Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 87 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rap boys [Music] massimo rossi rules mordechai ah what a day what a day right saying goodbye to seth hellman a big big member of the share a guest of mine for the last how many days three four days how many minutes did we spend together three four [Laughter] i apologize but i hope the bed was good we hung out we hung out a little bit the floyd revelli first of all hashem two days ago daf was 300 days from when i started with you on sukko dafthoff 300 days nothing compared to 900 days but for me being a non-consistent kind of person like myself i'm seriously blown away for myself but again i'm thinking that i made it till here no it's tremendous it does it changes personalities this time it's unbelievable second of all last night my brother-in-law danny something like that who was a lot of inspiration to me continued that got engaged to is from cedarhurst my first cousin your first cousin oh oh oh listen to this listen to this listen to this that's what he's saying here now as i'm driving from borough park to the time i was thinking i'm probably not going to know anyone there especially since they're not see this then as i walked in i see that a brother of romney galas is wearing an mdy cap everything instantly changed i went over to him as if i knew him for the last 20 years and schmoozed away and really felt comfortable like family from the first second i got there mby is a true family thank you so much i have a wonderful yante of simcha shmuel salomon beautiful oh you got him to start so now you made some you see how it works this is what wow about it now boys here we have one of the best old timers we're still doing this contest i think from official the kid with the i've no i lost there's no way everyone is better than the next look listen to this one you ready she can say good morning really is the stick of swear with that but let's knock them all okay okay this guy is very insistent he doesn't want to say his name he sent a bunch of emails i'll 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before you miss the greatest opportunity in the world he told me yesterday stop sending him material for his spiel for purim he has plenty kaya fix your mother is on top of things with her money though i want to see you start coughing up a little bit right now see me for a four slam on good test results for lyella layla devorah bathurst is that how you pronounce it something like that leila devorah about that and good results today is the 47th day of the aimer also i want to tell you like this i was at usher lehman's uh funeral last night in chamgar and his son marcus lehmann spoke brilliantly and i took one very very small nakutu that he said but it made a very lasting impression on me he said and i think about it when i say this how you would react to this i couldn't believe this he said his father he's yaki the yakis and his father is always on time for davening but the few times on matsusavas he said that one time he came up to shabbos five seconds late to the minion meaning he missed barco but he's right there for the first bracha he said no we're going to go to the other shoal that's a half hour later and david myers over there the show for the 72. i thought it's unbelievable i uh you know most of us probably would just do the barcode after my rivet and try my troll you know you're there already starting wait a half hour on a monster shop is we have things to do with that hour and then i thought to myself what an unbelievable lesson that is the kid sees this the kid sees how serious his father is about bhavani and it's unbelievable what's the word um [Music] no but like uh subliminal subliminal uh message and then as i'm walking here i said yes look at my son-in-law my son-in-law one of his biggest things is fila he's huge in fila and maybe that's where he got it from so then someone should have an aliyah and we could take uh this message tremendously a small story but it made a tremendous ratio on me today we are starting from a brand new mishna hopefully we finished the perk today this mission is sponsored and honestly for escrows for his wife and children the sight of the mishna is as we've been learning up until now is that when a woman gets married let's say a bassy stroller marries a cayenne or a basque queen marries or you stroll or if as a child marries a lady the aside is we always go by the husband always so whatever her latest husband is she can marry three men she can marry straw then a lady then a cayenne we go by her husband the coin and if the husband dies so we go backwards or if the husband dies and left the child so it's as if the husband is still alive so we still go by the latest husband if so by the way nachman is not here so i could say that i found the rashi in a sorry sin kidus rashi says i didn't want to infuse here i wouldn't bring it up but she says that those levine they bit off their fingers with their teeth and it's an answer that but don't tell him he's not going to watch it and nobody has to tell him as long as you guys know basis so if a israelis marries a cayenne she shikari truma y she becomes kenyan kaspai he acquired her so to speak and she starts eating truma meis vallahi meno ben and if he dies the kind dies and they have a child together oh i did a chart for this here let's see how it works here we have abbasi sro who married a cayenne so check mark truma check out check out the chart look what happens here oh so the client goes bye-bye she can't eat true anymore what happens next step she has a child she could eat rumor now if she gets married to a lady do you see how that happened let's do it again uh uh oh she marries a lady ah get over here get over here lady factor if she marries the lady then she eats myself she goes by the second now it goes by the husband it always goes by the husband now she's married to levy she drops the truma picks up my sir i she has a son from the us the coin she's still married she still has a son from that client still alive no mice now yeah why not you suck it again now the lady goes by don't say well dr factor it's not a cool thing lady goes bye-bye she stops eating my sir if she has this child from the lady then she could eat meister then she goes ahead and she marries you swall step three then no more miser it says why on his shirt you stroll if he goes bye-bye the baby goes by the way sometimes unfortunately so now this is a huge huge kiddush she goes all the way back to the first to step one you would think that step one is out of here the a lady came into the into the situation she's she's done with that kind now you you remove the layers and you start peeling things back for that you need a pasta of course but that's a huge that it goes back because she has a son from the client she starts eating truma again from the cayenne the lady died yeah that all the layers do you see the ladies sideways the ladies child the sideways what yeah because if the baby lady was alive she would only nicer it's as if her husband is alive she would eat myself because baby lady died then she you you race that whole level and she goes back to truma let's see inside basis don't worry that that whole chart only took me five minutes some seder basis is now you have to just stick in here if you're writing with your pencil and then she marries niece's lady not it's a not a new story it's a continuation she was married to the cayenne she was eating truma he died she has a son from him she's eating trauma then she goes and picks up a lady toy habermeister then she eats my sir and not shruma from the coin mace beloy menu ben the lady dies and i don't know we don't have to go back there right you saw okay fine i'd just like to see how the lady dies hold on a second here we go wow okay this is this raw but then she goes and she marries israel like her life sir that's it she's like you stroll now it goes by her latest husband mace william in a band and if this role has a son not in the picture lloyd toy hallelujah my sir if the israel left over her son it's as if she's still married to the israel and it goes by the marriage to the last guy no truman no myself but if the sun from the israel dies toyotameister then it goes up one step and she starts eating through myself makes banana levy and if the sun from the lady dies like over here then goes up all the way to the top and she eats shruma may's been on my cayenne and if her son from the kind dies and she is don't forget that she is all the way here she's called a passy straw so therefore if she has no relation to her original husband she doesn't even have a son from him so she goes back all the way to the original status which is uh she goes back to her father's house so to speak she's a strong she doesn't need truma like that he's dying new situation the same idea but this time it's abbas calling chinese ro the daughter of a cayenne who gets to eat rumor because she was born into kahuna but she marries israel the israel rusev ruins of her loya why not because for this we need a possum that says oh if she goes back to her father's house then she could eat truma but as long as she's married to yisroel and she didn't go back to her father's house then she cannot eat truma mace if he dies this is raw his earth teach rumor the loya menu ben but he he had a child with her she has a son a israel what's that she can't eat truma because it's as if she's still married to the israel nieces lady now if you notice we're going in reverse over here before we started with the top with the cayenne we went a little bit lower to levy then went to the lowest least roll over here we're starting with the lowest and we're going to the lady to the kite and we're going to say that the cayenne wins which is very interesting when you have children from a kind lady stroll what do you eat do you eat you don't eat anything so how come in this case you do eat you need troom over here she has a child from everybody she's going to eat remote oh just pay attention that's why i'm saying you paid attention this yesterday here look at this because it goes in the order what happened what happened first what happened second what happened third you're right lady because lady because it started with a cayenne then the lady ruined it for the kind and the show ruling for the for the for the lady but if you start from the stroll then she picks it up from the lady and she takes to the next level for the client so it goes by whoever came in afterwards vasco in chinese destroyed she started off with this throat like titanic makes me lay me in a band but she has his child for a minute let's talk about druma she's as if she's married to him this is lady and then she goes she marries the lady to her meister she could eat my cereal because she's married to levy may suleiman ben and if he dies and she has a child remember myself continues nieces like and then she takes the highest level of truma why because it goes in order now the third guy is the most powerful one he's the kayan he gives her truma meislem in a band he dies but he left over a kind child now we go reverse now he's step by step the last step was a cayenne so now the kind son dies so what does she eat she's my sir because now she went up to the level of the lady mae's been on my levy now she doesn't even have a child from the lady lori taylor so she can't evice her anymore she goes back up to her husband the israel makes banami's troll now she happens to be a basque cry and don't forget that we're talking about a different type of woman there she's the best kind of astrologer first guys so now is she goes back to her father's house to cayenne and she could eat true hmm it's a good cash she's asking they talk about it this is one of the saddest the mishnais in chas because these a lot of people died here he's just asking that she's a catalanos okay it's a point some some answer is question that the catholics means that if somebody a woman that had two husbands that died she shouldn't marry another husband but over here since she already had children maybe it's not a catalanos the other thing i was thinking i don't remember exactly but well we learned over there and i have to i didn't look it up i just my memory is terrible but i do remember there was something about that if he fell off a ladder it's different the circumstance if he if he died out of a disease so it's her but if he got hit by a car it's not her fault you know so we said maybe i don't know if that would have that's how we made them what's going on what unless you was driving right you didn't say that then but yeah okay fight i don't know that's not the point the point of the mission is if this happened the guy she was over in a cutlass and she got married whatever the thing is she goes all the way back after she has all these husbands that died she goes back to her father's house and she eats truma as she started out her life with says the gemara mesa melevi so in the case of uh okay wherever it was may's been on my levy alberto if her son the lady in the first case we're talking about the first kiss you have a bassist role in merida cayenne then she married a lady she had a son from the cayenne she had a son from the lady and then her son from the the lady dies so it says we peel all these kids away and she goes all the way out she keeps climbing up and up going backwards and backwards that's a huge finish we would never say such ourselves daddy know that she could eat because of her sunday client this is the case over here but whatever everybody dies over here and mma law she goes back to the kind of abba amarav bas ubas so if you look at this pasuk the first word ubas cayenne de vav is extra i could just say pascoin so we learned from the extrav command keep it rebecca darshan's the the letter of says gemara and that's the problem because he's a yorkie says [Music] you could go according to rabonon kula obas kroy thiru yusera who if you look over here prosecute base says ubas coincide etc so then prosecute gimbal so just say kisia that same woman that i said in possibility base continue that woman why say uh as if we're talking about a new woman so the whole passage is extra the whole all those words are extra and it teaches us that our right over here that she could go back all the way to the cayenne you throw lady die off she goes back to the coin again when she goes back but we're going to have a massive criticism when she the the daughter of a cayenne who her entire life was eating shlomon her father would bring home from the very same dash the breast and the thigh of the of the carbon and defeated his daughter she gets married to israel she loses the truma and the hazard and choice the israel dies doesn't leave a child she goes back to her father's house and he needs to eat fruit but not the schlemming she doesn't eat we're going to see a massive hidden massive that if we were talking about abbasi surow who goes backwards she does get to eat kosovo she's better off than the daughter of a client we'll see in a second where do we see this from he from the slav she shouldn't indeed special there's a kosovo she doesn't eat meat she gets to eat the fruit the bread but not the meat we have a number of shot them here mee lachem the extra mem if you look in the passage you don't have to see it but let's just say means from the bread not all the bread some of the bread she doesn't get to eat all the food rashi says you see what chatser they call the entire feast you call a big pseudo with with the wine and uh and uh and meat you call everything let him so me love him she's not gonna eat all of the food in her father's house only the fruits the truma but not the meat brotherhood this is very interesting i mean i found it slightly difficult maybe lechem doesn't really mean food it means the idea that once she gets divorced or she loses her husband her father no longer has the ability to null her nadara amirava that can be you can't say that the word meelachim comes that far is not because of what you're thinking that luck has nothing to do with the verse no it does mean the means all the things that she had before it doesn't go back but rather says a different shot for pascal taunted the very small now we already learned from a different place so mabel if we learn from a different place the word milacam comes to exclude khazrick so let me just show you real quickly what's going on here for a second very interesting good to do on this and and get a clark who could be made for another of a naira a 12 year old between 12 and 13 and 12 and a half so if she's not married in the blue her father if she's completely married in red her husband if she's an arusa she received kidushin it's both the father and the husband if so ask the gemara what's this pasta coming to tell us says vineder almano grusha if she got divorced or she lost her husband nobody could be made for another well of course nobody can be made for another if she's single her father's maefer if she's married her husband is maefer she doesn't have a husband she lost her father as soon as she got married she's no longer under his authority and her husband that was she was under his authority died so may potatoes that the father could be mafia sigmar says they must be coming to say something else she already left her father's rashos she already lost her husband why would anything goes back she already left it left once it left left but here we're going to see here you saw it here the in in the dharm is a little different because once you give up that ability to be made you can't go back here look at this for a second it's a little bit of an interesting thing horatio master i have i have a cartoon here for a second i don't know if you can see it if a father says goodbye to his daughter from that moment that he says goodbye she's engaged so when she's engaged it's both the father and the husband or the hassan they together but with a partnership they inaudib but once the father says adios she left his house it could be one foot away from the house that's it he look he gave up that ability it never comes back how do we know that from this apostle uh and she didn't even make it to her husband she's still in her russo she her husband died when she they were still like engaged they kind of care about well what do i do sevilla zouay baseball the stoop sugar they say the word bias but she's neither he already said goodbye to her so he's not in the house she's not in the house of the father there's certainly not a house to the husband she never made it there and the story since she she left that's it you can't do that far some dog reps after omar how do i know i learn from here it's the name of a restaurant should be it's very interesting we're learning as we go along here red papa says when uh a father receives shlaman from the visa it's not his it's shirayim from prague it's coming directly from it's not his to do whatever he wants with it so therefore when the puzzle says her father's bread it can't be referring to the islamic it's not his truman says truma can be a woman whether he can do whatever he wants your daughter is with you it only works when they're with you and that's it she left chalmers tonight so this we learned when okay she gets back to her father's house she only goes back for truman however if uh she let's say a bastion stroll marries a coin and she has a child with him and he dies and then she marry somebody else so in this case where everybody goes bye-bye and she goes all the way up to the cayenne then she could eat a husband stripe you hear what's going on here the the top kid is alive over here the client's kid is alive levy's kid is not in this okay that's not a great picture the the troll also has to go bye-bye does everybody's bye-bye on the bottom level she has one kid she could eat joseph you hear what's going on here what's the big kiddish a bass coin herself who goes back to her father's house doesn't eat like but this israel lady who lost all her husbands and her children on the way and she has one child from makaya yeah but if she herself is a sarah of a cayenne she herself is a kind she can eat yeah or if she went to her own kind father she doesn't need okay but listen to the gemara says gimbal also rather kind of motherless remark i said it over there oh my gosh how do you know this whole thing from the the the adifo let me know how is she better than the woman that you learned her from says it's because it's a special exclusion for the daughter of a client and there's no exclusion for the daughter of israel okay it's exercise and the story bass consciously throw a voice mask of them if a woman still is kuka her husband dies and she has a so she's attached to who to the album she's she didn't go back to her father's house yet it's not considered going back she might be sleeping there but she's not in her father's house because she's attached with a invisible string to her yava so that we learned from the shovel besovia she has to go back and she's not back quinurel the puzzle says canurel what do we learn from oh by the way here it is so i did do that here they are the following chart is they are gone and then she gets close of a shark okay fine we just had to push a button kinora in blue pratt the move bearish this we had also she has to go back and likes you when she was young the same status but she's not in the same status because she's pregnant so someone who's pregnant doesn't eat truma if a woman was married to israel and she's pregnant with his baby she cannot eat the trump of her father's house says the gemara why do i need a pasta quinoa um if a woman was married to two men at two different times man one she had a child with men too she didn't have a child with shikhai bibum no rabbis we just we're finishing his second sevens today she had a child from one man and she didn't have a child from her second husband kai bibum one one stranger has nothing to do with the other stranger okay so in the case of a a child from the first husband doesn't help at all she has to do eboom also uber sorry um administration giveaway also uber nevertheless if she is pregnant with her second husband's baby there's no yeebo so you see pregnancy counts for yi bomb a first child doesn't count for evil malcolm when it comes to truma if she has a baby from the first guy who's israel she can't eat truma any baby anywhere ruins it for her it's not like evil it's the opposite of ebon even when it goes by the husband each husband we look does she have a baby from him no evil but in truma as long as she has a baby somewhere along the line then it could ruin her trauma if she was a bad and he didn't ask uber so certainly why do we need a positive to say that a pregnant woman is as if she had a baby of course if by evil we say that a pregnant woman is like she has she has a child and she doesn't need to give him so certainly by truma it's as if it's she has a child and she ruined it so mother says no i do need a pasta that's telling me that that a pregnant woman ruins it for truman look mali also uber lean what happens let's think about this for a second we all know a person had a child and then he died does his wife follow ebon no because he has a child and then the child died rabbi said no because it goes by the time of the miso since when he died he had a child it wouldn't be appropriate like uh she gets married to somebody and then all of a sudden the child dies and what now now what does she need it doesn't work nasa uber or by truma you don't make a dead kid like a live kid okay amazing we'll leave all the jokes for later tomorrow probably since i can't learn advocate i need kenure says gemara okay so i know that that a pregnant woman has a lock as if she had a child for the album there's no yi boom so then why do i need a special possum to say that if she has a child there's no evil even a pregnant woman doesn't do ibum so certainly if she has a child there's no okay says that's because she went in with one body now she has two she has a child hamu berez gufa srika when she left her father's house she had an empty stomach bashed to go for mallion she has a full stomach i was there hey law did my career go for srika ashleigh versus she came empty now she's empty hey malloy maybe she goes back to father's house to eat no srihar says simon oh sponsor sponsored in honor of hillel zen we changed the launch in there so i apologize if hillel was offended i don't know who he is and what he is uh obviously it wasn't so good the other one in honor of hillson sponsored in honor of ellie simmons yesterday i came to the coil i told my havrusa and from the very body i said i have a question for the digital test that you're going to fail on what is the simmons on that piece i know base so of course my coverage how to tell it to me word for word he made fun of me that should be the question what do you mean i guess it works for him simon here we have three things very very positive don't get confused if a woman is pregnant in blue then she doesn't eat truma it's as if she has a child from her swell husband so she can't eat rumor and it's as if she has a child from her husband so she's not available for evil so pregnancy ruins it for ye ruins the evil ruins of truma so to speak if she has a son from the first husband so she doesn't eat truma her swell husband she has a son from his swell husband her first husband she doesn't eat tremor and if she has a son from her first husband but not from the second husband she's still kaya meibom but when it comes to mesenchym if the son dies so it's the reverse if the sun dies as we learned the whole mission right sun dies then you just go backwards you start you eat truma and if a son dies you don't do ebon as long as the husband died with the sun at the time of the mesa edison it's just because he died later not they're far away from each other but the murderer makes a whole mishmash here we can do cava farmers one from the other how it's the same idea over and over that if a child dies all the way in the bottom the child dies then you shouldn't eat truma um in a case where if one of the husbands her one of her husbands had a child so she can't eat rumor because of that child may seem so if you look at the bottom green like when it comes to truma you don't say that ah i had a child from him but he's dead right if the child dies she reverts backwards well you don't say oh that child is like a life child no that child is not a life child loyalist amazing welcome vladimir cheney lipotroni it doesn't work that one of her husbands had a child to make a reporter for you and eventually is an amazing thing when it comes to the torah you can be guaranteed that attire never makes you do something that's uncomfortable that's that's not pleasant everything is somebody pointed out that mdy is on and of course mdy run by nyam fix noah anyway so it's impossible to say that later on what she's going to be high of khalid middle of a marriage her husband's going to be disgusted by the whole situation impossible says the bottom one instead of having a check mark by truma and saying that ju that if the son died she goes back and she does eat tremor we should say no if the son dies she should remain in that each room or why have a cabbage of been a reason it's the same kind of idea over and over again when it comes to eboom le patron evil we don't say just because she had a child from one husband she doesn't have to do even from the second husband nevertheless us if one of those husbands had a child who died you don't do ibum because the dead is like the live when it comes to eboom so certainly malcolm x is as long as she has some child somewhere from somebody it ruins if it's amazing so if the kid dies she should still be awesome truman thomas zera fortune in the positive she doesn't have a child he's dead so she does eat rumors we should say that if a woman had two husbands and the second one died without children she shouldn't do ye bomb why because i have a cava claim from truma when it comes to truma all the way in the bottom it's checkmark you don't say that the dead is like alive once the kid dies it's over she has no connection to that husband nevertheless of love in a reason but if she has some sort of child from a different husband it ruins it for her bhagavad-gita is amazing when it comes to evil a dead child is like a child and you don't do eboom leaving addiction that's live in a region at the end of the day the second husband doesn't have a child so she's [Music] if just because she has a child somewhere from one of the husbands it shouldn't ruin her trauma why because i have a catholic um [Music] she doesn't have any descendants yeshua and mma law i don't learn the kawak this is then the ivamus we just made a scene on your vamas from here on out is a different sector 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