Daf Yomi Yoma Daf 35 by R’ Eli Stefansky

i think today was her birthday my mother that's why she's called bruce something like that today tomorrow right around there somewhere also big big news i didn't get a single email from anyone saying oh thank you for reminding me i don't know yeah i might have to do i might not have to do it next year but you know what i remember this year for me just for that tonight tonight there's a sheer right here in the basement at 12 o'clock am it's going to be a tremendous spread sushi ice cream culminate good zach and sponsored by david address from new york from staten island new york so be there last year was during covid and we asked that there shouldn't be too many people and i don't know like 50 60 people showed up we're not going to say anything this year laser hashem there'll be a nice turnout sponsored by ronnie sterling sincere appreciation italian and the mdy team for the efforts to keep the kaburo on the da fyomi track haksamer shkoyakarani david steinloff your side of my father abram ben josef by esther berman lazakhan nishmas si para bas biyam and zev then should have been a leo and by official gross refuel for briana bacientes voiro and abram elizabeth and for the safety of all hailem guarding us here's a good one the zuma whatever collectively asked all md wires that in order to avoid all the group chats being carpet bombed with messages about saying yantev to him let's all please please call or message yeshua and tell him say this fast like your phone is about to die that he's a sadiq a goyin atsum going straight to ganeiden because the sheer wouldn't and couldn't function without him and so he thinks all he wants is everyone to message him every hour of every day and now most importantly to wish him he just ran out of the room wow okay i'm reading this because it has a nice part at the end here usually i don't do this but my email at a tremendous capacity this is a tremendous capacity to see him feel the pain of others and to act on it my mother's ability to do hassan knew no limits and then it says i had the privilege of being your mother student in the early days of shalamus high school her words have inspired me till today every time i pick up my siddha to davin i remember what she taught us in fila class i was fortunate enough to visit with her again in arizona during my seminar here as well you're learning today and every day being aliyah to her neshama you have inspired so many people amongst them my husband ellie berman from strauss bakery and our three sons yashar kayak estee berman brooklyn new york thank you beautiful by larry kazowski from dallas are you late kazowski very belly just got home from shabbos and tuned into your youtube for today's dive i'm really hoping to move to destroy by year's end until such time no watching the mdy sharing learning once a week on zoom with a friend of your slime helps keep me connected no the song everyone's saying tonight before this year really touched me we sang that was beautiful everybody was into it as gevalding please know we are diverting for the safety of our mdy family along with all our brothers and sisters there be safe and wish everyone a safe and joyous shavuous are you late pizzazowski from dallas i'm reading the fresh ones been with you since broadcast base met an old friend rib yosel the shabbos ingredient with the hearty good shabbos ah and he asked me if i heard of mdy turns out he recently joined the halogen diy kabura he was especially enjoying your humorous and special effort into the middle of another i started talking about how abhishal says that we do the dam tamid between the fifth and the second and i couldn't believe it when he told me he wasn't up to it and he's three blocked behind and catching up please give him a shout out to get him to fast forward to today's dive and stop catching up oh it says in the bottom anonymous oh that's right i forgot to say strobe and a raveli ezzer and also lili nishmas david bengishai i should know this right wow race what it does you're only human avi lachman alejandra valley my father is a big talmud of yours it's mashman that avi is not so much a big talmud to see the way he has become a new person joining is amazing to watch that few times anonymously and it's a big time with hakam as well my father turned silver boys if you know big time who just turned 60 and his name is lachman he's the anonymous sponsor of the okay i got it he's an amazing husband father and grandfather he's a lawyer there's another clue here but spends most of his day learning ah he's a lawyer but spends most of his day learning manage today's daf today's daf we're going to talk about it 60 is a milestone so kids he asked over here they should say shout out it would really mean the world to him and there was rebbe thank you so much avi laflin okay and here we go an amazing daf today uh if you haven't been here last night and you didn't listen to this year if you'd notice on the daf today's daf has the longest taisvist in shas it starts on the flaming dalaran bays and goes all the way here as a this is stamp uh no real uh reason why you were here last night unbelievable all right says the gemara the mikvah is enlisted over here why is it called parvo says the gemara my parabol how do you say sorcery what's a better word um magician hey no there's a better word witchcraft witchcraft okay witchcraft is good he was a he practiced witchcraft right now there's amazing taisus here taiser says he brings up aroh and he says that there was a guy and this is mamashinyana you we think when who invented these these tunnels the hamas hamas is using so this says this amgusha guy he created a tunnel because he wanted to peek at the kangaroo during him kippur he wanted to see that vaidha and they caught him they heard the noise and they caught him and because of the story his name was parva so they they named a place after him called lushka's apartment that's what the ark says so we don't forget the story it's a great story parsons my sister why the white linen remember that have to avoid the that of the day i should say the avoider that has to do with the serialized zozo and the the special bloods all that is done in the white clothing the the regular stuff the tamara is in schwein the stuff that's done outside in azor but that in the morning he would wear a shirt that cost 18 hundred he said what happens is 1800 a woman gets ksuba this is just for the people that weren't here last night a woman gets a super of 200 200 is supposed to support a woman for an entire year so 1800 could support a human being for nine years it's a lot of why money the marital why is the mission telling this to us to show us how how much they spent how important it was to have beautiful clothing and the mishna says 18 plus 12 12 for the evening 18 for the morning total 30. but the mission is telling us you shouldn't go less than that amount but what if you take the 30 and you break it up a little bit you do let's say 16 for the morning and 14 for the evening which equals 30 i think so yeah yeah okay so in mela that's okay as long as the morning costs more is is more expensive it's better quality than the evening it has to add up to up to 30. you know it doesn't have to be exactly 18 and 12 it could be 16 and 40. the morning one has to be more valuable minollon how do we know came up with the same song at the same time i'm putting you and me in the same here we go bad bad bad bad same possum four times what's the shot oh my crow move about to teach us that should be the best of the best not stamp bad bad but bad bad bad bad takes four times to get into okay this is a record you came you came you came two minutes late you missed ahmad alev who ever said that um is longer than home base okay victims i heard of some good news about the right kid no he might be waking up today tomorrow he's already off the ventilator he's trying to breathe on his own and they say that he might not have brain damage that's also very very big okay should have her for shleima because and also you should know the mdy kabura is truly one big family somebody spent money to say that we are one big family not just the team what oh yeah the the team is for the mishnah for the mission is only the team this is the entire family the you know the family wouldn't be complete without seth hellman on and i heard that south helmand is on zoom right now so welcome seth he's in college somewhere it's a big surprise to have him on today is so rashi points out that it must be talking about yom kippur that you don't wear shatnas during the that way and that's why it says in the past look you should take off the shatness says an apostle you shouldn't have timer what day of the year are you not allowed to wear shatness yom kippur during this vlog i forgot to tell you i'm sorry we we started a little early that's where in llaman hey you just mentioned it why does the puzzle say you should wear different clothing different different means it has to be better why why different other this means it's supposed to be different so it says you're right it's supposed to be different but not more so we thought that you started off they might have to shiloh how do you start off in the morning with really expensive ones and then you go to the evening it's not as expensive over here it seems like faker you start off with the least expensive and then you go to the more expensive mark no you start over with expensive ones what does a higher mean you you go lower down why do you go lower down because in the evening what are you doing you're removing the mata from the from the kaiser kardashian that's not such a big avoid though the void of caparra that's the important of that's why you have to wear the really expensive clothing cleaning up is not that big of a deal compared to kalpara martini said today's daf is a classic unbelievable ravi nobody each avoided for what it is i don't know it's different different parts of the day different days also avoid the sibor once he's done with avoiding this if his own mother made him his garment lifesaver doesn't mean literally avoid the private it just means to take out the that's considered avoid because it's not coming from like we just said but it has to be owned by the seaboard he has to give it over to the t-board so it's as if he's wearing a communal beggar says the morphito but if he gives it over to the seaboard then it's no longer his private then it's a silver beggar what's the critic that he could do that fight with it we're concerned maybe he won't give it over probably won't he won't do the kenyan properly it says mom's his mother made it for him it has a lot of sentimental value commercial on we're not concerned says much more than the mishna the mishnah was 18 100 50 years worth of food supply ton the live show and that's for one day only you can't wear this again right we said you guys according to our mandamur but he can't wear it again again if you weren't here last night i was explaining when you make a shirt that we take for granted that costs five dollars in order to make that shirt in the time of the base amigos would cost hundreds of thousands of dollars to make it this fine that the thread should be this thin and so perfect and like we have today i don't even know if it was possible to make it but let's say you were going to make it it took you years to make it cost hundreds of thousands of dollars that's how it was so they tried hard they tried to make it beautiful i'm going to see in a second cost 100 mana 50 years worth of food omaro allah of al billah remember this name he's a coin god we had him in the gemara the umar said that in by shaini there was 310 kahanam that died but in the beginning it gave a list of four or five kahanam he's one of them 20 000. mana can you imagine going through all that pain to make him a beautiful shirt you know women make the tallest thing they sit there and they go for months and months before the bremen two boy this is a whole sinus it caused the the finest finest quality comes the day to wear it no sorry we're not letting you wear this today why it was so fine with national car you could see it was a see-through bag it was so thin it was so expensive and thin that you could see through and didn't look good it wasn't proper as the gemaro um is that is that possible here look over here we get to use it today let's see if we can find it this looks kafushi right over here six threads gary you see ah he's on top of his game you see one little threat he's mama like that that's how you get a little thread anyway this is couple shisha it's not as thick as this but here here's the thickness of it so it's so thick yeah it comes it's made out of six small threads so it's a pretty nice size thread so how is it possible that it's see-through here was very much see-through it was like seeing wine through a glass a clear glass it was very very thin you could still make it even thinner than you think it could be i'm sure our threads are also probably made out of many threads microscopic threads so to that toner awesome gemara oni the usher virus everybody goes to shamayim la james room and they start asking questions one of the questions is so i heard just last night from zakharov saying a great story mama's a great story says this guy went up to shamai and they asked him did you learn torah and he said no so you didn't learn tara that's it you're going to get hannah she said oh i have an excuse no excuse i don't know how to read i don't know i read my it's my parents fault my parents never sent me the grader i didn't learn how to read i can't learn torah so wow that's that's a good one we didn't hear that in a while so they got together there's a besden three they decide okay they're gonna give him a passport that he could go into ghanaiden and he could go in to get him he go wherever he wants wherever he wants to go it's unbelievable thing this guy is jumping with joy he pulled off you know his whole life he's mr excuses he just pulled off one in garnet in in another so he takes his passport and he says he wants to go to granada he goes to canadian and uh he goes to the door over there and there's a big mallet he's standing there and says who are you this is uh she says no no you can't just come here you need to lock him to take you who are you no i have a passport was that his passport he said oh sorry okay fine come on in comes in he looks around he doesn't he doesn't recognize anybody he doesn't have any his friends are not there his friends aren't getting him says he sits down he's goodnight then he sits down and they're talking and learning the yuma and zach he doesn't understand a word not a word he's going crazy it's mama she's it's it's making him sugar she decides he's gonna go visit his friends so he leaves he leaves gane then and he goes to get him he goes to get him and the guy says by the door who are you where's it he says i have a passport oh passport okay they let him in and he's sitting around over there in shabbos shabbos there's no there's no fire and he's losing with his friends his friend says you know pretty soon it's monster shabbos it's going to get real hot here real soon so now over here all of a sudden he starts feeling the heat they start the barbecue goes on and he wants out so he uh he runs to the door but what happens in shabbos they switch the malacham she comes to the door the guy says no you can't leave he says what do you mean i can't leave passport pulls out his passport guy looks at it he says i don't i can't read i don't know what i really throws into the fire and the guy just stayed there in other words excuses excuses excuses at the end the excuse is going to come back to bite you do not use excuses with your wildest things love it says gamara like this let's say you have excuses now no one in this room besides yeshua i don't know if he's in the room has heard so many excuses in their life because i'm a recruiter i need to get guys to come do the deaf so wherever i meet you got to come to the deaf and i want to tell you a miso because every single time you go to a guy say how come you should come to the deaf you should learn some torah say uh i can't come to the deaf where i have to take my kids to school in the morning she's like you know busy a.m i don't have a second degree apart every excuse every excuse usually it's the same dumb excuse and then i tell them i call them out on it then you're right you're right okay i'll comment i want to tell you maison almost three years ago three years ago i went to you soccer you saw was doing a hanukkah me and noam we went there we're sitting at the table and the conversation was getting boring so i looked at everybody and i said you guys do the daf you guys learn torah kids back and forth i gave him a little spiel and i left and nom looks at me as we leave he goes what a waste of time why why do you do that like why do you why do you tell these guys didn't you tell me that norm it's good for the story yes yes he said yes he said yes you heard him you heard him the next morning next morning who shows up robert links joseph billiac and joseph miller and guess what they're here till this very day in this year robert come here you got to come here get over here y'all say come here come here bring him up here they have to say joseph miller's in the hospital with his son his son has uh he really needs to refuse lama hopefully everything everything's beside her but he couldn't go come come no i'm you come here also no i'm you telling me you were here by the way no i'm no i'm getting over here come on get over here look at this look at this this three years three years isn't that a is it myself yeah all right what are you all right all right was it was that the first time i met you yes were you there the next morning yes and now you do you edit videos and you're all a big part of this year and you haven't missed a day i just asked that ali sent me afterwards and said that no one said it was a waste said please speaking english nobody understands you okay gevaldic all right the point is i'm giving people lessons here you go to recruit you should recruit people to learn tired and you're going to hear excuses they all have excuses my wife doesn't let then i don't have time i learn already i have a cabrus that means to this is to that get them to come what story levy freeman come here i got a story lady come here get over here well once it's arif spoilers we got to talk about torah get over here tell the story tell the story about the first time you met me this never he came he runs to school he's he owns a school here a very very popular school and he does that solo all day nights he came also in addition without any commission he came to collect money for me for at salah and as he was walking out the door i said levy what's going to be with toyota you learned taiwan yeah yeah that's all so i said you know i give a share it's 7 15. levy came the next morning at 7 15. this is also three years ago and he hasn't what what did i tell him wow jonathan's the best he said the whole story is checker because he's never shown up at 10 15. the first day he did the first day he did what was no point oh i didn't buy his excuse what was your excuse that's all excuses go back to your seat and come on time tomorrow [Applause] says the gemara adivashav rashford ladin lonnie i'm live my name is about toro what's your excuse in the iec i'm very poor victoria bermuda oh i have to work all day l were you as poor as hillel um whatever you call it the traffic very small amount of money every day he made a small amount of money if anybody ever listens to morgan david he has a whole cassette or the record justin yiddish and he has a story it's called hello this is the story right there anybody nobody i know it's who listens to more comedy one day he didn't have money so again he took half the hats of the paranoia if half he gave to the noise in the shower by madrid of his earnings half fifty percent he gave to get into the basement measures and half he used for himself in other words he made very low how much does it cost ready to get into base measures a few bucks that was half of his panasonic unfortunately that day like we learned there's people that from day to day there's people that make money for a month some people think about the year it was day to day but anika sharma because eventually didn't recognize him you stamina he's he went up to the skylight and he started learning from the skyline unbelievable talia and gary garim but they were from the zugos they made it big div that's what he heard was friday why is there no light different shots and different things is it cloudy outside hitsui in they were able to make out a human being in the skylight a silhouette aloo matsuo olav like the size of a mikvah like a refrigerator six feet of snow on top of him per coup verhitsu they under the snow they bathe them and they they anointed it with oil they gave him oil they started uh defrosting him in front of the fire um this person you're right to be michal's shabbos now the question is of course everybody can be impossible to save people a whole bunch of different answers but one of the answers is since he was he he went up there on his own well who says he did he put himself into danger he didn't feel at the first minute okay we got we got we got your points we got your points yes you don't ask him questions okay only i could ask you a question he's done with me and i was with you be careful you you be quiet as well you be careful you what are you what are you doing here let me take care of this okay whatever different shot them different things it was just saying how harsh if he was doesn't mean oh he could be some people say no you could be shots and everybody just okay whatever the shot is i didn't see like a grape shot but the point is there roy they weren't really they had the water they had this is the abundance maybe okay that's okay there's no charge to go on youtube today this is zero excuse me being in your house you don't have to go on a on a skylight just push that youtube button put it on one and a half speed and you're done okay says we have a minute here he's a marshall he's a guy a very wealthy man he was uh he's on a train he's late for a meeting and of course as usual when you're on a train and you're late for a meeting you know what happens the train starts going really slow starts going slow so the guy gets out of the train he starts pushing the train he starts pushing the train so people tell him when you shogun cop you're 150 pound person you're going to push a 100 ton train get back in hakuni china he says no but i'm late i gotta i gotta push the train who gives you paranosa and he decides you're poor you're poor what are you pushing the train for what you think if you're going to work 10 hours it's going to make a difference 12 hours 14 hours this is your this is your lot in life stop pushing the train so big you saw it stop pushing the train make your established so if you have one of those excuses i need to make paranoid i need to walk no you don't have to work 14 hours a day you need to make a stateless whatever your style is at work eight hours a day eight hours is not enough establish halawa should put eight hours in the status of 14 hours a day stop pushing the train you know i was too healthy to learn torah victoria you see you know how many employees i have you know i have going on in my life you have no idea how busy i'm so busy it's very interesting because on earth shabbos i was talking about rebuttal kranzer and without seeing his gemara ayus mukhamed zigmar and said hilom and here's the ashirim were you more are you busier than rebuttal kranzer running this dr friedman who organization surgery 12 14 hours a day but never misses harusa and gives shiurim and everything are you that busy really that busy i don't think so how about nothing seltzer writing books he's a he's uh he's no i'm serious he runs a choir or used to he he uh he's uh he works for noam and teaches in the five different seminaries he gives speeches around the world are you seriously you know how many things this guy has on his head and he puts dedicated time for toro bamas come on i'm not saying he's an officer get over here get over here look at this look at this tell us how it you don't need the mic your voice is so powerful you know you're like what did you move texas though eight years ago eight years ago i'm standing in shul one of chavez and i walks in and he stands on it comes to my bench i stay there wait a second no he was very young and what's your name tell me his name i said wait a second i recognize you from army magazine i'm excited business he was there lunch break and i and i recognized this guy 40 employees i was thinking myself 150 sorry 150. guy vidalia by saying 100 so i want to say here's a guy who gave up i don't want to say how many millions dollars worth of real estate i don't want to say you know but that you know what i told you you told me yeah yeah the filter the filter gets to the bottom line is don't talk about me being busy here's a guy we a business millions of dollars worth of real estate and he's sitting and learning from that is an example the mark but if there's a today version of the gemara they will say are you a person who gave up being a person for millions of dollars real estate and you're busy learning terry for morning tonight are you like that are you like that that's what i'm talking about [Applause] wow what a shirt what is unbelievable [Laughter] jonathan as you said because people complain that they don't hear the he said he feels bad for the guy that this is his very first year like what is going on here mindy get over here mandy get over here you know what i'm going to go to mendy he's not going to come here so this is mandiorbach he had a very very successful diamond business and he gave it up to learn tire all day i'm not joking this is meant the airbag for a boy side i could go through the room here i could go through the room if you don't want to be next run we're running out of time how did that happen what is going on here okay so now we're only it's a it's it's a big karma trust me my karusa told me last year yesterday we're learning goes i could do these two daf in 15 minutes i said i'm sure he could but let's do it in 45 minutes he said no no that i can't that i can't column yeah okay hey man oh you see the target is so wealthy i have too much going on i really like klum usher you saw jose mourinho sir why is it who's biblizer get over here akiva get over here wow look at this here's a kid that can be playing kugaluk and instead he comes to learn every single morning he just answered the answer you know what rebellion is tell them whoever is thank god we just spoke about the wealthy kind of his mother made him a shirt worth a hundred mana he's the kind goddess says the gemara listen how wealthy he was his father left him over he didn't work for it he inherited he didn't stop learning to make money he inherited a thousand don't say that a thousand is a guzma because he asks a great question a thousand cities who connected on a thousand ships who cares why it's connected he left him a thousand cities and a thousand ships what's connect them what was what's the because the kamar wants to say don't think a thousand is an exaggeration like 403. you should know there's actually a thousand ships out there just like there's a thousand cities and just like there's a thousand cities it's a thousand ships it's real real numbers he's a billionaire he would take a a whole sack of flour on the shoulders of mahalo merely ear and he would go from city to city medina better for him wherever he went from place to place like a pauper and he would eat nothing just some flour some bread this is a show nobody should watch undercover boss the guy goes undercover it's a great show he says well why are you watching that it's awesome if you watch it nobody recognize them here's the billionaire the big boss they did they didn't have whatsapp pictures all that stuff they didn't know what he looked like they took him they said hey you you have to work for the for the boss you have to work for vladimir so they made them work they forced labor um i'm begging you about kashmir kim some say he actually paid them off they said no in the life of the boss which was him they were talking to him by the life um anyways he got out of it and it says he never went to see them he didn't care about his employees they didn't know who he was he didn't care about his business he sat and learned it's not a good idea it's not a good idea to leave your business the market doesn't advise it you have to know you have to take care of stuff russia ibrahimovic i'm just saying i'm talking to him not to what the are saying i'm not saying it's not a good idea with blizzard he was just saying something private to me they tell russia there's a huts of a guy he's a russia what's his big excuse not that he didn't know how to read like ribs kyrie wilder's thing's story it might be noisy i was too good looking vitarabe i had too many prouds of the atari for you better looking she kept on changing your clothing morning and evening big guys um i'm gonna i'm gonna twist you into a pretzel you're a nobody i'm gonna make sure you you walk how do you say i'm gonna bug you need in english bent over hashem zoe i'm gonna beat you until you beat it to a pulp this is a tremendous line here you didn't want to be with her about what does that mean big thing maybe people don't know this if somebody's not very shiva whatever they bring him into ghanaian and there's a dog attached to his leg barking and keeps on going wherever he goes everybody comes what's going on that dog is that guy that guy goes with him wherever he goes he yeah he goes to canada but the bizioness the boosha of a dog holding on to him can't get away from that the guy is like the guy and he doesn't understand the word of tyra yeah it's a dog sir says the gemara unbelievable we got to remember this there are no excuses if you're poor they're going to say you're not poor than hello. if you're so wealthy you're so busy you're a doctor whatever you are you're not busier than revelation yet he dedicated his entire life to toro in other words joseph if you have taiwas and you have all sorts of issues and addiction whatever it is not more than josefa tadek so there are no excuses at the end of the day there's no such thing as an excuse says the mishnah sponsored the official mission is sponsored in honor of the entire mdy team oh yeah it's a party so now it could be should we start this on tomorrow night uh tonight i mean no it might be a good idea no yeah you say yeah let's start a new fresh sugar on yantef where boys have a wonderful yantev shimmer [Music] okay [Music] we could have done it huh right now it's still on youtube it's still on youtube you