Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 91 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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out there that put in there's many more people like that and today i'm focusing on yosef it's unbelievable families like new jersey because torah is the best gula parish florida in memory of the 30th yard side of my father-in-law morris dietrich moyesha leo ben sv hersh sixth of sivan and the nineteenth yardside of my father david everbook david rifal ben joseph mendel knight of sivan made in the shamans have and aliyah ra boissa here we go today is this rokhag and as you can see here give me that tray for a second there were many of these trays beautiful trade i mean right now you can't really see but just imagine just for that unbelievable stuff that rabbi mordechai sapaznik donated for the islam and this is what we had a little bit of a snafu the fridge which was on with the light and they they kept it up but somebody thought they did us a favor and they closed the fridge with most of the food inside anyways we got to eat schwitz night we got to eat last night and here's the leftovers it's a mitzvah tea today i don't know if milk is included there's a mix with the myself on yes because it is now another beautiful thing is that we're holding a daft sadiq alif which is 90 90 daf into mesut ozil and we're holding five lines down don't get used to it it's a fluke it doesn't usually happen you're usually behind bas koyen minha truma so the mission says that if a woman has a husband and she thought that her husband died because came and testified that he's dead and she got married so she has to suffer 16 consequences some of them are suffering one of them is bhaskaya and if she's the daughter of a cayenne she can no longer eat truma well the question is if we say that a vast lady is puzzled from my sir so certainly a basque queen should be possible from truma which is more sensitive than myself says the gemara you're right she's also not allowed to eat the rabbit on kind of the tumor that i would think she could no she can't even eat the red butter the continuation of the mishna is another one of the consequences is the yard of jose joshua the inheritors from both husbands her original husband and the second husband she wasn't supposed to marry they cannot inherit her tsuba as the gemara super maya vegeta one of the consequences is that she doesn't get a sub at all so certainly nobody could garrosh in it what's what's going so here it goes there's a guy that has money has a pile of money and he gives it over beerusha to his daughter then this daughter goes ahead and marries rubin so basically he takes over her money and then they have a child his name is his soccer so now is not a problem because now if she dies and the father dies he the little son gets the money that his grandfather left over the problem is that she goes sideways and reuven goes ahead and he marries another woman and they have another child together so now if ruvin goes bye-bye the other child is going to take over the money as well they're going to split a 50-50 it's their father's money and the guy with the the hat and jacket all the way on top he's not happy about this in his grave he wants his urushis and his nursing homes to go to his side of the family he doesn't want to share with other people's children so mellow they say that if he goes bye-bye the money goes only to you saw her that's what indigram in this case since the woman did a no-no she went ahead and she married a second husband so she's going to get punished she's going to get so punished that her own son is not going to inherit her her own son is going to share it with the other son it's not going to go to you soccer it's going to go to your sucker and zavulin she married a second guy she shouldn't have married we're talking about the 16 consequences not in this game going back to aramis though yeah yeah no i'm just this okay let's let me re-explain this is a case of bunning different now take this case and apply tower mishna we have a woman who was married to rubin she heard she got testimony from one witness that her husband died she went ahead and married a second guy so you should know that the super that she had originally with her first husband that stipulated that the money that she received from her father should only go to her children and should not be divided by the husband's other children that stipulation goes out the window and even though it's her money and she one of the knowledges is one of the penalties is that all the children get to share the money says marcito well she lost her ksuba and that whole stipulation is in the ksuba says gemara mao the same with the daughter of the surah she did a bad thing so we're going to punish her lazaro they come to rebound but what the little you sucker do you suffer deserves all the money why did he what's wrong with commercial on nevertheless it's a punishment for her when she knows that her son doesn't get to inherit her whatever belongs to her okay so one of the other 16 things is that neither of the brothers so if she has two husbands a real one the first husband a fake one the second husband if both of those guys go sideways there's no there's there's khalitza but there's no evil who does one brother from each husband officer richard coilette midday rise she's really married to the first guy and the reason why she has to divorce this first guy is because it's a penalty fight so the first guy's brother must do khalid and he doesn't do ibum y mithira al-baran this is part of the kinase of but the second marriage was a joke it never took place because she was already married to the first guy a woman can't be married to two men so the second guy is not even married to her so then why is there a khalito the same thing that we said yesterday that people might say the reason why there's a get we started saying in the beginning we said it's an ass but the reason is that people shouldn't say that somebody's walking around their asian scissors walking around without a gut over here also people shouldn't say that a yoga is walking around without a khalito for me and there's no eboom this for the second guy's brother let me the right have a let me rebutton he was never married to her so if he dies without children there's no human well wow now i just realized what i did okay a very very big booboo very big google i had a chart and i erased my mistake i did this i took the original chart it was a number nine chart and all the way right before sheer i took this and i instead of copying it and right i was a little tired i erased the whole chart that i wanted for the sugar okay we're gonna have to do about ah what a shame what a shame okay should i do it real quickly meanwhile let's go right there [Music] should i move this way let me move this way it doesn't matter how the camera is fixed okay here take it over there maybe because people are going to like uh thank you but that slide leave i need that slide [Music] the one slide i really wanted you got it here it is hold on hold on but i want to be able to go back to the other version okay fine okay we'll go back to the all right this is what i was looking for i've always said this is what i was looking for [Applause] it's not it's a simple simple chart it's simple but it it makes a difference the blue and the green they they they agree with the red the the two the second one two and three agree with one again so what happened there we have a three we have three majors in here we have the tana comma that says she she has 16 consequences comes with realizing says no subah we're not going to take away from her one of the 16 we're not going to take away she gets a suba from the first guy comes rebellizer and says not only that but the first the the first husband gets her metia gets her afar as nadarim he gets to do afar sundarim maisy adele etc so that's mahalak's number two bahalik's number three is reprimand comes along and says no there's actually eboom i'm going to take away another consequence you're saying there's no evil we'll just discuss there's no eboom there are bananas no evil says there is even for the first one and as we discussed yesterday the child is a monster child is not a momser even rabbana don't make him answer so with that being said cause says it sounds confusing but i think that if you have a visual kamae means one and two kamae don't agree to rip shimon they say no no way there's no yibum well she gets a super maybe she she gets a don't exaggerate not evil even too much but shimon of course is going to admit if he says that this hebrew of course he's going to admit that she also gets super of course he's going to admit that she that the husband gets to keep the mice here die i'm sure he might deliver the mabia the ikky surely khan is the main thing here she was we're talking about arias what did she do wrong she went and she was over and it's just ish so we got a penalizer right there where she was over in the asia's dish part the culture gained mitzi also might see the moment and certainly her reminds me to die revelation says i'll tell you why we don't give her a penalty and take away her messiah because it's and everybody admits to the number one over there that's super the two is the easiest to say that she deserves the extroversion why how did the yasma to when he's married he's acting like rasheed says we don't penalize because you're acting as if you're married okay but tsuba is all the way on the way out as she's getting divorced it's the beginning of divorce says rashi so verb everybody doesn't admit supernatural is going to make bach who the icon is aksuba is as you go out there's no kunas aval hadid yasudu say upon us but to act as if we're still married then on that is the canas and says the rivers the top two guys rubiosi or i shouldn't say guys the top two cheetahs rebecca lazar they admit to rabbi shimon pasrae and revelator bic ruby i see my deliberate lazar says i admit to you riba lazar they get the mice that we take away we she gets to keep the mice and dying subah the day lady dolly honest the super goes from the man to the woman and there's no cannas because if they didn't punish the woman and she gets exuba certainly we shouldn't punish the husband and take away his messenger dying who who's the one in the wrong here the woman she went ahead and she married somebody she shouldn't get married and we don't punish her she gets to keep berksuba so certainly we shouldn't punish the husband who didn't do anything wrong he was the hustler he had no that was going on why should he lose all her salary and everything you used to get verbal laws or lay my delay error doesn't admit to him that goes from her to him no class it doesn't make any sense yes what goes from her to him he shouldn't lose out but it goes from him to her she should lose out because she did something wrong but everybody admits from shimon that there is we said in the beginning the red and the blue agree to the green one and two agree to the three um but the evil that happens after me is like okay if i'm not going to penalize her for things that are between her and her husband when they're alive so certainly we're not going to believe something that happens after death there's no reason to penalize the whole point of the penalty is to create a divorce to separate them he's already dead so there's certainly this should be ebook doesn't admit to them he says no yibum yes but no subba no mighty exactly what he just said something that he's gone already and there's nothing between the first husband and her so okay let's continue let's do ebook but but to make a relationship between them to give them something that they have to do with each other we don't want them to have anything to do with each other so mello i made a canas that there is but i think that i'm different is like after it's like one of the tuba if you don't have a super then you don't have one different no i'm saying it it's another step in the xuba it's one of the 16 things listen myself time is also nexuba it's one of the things that super you don't get exuberant you don't get this you don't get this you don't get indifferent what oh he's asking according to a bic that gets yeah why not i i think that yes but but on the other hand you see mice you die i'm not so it's like i don't know i hear it sadik i need you to come back here me says she'll ever show us her voice out here we go these are libra rashi points out it's very important who says this final thing in the mishnah because you can read the mishnah and not know who said it maybe you'll say it's anonymous everybody agrees to it no says rasheed nisa should labor show us again the best type of way to get married with two adam shalom means she didn't get permission from besides because she didn't need permission from vessel two of them showed up and said your husband is dead so she could go back to original husband i don't know if you remember but yesterday last night we had this exact line and the gemara said maybe rav didn't really say it maybe it was inferred from something else or maybe he did say it and the first identical to this just the wording was different maybe that was inferred okay the bottom line is she has permission to remain with her original husband crazy story she's married like the store with the with her moisture but only in the reverse she's married to a man and her her husband disappeared he went to host lars never came back she gets married to another person and they're married for 25 years and they have children and grandchildren and then their original husband shows up i'm back and she says wait a minute i got married i have another family he says too bad the reason why you got married is because two witnesses came and testified i'm dead i'm alive you're really married to me and that is she goes back to the first guy she ignores her husband and his second husband and all the children um you're ganav why are you saying it as if you made this is who said this in the mishnah nieces so all you need to do is say why are you saying are you ignoring the fact that superstition and that what they explained is by ignoring the fact that shimon because shimon is so you might make a whole balagan where you're going with the with the with the singular view against the rabbit so you snuck in he said that is like this don't worry about it and you're going to forget the fact that it's say that it's the author say that's your shipment you're you're acting like a ghana says no i'll tell you why i didn't say it uh sorry he's asking he's feeling like your man if you're older hey look you're shaming just say straight out that that looks like your jimmy this mattress everything the whole mission is going like you mean and if i say i can't do that. look rip she said others that we don't basket like him then what then she gets married based on one aid this eboom remember that chart i can't get to now i don't want to get through it but number three in green is the zebum we don't call the kidamazer anymore but that is not like rip shipment so what now go back let's see you go back big talker evaluating you see number three says the zebu fine no no no jake come here help me i guess she doesn't know oh it's on the bottom okay good okay yo y'all did you get some sleep at least half an hour unbelievable okay if you look in your on your whatsapps you see the the shiram came out at 4 30 5 30. it was he's very busy i mean well okay but there's a way out of that there's a way to fix that and just to say halachaz are kim shimin in the last halacha that if she gets married based on two adam should go back to her original husband tremendous kids amino i think to myself it must be i love rav rabs the galadar and rav never made any mistakes and if he said such a thing that allah is like so and so that is that she can go back to original husband it seems like there's a machicos well he's passing we don't hold like this like this mandolin we're like this mandola there's no mach like us so why is rap saying that like so and so everybody agrees if a woman gets married based on two way them it's a pure inus no matter how many years she's married with the second guy and how many kids she has when she goes back to the first nobody arguing that must be rob was sleeping he was falling asleep he said it and then a half uh we said this a number of times i looked it up very interesting it's the same manda omar it's always refashious eight times in shaas says the same exact words on eight different topics in about rav we have it three times we ready to learn one and i remember saying that it's like kids they have a sleepover and they're schmoozing they want to schmooze until all hours of night it comes already 10 30 and they're like and they say that last word they don't even know what they're saying and they fall asleep that's what he was amazing he's semi-conscious how long it seems like there's a machine might have a little meh bad remember these words because ahmed bayes is one of the easiest dapping miseries of amis it's going to say these words six times in a row six exact answers six times in a row manage the whole dabs the whole on it takes three minutes so my hamilton what what in the world should she do she did everything possible for a human being she listened to the two atem she got married we learned to and okay first of all logically speaking she did everything she can but i'll prove it to you from from uh bryso it says call out if a person marries his own sister does he have to divorce her absolutely not it never caught on a person marries his mother has the divorce and now the only one is one exception to the rule she also has a sis major nieces but not just everybody agrees that if she got married based on two adam you don't need to get money and nothing more proves it elements a little tricky but not not a big deal it's only four lines elim shimon now it must be everybody wants to prove that it's everybody that it's argues on the first part if you're telling me that if it doesn't allow rib shimmer says there's no get at all it says bishop so oh yeah what is this he's hacking around my computer now oh okay so if you look at the screen the top part it says asu beznam by rossan what does that mean beside when they pass in that this lady could get married it's like somebody got married on purpose with a woman so we're going to see it's like forbes shot them here what the gamora wants to say in the first shot is basically she's amazing you don't need to get oh so everybody holds you don't need to get here's the right that everybody holds that if she got married she doesn't need to get let's see inside but there you are what are the what is the what do these words mean they're very difficult words i'll pay them and if she got married based on aiden kishing then it's a shy gig if she got married a native oh so i get lucha means that both cases mazid and shogi no get so it can't be rip shimmy rip shimmy holds that you don't you don't require to get a get if she got married i'm one aide here it says zelda no get and you're telling me abrasive that there is a get so can't be ripped ella rabonnini so you see they're abundant holes so that whole bracelet must be rebounded and then that brace it says that if you a woman gets married based on two of them no get so you see that every i'm trying to prove that everybody in the world holds that if you get married i'll peach they ate them no get so then why did rav have to say that allah is you don't have to you just go back to the first husband forget that i just say no get go back you see from the bracelet that everybody holds that if a woman gets married with two a them she goes back to the original husband and raph said is a big the luck is that if she gets married based on two way them she goes back to the original husband nobody argues on it i'll prove it to you from this bryce the price it must be rabona well if the price is not rabbanon then we could argue that we don't have a proof that abundance say that should go back to the original husband our proof is it doesn't say rabbano but we're saying that it must be rabbit and it can't be ripped shimmy because shimmering argues on that braiser now this whole bryce saw this confusing bryce that says us that president when they tell you to get married it's like amazing and when they when it's it's like so let's explain it not the shot like number one in this chart that the shot is that you don't need to get the shot is also we're going to go through three shot them three more also bending a single woman gets married havana to get married she's with another man because to get married she needs to get not that you don't need a gift for carrot you like by again she doesn't eat again okay that's a one another way it's mama's like a riddle this this bryce how do you explain this price ramashima i have another chat in the riddle lee nisuri katani we're not talking about it yet you're trying to prove whether or not she needs to get doesn't need to get this bryce of the red also basically is not talking about it yet it's just talking about whether or not the person is awesome they said that this woman is an issue and she becomes awesome to her husband i'll pay them because she goes but let me tell you if she got married based on the testimony to aid him she's not also their husband so the bryce is talking about a get okay southern california's base sponsored by moisture horn in honor of pillow zand and sponsored in honor of ellie for the countless lives he's changing another shot in the riddle you see the chart also because lee young carbon katani also basically also didn't each be massive corbin what happened she got upset from beside so she got upset from bed and she doesn't have to bring your car button that's always saying i'm not saying that she doesn't need to get she needs a gut so we have this over here what so especially if a woman does something based on what besan paskins you don't she doesn't suffer the consequence we're going to see something similar soon that if a woman does something based on she doesn't suffer the consequence and i heard i don't know how accurate it is i heard once that some guttal said again don't quote me on this and don't go up to shamayim and say you heard it and share because i don't agree with it a hundred percent but this goddess said that this people come up with the shamayim and they always have excuses i have to take my kids to this after that and i can't come one excuse that really works up there is if a ruff told you you could do it so i'm not exactly sure it's hundred percent accurate in all situations what if you're dumb talking and you know how to learn et cetera fine but in general the rough tells you that's an excuse five alpe adam kishigas ishbisho or massive carbon however if you didn't go to bed then you're past getting things on your own and you're right to passing like that because two adam came and told you that your husband is dead and you got married based on those two eighteen but you didn't go to bed then guess what you're right it's a little stronger than one eight in the basin but you don't have the heterobasin no excuses bring a carbon the boy same uh what no katos b-boy [Music] going back you said the whole price is ripped shimon no it's rabona vitoria talking quotes mages is sh vicinis is rp best then in other words we're sticking in a little wafer it changes everything that all arias don't need to get besides asia that you got married she got married based on two ate them and another case two cases you need to get one case is if she got married based on two of them in one case if she got married based on one eight in best thing she needs to get from the second guy says the gemara masabula here comes the very easy gemara it's six cases exactly basically the same and the gemara is going to answer pretty much the same answer in all six and very very simple stuff miyamino may have a lot do we say this idea if she got married based on 2a then what should she do it's not her fault but what about a guy that gives a get kosovo again is you're supposed to write the the the kingdom that's where you live in you live in rome so you're right uh 25 years to the to the king of rome you live in england to the queen of england there are seven years to the queen of england right but what if you are in england and you write a roman king than the guerrillas apostle israel because of america if you're in england you said you're in france but mary because of israel hates him is that an apostle for the most part listen to this this we have to remember means all the 16 consequences of our mishna she needs to get from from from him but she loses her subah she loses her mice he dies all these things we applied to her vamai question layma might have a lullaby what should she do she gotta get she went to the cypher this is what he wrote it's her fault that he wrote roman there is she should have brought the get to the hakam says rashi maybe she doesn't know how to read so you bring it to somebody knows how to read these things bring it to the lawyer let him look it over the document somebody said once that there was an insurance company that put in you know the tiny letters and everybody clicks at the end it says so you go through all the documents and you click at the end accept so they put in there if you can read these words tell us you get ten thousand dollars somebody wanted a church company did it until somebody caught it nobody ever reads those words ibaile maker you should have read it omarav shimibarashi toshima hakonesis so we're talking about yibom and khalitza a guy performs ibum so if he performs zebra what happens the second wife is spring clear she get married whoever she wants vanences zoo island is going back here it says in the possible harshest talent she has to be able to have a child and she's an islandist so she it doesn't exist the whole thing didn't happen venus is violent so she the second wife who got married to somebody else had no right to get married why because the eboom that he did to the islanders didn't take place at all times and because she didn't whatever she did we'll see in a second as to gemara why should she suffer consequence 16 consequences vamai neyman may have she saw her sarah getting miyabim from the brother so she figured i'm free and she went to get married she should have had patience as one of the doilum said i think is her statement the three recipes the three ingredients in a good marriage are patience patience patience and she didn't have patience and she gets punished for the same where is this oh check this out i found this this is from that base remember confusing i made that face i feel bad that that bait is going to be all good smiling cartoons here it is you have two brothers with a crooked line i could i didn't even know how to make the line straight there's a little trick with the shift button you can make it fine so the two brothers you have and what's their name over here not this one yeah tv and i can't even read it dr ahri baldman goes sideways but he's married with two blue lines to uh uh the burka lady and the you show me ladies you can't even see the two blue lines but he's married to two women and one of the women happens to be the daughter of shimon we call him today's shimon then he was i don't know avi ahri ari balman okay so what happened that's the first missionary obamas so because he can't marry his daughter so the the tsar the burka lady also goes out without anything the problem is it turns out that his daughter is an islanders so if his daughter is an islanders then he then the brother was never married to her the guy that died was never married to the island this is mecca and then therefore the burka lady is a real yavama so the real yobama shouldn't have got married berkeley went found the nice you shot me somewhere and they got married she shouldn't have and she gets she gets 16 penalties 16 consequences oh she has to get divorced from everybody and she gets the 16 consequences i have a little member what you should do ebola she should have waited around oh my ravage of soy forget-ish the server writes two documents a get but also a receipt that the woman says i got the sub everything's paid off the the tata goes ahead and with tav and also he has two documents in his hand he gives one document to the husband that happens to be the receipt and he gives the get to the woman the woman gives the receipt to the husband she divorces the husband and the husband she gives the gut so she's divorcing the husband and the husband doesn't divorce the wife he just gives her a receipt and they didn't even open up the document 10 years later they have 16 children from different husbands and this and that she opens up the documentary what's going on here i have a guest i have a i have her seat in my hand and he opens up pins and he has to get tight they couldn't believe what they saw she has to get divorced from her new husband she gets 16 penalties remember what you should do like she should have opened it up and read it at least give it to the to the rav umar avashi mashinashi miroshimi raw if they put his name his name is yanko they put ghetzel the shame heroic they put france uh paris instead of romance machete miro takes himself and said it's a puzzle again the whole drawing of she has 16 consequences but my name on my avalormen what you should do you boy like really guitar here it's called some say it's a ball magette here we have basically when a ball been good no so the shot is like this i got to show you it's beautiful it's going to take a minute and we don't have time so it goes like this gekkirayak means it's a ghetto kusher so because we don't want a cain who has a temper to go ahead and divorce his wife real quickly and he'll never be able to get married again especially not to her and even not if so not to her it won't be able to be masturbating but he won't find any so we make it very complicated we say like this here he's gonna when they write to get they go like this so now you have this so they tell them okay now you write one line you have to fold it over fold it over like that let's say it's not midweek but okay now they go they have to they have to sew it over here so it over here comes the aid 1 8 and he writes his name whatever fine he signs his name then they continue writing you see what's going on here this takes hours it's a it's a balagan he writes more and then they don't fold it like this they fold it like this over they leave a little space and then it's a whole thing that he takes this and he folds it back over here and then they saw it they sew it then another guy comes all right grace avi ben gets uh whatever five and he writes like that now you have to wait then it continues they're right like this okay now you get the idea at least three times like that they fold it over yeah and then like this fine now you have a whole fan and another guy a third aide right bearish ben claiming numbness fine and then okay five three what happened was that right over here it was missing it was kireia who's bald he was missing one of the adam he had one two it was the third one kireia so it's so complicated to do that the coin by the time he does it he calms down you have to take a breath a deep breath and he's not going to divorce his wife says [Music] and then she gets all the penalties why what should she do you buy like you should have seen that one of the one of the guys is missing papa wanted to marry off a woman based on the fact two two witnesses came and they said the husband is dead and he said might have a little merman she she's highness she's let her get married only ravenna shoulder papa thank god all these six things we just said seems like you don't say might have a lot of men yes each and every one we answer the same thing that she should have read and she showed this but at the end of the day we don't see my malay no we answered it based on the answers you're going to go and let her get married so he didn't do it and that's how we passed him bamas ravoisai have a wonderful day you