Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 80 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rob boyce [Music] massimi hi rebelli my name is ellie bernstein from cape town south africa i'm 14 years old i've been doing the dive with you for quite a while i love your sense of humor and would really love to meet you in person please come to cape town thank you for teaching me i've attached the photo my grandfather took me doing the daff while cutting out something on the scroll saw a real wood wood workshop there i used to do a lot of wood working and i'm very impressed over there okay i don't know if you remember me but i came to you for shabbos miller black consultants there too this is eight years ago malcolm you remember this guy yeah you do nakamura remembers it when you had just moved to the chat match you invited come over to shabbos i remember my favorite line you said by the mail is you know why i love israel better than america because the rookiness is better and the gas means is better fast forwarding six years i think it's more like eight years i'm back in america working at b h and found yeshir so happy i joined at first i thought it was your commitment to thank you for me but you made it approachable incredibly engaging enjoying the share thanks for all the effort looking forward to coming back there's 12 to join this year live in person all the best schwall david bell the picture is me working donating some gamoras during my break i don't know what that means but it's kashmir to do that david kramer my son is friendly with the cousin of salman see our text conversation below if i recall this cousin went to tel aviv university the day before he's supposed to come back to america he called for the first time where mordecai orbach was receiving tel aviv he said hi mordecai just wanted to say hi i'm your cousin from america rav mordecai invited him over and now he's raising a firm family in israel and it says over here in the text and this is what my habusa my rebbe told me that he believes that this horse the people in america the this going back to the story with the kramer with the oil box in america they sent ripped lemons almond they used to support him and over here it says in the text that they sent him a refrigerator back in the day you can imagine what that was and uh it was enormous luxury in those days and he believes that was disgust that he was able to because of trouba six months ago avid mdy enthusiasts good luck pronouncing that enthusiast of course the delegate is entirely the main dish but the appetizer banter camaraderie and emails are definitely a big part of the feast that being said i have an interesting request when i first started listening to you share no two weeks would pass without you reading a yearly double special whether it's about the dopamine war his football play of mystium taivan daphne his lavish seems in essen del contestan i always felt like we were being the kind the sheet of having a true thought provoking music to enhance that day's learning the last few months has been a 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gula today is the 40th day in the mirror and we are holding the intest raboy said don't forget the moti shop is purchased by midbar wow it's on the screen already share is going to be in yerushalayim don't be shy just like the urushalami's come here every day there's at least one or two guys from shaliam and sheer you guys could come out to shalom and say it's okay it's not going to hurt anybody and uh we'll see you there at the regular time 10 o'clock mata shabbas at yeshivas in the siva's that's my brother was ishiba which happens to be strauss a very very famous piece of land in your slime where many day were born and brought up he bought that piece of property and he has a yeshiva there hello my rava that's what we're holding it's like the first white line the question is as follows how is the yavama who the album is a srima cannot marry anyone can't marry the obama so there shouldn't be any connection according to revokiva because according to revikivo we're talking about kaivi lavin the create so then the zika shouldn't there shouldn't be any zika no zika according to everybody else there is zika it's only a lav a monster is from heavy creases but according to rebecca so that should cut any connection between them and that she shouldn't even be required to have khalidzo so what was the answer we said yesterday we're talking about a guilleress but then we brought a whole bright soul written by rebecca himself that says kahau we're not talking about gears we're talking about somebody somebody was born ffb not ffb but jewish from birth jfb such a thing okay great terrorists they got married legally it was a regular though everything was good until he got into a car accident and then mela that moment so now the the of them not forget the marriage he fell lee boom when he was a regular person after before he had a chance to be me abam accident so yeeba mazar because now he's he's illegal to get married her but requires a khalita they still have a connection they had a connection when initially when he felt liberal when she felt evil [Music] we have to go back to this case and we have his fouls it's been a while since we had these cases maybe i'll take this off it's not working oh it's kind of small today you have ruvain and shimon married to two sisters the reason why they don't look like six sisters today but they are is because one of them is a katana the one married to shem is the katana but the sisters believe me the sisters when ruben goes bye bye does the sister foley boom to shiman two sisters cannot be married to one man but because shimon's wife is a katana she is the isaima who was married off only made the rabbana by her mother so now we have a dilemma we have the rice yi bomb waiting to occur but it can't happen because shimon's already married to the sisters inaudible two sisters but he's not really married there's only the rabbana married so if she's martin she tells him i don't want to be married to you so then we figure out that retroactively she was never married to him and now it could be me abhim ruben's wife says the gemara but according to ringgum leo [Music] in mia nomina we don't tell her to do so we don't we don't train her to do that vim laugh and if she doesn't want to and he doesn't want to he likes the younger one he wants to be married to her and he doesn't want to be toilets the older one why because if then should turn his own young wife will turn into achilles so what do we do tim did not should take the she wait until she gets older now she can legally midair get married then the obama is going to be bumped out of there so what happens you have an issue of achieving which is going to get rid of the ibum the obama alma you see israel the israel pushes off the mitzvah of even by the way shalom alaikum i forgot to say my life to my guest what's your name don't worry you're on video he got you you mama's over here you don't have to that's the whole mile of sitting next to him you don't have to get up from where from flatbush lakewood we're on a streak no he's like the seventh guy from lakewood in the last two weeks unbelievable the genki for joining you tried out the competition liquid why not it's good different styles us also the isser of batsuola dhaka just like the israel of akrisisha should be strong enough and push off the ibum and she shouldn't even require khalid's i have another shot we started off saying we're talking about a guilloris now we're saying no he was motor to her for a moment and then he turned into a a problem became a sardis and now we're saying the um the shareholder so if you look over here i'll remind you from daphne test we had what is a monster it's not so smack on this we got to figure something else out garcia it's very very small i can't even read it from here what very small because we went to the up and down the landscape we got to go back i think there's a lot of extra space yeah how this is what i get he's saying i can make it white okay we'll talk about it afterwards i know but we're going this way the the lines are this way i can't go that way so as you cannot see on the screen right now why is it blank huh gary didn't like this whole thing okay he went back to the zoo yeah so rebecca says in the mishna according to the mishnah that the only way to make a monster is through a love of arayas of kurva according to rabbi simone and rebecca every single live in the world and that would also include our love of sorrows and according to the shame of even the nase forget about alive even in essay says the gemara so what happened is we're according to it but kiva we're going to go that the la the only way to make a mamzar is alive of kurva the first one the one in the mishnah as you can see in those unbelievable big letters the lavender at the top believe me it's a top green and the melod so what was your question you have israel creates a momser not our case our case is not a it's not a corvo the guy has a medical condition he's not gonna get married that's not that's not because of relations it's not because it's his mother it's his daughter that's different that's a rise we don't matter in a differentness or why you can't get married that doesn't create a monster but nevertheless according to akiba what what what's your cubist fire he had a shasta kosher says there was a moment in time where this saris was able to have children later on in life he became masarus so that's why it's kind of khalito asked the gemara at this moment i don't care where the shasta culture was right now how could this guy perform he's not about hockey he's not in the pirate he's not he's not going to be making shame says rava we don't look at the last moment we don't look all the way at the end because if we do it there's no there won't be every single person in the world right before he dies one moment before he dies he's too weak to have children so you can see so every single person according to your sorrow is not in the pirate show of the hakim shimla what what don't you like about it what is it what will happen no no time out we're talking about a yovam and the asking about the guy that died the guy that died also can't have children is he making might be israel what happened a guy that died he didn't have children but guess what he wasn't able to have children when for a millisecond right before he died when the car hit him right before he sees the shaman that moment if he was he was asked to have children he wouldn't be able to have children so he's not in the parish of having children so you don't have to be out of his wife well the terrorist is we don't care about that one as long as you have a shot at culture at all because a guy that's in a car accident can't have a children is not because he's a soros it's not a he just happens to be weak it's a different category yes he can't have children a guy that's sleeping maybe can't i don't know what it's not because of a tsar it's not a lack of his of his ability yeah yeah i'm just i'm throwing it out as a as something to as a martial he says what are we talking about exactly we're going to go and explain all the details today what what asari says not as ours but in our mishnah what is this kind what are we referring to somebody was born like this never had a chance pay a lot of people made it thousands thousands made enough pay we're going to be talking about big virus my name shivam shana let's do today's death me no you dino how do we know if he's a swiss hammer on our bio i have to i just want to be mocked him here this is one of these dap him maybe it might have a a record for me a lot of terms or ideas that i personally can't explain and i don't know how to explain them but things that occurred and happened in the time of the gemara that's how it was in those days i don't know how to explain it though um if when it goes to the bathroom it's not forceful it doesn't make an arch that's a raya that is thesaurus and what is it what was it caused by the afghan imei rashi says she didn't just bake she baked bread it's some sort of too much heat the temperature of her body went up and basically baked up this kid the afia ime or maybe that's what she's going to say she baked the bread and not the kid okay i thought it meant a combination of the outer source bitter at noon there's a lot of sun a lot of it viscasio shikra look at this rabbi's eye she drank a little beer while she was pregnant marco rashid says a very strong one i made that thing myself not the top one of yours i says one of them is uh muslim means that it was diluted beer don't ever drink if you're going to drink beer drink the right amount don't don't start diluting it and say oh i'm pregnant i should add a little water that ruins it that's a terrible no-no since russian highness i don't understand what he's talking about i didn't know how one shannon rash is how now i understand that my name is we're talking about somebody that has a shasta kosher according to rabiq if you have a shasta kosher what happens khalita right if the this person wasn't born like that he he had a moment he had a month in his life where he was able to have children later she requires khalita how do you know that this kid who told you that he didn't have a shasta kosher he's 50 years old maybe he was born his when he went to the bathroom there was a less of an arch when he died less of an art but somewhere in the middle he he had to ask a question who told you everybody yeah you're right that would be a geval deca simon you hear live in the cardinal it's already you said me yeah okay they because they look for simone so what happened is you have a heart you have a firstborn animal oh i recognize you the guy with the yellow hat they made sure and said shut up get over here you just open the door i don't even see the hat get over here explain to you what's going on here [Music] i was pretending i was like what is this show my life how you doing man all right nice to meet you wow all the way from chile so you are going to be around monster shabbos yes you shall i mean you slam the shears in most of chavez in the civil syria we'll talk later so where did you get that merch we there's a place that's uh okay because we have an official merch side and there's and people are making all this money on the side from the yellow hats you know what i'm saying the black marking verge the knockoffs they're gonna start saying stuff you know what i mean just don't do me a favor whatever you do don't put it on that tank top thing okay miami that's right listen if you live in miami you could wear that merch anywhere else please rabbi site okay so anyways you have a hard uh animal it's unbelievable i'm not joking i'm standing by the elevator but islam i need i need some some entertainment something today i don't have much because what was said i'm done i don't know i got here a helicopter brought him here from the tv from the elevator to here unbelievable so we have a car you give the you give it your first born animal every time you give it to the kind he takes it to the basement et cetera puts it on the carbon gets a part of it but if and this is the whole kumar empires you know you know it makes sense if you're a kind you have an animal you take a hammer you whack it over the head oh it's about mum that's about mom i get the whole thing i get to eat it okay something disgusting that that's why kehan okay he looks in the the animal's eye he sees a couple dots tears that's we're talking about the dots he sees white dots so you check it you check it one time in the beginning you check it after 80 days according to our gemara that should be enough it's not enough you got to check in the middle day 40 but according to hourgla you don't need day 40. all you need is a beginning and end says if it's just the eyes maybe it came maybe it went i need to make sure it's throughout all 80 days to be a real mum the kool-aid gufa and ramboy side this is the biggest side right here we learn a tremendous thing which explains a bunch of things on this daf and the sugi in general soros what does gemara kuala think for a second with the kumar kosumir likule gufa his entire body you would think it's one area of his body no it's a condition in his entire body it's something different about this guy from head to toe every part of his toes are different not not really but everything about him including the way it goes to the bathroom including the color and and the foam and the all the different things that they are going to say later it explains a lot why the gemara says these things so the entire body if you see in the beginning you see the end he most likely didn't have a recovery during his lifetime revelation says the sushama does khalid so why because he has a reform vramino venezuela cyrize javier is 20 years old and he didn't have c monom of a goddale yavi raju van esrim prove that he's 20 years old you bring some sort of document some sort of adam voo ah soros and ravi said what does bhuvasaras mean he has seen manim that he is a soros others see mana loilette me abem now it's very interesting if all of a sudden he brings cyrus when he's let's say 25 years old so that's a you have to see rashi here rashi says the unbelievable thing is a beautiful thing until a person is 36 years old he's immature after that he's no longer immature fine that's if just he doesn't have sirens make her wait what yeah why not like anything and if the there's a child that's a month old she has to wait also is is 20 years old she doesn't have see my name's levi stacey right she passes him the island is and she has simon i'm a violinist let me see how bad is everybody silo she's not in the pirate show there's no khaleesi both boy and a girl 18 years old not 20. rebellious there and this is the problem for us foreign what's going on and why why is rebellion this is different between zach a woman becomes more mature before a man we were sitting at the shop and stay on my house a bunch of times you know fighting and my fighting with my sisters have four sisters ah you're so dumb girls are so dumb boys are so dumb and one of my sisters said uh we become mormon short before boys you're 12 and you're of 13. so you see zaraya that we're more mature so what do you do you don't have sisters so you don't know the answer oh the answer is no i said it only shows that you stopped developing that was it you stopped developing at 12. we have another year of development for character ada that makes no sense he's so stupid okay rebel hazard no it's a semen of end of the brain stopped i was trying to explain to them but whatever didn't go in they were they weren't macabre we have mama's contradiction of lyazir ah he took it back but which one our mishnah or that mishnah design islands revelator is going to say asarius says highlights like our mission over here in alexandria he gives an explanation so either we see that that's why or it's two against one and two against one wins our mishnah has another right to it and mela reblesses of the opinion that is that we're talking about that no of course like our missionary as a whole these coyotes but rebellieser says that he's considered a cotton until what age don't we punish him no malcolm he's a cotton he doesn't have the maturity level until he's 20 years old and if it's a girl until 18. he's only talking about ancient he's not talking about khalido so let me ask you what who becomes a god when they're 12 years old my sister a girl so it's incredible but the word is supposed to say everything here has changed says rashi it's just a way to talk maybe it's alessi nikiya i don't know it's not even we're not even talking about anything whatever the reason is we're talking about a girl not a boy it same thing applies to boy just say 13. again we're talking about a girl it's till 18 not 20. vanille du bois si so it's an unbelievable question here the we established that this individual this girl is an eyeliners island is finished and then she develops simone when did this individual become a guy la at what point do we say you know what the cyrus that she has that that for sure is zero that nobody's going to argue on she's already established eyeliners whatever she has later doesn't mean anything she wanted me nothing so at what point did she become a guy now that we know that she's an islanders and that the the typical simmon that a doyle has when she's 12 doesn't exist by her so was she mature at 12 or should be coming toward 20 because maturity and islanders have nothing to do with each other she has a physical condition what does that have to do with her maturity level and you can't tell that she's a doula because she muttered me nothing by her she didn't have seam on it but she ate a piece of love and she knew she was eating a piece of caleb they warned her if you eat this piece of kale you're going to get malcus you're going to get whatever you get and she didn't listen or she didn't know does she have to bring a carbon today she was a good doula or not maybe she becomes when she's 20. very interesting question rabbi manassasaurus i'm afraid uh she becomes ignora retroactively when she's 12. yeah we're talking about islanders here i'm telling you the whole kuala lumpur doesn't matter 12 so it happened when he was 13. the same sugi and a boy but we're talking about a girl says rashford no only later on does she become a mature person when she's 18. masculinity is check this out island is not this but this octano is from 0 to 12. from 12 to 12 and a half she's called a naira and from 12 and a half on she's a baguettis says the passo venusana is a violated woman girl gets 50 casa the father but it has to be nairo so now according mayor holds that it's only in that half a year period that she gets the kanas aktana doesn't get a knack again but according to her mayor that's only in that six months oh we have mercury or we're trying to that will be a gevalic edition we used to have it you see how it's going you're doing it he's doing it hashem is going to follow the shir and the gemara is going to be a gemara page somewhere that's why we're going if you're asking why this narrow that's the real reason it'll be a big help especially for the kid on the scroll saw i'll be scrolling his thing and he'll have to come out and it's hard to hold the gemara and do scroll saw endless listen okay anyway what watch the screen yeah yeah the screen was there i'm just saying you can have a guitar also fine no there's people driving the guy in the tractor you remember the guy in the the tesla all these things fine so you hear the shiloh according to the mayor if we're going retroactive we find out she's an islander and the reason why she didn't have seen mothers because she's an islander and you go back and give the father 50 50 uh kessif says gemara beautiful amelia mckatnuso yotzula vega no she doesn't get the naira period she goes from tana she jumps straight into bagras immediately i love what you just said that's it i'm so impressed how about all these things that you say over like this these beautiful bumps shot them saying in my name asaris bensarimer is a certain age luffy's shame and sorry need also gets a different type of initiative so you see in the bryce it says mafoorish this is an idea that a saurus and an island islanders they jump from kano so she jumps from tana to bagueres without the in between green six months of nairos over above all simonisaurus violence eventually so let's read it slowly the simon of saurus islanders and all of a sudden says benjamin again in the time of the gemara there was something the and the restaurant discussed that place it says already at the time they were shining it was not understood or not they didn't know what this is but at the time of the camaro if a kid was born in the eighth month it couldn't survive impossible to survive to the point we're going to see one of the most incredible things it is and this is also incredible according to rashi you wait until the kid is 20 years old he's 18 years old he's on a football team whatever no he's not going to survive you have to wait until he's 20 to make sure he's actually born in a normal in in either seven or nine months when shimano but how could he make it all the way to to to 20. he can't live at all botania benchmark a baby is born in the eighth month he has a luck of a muksa stone also the tattler it's hard to hard to comprehend i said this is one of the things i'm not gonna even attempt it's also to be metal because he has a lot of amaze he's not going to survive the day he's done abu imay but what about the mother shaykh she could bend over and without touching him and nurse him this is also very hard to understand the mother could die from too much milk we just turned two people in base plants by my horn in honor of the gold star spontaneously in honor of ellie for the campus life exchange i would prefer to say this whole daf is kabbalah including the zakar nekeva called the all the zach knight i don't understand is that by the way again to throw it out there nowadays women who pump on shabbos and they and they put it away in a refrigerator for sunday that could be into their eyes because uh taking milk out on chavez is dush so what they have to do is everybody knows i'm just saying it it's time throwing it out there they have to waste it then there's no issue but if you keep it it's a it's a dosh they're right we have this kid that was born in eighth month who has simone de sanya culturally he didn't have a full nine month term rebi has hair he has nails but if he has full nails full here i mean is of the opinion that there's something called that it's possible for a baby to remain in the mother for extra months up to three months more than necessary see mma law over here we don't know so we have to wait until he's 20 years old to make sure that it's tired that it's really a seven month baby who's hanging around the extra month crazy situation think about this a woman gets married everybody knows everybody in january the husband says listen i have to go to yeshiva he leaves january 2nd he goes gets on a plane a year later she has a baby what is everybody thinking it's impossible you know the f the husband is all learning shiva no says and we say that the pregnancy lasted for 12 months max rate so i said whoa this sookie is getting everything every line is something i can't know is that i go online check this out the person most widely accepted to hold this title is bula hunter who 1945 at the age of 25 gave birth after 375 days of being pregnant yes you read that correctly 375. now the next line is very is incredible because it says like this 375 days is opposed to the average of 280 this is almost a year and a half now i'm sitting there thinking isn't the year 365 days so a year plus 10 days is almost a year and a half don't know gosh uh it was substantiated by a physician who first documented kitchener i know that's what that's why i put it there yeah and it happened 1994 and 1945 so who knows great but aquaponic maybe this hello today they wouldn't allow it they wouldn't allow this today if if a woman goes like a week over there right away in dues and this and that fine what one it says one half years the lotion is years okay that's what it meant right this is almost a year and a half you mean a pregnancy and a half pregnancy in half not a year i got it okay that makes more sense um it's three months no but it's not i made the judgment you're wrong it's three months more than nine months it's the third more real it's that you could that a woman could prolong the pregnancy by three months says the gemara kiev and they can't remember i just threw in the chart here just if you you look at it you can see who's representing him leonardo boise reby's father it's a little bit of a cheating because the son and the father say the same thing so the question is no shingle says it that's already [Music] let's try to go through this it's very very easy what are the scene it doesn't count after 20 years velum simanov these are the simon mersarks cole shaylee zakhon he and he has smooth hair right is that the shot oops sorry mac lick smooth skin what's sorry what does it say in the art squirrel anybody very so what no that's the the smooth like a woman is rasheed says smooth like a woman i'm sorry on the skin right she says that a lot most men have here and the snow but his actual hair is soft so the only way i can understand that is based on his body his body is not a healthy body it doesn't produce the right urine or whatever via show him call him doesn't make an argument that we had up before nominal vehicle it's watery rag doesn't have steam you see in players sometimes and they get really the steam coming out he doesn't have that benelazer kosher coilover he has a voice that you can't differentiate between a man and a woman vasey islanders and what the simone what are the her stomach is not shaped her lower abdomen is not shaped like really good women called chocolate and he cares she has a thicker voice than in the carrots it's not you can't differentiate the same mana and to be the stars even one out of all them says so the going takes out the word zakon here if he brings two cyrus kule amo if there's already two cyrus then you need all the same one keep leaking heavy it didn't it doesn't it didn't bring through cyrus so the mechanics were shot if that alone is enough the fact that he didn't bring through cyrus so was rav nachman's rebbe and he says i knew baby of nachman rav nachman didn't have uh simone it seems like but what's interesting is ravnakan had children so he said i want you to check out in the mikvah sorry malaga eight of the brass i let him marry my daughter and in fact in shas many many many times i don't know how many many have to do a search but uh over 50 maybe 100 maybe more that it says said in the name of everybody was also married to the daughter of the marathi although married to different women you know sorry command that once simmon is enough lawyer dignity he had that you need all sorry need all rachman had a beard he had a little bit of he had coming out of his beard so mela that he had rashford says he had in different places so that was enough to that together with the the the heaven the steam coming out that was enough for ravi ravuna to be confident that he'll have children he did have children have a wonderful you