Daf Yomi Zevachim Daf 101 by R' Eli Stefansky

Good morning rap boys. Ah ah first of all what a daff today. What a d it's tower to the one of the only dapim of a inv. It's a it's a dish. We got to say I have to say it's a gotish. What's your name? >> Shimmy Newman. >> Shimmy Newman. You look so familiar >> from from London. Manchester. Manchester. >> And you made us see we >> I see him in Manchester. >> You're the like the featured speaker there. >> Wow. Wait a minute. You said something changed your life. A whole >> Oh, for real. How How did it change your life? >> Moved up classes in school. You moved up classes in school. Wow. >> Because of MDY. >> I think so. >> You think so? Why? Because it gave you a better >> understanding of >> better understanding of garam. >> It's unbelievable. >> No, we we know a lot of kids come, but he's saying it. You think it's crazy? >> I do. >> It's unbelievable. >> Unbelievable. I want to show you something. I showed this picture yesterday of Shimmy Bronn. Now, somebody suffers a loss like this. Imagine this whole paras this whole thing is in this and it just and then you have to deal with insurance companies insurance not insurance this that and all the order forget the orders you know the the people people have >> you baked for months and months >> months and months everything is gone they bake from uh yeah so this is that was in the morning now I want to show you somebody sent me a video it's mish you have to he's busy like he's busy putting up signs and giving out thing this is the inside of the bakery boy side see if you see any MBY signs anywhere? Oh, here's one. Oh. Oh, here's another one. There's no roof. The roof is off. You'll see soon. It's like destroyed the whole back. It goes into the other avenue over there in Brooklyn. Look at this. >> This is a calendar of MDY calendar on the wall and they marked off what they learned, what they did learn. Unbelievable. >> Everything [clears throat] MDY MDY, we're finishing. >> I felt a million time like I'm falling out, but you know what? I did it because Ellie Stensky made it sound so simple and so delicious entertainment. I always tell people, you can say a million times, nobody understands it. You put it in a song, people love it. the valley mck lanon and lannon to the bish gave you the coyak to put it down clear and I'm proud to finish with you and I'm looking very much forward to shabas I was there last year the it was so beautiful will dance away show the we did the d every day then we finished looking forward mash Shabas January 9th. >> Now the thing I think he started on Mat Shabas like he was one of the only people in the room that wasn't doing the D. He came as a singer. >> And that's what happens. >> Dangerous. >> It's a dangerous place. Dangerous place. >> He's online right now. What a voice. What a You did a great job. >> Oh shimmy. Shimmy. You have the cup for this. You have the cup to learn. Wow. Okay. >> He knows how to do it. time your city schedule will be feeling a lot better and somewhat back to your normal schedule. I was very moved by your words. Oh boy, I just have to remind tonight I'm catching a flight to Miami. >> Not not not the direct one. Don't worry about it. The you know how the poppers travel, you know the the stopover thing. So >> I will be saying another shear in English. >> That's what I am. >> Just declare that. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> You hear your last show, >> right? >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. There'll be some. So at 6:00, another shar in English here and then followed by at a/4 to 7 cuz usually the the English here only takes 45 minutes. Yeah. And then [laughter] the Hebrew at 7:00 and then I go straight into the taxi to the to the airport for all those who help me and the whole with the traveling. And I get there and Michael Benitrit said, "I'm gonna be there. I'm gonna pick you up and we're going to do a shear on Thursday night in Miami and I'll share on Sunday." The kids are there's gonna be at least two shim live and then I'm coming back to for like a week cuz I figured it's not it's not a nice thing. I know you guys miss me. So I could I could stay there. It'll be to stay there. But no, I got to come back. So that >> it's a little hard to travel like that. It's uh it's better for the shear that I that I don't leave for such a long time without >> Monday. Yeah, something like that. >> I don't think I'll be back for Tuesday morning. I think I'm missing it by an hour. >> It's only two days LIKE >> NO, NO, NO. IT'S A FOLLOWING WEEK. It's a week. It's a whole It's more than a week. It's a whole week. >> She here for a week and a half. >> Okay, fine. Uh so what does he say? I was very moved by your words, your emotions. Of course, the tears of the seventh night when you were called the hardship of the years ago, but at the same time expressing announcing a beautiful arrival of your grandson. The fact that you shared this with all your viewers both presents a far show president. Okay. He highlights he says he also forgets stuff and he he has index box that he has. and he puts it in an index box and he and he whatever cherish Ellie Siger miracle boy from London sponsored by David Salomon dedicated in memory of sponsored anonymously sponsored by Skybrook Capital in honor of our friends mayor Kovac's tak study in this here. So is >> oh big sim big big simka two mdish both from here in the base med and beni Novak their children got engaged I >> I mean his his his son that got engaged is Napali he's >> I know since he's a a baby basically and he's the one that helps his father with the laning now it's a big big things big big sim he's our he's our from day one in the and he was the last person or him I don't know if they can fight it out in in uh in that took over here in the when I was in America that that the end of the beginning of my streak when I came back right before braas so had a tremendous time with knows how to learn very well he gives me a lot of good horrors during and after share Now he's already a little quieter. So he comes after she you should have said I think you learned wrong. He's usually right. [laughter] Um an Joe that's what I'm holding. Joel Gdalius my father Jackalas anonymous co-sponsors an from London. Uh when's the when's the Vers? >> So so unfortun [laughter] You know, the first thing I when I woke up this morning, it's like, you know, I should have said it differently that if um if I were the person to to make the not that you have to go to every you have to go to every you don't want to go to and you can't go to any you do want to go to. That's a little better. >> Not not all just go to every No, the ones you really want to go to cuz you want to go to some mama's close friends that you can't go to. for [clears throat] every other guy. >> I would make it even worse. Imagine you showing up at my house. [laughter] >> You have to make it a low plug. >> Yeah, you could do that. >> Yeah, but you know weekly sponsor. Daily sponsors and for my Richmond. >> Oh, sorry again. That's how you spell pronounce. Richmond from Mayor Richmond Hashem Yim by his great grandson your newest with many more to come. >> I didn't see all these yet so it's good. It's Thank you for the month. Whoever is going to be at the shabaton he is extremely instrumental in many many things of the shabaton works on it with everything going on in his life. So again turning of the not yet here we go. We are holding like 15 lines from the bottom. Let's say so we had a we had a steer in the on the one hand it seems like we could do a little here. So we know that there are two things that were constants. [snorts] There's the day of the misa, there's the day of the kura, day of the death and the day of the burial. The two different things. They don't have to be in the same day. The day of the mis the says you're a person is an there is no question that it's a that a person has to act in a certain type of anos. You don't make brahas. You eat food without a bra. You don't put on fill and many other things. What about the night? So that we had a it's either like the day that it's a or it steps down one mad it's a the day of the according to everybody if it's the next day the day after [snorts] 7 weeks later the day of the according to everybody there's anos but only what about the night the night is either exactly like the day that it's or it drops down one level and it's zero. But we have a contradiction. The it seems like we're talking about the day of the night the night following the is it is it a problem to eat pes not a problem. So is there that night or not? So comes along and says you know what it's not a contradiction it's so when does one mourn to me means and not that's the you don't mourn at night as long as he's not buried And if you bury him, it seems like, and we're going to go into it, if you bury him, then from that moment of burial, even if it's 12:00 in the afternoon, from that moment on, there's no more anos. It seems [clears throat] like Rebi is being more makear goes through step by step. What in the world are we talking about? If we're talking about the day of the death, so let's look at this chart again before we read this line. The day of the death Everybody holds that during the day. What about the night? It's either like the day or at least it's it steps down one. No one says that it's nothing. It's at least. So the less tough. Is there anybody that says it's worse than it's less than? It's at least you have to at least keep anos at night maybe even but not less than so so how would both of them say that you have to be until the night and past the night you don't have to be like nobody whether it's the tanakama rebi rebi even says just up to the burial and past the burial nothing and and tanama says up and past nothing who holds that. It's not in this chart at least. Rebi says that it's up until the burial, but and we're talking about the day of the death, not the day of the burial. But if you bury him, it becomes right away. Wait a minute. It seems like from the entire day, bitter. Nobody holds us up until the burial. Oh, we're talking about that the burial was on a different day than the death. We're talking about on the day of the burial. We're not so we just had to prove we're not talking about the day of the mis so we're talking about the day of the burial and what's according to the day of the burial will go the anos last all the way up to the night and therefore you can't put on fillin after the burial there's people don't put on fillin the day of the like after the kura no and there's people I'll never forget my friend's father's leva very traumatic experience for me as a as a teenager going there and right after the leva they brought fill in and they had a wrapped fill in real quickly right That would be going according to Revi the Revi says it's up until the and it passed the you're not anointed anymore. Yesterday we learned that there was there's four categories. This is the day of the death, the day of the then the day of the rumor that you heard somebody heard that his father was ner and the least of everything is the day that they gather the bones. So it says that when you hear about the maze, it's like the least on the on the list. It's not so severe. It's like So what do you do? What's it what does it mean? You go into the mikvah that you heard about it at 10:00 in the morning. At 11:00 you're ready in the mikvah and you could eat him that evening. [clears throat] So the one who hears is like is not like one who buried his father. It's like one who buried bones of his father. So you can make a very simple. How come he doesn't say oh is like the I'll tell you why. Cuz you cannot eat at night. It's only which is on the bottom of the list. You can eat kum at night but the day of the burial you can't eat. [laughter] But the problem is if you can't eat at night, we never saw like that yet. Tanakama says up until Rebi says up until the burial but nobody holds you can't eat. And now we're telling us that [clears throat] you can't eat. This is like a third. So you got to stick in a little says that you have to stick in a word to make this work and it's it's tough to do. It doesn't say night. It says and everybody understands yo means day. When there's light outside when it's dark you don't have no I'm going to stick in the word night and the doesn't like it at all but that's he has no choice. He says, "Oh, it means also the night. You have to do and soak goes day and night like a 24-hour thing, let's say." And Rebi says, "No, up until so like we're we're changing the shittas over here." Everything is moving until now. Tanakama says up until Rebi says until the kafura. And now they both move up a step. Rebi says up until the night. Like we said before, Tanakama and the Tanakama will set up until the night. They really say including the night because we just stuck in another word. So they tell say this over to Omar. How could such a great individual like say something like this? It's interesting that in this ma 60 days ago approximately we learned these words [clears throat] says about how could such a great person say something so whatever off and a completely different so you're telling me say Rebi is the one who make rebi says only until the night and and say, "No, no, no. It's including the night." So, Reb is more make what do you got here? [clears throat] I got to show this again. Just one second for whatever. >> I refuse to die before I finish the >> This went out on some groups because it's so long. So, it was unfortunate. They they missed the last part, the punch line. So, shut up. He died. Come on. And then I got a a nasty uh email from a guy that saw it on one of these groups and like I realized that >> way to finish has to be learned with her ammo and knocked on my door. He said pack your bags. You're 104. But I told him no. You listen here son. My learning schedule [music] isn't done. I got a cigar in my mouth. I'm sliding down the shoot. I'm reviewing [music] the bathing suit. >> I finished all of ship [music] and the spooky shoes. I'm meeting Ollie on the white cruise. I'M GOING TO FINISH THE SHOT before I [music] go. I'm staying alive with the you going to have to wait. I'm making a seal by the fight plate. [music] Yeah. Finishing shots on the ocean blue. HOLD THE SHIP. REALLY, WAIT FOR ME. >> NOW, this this is the part that for all those people that didn't see this. >> First of all, that's Benny. That's >> it will take us 14 days to reach the shore. >> [screaming and groaning] >> Turns out I still owe myself inim. Okay. So what does that have to do with? No, cuz he [clears throat] said it's 14 days to get to the shore. So for so according to rebi the person will be anointed for 14 days until the I think that that was the so it's almost fine now when last calls as long as he's not buries on the cruise ship even 10 days later. So Reb is the Rebi says even 10 days. We're saying that Reb is the M that it's only until the night say goes through the night. That's that it's the opposite. We're saying it's one day and is the one that says 10 days. So says rever me I don't like says that whole day says without the night like we said before he says it it goes until but if there's if there's a burial then it's even the night. Oh, so that's what now we're going full circle says you should know that [clears throat] whether goes into the night or not. That's here it is whether or not the day of the day of the does it grab the night. Rebi says yes say no. So we can do the the the math by ourselves. Look for a second. In the day of is the rabbon [clears throat] the rabbon according to everybody. What's the night? It's either the same as the day or nothing. So now let's take that logic and go to the day of the death. The day of the death it's the so what's the what's the night? So it depends if you hold that the day of the is the is the everybody holds but the night is the meaning the night has to mimic the day night is like day. So if you hold that, you hold the the day the the day of the night is like the day and an issold by the day of the mis >> that the night is. Okay. So now let's see inside. Oh, >> okay. I hear. [snorts] Wait a minute. If ready you just said hold that the night of the we still it still grabs and you have to do at night then [clears throat] in other words the night mimics the day so the day of the the death also the night should mimic the day oh but the problem is does he really hold that oh so this is our for today it's basically the entire day this is where this the whole d talks about this what happened so real quickly. We're not going to read them all, but [laughter] a very interesting parish in the this is the day the the final day of the miluim of the inauguration. What >> he says very well. He says that has to be true because the only [cough] reason Raban would say the night follow on the night follows is because they want to copy on the dissa that the night follows. >> Yeah. Yeah. No, it's it's always raan always mimic. Yeah. Raban always mimic the dissa. Yeah. So the final day of the miluim we know were consumed by fire [clears throat] and that day of miluim I don't know if we have the actual picture we have a video of it oh here yeah milim [cough] there was at least three one was the one in the middle one was for the eight days of and one was for every day. [clears throat] >> Yeah. That day, that day was f the final day the the inauguration of the Mishkan in the midbar Mishkan the year. What? It was a year after two years after they came out of uh out of out of >> so one year. >> One >> who said David, you know. Okay. So, it's one year's like almost a year, right? Nissan. Yeah. Fine. [clears throat] Whatever it was that the rishesh goat in the middle, the the meat was consumed here. Let's show you the video. Um, here we go. Now the moisture of was upset. So why why did they take the meat? How did they get to eat and said put it on the fire? What's going on here? Why did you put it on the fire? So look at these incredible stuff and we're going to be talking about all these words here. All this the back and forth conversation. That's today's doubt. What happened there? It's a hard par to understand the second line from the top. [snorts] He's upset. The the two the leftover sons, two out of four. And he says it's it's in the place of so we're going to say in the place. In other words, he didn't take it out here. We're going to use that also because if you remember from the the comes to be we're going to talk about that. You didn't even bring the blood inside and blood inside the the ruins a carbon but you didn't do that. So what's your excuse of burning the meat? And he tells him about the three lines from the bottom. Look at the I had today and all you're right. You're 100% right. Backs out. Backs down. What happened there? So that's that's today's sug. So first of all, this gets us into these today. Tonight, today, I'm sorry, today in the daytime it's after. [clears throat] But in the in the future, it's always going to be to eat these this carbon. Let me ask you a question. Think about this without looking in the ma. Why is today different than any other year? The first year of the inauguration of the the Mishkan says this year I could eat it after but next year I wouldn't be able to eat after in a 100 years from now. Just this year why just this year? >> No. In a 100 years from now. >> No, not him. Every anybody else he's saying if I was in 100 years from now I wouldn't. Today I am what? >> No. But then also what? >> No says Rashi. Think about it. There was only three Khan around and they were allim. >> There's nobody else. In a regular year, you can have other kayan. So if you have one that's you have another family that's not but this is the first year of Khan. So what's a question? Who else was alive then? >> And he wasn't either. So that's what oh very good that's what the answers very good so that's today's so but argues and then he comes and says that that night is only you see says it's only on that night and you're telling me that according to rebias told us logic tells us that according to Rebi should be a da mimics the day do the night like the day should be the same and over says no it's only the says accord you're right the night is only the said that at night sometimes make even stronger than the [snorts] so here goes the it says the lush of I was commanded real quickly. We don't even see the whole thing, but in in addition to the the we're talking about, we're not even talking about the other ones so much. Yeah, we will talk a little bit, but there was a given and there was [clears throat] so look over here and then it says all the way in the bottom. It also says I wanted you to eat this thing even though you're I commanded you and then all the way at the end it says so the explains I wanted you to eat them the first I showed you when you're in he said it when there was a problem of the of he says I said not before I said I knew you're I want you to eat item what does it mean hem commanded I'm not making this up for my own >> where you have >> no >> oh yeah I do I said that before I'm not saying it on my own fine I have a contradiction for >> what? >> What kind of Russian is that? >> Which one? >> Ally. >> Yeah. No, it's not a drussa. You should know. Aaron, I'm not saying this. I didn't make it up. It's not a boy. It's from the himself. He told me to tell you that that >> you didn't have to say that every time. It's a given. No. >> No. Sometimes it was against in a second. Iron is using he beat him with >> wins. >> Iron wins with logic. Not from here. The remaining you burnt it because of the anos because of the anos. But we said a second ago that is what do you mean you burnt it because you don't have to eat? No does have to eat. Okay. Okay. So now we're going to deal with a lot says that it's also for says it's for says that that does not eat a carbon. No does eat. So why did burn it? Because it touched a dead mouse. Let's say there was a certain to that came in and they had a verdict nothing to do within. Oh, and here he asks him three questions and the gumar is going to address these three questions on the base. So let's remember here are the three simple questions. I'll prove to you that it's there's not a problem of anos. Why? If it's anos look at these three guys. Why did they eat two out of three? Why did they burn one out of three? What's going on here? If he's burn them all. >> Oh, so one one got one. That's explains why one is different than all three. The one got another question. Let's say according to eats at night according to it's a special to eat at night. Just wait till the night and eat it. And another question. What are you telling me? That he's the only island around. Give it to Pas. What? Another wereas's nephews. >> Huh? >> Uh, yeah. Yeah. Uncles. Uncles. Sorry. He was their their nephew. So says no it could go according to no contradiction that says it's also but like this is a special inauguration is never happened again that we have these carbonas so okay it will matter but later on later gener the other mash you can't eat at night that's for future generations doesn't eat at night and now we go into like mish fast stuff just the back and forth and what's interesting it's like a freebie because a lot of it is going to repeated word for word. I I'll show you where it's different, but just the back and forth is also very simple. What's going on in the how does each one explain the how come you didn't need the let me help you out. You know it says in the over here we had a about this if you bring [clears throat] what do you what do you where do you do all the inside the or outside it's a regular so if you take the blood and bring it into the into the into the mishk into the makes the whole carbon possible saysenu I I'll give you some excuses here. I'll give you some reasons why he burnt it. Maybe he brought it all the way inside like here just art. You take this for granted. This whole AI thing. Imagine 5 years ago to see the Mishk like this. The the colors of this and iron answers him back. This is the conversation we're going to have again. Worse words. No, that is not the issue. I did not bring it in. Maybe you went outside of the the the borders of the mishk. Maybe it's it becomes possible when it goes outside. No, it's inside. Maybe you were when you were and you pass. You think my children were What does that mean? I'm allowed to be micro tells him. Okay, we went through that problem. That wasn't a problem. So, we went through that problem. So, he says, "Look what happened to me today. I'm lost my two children. Shaw the mikachi maybe maybe what you heard is on the the the the animals the carbonas that come today only once once in a lifetime but if you're talking about the carbon that we're talking about I have a very simple this is logic the famous you take the fruit and give yourself but you have Make sure that on right what years on the the year after the third year and the year after the sixth year in other words the fourth and the seventh year you have to you have to be everything you have to get rid of the you have to say I didn't eat it when I was so you can't it's it's a lowle it's messery in But when a person is a person can't eat from it any person so certainly when a person's cannot eat from it accepted it and he liked it he admitted to him he wasn't embarrassed to say oh excuses you know like when you embarrassed you get caught red-handed that you didn't Oh, I didn't. No, I heard it and I forgot it. Embarrassing stuff. What's up? So, so what's the big deal? The biggest honor in the world. He said look at this maybe explains it a little bit. Moshe heard it and he he liked it. He put out, you know, this I'm the ones that forgot this. This a this is a some sometimes people say you're right. You're right is not as strong as I'm wrong. You're right. Okay, you're right. I'm also right. Whatever you think in your head, I'm wrong. I messed up. for the that new not like you know like everything that ever was written and not written he knew about and all of a sudden he forgot it's embarrassing imagine I'm thinking now you come here into the kyo and you talk to some of these guys that know pap word for word you do anything and you catch them on a mistake you know how embarrassing it is for them that they don't remember like a a mafurish a thing it's it's embarrassing and I've had situations where they start they're not one of them is very like nope I forgot you know these mams are big on of whatever they're all I'm just saying it's embarrassing if this is your life and you score 99 on chass and all of a sudden you uh some finds it that you don't know it's like [clears throat] [laughter] we're not holding we're not holding but just imagine anyways and to write a hotel in the streets I forgot okay that's the No. So now we understand. Now let's do it all over again. This is how they read the I'm asking you. Why didn't you eat the is it possible that the blood went inside that ruined? It never went inside. Maybe he took the blood outside. It was always inside. Or maybe they take out the word here. I didn't even look, but I'm assuming that they take it out. >> Okay. Maybe you were the carbon when you were my sons. Don't worry about listen to this here. here changes maybe because you're you're a person maybe because of your you were and you let touch the carbon the following line reminds me of the famous story everybody attributes it to this person that person. Let's say it's the clober. Let's say his wife murdered all his children. I don't remember 10 10 children. 10 children murdered gone gone everything. And he looks at the he says you took everything away from me. You took my wife, you took my children, you took my parents, you took my everything. But you cannot take one thing. There's one thing you can never take away from me and that is my love to you. I love you. Love you. He says, "What? You think because I had this loss, I'm going to drop my guard? [laughter] I'm going to be with Oh my >> What? Exactly. You can take my matzah bakery. You could burn it to the ground. You're never going to take away my love to you. No, this guy seriously think about it. Guy in Bart takes matis but he doesn't realize how much he's giving not just today who knows 5 years from now somebody has a similar thing's house burnt down to the ground and people go through tars in their life and he says you know this guy when he had his sorrow how did he act? Was he bitter against Hashem? He's running around in the streets and giving out inimi cards to people and and busy with the printer. Instead of dealing with insurance, adjusters, he's dealing to printer how big the sign is going to be. The in front of his store is from it is really this is how you think of me? I thought about a story. I love saying this is with his rebbit in the hospital and then leaves. He gets into the elevator. 60 seconds later he's out. Called the kadisha. He's out. He goes into the elevator down. The elevator stops on the sixth floor and a Talmud of his walks in. He says, "Rebi, I just had a baby boy. Mazletov." And he looks at him. He says, "Maz, how's how's your wife doing? How much did the baby weigh? And and this is him. A minute ago, his wife was nif. And they say that he never yelled at her. Whatever. Great relationship. And >> he doesn't have to ask. >> He didn't have to ask. That's what I was. Don't have to ask for. >> I know. >> Wow. >> Wow. Anyway, cuz he asked her. Maybe he has to. And he said just because he says just because >> just because listen. >> Oh, okay. Fine. >> It's not a >> fine. Whatever. Let me just finish this. [laughter] >> I'm crying about the story I'm saying. And I said it last night. >> Say this >> a second. I know I did cry last night. I'm thinking about this regardless of the person and no he says he tells this after another was with him he says just goes so this guy has to suffer lost his two sons that's why I'm going to lose track of what's going on here and he says listen to this even double up the four children dead I will never so Everything is great. How come you didn't eat? Oh, before they said maybe you didn't hear this generation, future generation saying maybe only heard at night and maybe at night you're eat but during the day. Let's make a simple you can't eat. >> [snorts] >> which is much certainly you can't eat it when you're can't eat it wasn't embarrassed to say I didn't hear turning of the global special experts in international payments some guest >> oh guests who do we have today real quickly you're a guest no what's your Michelle >> Seaglestein. Oh, >> from Las Vegas. >> He's from Las Vegas. >> Oh, yeah. Email Zah. No, you didn't see him. Of course. From Las Vegas. >> Wow. Your first time here? >> Who else? You're not. >> Oh, I know. You look very, very familiar from where? >> Oh, very good. >> You're related. No. about his father. >> Oh, how you doing? >> So, you do the daff or just him. [clears throat] >> I got I'm a quick copper. >> Someone else in the back. >> Who else? Who? Oh, who else? >> Is there anyone? >> Oh, you guys. I saw you guys coming in. Shiva guys. Where are you from? What you >> Wow. What's your name? and you >> from >> both of you live here obviously. Okay, cool. >> Coming up. We got to we got to get to the video again video. You're going to love it if we could get there. >> We started a little late. No. What time did we >> No, we didn't. >> No. Here's the question. Two lines in the top. New question. They should have waited until the night to eat it like we asked before and same question we asked before. Okay, you can't eat it now. So wait until the night time [cough] says it's nothing to do with them has to do with the it was and they can't eat the reason why the says who's says the day. Why? Because at night it's that night you cannot eat cannot eat it goes into the night. Why does the say oh it's not talking about the the person eating not eating we're talking about the the mid the today but it was not special for today. It's a question. My sons were. [cough] So now we're going back to the the three questions that we had before. How come they didn't? You have three goats. Burn all three or eat all three. Why? Why did you pick the rich? Just put up on the screen. Why not? So remember again the s is the is the one of the the the each each had a break the eighth day that's maybe all three were burnt at that at that story is is singular one out of three is burnt what's the double How come only one was burnt and the other one's not I don't know which one was burnt this came for the sin of the community we know I don't remember we had these the whole I think it was in yes look at all this remember the whole thing Okay. of the the community says they said very good if he if it's like you're saying they're saying that they burnt the the carbon because of but you say that they burn it because of >> so [clears throat] then all three have to be burned. There's a difference between that's for generations to come every single year. Yeah. Every single month you have to bring your coverage. But these were special the No, [clears throat] you should have eaten at night. It's a great question. So you can't eat it at night. You're telling me around? Just real quickly a line just uh it should never be used this thing but I heard once that when there's a tragedy especially like sometimes it's a big tragedy in clients whatever it is you know so they bring in the professionals you know people that know what do they do the professionals >> grieman counselors what does agreement counselor do you always wonder like what what's what's the magic line they tell somebody I heard I don't know if this true I heard they don't even say anything they stay they stand there next to them They they they they get close to them. They don't say there's nothing to say now. What is it to say? Let the guy grieve, but you have to be there. You have to be there. It's it's a it's a thing to know. Certainly don't read a mid at that point then whatever. And just >> just just there what exactly po you you wait for the to start speaking. Don't don't start with >> someone who just got divorced. >> Also don't read m that's something else. Yeah. Okay. [clears throat] >> I don't want to say what I was going to say. Okay. It's not going well. Said a bunch of people was not a coin. He wasn't born. He became a look at the here. It says when he killed Zimry it's great for the video but in my courtroom sadic whatever yeah forever this is what I'm giving him when after when he the Torah says he was aoy and He kills then he becomes a listen to this. Messiah will not come until there's between theatim. [clears throat] Messiah will not come until the Ashkenazim and the get along and theidim and the lifaks get along and the sats and the get along and Msiah will not come until this >> and I think every single person has a responsibility to maybe invite your invite the sacra to your house and the and vice versa and cuz Msiah the yeshiva and with this and and I know they're upset about that and he's upset about this Msiah won't come until and I want to show you this video but last night I had this to be by Amy Cohen's Shiva [laughter] to hear this [clears throat] thing the was that I heard this told me that a month ago he went to his brother he said you haven't spoken to Ta in over two years you haven't seen it or spoken to him you need to call him up he says yeah but this that he says all these excuses you and whatever happened happened and you got to make up with him. What about your kids that never that don't know him? He says, "No, I have to ask the RV the kids. I spoke to the brother. He was there and the brother told me the whole he said he went and he spoke to the RV and the RV said, yeah, you have to go. It's your is time that okay, you take a little step back, but now it's time to to jump in." So, he calls up his father. He wants to meet with him. So, he meets with him and the kids and the kids thought that the the grandfather's mom is a funny guy. They loved him. I forgot plo. How do you say it in Spanish? His name is Pello. Plo I forgot already how he called him. >> Abuel Abuel. And they were laughing and sing. And he says, "I'm taking to pirate. You're coming to the red pirate. Buy anything you want here." And the kids were buying stuff. And they were in heaven. And they started saying, "We want to go poo. Po." So you had to drive down to take to this happened two weeks ago. After two years they made shalom and had he been nifter without this shalom imagine and I found out he's only 56 years old when he was nif [clears throat] so Msiah won't come until this shalom especially between children and parents and yes his father's 56 years old I know it sounds but yeah and his there are people in this year watching right now that don't speak to their children and there's children that watching the don't speak to their fathers. You never know. You never know what happens and it's always to make shalom and you make a step forwards towards shalom. And now I want to show you this video. It's beautiful. Check this out. This M is beautiful. Start from >> [screaming] >> Ace Hilly archive. >> [cheering] >> like [music] your law It's a shame to fight. Just join the me now. [music] and be wise of family love. [music] [music] [singing] [music] >> Oh, [applause] let's just finish this for a second. By the way, something like this. You put in your status and you say is starting in 18 days. You got to join. So it's easy. Just easy. Yes. You make that. Oh, I forgot to tell you the story [snorts] real quickly. There was a a fight in Bad Ruven who were not in control. They built them as so wanted to wipe them out. If you mess up, you build them outside of it. Wipe them out. So they came. So Pas went to see what's going on. And they said, you know, we're doing it on purpose so that future generations know that we're they'll never know. They'll be they won't know. they'll remember this that there was a war that we put up in misb we did on purpose against and you came to fight us and and they and said okay to to remember and he said okay we're going to make peace and that's they accepted it they made peace I explain we got to go I'll say it tomorrow. Have a wonderful day. Merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor a shir today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor at mdy.com.