Mekudeshet Event - Rabbi Meyer Yedid

[Music] thank you Rio zeri thank you to Isaac and Jennifer sit for opening their beautiful home like RAB sha said I didn't believe when I got the invitation that it was actually happening being that their wedding was last week but God bless them and bless all of us us that we're part of this unbelievable community that we're so fortunate to live every day with so many people that care for each other we truly love each other sometimes there are things that get between people but in truth all of us will be there for each other no matter the time and no matter the need and tonight is an example of that thank you very much also special thanks to Mrs Dabba I know she was mentioned but I have to give my own mention people people sitting here should know people in the community should know and I'm not doing it to talk about Kim I'm talking about what one person can do I could tell you with absolute 100% there's no way this would have happened or any of this would have taken place if not for this woman single-handedly working day and night to get it off the ground and she's working it never say what could one person do tonight is a testimony of the greatness of one person and what they can accomplish of course today there are more people involved but really Mrs you're amazing Hashem shall bless you and we should continue to learn from you and how you put yourself out for this community there's really not much to add you know it's so obvious it's so simple we understand it I'm just here for cavod I think for Honor they want me to speak but once I'm here I'll just say something you know in life sometimes a person can take care of the need by themselves so there are poor people in the community well you know if I had enough money I could pay for it all I can cover everyone's tuition I'll write a check of $40 million because I have a lot of money if I have a lot of wisdom I speak well I could teach a lot of people a thousand people could be in the room thousands can listen online I can reach so many people and educate them but tonight is one of those things that makes us all humble it humbles every single one of us no matter how big of a rabbi you are no matter how popular you are are no matter how wealthy you are it makes no difference how many connections you have there is no way for one person to solve this issue even if you had all the gifts that God can give a person you just can't do it this project is unique because it could only happen with all of us together if we're not going to unite together with to does there is noes this cannot be done by any individual and therefore it is a calling to the of our community it is a calling for the love that we have for each other to come together and do something really for ourselves you know I'm sure that your donation is tax deductible I'm not sure that you could write it off of Ma I think ultimately you could but this is an investment in your own children this is not giving to somebody else's children this is your grandchildren this is for you this is for me it's for all of us yes you can count it as M don't be afraid to give but really we should look at it as an investment in our own families and tonight's not only about giving money sign up your children sign up somebody else's children the database can only grow when people put names in the database so please Mees at.org that's the website put in people that need to be on this website and they will be included har I say the wrong thing okay good the rabbis already said so much of what I wrote down in my card so I'm not going to repeat myself excuse me repeat what they said I will tell you two things that you're doing tonight that maybe you didn't think about number one you're helping rabbis you have no idea how many enemies I have and I don't blame them I love them but I understand them Rabbi oeri has a Target on his back many rabbis get the attack of so many frustrated people I don't blame anybody believe me but I know sitting right now at home there are hundreds of families that say how come Rabbi ID doesn't give us a boy he knows so many boys I mean he teaches so many people how come he just doesn't give us the boy like what does he just hand us you know it doesn't work like that but that's not the point the point is so many people are getting hurt from each other the matchmakers are getting attacked because how come you didn't mention my daughter what about my son you bring not only Community you bring a you bring Shalom to our community and last and not least there's a PUK in meat that talks about the great man morai and it called call him an is yudi isi means he comes from the tribe of Yehuda but then the end of the calls him is which means he comes from the tribe of bamin so the mid says I don't understand make up your mind is he from Yehuda this this m or is he from bamin says the midash that biologically he's from bamin so why are we giving him the cavod that he comes from Yehuda it's not yehuda's child the midash says that when Yehuda stepped up in front of YF and took responsibility for bamin Hashem says to B to Yehuda Yehuda all of that comes from that b Bo that you stood up to help and save will be considered your own child you know how proud We Are when we have beautiful children because they're our children could you imagine Yehuda is in shim and they show him all these beautiful children thousands of them and they show him hey there's that M he was like the gador you have no idea who m is still today they're talking about him and yud says why are you showing him to me he's not from my children and they said no no he is he's your grandchild because you saved Benyamin it's called your own child my dear friends there are so many children that are going to be born so many families are going to be created and tonight and going forward when we invest with Mees they become our children they become our family I wish wish you all and me myself included that we should see tremendous happiness in our lives we should see peace of mind and in the Merit of helping other people find their match May your children and grandchildren always have it easy to find theirs have a beautiful night