Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 62 by R’ Eli Stefansky

today is a very special day we are halfway through thomas exactly the halfway point over 60 daft into the mesefta and we have a very gesh maka agata today it's going to be easier suggest we had yesterday easier today tomorrow the after laser hashem this is a uh first is is uh no shimon is not here akiva where's akiva it's always not here today okay we'll have to remember to tell the mazatlan next time izzy wine rib daniel green of waterbury caught doing the daf and waterbury before chakras i'm currently visiting my family in south africa for good reason not good reason unfortunately my dad managed to get away to the coast for a few days this is from god carlos see here where's god no he's back he's back we'll be back in his role looking forward to being live share leo basses through the force lame uh this is a little embarrassing i got an email from edkinsbursky saying that he's learning the daf on a cruise in mexico why is that embarrassing because i announced to ed kinzversky for giving me a free custom-made suit then i'd take a look at the picture that doesn't look like the guy that took the measurements i realized it's moisture converse okay thank you for rebelling for making it easy to learn even when on vacation on the cruise the voice side since we have a very long daff so we have to hurry it up a little bit and it's going to be on a do not want to have speed today it's like it's going to be equal to three speed coil sponsor of the month dear family friend who's only passed away it's actually a week ago at the age of 59 and he loved mdy i'm proud to be part of amazing yamashire the walkenstein family i mean toyota you mean torah and camera if you don't have torah you don't make paranos he says by the lack of families like new jersey because toro is the today the first year of our beloved son victor kai avrom i j i spoke to him the other day on zoom 15 year old son terrible tragedy terrible things happen in the classroom before schleimer lisa leia mazel tov and lillian ben david her boys i we are on the bottom of summerhall from base all the way in the bottom and i have a shiloh for the oil everybody please answer the question what do you think if a person was a cousin and he fathered two terrorist children and then he became a girl was it yoitsa the mitzvah of pro or anybody no no right okay well anybody have anything to say here mate middlebury [Music] you'll be surprised to learn that but it is it is like it says hello says what's the mitzvah of two male children and then what happened he separated from his wife for good so that was enough two sons um so he created his okay but we also do says gomorrah ain't done top of some of basil that's the only way to continue humanity thank you that adds another five minutes till saves edit he has to put that okay says gemara well you want to have human beings in the world you need to duck in the cave up but us later on generation we don't have to have zuck on the cable car isn't it a great ride i'm sure beno had to score him and he stopped relied on his own svara his own logic and it fit into what who agreed them one of them perishment in isha he separated from his wife coming up he said separate from your wives three days instead of two perishment ishmael where do we get only had a few moments of the culture because mine and everybody knew exactly what's going to happen i'm going to tell you i'll take you alicia you have to be tar ani i don't know when i told you it's going to be speaking to me it could happen any moment for the cavaliers man could be for a long time and at any time a lot has come with a comma certainly i have to be tired at any given time i can't have too much carrying i can't run because work was going to speak to me i'm going to go to the mikvah come back tar fully the next day too much the go back to your tents meaning to your wives vatta but you might rabbit you're different than everybody else you have to stay here in this voice is one out of six hundred and thirty minutes so a guy a non-jew can't eat one of the mitzvahs he doesn't have the torah he can't eat one mitzvah in the tire which is carbon based atari akula so what about 613 misses israel mumarim the israel it says mushmadim before the censor after the sentence the point is claudius we're doing ah the ego allah they cannot have the torah came down he saw that the mumbai they don't deserve the tire broke the word to separate from the wives so if you look at the tsukim here it says today and tomorrow today is wednesday so wednesday and thursday i'll give the tour on friday what does it say and he says three days on his own where do you get it from she says well the point is because the concern was for the tomb of the women who might have pleita zera could take three days until it's matama her so he decided three days but where did he learn in the apostles today is like tomorrow is 24 hours you have a whole night before i'm literally spoke to him in the day wednesday so wednesday doesn't really count i need like tomorrow like this little chart over here because robert spoke to him on wednesday so you have a half a blue she said the green thursday is a full 24 hours with the night so it's two days two full days you need thursday and friday so mellow today doesn't count at all today you probably should be wise but you need two full days the tires going to be given on chaves but it's wednesday we don't have it's wednesday morning the night the night before ready passed us either i'm not exactly sure if it seems like once moisturizing put this into shot then again okay yeah that's what i meant if he wouldn't have done it so he meant in other words it's torah you could it's down here turn it though it's given to us humans and the way he interpreted it that's the way yakuza says okay yeah yeah that's how it is shabbos i'm giving the target tanya that's how it seems like or you could also learn and you're supposed to figure it out [Music] says no that's not what bishop he said he said four not two children two males four children two males two females two squaring tuna caves in the ribbon now s is says that and it has to be like that did have any girls of course she had girls otherwise how had they have children so but where does it say in the past in addition to the brother there was a s there's a girl essaville okay so i have a vaccination you have four two boys two girls [Music] instead of instead of in other words she needed to have these four and now she only has three so who replaced it's a replacement so you see you have to have two and two says she's thanking hashem for replacing that child not that you have to replace it does anybody know when the story of kai and the hevel happened when did it happen oh huh no the the the times shabbos before stars and kaimu all the mitzvahs yeah you know that time that period a year not the yeah not not a celebration of that period of time what why do we need to we don't need to know anything that's good what this is random stuff why do i need to know why at my shabbos meal every 10 minutes there's uh i have one of my kids is a google expert he knows to call it google about that so he tells me the eagle goes like this and flies 25 oh i have to know that's good it's good to know you'll i'm trust you'll tell your family that's what you have to know now charlotte what's your name so malaya can you be sure where do you live oh you live here okay you've heard me want to see if this year is good enough for you hopefully pass the test i didn't create the world just to be desolate le chavez i created it that it should be inhabited by humans chavez and he's going to use it with one it so that was the uh what i asked toilon because i figured it most people would think this that's what i would think that if you have a non-jewish child you're not yet how's that especially a child that's a anti-semite how do you guys do that he had children when he wasn't jewish and he became a girl came again says and that's how he passed in his mekai in the mitzvah besides three places not one this is not one of them doubly at the end of the day he was mikayami he fulfilled his obligation when he was in andrew marley no that's what everybody knows this guy he's starting his life fresh so whatever he had beforehand doesn't count for him they're going according to their own cheetah if he had children when he was non-jewish and he became again rebellion the new kid a new child that's born now is not considered his bihar his bihar is when he when he was a non-jew huh what do you mean oh you stop asking what it means where what no no i think obama means children but 101 whatever the whatever the hell is whatever you need we're gonna see in a second the heavily racist oh you know you already had his first child when he was in anjou he gets married he's a jewish person now the the first born boy is considered it's interesting rashi says over here he brings us pasuk you see gershon so this is a mitzvah for naya now most of them say that it doesn't apply today but maybe because it used to apply so a little bit in the mitzvah trying to understand maybe it seems from rashi that it they do have a mitzvah today [Music] and also there's no difference between a boy and a girl everybody gets equal emo my delay liverstockish maybe or beyonce will agree they're sluggish that what he had before doesn't count at all because there's no halachus of a guy so so maybe you start fresh when it comes to it the the the first son is the the heart and if i only say it by yerusha welcome so you see over here that is a guy it goes by the father they have to one another yerusha pervu everything going on you're right when they remain going you talk about the father the grandfather this guy who that's what they become brand new babies they're brand new lastly then you don't consider what they had before um everybody agrees that a slave slave jewish person has a slave and that slave has children and then he releases his slave the children of that slave don't belong to him they're not they don't they're not after him and it's not he wasn't kind of miserable who says that the children of a non-jew before he became aguero are considered his children he doesn't have to be making the mitzva anymore by a slave he'll he'll say no he'll agree that they don't they don't count him was the slave the famous mice over there with siva i mean people he fooled the slave full me people told abraham the whole thing but siva was the slave of publishers who was the grandson of shaw mr bush's was the grandson of shao who was the son he was also the son of jonas was nice to him the whole thing so it says but the slave siva hamisha also so you see that a a slave has he has children they're his children we're just counting like like like cattle how many calories i've got 15 cattle so say the same thing by billadon what's the name roy doc balado by the way but this paladin guy the king get a face of like a dog he looked like a dog so it's a very interesting story the iron somebody sent me a thing uh but it's in the art school also you could look at the story that basically this other you could say a bollock binti pyre you could say there's a lot of different people in tanakh that says the name the guy and the father so why'd after this because since he looked like a dog or whatever he looked like he had a crazy yeah she looked like something weird so they kicked him out of the mulu and he gave it to his son so son as a covet want to say that no i'm with my father so that's why his name is a funny name his name is his own father's name also yeah what's his name uh his father's name is baladan but his this kid's name is bride of baladan ben baladan because the father is baladan the son is brother so may allah i already know who the father is if i say breydar baladan king mr king brother who is his father baladan so then why does atari say ben baladan that's the biggest riot that we go after the father also okay fine so i don't know if the guy saw in the art school and he sent it to me one of the guys in the coil sent it to me it's like i know if he cheated or not i know we got it from but anyway we'll find out go back to his father yeah yeah no the tires is um yeah very cares it's not not identifying but to give miros so how come by biladon we don't validate how come by biladon we don't answer the same thing that's the terror says he's the uh brother of aladdin the son of aladdin like a paraben bucker it's just cattle doesn't say ben it doesn't say like by the slave it says he had 15 children doesn't say any names 15 okay so this he had 400 sheep and 15 children so nothing but over here saying that the name of the father so you see that this is another forget this pasta forget them another place it says even more but it says the grandfather so this is already not counting humans this is already showing us no so you see that we care the son of this rabbit was the son of the other rabbit all the way to los angeles why would he go why would the tired talk about going go go all the way back these generations there's a massive glamor so you see that there is by by a son by by humans by regular people but not by slaves amazing shiloh said this is great stuff a guy had a son and a daughter everything is good and loyaleno hoyolo you have to start over is it your problem or not well it depends what the mitts is for what is proof of [Music] had a necklace with the tooth of one of his ten sons that was lifted he didn't have children he didn't have sons he used to say dinga made that syrah a beer yeah din garmay this is garmed a syrup beer for my tenth child he had a it was a tooth it's not a couple two my whole thing but he used to walk around he used to be menacing people people that lost their sons their children he'd say i lost 10. this is just interesting that rebecca number like kiam he's talking about himself i was not i'm the mitzvah if i don't have sons guff means there's a storage house in chamber called guff not our bodies sham has shelves there all the nests are sitting on a shelf he pulls every time a kid is born is not going to show up until every single one of those inshamas leaves that storage facility that's why i when i argue with uh with my cabrusa every day about this topic he says you have to have as many children as you can kids say he's why because of this gemara he wants to help mashiach if he has 15 kids 25 kids come quicker we have three things we argue every single day even if we don't argue we bring it up we say it and we go invite there smartphones there's a few on yeah so look at this possibly for a second you have to see the end of the passage it seems from the past like i made it the shabbos i put them there if we don't get them out of that place then mashiach can come out he can't be here no if he's talking about himself i cannot be my kind period if my sons die why le chavez eat sorrow being we spoke about the apostle the the the world the world was created to inhabit it to fill it with humans and lamasia weren't right now there's no you didn't bring any humans to the world yeah you brought them for a minute but they're gone look at this so if you look at this character it's a very simple chart you have a grandfather on top the grandfather had two children osaka and the quebec so he's yaitza right no the the son dies so if if we go like rapuna that you have to take nashamas out of the storage so when he had two children zachary when he took two shamus out he's yaita what do i care that he went horizontal no there's no really deposit in storage once it comes out it comes out you're talking about gulen maybe i don't know what no this we're not going to go into that once you remove the shaman once that's it saying if you knew for a fact that there's only a hundred shamans left in in the storage you wouldn't start making sure that we get those hundreds of those analysts okay so then why did you say i um why do why do you need to replace why do you have to put another son in there why do you have to have make sure that your children had a son now you have a son and daughter you're ready mighty the nishamas and everything is good why didn't he bene but in my right bottom why do you need to count a grandchild forget the grandchildren you brought two children to the world what happened happened that's it you see there's nothing to do with bringing the shamans out of the storage it has to do with what shivers sorrow by creating by bringing more having more humans on planet earth and if they're dead you are making it says next what happened was that excuse me he had one son and he died so in order to be muslim i think that's what it means now i'm i'm having a little karate thinking about it he's only mckay this is peru revolution says this doesn't work later if he he had another grandchild a second grandchild then then you youtube but it does doesn't huh a daughter a granddaughter yeah you see i put a granddaughter here but it's not going to work so well so we're going to see in a second [Music] and he had a daughter from that grand uh that that child so he has a grandson a vagina a great a granddaughter from the guy then the the grandfather on tap his partner i believe they mean karzai but if he had two children like in this case raphael mesa but and in this case you don't have to have a grandchild why because he brought down tuna shamans says you see even though you brought the shamans down it's not enough if they cannot have a continuation they're one of them is thesaurus or died it says i'm a foolish not like you and that's akasha on the swara of you have to actually call it it's uh so this might be a little confusing but if you start from the right these are four different cases very simple cases so all the way on the right you have the fat the same grandfather right if the grandfather had a son but that son had another son so it's good he's miso even though the middle guy went horizontal lemis he had a son and then his grandson what if the second case shimon had a daughter and the daughter went horizontal but the daughter had a kid so in other words he has a granddaughter everybody agrees it's good what if the third case the daughter had a son also good what's wrong with the son but if shimon all the way on the left had a son and the son had a daughter had a granddaughter and then the son went bye-bye so shimmer wasn't becoming the mitzvah because shimon never had a son he only had a granddaughter so far by the member you want to say brother bro if a boy replaces the son a grandson uber to lebron bartow a granddaughter instead of the daughter the culture came bro the barton the third case and certainly a grandson instead of a daughter alberto lebron but a daughter instead of a son a granddaughter instead of a son no good um so i had a shy law but this answers the shiloh what good is it if you have a grandchild so just thinking about my own personal thing i have a grandchild yeah my grandchild is really only 25 me 25 me 25 percent my wife and another 50 percent goes to from lawrence so how am i so with my grandson child it's only 25 it was it's a 25 percenter he's he's 75 from other people for my wife okay so me and my wife yeah but that's that's that's what it says you and your wife have to produce two but over here us four produced one why is that the answer is very very passionate that's the side of the sugar when you have a grandchild you're not being making mister with a grandchild where your makaim is the approval with your child then your child is alive but you having a grandchild the child that died is alive and going he your mckinney missed it through him that's how it works and that's what rather says there oh malaya all you need to do is make sure that there's human beings in the world and through your child you're my kind admits i your child is dead but look there's a continuation kept going to from one child is not enough if you only had one child and that child produced two not good villains what about the story with their chances of it's uh violent you better get married quickly and have children my grandchildren my two grandchildren for my daughter that's enough so you see if you have two children from one child two grandchildren from one child that's enough says just wanted him to get off his back he was annoyed with them so he made up a bubba myself he said oh i have grandchildren don't worry about it which to me i'm thinking now is a little pillow what he's he's saying he's selling lakshain to tamil okay versus what happened sat there in the sheer for a very long time and there's a whole bunch of gemara's in fact the rambam when he talks about this he says it six times in a row that a person should not hold himself back if he has to go to the bathroom it's very dangerous it can make him sterile and tyson's i think i believe when we learned the titus says that nishtano at five nature literally changed there used to be a very thin membrane separating the two pipes the urinary tract and the zera and that no longer exists scientifically but tais is the standard the the point is that if a person holds themselves back it can rupture that skin and he won't be able to have children and that's what i'm doing so maybe he can have children anyway so there's no he doesn't have to get married i tavis and everything we spoke about yesterday then we're going to talk about today the person should be married he's busy learning or some say he was already awkar so that removed his taiva so the whole point was that he should have more children he could have children anyway so why did he talk he stopped telling me get off my back i have grandchildren but instead of telling look i'm sterile and going into private details don't worry about it i i took care i already didn't have the minutes says says rashi very important you should write this in your gemara here this is not to say but i'm literally like kumar says but how do you know that the sons of your daughter are considered like your sons daughter that's the nakuda bonus he tells you they're all mine so you see that the grandchildren go after the father even though it's through his daughter lovin's daughter he also said the cattle is mine the sheep are mine what so the really that really is what you want to say is you started off your business with the sheep through me i gave you the first sheep to start off so everything is mine you you bought rakhalee for me you acquired them for me so that's not a good writer and i want to do a little bit of a chart here but didn't have much time vaccine you don't really need a chart so let's figure this out together katrina was from sheba yehuda el pass he married the daughter of maher maher was from an asha avig gillard so if we go to this positive mocha the father where is he what champion is he from menasha okay remember he's from menasha and then it says this menasha person he had the problem is only from yehuda not from an asha so how did a menasha person is from you though the answer is through his daughter a menasha daughter married a yehuda and and the grandchildren i'm hiking him so you see that benebana and through a daughter are also considered by name mas nissin the laughter be sure i'm just thinking now i didn't think about this my daughter i only have a daughter that has children my son doesn't have kids yet so my daughter has two kids a soccer and a caver so i'm joined so through i mean i'm yours anyways what i'm saying based on this gemara when they bought my own bottom and two but it's only no everybody agrees that two children from one kid from the daughter is not good not good enough okay i need my son to have kids to be mamish make sure that everything goes good and more talks about it soon my sister and life yeshua our mission is says once you have a boy and a girl you don't have to be kind to approval anymore should be married it's a good thing to be married no more approval two kids is enough but says no no that means should be so if you get married young you say should be significant how you like me i'll do so if you had children when he was younger you're live music you should always have more children how many doesn't say exactly but you should add to the to the to the minimum the minimum two should do a little more now 15 might be pushing it but four five six seems like okay i don't know okay we're not going to get into it everybody i don't know is it's there about here that you should have more children it says in the past you should see your field villa and don't don't take it easy at night continue because you don't know who's going to live you don't know that these two children are going to survive all the way throughout or if they're going to be kosher so make sure add to them you don't know if they're both going to be good both going to live forever right [Music] no it says no now that you be sure you should always learn torah it doesn't matter how old you are just because you learned a bunch of torah and you know coloretta are cool about pet doesn't mean that you're finished for life when you're younger so you should have your older shirt here we go we're a middle serious man it's a beautiful thing we're managed in the now it's not the biggest nice in the world because it does take up 49 days of the year so okay it would be cool if it happened like boimer let's say nevertheless it's very special that we're learning about it today omrush name officer elif zugin tell me the moya loyola rebecca rebecca had 12 000 peers to tell me them a total of twenty four thousand mcvoss all the way till we mourn the hero of these twenty four thousand nationally not covered because they didn't act with respect to one another so whatever that means i heard many russians throughout my life that it's on the highest level of kava davis but the point for us in the year 2022 so obviously we're not tamil river kiva and we don't because world's not going to hold us to that degree of covet but we have to be knowing because whatever it means for us we have to be known as that so in those days it was in learning they didn't respect whatever it does and now they shouldn't go around smacking people in the face being vaishna whatever our madriga the world was desolate no more torah so if you think about it why why is it such a big thing for us we don't shave and music and weddings morning it happened thousands of years ago a thousand years so what we're going to still there's a lot of tragedies in classrooms it's interesting i don't know the exact answer but if you think about a little bit if today's day and age you put all american scientists and highest doctors in one 747 and it goes down bad crashes so throw science and everything else a hundred years backwards will take a tremendous amount of time to make it up torah is even it's much worse than that 20 the whole continuation of claudius was in those 24 000 tell me then we never made up that tire that that was lost it threw us back it says not stop oh twenty four thousand people died and six million people died in the shawah was it 24 so we do one day of uh more like but it's the torah of clay israel the whole continuation everything that we had and we're going to see in a second was made up somewhat but never to that degree of the four thousand talmudim and he took these five tal meet them and he taught them all everything we know and if you look at all the mishnays everything it's all these these are the tanaan the five tanay rabbi vera behuda the famous verb these were the five main ones he had all the time but these are the main five that that the tire came from in brooklyn i said over here the the famous ben yoda that he asks why a lot of people ask why why does it say there's 12 thousand zugos the martians say there's twenty four thousand we don't say there's three million pairs of people that died in the shoah six million you say the whole number because he says that remikiva anticipated this and he put he put them he paired them together so that there should be no economics of his head the weaker with the the stronger and the weaker should give covet and alpha beacon it didn't work harusas okay the idea of zugus of cabrous says over here you see the power he takes the other direction see the power of five people remain shimon they brought tara back five five not against the 24 000 but they the target that we have today is from them what five people could accomplish five people something about uh it was last year of his life okay that's what he's saying um a terrible death very tragic death in chas askara it's a breathing complication it's the worst death possible and omar of massive allah that even after your mitigates was proved says that a man and a woman make one goof one body so if you have a half a goof you don't have the simha you don't have the bracha you can have bracha as always it wasn't a toy is the wife if you don't have a wife it's not good if you don't have a wife you don't have torah you don't have a choice you don't have protection they say that from this gemara wife protects a husband from america so that's why the ashkenazim at least we go around seven times in the choppa because that's like the climax she's protecting she creates the wall of protection [Music] i don't have my ezra the person that helps me shia means pushed away from me so look at rash you have to see the rashi here rashid ramasa smacking middle of the page is [Music] person has to deal with the mundane things of the household a person needs a wife to take care of the basic stuff otherwise you won't be able to learn torah um here that's where they get it from the woman will circle the man right there let's go two minutes of either because we have very long dabbing coming up if a person knows that his wife has irish and he's not became the mitzvah so one shot i saw here is because if she has your shamayim maybe she won't um suggest and she won't be open about it so the man has to take things in his own hands before he has to talk nicely or other things but not manage we'll see in a second after awesome africa we learn a different place learned themselves neither right before when you anticipate nidos so you can't be with your wife for that time so mello but rashi says bikridus that if they argue with him you're showing him if he's going on the way then you could you should be making the mix with it one period in other words a 12 hour period if she's so at night it's the night the day the day vladimir divine shows i was our mitzvah mitri d if he's going to do a mitzvah then not because he'll be tutorial he might forget about the mitzvah or whatever have a wonderful day you