Dumb Mistake 3 Smart Couples Make Rabbi Shafier

[Music] the rambam gives a formula for a beautiful marriage if he will respect her more than himself if he will love her as he does himself if she will look at her husband and treat him with exceeding amounts of respect explains the rambam their marriage will be beautiful but you see the RBA makes a very particular point if he will respect her more than himself and love her as himself self respect be comes before love and this is the third mistake that unfortunately many very smart couples tend to make they stop focusing on the respect in the marriage they're no longer so polite they're a bit dismissive they no longer listen to each other's opinion so carefully and very quickly once the respect begins to fade the love follows suit you see it's hard enough for me to love you if I don't respect you but if I'm not giving you respect it becomes almost impossible for you to love back and this mistake of not remembering the ramoms formula that it's respect first and love second is one of the really dumb mistakes that many very smart couples make you have just seen an excerpt from the marriage seminar the entire seminar is available free of charge at the.com [Music]