Donation Fraud, Bad Rabbis, Unmotivated Frum, Stolen Lulav, Agunot LAST CHANCE- STUMP THE RABBI (21)

[Music] we're back in Sunny Isles we're doing our series on Stump the rabbi hopefully you guys have some questions today we'll have the uh answers um the uh sh will be for for a David Ben dor B Leana um esora also for and all of uh so uh today B we're going to go over some questions as a uh side note for uh anyone who doesn't know uh our website ism.org be z r a t h h m.org uh there's all of our sh are on that website you could also go on uh uh iTunes and also on Google and download the uh app if you don't want to see all the filth of the internet and you want to go straight to t you could just download the app it's a fantastic app and there's an update coming up very soon um and uh so the uh the app is a batm uh it's called batm app uh and the website is bam.org uh reason I'm mentioning is because a lot of people asking me uh questions that I don't know I guess I assume people know but uh apparently they don't which is where to donate people ask where to donate uh well actually people ask me two types of questions about donations most of the time they ask me if they should donate to somebody else that's most of the time because that's my special tun in the world to deal with stupid people uh you go to someone that uh donates his life to the world for free and you ask him can I donate after I took everything for free can I donate to somebody else it's my tun in the world this is what I deal with all day you'd be surprised how many people ask me this question I don't get mad I just I feel sorry for people because I don't know you figure put a brain in your head you don't know how to use it it'sin guy tells me he wants to uh start a community he's asking if I want to come I want to go start a community two people already asked me in the last month if I want to go start a community uh um so one of them asked me uh do you want to start a community I said okay what what are you offering for entertainment purposes and uh he goes I'll I'll provide a place said what a building you provide a building no no no I said you're going to buy a building no you're going to rent a building no salary no what are you providing I'll provide a place what your kitchen to do sh go yeah you can figure out you can do something I start a community this is what I deal with this what I deal with all the guys it's my ton in the world I thought Wall Street was hard uh so anyway that's 90% of the questions is if you're allowed to donate to somebody else now for years I even myself sometimes take money and donate to other causes if I see it's a worthy cause uh uh or I'll promote somebody else's campaign if let's say someone's sick and I know them or something like that I'll tell people to donate to other things because again sometimes it's a good thing to donate to specific causes uh most likely I will never do it again uh and the reason why is because a couple of them have gone wrong uh people that uh seemed trustworthy uh ended up becoming not so trustworthy so from now on the answer is for anyone who's asking me where you should donate.org that's the only place that I could trust and the reason why is because I'm in it other organizations you have to ask somebody else don't ask me if you could donate to a or to Yeshiva or to some sick person I don't know um and it's just people are not trustworthy it's just unfortunately there's a lot of fake campaigns uh out there there's a lot of people that are asking for money for absolutely no reason they have money but they want more or uh literally just false campaigns so I can't help you with that anymore uh you want to donate it's at your risk uh as far as uh what we do if people don't realize what we do by now I also can't help you so as far as the uh the few people that do donate you could donate to bash.org further in regards to um some of the things that are coming up soon B as I said they uh there's going to be a new version new edition of the app is coming out very soon bem we'll also have a couple of uh short films coming up uh hopefully in the next few days we'll have one uh released and then uh the big movie the big movie that we've been working on for the last year year and a half how long has it been Sunny year and a half movie year and a half year and a half already been working working on this movie uh and it'll come out very soon we're working on getting it to have some subtitles also uh Spanish Hebrew maybe something else we'll see so the movie is going to be a big thing I hope it's going to help a lot of people um and uh also add more people to the list of enemies because that's usually what happens with the more success you have the more enemies you have especially in the Torah World in business people always go after each other because people are jealous but you figure okay he wants his money he wants his money they're both fighting for the same client that makes sense in the Torah World it doesn't really make sense and the reason why is because you both are supposed to be Jewish follow the law of which is that all of am are supposed to love each other if you're both rabbis why we should you be enemies shouldn't you both both be best friends in order to help is theoretically that's the way it's supposed to work unfortunately it's not and um for the last five years I've told people that you know people always ask me how come you always talk about other rabbis not being good doing bad things in Russia doing bad things in Los Angeles doing bad things here and there how come there's two reasons for that number one nobody else talk talks about it and that makes the problem worse than what it is and the reason why is because when there's a Cancer and you ignore it it continues to grow and eventually it becomes fatal if you catch the cancer right away you could save yourself a lot of headache a lot of pain and even your life but if you just ignore it and pretend no no it's just a headache what do you mean it's a headache it's a tiny little tumor it's going to get bigger no no it's going to go away from what wait think it's a uh there's no audio online there's no audio online this is a special T today give me the thing no we're just not going to do it we're just going to do online I'm not going to do it so the uh I don't have the patience to be honest with you the uh people that want to see the lectures live you have to attend if there's any issues with the with the the cameras and all that stuff it's aead it's enough I don't have the patience don't complain about volume don't complain about [Music] division this is a uh hard as it is you want to see it live attend sorry it's just the way it is um as far as the uh the people that uh are uh doing a lot of things wrong in the world problem is that no one is saying anything for a very long time in the last 25 years we've had major changes so much so that even theim today are simply powerless even the people that are are powerless why because there's always somebody else to contradict them and no one really wants to listen to One G I was telling somebody on the way here that uh even though you have you have Maz ra kki you have a few but it doesn't matter why if one of them says something and the people don't like it they just won't listen I'm not talking about the non-religious people the non-religious people that's given already non-religious people right now are trying to uh many of them are trying to pretty much make uh Israel into uh California they're trying to pretty much remove religion from from from from is right now trying to remove the raban remove uh the the law to that has to uh marriage has to go to the raban have reform conversion all types of garbage so uh this is a disaster this is a disaster but the bigger disaster is that the religious world is at fault it's not the secular world that's at fault it's the religious world that's at fault why if the religious world was United then there would be many more running the Israeli government they would give more more votes to the Israeli parties instead of creating new parties new political parties run by different religious people there would be one religious party the Shas or whichever one there'll be one religious party everybody would be on that one religious party more people would give it power they would control the house in Israel but instead everybody wants their own Rabbi everybody wants their own sh everybody wants their own thing and what ends up happening everybody loses so no one has enough power they're all weak and little by little they getting thrown out but that's the religious people's fault it's not the secular people's fault here we can't blame them why we're not United one big Rabbi says something says oh I have a different big Rabbi who I'll find somebody he says something else big rabbis came out signed the signature a few years ago already two years ago it's been signed signed out outright saying you're not allowed to wear a wig if you're a Jew you're not allowed to wear a wig why it's overwhelming evidence that all of the W real hair wigs today are coming from India from idolatry big rabbis people say no no some other Rabbi said something else who he died so obviously he didn't say anything about today cuz this is today alive no but he would have said it if he was alive now this sounds humorous right 15 years ago just to show you how in your own lifetimes even the youngest person here would see would understand 15 years ago Arash said you're not allowed to wear wigs because they're coming from India same exact thing was discovered for the first time almost 1 million Jewish women burned their wigs the next day nobody wore wigs everybody was scared to death why ra Yash said wigs are not allowed wigs not allowed husbands came to the house honey where's your wig where's your wig started taking it out people were panicking they had bonfires in Brooklyn in Lakewood in is all over the place why said no wigs that said no wigs no one said oh yeah but my Rabbi said something else there is no my Rabbi what said no no that's the way it's been for 3,300 years until we got it today today because we have lack of unity and our those are getting smaller and smaller meaning Shalom already left the world left the world we are we are a orphan Nation we don't have anything and even if somebody it's big you have R kki say something it's like yeah R keski he's not my R what you mean he's not your R he's the biggest Rabbi in the world yeah no no I'm Safar okay says the same thing no but I don't really agree what do you mean who do you agree with then my local Rabbi your local Rabbi is 25 years old what do you mean your local RAB no but I like him he's on YouTube people don't know what a is people people don't know what is but this is the religious world's problem so now the biggest problem is that even the religious people are starting to suffer from secularism where their own kids in this generation every bite every bite almost every religious house almost has somebody going off the doesn't matter if they went to the best Yesa worst Yesa every bite every house has a kid two three falling off no one not understand in being religious anymore what happened you believed in hm yesterday today you don't believe why he went away he went on vacation secularism is affecting everyone how why it all starts with weak leadership when the leader when the local Rabbi from kabad from breast from your modern Orthodox Sho and boaron and other places is telling you that Hashem loves you no matter what and uh you could spend your time on a Sunday instead of learning to you could spend it watching football it's just as good learn to in halftime when that's what happens and the rabbi becomes your friend and he starts playing basketball with you on Shabbat guess what it's only a matter of time before you're not interested in AEM now last night we mentioned the ofu ofu we mentioned it how if if they didn't come up and step up to the plate and sacrifice their life we wouldn't be here today but there's something interesting that Torah says that abah ainu he wrote on a donkey that was created Ben those unique things that were created on Friday at the end of the day and right before Shabbat it's a short period of time called Ben unique creations the staff of mosu was created during this time the mid says it was a staff that was similar Stone to Ruby beautiful weight 674 lbs 10 amot which is almost 20 feet it's like a tree was walking around with that regular walking stick CU he was big also this was created during bmot this donkey was created BM the mouth of the donkey of of bam that spoke was created bmot the name of mashia was was decided benm unique creations so this donkey this special donkey that wrote was created then later on mosenu rode the same donkey all donkey get Social Security and everything and they say that the mashia mashia Ben David is going to ride the same donkey now this donkey was this donkey is 6,000 years old do anybody here actually think it's a real donkey what do you think is a donkey that's walking around waiting for mashia the word donkey come is in Hebrew is comes from the word means material physicality materialism the reason why picked is because abrah ainu completely disconnected from all materialism for the sake of he sacrificed his life by jumping into the fire time and time again throughout his entire life for the sake of says leave your father's house go to a place no problem going over here it's comfortable he's got money he's got everything go somewhere else go no problem take your son sacrifice him no problem whatever it is no problem you command it I do ainu completely cancelled out his own opinion mosu completely canceled out his own opinion it's not a matter of whether I want to go or I don't want to go says yes that's what I do and mashid completely disconnected from materialism as well meaning from here we learn that provided us materialism whether it's money cars houses jewelry computers food whatever it is for a specific unique purpose if you use your material to connect to it's as if you canceled it out because we see that abam was very very rich in many many animals he was the richest man of the land says blessed what does it mean with everything he had money he had Fame he had Fortune he had everything so it's not like he had no money mosenu also Rich billionaire so it's not that they were poor that they removed themselves from materialism and there were just homeless people collecting chain just so they could eat no they were Filthy Rich As far as our our standards are concerned but they were removed from the materialism meaning every anything that they had they used it for Kusa this table I'm going to put k on it this cup I'll drink wine right after I do this this room I'll learn in this room whatever they had said how can I use this to serve a by using it to serve you're actually making it holy which is removing the materialism from the world why because this is no longer material anymore this is Holy so says if you use the material for Holy reasons to connect to me it's as if you're canceling it out and you're reaching closer and closer to me and you're reaching your own personal obligation in the world if you don't use it for Holiness if the only reason you brought a car is so you could show off to your friends and strangers if the only reason you are doing an extension to your house or remodeling to your house or you move to a certain neighborhood is you could tell people where you live and show them your kitchen and give the tour then obviously this is not exactly holy if the only reason why you work so much is to make more money so you can go on more vacations that are away from the bet midash that are away from Holiness then obviously your work is there's nothing holy about it says if you do not use material ISM for a holy purpose you're going to get hurt by it it becomes poison if you use the material that I give you use the house the car the watch the ring the phone the computer to connect to it's as if you've canceled it out all together it's no longer material but if you're just focused on enjoying the moment and showing off it's actually hurting one of the Prime examples that we see is had all the material in the world you can possibly ask for but has no share of the world to come why he did not make anything holy so from here we see that all of us spend our money on different things we're all allowed to have nice things you're all allowed to have nice house a nice car a nice watch a nice this a nice that but it has to be proportionate to how much nice meetv you have what else are you doing with the money how else are you using this car are you only using this car to show off or using this C to come to sh also are using this money that you make from the job just to buy new stuff and to make your stomach a little bit bigger like you're going to be uh looking pregnant soon or you using it to publicize T get am to do CH and the interesting thing is is that the very same Wicked rabbis that we talked about momentarily just a few moments ago always like to talk about the they love to talk about the I tell you if you give it sa your you know it says that they know all the all the sources in the world of why giving is good but I'm going to give you a it's worth a million dollars you can take it for payments though not down payment except no no haven't seen him for a while you one shot only says a person that gives the to the wrong place meaning he gives the to a place that's not holy he picked the wrong Rabbi he picked the wrong organization the organization spreads spreads atheism spreads nonsense heresy says that's like wasting seed person gives money took money took took 20% he wants to be why it says you're rich in your own lifetime you give 20% of your money for says you're going to be for sure rich in this lifetime so the guy wants to be sadik wants to be rich too says I'm going to take I make 100,000 20,000 from the gross goes to local K 20,000 goes to local Rabbi local this or one of the big organization if that organization does not spread the truth that helps do says it's the same exact thing as if you just wasted seed why it's not like as if we're we're not doing it enough why he said what happens when you waste seed what happens a person takes the she the good that gave him and wastes it hem gave him the power to bring life to the World Imagine one seed can bring endless amount of one let's say you have one kid that kid's going to have another kid another two kids three kids four kids before you know it you're going to be like by the time he died left this world thousand grandkids 1,000 grandkids is how he left the world for one seed thousand grandkids so what happens when a person weighs seed is he takes the shef the goodness that gave and he wastes it when a person gives to the wrong place that spreads anti Tor nonsense opposite of Torah spreads weakness says you yourself have a very serious problem why even your is not aah it's a sin a big one why says but he never said be stupid you have to double check why am I giving this place what's the results that they have what do they generate other than having a building with an air conditioner that works really well what else do they produce does anybody do Chu K I've gone to the sh 5 years 10 years have I ever seen anybody do chuva or they came animals they stayed animals or maybe they got even worse are all the women becoming more and more modest with each year that their husbands go to the sh or they stay the same are the husbands becoming more and more religious or they stay the same they came with a quarter keeper they left without a keepa even is anyone changing from this community this organization okay you see their commercials everywhere but is anyone actually changing relative to the numbers people say yeah but you know how many people uh did CH in kabad because we mentioned something about the fakers in kabad there are many of them there's some good ones and some bad ones and I said that yeah but kabad does a lot of good yes some kabad does a lot of good but proportional to how much kabad has it's as if they do nothing a $100 million a month you should make all of in one year $100 million a month in one year you should make all that's the budget for average kabad does not exactly have uh everybody is Bala average kabad doesn't even have the the average Manan even keeping Shabbat why because the average kabad hates the truth like I said it's not most it's just a lot and the number is growing and one of the reasons is because they've been leaderless for almost 30 years any organization wors Assault wors It weights and salt needs to have a leader when you don't have a leader what do you expect people go crazy they start mentioning name things in the name of the the holy labi they mention things in his name he never said I feel bad for him that this is this is what what's going on but that's the truth that's the truth so a lot of communities are building new buildings new yes new it but you're not seeing anywhere nearly as much and people becoming more FR in fact you're seeing the opposite just on the way here just on the way here I got a text message from a student with a picture of some well-known Rabbi in a Formula 1 race you know the race cars with a bunch of Buddhists and Christians and pastors and so on meaning was like a religious meeting at a Formula One race and he's asking me can I still listen to this Rabbi or is he a clown I've become the rabbi police I don't even have to answer that I mean if you think that you should listen to from somebody that goes to Formula 1 races with an idol worshipper then you need more help than I could help you with but this is what's happening AB so the reason why we speak against the falsehood is like I said number one nobody else is is doing it with the exception of me RA nobody else wants to talk about it why it's the Inconvenient Truth that's very very uncomfortable but like I said you have to because if you let the cancer grow it becomes fatal eventually and that's what's happening now now we've got to the point where we have certain communities you pretty much have to write them off like Sodom you can't do anything with them it's too late too late they let things go too far you can't help them you cannot go into reform sh and tell maybe you guys want to do cha it's too late they're giving B mitzvas to dogs they you could go on YouTube Talk bar mitzvah for a dog you'll see a bunch of them reformed Jews giving bar mitz they put on a dog $2,000 on a dog put a keep on a dog all of these people that are not interested in the Adit there's nothing to do to help them and unfortunately one of the main things that they all do is they speak against the truth how do I know from all of your faces ones here the ones that are no longer here and the thousands and thousands of you all over the Internet that tell me my Rabbi said that you made a mistake but he never mention the source of how you made a mistake though but he keeps telling me I shouldn't go and watch your sh every day there's at least five or 10 of those every Rabbi has a problem with people watching my why because you do you do become more religious than him but this is what's happening now the problem is there's not much I can do about that one I can give sh I can give personal guidance but there's not much more that I can do meaning that battle that each one of you have there's not much I can do to help you and the reason why is because it won't stop until you make a choice you have to make a choice you're going to stand for the truth or you're going to go after falsehood gu questions for a second because all of the false speak all of the fakers are going to come to you and they're going to try to convince you to stop listening to the truth and one of the reasons is because the truth hurts them also and that's why they won't speak against some Governor that comes to speak at their Sho about Zionism or something like that they won't speak against Christianity that it's been murdering Us in the streets for 2,000 years they won't speak against Christianity that they're doing Public public conversions in America and Israel every week by the thousands thousands of Jews are converting every week to Christianity there's not a single Rabbi that speaks against them with the exception of the ones that focus on it like toia singer the Jews for Judaism organization myself that's it out of the hundreds of thousands of people nothing they won't speak against them who are they going to speak against somebody that follows the letter of the law says this this is what we say say this this is what we say that's what they speak against and they've convinced many many people that did Chua from our to actually become enemies where they take they did chuva they were donkeys they became human beings now they're uh frogs not even worse than worse than a donkey why because now they take the Torah that actually helped them do chuva and they manipulate it why because the rabbi helped to manipulate it why because they wanted to park they wanted to go on neutral they figured I'm starting to keep Shabbat that's enough but this Rabbi ruven keeps telling me that I keep getting better I have to keep getting better I keep getting better how do I stop oh I have to go to a local local clown local clown with a beard calls himself a rabbi he's going to tell me no no this ruen guy no he does what he's talking about he's makes mistakes he makes mistakes where did he make a mistake where where did he make everybody keeps saying I make mistakes okay show me the mistake make a video about it all the stuff that I say is public go make a video show me where I made a mistake show me if I made a mistake I'll make a whole new video saying I'm sorry about it but no they don't have anything they just like to say he makes mistake why cuz people they know that people don't know themselves if you say he made a mistake oh he doesn't make mistakes so okay so I shouldn't listen to him anymore okay that's it he's not reliable anymore oh so that means I could was seed Oho that means I could drive on Shabbat then oh so that means that my girlfriend that's a Goya that I didn't really leave I go back with her okay thank you you're a good Rabbi you're a good Rabbi I like you kind of Rabbi you're Orthodox right Orthodox not reform no okay this is what's happening that battle that you each have individually when you're going to go to your when you're going to go to Yeshiva when you're going to go to the K and you're unfortunate enough to fall as prey to one of these Wicked rabbis that battle I can't help you why it's for you I can help you with the if you ask me a question I can help you you ask me for guidance I could help you but I can't be there I'm not God I'm barely a man the battle is cated for you meaning is telling you you have to make a choice either you're 100% with a or you with the rest of the garbage of the world right now we have almost 8 billion people in the world 99.999% of them are Christians almost two and a half billion of them all idolators what do you think Arabs vast majority of them want to kill us what do you think the billion and a half already you're at four billion all the Asians in China almost two billion and growing even with the one child policy almost all of them are either atheist or idolators it's another two billion you're at six India 880,000 different Cults and religions 880,000 different Cults and religions Jewish Community barely 4,000 people most of them billion people another garbage they have people in India that eat people still cannibals you think says these even the majority of our own brothers and sisters unfortunately according to the Tora we love them we want them to go do but if they die today nothing can help them that's why we'll finish with this you guys could ask all the questions you want says benav the mashia benav is not going to come until the generation is all righteous or all Wicked say it's never going to be possible if they're all righteous it's never going to be it's always going to be one rash it's always going to be one atheist one Wicked one homosexual is always going to be one of those how could it be Mia's never going to come and all it's also not possible why for the world to exist there has to be at least 36 sikim has to be at least 36 sikim so it can never be all so explains no no it's not that everyone has to beik or everyone has to be what is the really saying what is really saying here the mashia is not coming until everybody makes a choice either you're 100% going with hem you're sadik you're going to do your best to be the best doesn't mean you're perfect you make mistakes but you're going to do your best or you're going to do your best to go against theem you're just going to Simply ignore everything the Torah says care less make your own rules no one in the middle throughout all of history we've always had people in the middle he goes to beet but then he goes to the movies he goes to a but then he has a girlfriend though he has a business he gives but it's an illegal business Middle Ground we've always had says Masia is only going to come when everybody makes a choice so why when what if nobody wants to make a choice says no no no no I'm going to make them make a choice that's what's happening right now that's what's happening right now everybody is being put on the spot everyone is being put pressure on you have to make a choice you want to continue listening to fre D and all of the other of the world enjoy it's nice and warm over there permanently you want to do chuva listen to whoever tells the truth if that happens to be me if it's somebody else too I don't don't care who it is there's no Monopoly on Truth point is you have to make a choice that battles for you so with that being said please you can start with the questions appropriately no world's being destroyed no so you know you answer my first question going on to my second question um it's in regards to let's say what's the correct approach if say there's High holiday for example rash ising um you know now there's a relative that um is let's say dating married whatever to a Goya what is our take as a family who is religious right to tell the relatives say should he come or not that's my question meaning should he come to your house meeting with the Goya with the Goya correct oh not though he's not GNA have he's gonna eat pig no because if we say don't come with the doya then he's going to go spend the night with her elsewhere you know like rather than being inspired by that uh it's a yeah it's a uh it's a very very difficult issue it has to be uh the question is if somebody is uh married or dating a non-jewish woman or a non-jewish man uh do you invite them for the holidays now this believe it or not is a very very difficult question and the reason why is because it has to be evaluated on a case-by Case basis there's no rule of thumb what's the what's what's the reason the reason is is this person that they're with is this non-jew that they're with interested in Judaism but simply ignorant if they're interested in Judaism but they're ignorant just like their boyfriend or girlfriend that means that you can convince this boyfriend or girlfriend to actually go learn convert to Judaism and actually end up saving the N of this boyfriend girlfriend why because they have an interest they're not empty but if they are openly openly and proudly a Christian or a Catholic or some other form of idolatry you are forbidden 100% from inviting them forbidden 100% why there's no chance in the world that they're going to convert on your Shabbat on your table and for you to host them in essence what are you saying you're saying that everything's okay we'll accept you as it is because you're our cousin you're our a you are Uncle you are this and that's a problem that's a problem so most people are neutral to interested some people are proud of their idolatry and those people you cannot entertain in any way shape or form so it's a very very difficult issue in general it also you know requires the person that's inviting these people to be well equipped to know how to deal with these unique people you know if you don't know how to deal with uh with these types of people and how to bring them closer and closer to the truth and you're just hoping that they like the chant enough or the or the uh or the pomegranate enough that they're going to want to convert to Judaism then please don't invite anyone you should be by yourself why you're enabling them when you invite a sinner that's open sinner to your house for holidays or for Shabbat without saying anything in essence what you are saying is that it's all okay and that's the truth I had it and I experienced it for years the rabbis they used to come to my office two three times a week all knew that I was married to a nju all knew that I didn't keep mitv all knew but they loved my money they loved it so much they forgot they had to tell me the truth cuz they're rabbis for how long you figured no for a year two years if eventually I'll get the point 15 years 15 years they came to my office not a single time they told me the truth until put me through gay I didn't learn the truth the system of quiet doesn't work when you're quiet that means you're approving that's the truth you don't say something when you see something wrong you don't say anything about it that's a sign of approval that's a reality that's the way the people take it and that's why you have to be very very careful when you invite an open sinner if you're well equipped and you're strong enough to say something go for it but be careful you have you can't do it in front of little kids if there's a debate there's an argument so on and so forth you have to be careful you have to be generally speaking I say you're probably better off not inviting them let let them do whatever sins they want to do it's not your problem it's not it's not your problem most people are not well equipped most people don't know how to speak most people are afraid of altercation it's better off not to invite them they want to go eat pig let them eat go pig it's not it's not our problem it's not our problem I have a relative they used to come to my house I would invite them come to my house stay in my house but he couldn't take it he had to go out Friday night young guy like you guys little older you had to go out with his friends tried it once tried it twice after the second time he didn't want to stay in my house for for Friday I told him do me a favor don't ever come to my house on Shabbat you come any other day any other day you could come love you but don't come to my house on Shabbat why I can't tolerate you violating Shabbat you want to go kill yourself go kill yourself in front of somebody else yeah but then he's not goingon to have K don't have K it's not my problem it's not my problem you're not goingon to have K go eat pig for all that kids it's not my problem I'm not going to Gom for that but I will go to Gom if I continue enabling you and telling you it's all okay that you can come to to my house eat my wife's food enjoy it and then go drive to a club that's not for me so being quiet is a sin that's what the says that's what thebat says that's what the says across the board you're not allowed to be quiet so if you are well equipped and you know how to speak and you're not afraid to and you have the surroundings to do it go for it but if not it's better off you just mind your own business have F you know nice family dinner quiet celebrate let the Sinners sin as much as much as they want it's not your problem you didn't pick you didn't make the choice for them next question about to like not say anything like let's say you know someone who's like kind of religious like puts on fill in but like doesn't really like enjoy Judaism and like you want him to become closer to it like it's just him that like kind of doesn't want to do it right like and if you tell him D him three times a day instead of once he's just going to get more annoyed push away right so there are many people that are very very weak and getting weaker and in essence what the way that they're practicing their Judaism today is as if it's a burden praying is like ah I have to pray again now do we have to do it three times can we just do it once it's enough for hem kosher all the time just the other day somebody tell me listen does candy have to also be be kosher no the poor guy meant well but he was taught his whole life that listen meat has to be kosher everything else Kal no don't be a fanatic on us so the poor guy is already in his 20s he never knew that candy has to be kosher why candy has you know different types of ingredients in it one of the most common ingredients that's the worst is gelatin gelatin gelatin is made from Bones and if it's not from kosher animals it's coming from non- koser animals now whether that animal is pig or horse or some other non- kosher animal is irrelevant it's not Kosher so when you're eating a non- kosher Skittles or non- kosher Gummy Bears or some gummy candy or a bubble gum that's not Kosher in essence you just ate Pig same thing yeah but I didn't I didn't taste a pig whether you taste it or not doesn't make a difference now gelatin is not always not Kosher though there is kosher gelatin if there's a kosher symbol on the candy it's kosher and there's there's gelatin that's insignificant what is that gelatin that has to do with a no taste sometimes you have pills that in order to have the capsule made a certain way you could swallow it they make it with gelatin now that gelatin doesn't have any flavor if the gelatin does not have flavor you're allowed to use it you're allowed to consume it so but if it has flavor if it's in gum if it's candy and so on and so forth if it's not kosher you're not allowed to eat it so candy bubble gum chocolate bars everything has to be kosher if it's not Kosher there has to be a reason so many people don't even look at this stuff because they're so weakened by society and and and by just the secularism that they still keep Shabbat and kosher but everything isif you guys know what the word kif means kif means like you know like freely like here and there whenever I feel like it type of thing it's not like uh it's like lethargic you know it's like one of the guys comes to uh comes to the office or comes to school still half asleep like who wants an employee like this who wants a student like this he's sleeping in your class go sleep at home go sleep at home you have a bed over there why you sleeping in my class you think I want to watch you sleep go sleep somewhere else I used to have somebody come to my office half asleep I say do me a favor go work for somebody else no no I need the money I said you should have thought that before you fell asleep in my office yeah but I'm tired okay I'm tired too everybody's tired so people that make the mistake and perform their mitv that way where they're tired they're lethargic telling them to do more mitv is not going to help them why they don't even want to do what they're doing you tell them pray three times instead of once you're not helping them in fact they're saying you know what you should be grateful doing one as if they're doing you a favor tell no you really you should check if that's kosher listen I did that's enough that makes said kosher they're so annoyed with the with the with the burden if you will of religion of a Tora that it's like as if they're acting as if they're doing a world of favor so telling those people doing is not the way don't tell them anything what do you do let me tell them give him a CD yeah what is that interesting what is it about interesting what is it about really interesting don't ruin it don't tell them what it's about interesting that's all it is but I want to know what's about before I watch it it's really interesting you want some music okay there's some stuff online go to uh Chua music by RAB ruen you'll have a few videos over there with music and to at the same time that's the only that's the only pill that's going to work learning learning T is the only pill that's going to work telling them to do more it's not going to work why they need to know why they're even doing what they're doing now first they need to justify in their own psyche why am I even continuing to do this and I don't feel like doing it you want me to do more of it so first we have to convince them that what they're doing in essence is saving their own from going to G home once they realize that they're like oh wait so I should probably do more of this then they already do the in their mind once they realize that it's the right thing to do then they rationalize themselves that I need to do more of this right thing and that's it Torah is the cure to everything that's says is bigger than us but toora is bigger than him you want to beat the you have to use learning T yes earlier you said that it takes everyone to become a from right everyone to make a choice yes but I heard that if everyone keeps Shabbat for one week then two weeks two weeks in creation we already kept one Shabbat and in essence K says that if everybody if all of is keep Shabbat one time then mashia would have come unfortunately that's a uh impossibility for two reasons number one there are too many smim Lefty liberals that are haters of the Torah to the extent that they've invested their entire lives to go against the Tor like this one rash named Lev in is for the last almost 40 years he's written every single anti Tor article you can possibly find another rash they used to be religious called used to be in claims that he used to be he was maybe a r of a PE maybe the head of a uh of a elephant not ahead of a uh of a Yesa but anyway he became a complete K so people like this keeping Shabbat not happening further the biggest Christian missionaries in the world are Jews again the most successful Christian missionaries the people that bring Jewish people to Christianity are actually Jewish go get them to uh keep Shabbat so there's always going to be these second reason is in order to keep Shabbat appropriately you have to know Shabbat most people that are keeping Shabbat today don't realize that they're violating Shabbat even if they're religious they're violing Shabbat why CU if you don't learn Shabbat surely you're making mistakes in violating Shabbat now even though it's not a purposeful sin you're not driving on Shabbat you're not cooking on Shabbat but nonetheless many people are violating Shabbat without knowing it but it's still their fault and the reason why is because they're supposed to learn about Shabbat that's why I told you guys anybody doesn't have a book about shabat just come with car after the shoe I'll give you I'll give you books about Shabbat you need to learn shabat you have to know them cold so for all of to to keep Shabbat it's a fantastic thing to think it's a fantastic thing to uh to dream about and as even an organization I think it's called like uh that started in uh Africa about getting a lot of people to keep Shabbat and they got a lot of people to keep Shabbat once a year and that's nice and it's cute but no cigar it's not going to make the nation do Chua and the reason why is because if you're telling the person and keep one Shabbat a year as a nation it's not going to do it's actually enabling him enabling him to continue violating Shabbat why because in essence what you're telling them is that as long as he keeps one Shabbat everything else he does is okay it's like saying to a husband listen as long as I don't find out about your girlfriend it's okay for you to date her any what wife is gonna tell a husband listen you go out with any girl you want as long as I don't find out about them no who wants who wants such a husband like this or your wife is going to tell you honey listen I'm going to go out with other guys but you're never going to see it you're never going to see it I'm just going to go out with other guys when you're not home which guy wants to marry this girl raise your hand so in essence in essence in essence by telling am you can keep one Shabbat it's not enough why cuz you didn't tell them the reason why the reason why is because your oblig to keep every Shabbat that's the reason why says you violate I'm going to kill you that's what says 12 times in the so it's nice theoretically speaking but it's not enough it's not enough next question next question yes how can one develop his uh his or her ability on is being real with yourself now typically we all like to look at the flaws of everybody around us you see he's too tall he's too short he's too cheap he's too this he's too everybody wants to look at everybody else's flaws and very rarely do we look at our own flaws how do we know what our own flaws are first and foremost everybody knows their own weaknesses but if you live in la la land and you think you're perfect then here's a hint ask your spouse that's the hint ask your spouse if you're married your wife is your maror you ask her honey is anything wrong with me she's going to give you a whole lecture she's going to give you a whole leure she goes I thought you're never going to ask here's the book honey I wrote everything that's wrong with you in the last 25 years thank you I'm glad I'm glad you volunteered oh honey I never knew you wrote a book about me yeah yeah it's for you it's for you money I was waiting for you to ask finally what's wrong with you a husband ask his wife what's wrong with you she'll give you a list the wife asked the husband what's wrong with her he'll say three things then she'll kill him and she'll find a new husband why people don't want to hear the truth now what if you're not married if you're not married all you got to do if you want to find out what's wrong with you is what does everybody complain about regarding you people always complain about you about something there's a common complaint people complain everybody has that oh he's not uh communicating oh he's too cheap oh he's too late oh he's too this everybody complains about people all the time every one of us has complaints that people complain and it's the common denominator that we keep denying no what are you talking about I'm never late even though you're late every time I'll be there in 5 minutes an hour and a half later you show up everybody has the same thing and people complain about it but we still do nothing about it why cuz we don't care so you want to do first see the things that are wrong with yourself pick one pick one don't go crazy just pick one and start working on it okay everybody keeps complaining about me being late from now on I'm going to show up to every single meeting 15 minutes early there a uh famous broker that uh made there was a movie made about him that uh uh he was late one time and he learned a very uh serious lesson about it he said from that moment on he made he was late he decided that he's going to wear two watches two watches why that way he's always going to know the time even if one breaks he's has the other one to constantly remind him to be on time became a very very wealthy guy as a result the point is is that a person needs to put a g put a fence around the fence in order to overcome their own obstacles people tell you that you're uh ignorant start learning people tell you that you're cheap start becoming generous people tell you that you get angry too often start working on your anger and there's different things to do for each one of these things point is is that self accounting starts with being real with yourself being honest with yourself stop pretending you're perfect none of us are even close to being perfect every one of us has something to work on and if we take it seriously you'll have a much better life as a result next question on that question beside your spouse um saying who can you really trust um you know to tell you your flaws and you know for you to work on because like my father could tell me something and my mom could tell me something but I might believe my father more than my mother but you know I might be biased it so who can I really go to who can say look you know you should really work on that categ because you're lacking in this Etc so how do you so it's as far as who to ask if you're like I said if you're married your spouse is the one that knows you better than anybody else um now if it another person that a person is supposed to trust is their Rabbi if they have a rabbi that's and they have a close relationship with to the point where they use this Rabbi for guidance they tell him the truth they don't sugarcoat anything they don't protect to be a sadik they tell him the truth Rabbi I failed rabbi did this rabbi did this Rabbi succeeded rabbi did this rabbi did that but they tell them the truth if you're going to be a pretender to your Rabbi he's not your Rabbi he's your friend why he's wasting you're wasting your time a lot of people say oh yeah Rabbi I said okay so what do you need me for I need to learn from you you're such sadik I need to learn from you such sadik so there's no point of being a faker to you were honest with your Rabbi your Rabbi is going to tell you listen you have to work on this you have to work on that if he's a real Rabbi not uh someone that's a dull uh that you can manipulate second thing is if it's a uh regardless it depends on your relationship with people if you have a close relationship with your father then obviously your father is going to guide you a certain way if you have a close relationship with your mom then your mom is going to you know uh guide you a certain way but generally speaking you have a world around you you have a world around you and that world is constantly giving you feedback and feedback more times they're not is negative than positive for all of us they tell us they people complain people love to complain but not about themselves they complain about other people so you must hear plenty of complaints from people about what you're doing so you start evaluating what complaint do I hear the most often after you get that you do some you do some account say you know what 15 people in the last two months complained that I'm uh arrogant I mean it can't be a coincidence and in reality everybody knows their own weaknesses everybody knows that there's something that they're especially weak on sometimes I meet young kids cute as a peach go TOA learn T all this wonderful things but then one day they drop a bomb on me say uh Rabbi I have a non-jewish girlfriend what what what you secular people yeah they you have a non-jewish girlfriend how oh I never told you oh so all this time it's just some people everybody has a skeleton in their closet or someone tells me oh listen I learned this that that but uh I'm um what is it called likes to Steel CL maniac he likes to steal likes to take stuff from other people some people like this they see something put in their pocket what the second thought see your book it's a good book it's good for me oh it's good trying say there's you know they knew that he let you die everywhere they go oh this good one oh this good not it's it's it's become second nature and this is not the secular world this is religious world and I have at least a dozen people at least a dozen people that with this particular problem it's not an easy problem to fix but it's not impossible either how do you identify it by being real with yourself you know what's right and you know what's wrong so like I said you can't overcome every obstacle overnight you have to start with one and start working on it after you've established some foundation and you're beating up this problem then you start evaluating the next one and little by little you're going to start becoming Mas the diamond that you were created to be but in general as far as finding out what your flaws are shouldn't take you more than five minutes anyone that spends a little bit of time without noise and just thinks for themsel will find a lot of things that are good and a lot of things that are bad about themselves every single person you just there's a lot of noise today today there music and there's the roads and there people screaming and there televisions and the internet there just a lot of noise in our life so people never actually think for themselves there's so much noise the only time that there's no noise when you're sleeping so the reality is a person takes a few minutes without nothing no noise no music in the background nothing just take five minutes and think for yourself what am I doing what's going on where am I going from here you'll discover a lot about yourself next question yes in the back the it's we keep no it's going to happen when we all when we all make a choice now the thear says in that uh the mashia will come when everyone has made the choice whether they're going to go 100% for hem or against AEM meaning some people will go against hasem and some people will go for Hashem some people will keep tah some people will go against the tah some people will go with the mashia some people will fight against the mhia so everyone is is going to have to make a choice there's going to be a few that will be in the middle and hasem is going to force them to make a choice to pick a side now these two sides are going to go into a spiritual war that's called go Magog that's the yes goou Magog war and there's different parts of the war it starts initially as a war that seems like irrelevant but then we start seeing this is more of a spiritual war than anything else because it starts with first ad against Ishmael against Ishmael the Christians against the Arabs but then after the Christians beat up the Arabs and the Arabs beat up the Christians they both decide that everything is the fault of who yov is so they both stop fighting each other combine and go against am is according to kazal they'll end up conquering is and taking it for nine months during that time during that time all of the people that are in the middle will be put to the test anyone that thinks that they had a hard life will pray for that hard life that's why even the sages said said we want the mhia to come we just don't want to be alive when it happens because of how difficult the time is going to be before mashiach comes everyone is going to be put to the test to such an extent that tells the prophet 23ds of the world will die immediately during this war and the last third will be purified like you purify gold and silver meaning everyone is going to be put up to the test the most difficult test you can possibly imagine it's going to make every single person decide either they're for AEM or against Hashem 100% no more 80 no more 70 no more half religious no more sometimes nothing either you're 100% for hem where you're willing to jump off a cliff knowing a is going to catch you or you are on the sight of Christianity Catholicism and all the idolatry of the world that's the only to choices available nothing else it's a very very difficult time people that are looking forward to the mashia are simply ignorant of the reality if mashia came today we'd be in very very serious trouble because I don't even know if we've done chuva yet anyone that's certain that they're going to be saved when the mashia comes need to do chuva even more because they're living a illusion living in La Land If ran B Zak he says I know that is about to take my right now but I don't know if he's taking me to the entire oral Tora we have today is thanks to him he was the rabi of the rabbi of RAB AKA he wasn't sure if he's going to heaven or or hell and we all sure mashia comes yeah I'm first class it's La La Land Point is each one of us has to work work work eliminate all of the T all of the desires run away from all the things that distance you from hem why you have to clean yourself up have to so when each person makes a choice and they start serving hem like clockwork every day every day they get closer every day they get closer to Hashem little by little they start feeling the goodness OFA even in this world even before mashia comes why because they're so close to hasem this is what we talked about last night the people that get distant from Hashem they treat the Tor as if it's a burden little by little it becomes more and more suffering to keep MIT for them they start hating it they stop going to sh they stop eating kosher they stop keeping the holidays all of a sudden they're interested in doing this all of a sudden they're interested in doing that all the things that they never did before all of a sudden they're interested in doing all types of things that are against the Torah why they you they treated the Tora as if it was a burden meaning they made a choice and that's why the says that is is going to be forced to make a choice but if they don't make a choice hasem is going to send them Haman what does it mean he's going to send them Haman Haman already died 2,000 years ago there's a Haman in every generation just like there's a mashia in every generation there's a Haman in every generation and a uses a ham or Hitler or in order to force the few that are in the middle to make a choice either you're going with AEM or you go against Hashem that's what happened to many during the Holocaust that's what happened to many during the Holocaust and any other time before that's what's happening today everybody has to make a choice so yes the mashia is coming very very soon hopefully we've made the choice already with enough time to do Chua so by the time he comes we're already not in the Middle Ground anymore but the point is is that it's a it's not going to be an easy time and uh it's not an easy time right now I mean look just look at the world around you it's an upside down world everything is upside down the world is on fire people want to go to war every minute whether it's Trump or it's Putin or it's the guy from China or the guy from Korea or the guy from Iran or Israel everybody wants to go to war but not a regular War everyone's threatening with nuclear weapons kazal told us that the real war the last part of go Magog will last 9 minutes when they said it when they said it the last war will wipe out the world two-thirds of the world in nine minutes people laugh why the most sophisticated weapon in the world at that time was a bow and arrow meaning even if you took 10 million soldiers of nebeta and all took out their arrows and shot them in the air maximum you kill 10 million people how you going to kill two-thirds of the world in 9 minutes nonetheless how you going to get to China how you going to get to uh all these other places but obviously the prophecy was by K who knew already about the invention of atomic war and atomic weapons today it's not really a question of how it could all happen in a second all it requires is one person one psychopath to press the button once they press the button in Iran they press the button in Israel as a retaliation they don't let anything land they press it automatically once they press it in in in Israel they're pressing it in other countries in Pakistan once they press it in Pakistan they press it in India once they press it in India they press it somewhere else in China China Russia Russia America few minutes bye-bye world this is not to scare you it's just to warn you that we're running out of time it's a reality there's nothing to be scared about there's nothing you can do about any of this stuff only thing you can do something about is your own chuva and the world around you CH if you can help yourself do chv and you can help do that makes you a very valuable person but if you're not willing to do Chua yourself and you're not willing to help other people do CH you have a lot more problems than go so it's a uh it's a reality that's happening and then that's this is what we all have to set our minds up for you're learning to for survival you're fulfilling MIT for survival you're being modest for survival it's not for uh show it's not for looks it's not because you want all of your girlfriends to give you compliments that they like your because it has sparkles on it you could wear the sparkles on the it's good it's actually C for the Tor it's putting it's making the the mitvah look beautiful you should do it but if the only reason you wear K is for stylish reasons it's not a good reason why eventually the is going to convince you that there's a better style if the only reason you're modest is because you like the look eventually it's is going to convince you that something else is a better look if the only reason you eat kosher is because your father owns the restaurant eventually your father's not going to own the restaurant meaning you have to get to the bottom of everything and do the MIT for the right reason and that only comes from education that only comes from learning Torah and this is what we're try to do every day but that Torah has to be pure it has to tell you what's allowed has to tell you what's not allowed has to tell you what the reward is has to tell you what the punishment is yes today we talked a lot about the reward in this world anyone that didn't watch the lecture from last night I think it was number 19 spiritual ecstasy it's I think one of the best lectures we've ever done simply because it gives people a clear understanding of the benefits of living a Torah life in this world notaa is hard for people to Fathom but in this world definitely highly recommended but you also need to know the other side if you don't do it why because that's our nature we always need to know what the risk is next question yes have two questions first same price do you have to when you about eat noner food uhhuh okay second question and the second one is if you don't is that considered stealing from okay so there's a rule that says the you're not not allowed to make a by way of so you're not allowed to drive to on Shabbat why because keeping Shabbat is a must driving on is ass is not allowed so you say yeah but I want to go to sh on Shabbat yeah but you're not allowed to go make a mitvah of going to sh by making a sin same concept with making a is a reah but eating kosher is a Biblical Mitzvah so we cannot you know make a sin but at the same time mitvah why because in essence what are we doing we are trying to get $1 $1 by losing a million to saying hey I'm going to invest a million dollars with you I was in The Brokerage world for a long time people invest a lot of money with me now they wouldn't have invested me if they said listen you guys give me a million dollars and I'll give you a dollar back what a dollar return no no just a dollar that's it 999,000 on the first day gone how many of you want to invest with me you invest with me that kind of loss okay I should have you as a client you're good you're good customer I don't even have to try with you point is that's what we're doing when we non kosher we're violating a from the T we're losing a million dollars when we're doing a we're gaining $1 so that's also nothing second thing is we cannot enjoy something stolen or something that's forbidden to us meaning on the says what if somebody stole the L's coming and you forgot to buy l or by the time you wanted to buy no one had it anymore but your friend had it now L you can't really tell the difference no like address on the L love there's no like you no one WR writes their name on The Love so if the everybody's love is on a table and you're like one of those you put that love in your pocket why cuz it looks it looks it looks like it looks like your name's on it looks like your names on well you want to make a mitvah your friend comes go where's my L love no no speak English no I don't know I don't know sir I don't know sir I'm just cleaning here what what are you talking about what's going on I you nothing you you pretend like you're one of the guys from the from the works for the Sho you don't know nothing but then you say I'm G to make me I'm love you stolen product you can't moah with stoling products yeah but it'sah no novah why stolen same concept not food forbidden not allow to make a not allowed to uh not allowed to uh make a on it why because it's a it's it's a loss it's a total La so we have to be very careful and this this gives us the uh to do it good questions um I answer both of them or answer one answer you answer both both okay no you have another question for me yeah good question go ahead neighbor Ah that's a very difficult question believe it or not it's a very difficult question the reason why is because you have to determine whether he's losing from it there are certain things that are no loss situation meaning he's not gaining and he's not losing from you using his internet then is it really stealing some will say yes some will say no why CU in essence he's buying it not for you buying it not for you but some will say no it's not stealing why he's not he doesn't even notice that you're using it it's like if you go to the if you go to the uh airport and you use their electricity is the airport's Bill going to go higher or lower because you used it to charge your phone it's insignificant it's inconsequential why it's a multi-billion dollar Enterprise you charging your phone for 3 minutes that electricity of 3 minutes can't count that what is that a a a quarter of a penny nothing so the question is is your usage of his WiFi slowing him down if it is then it is stealing and you can measure it today there is the technology to know to measure it but that means that you would have to know how his internet is on his side meaning you have to know how how he's using his device permissibly and using his his device also not permissibly which means already at this point he knows you're using it point is in essence you should buy your own internet your own everything don't take anything from anybody generally speaking it's better to never take anything for free why because it's only a disguise from the Satan nothing that's of value will come to you for free unless it's the Tor why because T was already a gift that gave to forefathers many many years ago other than that there's no free gifts everything has a price everything next yes mildly mildly lengthy question um I'll try to pay attention so let's say if somebody is doing CH and uh they you know they're going through the process they're keeping contr they're doing Trine everything and they are you know they have a level of that generally is there but sometimes they're overcome with such a strong U such a strong sensation of of heresy okay Lally so what's the question the question is what do you do about it what do you do about it and what's the source of this problem source is that they're normal human beings every single person has a now the what's his job you wake up in the morning what's your job what's your job in the morning everybody know what the job in the morning is serve that's your job in the world you were created to serve the master that's your job in the world page 4 a says if you did not find a way to sanctify whose name today it was better off you were never born why you didn't do your job he's the master he's the king a king has servants you're one of them if you served them today you didn't serve him today you have a serious problem you have a serious problem why you didn't serve the king it's not your friend so our job in the world each one of us men women boys girls children adults is to serve full force what's the's job's job is to kill you yet s's job is to stop you from serving hem first he comes and he tells you something to convince you not to go pray something to convince you not to do a mitv why he tries to give an clance he goes listen you could pray but pray later why don't you play a few games first come on you're you're almost beating the game couple more rounds and then you pray he's not going to tell you don't do the Mitzvah outright because then you will know it's the talking to you he's going to look to you like a rabbi he's say no listen do the mitvah but just have fun a little bit first do the Mitzvah but just write this email first do the Mitzvah but just finish disappointment first you know just just do all the stuff first then do the Mitzvah why because now the longer longer you take longer you take the less fire you have for this mitah that's why the says why do we put on the of the Y before the of the now you don't need to be a big sadik to know that the more important is the of the you could live without a y you could live without an arm but you can't live without a that's where your is so the that's more important that's more holy is the one of the head so which F should you put on first the more important one no how can we put on the first one we put on the first one because we learned from you never delay your arm naturally where is if you take your let's say you put it on your left arm and you're going to use your right arm to put it where is your right arm going to reach first physically your head or your arm as you lift it naturally your arm why because that's the way it is it reached your arm says that's enough of a reason to put the on the arm first why just get something done while you're ahead who knows if you're going to survive to see the head put it on the arm first after you put on the arm then put it on the head why because you got to the arm first even though the head is more important it's more important to do the first mitv get to now there is a p in the that K says wait a minute but there's also a p that says literally put it on the arm then put it on the head yes there is but puts even more on it saying that there's also more Li point is the is going to tell you don't do this Mitzvah do it later after you don't do it he goes to hem and he prosecutes against you so you get punished who's the Punisher Satan and every single day a Jew has to act as if the Satan himself is standing over his head with a huge axe ready to chop off his head and kazal says if he's not scared to death that the Satan is about to chop off his head that's already because he chopped it you're already working for him full time and you don't even realize it so that's why it's very very important for a person to understand that your obligation in the world is to serve AEM the Satan's obligation in the world is to be your resistance because that's where you get a reward for it if it was easy for us to do mitv then there's no reason for us to get paid for it the Satan's job is to be the resistance so the fact that a person has in their head heresy in their head they're thinking about Christianity they're thinking about atheism they think about all types of things that are against the Torah that just means that the Satan is Alive and Well that's it that's all it means it means it's normal that's it means you're a normal human being that Satan is in your head you're thinking about all types of you're not having makes you normal but that's why gave us the T so we become above normal Superior to normal how by using something Divine and and applying it to our life you take the Tor that's Divine that's from you apply the Tor completely to your life you become part of the Tora you become divine all of a sudden you have even though it doesn't make any sense there's rockets in the air you're perfectly fine did I ever tell you guys about the uh story of the sixth day war and the woman that stopped it didn't tell you again shom says that he heard the story from I believe it wasit sh Shalom and he says that he remembers the woman that stopped the war the woman that stopped the war says yeah he says in is and unfortunately there's rocket attacks on a regular basis that didn't just start now that's been like that for years these Arabs they have no value for life they just shoot with carelessness whether they hits babies or adults doesn't make a difference that's what terrorism is Terrorism is just killing anyone regardless of whether they're at war with you or not and that's what the Arabs do they were shooting missiles at us during the war and poor Jews what could they do there's a big alarm everybody had to go hide out inside the miklat in like these uh places where uh everyone's hiding it's under the building bunker yeah that's the that's the word so everyone's hiding in the miklat hundreds of people are fitting into this small little place what are you going to do now it got really loud the missiles were coming everywhere boom boom and it kept seeming like it's getting louder and louder poor kid people are crying adults are crying kids are crying everybody's scared to death and the himself is watching this and then he sees a woman start hysterical crying to 24 years years 24 years and I'm auna my husband left me 24 years ago and ran away to America to be with his girlfriend and left me and aunan refuses to let me find a new life start a new life I already found a place in my heart to forgive him fully and I'll live like this you have to forgive your children just like I forgot him she said this loud and says the second she finished the war stopped second she finished the war stopped all the missiles stopped became quiet like it's a Shalom is he says she stopped the war why she did something that no normal human being can do somebody just ruined your life and didn't even allow you to continue your life in a normal fashion okay you want to go find somebody else go kill yourself do what you want whatever but Le at least let me live my life let me get remarried let me start my life so and so no no you stay a prisoner forever some people are so arrogant that's what they do the ra says the way that you get the way you get a husband to give a get to his wife if he refuses what's the way you beat him up and until he wants to do it but then say wait a minute what do you mean beat him up then he has to give the get willingly if you beat him up he's not giving it willingly rambam says yes he is giving it willingly why the only reason he's not giving it is because the yet is telling him not to do it so when you're beating him up who are you beating up you're beating up the yet eventually the says okay I'm out of here already I don't want to get beat up so then the is left what does he want to do he wants to give the get he wants to do mitvah he wants to do the Mitzvah that's what the ra writes in that's why it's allowed according to according to the law it's not allowed that's why unfortunately people go to jail for that but the point is there are some in the world who leave their wives as prisoners without giving them a get and unfortunately according to it's 100% forbidden for the woman to get remarried without having a g even though there's one big that made a mistake and said maybe is maybe no all according to the not allowed ever to get married until you have a g so now this woman the husband left her he doesn't want to be with her okay fine go kill do what you want to do let me at least get remarried continue my life no he didn't want to give her get 24 years years and she says to I forgive him 100% I'm not even knows what's in your heart you can't lie to say I forgive but you really don't can't say that I forgive him 100% not even mad knew what's in our heart she says to hasem I forgave him you forgive your nation if I am using your Torah to be like you you be like you you forgive your nation also says stop the war on a spot in our times This is 40 years ago 50 years ago people saw this hundreds of people watch witnessed this that's the power of the Tor it elevates the person to be part of the Divine person without Tor unfortunately is less than a person next question so we'll finalize with a couple of small things right now there is a uh a lot of Li a lot of learning that we need to do and uh bringing people to has never been more critical and the reason why is because the only way that people do serious CH is when they go to a serious you have to toil for T if you have the ability to go to a serious serious je to you have to go physically don't just be lazy and stay at home because you have to show hasem that you're willing to chase toah not just uh read it and learn it when it's convenient for you under your terms now the says that gets angry when he comes to a place that has is supposed to have Torah but it doesn't have the people the rabbi came but the people didn't come the B is there and uh only five people showed up for there's not even 10 people page 6B says says to the prophet why did I come and there's nobody here to receive me from the king so now aronovich says wait a minute hold on a second if there's nine people 10 people you need for right so you can say kadish at the end of the T so you can say Kish at the you need 10 people 10 kosher Jews so if nine showed up why does Hashem still get mad just like he got mad and there's only one if there's one or there's nine gets mad why says but says wait a minute but there is there's nine of them there's nine people here okay so we don't have a minan but there's nine people says something huge when comes to the comes to the comes to the place of the and he sees there's only nine people and not a single one of them goes out of their way to go find another person to make it aan Hashem says there's nobody here not a single one of you is the leader enough to go find another Jew so whether there's not or there's zero it's the same thing we see right now in the days of mashia in the days before Judgment Day says that there's four R Shas there's four R Shas a year R is one of them that's the r sh Judgment Day fall of creation but there's Judgment Day for different parts of creation four times a year is the biggest one this is the time to get serious when it comes to T this is the time to get serious when it comes to MIT this is the time to get serious when it comes to doing CH if you're going to be donating money you have to look a little bit further than you typically do you cannot donate blindly anymore there was a recent campaign that got a lot of popularity people literally donated over $2 million over $2 million in less than two days not a single dollar went to the cause not $ one1 went to the cause you think any of those people are getting a Mitzvah zero why what meah did you get you you're doing uh buying furniture for people you think that's a mitvah you're extending the house in the kitchen what why people don't do enough research people just donate blindly whatever hits their heart oh wow this guy's if it doesn't hurt your heart to know that most of am is will not be saved if mashia came right now now unless they do chuva if that doesn't hurt your heart more than anything else you should question whether you're really Jewish or not why because I have go go from Abu Dhabi go from Canada go from America go from all over the world that cry every single day every single day they cry because am didn't do CH yet they give every single penny they have to get to do chv every day go are acting more like Jews than Jews are sometimes meaning if you're giving money to something blindly oh no I'm going to give to some big organization it's a Jewish organization it's good it's wrong you have to look at results who is making people do chuva who is making people get closer to Hashem what's working what's not working you have to evaluate why because there's no more time for us to continue making mistakes if your local Rabbi is not getting the community to do Chua find the new rabi or at the very least bring bring rabbis as speakers to speak in your community but if you're in this KLA already for 10 20 years and nothing's changed then you be the change do something about it bring rabbis that are going to do something about it bring me bring to do something For Heaven's Sake a few of my students from different places around the world did something genius I think it's one of the best ideas I've ever heard for kiru they call it kiru night what do they do they got a uh one guy I think got a projector and the other guy just has a big TV in his house every I think it's either Tuesday or Wednesday they invite a bunch of friends get a bunch of popcorn little snacks drinks and so on come why we're going to watch Rabon ruven live so you got 5 10 20 30 40 people in this guy's house all watching The Shield right now why they made a fun night fun night to get some so people are doing something about it every person can do something about it point is abai is that we have to start evaluating ourselves what are our flaws what do we have to fix what do we really cry about are we only crying about things that have to do with our pockets or we cry about the that is suffering every single day that we haven't done chuva yet his children haven't even understood that he's God that he's their father in Heaven what do we care about this is one of the main things that I think every person needs to evaluate over these couple of weeks because is going to ask each and every single one of us on is why have I come and there's not a person here meaning okay you may have a 100 200 300 400 500 people in your but how many of them 500 people show up to Y how many of them actually keep t thousand people show up how many people actually keep Shabbat how many not many right why secularism materialism ignorance all the reasons we talked about okay we all know it right what are you doing about it what are you doing about you have a thousand of your brothers 500 of your brothers a hundred of your brothers that are doomed unless somebody does something about it obviously there's not enough being done so you take the initiative do something about it arrange a sh arrange a or night do something in every Community everybody can do something and if you're so busy making millions of dollars fine use those Millions to do something don't be like this other millionaire that I talked about he says I want to build a community okay what are you going to provide nothing I want to build a community though if you want to win the lot you have to buy the ticket can't win a lot without having a ticket this is the main thing unless you have some questions we'll have a our next year on uh Sunday night Sunday night we'll talk a little bit more about the holiday a little bit more uh we finished we completed our series of the so uh this next uh Sunday we're uh going to just talk about different things about and things of that nature but if you questions we continue otherwise you guys get some sleep anything else no how long question or short one no this one's medium medium okay they come in sizes come in sizes no um normally when when somebody is doing okay and they find themselves um they find themselves constantly falling same question same question yeah more or less constantly falling but you know falling because of uh you know their their environment people influencing them that's no what's the question what do they do about it I have a guy watches my Sho he sent me a thank you letter the other day he says that uh if it wasn't for our he would still be complete why he used to listen to other sh he says watch all types of shim still continued wasting seed still continued violating shabat all the shim hundreds of shim nothing changed when he met me he told me that he was watching shim while playing video games and he thought there was nothing wrong with it then he saw he said on minute I he stopped wasting seed that second now if you tell a guy that's 75 years old stops not really a big deal why because you don't have as much desire when you're 75 but a 15 16 18 19 year old kid stops wasting seed it's like splitting the ocean and founding and finding Mount Si inside it it's huge the kid realized the truth and did chuva but still he had difficulties along the way why cuz you had family members that were Heretics family members that were going against the Torah he says listen my family doesn't want to keep Shabbat what do I do I said keep Shabbat he goes yeah but they tell me to violate it I said to says no goes yeah but they're going to yell at me I said let them yell at you now what happens if your father tells you either you go drive this car to the store for me on Shabbat or I'm going to kick you out what do you do you honor your father here or you honor your father there Torah says honor your mother and your father keep Shabbat I'm God that's PUK says why says honor your there's four Commandments here honor your mom and your dad because it's one of the Commandments that your parents keep Shabbat that's also one of The Commandments but all always remember I'm God meaning you have to keep Shabbat you have to honor your parents but if your parents tell you to violate Shabbat remember I'm God I'm bigger than your parents your parents brought you what to this world I brought you to existence I brought them to existence if your parents tell you to violate Shabbat you're not allowed to listen to them your parents tell you to violate not to listen to them you violated you're considered 100% mid meaning if you if your father tells you drive a car on Shabbat turn on a television for me on Shabbat do something that violates the Torah and you do it it's considered as if you did it on purpose it's not considered as if you're forced to do the sin why he's not threatening to kill you he's not putting a gun to your head if you put a gun to your head and you knew for sure he's psychopath he's going to shoot you then you're allowed so mitvah for you to violate Shabbat cuz your life's on the line you're allowed to violate sh for for that such a thing but he's not threatening your life he's just threatening to yell at you maybe slap you in the face a few times throw you out of the house take away your money whatever it is that's not life-threatening if you're not allowed to get a little bit of abuse for the sake of the biggest mitvah during that moment will continue giving you that test over and over again until you pass the test why you need to understand keeping Shabbat is not a suggestion it's either life or death learning tah is not a suggestion it's either life or death following the entire Tor is not suggestions it's either life or death that's what it is and until each one of us arrives at that conclusion Hashem will continue passing the same test so sometimes hm is going to send us through an uncle to a cousin to a uh wife or whatever it is it's only a test you're not allowed to fail as a result of people if you do pick yourself back up and get back on a horse and start doing again do do again you failed no problem all of us fail at some point or another but you cannot use that as an excuse in heaven unless your life is really at risk life being at risk meaning you're if you don't do it you die not life being at risk if you don't do it you're going to lose money that's not life risk not if you don't do it you're going to be homeless that's not life risk life risk is M death if somebody's trying to kill you then you have the permission to violate almost the entire T not the entire thing though unless if it's idolatry if it's a immorality like a sex crime and if it's murder you have to die but the point is is that even dying on such a mitvah will be the biggest Mitzvah you ever do why it's called dying on K so somebody tells you either die or go worship Jesus and you die you're going to where R AKA is that's what the ra wres why that's dying on Kem how great is dying on km will finalize with this point how how great is the D said when they were peeling his skin at 120 years old he was doing before he started why don't you just kill these people you could say the you could say the name of and cabalistic kill all these people one worda says my whole life I had a desire what's a desire just like we have desires for immorality a desire for food a desire to do all types of sins R AKA says my whole life I had a desire to to die on Kem my whole life every time I saw the Romans the Greeks somebody oh you want to kill me because I'm a Jew go come on you want to kill me H yeah oh no not today okay missed out yeah I'm going to learn T right in front of you you're going to kill me oh no damn it tomorrow tomorrow he says my whole life I had a desire to die in K now you want me to not do not be happy they're peeling his skin he's saying SM SL is happiest can be happiest can be why finally fulfilled his dream what his dream to die in K writes it writes it m writes it his whole life his whole life he cried and prayed for to kill him on K so he can die some Arab some terrorist some Christian Slaughter his throat because he's uh defending the Torah he prayed about it and cried every day we cry what we cry for hem give me money Hashem give me this Hashem give me that all they we cry for what does he cry about please please please kill me on pleas let the Nazis kill me while I'm learning T that's what he's that's what he's praying for that's what he's praying for his whole life that's how great D is now I don't think that most of us are going to die in K but there's a wonderful caveat we can live on K how do you live on K publicize to publicize T in every opportunity that you have that's living on K you publicize your own belief in Torah by being a real yid by following to vot publicly by not being scared of it not being ashamed of it not being a faker here you're religious over there you're secular you're religious at home but in business you're are publicly religious don't worry about any terrorists or any of these people oh no they going to kill you because you have a keep on my friend if Hashem wants to kill you he doesn't need your keeper he'll kill you with the keeper without the keeper if it's your time it's your time nothing's going to Happ help you or hurt you keep where your keeper make it big one take one of the keepers that we have we made them extra big Keepers why so everybody knows you're a Jew act like a Jew publicize your Judaism learn T publicize a sh don't be ashamed of it that's living on K that's living on K get back to a that's living on K you live on K that's much better than dying in k Why dying K is one second it's a moment of being a hero one second Al we could do it but it's a moment living on K that's a whole life we all live on amen amen [Music] n [Music] n [Music] [Applause] [Music]