Dumb Mistake number 5 very smart couples make by Rabbi Shafier

[Music] women by Nature are nurturing women by Nature are caregivers and while that's a beautiful trait Ironically in a marriage sometimes it comes back to haunt them you see most Callas when they walk down that aisle have what I call a 10-point home improvement plan he's a great guy but after all he could be better first of all it's those shoes and ties that's going to go and that habit of coming late and that business about interrupting people and unwittingly she makes a fundamental mistake you see she gets married and there they are right after chevas and she begins implementing her plan and she points out to her husband how great a guy he is but how he could be even better and for some reason he's not warm and fuzzy about it for some reason he's kind of cold and distant and the more she does it the more she doesn't realize the damage that she's bringing to her relationship a woman to another woman may receive that as warm and fuzzy a shine sign of caring but to a guy unsolicited advice says to him you're not competent I don't approve of you you don't have it put together and this is the fifth really dumb mistake that many very smart couples make she thinks that it's her job to fix him it's not her job her job is to be a wife it's each couple's job to change individually it's not her job to fix him nor improve him you have just seen an excerpt from the marriage seminar the entire seminar is available free of charge at the.com