Day 20 - Open your heart

[Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] the other day we spoke about heat about the dudes about the importance of talking to the calash people praying is very very important I told you it's one of the most important pillars to sustain the world as we know there are three pillars that the world is standing on TOA budahas Selim Torah means to learn Torah and to fulfill the Meatwad Buddha means prayer Buddha is a lays labor or a job but that means prayer and criticism acts of kindness and we see the Torah that Buddha prayer is in the middle saying in other words this is the center of our life so I was talking the other day about it buddy dude but it notes really I don't wanna sound the wrong way so please listen carefully and don't take my words out of context but the real prayer is when you talk from your hearts not what our sages gave us because if you look at the real prayers the these are the prayers of Obama window which Huckabee knew and Yaakov Aveeno and they would just talk to the Kailash book or in a form of a hittable they do it later on of course the prayer was taught to us by many others Joseph ascetic was praying to the Kadosh bahu Moshe Bobby no but at some point our sages saw that the concept of prayer has not been taking seriously so they decided to put it in writing there was what's called yearly data towards every generation they lost a little bit of their power so our sages decided exactly like darkness see that this he saw that the world Torah it's losing its value so he decided to compile everything into the mission I out and put it in writing same thing with prayer by the way originally the prayer was from your heart and they knew how to pray but at some point that was already slowly slowly being neglected so the great assembly they got together they said we got to do something let's put set prayers in in a book that way you you can carry it you by you self-you you Jesus doing it like like a machine even though it has to be with life but the real prayer is that you just talked to the kailash bajo so doing it what it does is just not just going to a forest and start clapping your hands that's not anybody dude we're gonna have to really slowly slowly learn that because you want to get to a point that you dedicate five minutes ten minutes half an hour a day that you talk to the kadosh below with your words in a way that you have no distractions and I told you heat body dude comes from the term B Duda nefesh we do this to isolate now if I want to focus on something and I need to be very aware of what I'm focusing on whether its type of meditation whatever it is even if it's something as simple as your job or when you need to really focus on something then you nee can't have any distractions and any distraction will get you off of your focus and that's why they it's Arava likes to come while you pray and bother you you have to be honest with yourself and see when was the last time when you were praying Schmo nicely you actually went through all the prayers without being sidetracked for one second and it's usually not the case and the more you get sidetracked actually better the ballot Anya says in the Book of Tonya that if you get sidetracked and you have all these weird thoughts while you praying Sh'ma nicely it means you did a very good prayers and the Yetzirah could not even stand the fact that you're focused on that we like that he had to come and bother you but focusing only the body dude first of all and most important you have to bring yourself to pay a place that you are isolated from distractions the next thing you need to focus on and that's what we need to that's what I want to talk about today is that you have to open your heart to your shame and you have to talk to a shame like is if your he's your psychologist he's your best friend is your father that's really the beginning of course is the different methods how to apply to approach it will dilute but the the foundation is that you have to open your heart and you have to talk to the kadosh below and spill your heart out because he's the only one that can answer your prayers he's the only one that can make an actual difference it's almost like when you need something from your boss from the bank manager you know when you need money you go to the bank manager you know how to pour your hearts to the bank manager I need more credit I need a higher line of credit because this because of that then you come and you prepare the spiel this speech already two hours before that so you have to do the same thing with the kadosh bowl now I can tell you already a little secret you don't have to come to the colostrum and tell him I want a Mercedes but I want it to be the pearly white not the blue one who doesn't this is no one you need to talk to the Kailash Baba I need to open your heart to the Kailash before not only your personal needs but for the right guidance I can tell you really the kadosh who knows what your bank accounts balance you don't have to tell him what your financial situation he knows it he has access to your bank account he knows how much money you don't have and he also has access to the computers of mr. radik name he know if you're married or not you don't have to tell tell him these things the real request you want to ask a shame is to help you overpower your desires and to overpower your Yetzirah and to guide you to see the truth in things and to guide you to control your mouth and your thoughts you have to know what to ask and I can tell you already that the way to start is the first of all you thank the Kadosh Bakul for everything it does for you it's a very good time a day to take two minutes a day to thank the Kadosh beaucoup that I have teeth so I can chew and my fingers work so I can actually scratch myself when when it itches and that I have a house to live in and then I have a wonderful wife and I have kids Boca shame and food whatever it is and even if I don't have a lot of food today but I have more than this guy and I have more than that take 2-3 minutes to thank to the Kenosha bajo it will change everything but really what we want to focus on today find this five minutes if you can do 10 minutes or 20 minutes even better but five fine five minutes it's more important than anything else more important than checking your messages and what's that by the way believe it or not it's reven more important than checking junk on Facebook for 3 hours 5 minutes 10 minutes gave a shame a little bit of attention trust me you give a shim attention he will give you a lot of attention back so you start with thanking like a logical but really you open your heart and this is going to be also the topic of the next class we're gonna talk about is as those go who is he wants to see what's in the heart he knows what's in your heart born cry out valleys he knows what's in your heart and there's the reason why this they specifically the heart because that our sages could have said that he also knows what's going on in your behind maka votes right even though we do say Mohan moksha both but nevertheless since moment clio to believe and live is a very very deep meaning for that and we'll talk about it more in another time but the point is that in the involute you open your heart to the Kasbah ho with what bothers you now the thing is I told her yesterday and when it comes to takuna me note you need to figure out what are your faults and what are the things that you need to refine if you don't know them yet you're in big trouble if you figured out already that you have an issue with anger and your impatience and you're lazy and you're judgmental and whatever it is at least you figure out what's the problem now you now you just need to the tools to work on them but you have to pray to the colosseo cooped-up flibbit or whatever as we say three times they open my heart with your TOA of a mitzvah tear cut it off now she and that your miss wrote my soul should run after but you want to first of all focus on the heart if you know how to open the heart then then everything starts flowing and really what you focus on in volute is you pour your heart out what bothers you even if it sounds you like nonsense that person talks about me it bothers me this person who talks loud right next to me when I pray it bothers me with praying you tell the Kailash Mahal what's on your heart because he's the one who will guide you and will give you also the answers why things are happening because if you have answers sometimes then problems get minimized and when you have answers you know how to approach things the right way and don't thing in the Kailash people who will send you a message in whatsapp but he will give you the awareness he will give you the wisdom that it will just pop up in your head and you'll get it try it and you'll see the Kadosh Baruch how to give you answers if it might come here on a bumper speak sticker in the car that it's in front of you or ad on the bus that you're stuck in traffic the air will say the answer but you want to focus on this personal connection to the Kadosh mahal because only when you build a real connection with the collage abajo then you will start developing the fear of desecrating his name and the desire to sanctify his name and that's really what we're going after after is how can I have a real close personal relationship with a collage abajo and in that believe me it works for your benefit because you get closer to the collage know who the blessings become more more real the guidance the awareness the the clarity in your mind needless to say that that's really we want to build a very strong connection with the collage boho and that starts by you learning how to open your heart to the Kailash bahu but be very calculated with what you're telling the Kadosh Google don't come and sound like arrogant pots when you come to the Kailash before be very humble when you approach a ship but the thing is that you need to learn how to approach a man to understand a regime is very approachable when this time is there is done right and I can tell you really sometimes you sit in a meeting and the phone rings and you take the phone it's very rude if you're doing it too and imagine how rude it is if you're doing to the kodoku don't go don't come to this private session with a shame with your phone yeah sorry one second value and cherish these few moments that you have private time you can go slow [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music]