Eating On Yom Kikpur - Who, When And How - Rabbi Yakov Zev Smith

foreign [Music] had to eat should he try to minimize the pleasure of the future he just bread and water could he eat a regular meal is it a yomptive if you have to eat should you eat small amounts and over the years we heard different questions and I person sometimes afraid to talk about it because let's not talk about it well let's hope we're all well but I once owned a very costly safer he says the person doesn't learn a certain sugiya so there's a kitchen why are you not learning that so they send them shyless to to force him to learn the sugya and then he adds that if a person learns a certain so I guess if you learn about eating in Yom Kippur and won't have to come on to these questions of what to eat then if you're allowed eating Yom Kippur so then I was thinking we should talk about more and more as many showers as we can so hopefully we'll bioitza today by learning the halach is of one that has to eat and with all because to try to find the usai that will give us information enough information to approach the various Childers and here really we have to figure out what is the nature of this let me explain there's no doubt about it there is no Tinus like Yom Kippur regarding the claim of it besides the fact that it's the only tiniest that's the Riser of all the tanios but it's also italianism explains there's an assay to fast and there's a lab she is that we have but there's another fact that we have to realize as the senator points out if you look at both sukum that speak about these impartials it puts together fasting and capara of Yom Kippur foreign and he writes it very bluntly if someone is macabo chuvani does chuba and he's busy with you the whole day but if he doesn't fast when he's supposed to he has no Kappa so it's besides the love and the assays yes it's also an integral part of the tuba process the kapara price that we hope to have we have to realize that we have to give the Mitzvah of Tinus top priority and people that are older should make sure before before to take all necessary precautions and don't overwork and makes you have enough to eat Etc to be focused on trying to make the Tinus work and we see to what extent we try to make the tiniest Works was asked about the time they had the choleria epidemic it's interesting in English and English as I was taught once so on a safer that really it's highly ra it was an epidemic so now I became caleria but anyhow and the Roy film said if you leave your house when during this epidemic on an empty stomach it's dangerous so the yesterday's iPhone Yom KIPP is coming what should we do so that samsaif was the doctor's words can quote [Music] you say the danger is if you leave your house that means if you stay home you're okay and everything but you have to fast who said you allowed to go to school because said it's better to stay home a whole day and if need be even lay in bed but don't have to eat on Yom Kippur and all the place can quote this in fact I saw she just had a baby a few weeks ago she said she has to fast she has a few pizzas a few children at home and after she's all one out she won't be able to First she'll be so the husband's obligation to go home and help her if he misses davening as part of his creative to make sure that she fast so two people have to give up their diving for one fast the biggest Alman said let's see a person is not well he has to eat but he eats small amounts at a time we'll soon see the details but if he goes to Sewell he'll have to eat one extra time because he has to exert energy and he has to make it up by eating so if he stays home he only has to eat uh five times five small amounts if he goes to Seoul have to eat six times and stay home don't eat more than you have to now we're not minimizing we're highlighting the importance of fasting when possible because this Mitzvah is not a simple Mitzvah and this is not a simple but then again we have a different Mitzvah and if allowed to say this because the police will say this it's a bigger Mitchell than fair and that's the midst of him to protect one's Health you know people quote the plastic you learned the real in the car protecting one's health is and the family have the obligation to protect the sick person that's like and it's a lot to say but why we say that is bigger than the mitsu of Chinese and let me just say one two but I think that says it all remember I'm sick in our high in simulator I don't know the details but someone that the doctor forbade them to eat matzah and Mara on PESA whatever you had a condition and he insists on eating matsumar so the ramshek quotes does something that's dangerous he is committing suicide the Posse he quotes and then he says you're not doing a Mitzvah by eating Mata Amura you're doing anavera and he says a beautiful husband because you're not supposed to do it and then he says but you're not thinking because if you don't eat the mats and tomorrow so you get no avail Hashem if you ate the matsumara you get no Mitzvah and yet another so be a wise investor and don't eat tomato and this we have to highlight because for negative people that have to eat they feel all depressed and broken Aid is a soldier we are told to March we march with all this stop we stop we'll tell it to fast we fast we're tall to eat we eat and someone just told me that a person was told that he has to eat that Yom kippa and he was he fell apart he told her beloved Feinstein I fasted almost for 70 years straight so if you don't eat this year see you didn't fear 70 years very sharp but a very practical part I'll be okay he says that's that's committing suicide any mama says this Lush and an hour for today Steve Dallas and fast and if he does he's like and there's a famous story I think heard of my bank of cameretsky himself but of small used to say that says the story over when the back of Kaminski became Robin in in sitsvillian there was someone that was very sick her bank of Austin young girl told me you must eat on Yom kippa but he was a from a I'll take me from Ella Chrome I'll take it from Allah kuroma and decided to fast and he died on Yom Kippur from the Tinus Arabian Kev was asked to be massive and he said I will not be massmid because he is a mahabara there's no there's no hospital on a person that commits suicide and it became a talk of town look at this young girl asserting himself and the guitarlum at that time praised his words because the mice we have to set the record you're fast and will soon see the belgerebo also had this at this minute that if a person has to eat in the Mitzvah of foreign he used a very sharp lotion it's a higher list and sickness it's foolish yeah you don't need a couple if you do the rats in Hashem in fact the Binion will soon see the context in similaba dalid he says nefarish if someone was told to eat and he ate and he found out that he couldn't manage without the eating he didn't do anything wrong you follow the doctors the Rob the Russian Hashem and don't worry we follow as the orders are given is a fascinating chuva it's good eye to see it inside you have a chance he writes it's more than a month fdm kippa when you look at the daily and he wrote an Autumn goddal that I have to give you Muslim because I heard that you still feel bad that you have to eat a Yom Kippur you make a judgment it's a month plus fdm and this goggle still feels bad and he said I can't believe it a person like you rapes it Costa you think you have to feel bad he says you write it you have to do a tuba because it's like you're going to show you guys what kind of an Irish car did that do you know how to say gig you did ratsun Hashem the person said if it says khalila versus it's a very bad semen that's because it's it's a gennai but here you followed Hashem how could you feel bad and then he has a beautiful point this God will felt that just like we find I hope it's not negative this year of course that when it rains on sukis it's a semen color so maybe if you have firstness she goes what are you talking about we don't find that if a person puts Tire on circus it's a semicola it's only if it rains the step is only if it rains says the Binion saying a brilliant if a person makes a decision not to eat it's his not to eat that's his decision he did the right thing rain their brainstorm sent him it wasn't his decision if the person sent them this rain it's a message and then he has more than that it's coming from blurry oil I'm straight to us then you have to you know read the message but when someone is sick that's part of normal living and he writes that you have to need a kapura and stop this this nonsense of feeling bad and the emissions when someone is forced into the house on circus because it's raining so he has no mid slope okay he has to eat the Soother but he has no Mitzvah but when someone I am Kipper has to eat instead of the midst of fasting he has the same midst of the Raisa of so he just exchange misses what are you feeling bad about foreign he had two very prominent patients in the hospital and he went to see how they're doing and both of them were in a pretty bad State and he told them both to eat so the first God will broke out crying oh you have to idiom KIPP I never did it before what's going to be with me and the second God when he was told he had to eat said Baruch Hashem I have a new Mitzvah this year I'm gonna do it very different approach from together so he went upstairs who was right sometimes without question the second one was right the rats and Hashem is and you feel better about Hashem eating fasting it's all the same and it's a lot to say but I want to I make this point because La maisa anybody who knows is so true even from a medical perspective on a person is sick so much of his recovery depends on his mood that is say this is so true a person that's optimistic feels good he'll recover someone that's pessimistic and and and has given gives up hope probably won't make it if someone has to eat and he feels bad about it and his feels so broken about it and he's torturing himself by eating it's not good for his health besides is wrong it's not healthy if someone feels good about what he does it's definitely going to be better for him this is a famous letter that the prisula Belzer wrote to the December who was supposed to eat I am keep up and they were afraid he would need so he said I can't believe that sadik like you should even think of not eating when you have to eat and he writes I remember when my father up son Belzer was sick before Yom kippa we was worried what can it be is he gonna eat I mean as I caught this Canadian keep him and he surprised I saw when right after college he went out to eat and he writes and I quote we never saw a simcha on our father's face like that moment besides paced her by night when he ate matzah and when he shook down of miniman sukis so the three highlights of his year was pesach understandably meaning that's an Evidence but he's happy with Russian Hashem in the same place he told someone to eat and the fella was hemming and hoeing and saying so he says I smell epic courses here now this is very uncharacteristic of the very gentle Aid lifestyle Miss almond and the person was taken aback you smell happy curses like what do you mean because tomorrow says in sanhed inside and you're not listening to me that's Happy courses I think it set to fellow straight but the point is that people that have to eat and they feel bad about it and guilty it's not good with it's not good gosh means so we have to make the point clear when we when a person has to eat he should do it and you could even say aside from best perspective it's all the same it's rasan Hashem now we have to apply this Lamesa so first of all I'll tell you an interesting Shyla which comes up in many forms let's say a person has a suffix maybe the love doesn't know because there's no doctor around maybe the koyla is home and there's no rough to ask you can't call there's no doctor to consult he has a Suffic if it's because what should he do and he kept him about it obviously so we'll say is of fasting and the rise of a high bun in the beginning if you have a suffix and you can't be my varied you have to eat because is a higher Notch then even the Mitzvah of fasting and yamkip the big question which is really negated for the rest of this year is how do we understand this new mitzvah of eating on Yom Kippur or the the of not fasting on Yom KIPP and I'll tell you two possible explanations and we'll soon see the rest of the shares in afghamine on a simple level we could understand that la maisa Ela may be like a cotton when you give a five-year-old to eat we don't say oh you supposed to fast on a cotton okay when he gets of age shouldn't fast the whole day I'm not gonna get into that now but then a young cotton there's no mitzvah or maybe what do you mean a cotton is not not old enough this is suspended if he has to eat so Yom Kipper is suspended if we learn that it's it's suspended so then we'll try to use any currents to minimize will lead a small amount we'll space it out and maybe we'll say this food try to avoid take a food that's not so tasty if it's maybe we have an easier shot to call today it's not yam Kipper for you you're Mr to eat so let me tell you that this is not the flourishing gimora kamat but let's see what we find increases your gimmel the gamara speaks about a common scenario in those days it's something it's called a boom it's something like we say a crave expecting woman has a crave for certain food and Hamas was a trade for food and the truth is if she doesn't have the food it could bring to real Danger foreign first try to give her a small amount if it doesn't work and she's still in danger and it's intensifying the danger give her the full amount just get her out of suck on what do we see from this camera we see a concept we're going to use a lot today which is called some called I don't mean I mean amount of of what they eat that when someone is a mubaris that has a crave try giving a small amount because less than the sheer is not the felism the Kimora says in um but it's not a full ship it's like a definition so if you could reduce the amount of food she eats you definitely accomplishing something that's regarding a mubaris that has a crave we also find a similar concept of bulmas but there is don't give him a bigger sir give him a smallest table and available give him the give him an available try to minimize the severity of the is if we see two presidents regarding mubaris that we try to minimize the is why can we apply that to our case he's animal bears he's a man a grown man but he's very sick maybe we should give him small amounts parkes what's my source Yuma Island increases your Gimbal and indeed the rush in Yuma has gimmel the Magnum a person that's sick or mubaris give them if it works you're lucky if let's say they need more I've had to give them more but if Parker is Parker suffices give them a small amount we'll soon see the exact details of what part is the point is it seems that it's not hot do what you want no tyness it's the latitis if you could suffice with small amounts that is not a violation of Yom Kippur what is it a violation of um that's a much less severe is you did a very good service to yourself foreign a healthy woman that got a crave the dangers not yet but if she doesn't get that food she'll be in a great danger but right now she's a healthy woman what's the head to to give a healthy woman tarfism come to Danger okay so try to prevent the problem by giving up if it doesn't work so then she's in danger but right now there's no foreign you give him everything he needs even more than to marriage that is a nickel he added from different angle the Riff and the rambam don't mention and if it's found in river and he says mom is the same your side when someone's a coiler now if you're trying to prevent the problem then you go with Parker's pockets and he quotes there the Morgan Abram writes will soon see that ayolades on Yom Kippur who has to eat at first three days yes so you have to treat him and she's allowed to eat without eat a regular amount now a lot has been written about this you could imagine and there's a beautiful stickle in the uh of the of seven this is but La maisa we have a big agenda but I could say that Dominica Olam is not like like the heart sweetest rides one of the problems is that foreign foreign you give him the full amount so now we see could be was convinced that is we see it is not a pure it's probably try to minimize the severity of the Islam and hopefully it will work so now to apply this I'll tell you one interesting show that has pretty often sometimes a person doesn't have the idiom Kipper but he has to drink it's a kidney problem dehydration do we say once he's drinking let him eat it ready he's not fasting has to show them now we see it's only ahead to what he needs and as the elf ham again beginning of you you guys points out if he has to eat but not drink only eat if he has to drink and not eat only drink just like no one thinks a lot of wear leather shoes it's what you need if he needs drink drink eat both both and certainly if he suffice with apocry's pockets then that's what we try to do next question is a more tricky question a person and he ate whether it's whatever whatever the Rob said now in the afternoon he's feeling much better and that's you know you're pretty good you can make it till tonight is he allowed to continue eating because I'm not fasting anyhow might as well uh you know eat the rest of the day is this very Shyla and he says that even though the mice is no longer because he ate already but there's no happy to eat it's Yom kippa in other words it's not oystium Kipper for the factory is that awesome because you already ate and he writes he admits that this is a tricky question because you have to know what he still needs maybe now he's till now he needed a big amount maybe now he suffice with so as the day goes on he has to ask himself two questions number one does he still need to eat at all and if he does need maybe it's enough now of course nerve and anxiety is never good especially in kippa but to be Allah quotes this and see us to figure out when he's allowed to continue eating and a doctor or an Australia knows his own condition is more trustworthy than the doctor so do what he thinks is right now there is one time is that once you ate you gotta eat the whole day which will you all know and that's the unusual tiniest sure we eat the whole day because there's a different type of tiredness and once you ate you eat a whole day the next question I saw this and he says that has to eat he's talking about actually we'll soon see the two of us talking about a your lettuce that must eat but you shouldn't be sucking candies on Yom kippa or eating Stam Nash that's not necessary very brief instrument if you look in the involves Zion or actually in the ascamata breeze where the two was written reasons that even if we all you have to eat as much as he needs but candy is not helping his condition so he's making a new Allah it's the amount of food and what type of food and he doesn't need as he calls it foods that are just for tainook that is no Hector the person could be eating all day regularly he writes but not candies I don't understand it if you're eating a whole day why is candy different and he even throws in a Gamora and Yuma pay gimmel that lemaistic sweets are satisfying but the my substance and he says that if the person needs food he needs food a whole day does it have to for food but candy that are just you know good thing for cavities but nothing as far as the nutrition of the person was never because so that's an important point where he says purely for the sweets of it should be avoided on Yom Kippur now this is very clear that La maisa even that's eating and if he's eating and he needs more than a share but there it's not always now this will help us with a more common childhood which people always ask I have to person has to eat should he have leftover challah from Ervin KIPP a freshly baked ham and a nice hot chocolate and a nice portion of food or take holla from the freezer left over from the drive it is the better it is and water instead of server of a hot coffee whatever it is should he try to minimize in the quality of food till now we spoke about the quantity the amount is there Allah to minimize take just the raw vegetables and tuna with our mayonnaise whatever it is he'll get the nutrition I'll be as healthy but he won't enjoy the soothing so this is a tricky question because here we see quality does that a factor so the MS is you might say well wait a minute Yom Kippur is not stambayontiff the Mr Safety says it's the biggest yantive of the year in fact we don't make kiddish on when a person eats he doesn't make his Jam keep up but in the benching if he has to eat bread we may we say Alivia but Mr Brewer said at the end of our Simon plus don't forget when a person eats a meal that he enjoys so he's more satisfied it hits the spot like they say if he's gonna eat dry bread and vegetables he's gonna have to eat more so maybe you're better off a satisfying meal again true if he only needs liquid dehydration there's no head to eat food at all because he doesn't need food but once he's eating he needs both eating and drinking so can you forget him as soon as or maybe pass it twice use the terminally so maybe take dry bread and tuna as is but that's not true because the game already says in Yuma I invalid and roast that's not title there's some Cipher it should be required reading in the dresses because subscribations he says that the first Yom Kippur is not an inner of the goof any line is the whole theme is and that's why we fast he says firstly I'm Keepers like in the 40 days if you could say this he quotes the person is and we go without shoes and we have actors and we stand and if he saw this he says if someone is to to not to wear any type of food covering and he walks over stones and he has inoy is so it's really hard to know maybe that applies to our food as well and the Emma says it could be Italian if you hold that it's hutra there's no there's nothing so if I get him a good meal if it's only hot so maybe just like you minimize in the amount of food maybe minimize in the quality of the food and indeed the sheet of the mood they are in similarities cotton tests he quotes regarding a different context when someone is forced to do an aveira look at the anamu at this and prefer that better than I'm a robot to minimize in the quality of the food and he says that's in quiet in quantity but in the quality of the food we don't find anybody that says this they should have said meal now you might ask if your members still from Tish above known seed cotton hayrides if someone is a cotton is talking about who has stayed on Tish above let him only and not to have fancy foods so we see cotton he has to eat just mild Foods very Bland Foods so why we saw Michael on him keep up there it's very Posh it's not a theorem why is the mystery required he says that is so don't don't just you have to be part of it foreign and find out which foods are high in calories because again if you eat foods that have a lot of calories it satisfies more and it lasts longer now you worry about calories that's the diet that's after him the high calorie foods so you have to you could end up person could end up eating less so that's a big Mile and there are certain foods that are high calories they get more sustenance so you can end up minimizing the quantity of the food so again the only thing that I see is candies of salmon salmon has this new hagdora that's not necessary but any foods once it's smuta a person can have a hot coffee instead of having a cup of water and that's fine now La Mesa it's interesting because I'm sorry for that I mentioned earlier by the Clary epidemic involved he says if a person has to eat even if he doesn't go to school coffee without sugar without milk and if possible regarding and it requires you to have coffee without the sugar if that is theory on our conclusion obviously not he was talking again about the calorie epidemic that the people were for as that is they were fine they were worried that even if he stays home it's going to deteriorate and they're going to become oh right now he's okay what's happen to eat it's only a preempting the problem so then there's no big head to then you try to minimize but if someone now is Alma points this out of Starbucks talking about that now he's okay but the cause of the day will deteriorate so now preempted but stick with less quality food regarding a mubaris that's afraid that the day as day goes on shall need to eat so she's allowed to eat now then we apply for some soyuz you saw it if now she's okay it's just a question of what's going to be later so take it but minimize in the quality of the food now another question that safer seems to hold in cool future and someone has to eat food and it's possible to be plaguing in the food add some soap and today's soap is kosher a person could eat it so they say that that's a you know pretty bad muscle because people throw off from eating soap but make the food pogum so this you make the if I'm a regular healer obviously you shouldn't have food that's as tasty but the minute is not like the South Cipher and like all the parts that I mentioned say we don't pass like that Cipher and it's the ointment shows some other places that say that if a person is the person will be appalled by it it won't even help so basically we could say that there's a person that to try to eat the quality could be regular quality food except for candies and things that are totally unnecessary an interesting criticus I did see the famous two of them is that he says that I am kippa if someone drinks only water there's no because water is the one food that has no nutritional benefit and that's why if you don't enjoy the water there's no broker and annoy them in the drink to bring water and according to most place give a person only drank water he's not counted into the zemon because water's not a regular food so he takes that to the other extreme look cooler that a water onion Kip is not the cliff chorus no doubt about it according to Allah if someone has to drink for the dehydration dafka take water because not even colors that's a real cow cow but all the price game strongly object to this Katana is better than an inoy and water provide what takes away from the enoi so we're back to square one that water and other Massacre are one and the same so a person might will have a satisfying drink they'll probably give them more calories and more satisfaction in the long run he'll be ahead as far as the amount that he has to eat a beautiful art that I wanted to share with you the gray series gimmo gamura he could eat now there's a pillow because as we I hope is very clear is not a heter it's a homero it's not um anytime you want if someone is we try to give him if it works is the thing foreign and if he leaves it go it's gonna get worse foreign this person is faced with a decision if he just ignores his condition now what's gonna happen he's gonna get sick of what's gonna have to be he's gonna have to eat a full amount if he preempts the brown by it by by having he'll be okay so now he has a choice maybe it's better to start with and it's not a regular hello that's stable it's deteriorating he writes nefarious so therefore maybe it's better to Target and avoid the eventuality of being happy to eat more than the so that and only there is where the Phoenix was Michael and you look in the lotion it's very mad it says this chat what I found really gishmak the priscuit that I mentioned earlier and that's he says his father is famous his side and he says my father's what does he mean but listen to this is talking about a person now but it's getting worse then and only then because now he doesn't have an ID card but he's progressing but let's say now is he shows his eyes IDs no dinner is only time that we say is free to eat as much as he wants same idea if right now he's okay but he's gonna end up having to eat a lot preemptive problem and avoid the problem now this will lead to the next question the hope is obvious some are now is not feeling well he could make it a few hours but then he's going to be very smart and have to eat a full amount now but right now he's the aimed by Sakana know that about it but later he'll be a yes wait till later and the person with elephant and if he has to level he'll have to eat or maybe he knows he's going to later have to eat so start podcast and he won't have to come to eating a full amount so the truth is what do you mean what is your status what is the status now anybody Sakana is not a heter it's a home run so you can't he can't use the hector now so what should he do wait but then again they'll be able to avoid eating a full share I hope this question sounds familiar because according to the way it is and although the mice you might say tactically he is fine why what's the happening but the truth is not fine because the regular person that saying by Sakana and the day goes by he'll make it he doesn't have to fail he doesn't have to eat regularly go all day this person has something wrong with him that's growing so there's something wrong with him now and the mice he could prevent eating a yeast eating a yes by sheer and taka the tits elieza in Paris is if by eating now he will avoid a full-fledged that's inevitable and keep it down to a minimum and he adds something that I found absolutely fascinating even though as we'll soon see the details If someone knows that if he fast on sale godalia he could fast the whole day but he's going to be very will have to eat is that we tell him According to some sheet this that La maisa he has the first termidalia so what can you do so you see don't think ahead it's like a Muslim as almond no no there tell me that is what we have now but here it's the same you want to do the best that you could do isn't it smarter to start Parker's pockets and avoid the full amount the way he thought of everything that this is one Yom Kippur now there's already a stickler tour foreign and avoid the eventuality of eating the full amount I hope you'll find this as a smack as I did with the shaver it was the asthma Soldier because during the War I was on the front lines and it's healthier obviously but being exposed to the sun after middays and after eat because of the condition eat or drink if he drinks now he could just keep it to Pakistan he could hide with his body all day but if he waits till when he feel he needs it he'll have to drink a lot what should he do something to drink now he's perfectly healthy he's a soldier must be strong as an ox but he's like later so he says now this seems to be Mama absolutely said till now but it's not at all because this person is not even like that has something brewing in him he's gazunt but it's going to be hours later because of the condition now he has no hit them and he throws in the talking Factor also but it's fundamentally different there's nothing wrong with the soldier now there's no head to justify ing has a similar or a 36. it's also about soldiers and they have to drink water can they add some flavoring to the water because it's high the water and the touch in the front lines is not as hey it must be full of dirt whatever he says if they will be satisfied with water as is without the without the mitts without the juice only to drink plain water what's the husband same thing this man's a soldier he's a gesund as can be the fact the lady he's worried about a condition later there's no head to for now so now we're back to Carl cow and drink water that's not so tasty but those are the exceptions the bullmist ravazness where the person is healthy there's nothing brewing in him that's wrong butcher said that right now is aimed by sakanum if by taking his pockets now he'll avoid taking the full Shear that is to correct course of action I'll tell you another beautiful knife according to most poised him please don't misquote me I'm not saying all places but most place can feel that on a regular Tinus even of Tish above there's no dinner party now again I'm not saying all the green but on a regular basis pockets regarding a hilarious epidemic on Tish above and he calls episc to avoid eating a full amount foreign the epidemic was nothing wrong with the person then it was by by waiting a whole day exposing yourself to other germs he might contract or contact this this sickness but right now the person was good so then even until there's no hesitate now what she had to now is there's nothing wrong with him did the day will go by and he might get some germs oh that's an eventuality there's no head to fall so that's the exception not the norm now we could appreciate the psychology what I mentioned earlier a very challenging question a person who is weak by Constitution and could Fast Sam gedalia but yeah but you won't be able to fast City first now and later will be an oil giving up Yom Kippur so the Emma says if someone says you have a Mitzvah now too fast you have no tour how could you eat and that makes a lot of sense and muchacha has this very sack but the minute but it is a better course of action what's the head in severity he's not he's not a perfect body Claus is and Yom Kippur this person can't do both there's something wrong with him it's not an eventuality now he's exposed to the Sun the whole day there's something wrong with him so maybe that's enough but it's not enough and that's why the police can say skip semi Medallion and better fast on Yom KIPP instant question regarding or you let this if the child's birth what's the course of action so this is very clear in the end of tough race you Italian three days of childbirth is a Bonafide yes and must eat if she doesn't want to eat you're forced out to eat but here we see an interesting twist if she doesn't want to eat fossa but before you forces now very interesting the first three days and Tak I mentioned earlier the native quotes and disagreed uh first three days quotes it and the husband obviously is that if she feels she doesn't need it then why not do she says she's screaming he doesn't need it and the usually knows foreign but here's the question that's very negative a woman had a baby she doesn't know does she need it right now I feel okay I know what's gonna be late I don't know she says whatever you tell me do I'll do full amount so hear the charity says if she says I don't want so give up for sir but Pockets if he says nothing she says nothing but since the El yaraba argues on the homework and of RAM and holds you never eat this and we added that was you know because it's hot or at least when she says I don't want to eat but if she doesn't know then give a regular so it's interesting but says the best thing is he has the doctor she doesn't know doctor she doesn't need it so give up but one thing I want to be clear a woman should not fast at best or worse I know the right word is but not the fast the first three days you appreciate a different question that's also part of our studio a person typically starts getting a headache you know he doesn't have caffeine the whole day could he take a Tylenol onion Kip so the truth is on a regular Tinus a towel is not a problem but because there's no Shyla it's not an oil and there's no it's a referral on a tightness but Yom Kippur first of all some say even any any ingesting of anything is a problem but more concerned obvious concern is Yom KIPP is like Shabbos there's an Issa of refor so just like unshabbas we don't take pain relief so why is your Kipper any different now I want to be very very clear there is no isto on Shabbos of taking antibiotics or medicine there is one is so on Shabbos and that is pain relief headaches away is a toothache if someone's taking medicine to maintain his heart or blood pressure whatever it is then take it on shop and take it in kit but no doubt about it the only is which is misleading before is that reform is pain relief I'm talking am I talking about hot pills and blood pressure pills or whatever person needs if emotional problems without the medicine I'm talking about a headache a toothache whatever maybe so basically one should not take these pain relief on Yom kippa if it's a headache that is debilitating and he really would jump in the bed but to guess the diving but he's basically incapacitated then on Shabbos there's no Issa before because he's not for the Mishka and him will be the same so if someone feels he cannot function but he has to function so they have to take a Tylenol is to be full one and we don't treat it as an oil in such a case the problem is that he can't swallow he can't take without swallowing with a little bit water now the truth is a person that could learn a black gemara could figure out how to swallow it without water well but then again we don't want him to choke on you I'm keep up and he said I'm going to choke I can't do it so it's a problem because when you say a little bit water the gamara says in Yuma is [Music] not only it's a little bit so yeah talk about it so they're awesome so la maisa that's why the police can say that if the the pill is taken for a joyless by Sakana he has a heart condition he has a whatever it is and yes take medicine so maybe you commit sorry if the fact that he has a status he has his economy so even eating his mother so this little bit of water but it's time for a person that's taking pain relief it's kadai in this case to try as hard as it hot as he can to get the pill down if he really feels he can't do without water then we should really be putting him the water now the police can say to put a little soap in them I'm worried about that eight so if it's practical person might get nauseousness you know having water with soap Rabbi Yasha was always practical he said take the pill and crush the pill into the water so that the bitterness of the pill will take away the pleasant flavor of the water and hope that it's considered program and then drink that water to get down the pill two points I wanted to mention and one of course is important as far as what does it means so I'm going to be very practical because it's important to know this The sheeranium Kipper is not a kazayas or quebe it's a ques that's a little less than a Cabello but it's more than a kazarius so to make a very long story short when it comes to benching or eating or Mitzvah Zamata the like since it's such a Big Mac like is we always take the biggest share and especially you know if people like amitsu to eat so you'll eat a lot of matzah wonderful no problem take the biggest share when it comes to Yom Kippur we're trying to make it we try to take the smallest year so without getting into the details the party skin came to the conclusion that there is a share of that's definitely the holidays and that is the volume of a typical snaps cup the Disposable schnapps cup that's an ounce and that this place is announced so food that fits into that schnapps cup is definitely parka is the holidays now you might say it then maybe a little more I know that but the holiday is that in Old opinions the volume of food that fits into a snap scrub is definitely less than this year so someone knows yes we have a homework to do take bread or challah whatever your steak whatever you like and put into the make sure that it's more on that and make a whole bag of them and make 50 of them and if you take fluffy color you could fluff you could squeeze it in because it's volume not weight and make pockets and when he needs it he will eat that yeah how many minutes is also the same question if the share range is from two and a half minutes to nine minutes some safety says nine minutes might be there Maisha was shocked about that but if I said it we should be Mahmoud so you take a piece of color whatever is a steak whatever you like wait nine minutes another piece as long as you could do it now I know it's a small amount and sometimes doesn't work so then you go back to the look drink again without the details is one and a third ounce of liquid is typically but basically take that amount wait nine minutes and go right if someone said I can't wait nine minutes he has to eat more so four minutes is definitely because like many sheets but we are trying nine minutes and space it out and make more you're allowed to eat and drink in the same time because it could take a piece of challah and a drink and wait nine minutes I'm on their Silo which I think is the midst of the far Sim he asked a reliable doctor what the condition is doing okay but he had to go you want to know about him so yes is that doctor says fasting is dangerous don't you dare fast okay the next day and I kid you not the next day he had to go under he had to undergo a test and these tests have to take an empty stomach so the doctor scheduled it for 1 30 in the afternoon he's a little offended you know why wait I have to fast to 130. he went to the office taxi we have a delay maybe 3 30. he goes doctor I'm fasting because there's nothing wrong of you fast the next day Toyota so you have to ask a doctor that's trustworthy but hopefully it's uh the eating which is ah next week Sunday there will be a share of circus from A Smith 10 o'clock I believe that after the college was supposed to say sikram of today's year even those could be shorter than this year it's not going to be POTUS because she is going to be the same culture as the Sheikh same question okay we're going to give a catfish here now the briefly what we learned today first of all the importance of Italian should never be uh you know we should never underestimate that their leaves are the tiniest besides the yes by Currys and the assay but it's part of the ICA part of the capara and people have to be you have the foresight to make sure that they watch themselves the days before whether it's exerting themselves older people specially but make sure that Tinus works and if need be as the husafer writes and all the boys may agree it's better to stay in better whole day and not diving so much and not go to school but the first has to be done help the wives That's a good item Miss davening but people should try to fast that's the top priority but equally perhaps more important is the Mitzvah of all mits is they not only don't have to be mad Allah I forgot to mention even if you hold you'll have to be my synthesis for other s we shine him that's only because Hashem to be suicidal it's considered suicide and if a person eats he should do it so he has the midst of eating and the myths of Allah says Mitzvah of fasting and of course it's Hollis and syphilis to think you need to take a power of what he ate we're a soldier we we have to be about nephesh about nephesh is types he's a bailam on his nephe she's control of his first I fastest it's only rain on through the rain at us and Hashem that's a semen but eating is definitely not a simulator any Suffolk and he can't clarify it by a doctor is then avoid giving a big amount the truth is if you see today we learned it's a very small amount in nine minutes sometimes it's not satisfying if you can't then give them a full amount but basically we try to do because the whole it's not a cross the board hocher hayamshita grada is used as a sniff in other situations but basically we follow the rock that we try if a person needs to drink but no need to eat if I don't know how to eat it's not once I'm fat I'm eating so um it's only what's needed and as day goes on a person has to really praise the situation what's necessary if he ate and now he's out of Sakana so stop eating candies is one exception that a person should avoid even if he eats regularly but the food itself could be regular quality maybe and basically the food should be the same and again if it's satisfying then probably he will be able to make a way with less a you don't have to be part of the food that's certain if a person needs liquid there's no we need to have dafka water if I get a good drink might fill them up and give them all kayak to go on if the only time that we say to try to minimize was based on some safer regarding an epidemic where now he's healthy or a soldier that's perfectly healthy it's preventing a potential problem which is now non-existent then we try to park his pockets and we try certainly even to minimize the time that if now he's anybody Sakana but it's going to progress into a real need then we say take Pockets Pockets now and that's the the consensus of play scheme better take parties now and not have to come on to a full amount so was the says a soldier who now is perfectly healthy there's no head to the party so then when he gets to the problem he'll have to deal with it then you'll let this the first three days is not allowed to fast if she if she feels she needs food then Gesundheit as regularly eat regularly if she asks and I do not need to eat then give up if she says nothing the meaning is to give her what she needs based on the doctor if basically the medicine pain relief is the problem if a person is incapacitated he could take without water fantastic water to swear yes and basically an ounce a snaps cup which is a volume of an ounce that's an oil one and a third ounces of Steel weight preferable nine minutes and ask the right doctor to know what to do okay