There's no clarification. There's constant confusion. And confusion feeds time. And time takes over. And sometimes we're in a situation where we think, "Oh my god, when this is over, you know, when am I going to get out of this situation? When I when am I when am I going to be married? When am I going to make money?" And then time just takes over and that's where people fall into despair. So the root is like we always say before says in lesson 195 the problem is the solution. We know solutions are in the problem. We say this in Psalm 4 every single day right in my distress you have relieved me. So we know from time itself if I'm not paying attention if I'm bothered by my feet by my prayer I'm not even there. If I'm bothered by this person, I'm not judging favorably. Right? If I'm not enjoying work, I'm not passionate. I'm looking at it as an obligation. That's the difference between you have a good conversation, time flies. But when you're not there, time kills you. And this is where Stro helps you build patience. You know, one of the things I've asked, how, you know, how'd you get here? You know, how'd you get here? as many Americans, how'd you get here? They told me the only way we got here was we knew it was going to be hard. We knew it was going to be difficult. So, we expected the challenges, but instead of giving up, we turned it up. So, that mindset, that's why they're here. But the minute you think this is going to be easy, this is one obstacle, that's it. You're done. So, I want to invite you tonight to change your attitude about what you're doing. When you change your attitude, everything changes. Our sages already said that our state changes our conditions, not our conditions change our state. That means when I adapt a different attitude, I go into that change my conditions. And this is where we spoke about that any single time we're thinking negatively about something, we're really we're really in dut. We're not thinking it. We're missing light. that our job is to constantly go from the dollar to the he to go from constricted consciousness to expanded consciousness. He says this a thousand times. You have to quickly move from dollar to the less than 74 quickly. Quickly go from the slope. So a practical example of this would be you're picking up your mother-in-law from the airport. Wow, this is an obligation. How long is it going to be? Traffic is killing you. You can say what an opportunity to make your wife happy. the ride changes, right? You don't like somebody, right? You have a hard time judging them. What an opportunity to break my ego by judging them positively. What an opportunity somebody wrongs you. You could say you're hurt. What an opportunity to practice mercy. Everything at the end of the day is good. The problem is a bad day for the ego is a good day for the soul. So we don't really like these situations. And when you start understanding that everything at the end of the day is nothing but kindness. My job is not to change a situation. My job is to change the way I view the situation. When I change the way I view the situation, the situation changes. We spoke about many times the purpose of pain is for one thing is to expand the vessel. Is to expand your vessel. If you're not in a uncomfortable way, you're never going to stand your wrestle. Struggle is not meant to break you. Struggle is meant to make you. So any any type of avoidance in all these things doesn't help us. So I said many times, whatever you're anxious about, you need to be excited about because at the end of the day, all your responsible is is to change the energetic level of. And I saw that in Jerusalem. I saw the time just collapsed. I don't know how many things I did today. I was what time? 6 o'clock. What happened to time? What happened to time? It just completely collapsed. The whole time just completely collapsed like 3 days went 3 days went in like 2 minutes because I was in higher consciousness. Other areas 10 minutes becomes an hour. So whatever you're doing, whatever you're dealing with, whether it's it's to get married, whether it's to have body, if you don't start loving the struggle, if you don't start loving what's happening, you're going to suffer from time. And time is because you're not in the right consciousness dealing with it. This is this is where really it's it's all feelings are only tell to tell you pay attention to the energetic level that we're dealing with it. And this is where our job is to turn doubt into doubt. Our job is to turn the doubt itself into dot. When we have doubt, doubt that means we're lacking that. And is a solution to everything. So if you start looking at things as an opportunity versus an obligation. If you start getting excited over anxious, it's the same energy. It's just channelneled in the right way. And it's an amazing thing once you understand this. And the more difficult things are, the greater the opportunity you have to do this. The greater the opportunity to do this. But it's not if you're bothered by time. Every every single time people ask, "When am I going to get this? When am I going to when am I going to make this money? When am I going to make this deal? When am I going to get married? When am I going to this my clients in my recovery center? This is something you have to download from your creator through hisoot. As much as we want, you know, >> this is his because you don't have a desire to change. God doesn't have any satisfaction. >> The reason why I like to come to because I know this community knows how to receive. >> They know how to receive. You guys appreciate. The reason why you appreciate is cuz I come. If you don't appreciate, I don't come. It has nothing to do with me. Has to do with you. Nobody will let nobody will give you life until you appreciate it. The more you appreciate, the more things show up in life. The more you appreciate your problem, the more God shows you how to fix it. The less you appreciate your problem, the less situations. That's why Rabbi Rouch would always say, "You have to turn the complaining into thanking." And he I was with him a couple days ago, 45 minutes. The bottom line is when we're complaining, what is complaining? Accumulation of time. All you're doing is accumulating time. You're resisting the process. You're fighting reality. At the end of the day, we're complaining. You're fighting [clears throat] reality. All you're doing is fighting reality and when you resist persist. So you can continue digging in that direction or you can change your energy and you can say you know what I'm going to start thanking Hashem and the more you thank Hashem the more awareness comes to speaks about this in lesson two tomorrow. He says the more you thank Hashem the more awareness you get. The more awareness you get, the more you thank Hashem. The more you thank Hashem, the more awareness you get and you're creating basically a micro system all of a sudden to go to go to crazy levels of consciousness because all you're doing is thanking. And the thanking is giving you more awareness. And the more awareness you're thinking, the same thing that works with to feel in lesson one says every single time you pray you get answered. You develop You develop grace. Because you develop grace, you can now ask for more. And the more you get, the more grace you get. It's almost like imagining a salesman that he's already sold the customer 100 times. That all he has to do is make a phone call and say, "How how many you want to order?" He already went through those first steps. So there's spiritual systems that really work. And there's real and there's spiritual systems that really don't work. But also says the more you complain, the more constricted you'll be. The more constricted you'll be, the more you complain, which will cause more constriction, which will cause more complaining, which will cause nothing but a dead end called depression. So you can see here, this is just about channeling the energy. It's nothing more than channeling the energy. What? How are you handling this on an energy level? One person, if he has fear, he's going to say, "My insurance is going to get cancelled. If he has anger, he's going to get out of the car and try to beat the guy up." This for sure happens in Israel. In America, all of a sudden, they'll sue you because they have a neck injury. Another person will say, "Thank God it was only the car." Another person will say, "Oh, it was a that I met you here and this all had to be." So, you can see 10 people can get into a car accident. It can be 10 different reactions. That's how it works in the spiritual world. The facts come down. What you do with them is based on your consciousness. If you're not in a higher consciousness, what do you think you're going to get? You're going to get the lower levels of consciousness. Very important to understand. Energy is energy. Energy is energy. Exactly what Ra says in lesson 36. From on high, from heaven, the light comes completely unindifferiated. It has no vessel. It's up to the receiver to make it into a tal blessing or lot curse. Or on many would tell us you need to take your many your obstacles and turn them into names pleasure. So you can see in heaven there's no everything's blank. Everything comes down blank as the as the as the verse says. See today there's a there's a good there's a blessing or there's a curse. Some people look at the market going down as a curse. Some people look at the market going down as a blessing because the Bible said everything comes down to that. Some people look at marriage and they have a a a bro breaking of the vessel and they say, "Wow, if it didn't vessel did not break, we could never rebuild." Some people look at breaking as this is terrible. What makes the difference between two people? It's what they do with the energy. And our job is not to energy is not bad. There's nothing wrong with energy. It's how you're viewing the energy. How are you viewing the energy? And that's why from the problem is the solution. From the problem is the solution. You know, when you're anxious, it means you're struggling with growth. You need to turn it into excitement. You know, if you're lonely, you're struggling with connection. You need to be alone to connect with yourself. So, you don't need to be lonely. If you're struggling with with with a sort of sadness, says transform it into a broken heart. That's amazing. If you're struggling with suffering, you need to start surrendering. It's the same energy. one suffering and pain. Pain times growth. Pain times acceptance is growth. Pain times resistance is suffering. That's it. It's it's like a big scrabble game. Life is one big scrabble game. But you need to ask yourself, you need to you need to have the appropriate goal to say, "What do I want to do with this energy?" I spoke about a book the other day, Sarah Shrider's book that says, "You are what you need." Y phenomenal bookish strongly recommended but she says that every single time you are resisting your enemies or people who oppose you know what you're doing you're helping them them achieve their goal you know who else says that 27 you know what he's like says when somebody's trying to date to come after you know what you're doing when you fight with them you're helping them dig close to you so they can achieve their goal. So, so what she says is she takes these teachings from the from the rabbi and the balto and she says you need to turn your enemies into your friends assuming they're not from as long as they're not from a malik every single person that's coming at you or opposing you including family members okay you need to take the en your enemy into your friend and she says that The word and it's the same word. Enemies and friends is the same word. You know what the difference is? One has a y and one has a. So I practiced the strategy. I started praying for all the people that are lost with you. Because at the end of the day what you're saying there is that anybody your soul gets reincarnated your next the situation the more the situation actually gets gets better. Now like I said why do we have these enemies? Why do we have people oppose us? Because any single time you have even a little bit everybody has a little bit of everybody has a little enemies. And just like bees are attracted to honey, enemies are attracted to arrogance. Enemies are even if you have a little bit, all of a sudden you attract enemies. But who's coming to when you're praying for them? You know who you're praying for? Yourself. Your yourself. So you can see an enemy. I need to turn it into a friend. It's a wild concept and again this is from to deborah this is from the ra this is from rebi this is not from opra this is not from this is from brotherman would say you can overturn your you can judge somebody you can change them you can absolutely change them because there's a concept in life that we affect the observer we affect the observer I always talk about this dating people They're going they're nervous. So they're expecting they're like I don't feel the energy. Well, what energy are you sending to the other person? Your energy. They're sending you their energy. So what happens? I didn't feel it. Of course, cuz you're sending them negative energy. You're sending them anxious energy. They're sending you anxious energy. What do you expect to happen? Two withdrawals. We affect the observer. So you can see the fact that I hate somebody means I can it's the craziest thing about all of this is again another another Torah in lesson it's all in all these concepts if you learn the Quran like papers attributed it's all there by the way you can you don't even say if you learn the Quran in death you do not need to read another book. Yes or no? You do not need to read another book. Everything in the world you can see through that. Thank God I've matured in life. The years that I studied without speaking, I had much more time back then. I learned these teachings from Kramer. I can see everything there. So says the real key to flipping the energy. What's the real key to flipping the energy? First, you have to turn the same situation you were bothered about. Imagine you're imagine you're you're you're sitting in an airplane and you're sitting next to somebody, okay? And all of a sudden there's a bag of chips there and all of a sudden you think it's yours and you're eating the chip and all of a sudden the person next to you is taking the bag and eating the chip. I just lose this person to eat my food. Okay, you let it go one time, you eat another ch, they eat another ch and then they eat another ch and then you're freaking out like, how in the world did somebody eat my food and you're so upset and all of a sudden you look down and you have an you have a bag of chips in your bag and you're actually eating their bag of chips. Sounds cute, right? What would what what emotion would be? What emotion would trigger? What what's the emotion that would trigger that? >> Embarrassment. Like how was I so off? Yes or no? We would ultimately be embarrassed of how in the world not only embarrassed, but I had it all wrong. I had it all wrong. The whole time I was wrong. Part of doing this Bad Dudes is if you're not getting to the embarrassment state, you're never going to get the love of God state. How do I know that I changed my energy? When I get embarrassed about how I was thinking like everybody else, when something happens, I go Moroccan for two, three days. I vent, I yell, I complain. I do that like everybody else. We We let it out. Three days. You need three days to let it out, right? Blame everybody. Blame everybody. But then after those three days, you need to get a reality check. And you need to say, "If this energy is still bothering you, you're doing something wrong. You're doing something wrong. You're off." And you have to you have to be honest and say, "I'm off. My take away." That itself, once you understand you're off and you say, "Hashem, please give me a different perspective. You'll you're going to be embarrassed how you had the wrong energy the whole time. Once you get embarrassed, you know what that does? Embarrassment cleanses all your sins. It takes the dam the blood and it makes it into D. It takes the blood and it turns it into D. You're silent now. You're embarrassed. After embarrassment comes love. If you don't get to embarrassment, you are not growing spiritually. Period. Lesson six speaks about being constantly embarrassed. Not shame, not guilt. If I'm not growing, the more I grow, the more I realize, oh my god, I didn't know anything. What was I talking about? A sign of growth is embarrassment. If there's no embarrassment, there's no cleansing. There's no cleansing. There's no higher consciousness. same level. So you can sometimes just say, you know what, I'm sorry I didn't I I'm sorry I judged you the wrong way. I'm sorry and talk to your h you can change all this in a second. You could say to your husbands, I'm sorry I didn't know how to receive. I had to trauma. I was unappreciative. I'm sorry I lashed at you. I appreciate everything you do. And your magic your marriage can radically change in the blink of an eye. How do you like that? I got one. Let me deal with them afterwards. Do you understand? Happiness is a choice. You understand? Happiness is a choice. You can save tons of money in therapy. I know there's tons of people who need money for doing this therapy. Money needs money. You can save so much money in therapy. Don't think it's that properly. If you don't know how to go into middle and surrender sometimes everybody's wrong once in a 100 lives it can you can change a marriage in a change of an attitude in one second but the ego often what am I going to do with three years of complaining what am I going to do with my story what am I going to do with all the stuff I've been I've been holding on to what am I going to do with the trauma you can divorce your story and marry the truth in a blink of an eye how do you like that [clears throat] is what being that's what the Lord that is what embulies. So you can see these things are it's it's in our hands. It's our the problem is is our ego. You're not doing as well. You're suppressing it. You're vetting it. All you're doing is just creating a bigger mess and blaming the messenger. And there's never a solution. It's the same. It's the same problem as what we have in America. All we're yelling about is anti-semitism. All we're yelling about is anti-semitism. We're not talking about We're not talking about building communities. We're just venting out venting the anti-semitism. You can spend $6 million on a little pin and say you have to like me. You have to approve me. You're going to ask I I need to be approved by you. That's a problem. If I need to be approved by you, that's a problem. That's a problem. What do you need to judge me? And this is why at the end of the day, God forbid any We're in a victim mindset. God forbid any single time that our energy is is just being suppressed and resisted. We end up nothing more but more of the same thing. We just get more of the same thing. There's no there's no bail there's no bailouts. There's just the same energy over and over. But how do you know you're you're changing your energy? How do you know you're in the right flow in the right direction? When you start seeing a shift in energy, when you start changing a shift in energy, when you see a lightness in energy, when you see likeness in your marriage, that means you're you're more understanding and less judgmental. You're reflecting more instead of projecting more. Happy energy is telling us number one, we're affected by time. Number two, we're in the wrong consciousness [snorts] and we're going with resist persist. So all of these stages are basically telling you whatever you normally would do. If you're anxious, you're going to worry. They tell you get excited. Every situation would say your joy will go out. You have a problem, you need to start dancing ahead. I always told this story which are one of the stories that I love so much. We were stuck in Malddova in one of the two or three years ago on these trips to the two of us and and all of a sudden there's three four groups of people all of a sudden everybody's in Muldova we don't know how to connect to to everybody's got to connect the lights back to Turkey and basically this if this flight is off everything is going to be off the Israelis started screaming at the stories at the American Americans called their called American Express and called their wives. Then you had a bunch of you know what they started doing? They started dancing. Started dancing in the airport. Why the in the morning 12:00 after bound or borders and all this stuff you start dancing less than 20 seconds. So far am I 10 for 10 right now? Am I a >> Okay, good. I just want to make sure this is Rabbi Kramer. So I'll tell you these words are not my Tora. These are exact words from my These are not my inventions. I'm just giving you to in a language that you understand. These are every single strategy that I gave you today. It's not my teaching. I'm just giving you to in the vernacular so you're understanding whatever you're doing. You're not you need to change the strategy. That's all it is. You need to whether it's turning your enemy into your friend, whether it's resenting and judging, you need to start un need to start understanding. Whether it's loneliness, you need to start being alone in his dude. When you're lonely, that's not a time to go date. That is not a time to go to date. That's a time. It's like saying, you know what? There's a good conference at Banky Court. I need to find a good business partner there. Imagine going to a bankruptcy court conference and saying, "I need to find a shock for business. He's bankrupt. You're bankrupt. How in the world are you going to make money?" Bankruptcy court is not the time to find a CEO. That's not the question. That's you get a guy from company. We don't go to bankruptcy court to get CEOs. People fall in love with my treatment center. I said this is not the time to to find love. This is time to heal. But love is an addiction also. This is the time to be alone. This is the time to ask yourself why am I so lonely and why am I so dependent upon people? What what attachments do I have? And this is the again it it's you know it's all in our face but you need his to bring it down. You need to talk to Hashem number one. know why you need to talk to Hashem because if you don't express things what's going on in your life it's never that energy is going to stay you have to express that the more you express things out that itself is the number one issue it's so much stuff it's built in that all of a sudden we're triggered in two seconds trigger trigger the fact that we're triggered so much because we're not expressing trigger means I'm not expressing energy stuck after you express things out and you let it out, then you create a vacuum, a tsum for a new reality. Then you can start downloading what the strategy is. But it's very hard. I I asked myself, how is it possible for somebody to change their energy without this going through the embarrassment? Because remember, first you have to realize you're wrong. Shoua is really, what is the shouba? Going back into the same situation and now be excited about it. going back into the same situation instead of hating your friend. Loving them. Going back into the situation instead of rejecting, you know, desperation dates and [clears throat] be becoming the one instead of looking for the one. Going back into the same situation and and then business with fear and going with trust. We're not moving locations. We're staying in the same place. We're just doing a different thing. That's what we're doing. That's exactly what tou is. You have to be in the same place but you have to do something different. So that's another thing and you need to understand this is one of the things when I'm lost in life when I see myself suffering too much I go to surrendering. When I realize that why do I why do I surrender? And then I start putting God. I said God me and you are in this together. I know you love me. It's we're both in this distress. And when you put is in distress, he wants to give you 99% more than you want to receive. That's a wooden victory. So you can see here, first you have to question the energy you're in. Then you have to really get to a point of speaking it out and being embarrassed. And then you need to channel the energy to now be happy about this. And when you do that, the shuffle comes. You have to have clarity. You need to tell me first. I need When you're going through a test, when you're going through a tribulation, the first thing you need to do is express your desire. What do you want from this? You need to say, I want to be friend with this person. I want to be friends with him. If it's meant to be met, I want to be merciful. I want to be the most merciful person. You can't do this without direction because if the desire is not clar claris if the desire is not clarified it will not be satisfied. Heaven doesn't like 50/50 all. Hashem I want to turn this broken I want to turn this expression into a broken heart. [clears throat] That's what you got to do. I want to go back into my same business in if you don't express your desire like says in lesson 66 that you have to go through thought speech and action and you have to express the desire of what it wants then heaven helps you but heaven heaven can't help you if you're not really have a desire the appropriate clarification. So we're almost stuck. Number one we're stuck. We don't know what we want to do. We don't know where we want to go with this. Second, we're bothered by the by the people causing the situation and [clears throat] then we're just we're just living in in in a very low consciousness. And that's why if you have doubt, you have everything. If you don't have doubt, you have nothing. But it's not it's this is not about this is not about dreaming for things to get better. This is not about waiting for things to get better. This is about awakening. This is an awakening, guys. This is not a dream. Carl Young used to say, "One who looks outside dreams. One who looks inside awakens." This is about awakening. This is all awakening. Awakening. You're awakening expanded consciousness. And I cannot tell you this is the most important thing in the world. You know, there's a sign in Miami that says if you can't sleep, if you have pain, use CBD. Hold on. Hold on. CBD is going to cure everything my life with it. CBD is going to put me in just a little pray to the south, right? You see the Persian synagogues to the north, right? Others pray to the south. So, how do you get both? You get both by being nowhere. By being humble. When you're nowhere. The more humble you are, the you can have both. That means it's impossible to have both unless you have humility. You don't let success get to your head and you don't let failure get to your heart. >> Anyone else? >> Please. >> You were saying how important it is to turn your enemy into your friend, but honestly, >> why do you want to turn your enemy into your friend? You really don't want anything to do with them? >> I'll tell you what. So the problem is the enemy has a spark of your soul and it's coming to be redeemed. What what Sarah Sher says is that our souls slivers of our souls get reincarnated in we're blaming we're blaming non-Jews for anti-semitism. When you're when you're doing it yourself >> you're feeding it cuz that bingo you are feeding it. That's exactly what's happening. your fear. What came out of October 7? It started with division, right? What came out of it? Anti-semitism. Why do you think happened? Because that's what we projected to the world. And how do we fix it? Unity. Unity. But that was the problem back then. It was a division. And Raman says also when a person's divided between his heart and mind, he's going to have division with people. in a cabalistic angle. If you see the big picture, that's how you're able to when you have a Torah, you everybody's got to come to the Torah. But the religion should be perfect whether it's because of the division. We're blaming anti-semitism all day long and we're thinking that's the strategy. The strategy is fix ourselves. But it's imagine too many egos today between the religious and we do not have too much egos. The ego cannot tolerate change. So that's one of the things about ego our ego is like is like parro it's stubborn it's a stubborn ego just like parro stubborn every any every single time we have stubbornness in ourselves we should think of parro that's the stubborn ego thank you we're going to do one or two more questions just to remind everyone before they leave there is a book signing that is going to go where they're also someone we should thank they came to every event they were by us in Tel Aiv they were bias in both events in new shalam and here they came to fra with all the beautiful swarm of the new book surrender and everyone I recommend should get a copy and if possible have it signed if you have time >> um in the meanwhile we're just going to have one one or two more questions one more from the ladies as well I listen to you a lot you talk about how the desire blocks receiving but then you also say a lot how if there's no desire then you're never going to get anywhere you just differentiate between healthy desire desire >> right desire desire when the desire is coming spiritual desires you should go 100% 100 miles per hour okay physical desires those will not proceed understand so one is spiritual you should be extremely aggressive I if I start praying if I have desire hashem I want to be able to have 100% of you I want to have self-esteem I I want to know who I am. Please, I don't want to be dependent on anybody. You don't need to have a desire to pray for a wife. You don't need to a desire to have people to like you because your energy will be magnetic. But if you're falling close up to sleep, then your desires, imagine you're praying now for other people to like you and that blocks you from receiving. Cuz the more kabod you want, the less kabod you're going to get. The fact that you're seeking kabod that means you're completely in the wrong address. Like it's needy desire. >> It's needy desire. But all spiritual blessings become physical manifestations. So if we're smart, we figure out the spiritual root of the of that issue. It could be other like would say, don't pray for more money. Pray for more. Okay? Pray for the hood. Don't pray for your marriage to be fixed. We want to pray for the spirit the spiritual root because you we're getting bad fruit because the root the fruit give me new fruit but the roots the problem it's not the fruit the fruit's a result of the roots it's you don't wait for better fruits you crave for better roots have it last question from lady's How are you? >> Good to see you. >> Um, why is it so hard to speak out loud to Hashem in a good amount of time? >> Ask ask Americans how how hard is it to watch Super Bowl game today? Imagine somebody saying, "I don't know how I was able to watch Super Bowl." It's because anything because anything number one number one we need to understand that a slave has no voice. You got it. A slave has no voice. So the minute you start talking is Egypt. What was the problem in Egypt? Speech was in exile. Why was the speech in exile? Cuz the mind was in exile. So it's telling us that we're not we're we're not we're not warm. We're not we're getting too cold spiritually. That's that's that's that's the diagnosis. You know, a warm person can speak very very easily. So number one, it's teaching us our spirituality has become a little too cold. Okay? That's why sometimes we're not going to say scream to scream. And the reason why it's so hard to speak is because you connect to the infinite light. And and speaking to number one, you work on your number two, you work on your patience. Number three, you're giving to give because what's going to happen? You're going to try speaking. you're not going to happen and Hashem wants to know are you still going to speak? Are you still going to try? And Raman says even if you don't even speak, if you just seclude yourself and say one word mantra, it works. What I recommend is using music because music is a pain killer. A lot of times why we can't speak is because we're in too much pain. It opens you up. When people have music, they loosen up. So I recommend music. I recommend using the same location possible and the same time. Okay, that usually helps. But I I I told you guys my story. The first 10 years in breast I didn't speak. And then when I started doing this, the first six months that I did it, I didn't get an answer. I got everything became worse. Why? Why did it happen? Because the life that was that got out of it was going to change the world was going to change. So according to the the light that's going to come out of it is the resistance also. So if you have a lot of resistance doing something you should think about the amount of light that's going to come out of this. Get it? The resistance is teaching you. Wow. There's there's what I cannot believe the light is going to come out of this. But it's it's it's extremely extremely challenging to do. But you get everything. You get everything. Bible says 25 that it's it's the greatest it's higher than ever. It's higher than you should marless [applause] at the back. I want to thank Yudi and the R family for everything they're done. He's going to make an announcement. tomorrow downstairs for those of the baby Josh in about two minutes downstairs. Thank you to Vidali. Thank you to Ellie and thank you to every coming out wishing everyone to put it in. No. Hey guys, you can buy a book and bring it here for him to sign more comfortable. Books are outside by the exit. Comrades on the right side as you come out. Bring them back here to sign up. out.