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We're standing over here by a boy that became so close in his 13 years of life to so many people like of Ellie Brishita said today in the elevator he said his face is shining he used a different word he said he said upon him and he said it's it's important to have it. Good to have it. And tonight over your face is shining even more. His rebi said that this morning he went to yeshiva like is a kesh was noish that he went to yeshiva day of his mitzvah his excitement on chabist when he came about mitzvah he's acting like a different person. He is a different person is by mitzvah. I wanted to say one short message to Dovi and I'm sorry it's hard for you to concentrate now so maybe I'll repeat it again but this is for the and anyone in this class that is about mitzvah boys one short message I think this puts a little bit into perspective dovi the work that you put in that every boy puts in through his years to become by mitzvah and then go through his teenage years to mitem that soon we should be by the bye together with everyone that's here in Gizont. The question is we count everyone asks we count up one 2 3 4 5 13 four they keep on going up in in in in in days. In reality we really should be doing the opposite. Someone's and he has 30 days left to his wedding. He goes 30 29 28. You have 10 days left. We were counting down. We said last week we said we have a week to the bar mitzvah we have seven days was Wednesday we said six days it's in two days mitzvah today is the bar mitzvah we should be counting down why we counting up the answer is depends what the goal is if the goal is to get to a certain place that's the goal get to that place said of course we would count down because then we get to that place but the object is not to get to any place that's the to the object is the road to get to that place if If a person would put a chip in someone's brain and he would know gunshas, it would be a worthless shas that he has. Of course, a person should know shas. But it's the journey. It's the journey that counts. And people want the journey. Okay, there's a bad years. It was hard for me in yeshiva then. Now I know how to learn. No, that is what it is. That's the good years. That's the says in We know that is referring to when a person went up to be regul what happened when he went to what was so good about his shoes his shoes he didn't wear when he got to finally regular he got to he had to take your shoes off so what is it what is so beautiful about these the says a person goes ahead and he knows he has to be regular and he was out in who knows in kifa and it took him a month till he got there with his carbon and he had to leave his family behind him. He took some of the kids and he's struggling. It was raining. It all was sunny. Finally gets to he's so excited. He sees a gorgeous doing and he sees and he's so excited. He takes his shoes. He pushed them off and he's happy. He's here in the He's so excited. Says to Buncham, "No, I love those shoes. I love the journey that got us up here to the Harbay." No one knows what the journey is. Every single person in this room, we all have some of us journey, some of us don't. But if you ever want to become anything, you have to go through a journey. Don't forsake don't think bad on the journey. The journey is it the journey is the main thing. The main thing is the is the work not that the comes in your mind doesn't say anywhere that noises that it's about. It's about that if it's hard to wake up one morning and you get up. That's what's the thing. It's not that you got the yeshiva. It's how you got my bravi and to everyone in this room. We should each and any every every one of us we should to appreciate our journey in life should make that we should realize that our journey is is good. It's our journey and we should be za very very quickly that we should be to come up to that and take our shoes off and then will say again how beautiful is that footsteps that got us to that day of This one Joey needs his mic to work your shoes Antonio Mickey Alexander me la. Oh la. Oh deo. Ah I am ah oh Yo yo yo nicing. Y. I keep my baby show you I see the man. 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Can a cotton who became baritzvah during sphere continue counting with the asked if a kan counted sphere until his bar mitzvah can he continue counting after his bar mitzvah was do we say that since he wasn't to count as a katan is if he did not count and therefore when he becomes mitzvah he cannot continue counting with or do we say that since he did count as a katan he can continue counting with the sher is was there whether a mitzvah done when one's pter can be used to fulfill his once he becomes in that mitzvah The answer is this question from the Gar says that a guy who has children and then he and children are we see from here that a mitzvah performed when one is potter can be considered to be obligation once he becomes the garamar said that a shite and recovered is not yet since he was a shite at the time he ate the matzah If so, why is this different from a who is a mitzvah of Peru? Even though he had children when he was a guy brings the ter did not perform any mitzvah. The mitzvah is to imat and a shait who has no d is incapable of fulfilling the mitzvah. Even when his d returns there was no k and the msa mitzvah. On the other hand with regard to pur there is no msa mitzvah. The k mitzvah is the result of having children. When the guy's mad or the children are present when a mitzvah is defined by its result we can recognize this reality now when he is in the mitzvah even though it was accomplished when he was fat from the mitzvah. Let us now return to our question of a count continuing to count with become upon becoming a guttle has a unique den of timus. This d of timus teaches us that the mitzvah is not just to count each day and week but rather the total number of days and weeks be counted. Granted a katan does not have the capacity to perform the my mitzvah of counting. However, he does have the ability that through his days he achieves the result that the days were counted. When he becomes a god the reality before us is that the days and weeks were counted. This is similar to a who was messag with his children. He fulfills his obligations through what was done when he was. With this idea, we can answer another question. The Raam Pasi comes between to bring a carbon pen. However, if his father with him in mind while he was still then then he then became a gueni. The case of commission asked on the raam. How could this be? The child was cuten when the carbon pic was offered. Why is this different from the case of a shait who ate matzah where we said that if he recovers he must eat the matzah again. The answer is there regarding matzah the mitzvah is to eat the matzah. When a shaita eats matzah he has not fulfilled the mat mitzvah and must eat matzah again. However the mitzvah of carbon pes does not only require that he eat the carbon. In fact, the primary mitzvah is a result that the carbon was offered on his behalf. Although he was a cotton at the time, the reality is a result that the carbon was offered on his behalf. That reality remains even now when he's a godle. The kish we take away from here is the it's the result of one who is potter can be later be used to fulfill his obligation when he becomes k. At this time, I would like to express my caret to all those who brought me to this day. With Hashem's help, I hope to bring knockup to my family and all of Clim. Baby mama baby don't y Oh yeah. Heat. miles of light. Hey, hey, hey. I like baby boy. I'm scared of you. Everybody see me. Everybody me the special without the I see the other TV. Oh city lady and say ho ho hallelujah single hallelujah I see Moat. N oh n N someone once came over to me to me. Hey This is what I told. This is what I told. This is what I told them. 1 2 3 go. I am down. It's me again. Yeah. to be a you know banana Oh, don't be a big Don't be the sun be in the face of They are the king of my king. They are my king of my father. Roll me in the big capital. Hello. I'm not I'm not the die. Get out of my La. I'll be for you. La yeah n it I got you. He told you I said that I did it again. He told you I said my life again. He told you that I did. You know you get myself again. The heart is again Heat. Heat. Nord. Oh, it a I hope I to myself that I keep myself I feeling it. I feeling it. I feeling it. I feeling it. I keep telling myself I said that I keep telling myself that I keep My shal ha. Hon. Only going I Heat. Heat. Woohoo! Mr. Everyone go. Hey yo. Data. Jack. They don't take the man. Oh, you know, Jack. Oh my god. Yeah. Heat. Oh sh I don't I don't Oh sh I don't we Oh, heat, heat. She said I in the sugar. Immato tomato. Let's go. 1 2 3 I should let go. I said they should never never I love I me again. Dig. Everyone borrow everyone is very I see her. I'm so proud of Dovi but everyone not just proud but everyone loves him now. Everyone's going to love him even more because we only have one more drusser for the night. That's it. His request was that there should be very few drushes. He said he wants a lot of music, dancing. He wants to enjoy. A lot of food's going to come here. It's hashem. So, we have one left. So, please everyone give me a minute. Thank you. I have to say one quick vertic that'll be the introduction for the final speaker for tonight. Give me a minute, please. And I appeared to Dr. Elhoice to the fathers. We all know with the Dr. If you want to know and this is for anyone that came here this evening could appreciate this V and the should come with you why did he appear you wanted appear to you weren't the one that never had you didn't go straight into became had no choice but to be part of that person's life because he's watching his child. Rabbi Fishbane and his wife were raonim rabbits in Buffalo and they were raonim and a lot of raon throughout the world. There are very few that take such an 25 years later. Taking the should bestow upon you and your family the for all the projects and the parts of that you took on the should bless you. They should be part of your life. part of all our lives to everyone in this room at this time. Everybody say please give your attention for a couple of moments for said like said the last druss and that you have to thank Dolby for please give your attention to our fishbin. Wow. Dovi. Wow. All those conversations about your bar mitzvah. Is it on and Barakashem were here? The Sima Major Yashak the Rabbi Rabbit Wallerstein. Unbelievable. Now, Dovi, I want to address a few words to yourself. You know, Barak Hashem, we're here at your bar mitzvah. It's unbelievable. Let's just talk about for a minute. What is a bar mitzvah? What happens when you become bar mitzvah besides this wonderful affair and shabas? So we have a clal from the vilgoy. Whenever you want to know the shyish the source of anything you look at the first time it's mentioned in the Tory. So when is bar mitzvah mentioned the first time in the Tory? The first time bar mitzvah is mentioned in the tires and parasi says. So that's the first time it's mentioned and talked about mitzah. Now there are two questions on this rashi that I heard from Abd Zukerita Shak in Chicago. Wait a minute. Didn't we learn three sukum later that it says that asov went off because au died 5 years earlier. And it says in Rashi over there that Asa was 15 years old, not 13 years old when he went to the base of of Adazar. So which one was it? Was it 13 or was it 15? And the second question he asked is that Rashi's very clear that up until his bar mitzvah, you couldn't tell the difference between as they were very similar. So what happened the morning of his bar mitzvah he just went he went to a desar like in in in one one day those are two kashas on this rashi. So to understand this, we need to understand a little bit of how the Shilam set up a human when they're born and how they grow. The growth we'll call it the steps of growth. This is based on the Kaz in a person is born says the Kazenish as a loosely translated as a wild person very much inward thinking about themselves wanting wanting pursuing things that make them feel good. And then as they slowly grow and they have family and raim and others around them that that start teaching them there's another world there's other people focus on that and to focus on the fact and learn the the the the tools in order to get out of being a par and the has a long I won't go into it of what happens how some people they can go in life and they never really learned the lesson. It's only through Muser working on me. Okay. But this pool of inward of parad versus the Adam is all taught the tools from when one's born until the end of their 12th year. Afterwards on day of the day of the bar mitzvah gives an unbelievable gift who gave you this week your best friend in the world. That's the now that you have the when one becomes he can take all of the that they got and utilize it to become a mash. That is what goes on when one becomes a bar mitzvah. So now let's return to the two questions. We asked two questions. Was it 13 or was it 15? It seems to be a steer and rashi. And how did Asov and Russia go off in just one day? Rashi says they were they went to the same yeshiva. He couldn't tell the difference in Yakov and Asov. So the answer is the following. Asov was destined to be one of the asda Miller writes. We were supposed to say l Abraham lak a k as his head was unbelievable far greater zakazal than yakabina which is why his head was takar and he understood that in order for him to accomplish his tapid to eradicate rah in the world he needed to go and study the rah and to go to the base avoid that's rashi. It's an upshot that he just went ala he went to study the avoid so that he can eradicate the avoid said over that there was a tufa that shams rafal hir used to go to the mikvah a lot which if anyone knows anything about yakas that uh it's not a it's not a yakish a thing you know and they asked him why are you going to the mikvah so much it's not kipper I mean that's what they would ask us lto talks but what what what's going on. So he says because my tough is to fight my tough is to fight reform. I have to read their books and I don't want to be mushba. So I therefore I'm going to the mikvah to be matire myself. So that's what happened with Asov. As of taka went at 13 as a timistic. He went to learn it. But two after two years of being in Mushba, he overcame and he became what we know today as Russia. And that answers both questions. So there's a lot to learn from this. But here's the point. Obie Barak Hashem, you're an amazing amazing young man. And throughout your life, you have many people that have influenced you and given you the tools that now that you're bar mitzvah and you have your best friend, which is the you're going to achieve greatness. your siblings Yitzy and Rukama the Hmodo and the Emos Jacob and Kayla unbelievable Pikus Fagis Gilasadim Na's hard work ethics Aus Reva's zest for life and Gishmak and your parents the Miraes and Guru. So Dovy, you have all of this together. So let me just tell you as someone who's been involved from like a walling said many many years to walk your parents down the let me tell you some insights that I might share with you that I feel about yourself these kas that now that you're a bar mitzvah that you can take this best friend to and do amazing things in life. First of all, you have a very very good heart. You notice when people need things cuz you're very observant and you act in it right away. You're very tick. If anything gets broken in the house, Doy's on it. He's got all sorts of machines and who knows what, but he does it. He's great. The fact that children just are drawn to you, they love you and you love them back. That's real. You have something in you. And most of all, I want to tell you something, Dovy. You possess true leadership qualities. So, guess what? Tomorrow morning after you finish counting all your bar mitzvah presents and money and all that the real work starts these kas that you got from your family and borashem you're an amazing family of the wallings now an amazing family these kus together with the yates we together with Cla are are certain and we're rooting for you. May you go alto? How are you over there? Heat. Heat. They come down come forget forgetition. My I think my hand I get my the I eat. N I I hey La yeah I hey hey I need it I know you're there. The gift of Maso. to the maske. Number Sharers McDonald. music openers. I'm checking out more negativity. Checking out more out. Go back. Yes. All your slide. Yes. 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Heat. Oh, she cover in honor of Laru. The rabbi is here. And this is a special request in honor of the we have C major up in honor of the we grew up together in New York City. Oh, how the time has flown by. We were inseparable, closer than brother. My best friend Sammy and I we play by the oak tree in my house. to where it go. Each one of us dreaming, pretending to be the great chosen mag. Oh, one day we sp the tree. Oh, look. I got chosen as your God. And he love deep inside my I would keep forever. It was so It was so very precious. Now be ready for a Oh, when we grew up for your shield, a change could be seen from the star. Sam left the study. What I like to daydream and slowly we drifted apart. I watch things roll in his learning and fail with a mixture of envy and cry. I realize with sadness no more my best friends. Oh, many years pass as I watch my own children play outside. I remember the sh and the great chosen. They would knock at my door. The letters arrived in the bed. We'll pay half a million of it is one of a kind. I answer them. It's not for sale. Take it away. Oh, when we grow and left for Yeshua. >> Oh, whoops. Wait, wait. background. I read in the papers from rock to hear the words in the life of my he became the shashim of our old school and now was the leader of me. But there was the fire that ravished his soul. I knew it just might break his heart. So I reached in my draw and I said my goodbye to the show. Oh, one day my grandson from Michigan was saying and I believe I trust And about I will keep it forever and ever. >> It is so precious to me. It is so very precious to me >> because I don't enjoy that. Here we go. Here we go. Take it away. When we were younger out the city as BS in school we never studied. All we did was like no ever lasting long. They all just ran away. Oh tried to teach us the baby. We just rising to everything he said. All we like to do is sit and watch our TV set. We talk about the Yankees and the Dodgers and the basketball. Well, the principal wrote the new review the first day of his birth and he says to show discipline be strong. Don't think all these youngsters run the school. He said the big brown and by the way for the next few weeks I'm going out now. He was strange. He never left the school. He just kept on teaching while we broke all the rules. And though we haven't even learned a single word all year, it was the time already and the rebound and when came around it was to play that game against those boys from Brooklyn. Now we prayed it was the rain. All nine of us got on the bus with our gloves and blast. The radio also came along with his jacket. Right from the stars we all could see things were going right out of sight. Just everything looking up tur is ready sliding into third. You're a team. You only got a guy. >> What did he say? >> No. >> I am the rebell. The fisher with a smile. Knocked the cover on the faces. He scored the winning run. He danced and cheered and he said, "Now boys, >> you owe me one." Well, the next day in the class, no one moved and no one stirred. The Remy started teaching and his voice that could be heard. We all said, "Hey, it's interesting. The man is no more." The legendary side songs were gone forever more. Oh, that used to teach us each and every day. We opened up our eyes and ears do everything you say and no more things we sit all day and watch on TV7. We talked about the Russian >> and the Mets. Now we have to go away from journeys. Thank you Joey. We're going to go one song and then we'll go to another song. This song is requested by he wants to see Joey take it behind his back. He will now do a perfect imitation of the pment. I love I love you. I want you to put some inside. I want my Here we go. Heat. Heat. Oh yeah. The shadow. I want to you Heat. Heat. Heat. The shadow. 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