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the success and the fortune is when you
rise to the occasion here's a person
handsome that's a sick child you got a
sick child your life's over
you've now preoccupied with this child
24/7 your life ceases to exist the way
you know now other people resent it they
resent that their life came too old I
understand them how many families have
broken up when such a thing happens
instead of circling the wagons are
coming together every one parent decides
I'm dedicating my life not want them a
child I'm not going to work I'm not
looking to look at the other children I
can't and everything gets destroyed it's
kind of getting built you have to figure
out what do you have to do in that
situation
to feel that you succeeded in this
challenge very tough question surveyors
very difficult questions people have no
pen no sir you know how many families
have been torn and ripped apart because
there was no pie no sir and the people
didn't want to accept the challenges
either the wife did not want to accept
that challenge because she said my
husband is schlemazel I married him
thinking he was a successful person
ANOVA lady like that
she married the guy based on his degrees
the guy was brilliant and every job he
applied for they wouldn't give it to him
until you're too way overqualified you
said I'll take it
Oh Jim hi you once that would be right
it's like a bazillion if you two work in
the show he says I'm a liberal genius
his wife eventually got fed up with him
she threw him out that's a failure
deluxe and then there people get
together and say listen this isn't a
sign we have for Michelle let's not
throw out the baby with the bathwater
we're gonna be challenged it's gonna be
a heart it's gonna be stormy but let's
keep ourselves together
let's keep our family unit together
let's try the best we can to huddle
together except what our Shem is giving
us let's work on this let it pass that's
watching us guest passes you know many
people stop their lives because if a
child does neither should the child
becomes depressed the parents become
depressed if all the joy of their life
goes out its mama she surrenders a
person has to understand and what if you
lose a child that's for sure just met a
wonderful wonderful family they lost a
child many years I think was 20 years
ago still it over they don't want to get
over child was one run over by a
neighbor two-year-old child
heartbreaking I said it's tough way for
our sin to take back his child then that
our children gosh I'm so sure
it's definitely a rough way now what i
show wants to know is anything ready
how dare you do this I raised this child
I carried this child you're taking away
from me who gave you permission to do
that pin to say give me come distraught
I know people who've never got back to
themselves years later facing such
tragedies and they celebrate the tragedy
every year with big pump they get
together they know ain't gonna make this
a Lila caver
they never want to forget this thing
around life they want this team to
always be they think they owe it to the
child I said your child is in a much
better place Raylan do that he kind
of stick hood whatever it was what are
you doing this for the mother tells me I
know it's selfish it's me it's about me
get past it that's what that's what I
sure want you to do that's the test but
whatever the test is you going through
step one of the test is to acknowledge
it's a test from a Shem and never to
complain we are children of our from its
hockey Yankees the first thing I've
roamed it and every had challenges the
animal he relied on a Shem 100% he knew
a chef nothing it wasn't challenging to
he never complained doesn't mean you
can't beat it must to be happy with the
challenge necessarily especially if
they're not regular challenges but you
have to have the moon the first thing it
is you got a mama's make yourself locked
and you make choices and you make the
right choices and you rise
then you're a success then you could how
many people are you so angry and so
upset when one of their family members
died and they didn't get a chance to say
goodbye if they heard that yes Shem says
I have that right I'm a sham
that's it except and that's how when you
read the parshas of rama v knew he went
through ten major tests in every area of
his life this is after all the tests he
went through tilling 75 you think that's
75 get a little relaxation in there I'm
a defender this man was put into jail
for ten years just because of a
religious belief to think that I shed
and he knows her shell that Hashem let
him be subjected to a burning hot oven
that was stoked he saw the fire he saw
the heat and to be pushed into the self
you know how many people would turn
their backs on a chairman that situation
yeah and you're the old one that was
loyal to usher you ask em to only bus it
you were the only one who propagated and
spread the word of a ship and you forced
its return image into a furnace net and
it wasn't Nimrod wasn't this father such
a they were just looking and he not
pierced a test and it said he felt
terrible so disappointed in a gem that a
sham did system we would have understood
it no I would have understood
don't say that
see this is what we have to clean so if
the take out you lose a spouse you lose
a child you lose a home you lose a job
after say this is how shams will and
it's the only way and the only thing
that was supposed to have you've just
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