EARN $50 with RABBI YARON REUVEN - “STUMP THE RABBI”

[Music] for everybody it's the of P 5779 year 2019 the we have a very uh special sh today this week was actually supposed to be our uh vacation but uh because we have some some visitors uh from out of town we have some new people that wanted to come to the sh and also because we have to always thank AEM thank for the endless amount of that he does with us couldn't go a week without a so today is also part of a for all the Miracles that he does for us I'll tell you one of the stories later today theem if not two or three or five because there's a lot of amazing stories that uh just press the red button uh there's an enormous amount of uh miraculous stories that we experience on a weekly basis I always tell people if you ever have a downtime you need some as far as just ask for a story you'll get it because there's an endless amount also this will be for fori May give [Music] also for to aavid benri Doris Bora my dear Mother for Ben um Mercedes anybody else and all of anybody so we thought today that uh I mean there's a lot of interesting things to talk about but really I was uh more interested in talking about what you want to talk about so uh we have a uh interesting just to try to get you guys motivated to ask questions usually I have uh questions and answers I tell people okay ask questions whatever you want and as soon as I say that and the camera goes on nobody ask questions the camera goes off everybody has 5,000 questions so that's usually how it works so today to try to motivate you actually ask questions while the camera is on so other people can benefit from your questions anybody that asks a question that uh I don't have an answer for uh is going to get 50 bucks now uh even if you're rich you should still take it because it's a uh part of the part of the whole thing now uh if you ask so many questions and uh I don't have theay to answer your questions to the point that I run out of money then I'll just send you a check or something I'll send you a PayPal uh but uh I want to motivate you guys to to ask questions also one way or another I want to give somebody something so you guys realize it's serious so even if let's say for example nobody asks a question uh that perhaps is not in front of me uh then uh and perhaps who has mercy on me and I know all the answers or he gives me all the answers then I'm still going to give $50 to one person that is going to ask the best question of the night how do we know what's the best question of the night you guys vote for it you vote what's the best question of the night which means you have to stay till the end when's the end the end is whenever you run out of uh energy anyone that knows me and has been coming to my for the last few years they know that I have a little bit when it comes to we can go for a little while so we have actually in next few months actually in a next few months in a month and a half we have a sh it's a night that we do a the whole night we start usually around 10:00 11 o' we go all the way till 7 o'clock in the morning Straight No Breaks questions answers stories whatever you want so anyone that doesn't live in town should it's worth it to come to town just to come to the Sho we do the same thing Ona but if you guys only want to do it for a short period of time we'll do for a short period of time whatever it is whatever you want the key is for you guys to leave here with something to take home meaning ask questions that are actually going to change your life ask questions that are actually going to do something for you don't ask me how many stars are in the sky according to the Torah I can tell you the answer it's one 6434 Z and then 12 zeros after it but that's not going to change your life what's going to change your life is how do I know the answer that can change your life that could change your life but the question is they can ask me a question uh you know what's going to happen when the mashiah comes I can tell you sir answers but the question is why are you asking ask questions are going to give you some some type of motivation to get closer to a motivation to do something more than what you're already doing now if you keep Shabbat now then keep Shabbat even better if you're learning 15 minutes a day now then learn 20 minutes 30 minutes a half hour a day an hour a day if you're not keeping Shabbat then start keeping Shabbat if you're not keeping then keep if you're not keep n then start keep the point is ask the question that are relevant to something that you're having a difficulty don't ask me questions that don't really mean anything to you and definitely don't ask me questions if you already know the answer don't test me I'm not interested in being tested this is not school okay if you know the answer don't ask the question ask the question if you don't know the answer why because I'm not interested in being tested I'm interested in helping people so without further Ado you guys start start with people that have never asked a question meaning if you've been in my before and you've asked questions don't ask the questions first let everybody else go first because you guys already know a little bit so let's start with the back over there no who wants to volunteer first question 50 Buck $50 opportunity became quiet as soon as something happened no come on don't worry I don't I don't bite I just answer just words okay she's asking why do we eat koser why do we eat koser okay that's a Fant itic question it's a very good question so the question is really even bigger than that question is why do we even do why what what doesm really need us to do mitvah you can ask the same question about Shabbat you could ask the same question about you could ask the same question about really anything why do we do anything because the answer to all of them is the same the answer is the basic shortest possible answer is at the end of a the last chapter which says because hasem said so that's really the reason that's it that's the real reason now there's more details to that though there's more details to that the real reason is what I just said because if hasem is God that means he's the king the king doesn't have to explain himself to us now if you go for example if you have a government a democratic government people vote they can vote the guy in they can vote the guy out meaning that people have a say but once the guy is already in he doesn't have to answer to everything why because that's the point of being in power let's say a president but if it's a king if let's say there's certain countes still in Africa and different parts of the world that still have Kings Kings don't have votes they become king because of their lineage because of who their father is and once they become king that's it you can't say oh I don't like you anymore you killed my cousin that was really a nice guy because he did something bad you can't do that why once the king is the king there's no more questions and answers he can answer if he wants but he doesn't have to he doesn't owe anybody any what we call any accounting for anything that he does that's the point of being a king and that's the king of Flesh and Blood now the King of Kings even more so he is perfect he actually doesn't even need us with or without us he's perfect the only reason why he created us is because he is the ultimate the epitome of good and good is defined by something that does good you can't say I'm a good person if you hurt everybody you meet you can't say I'm a good person if all you do is bad you can't say I'm a good person if you're a very selfish person and the only thing that you do good is to yourself that's not a good person good person is somebody that does good for others that's what defines good is the epitome of good he's the ultimate good and therefore he decided to create Us in order to give us good but at the same token because of his wisdom he knew that to just give us good without the opposite would make no sense because then the whole world would have no purpose we wouldn't know what's the difference between good and something else so he had to give us a world where we have both options good and bad so the good he wants to give us according to if we follow a set of rules that he created bad he gives us is if we violate those rules why because even though us violating the rules doesn't change his status he's still the king he's still perfect he's still everything by us violating the rules we put him in a situation where he is now forbidden by his own rules to give us good so the only reason why he created us is because he wants to give us good by us doing something bad we in essence stop him from doing what he really wants to do so that's the punishment is not necessarily for this sin itself or for us doing something against him it's for us going against the rule book because now he can't fulfill his will and his will is to give us good he can't give us good if we're constantly doing stuff that's bad so with all that being said he gave us specific rules for example he wanted us to feel a little bit like him how he felt on the seventh day of the week by him stopping creating he created the world in six days and he stopped creating on the seventh he said you cannot as a human being you can't create anything you can innovate but you can't create we as human beings cannot create something out of nothing we could innovate something that already exists so a human baby for example doesn't come from nothing there's a seed and there's an egg so even all of these scientists that tell you oh yeah but we got a uh a little sheep from a test tube and it came from nothing yeah but that sheep came from a seed and an egg didn't come from nothing same thing with anything else in the world nobody created the phone automatically those first person discovered techn electricity then he discovered how to how to how to minimize and put electricity in a small little battery and how then he discovered how to actually take that energy and put it into something else and so on and so forth so the point is is that we took everything that existed and we innovated he creates he's the only one that can create from nothing he created for six days but on the seventh day he stopped creating because he wanted us to have something in common with him as his children because we could also stop creating technically we can't create but we could in essence feel like we are not trying to create even so therefore he started Shabbat he said Shabbat is a day that you don't create and I don't create therefore you're going to feel like mamash my son or my daughter now when we violate Shabbat we drive on Shabbat we play our phone on Shabbat we go on a computer on Shabbat we light fire on Shabbat in essence we are creating something even though it's Innovation we're creating something that didn't exist before we're innovating something let's say for example a uh the the coal that's there and then we take a match to it and we light fire now even though the fire is not a new creation and since we've gave birth to something new Hashem says you are defeating the purpose of the creation because I created this whole Shabbat just for you I didn't create it for me I created it for you but you violating it you're you're going against the entire purpose of creation same concept when it goes comes to kosher said to us I want you to understand that everything that you're going to eat whether it's ice cream or it's a donkey or it's a kosher hamburger or it's candy everything that you eat is going to have one of two options one it'll turn into blood two it'll turn into waste those are the only two options I mean technically you could throw it up before it goes anywhere but that's not really a real option so once something goes into your digestive system doesn't matter what it is if it's a steak if it's ice cream if it's candy if it's Apple everything turns to blood whatever doesn't turn to blood turns into waste so in essence you are what you eat that's not really a it's a real statement you are really what you eat because the blood is really you if a person if somebody Shalom has the blood removed out of their out of their body they can no longer live because the blood has part of the soul in it so in essence everything that you eat becomes you and says I want you to be as close to me as possible which means that you have to take care of this that you have this soul that you have you have to keep keep it pure the only way to do that is by eating things that are pure things that are within the guidelines that I gave you within the rule book that I gave you if you eat something pure then it'll turn into pure blood if you eat something impure then it will turn into impure blood Now by Vision you can't tell why because we don't have the ability to see it we just see blood we just see red you can't with the naked eye you can't even see white blood cells even though we know they're white blood cells we can't see white there's no like white blood somewhere in your in your body we just see blood even though we know it's white blood cells and you need them because if you don't have them you can't fight disease still it all looks red so with our eyes we're limited but is not limited so he says that blood if it came from pork if it came from a cheeseburger if it came from AA some type of non kosher animal that blood is impure you've imp purified your he says you became impure because because of it and the hint of what it causes to us that we can see other than a sin against hem is the sages say and you became imp purified by It also says you became stupified you became spiritually stupid as a result of eating non kosher food what does spiritually stupid mean it doesn't mean that you can't build buildings you can build buildings there's no problem has nothing to do with spirit uality doesn't mean that you can't fly a plane you can there's no problem plenty of people eat non kosher and they fly planes with no problem but what does it mean it means that when it comes to spirituality when it comes to Torah you're going to have almost an impossible time understanding the deep meaning of what's being said why because the soul is impure it has almost like a border or some type of a wall on it as a result of the food so there always going to be a pure part of it because that's that's a part of AEM there's always a pure part of it but the impurity causes some type of friction what is it like it's like for example if you uh let's say for example you want to feel what your skin feels like you just want to feel what your skin feels like you want to see around you you want to see maybe you got burned maybe somebody bit you something you don't know what's going on but you have a jacket you have a jacket on like this you have three layers on you're not really going to feel what's happening you're gonna get a a sense of it that your finger is touching your arm but you're not really going to know for sure what's really Under the Skin until when until the jacket goes off and and the shirt goes off and so on and once you touch skin to skin that's when you're truly going to understand what actually happened here same concept goes with impure food when you eat impure food you could still listen to and get a basic understanding of what's being said but to truly accept it and to truly connect to it is impossible as long as you eat non koser food decent answer okay next question free same price how you have like five questions I know I see it when you take you take eggs from a mother eggs from a mother why do you do it why do you take the eggs from the motherb bird okay there's aah of there's aah and this is one of the it's a fantastic question because this is one of the that the say that hasem actually didn't give us what's he didn't give us a taste of the reasoning behind it because technically the reason for all of the mitv is because hem said so but still we see that there are certain benefits of doing them like for example Shabbat you have a vacation you have a time to connect to Hashem you have a time to learn you have a time to you know feel like AEM kosher technically it's healthier technically it's better for your and so on and so forth when is Family Purity you know you separate from your wife for half the month that actually makes the marriage better believe it or not uh when the separation when you have things with you use things with tact meaning if you eat chocolate non-stop one after another one after another one after another eventually you're going to get sick of chocolate and you're not going to want to even talk about chocolate because if you ate chocolate breakfast lunch and dinner even if it's your favorite food you ate a breakfast lunch and dinner for three weeks straight guess what after three weeks you don't even want to talk about chocolate I say chocolate in the shoe you start throwing up why because you ate so much chocolate for three weeks straight maybe in some cases three months straight but the point is too much is no good same thing with intimacy between a man and his wife too much is no good that's why for example in the secular World world you see that the divorce rate is over 80% in the western world and in some places like Colorado it's over 92% divorce rate meaning that there's over a 90% chance of every marriage in Western Society breaking up breaking up when within five years what's the point of getting married then 90% chance of of failure would anybody go on a plane if the pilot says ladies and gentlemen welcome to Jet something we have a 92% chance of crashing good luck like anybody's gonna stay on the plane raise your hand if you're gonna stay on the plane if the pilot says to you is a 90% chance of the plane crashing tell me tell me one tell me somebody one person tell me who's going to St a plane if you're going to if you're going to if the guy says you're going to crash possibly no right even if he says % chance you wouldn't want to stay there so the point is is that a person needs to know that gave for a reason but there are few in the T that he says these the only reason I'm going to give you is because I said so now some people want to say wait a minute maybe AEM is trying to teach us something here that he says take the mother bird's eggs take the mother bird's eggs to do a blessing and then you return them you don't just you return the eggs you sh the mother take the eggs why to see what it feels like to see what it feels like if you take somebody's kid it's not good it's a bad feeling so imagine how Hashem feels when his when his own son is not keeping to that's a nice story right feel you feel you start feeling bad for hem one of his kids is lost for 3,300 years he gave him a to 3,000 years ago till this day he doesn't keep Shabbat till this day he doesn't keep T till this day doesn't keep anything hasem is said why it's his son it's his daughter till this day she's not modest why it's my daughter so makes you feel good makes you feel sad at the same time but say don't say that why it's not the reason it's not the reason what's the reason Hashem said so that's the reason Hashem said so that's the reason that's the only reason for that mitah there another mitah like that called paruma paruma is the red heer the red cow the red cow we had nine in history and uh the red cow is something that we needed in the BET mikdash where anyone that became impure by either touching a dead body of an animal or a dead body of a human being became impure and as a result they had to become purified and the only way to become pure ified is if the one of the kohanim takes the ashes takes the red cow Slaughters it then Burns it up turns it into ashes puts it with a with incense together and then takes the droplets of water and sprinkles it on the impure person and that makes the person pure now what's the difficulty with the red cow the difficulty with the red cow SCH says is that the person that's impure touches the water and becomes pure now but the person that's pure already and sprinkles the water of Purity on an impure person he himself becomes impure we don't know why we can't explain it why because if one person became pure and the other person stayed normal we'd understand that why he's already pure he's he's touching something pure he's making somebody else pure that way our logic can make us understand if it was impure and he was impure and they stayed that way we understand that also but both of them doing the having the opposite effect that's beyond human logic schl who was the wisest man of all time says this is beyond human logic we don't know really the real reason for it how who what when and how this we don't know this is this is bigger than so there are few that are like that but very few less than a handful one of the questions you asked is one of them very good question next question K same price is it harder for men or women to convert uh it uh it's harder as far as if you're talking about physically harder it's harder for a man and I'll explain why if you're talking about spiritually it's irrelevant simply because it depends on the person depends on the person if somebody wants something bad enough they'll do anything for it if they don't then that means that they have limitations for example if you didn't really you wanted to know this answer but you didn't really care about it you wanted to know the answer so if I say it during this year at some point you'd be happy but you didn't really want it bad enough so when I looked at you and I said I ask you want you have a question you'd either not ask a question or you'd ask a a different question meaning you didn't want to know bad enough but obviously you do so that shows that you have this is on a priority priority list of questions you want to know if somebody wants something bad enough they will do more than the normal requirements and needs for something on the other hand physically speaking it is more difficult for men to uh to uh usually forment to convert for a couple of reasons number one many men not all but many men that a non-jewish uh don't have a they don't have a circumcision now a Jewish person that has uh parents that are relatively normal usually has his parents give him a when he's eight days old so whether he wants to he doesn't want to it doesn't make a difference he doesn't really have much of an option and nobody remembers when they were eight days old one time I said in ISU in California one guy said to me yeah I remember I said okay next time you give the SHO I remember when I was 8 days old next time you give the shoe if you remember when you were 8 days old but anyway some people just like attention the uh nobody remembers when they were eight days old and Hashem made it so that way also your body heals very differently when you're eight days old versus when you're eight years old or 80 years old the vitamin K which is the vitamin that is responsible for your blood clotting which means the speed of recovery reaches 130% one day in your life the rest of your life when you're born it's at 90 something percent every day it increases a little bit by the eighth day it's 130% after that and for the rest of the person's life it will continuously decrease it will never be 130% again meaning there's one day in a person's life that it's a superior day for Recovery when is it the e day the one day you need recovery which for the that's why the baby usually stops crying literally within seconds after the and recovers very quickly only the first couple of days it's a little uncomfortable but in general they're relatively quiet have had the Merit to have two for my kids and it's unbelievable unbelievable how the wisdom of a goes into all the small details now when a a adult has a it's very very different and the reason why is because his skin doesn't heal the same way his recovery is not the same way the recovery instead of being three four days it's usually 30 to 40 days and it's extremely painful now I didn't have a as an adult but I have some students that have and it's extremely painful now for most guys you start talking about they already go into pain they don't even know what happened but they already oh hey I already had one don't talk to me about it I already had one long time ago talk to somebody else why because guys we already think oh what it's a very sensitive part of our body so when a guy thinks I'm gonna have to have it can only mean one of two things either he's crazy he's an adult and he's simply crazy or he's extremely passionate about he really wants to be close to he wants to be like so person that does ble me not already that's something different that's a different level that in reality I can tell you the truth unless I knew a lot of Tor or some magic happened if I was 30 40 years old somebody told me listen to be a Jew you have to do I say you know what I'll stay uh whatever I'll stay no hide I'll do something else I'll be a door knob don't give me Brit do me a favor why who wants AIT to touch something else cut my finger if you want an ear hair something else what do you want leave me alone so a person that wants to that means that somebody it's again like I said he's either crazy about craziness or he's crazy about hem it's fantastic that's like I have a student who when he found out about Tora he tried to go to the doctor to get AIT but uh poor guy found out that his insurance doesn't cover it he had some one of these uh garbage insurance plans that didn't want to cover his a uh his uh plan is uh and um he says okay so how much is it to pay for it I really want to be Jewish so the doctor says uh $115,000 now in many other places it's much cheaper but this doctor apparently saw sucker and he wanted to take advantage of him he says it's $15,000 the good news for this student is that he didn't have any money he had $15 to his name so he's missing a little bit so now he's missing 4$ 14,985 out of the 15,000 but he wants to be a Jew today now he didn't know much to he just knew he wanted to be a Jew so he decided I have to have a why I got to the Tor I got to the Book of Genesis I read about I'm how did he do he did it himself now when he told me this I almost passed out because I'm a guy I can visual oh are you serious he did it himself I said after after like I got my senses back I said how how did you do how did you not pass out how did you not die how did you not commit like how how do you do I mean I can understand being passionate in like the first cut or something but after the first cut just take a little needle take a little needle and stab yourself a little needle little needle stab yourself within a second you regret the day you had a needle in your hand why cuz it hurts you imagine a whole is not a simple thing so I said how he tells me the whole process by the way you're not allowed to do it the bed frowns upon it if somebody does it they frown upon it they don't like it why because it's very likely you did it wrong and two it's very likely you're not going to listen to your Rabbi because you're starting to do things on your own it's not good but the point is he didn't know the but Dean asked somebody to does it on their own did you know that you're not allowed to do it that way he didn't know and it's okay but in general if somebody knew and they did it anyway it's a very big problem for them but this guy did it he literally took ice and froze his member and did a breit now just imagine just imagine how much passion a person needs to have I mean it's borderline crazy to do something like that so A woman good news for her she doesn't have to do it unless she wants to become Muslim if she wants to become a Muslim she has to have but Jews we don't have to now so that's already one physical obstacle second thing that's more difficult for a man is that it's a little more expensive for a man to convert because a man has to have certain tools he has to have he have to have AAL he has to have Sido he has to have books to learn to every single day a woman doesn't have to have as much she has to have a whole new wardrobe she has to become modest but that's actually even if she's not Jewish she still has to be modest but even more so if she's if she's a Jew but she doesn't have to buy she doesn't have to buyit so it's a little less expensive for them aside from that a woman is not as is not obligated to learn as much Tor as a man does because a man is obligated to a lot more MIT than a woman does because a woman is naturally much more spiritual than a man a woman does not have to do as much to connect to a as a man does the woman not doing as many mitvah is not looking down on them it's actually looking up at them it's the opposite like feminists think it's it's bad thing no like you know the women of the wall the reformed women of the wall they go they say no we could do the same thing like men we're going to put onine and mini skirts okay well the men don't wear mini skirts but they do wear but why don't you put something long if you're going to put fine on at least put some clothes on too but they don't think like that why because they don't want their own role they want the man's role because they don't realize that it's actually extraordinary to be a woman in Judaism Isel was only freed from Egypt because of righteous women is is only going to get the Messiah because of righteous women not because of righteous men so woman that's righteous that's modest that protects our that connects to Hashem constantly she has a much easier time connecting to hasem deeply she could read a couple of te and already start crying hysterical because of how close she is to Hashem a guy has to do a lot more he has to learn a lot he has to pray a lot he has to dig deeper and deeper and deeper to reach that same standard level that a woman does so with that being said he has a lot more responsibility so for him it is more difficult to get to that level as far as conversion in general women are much easier at the bedine because usually there's noit that's holding them back you could just one they have the knowledge and they've made certain life changes you can take them to the bed they're ready finished you dip in a mik finished a guy has to have a whole process he has to have a if he already had a B when he was a kid we have they have to check the B Mila they have to make sure that he goes to a sh they have to make sure that he's part of a k that he has a rabbi that he's really connected to it's a whole proced it's a whole procedure to make sure that the guy is a Jew why because if the guy is a faker it could create a lot more problems it create a lot more problems I mean a woman that's a faker also creates a lot of problems but a man that's a faker creates a lot of problems so the point is is that there's a procedure but in general as far as a uh overall I would say that uh the real serious converts it doesn't really make a difference if they men or women they both overcome obstacles it's very very difficult but they overcome the obstacles and if eventually they get to the promised land the ones that are not so serious it doesn't matter if they're men or women they never reach the promised land you know they always look for shortcuts sometimes they find a fake shortcut and they go to some reform or conservative Rabbi that'll that'll convert them and their dog uh and uh and go from there but uh point is is that if somebody wants to be a real Jew it's it's it's some difficulty not because of the beding just because of life it's a major life adjustment you have to pretty much uh disconnect from your entire past physically and spiritually you have to uh change your entire lifestyle you have to change where you live you have to change what you do sometimes you have to do a lot of things so it's not so simple but uh whatever we can do to help people we try and I deal with many many converts probably more than most people in the in the world uh simply because I have number one a special place in my heart for them and number two I can relate to them a lot more than most people because we've gone through the process next question yes um okay so what are like some key things you know before like mashia comes what's a key thing that you should really down or a couple as a Jew yeah that would really increase your chances of has the same question you're asking they ask one of the say what's gonna happen when GNA come he says mhia comes he's going to save all of the people they used to be criminals against theem but did CH says what's going to happen to the rest oh the rest is going to destroy them right yeah is going to destroy them what the one that goes and touches a woman that's not his wife destroy him immediately what the one that's eating pork gone what scary scary so so what do we do how's he going to destroy them says the mashia there's going to be two things that destroy people one is a war called go Magog go Magog is like the go called Armageddon the end of the world now at the time this was written almost 2,000 years ago it was UN imaginable how the world can end in a few moments why because weapons that we had back then were Spears so even if you had 10 million people throw their spear against the next Army that's also 10 million people and everybody hits worst case scenario 20 million people died what about the rest of the billion how's the rest of the all going to die meaning it wasn't unimaginable for end of the world scenario to happen in such in moments today every average person that has used technology one day in their life understands how the world can end in a second all somebody needs to do is press the button atomic bombs go once one country sends atomic bombs the enemy country sends atomic bombs to return within moments the world is destroyed so this we already knew from the prophet Zaria who wrote in chapter 14 of Zacharia that at the end of the world the certain things are going to happen and he describ exactly what's going to happen and the way he describes it it's literally the definition of what happens during an atomic war you know melting skin eyes uh you know uh becoming fluid and all types of hideous hideous descriptions of what happens as a result of atomic or biochemical War now so the were asking their rabis say so how do we get protected from this he goes mashiach okay but what's m you said mashia is going to destroy us he goes oh yeah that's the second one how's the mashia going to destroy it says the mashia is going to be able to smell the sins on people whoever did Chua whoever did chuva he's not gonna have to say anything he does have to say oh no I did Chua no no mashia is g to be able to smell whether he has or not meaning whether he has he's a or not whether he's touching women he's not allowed to whether he's protecting his eyes are going to know it just by simply seeing him person that did not do chuva unfortunately joins the rest of the people that go with goog a person that did tells us in this that those people that did chv will be saved by mashia despite the war despite the pain and so on so then next question is your question they say okay so what do we have to do in order to be saved soos answered and he says what does that mean first and foremost you have the Tor first and foros what does Torah mean it says Torah means go learn a Tor see what it says and do it no excuses T says keep Shabbat keep Shabbat T says keep kosher keep kosher t says you have to be modest as a man or a woman be modest as a man or a woman T says you have to do certain things do it as soon as you learn it start doing it it's hard for you try again it's hard for you try again it's hard for you try again try and try and try until you pass just like anything else that's worthwhile in life if somebody wants a really good job and they go apply for that job and they don't get the job if they're a loser what are they going to do go kill themselves oh I didn't get it if they're a winner if they're a winner what are they going to do they're going to try again they're going ask the guy okay why didn't I get the job the guy says you don't have the qualifications oh what qualifications do I need oh you need to have C++ A++ you have to have all these qualifications for this job oh okay no problem I'll see you in a few months he goes to special courses gets these degrees gets these things he comes back to the company he says I got it what do you get what you told me I was missing why because he wants the job you want something you go after it that's what winner does that's what a winner does so told us you have a you have some of them in the beginning are going to be hard for you why you have a lot of peer pressure your friends are going to the movies you want to go to sh T but your friends say why are you going to go to sh T come to the movies no the new X-Men is out the new Spider-Man is out the new is out the new something is out the new G is out no why don't you go to sh why come with us to the club how have a couple drinks you got find new girlfriend today and tomorrow new one every day new one come to the club he said yeah I want to go to the club but I also want to go to ganeden they don't go together ganeden and the club they don't go together if I go to the club no ganeden so the only place gonna help me go to ganeden is sh so the guy makes a CH it's hard because all of his friends are going to the club but he makes that choice if he fails once try again next time fails another time try again next time and try and try and try until you succeed in every mitvah but in order to know what to do you have to learn so that's Tor Tor is learning and then doing what means doing an abundance of kindness what kind of kindness you can do small kindness like for example give somebody a little bit of money somebody needs some money give him a little money somebody needs kala you go buy it for him you go to the store for him your mom you know is uh Under Pressure you help her out that's kindness but says not kindness abundance of kindness a lot of kindness so we so they ask him what's the highest level of kindness highest level of kindness is introducing and influencing somebody to get closer to that's the ultimate kindness get somebody closer to hem how there's countless ways One Way bring him to the you bring him to you don't have to say anything just get the guy to come get the girl to come to she comes he comes to the they listen to next you know they start doing you did your job you finished you have achieved an enormous enormous achievement that's worth a lifetime just for that you get 310 worlds in heaven not one world you get 310 just for bringing one Jew back imagine you brought 10 imagine you brought a thousand there's no one richer than you why you brought them to sh one time and then they decide to stay you can't bring him to give him one of these free CDs give him a CD give her CD Hey listen to this they listen to it they start doing what it says you finished why that's it you save the person you save this person that's the best kindness in the world why because even if you save somebody's physical life for example somebody there certain people that are a little bit crazy they decide they want a job they want to work for the president how as a security guard that's his personal bodyguard what's a personal bodyguard for a president job requirement is you have to be willing to die for the president even though he's not going to be here forever he's only going to be here for another few years you have to be willing to die for him even though a lot of people don't like him you have to be willing to die for him even though a lot of people disagree with him you have to be willing to die for him that's that's the job so even though if it's literally if he's going to be fired in two hours from now you know that his whole presidency is over in two hours he's gone he's not GNA be president anymore he will never have another seat in office again why because presidency eight years maximum finished you know it's over in 2 minutes but somebody comes with a gun and wants to shoot him guess what if you're that security guard you have to jump in front of that bullet yeah but he only has two minutes you're going to lose an entire life of 70 years for what for this guy to be president for another two minutes yes that's a crazy person that's a crazy person Jews don't have such a thing why because we don't want to be crazy people we don't want to save lives physically only we want to save why because the is eternal it's forever it's worth much more than the body much more than the body even if the body dies then continues either a good place or a bad place the point being is that a person realizes ah you know what I rather save this guy's n much more than save his body why because if I save his N I save him forever if I save his body all I'm doing is maybe I'm buying him another few minutes maybe he's still going to get hit by a truck five minutes from now so even if you give him money let's say for example to buy food maybe he's going to choke on the food and die anyway so it's not considered the highest level of kindness it's good but it's not the highest level highest level is saving his so that's what a person needs to do needs to learn as much to as they can on a daily basis if you're not learning at all every day start with shim start watching our shim 10 minutes a day 15 minutes a day a half hour a day an hour a day but make it every day every day you learn a little bit after that start doing the MIT after that start influencing other people by sending them whatever you're watching you watch a Shure you like it send it to your friends send them on WhatsApp send them on email get them to come to the sh get a few CDs and give it to them you have some money to sponsor CDs but you can't give it to people you could donate the money we'll give the CDs for you the point is is that do something to save other people if you do those two things the says you have nothing to worry about you don't do them you have everything to worry about next question yes do the malim know that what we're thinking uh do the malim know what we're thinking to a certain extent yes because we know that the yet doesn't have to necessarily have you say something vocally in order for him to interfere so for example he will interfere much more if you say it vocally but if you start thinking something so for example you decide to not talk today you decide that you're going to do a fast of talking which is actually good sometimes if you could do it every day for two hours a day you could have miracles in your life but that's a different story but anyway you decide not to talk and you you're going to say but you're not going to do anything so the is still going to come into fear now you decide that you're not going to tell anybody what you're going to do but you're going to want to go watch or you're goingon to want to go learn some T because you see that the kids are at school the wife is working house is free you have it to yourself ah I'm I'm ready to study what everything is going good as soon as you decide I'm going to go start learn talk you didn't tell anybody you start seeing interference all of a sudden the electric goes off all of a sudden a somebody calls all of a sudden breaks why because the knows what you're doing so they do know to a certain extent but there is a much more power than you give them or especially the if you make things vocal like if you say honey how are you listen everything is good okay I'm going to most likely not making it to why you said it out loud yet knows mayday mayday May Day Mayday this guy going to he sends all the soldiers to do everything possible to destroy this opportunity so yes and no at the same token is the is the answer next question yes go ahead go ahead go ahead I've heard his questions before I didn't hear your questions no offense I want to hear her questions why do we make big dishes so for the same reason in essence that we have mik women there are certain rules that gave us and he says that everything that you have physically in the world s do me a favor tell Rabbi Cohen if they could be quiet a little bit it's interfering thank you uh says look I created a world in page 32b says created an extraordinary World beautiful world you have trees you have oceans you have rocks you have all types of animals everything has different colors all of that is for us it's not for him if it was just for him to create something he could have made everything gray imagine everything is gray in the world or everything had the same taste would be such a boring world so made all these beautiful colors and beautiful tastes and beautiful visuals in the world for us and thear says he created 1 6434 0000 00000000000000 12 zeros number of stars in the world in the whole universe for what for you for you why he wants you to enjoy them you look at the stars wow how many stars I don't know let's count today count till next year you're still never going to get to the end point is he created a lot of beauty Beauty for you created a world with beautiful taste for you but he says there's only one rule to all of this everything that's material in the world you have to find a way to connect to me through this tool food is allowed there's forbidden food there's permissible food technically any taste that you want is allowed but there's certain food that's not allowed so one of the women the the wives of the of the and the says wait I want to have it says in the Tor everything's available to us I want to have something that tastes like pork like bacon but I'm not allow to have bacon to have pig so what am I going to do so it's missing our husband says no husband was this he says no nothing's missing so how can I get pork how can I get bacon says there's a fish called shibuta in Africa we're going to get that fish once we cook it it tastes exactly like bacon it's also by the way today even there is a duck in Japan they grow in Japan specific type of duck you cook it it tastes exactly like bacon same concept goes for a lot of things let's say somebody says I want to I want to taste cheeseburger meaning the taste of meat and milk at the same time now you can't have it today you have soy but before we had soy how do we do it eat the part of the cow that carries the milk the meat of the cow that carries the milk tastes like milk can meet together all types of beautiful things says I create a lot of things and everything is permissible but there's a way for it to be permissible your wife is permissible but there's a certain time she's allowed the tools are permissible but there's certain times that they're allowed why because everything has to be pure if it's pure it can connect to me if it's not pure it connects to the Satan the one that's trying to get you away from me so when you take something that Hashem gave you for example a plate how you going to connect the plate to hm you throw it at him hey hasm catch what are you going to do what are you going to doem says take it to the mik take this plate dip it into water that came from Heaven not just any water don't just throw it into uh some bucket with water in it it has to be specific water that went into a specific Place undisturbed meaning it cannot go into a place and then some pipes and machines push it into some pool that's not a a mik has to be where the water comes undisturbed into this pool with no influence no no no no one's pushing it to it so it has to be Heavenly water why because that is pure how do you purify the tool with this mik same thing with a woman a woman has a time of the month where she becomes impure this is specifically in order to improve the marriage now to show you an example of how significant it is to for a woman to be pure your grandparents what are you guys your grandparents your grandparents were willing to sacrifice their life sacrifice their life mamash not to violate nid not to violate the mitvah of touching his own wife if she's for example there's a story again says he won uh aeni that was born in raised in Russia religious Jew which was uncommon to begin with came to the of the uhen and told him a story he says you know you guys have it good here good he goes where poverty everywhere what he don't know what poverty is you don't know what poverty is he go no tell me says in my country in Russia we were born over there it's colder than Canada in Canada when I went there literally one minute it was nice outside within literally 5 to 7 minutes it became 15 to 20 degre under zero when I went there to Montreal unbelievable I've never seen anything like it he says in Russia it's worse like one second you're okay next second if you don't go inside that's it you're finished unbelievable he says in Russia it's worse the water freezes he says in Russia you weren't allowed to be religious you weren't allowed to build a mik so how could you be with your wife and with hasem at the same time he says I to take my wife to the lake the frozen lake the frozen lake abai make a hole in the frozen lake at night make a hole in the frozen lake at night so my wife can dip into the frozen water that's 40 degrees under zero why so I could touch her finger do you when you think about this me and you were're saying you know what no mik no Mar nothing just leave me alone why because we're uh weak weak we're weak you're going to go to I'm just thinking about cold I get cold she's deep dipping in water 40 degrees under zero why so a husband doesn't touch her while she's impure that's how important was for your grandparents for my grandparents they w't to go into the water was life risk there's a very good chance you're not coming out if it's not the the water because it's frozen it's because it's the middle of the night it's a lake it doesn't play there's no like stairs the whole thing can break literally every month is was willing to sacrifice her life just so a husband a home husband can touch her now if a is is not married she can't go to the mik which means that if a boy touches her if a man touches her automatically she's not only violating the rules between her and AEM and he's violating the rules between him and Hashem but now she is looking at her own grandmother our own great grandmother and saying ah what a fool you are that you willing to risk your life for this mitvah you want to risk your life to jump into water that's 40 degrees under zero to be with your husband she's not even willing to get married she's not even willing to go to the mik so you see you understand this is a different generation this is a people that actually understood what it means to be close to ashem so when a person wants to be close to Hashem he looks or she looks for every single opportunity to use materialism to use the material world in a way that's going to connect our so a woman says how could I connect to if my husband is the one that's learning all day and I'm home with the kids I'm home with the kids he's at Thea at least he's learning T how can I connect to hasem if I'm home with the kids think about this if you knew that your kid is mashiach you knew for sure he's mashia would you take care of him a little bit better than if he didn't know possible why because he's mashia if you were let's say kindergarten teacher kindergarten teachers it sounds like fun but it's not that much fun why because as soon as a diapers start getting filled with stuff and it's not your kid it's not so much fun to be a kindergarten teacher now if the kindergarten teacher knew this kid I'm about to change his little poopies I'm about to change poopies it's not my kid it's somebody else's kid it's smelly stuff I'm about to change it but this poopies belongs to the mashia what you going to do happy with you should do it all the time poop all day for me why cuz what happens one day he grows up he becomes mashia hey mashia who change your poop mashia you change Masia imagine you change Mia's poop I mean it's unbelievable it's funny but it's not it's funny but it's not why every single kid can be mashia every kid every kid could be mashiah which means if a woman takes that into consideration she says wait a minute my kid could be mashia how could he be mashia if I don't send him to Yeshiva how could it be mashia if I let him watch all these garbage cartoons that show people killing each other how could I let him how could how could he be mashiah if I give him playing cards playing cards that have death on the playing card I saw two kids playing cards today somebody showed me two plane cards today one of them has two mummies killing each other says the the the fight of the dead people and the next playing card that kids have that trade among each other is a cemetery full of uh crosses Jewish kids are playing with these plane cards how old are the kids six seven years old how is the six seven year old going to be a holy Messiah if he's playing with crosses and dead people how so woman that says my kid can be mashia my kid can be mashia no way no way I'm going to let him watch TV no way I'm gonna let him play these garbage video games no way I'm gonna let him do all these things that goingon to ruin him why Masia she connects to a cleaning the house taking care of the kids in a way that's different from everybody else why she's preparing for mashia so thisai is a way for a woman to to elevate her role in the world Elevate her role in the world in something that she has to do one way or the other just take care of the kids somebody has to or else don't have them so the point is is that you could get to a very very high level regardless of what you do regardless of what you have you can even get to a high level with a pen use the pen to write Torah everything can be used to get close to hem next question what if comes right now and so I have a sh from about three years ago answering it's a 15 to 20 minute answer about that um I'll send it to you if you want in short the says in at the end of page 3B beginning of 4 a that the time of mhia once the mashiah arrives there's no more no more conversions no more conversions but there will be a lot of conversions at the same time meaning a lot of people going to convert before mashia comes because that's a promise that hasem made the Nations but at the same token that once mashia comes no more conversion meaning that once everybody knows who's right everybody knows that the Torah is right and the New Testament and the Quran and Buddhism and all the other stuff that's out there is all garbage that's going to interfere with people's free choice why once you see who's the winning team it doesn't take genius for you to to want to join them hasem says they have worked and sacrificed everything when it was hard when they were the underdog you can't just go and decide to join them now after they've already won so if somebody already was serious and genuine about their conversion and already started the process and already started taking steps in the process then of course in heaven they'll reward him for it they'll reward her for it by allowing them to complete it just like a the Messiah one of the Mah's roles is going to be to identify the 12 tribes because right now we really only know about two maybe three tribes out of the 12 he's also going to identify who are the real converts and who are the fake ones who are the real Jews who are the fake ones you know there's a lot of people that look like they're real Jews but they're actually not even Jews there's a lot of people that are real are actually you know Jews but they're fakers they worship idols inside they steal they cheat they have a long beard but they cheat they steal they rape they are pedophiles so the mhia is going to uncover all this stuff he's also going to uncover all of the righteous people that were in a process of conversion but was simply going through the process and weren't able to finish yet and of course they'll reward him for it by allowing them to finish so every single person that does a single mitvah will be rewarded for it and and if that reward if the ultimate reward that a person wants to have is to connect to hem by being a righteous Jew then of course hm's going to allow him but that's assuming he's making that decision to do it and the steps to do it when it's difficult to do it not when it's easy next question yes out is going to give him the it when they saw the glory of is it that they saw of bringing out of is that the glory they saw obviously they didn't see phally right there's no physical physicality to him so the uh you're talking about after they they they uh got out of the Sea of reeds when they were going to receive the and when they were going to receive the so there's a couple of times that it says that they saw AEM so there's several times in a to that it says that they saw AEM for example there is a during the uh crossing of the Sea of reeds um when Hashem split the ocean for them it says that even a lowlevel employee had received Vision uh prophecy a visual of Hashem or his Creation in a higher level than the prophet Ezekiel meaning the uh one of the the last prophets Ezekiel one of the highest level prophets we've ever had his prophecy was extraordinary because he describes what happens in heaven they said in Torah that the people that crossed the Sea of reeds the lowest level of them was even higher than him in Prophecy they saw something unbelievable Hashem opened the heavens showed them things that are impossible for us to even visualize that's one part of the glory of hasem and Mount Si it says that a uh Hashem opened the seventh heavens and showed them a certain aspect of Hashem show that there's nothing else in the world other than him how he can show that I have no idea but he showed them that there's nothing else in the world other than him another part it says that uh when they saw the uh the feet of Hashem Hashem doesn't have feet it's in essence where hasem showed him a certain Rock a certain special rock that's under his throne to give them some type of physical visual of something in order for them to connect to something also a uh an long midash about that um so there's different parts of the uh people seeing things physically most of it is spiritually but nonetheless it's nothing of an actual physicality of a it's just a different a uh things that hasem wanted to show is at different times now the question is asked that how is it that am is cross the ocean Isel that saw the 12 plague the the um the plagues and Isel that saw Miracles saw food come from Heaven how do they go worship a anybody have that question like if I showed you right now I said you know hasem do me a favor for this Sho instead of 50 bucks open the heavens for us show them you really the BS and he really did anybody here is ever going to violate Shabbat again anybody here is ever going to say once in their life again no right why because you now you know for sure until now you believed in hem now you saw something you're scared to move I'm saw much more than that they saw the plagues in Egypt they saw water turn to blood they saw frogs go inside people's bodies the Egyptians only they saw hail with lava inside it which is against nature all types of things that are unbelievable unbelievable they saw an ocean split to 12 one for each tribe they saw the bottom of the ocean flatten out so it's easy for them to walk they saw trees fruit trees of all types grow in mere seconds just for them to eat the fruit from them while they're crossing the ocean they saw the salt water of the ocean trickle out pure spring water just for them the salt water became pure just for them for they they can drink was a long walk all types of amazing Miracles but yet a few weeks later they worshiped an idol how could it be that's a serious question how could it be you saw those miracles even if you guys today 3,300 years you saw one of those Miracles you're never going to sin again they saw thousands of Miracles and they made the worst sin how how could it be and they didn't stop sinning they didn't stop complaining for 40 years how better yet the G asks a question when a rabbi walks into a sh what is everybody supposed to do stand up why because of the Tora that he has not because of him physically because of Tor that he possesses meaning you stand for the Tor not for him so the says how come we don't stand every time we see a pregnant woman why says that there's a there's a in sh he goes into the stomach of the mom with the baby why to teach the baby T the TI to meaning that the baby inside the the the inside the mommy he's 8 months old he's N9 months old it's about to get at this point he knows more Torah than the entire world combined that's how much to he knows as soon as he comes out he forgets everything so at that moment you see a six-month old six-month uh pregnant woman how come you don't stand that far RAB she's carrying he knows more Tor than how come you don't stand up how come anybody have an answer the G gives a genius genius answer that answer answers both questions why did am is see all those Miracles but then sin right away for the same reason we don't stand when we see a pregnant woman is was gifted all of this significance it's all of this prophecy on a silver platter Hashem they didn't earn it they didn't fight for prophecy they didn't say oh we we we really good to Hashem no they were simply gifted this this prophecy one day they were Idol worshippers the next day Hashem showed them prophecy one day they were slaves the next day they saw prophecy they were gifted all of this because they were gifted all of this it didn't have stain power it didn't have stain power as soon as the prophecy went away they finished crossing the ocean they came back to the same Idol worshippers they were before the same goes with why we don't stand when we see a pregnant woman yes that sadik inside her he's learning the entire T but it's all being gifted to him it's all being gifted to him so it's not like the rabbi that wakes up at 12: at night to study till 6 o'clock in the morning before prayer it's not like the rabbi that studies day and night to become a it's not like the rabbi that fast a few times here and there just in order to get closer to hasem you know spiritually it's not like the that's fighting for his Torah by chewing ice just so he can stay awake it's not him why the baby is being gifted this Torah we don't stand for a baby that gift the toah why it doesn't have any stain power as soon as he comes out he forgets everything as as soon as am was taken away out of the ocean they forgot everything they started chasing the gold started chasing the money that they saw from the ocean they forgot everything they saw why it was gifted to them T without sacrifice has no stain power that's what the one of the most critical one of the most important B cha in history his name was Rish he was a former mobster head of the mafia almost 2,000 years ago he says in the gar T without you being willing to sacrifice your life for it is worthless if you're not willing to sacrifice your life to go learn the next to go to learn the next sh to go learn the next clip to go learn the next book you're not want to sacrifice your life M for this it won't have stain power why you don't really care about it you're treating like it's uh something nice if you want to stay if you want to sacrifice your life so Torah that you learn easy in the beginning you need that easy part but if you want the real serious Torah that's going to take more effort it's going to take more much more effort much more yet overcoming and that type of Tor will stay with you eternally so that answers your question and the question the was similar to yours next question next question who else same price nobody's nobody's winning yet with the the 50 bucks K important yes so the uh in says that the of the the hair of a woman is uh considered in fact and there's two meanings for it means one meaning means that our voice is considered nakedness which means that when a man hears if one woman hears another woman sing doesn't do much for her she may like her voice but doesn't do much for her any any other way but when a man Hears A woman's voice she hears a sing at the top of her lungs if he knows what she looks like naturally he will start visualizing her in inappropriate ways that's just the natural makeup of a man she could be somebody that's even he's considered un he's considering unattractive normally but as soon as he sings and he hears it and she sings in a nice way automatically she becomes attracted to him she becomes attractive to him so a man is not allowed to listen to a woman sing if he knows what she looks like on the other hand it says also means that the entire woman is considered nakedness and a woman is so beautiful to a man and a man's eyes and a man's brain and the way he's made up that her entire self is considered nakedness meaning that everything about her that's not supposed to be covered or uncovered natur naturally is something that a man could uh be led to think inappropriately meaning a man doesn't look at the palm of a woman's hand and think about anything inappropriate why because the palm of her hand looks like the palm of his hand back of her hand looks like back of his hand not that much of a difference same thing with the feet same thing with the face unless she's making all types of looks and things like that it's a different story but in general there are things about her that a woman is is you see a man sees it doesn't automatically lead to certain thoughts even if she's attractive if she's covered everywhere most men will not start thinking extremely inappropriate thoughts but there are certain parts of a woman that do create them for example certain parts of her body certain parts of her legs and needless to say her hair the hair of a woman is by far the most attractive part of a woman the most attracting part of a woman even if a woman does not have a nice body or a body that's attractive to a man or this particular man if she has a normal looking face and nice hair she will become attractive to him it's in quite frankly it's a uh reality that most women have much more attractive faces and hair than they do bodies and that's what people that's what attracts men so the reason why our Torah has in said that a woman has to cover a haill from there is what we learned the source of what we learned that hem says that married women have to cover their hair is because once a woman gets married she makes a promise what's the promise the promise is you my husband my beauty from now on belongs only to you I'm giving you my beauty he in return promises her whatever sustenance you need whatever ever intimacy you need whatever clothing you need materiality you need I promise that to you I'm yours you're mine but that's it which means that the woman is no longer allowed to share her beauty with somebody that's not her husband because she's belongs to somebody else so that is what hasem wants a woman to do because he wants her to have a happy marriage now happy marriage is impossible if a man that's a normal man knows that every time he walks down the street or every time he goes to shoe with his wife every second guy is staring at his wife he walks with his wife and every guy's looking his who it's very it's very annoying why a normal man that loves his wife is jealous even if she's his wife no one's taking her still he sees another guy commenting on his wife it drives him crazy if it doesn't drive him crazy it's one of two reasons either he doesn't really like her or he likes somebody else much better he's cheating on her it's not normal for a man not to be jealous of something that happens with his wife even if they're married for 50 years if he's not jealous there's something wrong there so the point is is that for a woman to put herself in a situation where she's causing men to become attracted to her she's violating that she's violating that contract that she has with our husband and that's why the say says what kind of women are you allowed to divorce without pay giving them any uh any money says if the woman you know intensely Cooks you non kosher food you ask her for food she intensely Cooks you pig okay you kick her out if this woman does not want to go to the mik okay if you does want to mik then you can't be with her can't be with her intimately there's no marriage okay you kick her off what about another one if this woman does not cover her hair doesn't cover her hair you kick her out without paying herba why because she's causing other men to look at her she's violating theba every single day this is toah so a woman that wants a happy marriage first and foremost needs to know the only good that exists in the world comes from Hashem whether I have a good life or a bad life is if asem decides I'm going to have a good life or bad life so why would I do something against hashem's instruction and expect a good result from it like why would why would hasem give me something good if I'm going against his instructions if I'm going against the instructions that he said to me this is how you get good why should I expect good if I go against the instructions it's like the phone manufacturer says warning do not throw the phone may break and you say ah it broke ah this phone is terrible you call iPhone you call Apple listen you guys are Terri terrible why the phone broke how did it break I threw it hey wait the warning said don't throw the phone yeah but I threw it anyway okay you threw you violated the instructions you violated the warrantee everything is void you didn't follow the instructions you didn't follow the instructions it's going to break but if you follow the instruction and still broke then we'll fix it but if you didn't follow then uh it's not our fault same thing with hasm Shem says I gave you instructions of how to have a good life you follow the instructions you will have a good life don't follow the instructions don't come complaining to him about divorce about cheating about lying and I don't need to prove anything to anybody you could simply look at the statistics over 80% of Western Society get divorce and like I said earlier in the lecture over 90% in some places in America like Colorado get a divorce now if you fly a plane fly a plane anybody consider that hard flying a plane anybody know how to fly a plane tell me you know how to fly plane you know how to fight plane I know how to fly I don't know nobody anyway but you would think to go fly a plane to go fly a plane it's hard right it's hard so they go to school for a couple years at least two three years to go learn how to fly a plane depends how big the plane is now if you look at the statistics as far as how many plane crashes there are in the world each year it's a very very small number very small small like single digits very small number even though there are countless planes going up going down some airports have literally hundreds of planes landing and taking off every single day unbelievable there are if you actually they say one of the most stressful jobs in the world is to be one of those people that looks at the screens and tells the planes where to go why because any moment if you if you tell the guy make a right he makes a left it's a crash if you tell the guy go 30 ,000 ft instead of 29,500 500t difference I mean out of 30,000 what's the big deal big deal is there's another plane at 20,500 same thing same Les they're going to crash so you have to constantly look at all these planes know everything is a very stressful job but with all of that being said there are still very very few crashes in the world very few but it's hard to fly a plane guess what it's even harder to have a happy marriage why because we see from statistics planes only single digits crash marriage is 90% crash 90% crash why people didn't go to school for the PLS they went to school for a few years for marriage they didn't go to school what school learn Tor school is learn Tor do what it says now sometimes people know how to do mitv they know how to keep Shabbat they know how to keep kosher they know how to pray but they don't know how to be married why because there are parts of Tora like what we're teaching M teaching you ethics teaching you behavior that they don't they skip that lesson so they know how to go to Sho they know how to grow a beard they know how to eat like a cow they know that stuff but how to be a decent human me they don't know they skip that lesson they interrupt The Lesson by making noise in the back they eat the food that doesn't belong to them they start interrupting a conversation that they weren't even a part of stuff like that they forgot the M lesson they skipped that part they don't have be human beings that's a problem why because that means you're going to crash at some point you can crash why the plane crashed you're crashed but more likely you crash faster why you learn how to be a human being so it's important for a person to look at every single one of the as an opportunity to not only get closer to but to increase their own chances of never ever crashing in life never getting getting into a depression never getting a divorce never getting a fight imagine living a life where you're never ever upset never like stuff happens but you're not upset why because you know it all comes from hem imagine such a thing it's an unbelievable life now there are things about life that are upsetting but you're not upset like the next guy you don't lose your mind I can tell you something yesterday my my son God bless him my son Oya God bless him which for him is this you he he's one of these kids Special kid why he only looks for trouble he's one of these smart kids so he looks for stuff he gets himself in trouble I don't even know how so on the eve of p on the eve of P little vya him and his sister running around ysf is in his in his little uh stroller hanging out and they're running around they're singing all types of songs unbelievable best set I've ever had in my life at some point goes to the kitchen in the kitchen no good dangerous so I run after a cuz he arrived he's in the kitchen I arrive in the kitchen but aadya already took something from the C I don't know what it is he took something from the counter and it looks red and it looks white and I'm not really sure what it is but he's holding it and he's holding it and I said give it to me because I know it doesn't it doesn't belong in his hand I don't know what it is it just doesn't belong in his hand I said give it to me I said give it to me goes ow my hand I said give me that what is it what is it it's a Cook's knife a chef's knife what's a chef's knife a chef's knife is by the way a chef's knife is you look at it you get cut he's squeezing the knife part out of my hand I I was looking for a all kinds of blood something 911 is in my mind I look at this I put the thing away nothing nothing he said out my hand so I I I saw it has to be something nothing some miracle number one yesterday he's playing with his sister whatever oh I my hand running he's crying he's crying for 20 minutes we have no idea why we see he doesn't he doesn't want to move his hand doesn't want to move his hand I try to pick him up he's crying crying M doesn't stop crying what happened doesn't want to move his hand I said no show me your hand raise your hand something is not moving his hand not moving his fingers after crying for a while anything you move anything you touch he cries hysterically I said oh he must have broken it something happened I don't know what happened but something happened we go to the hospital this was my vacation by the way uh this we go to the hospital after a lot of kar we finally get in we go to the hospital we sit down everything is you know we're we say at least it's this it's not something else and we're over there aadya is under control everything is good but maybe a minute less than a minute before the doctor finally arrived so this is about 3 hours after the whole hand thing happened for 3 hours he's crying if you touch his hand the right way or the wrong way something a minute a minute before the doctor came minute he starts jumping and going on the bed and hey I said this like a joke I said give me your hand he's like give me high five he tell me give me high five I said I give High goes no give me two hands and he gives me to all of a sudden the hand miraculously the doctor comes he goes where's the patient he doesn't know what to do with us I says I'm sorry to waste your time I don't know what happened doctors explained to us some natural way that they're giving this excuse of what happened in reality another miracle so now throughout all of these things under normal conditions it's very easy to lose your mind why the kid's two years old there's a knife in his hand the kid's 2 years old he can't move his hand he's crying non it's very easy to lose your mind it's very easy to start crying with him it's very easy to start questioning God why' you do this to me why me why him he's only two it's very easy to do all that stuff but if you know that all of this all of these difficulties are coming from him from a keep control you're under control you don't lose yourself you don't lose your cool you you don't lose your mind you don't lose hope you don't lose anything why because you realize this has something good in it what I have no idea but it has something good in it has something good in it maybe Hashem wants to show you how he controls nature maybe Hashem wants to show you how a lot of things happen a lot of things that we learn in isue the point is is that a person that's constantly connected to Hashem is going to see Miracles with like in front of his own eyes another story for you yesterday or the day before raim gets invited to do a sh in n in Israel and at the same time they uh somebody calls the house he's visiting his uh parents and he says listen uh tell uh your sonim to come to my house I want to give him some money want to help him out decent amount of money a couple hundred dollars which is a lot of money for them I want to give it to him but he has to come to my house no he has a shoe now oh if he doesn't come not giving it to them has to come I want to get a blessing I want to sit with them I want this you know people want to they want to buy you like as if you're cattle so uh his father it's a lot of money he says uh what do you want to do says there's no question I have a shoe yeah but amount of money it's no question isik says there's no question no question that's it no question says AB we're g to get 10 times the out what who the kids the kids uh the the oldest among them is 16 17 years old maybe has uh 37 uh shekels in his bank he doesn't have anything he's a poor kids they don't have anything no nothing hm's gonna send 10 times the amount he goes he has a sh if anybody saw the sh or saw some of the videos we posted online the pictures we posted online you see the kids putting on T taking on chabat taking off earrings is doing serious cha on the spot unbelievable unbelievable later the next day he is sitting down with a uh another sadik his father-in-law ask him what's going on with pad I heard about the story with the guy yeah yeah he didn't give oh what's tough tough times tough because now B everything's going to come 10 times more going to come as he finishes saying 10 times more is going to come 10 times comes how do I know I sent it I was on the other side as soon as we sent it donations and so on came he calls me goes oh you are part of a k why the people next to me started crying I said 10 times 10 times happened why a person that believes in a gives AEM a reason a reason to believe in me but you have to pass a test you can say 10 times all day till tomorrow but if you don't believe it Hashem knows hm knows what are you gonna do for it the point is is the person that believes in the is going to make certain sacrifices for him he going to make certain sacrifices certain things that are difficult but if he or she is willing to make difficult decisions for hem Hashem is going to make difficult decisions for you meaning he's going to give you things that technically you don't really deserve technically you don't really deserve if you really looked at the tah and see what you're getting versus what you deserve you'll see that you're getting a lot more than what you deserve why because you're doing certain things that Hashem wants you to do and therefore he's giving you more than what you deserve but that doesn't last forever that only lasts as long as you keep doing what hasem wants next question any more questions any more Miracle stories if you want the amount of money that a person gets is decided in but each day it's decided how much he's how he's going to get it how he's going to get it the only thing that's an exception from that is what he gets for MIT money that he spends on MIT so it means that if let's say for example he was decreed in sh for him to get let's say $50,000 to live on okay $50,000 to live on which for most people is plenty of money and he is a sadik with a lot OFA and he says okay I'm making $11,000 a week it's good money but I want to make sure that I have a really nice Shabbat so I'm gonna spend 300 bucks just on Shabbat just on Shabbat meaning I'm spending 30% 30% of my salary just on Shabbat why I want to have all the salads I want to have guests I want to havea I want to have this I want to have I want to have the best Shabbat I'm not looking to save a penny I want to have the best of the best for Shabbat not because of my big stomach for Shabbat for Shabbat I'm doing it so he says that hem says you spend money on myv you spend a few hundred dollars on P you spent a few hundred on on on tiit you spent a few hundred on matah you spent a few hundred on Shabbat and you're doing it for Shabbat you're not doing it because you like the ti or you like the food or you like to show off no no you're doing it for the honor of Shabbat you're doing it for the honor of the mitvah says that $50,000 that I promised you that's separate all the money that you spend on my mitv I'll pay you back on top of the $50,000 now how hasem I have a job they pay me 50,000 so why you going give me a second job I don't have time to work a second job I barely have time to study now I'm going to study with second job she was three hours with this Rabbi he doesn't stopped talking I don't have time to to eat as soon as I get home I have to go to the as soon as I get home I have to go to sleep I don't have time for a second job aemm says don't worry about it don't worry about I'm GNA give it to you I'm gonna give it to you that's my business I'm going to give it to you it's my business I'm going to give it to you I'll give you an example today today live he takes his kids every time they finish fin a peric from the uh from the he gives his kids a present why to get the whole family all the kids excited about finishing but learning T so every time they learn something that he finishes a peric in the he says oh we get ice cream you get ice cream right so the kids say Aba we ice cream did you finish a peric did you finish why because anytime he says I want to study and the kids interrupting says you want you want to get ice cream yeah okay so let me study you get the whole family excited about learning to her point is once the kids get a little bit older three four five six years old you could it's much easier than if the kid is one and a half you can't tell one and a half year old kid anything about learning he doesn't understand once they get a little older they start communicating anyway the whole family is excited why we're going to get ice cream but the same token we're getting a present too at the toy store we go to the toy store they go to the toy store present is 120 shekels but if you press this button on this uh celebrities machine is a coupon for 50 shekels just for for argument sake $120 but it's a $50 coupon $50 coupon meaning now $120 becomes you buy it for 70 for somebody that makes not much money $50 is a lot of money you rich people $50 not a lot of money am it's a lot of money problem what's the problem what's the problem with this $50 coupon $50 KOA means that somebody one of the daughters the mom or ra somebody in the family has to press a button on a celebrity that's immodest that's it it's not the real celebrity the human being is in Hollywood somewhere but in the store there's like a something that has a button on it with the picture of the celebrity and if we press it we get $50 we want to get the toy and we get $50 off but we have to press it on a machine that has Emil's picture on it which one of you doesn't press it what are you gonna say I'll close my eyes and I'll PR it five times press it why it's just a machine it's not really the real person that's the difference says we're not pressing this says what's the question what's the question we're going to benefit from some something that's against theem no coupon so it's $120 instead hem will pay for it hem will pay for it they get the toy okay now it's time to go get ice cream so goes to the store to go get ice cream she comes back to says oh here the ice cream and is the 50 shekels that I found on the way here the coupon I found it on the floor $50 but this time it's cash not a coupon shekels on the way here why why cuz you didn't press a button why didn't you press a button because you believe that a cares about what the button he cares about the but he cares about everything it's all a test it's all a test if you believe in him you'll care about the button too if you don't then you'll say close your eyes pretend like you care that's what the gar says says somebody that knows that there's a bunch of immodest women on one road and another road no modest woman and he has to get to the end of the road on the road of IM modest woman it's very short two minutes on the road with nothing it's an hour so he says you know what I'm going to go on the two-minute road because I'm going to be able to save with that hour that I'm saving I'm going to learn more Tor yeah what about theonest women I'll close my eyes I'll close my eyes I won't look at them say say he went on the road 2 minutes closed his eyes the whole time what do you guys think of him he CL I didn't see one woman he didn't see one woman on two minutes Road and he learned hard the whole time he learned hard the whole time the other he saved himself an hour what do you guys call him sadik right he's a nice guy should be g m no says Wicked what Wicked what gives you the audacity the goal the guts to think that you're going to overcome your yet to think that you're GNA actually survive this two minutes without opening your eyes so you passed once what you going to think you pass every time the only reason the let you win once so you can lose a second time and bigger you think that you could play with the like that you're you're taking a chance with your own life better you walk an hour on a road with no immodesty than 2 minutes closing your eyes with immodesty don't take a chance with your yes yes fantastic question in a few weeks in a few weeks we're going to have a there are two in the T that give very very Vivid details that aside from being petrifying are quite familiar to us in today's world because they sound like the Holocaust one of them is and the other one is meaning that what hasem describes here if you didn't know this was 3,000 years ago You' say oh this is 70 years ago this is the Holocaust so ASM says in these two par if you do what I said if you follow my laws if you will follow my decrees and observe my Commandments and perform them then I will provide your reins in the time in their time meaning you'll get your the money that you need all the sustenance you need exactly when you need it you won't have any struggles any famine any hunger the land will give you produce the trees will and Fields will give you fruit and then he continues to say that your enemy will be scared of you and run away from you you'll win every war five of you will pursue a 100 meaning that five of you can kill a 100 people which is amazing so if you do everything that I say you're going to have this world turned into heaven and he gives 13 different blessings that we get as a result of following what he says on the other hand on verse 14 in this Paras he starts 49 different curses that he gives us if we don't follow and he says meaning the opposite here you heard me you did what I said this is what you're going to get the reward on the other hand if you don't follow my decrees and you will not perform my Commandments and you will consider my decrees load some and if you reject my ordinances not only you're not going to listen you're going to consider them annoying boring don't feel like doing it and so on then he starts telling us about all the punishments in this world that we will get and when you read the details of the punishment you will see a depiction of what happened in the Holocaust so much so to the detail where it says that regardless of how many we are what weapons we have our enemies will always win regardless of what wisdom we have and what Brilliance we've attained we will reach a level lower than animals to the extent we says that you will get to such a level of hunger that you will eat the Flesh of your sons and the Flesh of your daughters people will become cannibals now you're going to say okay this is scary but when did this happen in Holocaust if you look at the history books the real history books not the fiction stuff that they give you today in schools the real history books of what really happened you'll see that some of the testimony that's not really known very well among most people especially Americans is that the real testimony of the people says that all of this came true in a worse level than you could imagine they starved the people so much that when they were going on the trains and sticking everybody into one cart a lot of people would die now the level of hunger was so bad that when somebody died people didn't really mourn that much why they were so hungry as soon as they died they all fought about what to get the liver to get the liver so they can eat something finally they haven't in days another time there's one of the uh Story one of the books talks about how the uh evil Nazis fool the people into eating their own children I have a whole lecture about this if you want to know point is is that everything that Hashem says he would do if we don't follow happened in the Holocaust so the only answer that's available that's true that's genuine that's Torah of why did the Holocaust happen because we didn't follow hasem that's the answer who where was God during the Holocaust the answer is he's the one that did it as a result of us not doing what he said now when we do what he says we get good but if you look at all the entire history of am is from the time of Egypt all the way to now you'll see that we've had very high highs and very low lows we reach the highest level in many different countries and then a program would happen Inquisition would happen a disaster would happen and millions would be killed the Holocaust is not the only event that's ever happened where millions of Jews were were uh killed it's just one of many it literally happens every generation that's what you actually said in your a at the beginning we said that Hashem created the world in such a way where every generation somebody will try to destroy us us why because if hasem does not use the world in order to get us back to becoming righteous Jews he'll lose us altogether will become like them so when we do good Hashem gives us good in this world and the next when we do bad Hashem has to send us a punishment not in order to he doesn't benefit out of punishing us he doesn't get a pleasure out of punishing us but sometimes you have to slap your kid in order to get his attention because if you don't get his attention he's going to put his hand in the fire and once he puts his hand in the fire it's already too late to get his attention understand once he already jumps says oh but what's gonna happen if I jump well if you jump you're gonna die no let me see let me see you give the kid a nice slap he's going to remember you next week why because you cannot allow the kid to keep playing with his life because if he really jumps that's it there's no more slapping him he's going to die if a Jew continues to violate Shabbat if a Jew marries an non-jewish woman a Jew marries a non-jewish man a Jew continues to eat non kosher a Jew continues to go in against AEM eventually he becomes a he assimilates he thinks of himself as like them and that's one of the scariest stories that you will you'll find one of the rabim I forget his name said a story recently he said when he went to Y anyone that wants to know a little bit about the Holocaust should go to is go to y their Museum over there we'll show you some serious stuff about what actually happened in Holocaust when you go to the one they have in America the one that they had in Washington DC I went to it one time with an old friend of mine ala Shalom Larry Krauss he uh said they ruined it said why it's horrible he goes yes it's they ruined it so why they ruined it we went to Holocaust Museum in uh in Washington DC we had a case and we had to go there anyway while we had a break we went to the museum so I said why why why is it bad he says when I went when I came to this Museum this Holocaust museum in Washington DC he said I came to it a couple years ago that the real stuff that the real stuff here that the real stuff now they made it politically correct now they lowered the viciousness now it's all like yeah it's bad it's no good Holocaust is no good but why the Arabs across the street complained the Arab Embassy across the street complained that about the Holocaust the Holocaust the Holocaust so what happened the museum tone down what happened in Holocaust they start removing certain exhibits so you don't see what really happened in Holocaust so you go to the museum some of them it look it always looks bad I mean millions of people died but they're not going to show you a lot of the gruesome stuff the stuff that really happened but you go to you're going to see some more you read some books of of of actual things that happen you watch some documentaries and see how they shovel the bodies you see what happened you see what really happened very different and you'll see all of it is described in the Torah all of it all of this described the tah why because said if you start treating the world as if everything is nature as if everything is by chance as if everything is by luck and it's not God I'm going to show you that it is God I'm going to do things that are so unnatural you're G to know only God can do this and many many horrible things happen at that time there are more many horrible things that you guys probably never heard of and most people never heard of that happened even after the Holocaust there was another Holocaust another Holocaust that people don't really know about that happened after the Holocaust but that Holocaust happened in is inside is where the Zionist criminals killed countless people especially sapharic Jews especially yemenites anyone that wants to know there are many documentaries trials and all types of uh videos about it I mean the overwhelming majority of it if not all of it is in Hebrew but there are countless trials that have taken place in recent years uncovering the massacre of a people because of racism because of anti-t attitudes uh and the stuff that some of the zionists did make the Nazi Germans look good meaning one minute the Nazis are killing us three days later the Zionist Jews are killing us but most people don't know about this because it's been hidden under a carpet for a long time it's out now but most Americans don't talk about it don't know about it don't care for it don't teach it but it's true a lot of people died a lot of people died a lot of people were killed murdered sold as as a uh tests they kidnap babies all types of horrible horrible things maybe one day we'll do a lecture about it but the point is is that this two was part of the hand of Hashem all of it everything is the hand of hem and you see the same thing happened in the Spanish Inquisition before the Spanish Inquisition we were the leaders in Spain Roman Empire we were top nacho at the time Greek Empire we were the best of the best every country that we had this we were always really in a good situation before the massacre started why because the higher we got in materialism the further we got in spirituality and in order to save us Hashem sometimes has to hit us that answer your question who want who gets the best question of the night you do what' you ask why why we eat Coast pretty good question dish M the dishes is also a good question okay that's three questions no no give me anybody else any more questions yeah go ahead allow because we have free choice if he did not allow us to to to make mistakes then it would defeat the purpose of the creation meaning if you were like a robot and you're always good then why should I reward you for doing something that I programmed you to do but if you choose good then you deserve an award if let's say for example there is a uh you want to give a uh money to somebody you want to pay him a salary you're not going to pay him a salary for just sitting there you pay a salary for for overcoming an obstacle same concept Hashem says I want to pay you a really really handsome salary but I'm going to pay you if you do the job but the job's hard but I'll pay you for it what is this like the says there was one time a guy went to Africa looking for diamonds he found a few diamonds spend his money on them and he only had 50 bucks left that 50 bucks he wanted to save to get home go back to America so he got his few diamonds he has his $50 he's ready tomorrow he's going to go to buy the ticket and go back home as soon as he gets back to the hotel somebody knocks on a door yes some mysterious looking guy says to them listen look what I have and he shows him several million dollars worth of diamonds stuff that he's never seen before something unbelievable he says I like it this is good stuff I just don't have the money for it I don't have it cuz what do you have because I don't want to embarrass you I don't have what do you have the guy says that 50 bucks give it to me you going take 50 bucks with it yeah without thinking he gave it to them right away why this is millions of dollars millions of dollars I'm going take $50 yeah how you going to get home that doesn't make a difference now why I have millions of dollars worth of diamonds the guy take gives him the diamonds he goes he has millions of dollars in diamonds but now he is one problem how is he going to get home nobody's buying diamonds why everybody has diamonds over there they don't have money they don't have food they have diamonds so here he has no money to get home so he what am I going to do he starts working in the kitchen he starts picking up some garbage he starts looking for opportunities to to make money after months and months and months of doing it finally he gets to get 50 bucks to buy a ticket to go back home when he got back home his friend saw him right off the plane the shevil disgusting smelly goes what happened to you he tells him the whole story I did this and I did this and I went this and I did that was how'd you do that goes what do you mean I just told you no no how'd you survive how'd you survive eating from garbage you know sleeping in the streets and the stairs with rats I mean it's a disgusting you're a guy that just your mattress cost $30,000 you're a rich guy how'd you do it for months says to be honest with you to be honest I wanted to kill myself a bunch of times I couldn't do it when I saw my first ride I was so scared I almost lost my life second time I had to first time I had to eat from the garbage I want I wanted to commit suicide but you know what every time I got to that line every time I got to that Breaking Point hey hold on a second the Box up I open it up and I saw wow look at that I got millions of dollars and diamonds all I need to do is get home and I gave me hope to go another day says this is us if we only look at things the right way you can go through life and struggle day by day and be suffering with or without MIT with or without everybody struggles but if you look at things the right way and you say I have a struggle I have a difficulty I can't take it wait a minute I have I have that I'm learning I'm connected to that's diamonds all I have to do is just make it to the Finish Line that's all I got to do how much longer 20 more years 30 more years 40 more years but then I have the diamonds forever that's what a person needs to do you have to overcome those obstacles that difficulty that test now why because then you'll actually have a diamond but if Hashem took away all of that and he just said here here's diamonds here's diamonds there's diamonds in the streets there's diamonds everywhere guess what the diamonds instantaneously will lose all of their value and they will become like sand the only reason why people believe that diamonds are valuable is because they believe they're rare the only reason why mitv are valuable is because they're rare not everybody's doing them the only reason why there are certain sikim that are mentioned for eternity the r all these different sikim some you've heard of some you've never heard of why because they're rare they're the diamonds they end up benefiting forever in this world and the next you can be just like them you have to make the same Choice next kriedt it was ow it was allowed during the first generation during the generation of a of AD in order for the world to build up because it was not possible because there was no other people but then after that first generation incest was no longer allowed because then hasem gave ad the the six rules one of them include included that you're not allowed to have incest and then he gave the seventh rule to Noah so at the time of Noah's flood you weren't allowed to have incest but their biggest sin the 12a says that their biggest sin was because they're wasting seed so the actually says actually have it open here says that that uh the generation of the flood with a boiling substance meaning with semen they acted corruptly and therefore with a boiling water they were punished meaning that when a person warms himself up when a guy warms himself up and and then ejaculate Sean inappropriately meaning it's not for the purpose of reproduction Hashem calls it wasting seed meaning that you're using what I gave you to produce life and wasting it that's a sin from a one of the biggest sins there is the generation of the of the flood did that regular regularly by being promiscuous by being uh animalistic and so on and so forth and hasem says I have to punish you measure for measure you you warmed yourself up in order to get pleasure the punishment you'll get is also going to be warm how warm also liquid that's warm and the water of the flood boiled to the point where it literally melted their bodies and Bones that's what the says so there are certain sins that were not allowed but the biggest sin of all was the uh as a result of perisur was wasting seed people there wasn't Jewish people at the time of Noah no I'm notes ant is not incest no before before the time before the time of of the tah ant wasn't considered incest incest was considered immediate family in were considered immediate family like brother sister mother father grandfather not uh ant ant only was was forbidden after mat even being married to two sisters you were allowed to do until now after you weren't allowed so there were certain things that were that changed that evolved as time went but nonetheless the uh the uh the rule we have now is the rule that is permanent it wasn't hot right away wasn't hot right away got hot over time over 40 days the whole world was Destro destroyed wasn't destroyed in a second Hashem gave them an opportunity to do Chua he gave them 40 days to do chuba they didn't do chuba after that they everything melted next not for today okay for today okay we have our next Sho is going to be Sunday right Sunday yeah Sunday okay Sunday night we're going to be back here hopefully we have less less distractions in this time uh but hopefully you guys have some more questions we'll have we have a series about but also some interesting stories and questions are always welcome uh next Tuesday next Tuesday is still up in a as far as where we're going to have the Sho it's if we're g to have it will be here also next Tuesday and Wednesday here but either way I'll see you beforehand uh log on to the website to see the calendar www.m.org uh or the Facebook page you could just type my name or you could just look at one of these CDs and uh follow the instructions over there and uh you can watch this year it's going to be on the internet to tomorrow on YouTube or our channels [Music] n 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