Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 65 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] here we have heim snow on a flight somewhere catching up on three daf gomorrah that's how we like it read off [Music] mayor mandel thanks a million for this year i like this a lot rabbis if you're hasidish send in some pictures some emails we got to do more of this let's get vowed again i started with cotton such an unbelievable positive energy and stories keep it up was great seeing you and getting a picture in brooklyn here you are norm you're on that thing see clip clip attached to my boy saying good morning rapport mayor mandel staten island you ready here we go for a video you got some audio for me [Music] i like the little guy i think he's a guy [Music] no no no no no no snap stop okay how do you get out of this gary help oh no okay this one is uh this is unbelievable this uh my daughter just came yesterday last night late last night and of course the kids are jet like everybody's jet lag so here we go i gotta show you something but please do not tell my daughter or my son-in-law that you saw this go right there you ready [Music] this is my grandchild obviously what do you want to do i didn't hear what you said what do you want to do [Music] it's four in the morning you sure you want to learn this morning what the house do you want to learn [Music] yeah true it's like everybody else come let's learn to death you want to learn [Music] bye-bye see you soon that you mentioned today's dive reminded me a story i had a non-from english teacher in seventh grade that we used to bother and one day we asked him if he puts on filling every day and he responded no because i was born on chavez okay 63. what's your name against ellie spitzer from lakewood was also at this year drove him from like how long how far of the drive is at i don't know hour and a half he's good for coming and today also where are you coming from another hour better plus you got to get up early the whole thing wow duvaldic oh spit spitzer yo are you related to the spitzer that i beat up in passaic okay on that no he's my roommate i beat him who are you ready you're a guest because i already gave him the shaman but thank you very much yeah and it was introduced by no idea how many hidden listeners you have out there by the comments that people you're also by the way i don't know if you have whatsapp but you're going to start getting now messages i see you on the sheer the whole thing you'll see tesser lakewood new jersey yes whoo that's what just said everybody's saying the same joke yeah he's on his phone up there he doesn't know it's flying now he's we're starting to understand a lot of the issues here he's just in a different world he's zoned out the this email i'm not so sure about the name moisture chickenpox in today's share you said that the price of a sub is approximately 36 thousand dollars a relative of mine recently got divorced and the super was eight thousand shekels also told me it's very inexpensive but i saw that moisture says that it's a hundred pounds of silver so i did the math hundred pounds of it thirty six thousand dollars i don't know maybe this is uh super in america would it cost to live in america it's 36 000. and i just saw you could live a whole year on 8 000 shekel maybe i don't know i just wanted to let everybody know that until now i was bitter about the idea that hashem is messiah that's people tell me that when i waited for kids and when uh sick it was cruel of hashem i really appreciate the small note rebellion made that it's not because hashem needs it because it makes it sad like a better person it now makes me a little bit more a little more sense it doesn't seem quite so cruel thank you the paris atheist for the koilo which by the way when i was i said the coil everybody in the cradle coil took the official policy of the kylo is that you have to take the deer shoot test all the way from beginning shots so they all hazard like they learned harder during venezuela than during this month they said the wives were so happy venezuelan was over they have their husbands back they took 860 but in addition to that four guys in the coil took a thousand daft tests with gemara rashid tysons with tysus so just want to mention that i forgot to mention sphere today is the twenty-fifth day of the omer voicemail and the coil for the day oh you see we started yesterday coil for the day because people want to eat meat if you're on them if you're a fish lama or it's you go to the sheer yamaha you want to eat meat you have to give money to them anonymously as this goes for you elio bensi pairo to find this family by the lack of families like new jersey another one like in new jersey because toyota is the best gula anonymously religious another anonymously as a question [Music] from esther [Music] in honor of the 60th birthday of mike dinowicz who has been with mdy since broca's dave base when i asked uh sieber of seven eight hundred people how many people started with brock's the base i think five how many people raised their hands five or six people maybe who i was one of them you were there and you raised your hand were you there really from you're here from broken the base you don't count you're from america's role so oh from the american islam we went down from five not to four um we're we're gonna dive in for our friend who sits right over here on this front table he's going through a very hard time with surgeries and everything else that he has in his life today he's having a major surgery at 10 30. thanks to mdy family mordechai ben sora tilly and here we go another very on the gothic side daff we're holding oh there have you been the rava le ravo it's six lines from the bottom of some of the ammo base moving on with the vamos mamas plowing through flying through evolution it's unbelievable before we know there's gonna be another scene it's less than two months now see him over here ravioli is robert's son tells us his father hazakis two times later on i asked them in other words they didn't ask him how how long how many times it take to do yes and that looks like rabbit yeah then he asks him is that look like him leo who says three times bomb ali in yeah that love is like him he tells his father i think he's making fun of me joking around with me on my leg these are anonymous mishnais like our mission if you look at our mission it says after two times nasi sha vishalim ten years she has the second time she get married and that's it two times she's allowed to get married that doesn't say who says it it says that is two times so uh that when it comes to marriage like in our mishnah and malcolm's like the gemara is going to describe twice like red vestors a vessel everybody knows all kids in school they learn about shah and move it three times why is it leo in fact it's not really even rebbe admits bashar al-mud says taiswas but he admits he's going to be mask him to to shimmy him leo in this case that it's only two times we said a woman can get married twice 10 years each after that she shouldn't be getting married to somebody that wants to have children malculio is what's malkius this nan me sherlock of hashanah a guy is a vera he can't control himself he does he gets malcus and then he repeats best in question after he gets the second malcus they put him in a jail now he has a hazaka that he's a russia after two times listen to this it's terrible stuff you think he only gets malcolm's not only umakhiro no they give him challent and what happens when you eat a lot of chomped i should take crazy you give him barley a lot of chunks of barley okay without potatoes without the meat i get it dry barley it's going to expand in his stomach actually creates enough cause and he's going to self-destruct and we're not going to kill him but we'll give him something to eat that does it work with pigeons i wish that works with fission let's put it out on my porch right now vesta is what's the vesses and how long vest says in order to get um anita's period three times so in a vessel cavua means that if a woman sees them the same exact day nissan valve er three months in a row at the same day then you know that she is going to see damn the following month and the same name or if it's every let's say 28 days times three what's an afghan meaning if a woman touches fruit and then she sees them do we go retroactive 24 hours we say everything she touched within the last 24 hours has tomas nida or since she was conveyed now we know for a fact it's going to happen on valve so anything that happened before valve nissan is tar because she already established the vesses but that takes three times in a row vane with the hares manavesas she doesn't get out of this vessel if she only missed twice she's still in it so mama if let's say she didn't check she doesn't see them but because she has a vest as kavu on the on every month on bob so we're going to tell her your tummy that the fruit and the food that she touched before the time of her vessels start but even if she didn't do a bigger she didn't see any doubt we're going to say she has them because that's the way she is every vlog she's going to have now and she's music lituma until she could establish that she's not in the vessel now she goes different days different times what's a storyboard it's not you have to in order for an axe who goes to pay the full amount he has to be doing it three times and that we learned from a possup and that even rebbe agrees that it's three types honorable nieces larisha and villalobon let's shane on the bottom there's a woman seems like she has the problems with her because she married two men and she was with them for ten years and she didn't have any children she liked you know saying she actually bought him she shouldn't get married unless it's somebody that does he already has children then she get married the third time otherwise she's not allowed to get back mises let me shane lebanon what if she went up ahead and she got married heyte beloicsuba the guy made her make her toast he didn't know that she can't have children so he releases her without aksuba questions why is it why do i say some of these questions you're probably going to think the absolutely says she got married to the third guy and they didn't have children for 10 years the first two husbands gave her aksuba but now it's already established as a kazakh that she has a problem think about what could be this far that maybe she doesn't have a problem why could she keep her kubo so now they're mighty mojavera they already paid up the tsuba thirty six thousand dollars eight thousand shekel whatever it is a couple thousand dollars now they're coming back 20 years later to say look you have a problem admit that you have a problem you marry three men for 10 years you can have you cannot have children i want my money back you need to prove that i'm a problem look when i married you i was 20 years old now i'm 50 years old i can't have kids from the third guy i'm already older something happened to my body i don't know what you how do you know that i was in this situation my body is the same as it is today as it was 20 years ago it's a long time ago says they have to the burden of proof is on them and she has got taina things happen over years not everybody could have children in their 40s or in their the late 40s whatever it is what why does the third guy have to let it go after 10 years no so right so they that that's a big big needling i think this is this might be the sugar that the ritual has 12 shot them it's a big problem you're right it is a very big issue it's a monoshock problem it's like if a hazaka now so then why is the kazakh if you don't want to use the original ones how do you yes the russian are all over this isla v another very interesting question she marries a fourth person valhalla about him stop right here don't look inside thinking about what the diaper should be she gets married finally in her 50s and she has a child no could she have children she could have children so all so the guy that divorced her without exuber he should pay up why not her body changed when she's really to have children what changes everybody's finally healed itself interesting you would say such a safari jonathan says that the same way we say the body got worse the body can get better interesting okay i wouldn't have thought that i'm reading law they tell her listen it's better that you shut up and you don't bring anything up rather than talk why because if you talk and you say look i'm able to have children says the third guy if i would have known that you're capable i would have never divorced you so my whole divorce is a mistake so now your children are my room it's just a problem so just don't don't take the 8 000 shackle for 8 000 it's not worth having your kids being mums in for the rest of your life it's better with the eight thousand sometimes i'm gonna use thirty six thousand dollars sometimes we use eight thousand shekel says the gemaro huh if it's a good timer that's basically what you're asking in a way maybe even better than what you're at if it's a good time to forget about what the what the people are saying we best then have to say this is mama it depends on a mecha taus you're married to a woman what are you divorcing her because you don't get along oh i would have known that you're nice we're talking about a medical condition that he was wrong about but what why does that have to do with her even if she's quiet but it's a good taina america is a mecca taught whether a person titus or not and these kids themselves obviously then we don't go back this thing is going back after a person divorces his wife and she already gets married and says oh how do i know it doesn't work like that like you said then the whole world would be my el armenian hashtag so then we have to go back to what jonathan said before it's possible though yeah now she she's she's not healthy before she she stopped eating uh regular bread she started eating whole wheat and now she can have children he says of course it's her fault it's your genes the omraamine and she says it's his fault omar [Music] if they are private things that no one could see but her then she's believed the time am i and the twice is even they're showing but isn't there she's not she's biased she's a gabadover she wants to get married to another man why should i believe her okay but you see that she has the monastery mars using i believe i don't know if i'm right but one case that maybe it doesn't really work today scientifically or not scientifically the point is she has a taino she says that zara doesn't shoot like an arrow so melee that's why but only she would know that it's information that only she would know maybe it's other things other diseases other things that she knows but in a way it's difficult to say because it says that he doesn't know only she would know omari oh so melo she says i have inside information that i'm telling you you're the problem you're the cause of the problem right she says somebody has such a condition can't get pregnant so what does he say he's says you know what let me try out another wife if it's such a problem let me see i think i'll show you let me check it out myself don't you don't be my doctor i'm going to go to my own doctor um so he has to give her a get and give her super shame if you're going to marry another woman then you have to divorce her and give her a ksuba rava omar no no he saw them if we could find out later on that's his fault then fine i'll give her super right now he's permitted to marry another wife and we already discussed this yesterday that according to the ashkenazim is if you hold it's the most most hold that still exist so i want to say that it's over ready but even so even that you can marry and the spartans say there's no there's no harm there are recognition but they would have to ask which shows from their wife because today you get married with a tonight almost and and as far as he sent me john he sent me suba where it says that he won't marry another wife in there i never heard that lashing send me the delusion what that's this fighting super that's standard not for ashkenazim aha because they have they don't have a carrying derby garcia so you guys insert a line that i won't marry another wife unless i want to unless he has okay i'm saying all these guys that marry another woman if there's the guys in utah and that's funny aren't there like tamannaam i don't know there's nobody alive today that has two okay 50 years ago so 50 years ago what did your super look like that's what i'm asking i don't know they have a different sewer than this subaru okay so or the guy resource huh according oh you're asking that that's your big thing yes representation is over i can read other people's mail wow nice of them coming but because on condition that he's able to beam a firestone he can't just marry a bunch of women and then they're all hungry sponsored by horn in honor of the gold star multi donut sponsor i saw yesterday that when when i say this this donut is flying through the screen could we do like krispy kreme or something else and i like it and it was on two speed so it went by real fast okay no seriously i was thinking to myself i don't have to try it out but certainly other people should try it out take another miscellaneous again on two speed you might finish this after like you know just a few hours i think i might do that am i no because i was uh one of the shoe room i was preparing that yesterday when i showed that that the thing of um of 137 years i didn't know what it was talking about i i went i looked it up and i see i made a chart so i went to the sheer and i played it like on two speeders like this is not bad hazara you know he's not a bad manchester it's a little interesting but if you're doing two speed do almost like that schmuck right they all do they all do want to have yeah who are marbles who am i about you have another we said in the mishnah if she miscarries within the ten the ten year period so then her whole ten years starts all over again she just showed that she could conceive so she's a bar hockey whatever however you say barasari and then the the clock starts from the time she lost her pregnancy so who am i yes sir you have another three years on the clock because yes we're married for 10 years but don't forget that three years into it you had a miscarriage i don't want to give you exuber right now we're not mr says today there's no people to divorce the whole thing the mission says after 10 years just come up with 36 000 he doesn't have his 36 thousand dollars so what does he do he has an excuse he says it's not 10 years yet the 10 year starts from three years after our marriage i have another three years then i'll get my 36. this is i didn't i didn't i didn't have any miscarriage in other words she's saying about herself that she is a what an akara a full-fledged 10-year achara aramaic a person doesn't want to say about it their self you go onto the bell's website now you have to put in uh official acara so now it's just oh you you heard about the bells yeah whatever i don't want to say it again because then the bells they don't watch anyway so fire can talk about it they they have a website that that has all the people in shidduchim and it just narrows things down you say i want this i want that i want that we have to say you know i want to live in arizona i want to call a guy i wanted this and then narrows down so now she's going back into the website because she just got divorced and she's just all right i was married for 10 years i'm fishing on a car it's not a good thing she much rather say that i i conceived once hippie love the husband repeal of husband pillow it happened three times that she miscarried who's it called in a fallen now we have a woman who has a hazaka that she miscarries emma melo what a woman who has a hazako miscarries you have to divorce her and you give her a ksuba now i have friends that had more than that so again once again whatever the is my name is different we don't force get through that et cetera who are mara pilo trey the omrat lost now i'm not saying it's one after another if she had like a viable child i'm sure that this salah doesn't apply it means that she cannot have a full-term pregnancy who am i what this treatment is yeah i guess yeah so there's treatments on pregnancies also that you mean so that the the whole 10 years is not variety this couple that lives right over there 21 years unbelievable it's unbelievable what on on what on people that have um oh infertility 50 okay no it's two different things there's a woman that's that that can't get pregnant so that's a whole different power shot [Music] for that but then this is the treatment that people can have kids period like the others yeah generally okay fifty percent ravi schoenberg says that fifty percent of the cases of his manager are cured okay that's not not a bad number however i should get better the invoice is what if they have an argument how many times she had a miscarriage she says three he says two why does he say two because he doesn't want a divorce or he doesn't want to pay subah oh my reason been a lazar move to have him in russia there was a a situation she's the one that's believed because if it's true that she only did twice now she'll be really happy why would she say about herself that she has again it's going to be terrible in her resume right so that tyson's discussing that that's that's as i said before that's i don't know if exactly in this case but he brings that that's what he that's one of the things that richard talked about what kind of money she has she's biased you you have it sponsored the official mission of spontaneously first how many i'm gonna look at this again anonymously is one it's like it's like six and now it's okay fine huh you don't have to read the nanos that's exactly what the songs were saying yesterday okay i think they like it i think they think it's cool we're very familiar with this though that it's the man who's the wife so if you look at the apostate over here it says elohim hashem told them both of them the mira was to both um so why would you say that it's only him um a man goes to war not a woman so mela the show is miguel and the rest of the apostle now we're talking about the men says if you're going to use that word very good that it's the derek but look how it's written the word is written plural martial is talking about exif huh i don't know but not like this maybe i don't know if it's if it's singular so it can't be what the the tv is only on her the point is that the word doesn't have no kudos the way the tire is written down the kudus so we put in and we're saying that it's plural but it's written in singular [Music] there is no deposit doesn't have it's a shurok because it doesn't have a valve and we stuck in the verb through nakudas so it's our thing it's something that we did but it's really written a little differently singular it's written it's written in the torah if you look at it as an amarette you're going to be reading it as singular but we have a tradition that you read it as plural so don't ask me a question from the plural review your friend who's not doing something properly so just like there's a mitzvah to say something that will be accepted by the other person there's a even a there's another mitzvah don't say something to somebody that's not going to listen so let's say i mean this is a typical case shinara guy's saying a smack a juicy story then the sister jumps up is she making mitsuha or not very what is she doing huh her boy it's a mitzvah it's a mitzvah no anybody else i'm not going to listen i'm going to keep on going no why is it a mitzvah why so i for me i don't i don't have i can't say anything floor over here but there's definitely something that's at the right so i'm a first of the riser so you are supposed to say what if he's a complete let's not i this details i don't even know how to get out of it i'm just saying ayan chum if you want to make your own you should just know that's not so simple to give to haha and it's it's uh once it's at the right side like the shanhara or manage a real director the higher you should but i don't know don't don't be saying at all just remember that this is there's a needle in here what case and how etc it's a little hurtful but you appreciate you becoming a better person etc okay i had a situation on shabbos one of my guests i saw him taking water and he was about to uh wipe off a stain so i told him gently i said you know it's probably better not to and then afterwards i told him i said she said no he's just trying to remove the upper the the thicker thing whatever but that was their rice and usually i don't it's uncomfortable you know he's a guest and everything i'm going to start giving him muslim now that muslims just some some people are not very familiar with all shabbos and you see in children what so again whatev if you normally would walk oh not macbeth with this thing so if you're not back why are you sitting in children doing in front of everybody anyway okay okay when we learn chavez basically five years from now we'll discuss okay i i just threw it out there as a thing um it just happens all the time and personally like i get a little annoying when people tell me stuff you know like you you should swallow before you say the broccoli like like okay you know it hurts but i think you become a little bit of a better person at the end of the day when but in each situation you should know what you're doing whether it's the rice not the rice everybody knows the sugya everybody knows this this is the daf right here with beijing if you're trying to make peace you could change the situation a little bit chinema or they were concerned that he is going to take revenge he's called a russian milan and then it says eva our father vino said he should be nice to us they made up a story pasha made it up why because they wanted to live in peace i don't think they were worried about their life they just want to live in peace they don't want to have fights with take a carbon and say that you came to bring a carbon so you see that even hashem was mashaana which i had a problem with because hashem is not shem made it sibo hashem just created a new tivo but this is uh not tyson's the tyson yeah he shot him here on the side he says alessian yeah it's coming up sadiq it's coming up nothing i'm going to say uh it's not fair we didn't hear what he said he said the gemara copied me okay so uh no again the rule is if it's like that i usually don't repeat but because i left okay fine no it's part of the he's one of the bald mans oh did i give you a package of that guy okay the bowman's brought the baltimore brothers get a package of these magnets fine so it says over here in the tyson it seems like [Music] he said he got a repeat he said he said he got this lousy let me just show you got this small package of balman brother magnets available at mdymerge.com in return for me destroying his medical career because when people come to him now as it's patience they say you're the bowling brother and they don't take him seriously he tries to get stitches he tries to do plastic surgery nobody wants plastic from one of the bomber you're dead you're alive nobody knows matsu okay fine i ruined your career come on those girls tell me the truth tell me the truth you have more people wanting to come to your school this year than last year yes or no yes yes okay so noam fix is one of the bulman brothers he had suffered no consequences i'm not thinking this but don't it didn't hurt his career didn't hurt your career you have more bristling more than flying around the world the whole thing okay that's right of all yeah exactly don't think that oh we have four minutes left okay i didn't even say that he says that what's the problem is that he didn't say the whole truth and nothing but the truth there's something called the whole truth if you say half the truth only half that's not the whole truth right maybe that's the shot in all those shyness the truth nothing but the whole truth the whole truth means he came for two reasons he didn't come to give a carbon he came to give a carbon and to get rid of shawl and so what are you saying you came for a carbon yeah you're right he came for carbon that that's the problem okay we did i say the shiloh that the answer is thing a guy goes to the chanel store he gets he grabs the bag over there and he puts in from the mercas over here in ramapanchamesh a diamond ring that's made out of plastic and puts in the chanel bag and gives it to his wife is that mother or uh sir his wife marriage things she got a chanel ring and and it cost him 14 sheckle the answer is he says he could if they ask solomon anyway it's it's there it's not going if it's das she doesn't expect the she wants she wants a nice gift and rabbi said i'm not going to do this but i'm telling them they should go out today and buy their wife a cheap gift be nice say and say say that it's because you went to the deaf and you heard in the dive it's a good idea give the daf a little credit i myself am not going to do it [Music] see if i don't sorry man who said that my husband is uh is oh he's 99. who changed it that she's old which is a very very harsh of an acute because at the end of the day think about it a roma video said him about himself that he's old and everybody knows he's old but when you hear it from somebody else it hurts a lot it doesn't matter what you so okay fine and everybody should be working on their shoulders you know they're 99 years old review the quran and he said in the name of that allah is like american bro they don't want to tell them you're wrong so instead of telling you wrong they turn their faces around the faces from void because they are like revivable had to end with the king so they couldn't tell into his face he was wrong or will they belong so they didn't say anything but if it's the other one lame roulet they should have said straight to his face you're wrong didn't say that bottom line is what is rebirth in an old tash there's a story that there was a man who couldn't have children he was married for 10 years and his wife wanted to get vaamar tv he should release her and give her subah mafia if she's not an super mario why does she need super what's her excuse for getting divorced she's coming and demanding divorce for no good reason she doesn't have to have children says the gemara what do you mean no good reason maybe she has a good reason it's interesting to say her time is i want to have children she has a different gutaina kahitas i want to get i want an exuberant when i get older who's going to take care of me that's a great excuse i need kids to take care of me that's a great high note release her and give her super hi this is the camera you see everybody gets old eventually when you get old even the broken lady she needs a cake who's going to pay for my cane who's going to pay for my shovel and um massive gemara's about them right should have came because of the whole thing i looked it up it's actually there's a story in baltimore in 1996 where a woman had this exact story she had a twin twins three months apart in the seventh month and the ninth month beginning at seven then the ninth why did i look it up because yesterday my brother said you know ima allah my mother used to say that you walked when you were six months old i remember she said it sounds like six months i was pretty advanced so i went on google like what's the earliest of kids co-authors guinness world record a kid walked into six months old so it ruined it i for sure i'm not the guinness world dragon right i'm not gonna compete with the record so what does she and i can't ask her and she's very good with dates and everything that's it my record is over google ruined it but i decided to go again to check this google what are you asking me think about the maternity leave of this she gets like three months return to leave and then another time what's going on two births two maternity leaves neighbors shiva so what happened was one was born at the end of nine months one was born in the beginning of seven says gamora youth is the visual so the mother you heard this how would it start later she couldn't take it anymore as moira's gonna say she had two times twins so she had to go ask the golador the question the problem is that the golden door happened to be her husband shannon so she changed her clothing i guess he didn't recognize her and he was only married to her so she changed her clothing now he didn't recognize her um and she he didn't recognize her voice either it's up here in arabia as a woman she probably made a squeaky voice or something and she has to shine she wants to hear the sock herself oh my law she said no she's not much what did she do she drank some potion that destroyed her innards she can't have children anymore the soviet lawyer marshall's guerrillas so if she was miguel to him what happened omar instead of being upset at her i wish if only he would have given birth to one more pair of twins six is enough those two were twins passivity another twin girls they had me that's it william a woman is half slave now she can't get married she can do anything the cough was rapper sub and password and they made her master free her so real quickly i just got to tell you omer of nakanovar yitzhak min and kanagaba the reason why they had a fear is not because of her here for prove but because they were treating her beth harris so you see premiere of mario de gea when you put a person in a corner you don't give him an option out this is very negative you don't give a kid an option out they will be haita you have to give a kid an option out but bottom line is we pass kin pro vu is on the man but there are we showing him the iran says that a woman also has a heel of proof of shazo because she's helping her husband she's she's messiah and some want to learn the makna learns in iran that he means the people is sorrow others argue the on the left of me says that there's a mr durabana for a woman at khan have [Music] foreign [Music] you