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Morning to everybody.
>> Morning.
>> It's the last Friday in deal.
Everybody on a Friday in deal at least
for the kids who have school.
God bless.
It's a sunny day. There's so much to do.
But it's alul.
And we know is the time to focus on
what's important.
The fact that we are here this morning
is greatness in Hashem's eyes. The fact
that our dear Leo opened up his home to
have us. The fact that you have so many
people on this table working behind the
scenes, something unfathomable.
They're not going to work. They're not
spending time relaxing on the beach,
going to the pool. They're worried about
Hashem's home and they're putting all
their energy into it. And it's
impossible, as I said by our barbecue,
for those who weren't there, it's
impossible to drive on a road without
the people who worked hard to pave the
road beforehand for us to go smooth
sailing. So, we thank you so much. By
the way, last week we read in the para
about the kosher animals. The sign for a
kosher animal is split hooves and re-
chewing its cud. And our rabbis tell us
that's what a Jew is. Number one, we
hold on to tradition. We're reweing.
We're regoing over and connected to
tradition. But we have to move forward
with our two front legs.
I give a woman's class
besides the shalom women's class, a
young newly married woman's class who
they're going to join our women's
classm.
And we're giving it for years. It
started off when they were about 18, 19.
and I spoke by one of their friends
weddings and they heard my speech so
they decided rabbi let's make a class so
we were giving a class every single week
for years they were single and as
they're going forward they're getting
married
having children and then corona came
hashem should protect am is
and we're still giving the class but
instead of indoors, we're giving it
outdoors. It wasn't such a beautiful
backyard like this one,
but it was beautiful. And the hostess
who is newly married, she was married
only about two weeks and she's already
hosting a class in her home. She says,
"Rabbi, you see that tree over there?"
And I said, "Yes, it's a magnificent
tree." She said, "That tree is a proof
that dreams could come true." I said,
"That's nice, but how does a tree tell
me that dreams come true?" She said,
"Rabbi, when I was in third grade, my
father bought this deal home, and that
was the most magnificent tree I saw in
my life. What does a third grader know
about nature, about trees?" But she
said, "Dad, when I get married, I'm
getting married under that tree." And
the father tells her in third grade,
"Li, you're getting married in a like
everybody else." Fourth grade comes,
they come for the summer. Dad, I'm
getting married under that tree. And
once again, the father says, "We don't
get married in backyards. We don't get
married under trees. We get married in a
fifth grade, sixth grade, 10th grade,
11th grade, 12th grade." She goes to
Israel one year and every year she tells
her dad the same thing and every year
her dad tells her the same thing. And
she got engaged in the winter
and her father booked Westel Shul.
You're getting married in Westile.
Everything's fine and dandy. But then we
know what happened in March 2020.
There's no parties in Schulles. She got
married in her backyard and the tree was
her hoopa because nothing stands in the
way of a vision. Nothing stands in the
way of a dream when it's a beautiful
dream and a dream that you really want.
Hashem will make it manifest. We all
here have one dream. We have a dream as
Amy is as a whole to make the nation a
better nation to teach the people to
teach the people how to act. But as a
specific congregation, our is really the
pinnacle of that neighborhood after
Ocean Avenue. We are the shares, a
borrowed phrase of that neighborhood. We
are here on a mission to make sure the
next generation has a beautiful
synagogue, has a beautiful knice and
that's everybody here's vision and
that's our dream. We are at a moment in
history that we never thought we would
make. But guess what? The previous
regime handed over the baton and they're
trusting us because they saw our in
inspiration. They saw how uh we
dedicated and devoted we are and they
knew that we could take that baton and
not just stay status quo. We're here to
dream. We're here to have visions and to
manifest it and to take our synagogue
not one level higher. We're going to
take our synagogue bezund
levels higher.
But it can't be done by everyone just
saying, "I'll worry about the other guy.
Let him do it. I'll do my thing." Wrong.
There's a question in this week's an
obvious question. It says,
"We know if there are two witnesses in
Judaism." It's as if Hashem himself said
that that's what it is. When two
witnesses that are kosher testify, it's
like a million people saying the same
thing. You don't need more than two. So
the question comes up, you're going to
see in the hash tomorrow. What's with
theim
is a million. So why? The answer is
because sometimes people think I'm just
the third wheel. I'm not going to do
anything. It's already established.
There's already two witnesses. Who needs
me? The Torah tells us if that's what
you're thinking, you're wrong because
the sha is right next to the shim. You
have to be a part of it. And with
teamwork, we can make the dream work. I
said a story the other night. There was
a beautiful hatal dinner and I gave a
story that happened a couple of years
ago. There was a huge business seminar
and they were teaching people all about
business, all about growth. And after so
many speeches, they decided to take a
break. But right before the break, the
people in charge said, "Everyone here,
we have an interesting preposition for
you. We want everyone to start having
arm wrestles, and whoever wins the most
arm wrestles in this seminar will get a
check for 10 grand under the table,
under the radar, off the books. Ya
Allah, the check is yours. And all the
big guys that are working out, they're
all excited. We're going to make this
happen. We came for business. But yah,
let me show them my power. Let me show
them the tiger, as they say. And they're
all having arm wrestles. And one guy's
killing everyone. He has one, two,
three, four. Some are winning two,
three. One guy won 15 arm wrestles. He
already in his mind is thinking what
he's going to do with the 10 grand. He's
so excited. I'm going to get 10 grand. I
definitely won. And they announce
afterwards, whoever thinks there's a wi
they're a winner, please come up here.
And he starts walking up. And you see
two skinny, scrawny guys standing up on
on stage also. And he's thinking to
himself, they must be there to write the
check. There's no way they're there
because they want to arm wrestle. And he
gets up there. They said, "How many did
you get?" And he said, "I won 15 arm
wrestles. Pay up." And they said, "We
would like to pay you, but you're not
the winner. You see these two guys, they
have 150 wins each." He said, "That's
impossible." He said, "That's not
impossible." And everyone in the seminar
is watching. They said, "We weren't
trying. We just went one, one, one, one,
one, one." Each guy won 150. So they got
the 10 grand, they split it. That's
teamwork. And they didn't even work
hard. We are here right now on a mission
from Hashem to add more to in the world
to add more to in the neighborhood.
Sometimes you drive by at night and it's
a ghost town. And our new regime and
everyone together,
we're adding more to learning at night.
If you don't have Torah in a synagogue
as much as you should, then there's no
Torah is the greatest.
First thing we said right after we said,
"We're taking the baton. We're going to
add more Torah. We're going to get
Yeshiva guys to come in the evenings and
learn. If this guy's a beginner, if this
person is advanced, whatever it might
be." And we have a woman's class that
there are men here that their women come
to the class without fail. They host the
class in their home. She makes a good
kayak, by the way. And the women's class
teaches Torah and the women won't miss
it. They have they bring their children
with them. They bring their uh grandmas
with them and they come and the Torah is
flourishing. All this we have dreams,
but dreams don't manifest without us
putting in our effort. And as they say
in many fundraisers, we believe it or
not already have all the funds needed
for our mission. The only problem is
it's in your pockets. We got to make it
happen. Hashem, we have to do our thing.
And there's so many names that I want to
mention. And Hashem is mentioning
everybody's name here. But there were
people for the past few weeks, like I
said, not going to work, going all day
long, going to the shul, throwing out
the Japanese from World War II that
don't even know the war's over, hiding
in that basement. We're taking that and
we're going to turn it into a pentagon
of the neighborhood with Torah learning
with Torah teaching the children's
program, the adults program and Hashem
is going to look and say, "Wow, that
regime beautifully took it to another
level." We thank all those in charge. We
thank all those working hard. We take
thank all those that participate. And
don't underestimate the power of what
you could do for Hashem's children.
Keep up the excellent work and thank you
for allowing me to be part of such a
beautiful, beautiful venture and mission
with bringing the Mashiach even closer.
Shabbat shalom.
[Applause]
>> Rabbi, um the program uh the program for
the for the rest of the morning is uh
nothing happening.
>> God bless you. I'm not ready.
>> We'll wait.
>> I thought you coming to hug me.
>> Um, now there's a few. So, as you guys
know that there is a new uh group. There
have been new committees formed. Um,
nothing's final with regards to any
contribute towards the holidays or the
building committee. Anything that you
want to do, we're going to talk about.
Well, I'm not actually speaking yet. Um
before
um I did prepare a few remarks but I
think there's a few other people that
just wanted to say something brief.
Albert, Victor, Nissim, anybody um want
to volunteer?
>> Victor.
>> No Victor.
>> I just want to say thank you Rabbi.
Thank you for the good words. We're
trying the the committee really trying
to work hard and the focus and the
vision they want to take it from from a
level to another level. We are passing
we are going through a gray area now.
The gray area is we want to we want to
have the biggest dream but it doesn't go
straight. You can't build the biggest
dream right away. So we need to go
through a gray area where we need
everybody
maybe money and enjoy the classes. We're
going to start classes like Rabbi said.
I don't want anyone to get the wrong
idea. They just give a watch.
>> They have you said they already these
people are generous and everybody
generous. They're going to see their
fruits coming out of their money. It's
not just throw money. I want to use
their money. I know everybody work hard
for their money and it's kesh to them.
But for us, it's going to be kesh
kashim. Their money will be kesh kesim.
We're going to be very careful spending,
very careful
uh investing in the right places.
That's all what I want to say. But uh
more importantly, we focusing on the
young. On the young. This is really
important for us, the young. We spoke,
we keep speaking about the young, the
young, but really that's where it's
going to be. And also, we care about the
old little older.
We care about all of them.
[Laughter]
>> No, we love him. I told him will grow.
We're going to make Shalom of Miami.
He's going to be the head of item.
to watch the
>> love you. I mean, we're trying to do our
best and we will do our best to make it
really the dream of the community like
the rabbi said. But said, why why you
making now something if we're going to
be mashia?
So my vision is to this sh all the sh is
going to go to right all shul is going
to go to mashia all the sh but I want to
take the sh I want to have it first
class VIP when mashia comes so it needs
a lot of work the main thing is the time
the money is not going to matter in
mashia time but the time the spending
hours with Torah that's what matters so
we want to take it to VIP in your with
your help with everybody's help will do
we'll do permission. Amen.
>> Thank you. I'll try
>> guys. If you don't know, Victor took on
the role of treasurer of the He's been
working non-stop and so for the
treasurer to say that the money is not
uh you know, not number one, it shows it
shows where our head is and I appreciate
that,
>> right? Um Joe Schmer and Albert Sai have
been working tirelessly for years on the
on the youth program. Um, and uh, why
don't I let Albert just give a quick
update on what's going on?
>> I don't have any.
>> I don't have any updates.
>> Um, so me and Joe Schmer have been
working already two, three years on the
kids program. Um, so right now we're in
a trans transition form. We just hired a
great young rabbi that came very very
very highly re recommended from Magen
David and other rabbis. So hopefully we
should have that. Um we're going to
build and expand our Hazanut program.
We're going to build and expand our
Torah reading program. Right now we have
10 kids that read every week. Um so
we're going to build on that. We're
going to start night programs again with
the rabbi uh with dinner kids. Um, we're
also going to have younger kids program.
So, we have we're going to cater from
the five-year-olds all the way to the 20
year olds. Um, each group is going to
have their own rabbi. They're going to
have their own classes that to attract
them. Um, so again, we just want you to
come bring your kids. We're going to
take care of them. And, uh, from here,
we're just gonna keep going. Sky's is
the limit.
>> Thank you. Um, so I prepared I prepared
to talk a little bit about the vision
and the future to be a little bit more
specific. We've been talking to
everybody and anybody that would talk to
us about ideas. Um, so I was kind of
saving that for last. So, um, does
anybody else have anything to say? Nim
or uh, Right. Does anybody have any
specific questions? We'll have Q&A
after, but does anybody anybody have any
specific questions or something that you
want us to address?
>> No. Okay.
So let me go ahead.
Okay. So um so basically I prepared a
few remarks when we when we speak to
people about the transition and the
change that was coming. Um the first
reaction we got from people generally
was that you know a little bit of
disbelief that after 29 years right that
there's going to be a complete and not
just a marginal change. Um and there was
a lot of skepticism and a lot of people
told us that we're wasting our time. Um
but what was really beautiful is as soon
as people came to the realization or
came to the belief that there's real
opportunities for the younger guys to
get involved in the shul. You see, I'm
talking to people in Shoul and Deal and
everywhere. You see the change in their
complexion. You see the change in the
look in their eyes. They become excited
and all they want to do is give advice
and in a good way. I mean that in a
positive way. Everybody wants to help.
Everyone says whatever you need, let me
know.
So, we sent a questionnaire around. We
wanted to hear from people. What is what
should the vision shool be? What does
the shul mean to you? What should it
mean to the area and the neighborhood?
Um, we got a, you know, we got about 10
to 15 very, very thoughtful responses.
And one of the main reasons for having
this breakfast today and the reason why
I was very excited and and and open to
hosting it is because um,
we have now the raw material, we have
the ideas, we have the people, we have
the energy, and as soon as we go back to
Brooklyn this weekend, right away, the
ball's going to start rolling. And it's
so so important for us to have that
momentum. It would be normal if we made
a mistake here and there, if we slipped
a little bit. But the most important
thing is we want to maintain that belief
that people have in us, that everyone
wants to stay with us, that people want
to feel that positive energy. Most
importantly, that everybody's rooting
for us. So I prepared two quick things I
wanted to to talk about. number one are
what I think becomes the vision of the
shul
and as a member of the shul sitting here
today you have a VIP status of if you
think that we missed anything or we
should be adding anything talk to
anybody on the board or the new
committees um first of all I just want
to talk about what I think the strengths
are because it's sorry not the strengths
the challenges because we ask people for
honestly what are the challenges of the
shaw
It's no secret that we took over at a
time of financial instability.
We took over at a time where there have
been multiple breakoffs where the
reputation of the shul hasn't been I
think what it was in its glory days
right before before the breakaway
started happening. Um and you know our
membership has been dipping a little
bit. The learning programs have been cut
right but those are challenges. is the
good news is something that I've learned
from coaching in business is that the
first thing to think about is that a
challenge is always the raw material
for the solution. The challenge isn't a
challenge in of itself. The challenge is
the path in which we're going to grow.
So, what we're going to do is we're
going to lean into our strengths. We
have the most warm and beloved and
loving rabbi in the community on our
side. We have an incredible location and
building.
He's done. Uh we have an incredible
location. Everyone the first thing
everyone says to us is look at the real
estate that you have 100 by 100 on one
of the top corners in the community and
again an incredible Hakaratov to Joey
and Allan and Joe Schmer and Victor and
all the guys that made that happen over
the last 30 years and the founders who
are not here and Mr. Scaba of course um
but the people who really paved the way
like the rabbi said these are the
strengths that we're going to build on.
We stand on the shoulder of giants. The
rabbi said that we um that they paved
the road and now we're going to drive on
it. I mean, we really are sitting on 29
years of Joey Torman's blood, sweat, and
tears. And we could only have the most
hakarat possible for him. Um, another
strength we have is the loyalty. Yes,
people left, but the people that stayed
stayed. They're loyal. Yes, their
friends left and they chose to stay
anyway. That's a sense of loyalty. We
really have a lot to build on. And the
opportunity here is clear. opportunity
that the that the community is going to
continue growing. The area is going to
continue attracting young people. And I
always thought it was only young people,
but now I'm hearing that those young
people's parents want to live near them
and are also moving to the area. God
bless there is plenty of room for
multiple shooles in the community. One
thing I think about is with all
unfortunately the negative feeling or
reputation that happened with the
breakoffs. If you're on Ocean Parkway,
you could go to Shahition in the morning
and by Mansor in the afternoon, you
could go to Ben on Sunday and you could
go to SLC on Tuesday. No one's going to
be, oh my god, he went into that shul
and then he went into this other shel.
That's not how it is. You have a lot of
shs. You go where you feel comfortable.
And we want Shalom, like the rabbi said,
to be the shion of the neighborhood, to
be the bet of the neighborhood. We have
the property, we have the people, and
the growth is going to come to us,
right? I heard of a concept of a
lighthouse versus a tugboat, right? A
tugboat sits in the harbor and has to go
out and pull each boat in one at a time,
right? When you're in maybe a difficult
situation, you might feel like a
tugboat, but a lighthouse stays still
and attracts everybody to it, right?
Shalom is going to be the lighthouse of
the area.
Um, so in summary before I close the
four bullet points that we, you know, as
a representative of the new committee,
um, number one, we are going to lean
into our strengths that I just laid out
and we're going to rebuild the
membership.
Number two,
we are going to rebuild the learning and
the classes for every single age group.
We're going to invest in it. We're not
going to shut it down. Number three,
shalom is the k of like I said,
everything that happened up until now is
in the past and it's gone. As I say,
bury the hatchet. And it is important to
be said for whoever doesn't know that
the leaders of the other shul down the
block made this happen. They put their
money, they put their time, they use
their connections, and they said, "We
want you to be successful. We want you
to succeed and we're here to do anything
that we can to help you. So, we are now
shalom in in in its fullest sense.
Number four is financial responsibility
and transparency. That was one of the
feedback that came in over and over
again. People said we don't know what's
going on with the money, you don't spend
responsibly, etc. So, we are going we
have a commitment of financial
responsibility and seriousness about
that.
Now, I'd like to close with um something
that hit me this week uh in the
sometimes, you know, you could read
something a thousand times and you don't
with with permission of the rabbi to uh
say a word of Torah.
>> I need a speech for tomorrow anyway.
>> Okay.
So, this is this is serious. I was you
know, we pray all the time, but
sometimes you know what what you when
your eyes are looking for something,
you're more likely to see it. So in the
right we say
and we list all these characteristics or
traits of Hashem right we say
right he's great and holy
is in charge of all the wars we say all
these things about Hashem and then
there's a very curious or unique two
lines right after that it says
he plants
and he causes salvation to grow. Now,
none of the other ones in that group are
related to each other. Right? Right.
All they're not seemingly related to
each other. But these two, he plants one
thing and something else grows. And this
is how Hashem runs around. This is how
Hashem operates, right?
And we're in a moment right now where
Why wouldn't we follow the model and the
recipe that Hashem uses to run the
world? Shalom is in need of a Yeshua
right now. We need to dig out of
financial difficulty. We need to
convince people to come back. We need a
Yeshua. But also, who in their personal
life also doesn't need a Yeshua? Whether
it's someone with a health problem or
someone that they love or a financial
problem or relationship problems with
their kids or whatever it is, everybody
needs a Yeshua somewhere in their life.
And the sh needs a Yeshua. And what's
the what is the seed that we're going to
plant in order for that Yeshua to
sprout? That's
we always hear around the holiday times
that does this does that. We are here
today to try to help the shul dig out of
some of the debt that we're in so that
we can start from the holidays strong
and build and invest and grow.
And the purpose of the that we give is
not just for the shul but it's for us
too. It's so that we can all participate
in the Yeshua
so that we can all benefit. If we do
Hashem's work, Hashem will do our work.
And I noticed something else when I was
looking at this one more quick line that
about planting. We say he says um
if you plant with tears, you're going to
harvest with great joy. As an investment
guy, I think it's also a good idea to
tell you to invest to buy when the
opportunity is great. And this is that
moment right now.
It's a difficult time. But we're going
to plant those seeds of Saddaka and we
will all be maybe in six months, maybe
in one year from now, but see the growth
of the Torah that we do of people coming
back to the community of uh you know of
us being able to operate the SHU without
fear of paying the bills and making
payroll and you know juggling bank
accounts from day to day. Again, those
times are behind us and I really thank
every one of you for being here and
anything that you can do to help us big
or small. We really appreciate it. Thank
you very much.
[Applause]
>> Sorry. Just
>> Thank you.
>> Like I said, so many people doing so
many things, but Leo moved to East. God
bless. Usually when a person feels like
they were able to get closer to the
ocean parkway heare area so they say why
would I go to shalom when I could go to
the other sh Imagine someone working
24/7 after they already move they come
every morning they come for classes
because he's an investment man and he
knows where true merchandise is and he
knows where the future is and he knows
that we're going to beem
the greatest bull market ever. We thank
Leo for all his hard work. Good things
always. By the way, with all those
parables that could take off next week,
you give the opening sermon
to you to everyone and keep up the
excellent work and make it happen.
>> Anybody want to speak or ask questions
or discuss anything?
>> A very diverse group and all with the
same mission and it really gives me a
lot of confidence going into the years
to come.
um that the really does have a bright
future. So, thank you very much, guys.
>> Thank you.
>> I also want to say one thing, our
neighborhood's only first minan, given
all of the breakoffs that are there, the
only first minyan that I know of is in
our shul. Um so, I think that we need to
continue to invest in it just like we're
investing in the children's program and
in the main minan and everything else
that we have. Um it's important that we
keep that in mind and we help grow it.
I just want to say first of all thank
you
>> crazy amount of time to uh make things
happen literally they can go for days I
don't know how they do it uh you know
everybody sending emails at crazy hours
I don't know how they run their
businesses so we're very thankful to for
all of you uh when we say you know the
rabbi said uh you know about the of
the neighborhood rabbi it's not from
Avenue. It's more like from East 14th to
Norstrand and now people are way past
Norstrand. So you got really uh a big
crowd over there and it's not only
because it's the only shul over there
because people do want to come. Uh
to the point of I want you to really
think about this.
If someone told you today or you have
the opportunity to be a founder of
today, if I had the opportunity today to
put money and they say, "Wow, this guy
was one of the main guys who helped
bring the shul together." Would I do it?
But I had a question. I mean, you look
at today, it's learning all day long.
It's 247. There's 100 kids, maybe more
than 100 kids every night learning
weddings,
learning. So, if I had that opportunity
today, of course, I would say, of
course, I want to donate to that cause.
This is your opportunity. The
opportunity you you were coming in on
ground zero of whatever the older
committee built for us. We have an
amazing piece of real estate that's
irreplaceable, but it's really you have
the opportunity to be part of a we have
a kids program. To Albert's point, you
know, I I woke I'm only new in the area.
I'm three years in the area, so I don't
have the history that a lot of you have,
but I walk into the kids minan and you
have the entire Torah read by 8 to 12
year olds. It it's I I can't understand
it. I walk in and I'm like, "Wow, this
is amazing. I've never seen such a kids
minan ever. Most struggle to get people.
We have the people. We have the kids."
And that's why we have a bright future.
Uh I need to add one more thing is
we need each one of you and each one of
us in shalom
to step out of our comfort zone to
donate to the shul. And I'll tell you
what I mean
will all make so much money and you'll
have so much that each one of you could
just write a check to build the new
>> but with seeing where everybody is. I
think if you're a guy who could donate
36,000 please donate 52. If you're an
18, go to 26. If you're five, go to 10.
Everybody needs to do the extra step
because this is a real opportunity to
build
something amazing, to build the heart of
Madison area and to really be part of
something that's going to be there.
So please step out of your comfort zone
a little bit. Push yourself to give. You
know, ask uh after you give here, go ask
your partner, go ask your boss, go ask
your friend. We really need the money
and it's only going to a good cause. The
committee is uh committing to
transparency, which is amazing. So you
know where every dollar is going. Uh
please step out of your comfort zone,
donate to the shul. Uh and again thank
you Rabbi and thank you for the
committee.
>> I just wanted to tell
that you were there
best work and we all thank you for it
and your input and your Torah and your
time and your effort. I really give you
a lot of respect.
>> Thank you
>> and thank you for helping all of us take
over and guide us in the right
direction. And we just
>> he still works every day with us.
>> I know he still works. I just want to
give him a personal thank you.
>> You know, thank you and my pleasure.
>> When you do it for
in a synagogue and to it becomes very
easy.
Put Walmart on hold. Take care of the
collections.
It works. Trust me when I tell you that.
And I also want to let you know that we
really really the past committee
really really really really worked very
very hard to get to where the shul is
now and due to some unfortunate
situations over the past few years.
Pardon my language it happens but
>> time to move on.
>> I got nervous.
It's time to move on. And I realized
that and I also realized that I could
never,
it's not never, but step away from the
shul because for some reason the shul is
like a magnet. I'm always connected.
>> Even though I moved out of the
neighborhood, I'm actually
>> going anywhere
>> closer to Leo here now.
>> We'll walk together.
>> I'll do my best to come by every now and
then. Other shs are pulling me aside.
They need this. They need help. all this
and all that. I never knew I was so
popular.
>> We love you more. We love you more.
>> But I'm here to help and uh and that's
all I have to say right now. So,
continue. Thank you. Thank you for
having me and I appreciate the uh the
kind words.
>> You're our guiding light.
We're standing on the shoulders of
giants. and standing on them. Young and
uh that was your dream. I remember all
about
>> it's all about the changing of the gods
at this point.
>> You know, we did it.
>> We've seen it all.
>> I tell you, we've seen here. We've seen
it all. If
>> I tell you just a little story
of uh what happened to me and Joey, I
don't know amount of years ago. I was
actually uh
going to the Giant game with my
brother-in-law
and uh
Hashemi got the call that his wife was
uh you know in labor and I got these two
tickets and I got a bag full of deli and
we were going into the Giant game and
we're going to roll. All of a sudden I
didn't want to go alone. I turned back,
dropped my brother-in-law off. I went
back home
and
I was watching the Giant game on TV.
There was a phone call. Joey Torman,
"What are you doing, Allan?" I go,
"Sitting here with a bag of deli
watching the Giant game." Goes, "What
are you doing?" "I'm painting the shoe."
I go, "You're painting the shoe." He
goes, "I need help." I said, "Okay, I'll
be right over." And he goes, "Bring the
deli."
go. We're eating the deli. We're
brushing the poles and the this and the
that. All of a sudden,
we hear three or four people next door
talking.
When I buy this house, we're going to do
this and we're going to do that, but
there's a shoe next door. Don't worry,
we'll put a fence. We'll have our
privacy. All this and all that. We were
listening to this. Joey and I were like,
"We can't let it happen."
We found out who's representing them. We
got in the car.
Small Alfa Romeo graduate. Joey's face
was above the uh above the windshield.
We're driving out all around Brooklyn to
Ms. Rahi Real Estate to find the broker.
But before that, Joey went to get a
check. We found the G. She was in the
middle of showing another house in the
area
and he said, "Next door to shalom, we
want it now."
>> And he wrote out a check. Goes, "No, but
I promise this that. It's a synagogue.
We want it." And that's how we bought
Next Door. Wow.
>> So that's one of the million stories I
could sit and share.
>> So when people say we never really did
things and we this and you're that, you
hear all kinds of negative nonsense. The
truth is, we really, really, really,
really worked hard to build that corner.
We never got to that next step, but I'm
hoping now with the new juice and the
new this and the new that and
everything, you should be very
successful.
>> Building a company, your kids, right?
The dad built a company 40, 30, 40, $50
million. And then the kids come to take
it to the $200 million. And without that
foundation that you guys, there's that
we can build on the shame. With
everybody's help, we're going to take it
to the $200 million company.
>> Amanda,
>> can I say something a minute?
>> I want to say something
to Leo for opening up his house. Rabbi
Shelby, I'm just here not as a member of
Shares Shalom, but as a innocent
bystander helping with the media a
little bit, I feel I should speak and
say for two minutes as a member of
Sharetion, the name the word came up a
few times. Listen, we are in in an
expansion phase, but if anybody's
interested in donating or pledging
anything, please see me. We just bought
five houses in the last two years. We
have a lot going on. But that's all
putting all kidding aside. Um, two
points I want to mention that you guys
touched on. I've been blessed to have
experience in a in a sh committee for
the last 20 years. And the only thing I
want to add that you guys touch, I just
elaborate on two things. Number one is
the youth. The barometer of any
successful shul is the youth. You see
kids running around. You see kids
involved that whether they're eating
candy, sitting with their father. That
is really how you can use a measuring
stick for a shul. People don't really
realize that the youth means you have it
tomorrow. You know that everybody else
means you have it today. So do not do
not neglect the youth. Keep building
pro. I've been the chairman in for the
youth program for many years. Just keep
building, keep giving, keeping them
happy. Every kid needs his own way to be
happy in shul. But I heard that a few
times. Do not neglect that point that
the youth are the most important thing.
keep adding space for the youth. That's
what's going to help you go to the next
level. The second thing I want to say is
when I first got involved, I have an
uncle, you actually an uncle you and I
share um that came to me and said, "You
want to be on a committee? Committee is
a joke. Everybody who's on a committee
is worthless. They become uh uh angry,
bitter people." I said, "Okay, so what
am I doing? What did you do for 40
years?" He goes, "I'm going to give you
a little piece of advice. The way to
succeed in a sho or a school or in a in
a in an enterprise of nonprofit, you
have to make the institution bigger than
yourself. This is not about you as an
individual. It's not about you as an ind
him, her, anybody. You have to realize
that you are part of a you are a a
puzzle piece of a greater cause. You are
really just one piece of a much bigger
picture. You guys are here representing
Shaesh Shalom. You're not here
representing individuals. Not everything
is going to go your way. You're not
going to always get the title you want.
You're not going to always get the
recognition you want, the appreciation
you want. You have to know you're gonna
get get hits along the way. But you have
to know that you know what? I'm gonna
take the hits. I'm gonna persevere
because you know what? This is for the
future. This is not about my ego. This
is really about the community, the
neighborhood, and everybody around me.
So, if you stay that course and you stay
Shamayim, I really believe like Sha
Moamelik says, you will be successful.
There's going to be hurdles, there's
going to be struggles, but if you stay
that course, stay focused, you put your
ego aside, and you realize that all of
you are here representing a banner
called the the of Shalom, you will be
successful.
>> Thank you. as a