Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 59 by R’ Eli Stefansky

whose yard side happens to be today [Music] my mother allah shalom was nifter at the very young age of 49 and that is the exact age that i am today my mother i'll just tell you a little bit about her and not i don't want to bore you she was a big tzadekis she had many many friends one of the things that we heard during shiva over and over and over everybody thought that they were her best friends very popular woman very funny very this and she had one thing she always wanted my father to learn torah my father never earned a living he was never in kylo he refused to take money for learning so she was the bread winner she was a teacher and besides being a teacher and then later on a principal she was lifter in muncie and she was a principal in ramapo and monsieur when she was lifter she took care of the house she took care of us because my father was learning all the time she did all the carpools all the taxi driving and she was a huge huge balance headset always making food for other people being visiting bigger highland cleaning people's houses crazy i don't know how she did it she had a tremendous amount of choices her nostromo [Music] by i will be fasting based hashem as they typically do on her yard side it's not a cabala i the first year of crime can ask you said don't fast the first year and then if you want you can fast afterwards so i try to fast so i'm not going to be drinking water today and so go easy on me this is from sid wellman doing the ha doing the daf in the hospital after aneurysm in the abdomen surgery hashem does nissim yosef on the screen if you're able to show are you sure uh no oh yeah you can continue showing it's fine bye everybody belly i think you'll enjoy the enclosed story bye rebecca bitterman fine it's different for a different time uh it's very appropriate for your vomit bark hashem had a grandson yesterday another golden dove i'd like to say it's related to my ass connors fedex particularly your sheer depending on whom you ask by the way i have to give me gracious personally vin he was the one that brought the khalita shoe to the sheer in brooklyn it was very very cool to have it and now i'm back over here and i have our very own halita shoe when necessary we'll pull it out depending on whom you ask i already signed up between 120 and 170 people so he's in competition with rifalda barber but then he goes on to say he's not in competition unfortunately i don't keep track as i'm more interested in getting more people to have a fetus in learning than the numbers although numbers are fun too nothing like a healthy competition i always keep kimaris in my uniform and sign in my card to be ready for an opportunity i guess you can call me daffy me minutemen is that a minuteman is that how you pronounce what is that what is that wikipedia look it up here's kindly then here's a car spotted eight daff is this for real like is this a daft car or you just so happen to be it says eight and daff i don't know looks like it was that in england or something by machi wurzburger it was nice to follow some of the livestream while you're away to add to the vart you said about your father-in-law today i once heard you should keep it as well meaning will need to be see the exit by example that's my fault he needs to be another to lead by example okay i'm not going to read the rest have a wonderful day mecca wurzburger mdy toronto dear family friend suddenly passed away the shop is the age of 59. he loved mdy he's proud to be part of this amazing daf yamiche here family in maine by the lack of love moving families like new jersey because terry is the best gula and to you by the way i was just told yesterday somebody is basically promised a hundred thousand dollars to uh mdy and the gemara initiative i believe because he saw nisim guluim the people that gave money to mdy because of the satire not kidding i just heard this yesterday so whoever you are i know you are you know who you are unto you in the video it doesn't mean that everybody else is positive from giving because you already gave hundreds out our budget is over a million dollars a year by the way and no somebody asked do i get paid no i pay i don't get paid in the video they're not missing anonymously oh it's yossi klein's birthday today thanks for pushing me to do the angle from fidelity is that like uh i didn't read this yet card knox fidelity card knocks is that like um ad for him yaakov slattu for our something like that for our son what oh it doesn't say that here sladus yakov sladas yagamaka slade is our son you sure that's him [Music] forever son ali shahib and malkikaya undergoing a medical procedure today is that you know them and then you know this this kid yeah this kid is grandchildren i have to do another warning parental guidance it's one of those suggest i have a riddle not a great riddle but if you're doing the suga's with us we mentioned this a number of times how's it possible you have a woman who's a baola she's with a man but she's not a sign up she's not a guru show he's listening to another magazine over there by the way caught you he went another magazine to see the gemara yeah excuses excuses and then he asked me cash that's the middle shear okay great thank you no she's not she's not a zoyno she's not alamana she's not a grusha and she doesn't have a husband how's it possible [Music] she's still what you guys remember manas the girl was married off by her mother and then she refuses the marriage she's not considered a zone okay we'll see him together we have very very interesting uh gemaras today says the gemara we learned in the mishnah and this is what happened ya have a cayenne a regular cayenne who is mikkadesh arusin agrusha which he's not allowed to or a kangado who's makadish herosin and almana which is he's not allowed to marry does she lose her ability to eat truma now the mishna continues and says what happens if wow today sadiq we have to make sure that when you come here it has to be off thank you okay now i'm saying it because yesterday also saying we have to throw it one time can't let it slide uh it disturbs the island the almana who was engaged to this cayenne the kind dies now what happens they never the whole problem is that they're mr will be absolute there's going to be a bia that's illegal but in this case it never happened the guy died so the mission says it's okay she goes back to eating truma nisaremelu and his guys so very very interesting here's the possuk i know you're instead of gary but you gotta river from hi can't be on your phone no phones here today you understand tomer you're on top of it anyway i'm kidding he's you're allowed you're calling gary of cedar voice it says in the past oh very good not only this pasta but most of the sukim on today's daf this week's parachute here in heritage row amazing parishes emma perakov posting the gimbal akayen has to marry absula now the question of the gemara is according to rashi shmuel kind of understood the question is the kika consider what's yikach is it the erusin the kidushin or is it denisun is it step one or step two in other words if he was makada chicatano a naira up to 12 and a half years old and then she became a bagueres she became 12 and a half years old before he's able to do in a suin is he allowed to marry her because the tire says he has to marry absula and she's a baguieres she's a bagueres and a bagueres what's going on today yeah hold on hold on chill a bugaris is not considered absula because she doesn't have all the psum that she had when she was younger and the balaturum if you look at this puzzle on the positive he brings here if you look at bifsule it should say vu is going to discuss there's an extra yield and extra base and he learns that it's a remez to the age of 12. that when you're 12 years old you have all the sulim that's when you have suleim slaymin salimar as basano is is so if this grusha who's the akai and she's mr marshall absolutely is going to be absolutely the kind dies [Music] so what do you see from here if she got divorced from a coin godot the congo divorcer from harrison she doesn't become a khalala so what do you see from here that what creates kika if she if she could go scot-free after harrison that means that's not considered kika that's considered there there's no nothing going on between them it was just kedushian that's why she could go out and she could eat truma if arusin was considered kiko then she wouldn't be able to eat truma for the rest of her life she would be a khalala from the fact that our mission says she could go on you see that it's in the suin that creates the problem the the kicha and therefore in our question the fact is that he did not marry absula he married a bagueres and it has to be the ki has to be by their sin not the ki has to be very soon since she has to be by the nasseu and the ki so she has to be absula by the nasal and she isn't she's a bagueres ligament is going to go into bagheeras the problem says the gemara layla that was my question that's partial everybody agrees that she's through beer creates help that was my question she kind of repeats the question that we thought we understood certainly when it comes to being a halal that's bia but we're asking if the word could be when it's bearson and not to worry what happens after the irishman she becomes a begarist not a baguero she loses at the end of the day when he did kidus and she was absula and that's enough or maybe not it's when you she doesn't assume she has to be absolute a woman who is an almana she's a widow now he's allowed to marry a widow because he's just a regular client and then they they gave him the good news they said hey you're up you are a kangado nice in other words the main thing is that he got engaged or erusing kidushin when he was allowed to the nissuan part is going to be a problem it's not a problem she's going to be in our monitor and god will win disney soon but it's that's okay because the the main part is that the kika by erusian was okay so look at this pasuk amano grusha the so from the extra eater this is a special halacha that he's allowed to stay married to her but that we know also to our case of a bagueres this is an al-mana special allah he could take her even though she's an almana when disney soon she wasn't uh and he was allowed to get engaged there because he was a regular client he wasn't this is a special person gigahisha but how do i know about our case above bagueres he got engaged to her he was mccarthy sure when she's a town and then she turned into bugaris she's kind of sure when she's 12. then she turned 12 and a half maybe it's different okay the some want to learn that it's this exact issue right here we learn it from here as well okay there's another possibility the point is that there's a word isha mma law by begaris also we should say the same thing there's a special opposite that tells us that if the condition were done when she's a narrow and then she grew to be a bagueres and then it soon happened then it's okay says gamora no that's not good i need that show to tell me that uh could only be married to one woman he can't be married to two women so i cannot learn from the word isha our case of vegares that's the gemara mairusa but why are you using the isha to teach me a case that if he got engaged to an almana and he's okay getting engaged today why he's okay because he's a regular cayenne and then he turned into a korean goddamn nothing happened it's okay stay married her but our case that he was okay when he got engaged because she was a narrow and then she turned to vegaris that we can't learn from ego we have two things we can learn from the word isho and the very very similar cases like logically speaking is similar one is a woman who is allowed to be mukutish too because he was a regular client and she's she's a widow but then he turned the goggle so this marriage became an awesome marriage for him but since he got engaged to her when she was when it was okay the tyre says isha you allowed to continue being married to her they have another case here's a lot to get engaged to this girl because she was a naira she's absula and a narrow and then she turned to the baguettes she got older and she something happened to her and that i don't learn from the word esho that i the esho two wives are no good why should i learn this one not this one says what happened no one woman woman that's how we learned okay check it out aquaponics what does it say about you guys the art scrolls and the messiftas somebody one lesson um why did i say i i'm pretty sure i saw it somewhere okay if i'm wrong i'm wrong i take it back what are you saying one lesson not two lessons okay i'm fine either way it's the same but i'm very sure i saw that fight out of this time one lesson of an almana and now the second lesson of bagheeras but why why learn down mana one and at the beginners says [Music] she's the same exact woman nothing happened to her she's the same widow she was yesterday as she is today what changed is that they appointed him as a coincidence but over here something happened to her body she changed she got older her psyllium actually changed les dam whatever physical things happened to her body mma law that's why we don't learn it from the isha tyson points out that if he got engaged to oktano and then she got older and then afterwards he became a kangado so nothing changed in her body then she would be okay it would be the same idea the official mission sponsored anonymously for us for my wife and children we'll stick in for you also wherever you are why not nice guy only his wife and children says he cannot marry a widow doesn't matter what kind of widow she is whether she became a widow from kidushin or she became a widow from missouri i was just reading not that i have a lot of time to read the soldier in russia he he's told every you have to go notify the family that your friend died you have to know like they take turns so this guy's i don't know how to do it she accidentally says are you mrs smirnoff the the widow she goes i'm mrs smirnov i'm not a widow he said you want a bet harrison bennett again it's a physical thing some of her sulim are missing revelations and they say that's not an issue and we're going to see they learn from the sukim but it seems like that rashi learns this villain it's that it's a continuation of revelation is a woman who loses her suleim through an external object anything a piece of wood not through relations how does that affect her when it comes to the kind goddaughter so rebels and rubbish say that a congol cannot marry such a woman at the end of the day it says she has to have swoon she doesn't have absulum i don't care how it happened so i want to show you this amazing min we might have a few minutes here i don't know if you can read it on the screen they're from the same safer i just this is smaller the one on the right is small because i wanted to show you where it is if you want to find it in the milk it's parches emma you know our pirate show this week here in arizona mitzvah resham bays if anybody wants neither parish it's abortion today let me know i missed it i would like to do a minion not going to happen probably mitzvos listen to this anybody you can take whatever you want out of this i just thought it's fascinating and sheds a lot of light on some of our yiddish kite and what we do he says like this mitzvah in the middle what's this whole thing that congratulations can't marry this one that one lefish the main thing about a human being is that it should have a pure mind and good thoughts therefore the greatest man alive or for us the kind goddel who serves clyastrol and he represents colisero it's not for everybody this thing but for one person in the world he should only marry a person who never had an outside thought we're talking about a woman here the woman never thought about another man because if she did it has an effect on her children sorry but how do we know that this basula girl she never thought about another man hatred she calls manchester so he um that it doesn't matter because she's aktano and her makshafa doesn't really matter if there's action taken if she took action even though she's a titan then it ruins her thought but her thought alone is not enough a thought of ignora is enough without action a human being could ruin or uh scar taint their children and we want to be careful with the kind god but i think reading this it seems like we also have that ability to taint our children by thinking that's why it gives a shed a light on mah chavez and hiru rim and all these things avocados man over there you need to take physical action of course manchester united but if this tana she was nival then she becomes possible but what about an adult once becomes a big uh bulgarian just learned even though she wasn't nival she's awesome her thoughts they're bad about them so he makes a difference this the distinguishes between and then we go to the next question comes the time we're going to shane in this album and she was engaged to another man that's enough to ruin it she cannot marry that's why darko which we're going to be discussing a lot today is ruins it even though ships will kayam he asks a question but she's still absula no the mice ruined it and then he goes on to say okay inviter you get the idea in the says no it's not interesting shreds a very fascinating martial torah bono no because we always think it's just in my mind big deals i thought this i thought this i was maybe over is sir but what does it do it does a physical change to the children that's what it does well you can't be mapping on the whole world we're making the one person called the kangaroo baby soon that's our mission now that there's no difference he can't take a widow whether she's from erosion where does it say anything different she's an omana mother say the falmouth we know the story with yehuda and tamar and over there she lost her husband's she was the obama and he told her he called her almana but that was only she was already in the sewer of kamehameha maybe every almana in the torah because i looked it up in the torah there's no other almana mentioned that has a story it says you have to be a nice talamana triathlete but the one story in the torah the enoch is a few i'm honest but it talks about allah that was already in the sewer and the other one's also nach as well so we don't have a a case of an al mana that's erosion so i would think that irishman doesn't count over here you're not considering almana for harrison to any man and he and and he loses she loses that hassan of hers she's considered an almana she can't marry koen because there's an action taken she had a kedusan that action ruins it who told you now maybe she's not considered an al-malah do me the guru show because amman and grusha that says in the possible right that's the puzzle we added there's no difference between an almana uh a grusha for arizona soon she's considered the same that we don't have enough mina so therefore now take a look at this for a second over here we have the word basula that's what the passage should have said what is bisule so if you see the the center has the extra unit and then the one all the way on the left has the extra base it's the same word bifsule but we're breaking it down so ramirez is very interesting and the other we have to see that we look at it like this because the other ones say the reverse it depends how you start it's very very cool how this works the word basula according to a mayor means even some basulem doesn't say she has to have 100 pesos what oberes would be okay but here's the hap then the torah is stuck in a yod to tell me that what you thought it's the reverse of what you thought you thought a bugaris is okay i'm telling you that vegas is not okay so that's why he holds a bulgaris is not okay because we start off with the word basila the baguers is okay but then the extra u tells me that vegard is not okay so then what do i do with the extra base that shalom kedarka is okay because i would think since a bagaris is not okay and she lost some of absulum so shall i keep that is also not okay tells me it's in the place of basum biv sule where the absolumar so srila kadakar doesn't ruin it and mela he comes out with the reverse um what's the word uh no no the outcome the the the what's the outcome at the end of the day sri lanka dark is cautioned by him but guerrillas is not and look at the next russia lawsuit and say no if we start the psula means complete that means that a bagerus is not abhi is not a complete suleim she physically lost some of her soon as she grew older therefore the youth comes to say the opposite of what you would think and tells me but guerrillas yes here look ramirez's baguera snap because he started at a different point so they say begarris yes and every guerrillas yes so the bifsule comes to tell me that she'll like it darker pastels for a kind goddess okay let's see inside remain basula if we just say the word basula which it should say it would mean affilomixes so his starting point is the opposite of their starting point he says the word sula means sum and they say the word means all and may look with a yod adika suleim and therefore bagueres not bifsule and extra bays should look at that bifsula means in the place of the sulim and the mela doesn't have an effect on shiloh kidarka unnatural bia doesn't if this woman had unnatural beer she's still kosher to okay absolutely the word absolute means we're starting off at a different point besula means 100 percent and therefore what as is if we'll just say the word sula i would say a big guerris is not 100 she's possible therefore the torah says the extra yod sula filo makes us right in your gemara on top of that word likuna means takangado because a regular coin could even be married to abu ullah forget about ashleigh was [Music] so this is talking about ammanus he violated a woman is he has to pay a knack he has to pay 50 kasif and then if this girl and her father want they could demand that he marries her she shouldn't be for the rest of her life and also damaged goods whatever they can force him not so much niskar but it's against his will he thought he's going to get away with it and run away no yes he stuck with her he has to be married he can't even divorce her okay says rava i don't understand the question it says robert valencia alicia it says that you he has to be she she has to be his wife meaning a proper wife what's not unluckily a proper wife it comes to exclude a guru bomb question this puzzle is coming to exclude that if you use maanes if a congolese man is a girl he doesn't marry her forever why i'm sorry this almana he used ma'am she doesn't he doesn't marry her and if she's a gruesome she doesn't even marry a regular guy says if it was regular be on my mishima mono so we're going to see later on even your own refuta a girlfriend whatever is considered uh a boolean you can't marry elolaf lokidarko and we're saying no it's not talking about kedarka this whole song about you like darko and the torah is that if this guy had relations with her he doesn't he doesn't have to marry afterwards so you see that is not a problem for a kangaroo because if if shiloh was a problem for a kangaroo i wouldn't need apostle to tell me that this anusa doesn't marry him says the gemara's turn to non-testament base sponsored by moisture in honor of the gold star multi donut sponsored nemesis in both rooftops and goshmans says no we're talking about you look at our goal but look back here let's go back to this chart look what it says on top ramer and what does ramirez say about chiloy kidarko it's kosher for cayenne gadol oh matter of mary virav but rabbuh said that be a shalom is a problem for a coincidence he goes like the next chart that bifsule teaches us like your lazar that it's a problem [Music] now i have a shia la vida alum something to think about in this sugar related to the sugar obviously we're going to talk specifically i wanted to to think if somebody would ask me this what would i think i don't know if a his ish has a relation with an animal does she have to get divorced from her husband did she uh a woman who's mizana she has to get divorced is that considered nus shyla i'm asking you you'd say she has to get divorced good that's what i want to hear one day if people would say that great she's hive miso so but you have me so if you do witchcraft too does that mean you have to get divorced from your husband you have miso you're mikhail sabas what oh but but for the next fight is he a lot of relations with her until she dies there's no way then there's no aiden he knows fight says good morning [Music] is so why do you have to come on taboola she she happens to be a zaina and azana by the way is also any kind the author belongs to why and we we don't really passing like this but according to the and we're talking about in rebel azerbaijan has to hold like himself two singles dead relations but they didn't have intent to be mccavish one another to be kind of sure anyway she's oscar ii the kind real quickly i just want to since we're touching upon it i want to tell you a couple here according to the rambam you're either on but the rivet another is shining they argue and they derive it asks a bomb question if uh uh two singles she's considered a zina so then why does he have to pay her and he gets malcus then why does they have to pay her a knack you don't get malcus mp can ask so they hold that a zaina is only a woman who's dedicated to us that's that's a profession but not a person who's a special woman for himself just he wasn't a catholic sure there's others who say that the rambam agrees the are those who say as far as that the ram agrees that it's he's only concerned the rambam that out of busha they're not going to bring their girlfriends or whatever you want to call them to the mikvah and then they're going to be over on cars that was around the concerns i'm deciding i'll bring it up here but it's a macho like if you're showing them whether or not it's a you're over some resharing say or ever it's a not malcus okay there's a whole needle in the resin but the famous rambam that you're she's considered okay so says we're talking about a case and it's nibila the behemoth shallow kadarka because we're talking about she's marrying a kind god later you're asking me how could you marry the kind goggles she says no she had the beer she liked it which is incredible she's not considered a designer but it's considered if you consider this regular beer and if it's not if she's not considered a zoina so again it is a relation with the animal is that considered bio it's a terrible thing you can get scala for it death penalty but is it considered znos is it considered beer i told you the homosexuals based it's predicated on cases that don't exist that never happened but we have to know that it's it's it's just we're using our heads here what does the tire mean by the way just to answer your question what about the 300 khanum that died every year there's three hundred dollars they were bad guys those bad guys is perfect for them says whoa throws in something but we establish allah by this maybe you'll tell me that a bahama is like a piece of wood it's not beer but it's a piece of wood and a piece of wood shiloh kedarka also ruins it for a coin goggle what's the right that that's that that's impossible toilet paper every person goes to the bathroom every person uses toilet paper a stone in those days the point is that there's a foreign object that penetrates the body and will render every single woman in the world amucus eights bishop kadarka so it's impossible because then a congo can't get married to anybody every single person right so may law that can be the the reason that the animal creates only uh a hussarn in like a mukha saints the more i want to and that's the problem itself and we say no it's not a problem [Music] getting engaged or married to a woman who's nival to another man but he can't get married her because she's uh what do you call it but she'll like a darker by the way she like darko you gotta say she'll look at her because if she's never regular then forget about it she's not absolute so she liked it erica but she's not a zainab why because she was married illegally to this guy her mother married her off so it's not business she's not almondo she's not a grusha she's a menace she told her husband sorry no thank you my mother married me to you but i don't like you so she was never like a darkerton so that's why she's we have a case of schleich darker and she's not a zainab she's not a mana she's not a grusha that answers the question that's what dr rip haim said before who thought i was mad at him but i'm not hello there miranda's oh my god you should know that if a woman was nival kidarko regularly to behemoth that doesn't render her puzzle to kahuna why it's like a mukha said according to the mandola that says that a mukha said doesn't ruin it for kahuna it's a great it's a nice clean lotion to something that's not a human meaning to an animal a bishop is even though it's a terrible terrible thing and she wants to get married one one minute before she dies there was a story about a young girl who lives in a place called isa she was in a compromised position cleaning the house the revolt calif kufri mahrez and a dog was boiler like a darko the shiro rebbe laguna the shira rebbi likuna and rebby said she's kosher kahuna that's our case and rebbe meant that she's clustered to kangado as the gemara be made rebbe the author of the mishnah gadomi hava he he lived in a time there's no base of english anymore ella what he meant to say is really coincidental they can't ask me shyla terrible story this meshuggan a dog attacked her but she wants to marry this kind guy she says not only could he marry her she could even marry kangado which doesn't exist today but that's how kosher she she is says or whatever she means so uh just to tell you the the this concept of the western zoyno it's very interesting the only animal in the world if i have a lion and i trade trade my lion first sheep i could take the cheap and bring it as a carbon in the bait on the base and make this vehicle but if i have a dog which i do mando my my son who went to the receiver told him he told us we have to get him a dog so we listen to them don't ever listen listen to the reshive when he tells you to get a dog don't listen stu yacht so i want to take this dog and kill it i mean i want to trade it for first sheep i'll do it in a second the drone i'm sorry [Music] i don't care i have to bring your carpet to the mizbeh you'll take it but you want to trade you give me a sheep so i take the sheep and i want to bring to this bed and say no no can do the only animal in the world you hear the wrong the only animal in the world they cannot trade for a carbon is a dog so by the way stammer as a side note you could write that down in your gemara deron a guy came to ask for a piece of exhibition could you say mando a guy wants to donate money and say leela delicious mando exhibition said yes for tire you could do anything sir voice i'm taking it in i'm taking it tomorrow i hope to see a couple elon ish masses and if there's an elitism for my dog i will double it up that's a shame to run on caleb will hear zayna muttarim listen to this so this is a crazy case this is mama shiraboy so if you thought crazy until now this is a guy paid a zona to be with his dog and he gave her a sheep is that considered es lanzano you're here we have to talk about the guys in case if you pay a zina the other cases i forgot to say in other cases you pay a zaina for her services with a sheep so that sheep cannot go on the miz bear it has tomato but over here you pay desire to be with your dog why i have okay whatever the never happened the case don't worry about it same cave never happened but if he did and you cannot you should not be able to take this sheep to the miss bear but you could what do you see from that that relations with a dog is not considered relations because if it was considered relations then the payment for that relation would be awesome to be on the mizbeh and you're allowed to bring in his back proves the gemara their relations with the animal you hear akamim you don't get divorced from your wife if she has relations with an animal you don't have to divorce her it's not considered she's hive miso you're gonna say bye-bye to her anyways in a few days when they cop her but right now you don't have to divorce her right no that's why i told you says and what's the other case these are reverse cases the other case is if you have a shift that happens to be a zona and you traitor that trade is motor but shin mar name there's only two cases did not have four cases like menachem explained before torah just asked me with his assassination if a queen um violates a woman or mufud i'm sorry to say but this is like the way to explain it is like a boyfriend girlfriend he convinced the girl loisa he's not gonna marry her why because she's not absula so now we have to discuss what does that mean that if he married her they're married it's not mamish like you think should we stop here we're going to fall into a little bit of a brook okay we're late we'll stop here raboissai have a wonderful day you