Don’t obsess over success

don't be focused on one day my kid is going to be the biggest Rabbi don't be focused on one day we're going to be the smartest in the world no no if you do that more times than not you're bound to fail why because sometimes those aspirations simply not for you at least not in the timing that you want it to be or at all some people are destined to be and some people are not we don't serve Hashem because we are going to be the best in the world world we serve hem because we're going to be the best that we can be says I'm not scared that they're going to ask me in heaven why wasn't I mosenu and why wasn't I RAB AKA I'm scared that they're going to ask me in shamim why wasn't I zusa the best version of zusa that I can