Divrei Zikaron for Rav Dovid Feinstein ztz"l at Carteret Yeshiva - Rabbis A. Biderman & Y. Fishelis

[Music] the story i read a couple summers ago [Music] and i'm not familiar with all the details but it seems to be of one of the [ __ ] names called the bes [Music] i guess where the harder cases go the cases that they have together by some of the politicians that make this type of thing called this uh president and the child came up came up and imagined that the government were sitting there and yoshi was sitting there dabbing on the shia la manuel was there dining on the show there must have been other people in the middle of assuming between them there were other people that were very hush with people and they they couldn't come out of the conclusion they didn't know what to do so they said you know what we're going to do we're going to pick up the phone and we're going to call america and that time revolutions that tell us a lot and they're going to call america they can go unfortunately what to do that's what they decided so they're going to the executive picture right they're walking to the telephone someone's deciding how they can make the call and one of the people that were involved now that tom mclaughlin one of the politicians came home to them and said why can't you come up with a big conclusion they said we know we're calling up we're calling up for moshe in america they say he said i don't have the best in eric's trial is calling up somebody in america for for the shyla they looked at it and they said said he knows he knows the answer what do you want from us his daughter knows the idea of having a first class tamaka living in in america living amongst us is marooning the entire entire year that we have in america harry ish of an america in the issue that i grew up in america that i grew up in as he was younger we had the gondola israel where the israelites that the whole world looked to and when we speak about i'm not speaking about the the nifter inside me i mentioned maybe sometimes different places but we're speaking about the nifty we're talking about someone who is moroning living in america that we have bizarrely saw that everybody turns to that people respect in all all the corners of the globe that they that shylas and schumann were asked of him his day it was accepted his day was dealt with in the in by all the golisaro it's roaming us and we don't have that anymore it's a shock to our system we've become lower people we've become lesser that's what it means when we do somebody there of that stature the stature of the neighborhood of dublin the dr feinstein the the the the we we're different people the whole in america is different now it's not the same thing we don't have though we don't have that many people very very few the very few people that we have when we lose one it makes a tremendous difference for us like i said i'm not going to be master not going to speak i don't even know any stories except for the stories that are around but we have some people we have some joshua people and chairs and we're going to ask upon our vitamins to say a few words it's very uncomfortable for me on a few fronts general policy i don't speak in front of an attorney and uh and uh second of all i'm not about hockey to i can share some insights i can share some thoughts and i hope it will deal with the hours and i thought that the reason i'm standing here speaks parishes holidays all these years have been a problem wrong whatever [Music] they put me here a lot of stories there's a lot of stories around here but i'd like to take a different approach perhaps as much as represent used to say used to tell guys you won't be a guy like my husband but you could be a gentleman like my husband in turn used to say how many times my father finished us doesn't make a difference it's not going to make a difference to anybody some glimpses let me give you some glimpses i'm not going to give you a portrait let me give you some snapshots david was on a plane with uh raise a lot of us they were going on a flight to a few hours and there said that david sat down he opened up his gemara he didn't pull his head out of the gemara totally landed so you're dealing with somebody fundamentally it was a massive person who could sit down on a plane not pick his head up out of the kamaru if you think a person like that his whole life would be have his handling a mark because he was a there's so much more to him he knows everything anything you know he'll be able to answer any stop i remember once he called me many years ago um it was right after the computer search programs started coming out it was an early version of one of the programs he told me from a car for a second he was looking to see the rashi bring it in a certain thing he wanted to know if it brought them all up anywhere so he did a search and i said there's uh from one place he goes oh yeah it's the shah see and i know that one but the shot is saying i know but i didn't know since anybody else brings it down he said no that was it he didn't if the computer if he didn't know the computer didn't know either that's the bottom line the action called them the pair had only placed the gaddar of america they're subbing i just found that yesterday that they they have notebooks from him there's a picture of it of of on all of the sacred hollow film he has this farm on every mecha on shasta and uh and uh he didn't respond many years later his lawyer meets him and he says i sent you a shout out he didn't answer me he says i don't have the time i'm not my father i can't write you this i don't write shoes but your shiloh was this and this and this and this is the answer so you get a phenomenal memory so do i have a phrase no i don't do i have that last mother can i put sit down and learn for six hours straight maybe i can but i don't i haven't been able to bring that up myself so what does that mean but what does that mean to me that but i do have a slightness i do have a certain i have a certain obligation i do have enough prizes to learn from him a little bit even though i don't have that memory even though i don't have that brilliance he had everything he had everything cloned runs you look at the thoughts called stone promise you also saw how much the end of every power shut up everything [Music] all at once had an explanation of what that word has to do with the parachute the end of every person with some commission they put that in there it's incredible just being able to connect all the tasks being able to connect how everything comes together a real gematria is not just your puppet it's not just this is the same as that volume is the same kamachi as uh yo whatever you know that's that's not a real democrat that's stuff that people make up a real camachi is something based on knowledge of colorado what the really is saying and how the tyrant brings that earth through the words of everything right now we give this [ __ ] he used to use that these come on but that came from knowing and understanding and having it on his plate knowing it clearly understanding it on this plate there's a famous part the two so they say that the guy could have this real long-distance slaughter to come to bed with this real long distance for him that mama could have won the case for him and he didn't use it sorry he's telling the truth so develop the asks develop the esks so that's the tune of them the two of them had to meet with the two of us had this whole longest but this farmer who's coming to bed for the entire you know he doesn't know all that love this he doesn't understand but he doesn't he doesn't know all those cosmetics that come up with the time that they could have wanted the guys so the belt says when it comes to his money when he comes to his box he'll figure out all the alumnus everything was important every piece of tire was important every piece of information was important everything could be used for the service of tyra several years ago he was born several years ago it was when he was here for his mother and after everything so it's up in the ruffles so he was in baltimore and rabbi heinemann came then he said we have to discuss baking oat monsters because some people you have nothing for them to eat eat wheat nazis so david disgusted with them and he thousand by the way you have to toast the oats before you bake them get the toast no it's playing victim so ramen is with him so he asks him what's the basis of that aloha says it's not a halal i read it and you just did this as a teenager i read that you have to post oats before you bake them so here's he's pulling up information that's 60 years old about right but it's all in the surface of terror because when you need to be able to bask in the shadow when you need to be able to pick with the claw type when is a passion like the fondant who should come up with the most long-distance flower for amigo when it helps him the guy in a guy in them if you remember reader's diagnosis article from 60 years earlier when it comes to tiredness he didn't talk about your brother didn't talk very much he was known to not talking he used to say himself that he didn't talk much remember this repression once said by uh for his oldest son where david's he used to come tonight's meetings and he didn't talk unless he was asked for his opinion he didn't talk i know this from people that were at the meetings that they told me you just didn't unless you asked a specific question i was at a i was at a conference once with medical professionals and uh nursing home people and medical professionals have doubled with discussing life and death struggles and um one of the nursing home people there didn't like his position his position all of us didn't agree with this and he got up and he said i suggest yeshiva rethink his position so first of all i lost all my respect the game but uh just responded with the remember he gave a very humorous response like he didn't call him just it wasn't about him you know have a nice day on the other hand with the holocaust survivor who was there was also very basic in in medical issues when she got up and gave spoke about this she gave her much a very nice um compassionate response this guy gave a humorous response to but he was able to he was able to keep quiet in the face of abuse i don't have a better way to say i mean anybody else i mean i felt like getting up and i was sitting next to somebody else good friend of mine and he tells me did he just say what i thought he said about that they thought he said we're gonna get the smackdown [Music] he didn't get offended he didn't get upset he didn't just respond to things thinking i think again my first interaction with 10th grade and some of you in 10th grade and i'd be able to you know associate with this um i ate a pretty big lunch shall we say without going into all the gory details among the things that i ate was a pack of swiss fudge cookies and a bunch of other designers and so somebody tells me they might have to bench so i went to the uh go-to guy in yeshiva we're doing this the first cell phone date um and uh i go into this and i said what's the deal he said i think so until about 10-15 years ago how do you reach the bicycle and running he wasn't the music i don't understand why well but still even if he was the bicycle had to reach the bicycle until about 10 years ago he called the pay phone he wanted to pay bonus public phone outside the hallway in fpga and he called the phone and someone showed me the answer to the phone or some homeless guy and he went to call to receive it because mtj lets everybody in because that's fights being tested everybody gets in everybody gets uh everybody gets a thing and uh so they they call them their phone so it was only many years later that i realized what was going on in this conversation so we're discussing the cookies so what's the weight of the glasses how many cookies are in the back you know what the book you want how many these are the bag what's the ingredients okay now let's figure out how much flour there is in a cookie that's estimating if they go for the chocolate this is that he was teaching me how you're passing a child he was teaching me how you analyze a real real life childhood it's not just you go through and bench let's go through this object let me explain to you how you think this way you know the third slime is almost done and all the latest state of the art during all the latest home risks everything that everybody figured out there was never fear that khalifa never practiced in hundreds and hundreds of years all the latest sheepish and humorous and everything else they this safety had it all it was like state of the art with all the fullness so somebody came to him was like push for him and he said it's maybe said no you're going to land in the old save 31 years so the guy says switch the mantle on the supreme tyres that nobody realizes that we're using the new circumference everybody will think that we're using gold savings right we won't even bother to save the tire but don't do badly you could do good so if you always said i will do i'll be surprised i'm going to say he is tied this whole [ __ ] doing a little bit until now until our daughter somebody just wrote an article he wrote an article on one of the papers that maybe that you know the sheet that the sheeta that was uh has become popularized recently that uh that before you title uh an object for your title akali you have to own the cable the store owner can't title the tree you're asking type of way because it's probably item that you want this to an item that you own and sell you don't have to type it so here the three will only stop when the final purchaser buys it so this guy went ahead and wrote an article like this and he mentioned the terms of it he said it was okay he said the guy comes we have hundreds of years on the server this isn't the case somebody writes a sheet and all of a sudden this becomes the right thing then he found out that his store on the court of dubai before pesach did he titled all the kingdom in his store and that does he have to re-title it because he heard that this guy wrote the article that you have to talk on the camera that you can't find in the kingdom we have the servant call yourself yes there is a vishnu bureau and yes this is and yes there are forums that we use and we pm and we don't know what to do well khan's there's a minute to throw and that's not to be made away with just because some a sheet that holds down like that but if i stroll holes like that the kid does not have ang that's to a certain cheapest they're abducted held differently than everybody should do so he has somebody else he told him he is the one his father health the good old days i know lately maybe he is but upset requires knowing the situation and knowing what's going on i dealt with him on a lot of different things because i have to go through a lot of different things and you have to know you have to know who's asking what you're asking about who you're going to what you're going from and that's the role of the playstation basic doesn't just look at the facts and open up a cipher and he has to apply the title there's an art is it because i'll tell us how this breakfast right tells us israel we should and once she decided he learned then everything allah did he knows everything he did he doesn't he's my heart because he doesn't know he knows everything he knows a fast amount of information but he doesn't know how to apply that information that was able to apply the whole breath and length of tyra to any given situation whether it was the fascist whether it was a nickel whether it was a challenge everything was able to do he was the he's the most no historical person he's the sweetest person he can turn away from dealing with those complex shadows and a bunch of guys guys coming from from lakewood who is learning to be diagnosed and they come there with the most complicated pleasure mr travis and he could turn away from them and deal with the homeless guy who has nobody to talk to and nobody cares about and talk there the same guy in high guarding him can be the friend to every human being to every single person whether it's a little kid or an adult and and and yet and yet when it came to our also you got to be firm he recognizes other people tells us why why don't we pass them like this they tell you not only what they owe but they tell you about my hopes i won't later that's fine somebody else followed me that was fine but when you have to be firm in order to be firm decades ago they were very sticky shylas about unpleasant situations and and he took a very strong stand like a very strong unpopular stance that people have to be turned into authorities for certain infrastructure doing things that certainly things for for harming other people and it was another the the outspoken some of the most outspoken regiment was very much against it stood his ground and he forced the issue when he had the force initially forced an issue i know an empty my my close relationship the relationship that i enjoyed with your david was born he from born in the following um many years ago the senator tries to show him started having an annual dinner he hadn't had dinners for decades he's not having an annual dinner and uh they needed somebody to pull things together the office was not so loose over there and uh i guess that's pretty stuff though this is not something and [Music] uh agreed that that's what had to happen and that's what i should be doing and i should take the plan of you shiva to do that the thought that was very close to the rob who was around mtj and he moved to me to talk to me like when doing this she will doesn't that i should be but they told me to do this so this is what god wants me to do today um and this went on for a few days and finally i went over to her daughter i said what should i tell him don't worry i'll take care of him he never came over to me again i don't know whatever told him i don't know what he did but he never came over again he came up with anything other things never came what did you get about this you know how to be tough you know how to be firm um to do a shout out once about certain certain books that the people were signing yesterday was very controversial the issue and the andrew david sanders and he there was a lot of pressure on him a lot of people arguing with them but other people other communities and just remember that durk david had a very close relationship with everybody he was able to talk to anybody from any background so i'm just close to the people closest than a very very modern orthodox and so many people very close to them are very very accurate and so and everything in between the whole gamut of people not only himself in closeness people came to him for advice and this and that there were certain things that you know he was a straight thing he felt straight he thought and that's what people appreciate about it you know there's a my side we were in toronto a few years ago for uh for collecting money dedicated untold hours over the past few years to collecting money to save i'll say french jewelry french jews they they were they were republicans so they were assimilated but as anti-semitism rose there and as the muslims moved in as every mentioned yesterday the the the the jews started moving they became more willing to put their kids in yeshivas and she just had to extend they had to accommodate these kids so in dublin jordan joined the several rabbits and other russian shiva and he was a he was a driving force behind this campaign to raise money for french jews and the french jews needed to be helped he was there to help them and he went to he went to they went to toronto to collect money and i won't mention the name of the room and there ever had the russia civil war with him and and uh they're eating they're having lunch by your fellow someone say his name more a more modern fellow and they're having lunch there and this rather than this otherwise she would need eating supper and the dog's not eating so they ask him what's going on what gives you eight of them he says we're traveling we didn't have an american holiday [Music] and the boss is not yours that's the law so now what happens if somebody wants to give you they want to know why they're going to stay differently so you can write a will right incredible so there are some ice creams hope there's a halal variety as a gift before you die so the girl gets some of the some other thing so three mistakes he decided he's gonna write the stockholders he's gonna do one of these unlocking things he got the revival comes very into it he's very inside he's a friend they're going to write his thing and they're going to go so he goes to dublin and he tells he goes to meet with him how to write such a strong so i want to write it says okay tyra says but the girls the boys get the girls don't forget but he says i know your son always but it doesn't change what the parent says the title says one thing don't convince yourself that you're doing something i'll be tired when you're doing something so i'll be tired to get around the tire you're doing a gerrymander you're doing you're jerry-rigging something because you think car the terror says something you want to do something so they'll be tired that there's nothing wrong with writing a will there's nothing wrong with dividing your estate some other way there's nothing wrong with it but if you're doing it some other way don't convince yourself that you're doing what the terror says you're not doing what the terrorist says the tiger says the boys get the girls don't get don't come with crazy fungi don't come with because brightness the tyrant is glad to myself once told somebody the tyrant is the guy came back to hermes again and again with a certain star mauricio says the title is so straight the sun is so black why do you have to be cruel the tiger is strength the terrorism the emo stick the tire is sweet the thing is getting balding don't go straight don't go flat just go with the burger don't try to find all sorts of things he couldn't stay in thick he couldn't stand trying to do something i'll be terrible at chilling i'll be there it's precision and terrorist precision inside there's just a story going around now two guys came in one one guy [Music] yeah the other guy says but you told me no he says no you asked me if you should do a watch on child shouldn't worry about yourselves if you can wear watch yourself yes you can wear a wall so when you hear a thousand talking from above it don't believe any of them because you have to know exactly what was in exactly what was answered i know myself i had we had a mice there was a doctor that a legal thing not illegal there was a letter that we signed for somebody who was a nerd in a certain case and involved it was a complicated get whatever it was and uh david was going to sign a nusselt about his opinion on the status i can tell you that i spoke then i said the message one it was a friday probably spent 40 minutes on the phone understanding what he wanted to say sending him like 12 different drifts just trying to say what he wanted to say until we finally came up with the muscle that he exactly wanted to say and that's what he was ready to sign and i have it in my house but it was like till it was so precise it had to be exactly exactly exactly when you hit sucking general sucking just realized that they could guess exactly what it is these are all things that we could assimilate in our own life these are little things that we get when we learn something with a clarity learn how to apply it understand how it works how it filters down it's not just some random gemara it's not just you know it's not just it's not just a something it's not it's not churchill it's a part it's a car that went into a bike it's a car that went into somebody in somebody's house it's not it's not random it's not a it's not a bleak it's not the it's not it's not muslim any it's it's like double wrinkle we can okay that's about time you should take it on a few minutes and then i'll wrap up i'm sorry if i'm going over them i don't know what i'm based on the guy came to him once and just heard the story yesterday guy came to him and introduced himself he's against your left eye he said i know he doesn't have to tell the guy's name with his mother's name three and a half years earlier the guy came to his followed him he was still beating the soul for the guy three and a half years later he knew who he was because every jew mattered to him is that why he used to go there was a storm he started to spawn jack open around the corner from the issue he used to run there during the days to hide behind himself in the back office jack baldwin would stand god to make sure nobody bothered him and he'd say to him he couldn't say i was but i was saying tell the people i support people it was just incredible you know by my and his family wanted very much his relationship she was having condition except he told my son a little bit if the dog was [Music] but uh i tried getting your david to come over to the head table but it come up by the reception for the football he wouldn't come over because he didn't want that rosh hashima to see that he was there so he wouldn't come up with the red table you know but my casana there was a shout out to them and that i was thought i had to give somebody a keyword and i found out that there's a thing that certainly won't come to a casa now if they don't get a keyboard or an appropriate keyboard um having grown up for 10 years on the under the frankston bishop it was like a little interesting to me that such a thing exists but i think that's the way it is that's the way it is so i didn't have a bra for that if i gave this person a brother i'd probably have to give a certain person yeshiva and i gave him everyone turned up and i said what do i do i said we're broken i never have broca's somebody giving me a brother he said yeah he said okay so give me my brother so i said i need to come to castle anyway and he looked at me goes crazy he goes of course i'm coming to the casino like where's one have to go to the other he would just he just didn't hit he just can't attach people so he's got a story from a guy in baltimore right so he broke the east side his mother was wheeling a shopping cart one one day and the wheel came on the wheel came off the shopping cart and she's trying to figure out what to do all the sudden she sees the guy bend down and put starts putting the wheel on and then she takes a look and it's tripped up with feinstein putting the wheel on her shopping cart honey on the green street and she's like she's like a pool like could you please stop she goes why should i stop so she goes so she goes i i can't ask you to fix my car because you didn't ask me to fix my car i came over and i'm fixing your car and he fixed it he fixed the shopping cart he's another goddamn every shadow of the world is coming to him everybody's running then coming different breath is coming through no problems and he is standing there putting a shopping cart a little lady of shopping on a wheel on a woman's shopping cart he's a mooner is it more of a shooter and what the truth he demanded of all this guy and writes his role in matter of fact sit down you care about them you will deal with them and that's it then one of the available goes somebody was here they said they told us that our mother was nifty young she means that she was she fulfilled her task in this world other people it's 20 30 years longer and she did it when she was young and she fulfilled her task in this world their purpose in this world and that's why she died and doug tells him we don't know anything avista does what he is and we don't we don't make sure this is a man who lost the there's a man who lost the granddaughter this is a man who suffered with every sorrow that caused you all had he called someone a friend of mine a few years ago told a friend of mine he said i feel like tamales every day of getting shadows between the fossils [Music] and he can say and he and like i said she never saw without a smile he was always wrong one in newspaper one of the magazines had a very serious picture of him on the cover [Music] these are all things that we can do the man who had no time the my wife and i once were involved with the young lady away from a troubled home but she got married no problems in the marriage and we made an appointment the appointment started when it was supposed to stop it ended whenever the conversation ended he had all the time in the world the man who had everybody waiting for him the man with everybody everybody's needs on his head the man who was busy with the shadows of collier's role when a person needed physic when a person needed help he was there for them for as long as they needed as much time as they took and as many words as it took this person who didn't talk whatever talking he took to give a person a physical he was there he gave it and those are all things that we can do for him for us i know what he just did to be supposed to energies for us and we should walk in his ways a lot tomorrow says as i'll say welcome as great as we might be as accomplished as we might be and accomplishes will be in life we should never forget be humble and help others and every up and learning um hearing so many personal interactions and stories my ideas from what my grandfather was about and what we could learn from it definitely uh repeat over some of the ideas that he said but with my own signaling and two things will come together just uh you mentioned about the stone the stone finish with all the i told you that definitely uh someone looks at it and you see it just looks one word sometimes two words uh you know with the kamachi of how many took him there were in the fire shop and you look at his explanation just we're obviously drew on a wealth of information just to be my buyers uh just to be more than similar and chosen that he had just to add on is that someone's told me someone called up to him someone's told me he said you know i thought i really so shortly after him i really appreciate you know this monday he wrote that must have taken a while how long did it take you i said about an hour now because there's 52 postures or whatever sometimes there's two shots them over there so a minute or less so right look down it just shows the keys that he had and the mental practice put it together my grandfather used to say that when we fell over his stuff about hermisha that that's not going to be hired people that's they were remission was a genius what does that have to do with me say about my grandfather so he was a genius so what does that have to do with me what does that have to do with us to follow him in ways that we could follow him we weren't necessarily blessed with those abilities of course definitely a person puts in the effort at the end of the day the russians give them a start they will learn and more and that he's he's able to to have places that he didn't necessarily have originally but after he came it seems that he had an extraordinary natural ordinary you know gift that not all of us were given but we also know famous and being described as is he watched the way with people smiling after everybody and finally after everybody and what the casual conversation wasn't necessarily about a concise so that's what it was but they wanted to come talk to him that's what he would talk to him somebody wanted to talk about the weather about what's on sale that was also part of his conversation so he wouldn't necessarily pick that up that was part of his universe what was it all about uh on this week's powershell i heard a vlog once it says it was born [Music] usually you'll hear not i'm just trying to say over what it looks like to me i did have a close view of him growing up it's like a vitamin c and the moon was something that in years past what it seems is this is in the good old days this is what everybody had in the realization of the revenue and if you hear you here is you mentioned revenue constantly but not necessarily with the speech that i need to give now to explain what a moon is or just a reality and an understanding that there is a revenue that's a given and with understanding of what the eminent wants from us here is the question i'm a guilt and i'm in a crisis to live and the christ to live my life the way that brainstorm wants me to live it to be that being the case just replied the activists come yeah was a yacht he just sat and he learned he was replacing [Music] what the replenishment wanted whatever he did it was because that what the bunch of wanted his torah is because someone's still entirely he's avoided the virgin wants to avoid that and it's custard towards other people about that that's what your virus wants also everything that he was doing everything what he was doing wasn't for himself everything that he did the way he just his outlook in life was there's a revenge on him i'm going to do what he wants so whatever he wants in this particular situation that's what i'm going to do and that's that was that's what ran his life without a personal bias without a personal paneer when he sat down and learned he learned with the glock he learned not necessarily to say a great part you learned because this is terrorist hashem we're going to find out what their bindings from says of course it was sweeped in that's a sad word and since he learned with that in mind and that was his mahalif with his black guy so very fast he was like it might even help us up and to become the price of goddard and the one that everybody wanted to hear what he has to say because when he was saying over what he had to say it wasn't personal it was saying over what it says in the turtle the way he sees it he didn't remember there could be other opinions and he can force it on him that why did he see it that way what he saw because his spotless his palace took fire and spotless to the title now i'm not sure i'm not such a an older fellow but like i said this was something it seems in years past in other countries that the the attitude the attitude maybe he did have special gifts that made him a dominant and uh that was a given but he was came to america at a very young age at a very young age and it seems it seems in america it's not so easy because there's a lot of distractions there's a lot a lot a lot of distractions and everybody to understand what i mean i'm sure you've heard about it and i don't need to go into detail i'm just going to use the word noise there's a lot of noise there's a lot of noise that could be my free up and to distract the person from what should be his goal and from the reality my grandfather didn't get distracted from the noise not as a little kid and not when you get older and there's other types of distractions i mentioned to you [Music] covered could have come to him and did come to him but he didn't get distracted that's noise what's i'm only doing what i'm supposed to be doing that's something that probably everybody's doing or they should be doing and we'll monitor harvey i'll talk like lots of cookies i'm just doing what i'm supposed to be doing people want to pour it on it did not make a difference then he did not change one eye odor anything that he would do for what people would say obviously within the pattern sometimes an arduino has to speak the way it has to think and act the way an autumn gobble has to act because there are people watching him but that's also if those fake pointers were involved and you didn't see that so much but if those the fighters were involved that's also because that was but nothing personal nothing personal nothing nothing was able to distract him from that being the case is also his banana favorite like we said also that's what the bernstein wants but since it was nothing personal anyone you'll hear from they had an interaction with him it was only a pleasant interaction you don't only have good things to say because there was not nothing personal nothing personal what you cared about this is how he acted this is how he lived the more we could do that the more we could do that become the next cuddle a dog but we become the next place together i don't know everybody has a question to try and it's definitely a good recipe it's definitely a good recipe but if we don't we'll still be have done the best we can that's what the invention wants from to live the way he wants us to live without getting distracted that is something that's incumbent and with a couple of a couple of stories to bring out the point i want to bring out the point besides that is when a person has a sacral sultan [Music] to learn it's also you know to to take a look it's also not there not to do this it's not a separate thing this is our or our our basic uh basic responsibility i'm not saying i think this is something that we all know and again the main thing is not to get distracted and the less we get distracted the better off we are and the more we'll be able to do that and makayam but a person understands that these things come first it's a different way of setting up your life and yourena says i'm the first missionary associate and you're gonna write the same thing in charity perhaps his heart is in the right place he wants to do what the virgin want but associated means to make a safeguard an offense to do the missus and keep away from the others and in general that's what our corpus of khazal are for but that shows you know that shows that it's not just something extra he wants to do it but if he doesn't do it it's okay this shows this is my life and this you know mine to make sure it gets done somebody told me just the story about the last cm shots i believe it was you know the last thing in my chest so my grandfather was there and you know they were getting ready for and somebody was showing him his place you know upon the days and he said i'm going to stay here and stay here i'll go up after afternoon why why i'm not such a young person it takes me time to get there time i get there i might miss the nominee remind me to know me don't pass up the opportunity i mean i know for what what i'll make this so you get them all the time but and he had plenty of supposing he didn't want to lose the opportunity to pass up an almond but what did he do to make sure that he's not going to miss army didn't i'm sure that he was going to miss him that wasn't for sure but i'm going to stay here and after after that i'm going to walk up and i'll go to my place i was once by his house friday afternoon i came to wish him a happy birthday it was an arab shabbos his birthday is a week after chavuz of the year and it came out from anything in the world came home around two o'clock [Music] didn't want to keep us and we're gonna know you guys have to go back for shabbos this was on the long the long shot boston set seven eight seven o'clock early showers he must that wasn't the point because he was going to set the table for chavez and someone was it was a person was helping himself you want to do it now chavez doesn't wait for anybody so shabbos doesn't wait for anybody now shabbos isn't if you fight if you will travis doesn't wait for anybody i have to make 100 now you never know you never know what could be in this scenario specifically kill shots just have fun for shots but it doesn't it's not going to wait have that perspective it's not i'll deal with shabbos when it comes so travis is important it has a time in the clock few hours but i have to make a thumbnail and not to pass it up so i was going to make a you know when my children the wrists end up being a strickle delayed weren't sure when the bristle was going to be and there was a chance it was going to be uh you know until the baby was nothing yellow it wasn't that yellow anymore it was a question of maybe the wrist was going to be friday not friday morning friday afternoon and also i have to pace up not the shortest shop not for sure maybe not the longest but the short so i asked him i said zadie you can make the bris friday afternoon you know but no he loved the family simcon he was there all the time and that was very dear to him but i'm not saying this necessarily there are clubs about travel on shots but his attitude was do you think i i live in muncie i don't live in toronto it's an hour yes there could be traffic or whatever but we took many hours he had fun it wasn't short could at least as soon as he wants he's not not going to take the risk the risk it's it's not the biggest risk but you make the sea of if you care about childs you care about them if you care about pastor show them not to be over then you'll make the necessary our purpose you're not going to get involved in sticky situations in the first place that might ultimately lead to oh it might ultimately lead you to a serious childhood pastor show them to maybe and that's just about what's important and keeping your sense of priority and setting up uh so again that's that that's what i saw in him came from this awareness of what we're here for and therefore i'm just gonna do the best i can and so if his best took him to where he was but everybody's supposed to do the best they can and because of that because of that is you know because then he was stuck he wasn't doing anything in his mind so extra special he was doing what he felt he needed to do and he didn't get distracted nothing was able to close nothing was able to take them away from that mission and that responsibility that we all have take whatever we could take and apply it to ourselves and do our best of course will make us great greater than we are now and as great as we can be healed