Dating for eight months versus for a few minutes

because I feel like that's when I got engaged to her and the amount of conversations that we had or even disagreements or arguments or or or I wouldn't call it fights but like more serious conversations is incredible. So to be able to go into an engagement marriage and marriage like this is to me I think a lot makes a lot more sense than the typical you meet once or twice and you go and again there's a middle way also but yeah >> [laughter]