Don't break the trust & commitment - Even while you sin your faith is complete - Rabbi Chaim Dalfin

good morning good afternoon we're learning here panic Huff dollar 24 we're gonna finish the day with our friends help the last thing doubt that ever discussed was a rhetorical question when we that since we go off Netflix something that's dangerous to one's life is that seems to imply that not every Aveda not every transgression is a breach of God's will that was his question answered wrong the afraid itself is a breach but hazelf of some reason in this case saving your life said it's permissible so it doesn't it doesn't uh remove the essential idea that a transgression of any sort be it a lenient or stringent type of transgression from our perspective some things we considered and hazal even considered you know because I'll say after he cycle don't weigh Mitzvahs don't say summer lenient some are stringent but from our perspective some of minions some are more stringent regardless every single Aveda is a transgression so let's go another page lamb and aleph the first line after the brackets after the transgression was done if they are such myths such avails such transgressions that there is no secession chorus you're not cut off God forbid um Death From Heaven that refers to one dying before the age of 60 and one died before the age of 70 for the various difference transgressions foreign since it's not such a transgression therefore The Godly Soul hasn't been completely killed and it has not been completely cut off from its source which isn't the Living God Rock what happens when you do a lightweight knockout a lightweight punch a lightweight cavera what happens is the alternator but says there is a little piggy Ma blemish you know I don't know if any of you are shocked him I don't think you are but you know their uses a knife and the chocolate has to do has to check the knife with his nail whether there's any indentation called epigima a blemish in the knife and if it is it invalidates the knife to be the right knife for srita so we call that says here a transgression that's not one that leads God to a bit the curries or to miser Edition Miami and therefore the necessary kiss is not completely cut off so what happens so what is wrong what's wrong is hate through the sin it's connection it's very good and it's holding on to grabbing its source in God has had a little blemish a little Pokemon so this is what happens now this answers an important question Canada what's the difference between when I do a big one of the big three right here what the difference is but all this is only after the ACT after Mass after the ACT we look at the Damage Done how much damage was done but during the act at the time of the ACT an Aveda like I told you yesterday means to transfer the energy from the domain of Holiness and you bring it over you transfer it to the domain of Clipper and that is a truism in every Aveda so as far as the weight and how many lashes you'll get and how much punishment you get in gehenna and all that it depends if it's curries it's just a pecan but as far as far as desecrating the will have here it's all the same there's no difference I think I think of it in the following way when our relationship between people between spouses between family between employers employees when there's a breach in the relationship it's breached the the magnitude or the minimization of the breach whether they're still going to give you Severance pain whether they're still going to give you a hug whether they'll still call you once a month to say Hey Dad how you doing I wish he dropped dead but how you doing okay that is the aftermath but the the the band been breached now of course we can do true and we need to do Traverse and Truth is so powerful that we it rectifies retrospectively the breach but we're not talking now about that we're talking now focusing what does the Aveda accomplish the bond that the trust has been broken you know and and and in in life we have to real think realize this and does everyone have a second chance a hundred percent but at the same time make sure that when you give them a checking chance you know it's a second chance you know here we are with three weeks and the dish above next weekend the famous Marshall the Shabbos the Shabbos says gave us father makes a son that mostly gives a father makes a son a beautiful the clothing item gives it to him and the son destroys it he says give me another chance it gives them another chance and it destroys it a second time it comes from a third time I'll never do it again I'll be so careful not to rip my clothing and know that right he says I'm not giving it to you look in the closet it's right here in the closet for you this is a muscle that the police prediction that is a lot about this you're not getting it but it's here kazoi this Shabbos we'll see it this Shabbos but it's in the closet and we have to make sure to earn it and not destroy it again anyway going back to what we're saying here the same idea when a breach in a relationship has been made it's it's it's a big problem it's a javeda if you think about this and I wish more people would open their heads to this because this you know they say this is a Hasidic concept you know but the truth is it's not it's a a human concept that when a breach has been made it's made that's it that's what a fate is you know Shabbos I was a BRS and then and before minha Rabbi they always said give a talk and men and women come he was talking about Russian horror all about rushing her and it was actually you know it wasn't too you know too fiery with whiplashes but on the other hand I was thinking to myself sitting there you know why put the focus on the lotion you know why not make the focus um the Divinity the Divine Holier and that we should we should we should put our energy into that rather than you know the focus on the lotion Hara you know Tanya points out to us of course of course there's a breach and there's differences in the breach is it chorus right and depending on that that's how many whiplashes you'll get right you broke a bond you broke a trust and that's the problem I'm not so worried about after you know how many how many pets am I gonna get I'm not worried about that I want the trust to be there this is the this is what we have to strive for so we have to share it with people and our families the bond you know and if the bond is there if the bond is there it'll always be there that's what we have to create in our children and grandchildren is the bond that they should know wherever whatever they're going to do in life they have a father and a mother or grandfather and grandmother above and say the Sabbath to come to because that's their bond that's their cashier and with eating the same thing whether it's a Google whether it's a Toshiba whether it's a a rabbit you know or as far as do you see that that's means to breach that to break that trust so this chapter paid isn't just you know about sins and details it's a very very important Pedic to to to look at especially these weeks and also Clay the Shadows coming you know to look at the whole idea of our trust do I have your trust and if I have your trust I can confide in you and I have no problem sharing with you because I'm not talking at you I'm talking with you and your and my problem is your problem and your problem is my problem you know they say by hasidim but Bobby should see them say has truth is has brought this concept of as it says remember you I remind you guys mind stick or bright my piece of bread is continues um and we preface Diner yours V minor it's first yours I but I work for it and I paid for the bread it's my bread no no no no it's diamond V minor that was the that's the attitude of you know anyway let's continue after the asterisk I'm skipping the hot girl is in this case even his animalistic drive that's invested in the in the body not only his animal Drive they return and they ascend from the place of negativity the Clipper Zoo whom is carve him and they and they become closer to just necessarily kiss to the Holiness of God with soul that's invested in them that believes in the one God is a fascinating life [Music] this is one of the most famous lines in Tanya these words even while the Jew did the sin he was complete in his faith God even while he's doing their Muna and someone sent me a clip of the rapper from 1956 Purim quoting this section of Tanya the rebels took Allah and his words were a little sluggish and he said every single eat chassis it was on the words of chapter 25 but it's relevant here that even hate the immunos is complete so don't tell me he's a guy right they throw that around unfortunately in certain communities he's a ghost he's a guy she wears pants she's a guy I mean I I know from my kids growing up in in Borough Park with the neighbors you know coming home sometimes echoing such language and of course we corrected them they're not a guy they're a yeet they're not wearing the dress and a skirt like you are like your mother like your mother is now today but says how do you how do you understand this even at the time of the hate during the hate velveled during the sin is so what happened the this and Muna at the time of the sin is an exile it's captured it's a slave technist leaves the person to sin um way way into the into the depths of of no goodness under the domain of the negativity and the clip of it may God guard us says oh boy this is a great ghost the soul which is from a tall mountain Falls all the way back down into a deep valley as we said earlier that the source of All Souls is chapter two and Tanya comes with Supernova but who he is look at this muscle down to that employee see for who this idea of slipping via the Avera into the depths of negativity is compared to Hawaii someone who's holding the head of the king um and he bends he lowers the head of the king the time in Pawn of and he hides the face he stops the face of the king into the bathroom doesn't suffice he really gives us a graphic picture you've stuffed the face of the king into the feces into the Toya that's in the toilet there's no greater embarrassment now could you imagine we we do this little little sin which seems so insignificant and in chapter 24 towards the end out that ever says you know what you're doing you're taking motion the face of the king the holy king and you're pushing it down it's not enough bad enough you're pushing it down you open the from the upright position posture you're pushing it down down and you find the toilet you stick it into the toilet and in the toilet into the feces in the toilet wow every time you do it Isaiah now if you if you want to vomit when you eat think about this if you eat not with schmuff you eat like an animal or anytime you you do something inappropriate to think about this and you should become disgusted but there's nothing at the saying he's giving us a very very kind of course example descriptive and graphic you know and what's you know you could say it's very muscle-like this muscle is a very muscle-like muscle but he has that he has to say it we should know what's going on when we do an Avera what's this point let's go further I feel like it came if you're sure and even if you just do the Avail even if this is done temporarily as soon as they you put the king's head into the garbage and the the cook and you swap it out but meanwhile if she shot temporarily was there Clips it's brought down as it's known that Clipper and called kitsaya like packed full of feces okay so she asked yourself why is Dr but bring this muscle to conclude chapter 24 which is so kind of musadik because he wants us to understand how severe is the breach right and you think of it if you break a trust that's what you're doing when you break a trust you're basically saying I don't respect you I don't respect you you're nothing sometimes it says with their anger right they got an angry and what do they do they they killed right in in gracious so there's a attach there's a taich motion can you be upon appamosa means a nose at times with this nose hugo-ish you kill people how's that I'll tell you how we're talking we're right and then someone mentions so and so you go like this you killed him you didn't say anything you didn't cry you didn't jump just you moved the nose to the right to the left up down whatever okay thank you I didn't know that but okay it could be apple ish so Dr is telling us that each time we do an Aveda it's it's similar to that you know you don't have to do you know a regular person thinks of an Aveda as this terrible thing I'm gonna do you know no no no no whatever the Aveda is it's already a breach of trust and that's why I say a breach of trust is like if you just make with your nose when you hear a name mentioned in a conversation for example you've already destroyed the person to yourself and to the other person hearing you into all those in the room you don't have to say anything and that's you know so in Musser in the sheet of Musa they they spend a lot of time on the developing this thought which is important we don't spend time you know in the nitty-gritty details although there are some my modern with the previous setup is particularly spoke that way because he was speaking in certain communities where there was more you know so they related more to that Musser so he does spend more time using that those that those words and those Concepts but overall here in Tanya this time is the balotany the founder of Chabad it's a it's a especially this page in La model is you know kind of musadik I'm just explaining that it's necessary to understand the problem if you don't get the problem you continue doing it okay and and this is important especially people are doing chuva people of all kinds okay you got you have to have real regret you don't have real regret and remorse it's it's not that it's not going to take you to the right place you know and then so the first thing you have to do is you have to understand what what you did that's wrong so most most times based on what do we understand what do we walk away with the punishment the degree of the punishment about that episode no focus on the breach that you breach the trust Aveda is what Javier is to transfer the you made a transference of the holy energy to to to to Clipper that's the worst thing you took the Pearl and the Diamond that your grandmother gave you and you gave it away to foolishness and stupidity so if you think about well you know she's dead so many years later no no you don't understand something why did she give you this this heirloom why because she loved you and she wanted it to continue in the family and by you giving it away you've broken the chain that's it you've broken the chain and remember that this chain that we have Torah is just end with a story that I heard the story something someone who's a very wealthy man he owns uh his father on the baseball team okay so you don't want a very wealthy man you can even tell you his name because it's it's name is Ted Turner young to Washington the Washington baseball team so he had some has documents and swore him some paint that are written you know with Hebrew inscriptions and he didn't know what it says he gave it to a friend of mine who was a very good friend of his and the friend asked me to decipher what it says and it's written by the grandfather of Ted Turner who who's stamp says the following his name hakone I think Shins the grandfather of Ted Turner the owner of a baseball team who some Mark now has it right so you know we can all Trace we can all Trace back the Reba said this ones and I believe it's true that we all came from from people a hundred years ago 150 years ago 200 people our ancestors were once for sure all of them and all of them but some of them and probably all of them were from Yeadon well subscribe but right so that's who we are that's that's the family heirloom that's who we are so for some reason at times it's broken the chain so when we go back we're going back to who we really are you see so so the fact that we're living now in the free country in a free country post Holocaust and it's a new world and especially today so it's so easy to say you know this is who I am and this is what we need to continue sharing and teaching the world and our children and grandchildren and friends and families this nakuda no no who you are is a messiah your a tradition of Yeadon that came from Taylor mitzvahs for some reason because of the pogroms and because of everything else the Holocaust many issues happened but that was only temporary now go back go back where you really are and find well doubted up I use the word fine because after never says even at the time of the sinach you were whole we were whole our Muna never was dented it was covered lots of Schmutz I had to clean out the air conditioner here and if you saw how much food came out of an air conditioner in Florida you would he would look the other way it's like the the mother keeps Saya at the end of the Muslim this chapter right there's lots of smoots under the Shama because of our foolishness throughout the year and throughout the centuries but it's only it's only a cover a layer so this line you have to really memorize it you know in your own words the emphasis is on the words at the time of the sin not we do should we do of course talking about at this time of the sin this is who I really am and this is what our favorite seeks to break Maisha and Nevaeh seeks to break this truth that's that's why Nevada is so bad that's why your sin is so bad it's breaking a truth of a hair Moon that who we are and that we don't want yes Maisha what do you want to say yeah I was going to say that's very profound when you're sharing my immune's off I hope it's related to transfer of our when we transfer money to the bank right so you're saying it's transferring to the clipper and that's really what's going on that's right and the idea of breaking the trust you know because I think we all feel we love Hashem and I think often you know I was told once I know the source that we're supposed to give us so we really love a ship but when we're doing a Vera we're not giving knockers right we're breaking that trust you're saying right so that's got to be a way to overcome before we get to the average to you know to think about that that's right that's right and and the relationships too in all kinds of relationships it's about breaking the trust and keeping the trust a pact an agreement when two people go under a hoopa there's a trust now again the third gives us an out something called a divorce again there is a time for that but I'm just saying in other words when a bond is made between two people it's very profound it's very profound and we should never we should never you know kind of take it for granted yes anyone else wanted to say something or ask bye thanks