Differences Between Men & Women - R. Joey Haber - TorahAnytime.com

does the torah treat woman any less than a man what do you think no yes no no okay i don't know about you i don't know if you ever noticed this but every morning man makes a bit of you know says thank you hashem for not making me a woman isn't i'm saying it's a room for a woman isn't that pretty uh pretty disrespectful and the woman's bit aha now i'm not now it's rhetorical questions i answer my own questions that means you made me second fiddle but thank you you did your will this is what you chose it's okay i accept i'd like to explain it anyone who thinks that that's the meaning of the barakat have no understanding of judaism at all i'd like to explain it if i can let me tell you how judaism works you see let's be real boys men are crazy they're crazy they're so much crazier than girls they're crazy and if you're not sure come to a work in a school that has girls and boys in it and we have wonderful boys and wonderful girls but the difference between the two is dramatic i'll tell you an example if you see a siddhu that girl uses often you'll often see in the middle of the amidah you'll see lipstick you know why because they're holding the sidhu like this a man in their life a man never holds a sea do it like this never puts it on their face because women are much purer than men so men that's why men because they're crazy because we're nuts we need to wear tiffy lean every day and sit seat and talent and hear the shofar and sit in the sukkah and shaykh and count the omer and do all the different results that a man is obligated to do because we're crazy we need all these mitzvoth to make us somewhat subdued and normal women are created much purer to begin with so a man makes allah thank you for not making me a woman for giving me the opportunity to do more mitzvot a woman makes a barakah what does that mean not on second fiddle that you made me kiritsona closer to your will i'm closer to perfection than a man is a man needs mitzvoth to achieve perfection you a woman is kirsten like god's will they're closer to god's will to begin with so they don't need to wear talent every day the woman and the world and people who think that a woman should have a right to wear tiffany is insulting the woman because it's like saying that women need it you don't need it men need it women don't shalom not degrading a woman it's saying thank you hashem for giving me moments what and sha'asani is not a second philo it's thank you hashem for making me closer to your will and closer to perfection to begin with and any person who has sons and daughters knows exactly what i'm talking about the torah god forbid never puts woman second never and you're there there might be lines in the gemara that talk about a feature of woman that's negative just like the gemara talks about features of men that's negative the torah was a greater prophet than abraham avinu when they had a debate god said listen to her emanuel was the one who got it right as to which son should be blessed and yaakov wanted his sovereign was right when she chose it to be yaakov when joakov avinu was told to leave his father's house by hashem himself he said i'm not going until i get permission from my wives when god came to moshe rabbin and said i want you to present the torah to the jewish people he said go to the woman first which are the girls with tagalog which are the woman so anyone out there who thinks that our torah considers men and women as not do not reach does not respect women has no clue about our torah all of the laws in fact the concept of modesty is not about degrading a woman and putting her in a paper bag the concept of modesty is that respecting a woman don't put her on the side of a bus respect her and keep her dignity by making her dress in this proper way the ideas and the laws for women are all about making sure she maintains her dignity and respect is that clear enough good you