Daf Yomi Yoma Daf 86 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rambo sai nishmas rossi rose mordecai today's share is being sponsored by you gotta get here kaya fix you know about this have an aliyah a little bit of an update you're not gonna believe this how many of these were already ordered how many yesterday was 650 no so how much today close nine [Music] over 300 mars just yesterday so i think it's like 970 already so 970. yumo is only like 650. listen to this in the united states 800 in england 86 in israel 37. you know how much it costs here in israel 197 shekel agamaro this is what i have here let's see here no no no 193 197 plus shipping so you're talking about like seventy dollars i don't know something with sugar yeah well you only get one you only get one and globally there's a bunch of globals numbers went up all right hello rebbie am i off because i tell people i'll give them a lift to the catskills only on the condition that they commit to be silent in the car when i'm listening to the deaf am i weird that i don't mind the four hour trips and traffic because it lets me listen to the whole week's worth of shirt and twice over the weekend travels you said you like pictures so here's a picture one hour after leaving boro park almost at the battery tunnel but it's kashmak because i'm doing the daf i love you ellie i'm praying to be able to listen to you giving chiron whoa that's interesting i don't think i'll be giving shrimp up there certainly not about the bidets and that whatever you have opened up the world of ravina ravashia by road for me and for that i will be eternally grateful with shabbos anonymous did i say his name they started out with his name i think it might have by matty berman i first want to say that i've been doing that since broca's people write me anonymous emails but they put their name like it comes from so-and-so they don't realize that yeah but i only read it afterwards who said i should respect their wishes you're kicked out for sukkah by the way ari come here ari come here a second come here i gotta introduce the dialogue we gotta say goodbye sometime i first want to say just read the letter come come here this is arie rosenstein okay here the guy that wrote the email got to some picture dozens of times humor is one of the most he has not gone through so he's learning with us but unfortunately um is almost over and bye bye taari come back when you get up we're going to miss you we are going to miss you he does a tremendous hazard program somebody gave me a good monster that we should do maybe one day we'll get into it okay what's that next cycle next next up if you can push it off why not my brother yankee berman my father ellie berman started talking about it i gave i gave it a shot since yuma i did not miss a day no matter what i wish i started during irving because it was hard to do on my own so thank you rebellion for making us understand every gemara mate berman and then we have sv cooperman cooper man thank you for all your wonderful jim i want to let you know for now and going on on your behalf my two boys shimmy 14 and avromi 12 are both bor hashem keeping up with the daf and camp agudo maybe by the time you come to the united states in august the boys will have rallied at least half of the camp to learning the daf please plan accordingly to make a debut in cambodia the kids say he wants some swag and i try to get it to him if anybody's going to camp a good and has like a couple t-shirts please let us know i tried to get mark to go there and he refused no he tried but he didn't what what i don't know somehow they were able to watch it in no one there has internet but they're able to watch it thank you again for that he's been getting since beginning shabbos they've been with you since the beginning of soccer and shkolin not sure the venue but musayam yuma in camp but good if anyone wants to join sv cooperman the boy said there's a big seal in north miami beach there's a beautiful tremendous ceiling in the tri-state area there's going to be a big ceiling by the kaiser with robert yarlofsky and this is aaron hirsch who like a few others have sent in pictures after the a lot of time they're trying to get in still this is this is joe bergman with a slurpee i'm telling you like his dentist is having a picnic and here's these the kids ironic is the one who did the uh the whole thing in lakewood the other day see schweikerberg iron we'll have to there's a committee we'll have to we'll have to figure it out sometimes right where it says the word gemara that's where we're holding again like 30 lines from the batter so we did a whole difference today if you think about it the mission says that a carbon give kapara so it seems like there's an ocean vada this is a carbon ocean which you bring when you know for certain you committed navero and then this is awesome tolu you don't know it's possible your wife said what you ate that meat it might have been caleb you're not sure so you bring your asham until you can figure it out and the ashram helps you that you don't get the punishment until you figure it out but once you figure it out you know that you ate crayola you have to bring so here's the pasta in case you don't have it because it's not in the gemara the hipper olaf this is referring to asham khali and the turret calls it a kapara verhiper there's a capara here so why isn't the mission to bring awesome says these in the mishnah are those who give you a full-fledged kapara it doesn't give you a full kappara what it does is it protects you from yesurim person won't have his surum but when he knows exactly what happened he has to bring his corpora another shot you don't need anything else all you need to do unfortunately we don't have that anymore what if you're in the basement make those you bring your car bakatas and you're done you're finished it's different not every time they have to bring australia what happens if before you had a chance to bring this ocean together if you came by and went you don't have to bring a carbon asham tolu so therefore it's not in the mishnah we're only telling you things that you have to bring it no matter what rabbi sai we are going to be learning secrets that are not even in the gemara we spoke about it maybe in brachas tremendous secrets how to get achieve a focal paraphile virus all are various crazy eyebars yeshua said i'm not kidding he's standing in the back he said come to the daf and obi mahaprabhu and that's exactly it i'm not kidding not only is it it's the greatest kappa that there is for any trouba obviously i have to do trouba but in order to erase it lima data is the greatest okay fine you do that your new thing but here's the thing if it's really difficult for somebody to come to a share let's say somebody's mad at somebody else at the magic chair i'm not going to talk i'm not going to even look in your direction so and so when i say you come to you come learn entirely when it's difficult or you learn entirely when you are tired you get up extremely you know how many times people told me i it's too early for me it's too early adaraba that is the greatest kapara that is to the tavares we'll get to there does it's a big secret we're going to get to it says from the mission you need a combination of two things you need death or kipper but each one of those death together with chuva yum kipper together true name of the kirby in fact we see that rebbe holds differently the sagna [Music] review rebbe holds he just do chuva he's just to have him kipper and end the story you don't even have to do that and if a person takes a possum and makes fun of the possum tries to twist it in his own weird way there's no chuva there's no yum kipper oh maybe and if he doesn't perform a bris mila on himself three things says rabbi them keepers unfortunately we don't really passing like him besides these three are various that you need chuba says you could you could somehow be mishna and say that it goes even according to rebbie chuva bayou i'm a kipper if you do trouba alone you need your kipper you'll keep really buy a truva but if you have him kipper by itself you don't need chuva okay so now we're going to have three chitos that what according to one sheet the shuva chuva by itself is mahaprabhu all licenses we're talking about lysa said now we're going to talk about leucester sheets chuva by itself is my copper everything besides one average hashem's name in vain okay then we have the others the flip side there's not a single lois asses in the torah that chuva could be on you hear the two opposites one mandarin says there's not a single way that the truth could be mahaprabhu you need to come unto him keeper also you need to get other things this other battle that says now every single life says in the torah besides one and then we have a middle sheather that says it depends what the light says is if it's a lace acid that doesn't require malcolus so it's a weak lice acid then chuva is makhab so you see we have the three sheets the the two extremes and the one in the middle depends what kind of lace okay let's see it inside does the mishna on the easy average on is a lot worse than an essay this you get malc is for this you don't now let me just ask you a quick question if a white sass is more hummer than an essay why is it that we say s essay i say pushes off a lace asset you're saying allah says is very hammer you get malcolm's for it i say let's say you don't shake a lullaby you don't get anything you know whatever whatever the the assay is positive the answer is very simple this world runs we're here for one reason for assays we're here to fulfill our coachback who's rotten the licensee are don't do this so for instance marshall a guy tells somebody take this package and drive from bar park to the mountains two and a half hours says but i heard that you have a lot of points on your license so be careful if you get a ticket you're not gonna have a suspension you're not gonna have a license i need you to work okay guy comes back after eight hours of schlepping back and forth he says i did everything you told me to do i drove 60 miles an hour i didn't get a ticket so you didn't do a license this guy says what's in the trunk the whole box is still there you forgot to deliver the box so oh he didn't do a license he didn't kill anybody he didn't he didn't he didn't steal but he didn't do the icker diggers to deliver to do mitzvahs to learn torah my sentiment huh okay but yes if you do something really bad they're gonna suspend your license okay that's a license you're gonna get malcus for it but it doesn't mean that it's more important than the essay that say is the the positive okay says no we're not talking about the lord says of course lisa says up here it's islam we're talking about in the assay there's there's there's two types of assays there's a positive commandment but there's also a positive commandment that's that's attached to uh a lace asset that's attached an sa let's say if you steal you have to return it the certain things if you do this you have there's a way to fix it however valley says gomorrah but if there's a real license a real one meaning that you get a punishment for it lie shiva doesn't work verimino hey luhena calloys i say you see right over here alone calories these are the light ones that chuva by itself is happier even this ah there's only one life hashem's name in vain if you're swearing don't use hashem's name in vain if you lie says okay that's the answer the what we're talking about not just one of it i don't think that it's talking about leicester it's leicester every avery in the tire that's like leicester and why do we pick leicester because that's the macart for all these averages but leicester is a navera that has malcos and therefore it's talking about any lysis and the tire that has malkas so yum chuva is my copper every single voice i said besides something that's similar to lysisa that you get malcus on it excuse me tashma rebuilding call schumer any avera that's less than lyciso in other words from here you see even leicester even it's likely see-saw anything that that has malcols it's a loyalist acid gummer and below choose them a copper so you do see that chuvas mchapper on the lois if it's worse than leicester what could be worse than alicia alive that you get karis that's a type of an aveira they have to wait around a little bit a person won't die prematurely because he did chuva but you have to wait for him kipper for it so again says the kimberly [Music] so here's the famous thing we know the apostles but we say it so many times we don't know what we're saying really but what it says is impossible is going to wipe clean everything he's not going to wipe clean it's a contradiction what's going on we said oh so that's a good shot loinak is going on that one avaira of luciso yokolaf kane maybe logianak is going on everything i'm not going to forgive you s that's where i'm not going to forgive but other there is i will forgive with truva and what does it say true is mahaprabhu even even every other aveira even a regular that has malchus so once again we have a problem with rabbi huda who says that allah because in the past over there when it talks about hashem's name it says only for only for hashem's name so melo i'm going to put it what is chuba has the power to forgive completely on a positive average not in a negative that's connected to an assay like if you steal vaisya zakazela you must give a bad fight when is chuva not enough and you need yama keeper al kristo miso is best asset if a person does a lice acid like like like that you get marcus for it it's a loisa cigar more then shiva is not enough according to this mando omar you need a combination of true william keeper if a person is lifted before him kipper even though he did chuva he doesn't get a well we'll get the miso mrs mohapper now we're just going back you can't just say that who forgives everything it says hashem is not going to forgive yes so what do we do with this contradiction okay hashem forgives another he forgives those who do chuva being menacing shall remaster did you hear about the four different types of kapara like death in kippur yesurim you heard about them could you please tell me them no mistake it's really three each one requires chuva it's not that every anything is by itself over allah if he was over on a missus assay but he did chuva that's enough truth is enough for mrs hassey he gets apart right away that's it all you need to do is shuvu your shayvav your i don't know what the real translation is some sort of uh wild guy in hebrew but i don't think that's whatever you're you're not doing the proper thing let's talk about a assay over alois [Music] versus truva if he did allah over here is a third cheetah that we didn't really see it ribbi smalls of the opinion that any loya in the world chuva is not going to do anything not anything i'm sorry is not enough shiva for a loyalist is not enough if you eat love you cannot do chuva you could do chuva and wait for your kipper that's okay you have to do truth obviously you have to do shiva it's just not going to forgive you like it's going to forgive for an assay america so that's the third that i was telling you before this is rabbi shmall so again he says of our loya if you do any send the torah versace and you did what you're supposed to do tuba it's not enough anything yeah even though even the lowest even the easiest license has gone allah says i said that doesn't have malcus together with a partnership of chuva so it's not enough to have true william kipper i say he's talking about it's not enough so what they accomplish is the toilet and they wait you it holds you there and it keeps you from dying a premature death because your chorus means to die prematurely but if you do truva you're going to avoid that premature death but unfortunately you surim come and get a person and here's where i want to tell you this most unbelievable shari chuva which i mentioned a couple of times i love this is one of my favorite things and that's what yeshua screamed from the back it says like this that if a person does of our adam a crisis or mises this is what we're talking about a person did karis had relations before he got married whatever neither et cetera in liquid paragraph he should increase his torah learning image number one and that's why we learn it yoshi's this is the most amazing thing and it goes like this a person didn't have vera he could choose two things he could let hashem take care of it just wait for hashem to take care of it and poof cancer kid goes off to there or he could take matters in his own hand and say i'm gonna choose my surim and how am i going to choose those isurim i'm by torah i'm going to learn torah with yesurim pasha to get up early in the morning that's isurum he could avoid the biggest machis in the world by choosing this this is a reason saying it not me he doesn't sleep like these guys in new york and zoom right now 12 30 in the morning staying up to learn torah yala bimaku just for that it's worth coming to the share today over 100 people in zoom most of them from new york nope from out of town all right biter nemat don't worry about it we're going to make this all up because on thursday there's a very short time so wherever we get we'll get we will finish themselves on thursday don't worry about it what does that mean he lowers the glory of by some action that he takes him we're going to go into also how that happens what that is or he causes other jews to be lenient in different mitzvas that's that's when a person has to die unfortunately [Music] okay so that's it and one of them says i how does the person say about himself ah but i'm a big arnold look at me guy vidalia says no you gotta know it's the name of a person but over here it's not gonna fit in really omarov out there if i don't pay the butcher right away he's going to think that i'm trying to avoid him and that's a tremendous it's in a place that they don't come after you but a place that's normal to call you up and say hey by the way you owe me money send the bill then it's okay like in our days you get a bill in the mail that's normal um and says rashi look at this rashi uh where is it i'm not gonna where is it means that ravina instituted this because of the mother you should know i ravina said that everybody should go collect money otherwise will be a very big just want to say a quick a quick story it's not really going to get to this point but again i don't want to forget it and it it's it's almost like and then what happened but it's somebody came to a river in lake shayman and said that when was a child he played with firecrackers and he blew off his friend's fingers what's the chuva you know what brian lynch said i don't know sometimes things are just somebody came into early action said uh they they a woman she bothered this girl so much she had a nervous breakdown she went with suga what's the truva he said you should have thought about it before you did it so certain things you got to be careful got to be careful abayo he said when he took when he bought meat from two partners you have zuzia you'd pay both of them the full amount to avoid hashem to avoid one of them saying hey i buy it in pay. then you bring both of them together and say okay now how much do i owe you guys you owe me whatever reviews he wouldn't walk in the street without his filling on in those days everybody would worth filling all day long they know how to keep their body clean and that that's the ultimate we should all be certain to that to where to all day long but if he walked out without filming people said what's going on with rubio and they wouldn't realize that he is weak and sick not learning taiwan why are you not learning tiger what's wrong with you about the shabina rav not everybody knows that shibino rav was the god daughter here in eritrea accepted by everybody between the khasinesh and the brisker of he fit in a little period of time he's the dog shibina rav and the chabinerov a kid knocked on his door on chavez and kept on knocking and kept on knocking so he comes to the door and he tells the kid he says you know sometimes people take a nap on chavez why are you so persistent so the kid said oh sorry i didn't i didn't think the rashida sleeps in shabbos so it says that you've been never took a nap on chavez ever again after that myself because a kid is saying a kid thought that the girl out there doesn't doesn't sleep on jabba's how could i sleep i'm saying that how could somebody say that rebecca does the word feeling not going to where it's filling you know how much we love what when do not come knocking on my door i need my shovel snap oh wow the champion why is it that shabby snaps are much more smack on travis than on a monday i don't know why it's months okay but i do have to say that ever since i started ever since i started the daf i used to take these three four hours like what are you gonna do no no not anymore this happens a lot if there's a bad rumor about somebody and even if the rumor is not 100 um what's the word substantiated it's not a but he caused it he did something to cause the rumor even though he's not a he didn't do that thing that's that's a problem his friends are talking about his friends are embarrassed by it you heard this so-and-so this is xyz that's and what do we say about hashem we don't even want to repeat it a person has to die there's no truth with a young kipper when people say hashem should forgive him should bless his soul it's no good that that right there that that statement when people say it it's a bad sign so what's up it could say it should say ace is always es hatoful there's something else going on here what else what is what else is there to hashem you love hashem and that's it he's he's one she is i love this line it's beautiful a person everything he does in his life he has to go with the with the attitude is this creating a kitten hashem yeah i was i was in the mountains going to the mountains driving up the the highway over there the thruway on the side of the road then the same trip i go to walmart over there and i see a commotion a guy threw from guy threw a dirty diaper out of his window in the parking lot in walmart and the like a local guy saw it and he went crazy why do you guys come here so is this messiah or not every action you take is a messiah or not messiaev now a person should learn you should learn and he should serve via tonight does business he does it calmly and nicely might bring someone to love and what do people say look at this look at this froome guy ashtray over shilling ashley rabbi or you have the guy that steals and robs and doesn't pay taxes and this and that and he causes israel hashem takes in that jew that through the torah he brings such a killer when it comes to business he doesn't steal but he takes a little bit the individual and he doesn't talk nicely my bruised armrest and what do they say oh you like the punishment look at this rabbi look at this guy i i love when i learned that the first thing that came to mind is we have this vaccine against kovid la chuva via rifles creates medical advancements in the world of it seems like that the entire hat is uprooted you used to be shayvar it used to be wild guys or whatever the word shiva means the big difference if a person does truva out of love tacos or out of fear i mean we could just imagine to ourselves for a second our children when they come to us because they're scared of something or because they love us and that's why they ask for forgiveness it's great tuba and it really works very well it's to the core but to wait until that point goes all the way to the kisiah covered shrubs goes all the way to kisa covered if i had more time i'll tell you the corny joke but not right now with base sponsored by the mdy telugu for all those you know that in five minutes i can finish this right don't dare me if a person divorces his wife there's a mitzvah to remarry her but if she gets married to somebody else you can no longer ever marry her welcome [Music] come back to me even though you cheated we say this passage every day and not always do we understand what we're saying become like you did it like if you did something on purpose it's as if you did it by accident is like we learned in the beginning of september remember we have three three types we had shoghi exalted mesid uh what else pesha as other so zodian is is on purpose and then it says you only stumbled in in other words took the other and turned it in to kislam so you see that switches it if you do choose not only did they turn into a shy gig but it turns into a horse it's as if you did a mitsubishi with these are various you're going to have sustenance you're going to live because of these how do you live how can you live off in aveira it's not fuel obviously takes that aveda flips it into a mitzvah and then it comes fuel casio camilo he says very very harsh if that's why i'm reading it now even though we don't have time if you do a very very severe average era that's only when you do chuva when you have fear says that if you do he holds if you do chuva gemura out of love even a very very strong aveira hakusho is going to flip it in if you say something not nice to your friend sobbing in the spice the middle of a game of spice meadows this is something you're going to forgive him every time he's especially a man who's having spices with volumes of game supplies with var i don't know if you're going to just forgive him because he asked a few words there even if you do an aveda the some say cesar means you're embarrassed of other people you're not embarrassed of hashem it's like a slave to hashem sort of spies hashem will take your words not only that it was from he considers it like a mitzvah like a good thing hashem considers it as if you brought a carbon shiva is like bringing a carbon chanel [Music] you hear this this is a guy that comes to my house many many shabbas in the last few months he's been in here for three years in a in a program he's off his drugs he's off his everything three years three years mom is doing tremendous every time he comes to my house he has a self-help book in english and he's reading about himself but he went to hasanah just like two months ago in america for two weeks right back down to where he came from right back down he's back on his drugs and alcohol everything he's in the gutter in the street still comes to my house still in my house shops no when a person goes back ask any alcoholic anonymous to put a if a person went to alcoholics anonymous and he has that drink right in front of him right brother he goes to the same place same bar same drink and he doesn't do it that's about truva that is about suga but you know it doesn't mean you should put yourself in that position but if that that nissaian came to you that that exact thing says the gimbal machine review though that same woman that same internet boy malcolm you're the same age and you're in the same place the same situations and you don't repeat that vero now you know you're true about truva um so the the hat is covered you shouldn't if you sinned and the whole world knows about your sin so now you have to do chuva and let people know about it if people don't know about by telling everybody about your head you're making is different than bain odom should we stop here so aveda uh below my coin you have to caber you have to tell the rabbim you don't have a wonderful wonderful day you