Daf Yomi Zevachim Daf 100 by R' Eli Stefansky

Good morning. Welcome back everybody. [laughter] >> Not everybody. There's a lot of people who have come back. [clears throat] >> Wow. Um, so we'll start with this. A new sponsor for the >> It's never too late. $18,000 from the Pik family >> plus the foundation plus uh they did a perk in the new >> plus very very nice warms the heart. >> This is by Tally Forking's wedding. You do it twice. >> Um, we had an email here. I just want to see first of all, oh, real quickly, this is in front of the Shimmy bronze matzah bakery that burnt down to the ground. Anoid muad put up a big sign. Eno mad beautiful teaching us amuna and dear belly I'm attaching a picture of my brother-in-law frame silverberg a frame shragaba from mdy lakewood as he's undergoing angiogram few weeks ago while learning the daff he's scheduled for septup sept I don't know what that is I don't know what that is >> seven bypass on Tuesday to you Zoraki who's a mag jersey should have a refle firefighter Duid Hoffman doing the Dav I guess I'm not 100% yet the Dav at 2 in the morning by the Kanek after finishing battling a third alarm house fire my here he is model >> I think he's the guy you know he's a famous kid from the from the video. That's his name. I did this himself. I then I went back to the beginning of shots. He wasn't putting on I think it's him brother. >> Okay. >> But there's a where do I want to get to? It's been a while since I've written, but I remain committed to doing the daff every day. Three and a half years now. From Kubism Rabi Strazinski. has like this um online poker thing, whatever it is. I haven't heard from him in three and a half years. >> Mark confirmed that's him. >> Who? What? >> That That was the guy. >> It is him. >> Yeah, it is him. >> Oh, he looks a little different from the side. But today, he took the idea of committing to a whole new level a few hours ago into the day today. I said to myself, "Wow, re must be really unwell. Life was given by um and lo and behold, I'm just skipping around there. 11 p.m. rolls around and I see that somehow someway you did it." That is she got posted. In the past you've said I'm a slave to the d but you're also human but kids are but truly unique and special ones the goats they somehow find the inner kas in the merit the first time in three I'm going I'm doing and watching the she now first time he's doing first and all I can think of is wow this is the Michael Jordan flu game >> I got to tell you no ra seriously I did something yesterday for the here in the room because I I have tremendous to the the guys that come live every day, every day, day in day out. Sacrifice, sacrifice. I said, "Okay, you know what? I got to do something for them." And it was one of the toughest things only because of the outcome. I had the flu yesterday started much shabas, I guess, a middle shear. I started getting the shakes and I thought I had a throw up in middle shear. So, they brought me a bucket and they said, "If you throw up, it'll be one of the best rated shears ever." >> [laughter] >> So I said, "Okay, it's a great idea. It's it's a good idea to continue." Then when the shear was over, I couldn't I could I couldn't even walk home. Kids are I said, "You know, I can't miss the shear. I can't miss the streak." So he gave a shear until the afternoon. But then I had to do the next day and and I couldn't think. I couldn't, you know, it was difficult to learn. So I did I pulled the allnighter. I learned all night with fever with this constant cramp in one place that didn't go away the entire night. six o'clock I delivered it in Hebrew 7 o'clock in English five minutes before the shar here five to 10 minutes before the shear here I said okay that's it was so the here that comes here they should have a live shear and lo and behold I found out afterwards that the guys here didn't even get to see the sh I was so depressed I like up I never stay learning with with flu and the guys didn't even get to see it so whatever I had to give I had to give one back to you just know I did it for you guys for you >> cuz I love You >> cuz you deserve it. >> What a pleasure. [applause] >> May Hashem grant you full with love and appreciation Rabbi Krosinski. While I understand you might have GA considerations about publicly reading the email along with the potential issues mentioning Mardan. I feel that the benefits would outweigh any possible negatives. I hope Kamid didn't get to hear these words as they and your incredible commitment will surely resonate. Rainski Martin Freeman once again to do good morning and the slopes he attached. I must tell you a big thanks. It doesn't sound like him. It sounds like and I never missed a day since for 543 days. Unbelievable. Big shout out to Kim. It's satellite location bar. Oh, this is what I was looking for. Big shout out to Kim. It's a satellite location bar park. Really enjoy getting together with MDY people in the satellite location bar. First, let me show you this. [screaming] >> [screaming] >> Okay. >> Okay. He said it's him. >> And here boys, check this out. Ariwood's satellite location in Bor. [music] >> Good morning, Ra Boy. [snorts] I know Khan was tough. the donuts, the Kaneka parties, the schedule. Plenty of reasons why not to join or miss. >> But guess what? Now it's right after Khan >> and you are personally invited to come join us every single day. The kaburo, the excitement, the environment. [laughter] >> It's only in bar. They wear those things during the week. Only only place in the world. >> Come join us today. >> You know what? My forced here has been dominating for you to get better. after Canvi Island. >> Canvi Island. You're not the first guy from there. I met like at least five people from there that do the D. >> Well, I've [snorts] been here four times. [laughter] >> That explains it. So, there's only two people >> minus four. >> But you look different last time. >> What? You had a smaller beard. [laughter] >> You came with a cap. You came with a Kushmir Kushmir. No, I think in in London is the only place where people are ashamed to to wear borrow pack. They're not ashamed >> but they don't wear I've never seen a nerd. >> You don't need to. It's not so cold. >> Ah, cuz it's cold inside the over there. Sure. They turn the heat never goes off in that. I guarantee you go in there 4 in the morning. Here it is. Bora Park second location here. Meny wants to know where it is. Look at the screen right over here. Kahal said 109 Clara Street. That's out of town. Clara Street. Where is it? Off. Yeah. Here. Yeah. Off 36 and 13th. That means it's mish outside. That's on the border. Anything past 36 and 13 [snorts] citizen. Sorry. >> Oh, we got to do the this I forgot something called David. Who else do we have here? What's your name? that >> from >> Woodmir >> Woodmir and this is >> I was here. >> You're the guy that's flying in special to the Shabat. What's your name? >> How'd you pull that off? >> You convinced. [clears throat] >> How many do you do with us? >> Uh since your parents said, "Okay, we're going to settle now." >> [laughter] >> They didn't have the money. They had to, you know, start borrowing and stuff. This is unbelievable. No bis parents, they're they're spending money, buying a ticket, buying a room to be to show their kid that this is special to them, that they appreciate. You know, you know, you know this over 50 people trying to get in now. People booked rooms that the double booked. Don't answer. We don't have a single room to to to give. But you got a room. You're in. Who are you going with? >> For a roommate and my father. >> You're taking him. >> Wow. That's a good zi. And your father. >> Wow. Wow. Very impressed. >> You see, I almost didn't say hello to you that I said. >> All right. >> We do the after. >> You do the shir every day in Slayton. You told me about that. Shir Gimly said does it. >> Shir B. So what's the name Yesh say? He's a little scared to say this guy. This kid Sllayton came over to me at the at that event that we did about Shabas in B. He says my yeshiva we all get together at night. We all learn the sh your we have a screen and we do the thing in and where's the yeshiva >> Sanria. Very nice. >> Oh he's the one that has the place in remote >> and he's the one that does the remote over there in the mall and he he's the head of the the satellite. Very nice. Okay. Beautiful. He gave me a lot of the sponsor Dave by the way if you come over to meat and I don't recognize you don't get insulted happens to everybody like what's your name [laughter] I'm not going to forget this kid there's no way right sponsored by capital in honor of our friends mayor Kovac Taki and Shamshi Schlavra for the devotion to study in the shared anonymous co-sponsors anonymous from London. Anonymous is a monthly sponsor. Anonymous from London is a monthly Simon monthly sponsor. Daily sponsors. Oh, Misha Car's birthday. Keep staging. Make us proud. He's the guy that gave us the the hall a number of times. >> We had over a thousand people one time and then another I don't know 800 in the second one. Anonymous in honor of Gishi Rose from then to the now from then to the now. I think it's supposed Lisa, we have one of the best videos ever. Unfortunately, it's all the way at the end of this year. You got to wait. You got to wait. You got to be patient. Maybe I'll show it in the middle and finish. But this is like, you keep on building it up, Billy. Is it really? We're not going to The other one's laughing. It's very good. >> So, listen. This is uh Mish after she yesterday people came over. Mamesh explained beautifully. Listen to this. [clears throat] If a person had his father's nifer that day, could he bring a carbon pes at night? If you don't eat a car, it's is [clears throat] one of the only two mitzvah. What What are the two mitzvah in the You can't answer Benny. What two mitzvah, >> right? >> Bris and Pes, you don't eat Pesus. Person buries his father that night. It's Pesak. Could he eat the carbon pes? We have a contradiction in on the one hand he says he should [snorts] eat. On the other hand it's in the bra he shouldn't eat. What do you do? We have a bunch of roots and today we're going to see three new ones. Let's go through what we learned yesterday. Simple stuff says it's a mistake. It's not a mistake. It was just thrown in there because always goes together with so we said it was just the Tan is used to saying PES. He wasn't serious. The real is you're supposed to eat a carbon at night. That's next. Then we have says something very simple. He says you're supposed to eat a carbon pes. He also agrees he's supposed to eat a car after you bury a father. [snorts] It says he shouldn't. It's not talking about Pes. It's talking about something called the We'll just go through this because whoever didn't see this year, it's to see this once in a while. >> There are five carbonas a human being, a person should bring on PES. So if Msiah comes this year, you have to remember don't just bring a little sheep and no there's a lot more that you have to do. You have to bring every time you go up to the boys remember this. You heard me. First, go out and get that extra carbon. You got to bring a special. Hello, Hashem. I'm here. I'm here to see you. You bring another carbon. And here, this is the one we we're talking about right now. Special carbon for what's cuz you need to eat meat. You need to be you have to on the carbon pes typically have 20, 30, 40, 100 people in one carbon. Everybody gets a little a bite. So, but you need to be a >> or at least a but you can divide it up by many people and some you do and you have a large family. You're not going to starting 25 but you need other meat. So, you bring and then you also bring and then finally the only one we care about is this this one. So, he's saying that because it comes together with the carbon pes it's to fill up your body in order to eat the pes. So, it has somewhat to do with carbon pes. So in that you should know that by the way since you are a not you he is an he does not eat he doesn't that he can't do >> the swan the not next and now finally we're holding by today so in order to understand today not we don't have to understand it but I want to make it very very simple A few very important things here. First of all, let's do something simple here. There are four categories that we're going to be talking about. They go in order of extre in what's the word? Extremity. In what? Severity. Severity. Good. That's a better word. The day of the death of a of a father, mother. A close one. Obviously number one that's the the worst the worst of the worst that's that is anos and the that's like the day his kids died [cough] [clears throat] something else though it's called what's the day that they bury the dead here in in you have it all the time uh anif comes from America comes from France England It's not the day he died. It's usually the following day. 3 days later [snorts] is the day a person heard about the now or so you were talking about within 30 days. But that happened after the war after the Holocaust. People heard that their a loved one was nif and it happened six years ago. That day what do you is there that day. It's much less than the much less than certainly than and finally this we're going to be talking about all four things today. What's super interesting about today's d is like a lot of new stuff. Nothing difficult but new. A lot of new happened in the time of the Gar. They would put the the body into a cave. That was the minute. put it in the cave and then come back like 12 months later and just gather all the bones, put it in a small box and bury the box. That's how they did it back then. So it's I forgot which one of my friends I don't even remember but he told me that the they buried his father in America during co and they really wanted to bring him to show but they couldn't remember they couldn't bring bodies and all that so they they buried him at night to bring him. It happens all the time. People told me in France the government takes the body out after seven years and destro I don't know what they so they have to bring bodies over here all the time they bring it here we even have uh the picture of look at this watch this >> what in Belgium look at this quickly cuz it's going to change this is the Yoshi changed the color they brought the here in 1960 >> so okay so that's that's even lower than >> fine Shapiro. Yeah. They exume his body. Okay. Shapiro. Now I want to show you something else. A voice. I we have to remember there's two there's two things that are there's no is about these two things and there's no in this side. When a person hears that his father died that day, it's that day he's there that day. He sees his father that day it's in the that's what during the day it's what about that night. What about that night? So that night it's either exactly like the day or it drops down one level and it would make it what a night it would be the now let's go to we're going to do it again it's going to we're going to repeat on the day of the so he died on a Sunday they bury him on a Monday that day special that you don't put on you don't do mitzvah. Everybody agrees. Everybody agrees that it's the rabbon. It's not even a question. Everybody agrees that that day is only the rabbon. What about the night? We're going to do the same thing that we did by the either it's exactly like the day that it's what it's the or we're going to take it down one step and it becomes what? Nothing. Zero. >> So now let's see. on the day of the according to everybody's on the day of of according to everybody's now what about the what do we say >> it's either it's the same as the day or we take it down one step and make it a and what about either it is on at Night or nothing? >> Before >> after. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Cuz it doesn't mur cuz night and day doesn't matter. Yeah. >> Okay. So now that we know this day, >> it makes a lot of things easier. Now >> what >> what make this beautiful? [clears throat] >> We'll see in the Gumar. See because if it's the if the is the so we can understand if the is to do to be is only the to act is only the so have the right to say you don't eat a pes even though it's carus we don't want you to eat it how could they do something like that not mix today yes when we'll get there we'll Although this might be the only time in chass or one of the only times no there are a few other times that do say they they take it on the shoulder say you're not going to eat a carbon now we're glazer on you not to eat even though it's a it's very severe but for the most part not okay so now we're going back simple stuff we're going to see now three more explanations of this contradiction in the two one says Somebody who lost a close one eats a car says he does not. So now that I showed you the first slide there's mis and that's his distinction. That's all he's saying here. There's a bunch of words here. He's saying depends when he died. If he died of Pes then you don't bring a carbon you don't bring you don't bring a car in Pes that night. Why? Why? Because the night is like the day and he's at night cannot eat a car is we don't care. He died forget about the he died the day before. Now it's much less. Now he was only buried there. Ah, he's buried there. And the explains based on the 14th of N. That's when you bring the carbon holds. We don't we didn't have that yesterday, but he holds it that night. The night of the of the is like the day of the mean that means what? that he's does not bring a current pes he doesn't put on that day he doesn't bring a current that day but what if he died a day earlier and the was on the now there's a lot of right we're not going into them a lot a lot of uh a starts by the certain things start by I think there's a whole nether we're not going to get into it when's the yard died here said there different things I don't know what fine but if the burial was on the 14th is of the opinion that there is anos that night but only the only that doesn't push off [clears throat] the current pes which is okay so now we're going to go a little bit into this and if you don't like this terret then we have a brand new coming up in a few minutes. How does this fit into to what we learned over there in that we're discussing the contradiction in his in his says he tells him oh you know it's we said that should should dunk in the mikvah we had this yesterday and eat a current pes but [snorts] you're telling me the is talking about the day of the burial not The day of the death, the day of the burial, which is only answer, I'm talking to you about A and you're answering me B. I'm talking about a day. So, the day of the death and you're answering me the day of the cash. >> Okay. So, it's a good >> next both right. One could be because the first year goes after. >> Yeah. But that's >> No, it's not. It's not if what it goes after what it doesn't go after. What happened? Was it on the day of the misa or the day of the The day of the mis is the day of is it the and if is talking about the day of the the then how how how is he answering who's talking about something else completely next terret I love this terret and in fact says something almost the same thing same idea >> listen to this when do you have to bring a carbon pes so he says he says what if the dead per the died at 10:00 in the morning. 10 in the morning is before. So the the the son became an if he became an it took effect. It took effect he cannot bring a carbon pesh the following hour. >> He's already when when the carbon pes came around but what if 12:00 came let's call 12:00 he has to bring a car at 12:05 his father dies too late. I have a to bring a car and I I it went into effect went to effect went into effect the says you have to bring is because he had and his father died after the says you don't have to bring is because his father died early in the morning and he became forehead. How do you know? How do you know to say such a safara? Oh, so now we have a very simple all the way to the bottom. Famous. And actually there's a story here a little bit of a it says in the ple that a has to be mama to his mace mitzvah. What does mitzvah mean to to an American? I'll tell you when I read it. >> The Israelis didn't agree with this. What does mitzvah mean to you? That you have to or you could. >> You can. What else? >> Have to. >> Cuz you're looking Oh, no. You're looking to begin. What do you say, guys? What do you say? >> Mits. So what does mit mean to you? >> Okay. Yeah, that's what the Israelis said. Fine. >> Me and you are Americanish. >> No, they're right. Mitzvah means I thought mitzvah it's a mitzvah. It's a nice thing to do. No, no, no. Mitzvah you to do it. >> What does that mean? So person a person has a a dead person. He has his wife is nif. He's he has to go and make a funeral. He can't be at and say no. What do you mean by sadic? We'll see in a second. If he doesn't want to, they take him. They forcefully take him and throw him in there. Says there's a story with who his wife died on and he didn't want to be said. It happens to us a lot where we have u like a battle between two mitzvah. What should you do? And so the idea is that you don't go after your own roten your wants. You have to go with rot and hashem. What does he hashem want? So here he has a guy he has a situation a situation. He wants the im wants to eat pes. He wants pes but his wife is laying dead over there. So it calls up you take care of her. I need to be tar because if I touch her then I can't eat. If I go to I can't eat. What does Hashem want? Not what you want. I know I understand you want to be the all the that you have and everything with the P. But what does Hashem want right now? That's the sh like it happens to us all the time. Like >> you want to go to the DA, but your wife wants you to do something for her. I honestly have no idea which way you're going to go here. [clears throat] [laughter] >> So, of course, you want to go to the daff. The what does Hashem want at that time? Hashem wants to go to the daff. Of course. So, then your rotten ros and hashem line up >> finally calling yourself. >> No, any dab. I don't learn. >> But listen to this. >> You know what's interesting? I thought I love this because unfortunately I I said chiva and during Shiva you hear some of the silliest remarks >> like your mom is lucky that your mother didn't die like my brother I mean the way he got ran over and this >> and kids so but one of the one of the things it didn't happen to me but one of the things people readim to the to the to the husband like the day after >> you know It's not so comfortable. >> What? >> This guy came to us and did it. >> He did it by you. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. Listen, I don't want to wait till after I understand that you're crying right now and you're bit but I have to I have to do what I have to do. You know, [laughter] >> but the Gar says a story like this. The Gar says a story about who? You're not going to believe it. >> It's a mitzvah. No choice. >> It's a mitzvah. It's a contradiction in the midst. What's rotten here? I think I should tell you about the right now. Yeah. >> So, but listen to this mis. It's the story in the gar about on the day his wife died. This is the kind that at his wife's funeral he looks at his wife's sister and he says no and he says you're in charge of the kids and from that and they got married at the funeral but the says that he wasn't with her for a very very long time. The doesn't put him down. The says that the like he that was what he needed at the time. That was that was that someone should take care of his kids. But this is the same. Those who remember remember call upon him. >> You have a video. >> Oh, we do have a video. [clears throat] They made a they made a vote and they said, "No, you you can't put it on somebody else. you have to become tom and deal with your wife and therefore what for what's a what's what's a punch line here >> and therefore he could not eat carbon pes but if what if I show you in a bra that says he should eat carbon pes so we have a contradictions and that's what is going to do here just this uh short little video this is not the one I'm talking about don't get excited >> are you not going in it's it's your wife I still need to bring my carbon pes. >> What do you mean you need to still bring carbon pes? >> LOOK AT [screaming] uh that boy side. >> Okay, sir. They were ret. So they they shoved him in there and he he became very good. >> So now is the problem. >> Um >> but here's the contradiction. So I'll show you real quickly here. I'll say the words and then I'll explain to you why I'm showing. Sometimes they show it and I forget to tell you why. It says and his sister. He should not become talking to his sister. What do you mean? It says that he should not go to the of his sister. What's the problem? Tell you what the problem is here. Here's the problem. Cuz in it says, if you read the puzzle and you stop right over there, it's obvious you cannot go to a sister's when a person is a n. You can't go to her. You can't go to father. You can't go to mother. It says it doesn't say oh but if it's a sister yes and the problem is why does it say why four words and the basically says from all these you learn we're going to see soon basically the same just each one gets stronger and stronger. So what do you learn from person is on the way to to bring his pes or to give a brism to his son. Why is he going to give a brism to his son? Says Rashi is interesting. You think he's just going? Because you know like I'm going bashem just in case you didn't hear a grandson in Florida. So I'm going to be going this uh for shabas. I'm going to try to come back as quickly as possible. Leaving as close to shabas as possible. Coming back after shabas. person's going to get to bris. Why he's going to bris that's why no says rash he's going to the bris because he wants to bring a carbon pes because you cannot eat a carbon pes if your son doesn't have a briso and you cannot eat a carbon if your slave doesn't have a bismah it's from so >> what did I say from yeah it's from [clears throat] So if he's on the way cuz he's trying to do something for the and he heard that somebody in his family died. You think they should go to say is is right should not become he should eat he should he should eat the say. Oh, perhaps if you find a body on the street, nobody's dealing with it. That's different. We're going to see that these four words. I'll just I'll I'll spoil it for you all the way to the end of the same thing are all there to tell you that a mace mitzvah you find the dead person. Even if the person is a even if the person is a he [clears throat] has to be to this mitzvah mitzvah is the number one thing you deal with it. I could say the story from the Mah that Rabbi Feder told he's he knows the person remember I'm looking remember the MSA with the Mitzvah they put him in the trunk he took him to Bora Park >> the M was in it was in uh >> in Manchester no >> I'll say I'll say the M real quickly I didn't say it in at least a month maybe a year there was a a guy was was in some I don't know where he got stuck he didn't have a hotel a whole long story. He he decides he's going to go to a nursing home. Maybe they have a room there. So they tell him, "Yeah, we just emptied out a room." In other words, one of the residents went bye-bye and he finds out that the resident has like a Jewish name. See Jewish name. He says, "What are you going to do with it?" He says, "I'm going to we're going to burn it. We're going to, you know, cremate it, whatever." He says, "Do me a favor. Could I just uh could I deal with it?" So they say, "Yeah, kid sir." He's in Iowa. He takes the body, Jewish body. He puts it in his trunk and drives. It's not a good idea. I'm not because if you get pulled over kids are he gets to Brooklyn and he gives he goes to the he says I have a mitzvah. You got to deal with it. >> The kids are huh? >> Not suspicious at all. >> No. So he said, "What's the guy's name?" He says the guy, he tells him the guy's name. >> He says, "You're not going to believe it." Rabbi leader knows the guy's name. He says, "You're not going to believe it. This guy for years would send us money to pay for mace mitzvah in bar park. Anybody that didn't have uh money for a funeral, this guy used to pay and was malg >> I said it a long time ago. But what was his name? Do you know his name? >> No, the person the person who the master happened with. >> Yeah. What's the what's his name? >> Adlers from Manchester Adler from Manchester. He's the one that took the body into the tr into the trunk. >> I heard it from from >> Dian. Okay. Okay. So, sorry. Where am I? >> Oh, maybe maybe should also be a touch because it's extra. You only don't go to your sister. You got to deal with the says what's but we have a we have a contradiction they made him touch his wife they threw they threw him right over the fence into the and over here it says you shouldn't make him tell me obviously the only way to answer this is up is to say before and after like said what when do we make him when do we say that you should eat you should not become is if his father died after his was so how come they made him touch because it died >> before so the of his wife came before the of and therefore they made him touch >> yeah yeah yeah the talking about and it goes also it goes also I don't want to get into it it's complicated enough it's called the point is whatever happens by happens by also Maybe both these stories have it's just learned to if he wants to he could. If he doesn't want to he doesn't have to that they forced him goes like the other you got to force the person. The br that says you don't it doesn't have to be forced. Of course it can eat the car. It goes like says that's impossible. Why the whole thing is you can't stick in all of a sudden in the middle goes like why how do I know the we're going to see this whole this whole long thing which is super simple and and and almost repetitive but it goes like [snorts] it says so does not go to any funeral even his relatives mim in other words it starts with obviously he doesn't even go to strangers he certainly and and and even even close relatives love and the word love comes to say that he shouldn't even go to he shouldn't he he should deal with the mitzvah so what do you do with the mother what if he's plus he's a so we just added another layer he's not only but he's also he should deal with the what do you do with the word Oh, top of the top. Even the highest level has to and he finds he must deal with him. What do he's on [clears throat] the way to do is the two mitzvah that have you think that he should be? No. says sponsor. Oh, because it's a brand new terret. Good. We're mish turning of the dar global special experts in international payments. What? What happened? You bullied your way. You bullied everybody out of there. Just you. Unbelievable. >> More than welcome to come. >> Says says Rob. >> [clears throat] >> says a very similar terrorist to the same kind of concept. Very simple. If they already performed this on this carbon and then his father dies. So he already the thing he goes and he eats. He eats the carbon already. He already did most of it. But if they didn't they didn't start the process yet. there's no and his father dies then no you don't need to cover if it's true they already you already brought your carbon relax what do you have to eat it for no anybody >> does it bother anybody >> why have to eat it >> yeah but but but you already the mitzvah by bringing it and there's He doesn't get to eat it, right? >> What's the >> again? What's the last? >> So whatever whatever you're going to ask is going to talk about why does he have to eat it? [clears throat] No, you must eat it because if you don't eat it then what you brought the carbon youed it is zero. It's not enough to bring not you anything. >> They won't get cursed though. Once they were they won't get big. >> I don't know. I don't know about that. It says it's Mak means you have once he gets it. >> I don't know what you're reading. >> Okay. By me. It says it's >> Yeah. Omar tells you should hear what he said. Listen to what he said. It's perfect what he said. Raven was right. Said if you don't eat it then he's right. What is what does it mean? Okay, so let's go back to this this just so the doesn't go check this out. What do we have? We have so far the day the person dies, the day the person is buried. I hope I don't get in trouble for this, but uh I heard about he's a and just the other day. So they found his father. It's very interesting. So they found his father on Friday which is the sixth candle but they walked into the house and they saw that he lit the third candle that mean he was in the house for three days he fell or something something he he fell and nobody was there. So there's the day of the death and this day you find out of the death says that over here we're talking about not after the holocaust. I heard that the father died in 1942 and now is 2025. It's within 30 days. This is a it's it's close like every close by >> what >> collapsed on the third. You don't know what he lifted >> exactly. That's the problem. I don't want to get into that. We nobody knows what happened. Nobody knows. >> I I think he he he hurt himself bad because there's like he got a a concussion or something. What happened after that? Did he wake up and not you know I didn't speak to yet but anyways [clears throat] so the day the day that you hear about the death is like the day of in other words you you start the shiva you start is I I discuss this because this if I was part of the Sanhedrin I would make a new takana that for a every single that they invite him to he must go cuz one of the best benefits of being a is you don't go to any no what do what do you mean a lot of people they fake it for two years straight no it's not over yet it's not over what are you guys laughing you know that I'm right right they should say every bris and the worst every you have to go if you every kid you have to walk the whole Anyway, it's fine. But there's this shiva in there is this this part is the whole I don't know if you know about it. There's no no shower during shiva no shoes right okay this you just to understand these words when you hear about a mace what [snorts] happens to to the you hear somebody hears that his his father was n there three weeks ago okay he's on a cruise somewhere he's on a safari he comes out of his safari say oh you didn't hear they buried your father 3 weeks ago Now what? And it's he's back for PES for PE. Should he eat a current PES? So it says that is that's the same as as the day that they gather the bones which is not that severe. In other words that he he he goes into the mikvah he does a and eats not only eats all which is even lighter. >> Now just pay attention to these words now because we're going to use it later. Not a big deal. Means the day of the burial and the day of he he dunks in the mikvah and he eats. So it says there's a contradiction here. On the one hand you say on the one hand you say that the day that you hear about the father's death that happened 3 weeks ago because I'm saying it's within 30 days. That's the day you have to start shiva right away everything. But it's lighter. It's less. Why is it less? If if would be like would be different. The day of the burial then of course you don't eat. It's only like the day when you hear about a dead a dead person. It's like a day of gathering the bones. That's why you're allowed to eat the carbon ba because if it was like a day that of the burial itself, then you don't eat. You don't eat. So what I see from here, the day of burial, you don't eat. And then wait a minute. It says even the day of the burial. We explained means even the day of the burial. This is incredible. The day of the burial. Think about it. The guy goes to his own father's leva. He's watches the dunks in the mikvah and eats the current place of the night. So the gumar is going to answer that doesn't mean the day of the burial means something else. That's that's the gumar's attempt. But it says over here a contradiction on the day of the burial. Do you eat the carbon pes? You don't eat the carbon pes. On the one hand it says yes and the one says not. >> Yeah. Certainly carbon pesa. But we're talking about carbon pes here. is much much easier. >> Yeah. Okay. I'm saying even fine. Okay. I don't know what to do with this. It's when does the Jewish calendar start? At night. So if they buried him on Sunday evening before that's day one then comes sunset that's day two it's another day that's why you eat all I'm not there yet everything happened right before that's why you're allowed to eat the following evening the current pes it's another day. It's a different day. But if they bury the person after so the following so the whole day is part of that day and therefore you cannot eat. So we're saying that the day that you hear about the death is like the day that you gather the bones and you're allowed to eat you're allowed to eat the pes. Now even though an ANOS over here this is where Rashi says even though the anos over here is the but in this case they they they became strict and they said we don't care you're not going to eat the carbon in this case even though this is the but the bottom line is we're coming forget about everything we're coming for this line right over here we're talking about if they gathered the bones you're saying you're allowed to eat the carbon. Why is he allowed to eat it? He already shuffed the carbon. Why should he get to eat it? He already on that. We're going to say no. You can't just be I just want to say real quickly. Um I don't know it was like maybe two years ago, year and a half ago. I don't remember when. Um I was on Chavis and uh I I bumped into Yoshi on Chavis. I said, "Do me a favor on Shabas. I need you to to make a certain chart and I would like to see it in cups. Take this cup. We'll put over here on top of the cup like this. You need six cups. You go like this. Like this. Like that." I tell him this whole thing and he's like a little Okay, I think I understand. And then I look down right by my leg. Right by my foot. There's six plastic cups. Six plastic cups. I count them again. It's m six. This is exactly what I wanted. I wanted to show I want So I take out the six cups. I put it and I said, you know, this is like So I I saved the six cups and I asked Gishan to get me a piece of plexiglass that the guy that made this and he he made it. I I getting it one of these days, right? Gish, what? >> I got to go to get it. >> He has to go to get it. Okay. Somebody could send it there. Lisa, I'm walking today in the same exact spot where I found I found six new cups. Mamesh, same amount. In the same exact spot. I don't know. Is Mish the same spot? So, there's somebody going around putting six cups there every so often. [laughter] >> Next. >> Where's the So, you know what? Time out. I want a timeout. has nothing to do with the story. I just found it today on the way to I want to share story but I'll tell you this has to do with the story. This is really for we're not there yet but let me just show it because it's already done then this year this is the video I was talking about done special for MDY for today's which is the coming up that Rebi says that anos lasts until you bury the person. Okay, here goes. I refuse to die before I finish the entire shot. I'm on my way to finishing the shot. The angel of death knocked on my door. He said, "Y'all go pack [music] your bags. You're 104." But I told him, "No, you listen here, son. My learning schedule isn't done." >> I got a cigar in my mouth. I'm sliding down the shoot. I'm reviewing [music] the bathing suit. >> I finished all of your [music] spooky shoes. I'm meeting Ollie on the MD cruise. I'M GOING TO FINISH THE show before I [music] go. I'm staying alive with enough till the heavens above. You're going to have to wait. I'm making a se by the plate. I am finishing shots on the ocean blue. HOLD THE SHIP, REVY. WAIT FOR ME. >> That's Benny. By the way, [laughter] >> it will take us days to reach the shore. Turns out I still owe myself douff inv. [laughter] All right. Are we done? >> Should we do another another line or two? Hold on. Let's see where we're holding. >> Hold on. Are we middle? Let me Let me just go. Let's just do two more lines. Oh yeah. The whole was that means and it seems like on the day of the burial you do. It's a contradiction. On the one hand it seems like you do eat a car. On the other hand, you don't. No. No. It's not on the day of the that you eat. It's the day of the is when you gather the bones which is much lighter the day of the [clears throat] it's a mistake. We're not even talking about that. 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