Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 57 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Laughter] it's so good to be back so good we're it's 7 18 here in arizona three minutes and we got everything up and running everything's gevaldic i told the islam believe neder i'm never saying a bad word about gary bemoshed gershombe never can't so it was very torturous for me to be to be away i have to say every day was was a struggle every single day whether it was the technical stuff and just the locations and the just everything it's very very good to be back so thank you for the welcomes um we'll start with this one rib zakaria wallerstein a tremendous tremendous devastating blow to claudius role here he is at our serum on the septum soccer in new york if you look behind him there's the picture of ramirez shapiro that yossi klein decided on his own they bought me this as a gift and he shipped the terry to stroll costing 700 to ship that it's on my porch now i don't know why i made it to the porch and it's there but zakaria we asked him to speak and he spoke at the cm uh and he did a tremendous job as usual and he refused to take compensation it's tremendous loss for clydesdale the girls school that he has and all the shirum that he gave and the physique they gave people unreal unreal over here it says today after hearing the sad news about zakaria wallerstein a family member posted a video of him saying how you woke up today that means you have a mission and you can benefit your own shaman instead of waiting for people to do it for you after 120. being a talmud i immediately posted that that is what you said in the share today in new york let's just hazard in case this is your first time back so we had to share you here amanda you probably are not aware of this oh you are aware anyways we had a shirt in new york and uh i don't know how many people showed up at least 700 maybe more 770 right according to double the 770 the kids there's a lot of people and um i said over there in middle shear i was like ara that just like yibum is a missed opportunity unfortunately for the guy that dies he dies without children so the young steps in and has a child so to speak for him but it's not the same obviously it's much better if you have your own child you know so too when it comes to torah why wait for somebody to do it for you at the shiva house they're going to give out mishnays and all that stuff leader nishmas but isn't it better if you yourself jump in and do it yourself so he says this is what kyrie said and then it says the very next post was my nephew and you could show the picture gershon my nephew in turkey airport spotting the russia shiva now i'm a russia yeshiva went from rav to shiva yeah what are we looking this is better okay how are you doing thank you the one minute guy how about now yeah so malay from guests what's your name from yeah over here wow oh hold on let me set so there's no picture no better than new york i'm going to say a word to gary though yeah hold on here oh we gotta do the display and start make sure not multiple go home [Music] what happened okay so this is uh the picture of the rosh shiva on the way back home to talmidim so he put her on his family chat that i was into zakaria and then somebody else saw from his focus saw me in turkey and put it up there very nice the we have a business proposition for mdy hi rebelli thanks for all your hard work and putting together such a great share i was wondering if you would like to partner with me in a new business venture it's a new funeral service called roofinggoesbyby.com we'll offer a 10 discount if the nifter was bald iron trowering west hempstead [Music] hi everybody my name is menasha davidowitz from muncie new york i've been listening to for the past few months really enjoying a share i have a hard time learning in general your share keeps me going i can't keep and i can keep up and stand with your explanation and demonstration really enjoy it i have a big whatsapp platform and i brought over 55 people to start your share from there and they all gave me amazing feeling i got how you really and they're really enjoying i was on the way to this year in brooklyn on april 28th with another guy that doesn't dive with us every day and i got pulled over with a suspended license and got arrested small video attached feel free to share she wasn't able to make it i was so disappointed and really looking forward to meeting you and mrs hashem another time thank you for all you do is you sure have encouragement giving claudia's troll misregards manager davidowitz aka known as nine black nine block is arrested here we go but here's the rolex excuses listen i just remembered i really i just remember the story we were in south africa and we got to uh a border there was a van full of from people and i don't know if i ever thought that this wasn't so we go we get to uh we get to the border and they said who wants to volunteer to be one of the people from here to uh to to bring the passports so i said okay i'll do it so they they give me the passports and everything and we go in me and this uh native south african that was on the trip we go in and i i tell the cop i said listen i said i need to speak to the head guy here he says yeah i said listen here's a little cooper a little money you need to arrest me you arrest me and we got to tell the bus that i'm arrested so you're the mouse like this i'm rested and then the guy goes back says you're not going to believe it the rest of delhi the whole bus comes and they like how much do you need how much four thousand five thousand start taking okay anyway and then i said i thought no no just joking the rest of the trip half the people weren't talking to me okay so i don't i don't know about this i'll do y'all the name i've been there same thing yeah okay avoid say rip salmon touristy big tomato he's the principal in the lobby school in chicago made of art last night with the swirl ghosting so first of all i want to give a tremendous description of zalman he came every single day was a big physique to me so mazel tov he swallowed goldstein he took all the pictures at that big event even though it meant that he hadn't missed one of his casanas because he's a photographer he said i'm missing the khasana get somebody else instead it's very hard for him to find the replacement because it's like the busy season of the of the of the year he came he said he can't miss mishpochah and he came and now he didn't make any money he just took pictures for us and said gracie's going to him the monthly sponsors for mr anonymous continue if everybody wants to read with me go ahead try the boy or family i can't read it from ben rebellio ellie weinberg their family friend who suddenly passed away the chavez at the age of 59 again there's another guy that was at that cheer in brooklyn and he his final picture his last picture was with me at that event and he sniffed her at age 59. pirates of heydesh the walkenstein his kids watch the shirt wow unbelievable during shiva they sent in a thing unbelievable again tremendous tremendous loss to clyde israel the leviatha is today here in betchamesh at one o'clock okay ravoista we're holding today is definitely if you look at on the base it's kind of short therefore we could just go back and start from the mission we won't do the whole mission but just we're holding by the gemara anyway i'm in the base says typically speaking irison and we call it engaged but it's not the real term but erisan it's like what today what we call kedushin gives her a ring and then he goes away for a bit until there's nissuan penis so the aerosin actually causes you to eat trauma however if this is an irusan that's going to end up in a very bad situation because he happens to be a kangado and he's trying to marry an almana or he happens to be a regular kai and he's trying to marry a grusho which is awesome in the era so so that's going to create a khalala which is going to be also for to eat roma so today could she eat rumors we have a macholicus in the island they say it's okay because at the end of the day right now he's coming to her kenyan casper she be she he acquires her so to speak and therefore she could eat truma they didn't do it nissa yet they're they're waiting to do an answer so this is what we call mr maris libyapsula she's waiting she's in the wings to have uh israeli kabia because she's a gruesome and so we have a macholicus says the gemara italian mayor so it seems like the tanaka is ruby mayor right it's time missionary mayor he says an incredible thing if you it's very difficult to understand what he's saying um according to rashi's second shot which he likes more it's just in the resurrection completely don't understand neither do i really but rashid says this is the chat if a isro marries israelis just she can't eat rumah why why can't she eat rumor because he's a israel so certainly kidushi avaira that you have a cayenne who's marrying and trying to do in history or certainly for the four-legged animal is that right he's coming back today should be rocking my vacation is over oh my gosh [Music] i'm so happy to be here for for a few minutes until i saw you i remember my four-legged navel okay so by the way how many people like there's like a daily audience here no like 20 people or so more like this according to the silent gas according to you this is 20 what [Music] how many 20 about 20. you mean once somebody stood up and to give a real share them ran away but usually there's 30. i hear okay great wow i feel good the kids are there's more people here in the tv screen than they were in chicago i hate to knock chicago again but let me say they did well the last day there's 27 people everything is good does anybody understand this this caller climber a cayenne who's getting married the issue certainly shouldn't give his wife truma i mean he at least he's in the parsha are you struggling for sure not and that's what the gamora is going to discuss um look it's not great even if they get married there's no way in the world israel could give his wife trump taught if he marries another woman he could give her truma so maybe it's different oh my blessing underline this word right over here shy we have to remember this this is where bishaya the gemara is going to say later on well himself had a sufficient something what i didn't say shiala instead of rib ohio okay tonight so that's tomorrow also you'll see the island because a bunch of guys are going there and they're coming to me for shout outs okay let's learn some torah pets so if you look over here there's a pausing that says that's a person who cannot have children he has crushed baiting another thing became because he cannot marry somebody from the kahau but he could marry someone that's not in the ghal so typically it's unbelievable and we discuss this a few times person is married to a woman and he's in a car accident and this terrible thing happens to him he can't be married his wife loyal baby hashem so what's the halacha if this pets or do we have the same malacca like we had in the mishnah of a of a coin marrying a grusho oh yeah after so we'll say the the shear is also sponsored as miranda cash's friend yehuda ben who's nifter okay and then the the the whole share in new york was the reforest of for that for that person so okay one of the hugs are made of elizabeth so same shiloh you have a guy who cannot get married and he's engaged he's and so this woman is again she's in the wings to be married to have bee absula is remembered the same among the um and the mishnah in this as well lyrib absolutely right according to the mayor when you're standing there you're about to have the absolute middle era she can eat this woman who's about to have b absolutely she can't eat rumor of shivan absolutely but according to those two rebels she could eat because right now what she's about to do we don't care about but right now at this point she's engaged and the arusan gives her the right to eat truma the fact that she's about to have bibsolo that's not our problem [Music] the kind who's marrying or engaged a divorcee he could give truma to his other wife to another woman if he's engaged another woman the kind god can marry absula and give her truma he's in the parsha there's no one in the world that he could give truma to even though he's a client says wait a minute you just said you made a statement that absurdako can never give anybody yes he is in the pirates i'll tell you why because what happens if he gets married too obvious gabriel i'm a daughter of a girl so is at the end of the day that kahal gayrim so mela we're we're on under the understanding that she's not in the kahawai so this possibly of sudaku kusafa became doesn't apply to him why because he's not marrying in cal hashem he's marrying aguero i heard of a i have to verify before i say the name a very very famous personality destroy is married to guilleres because he's not alive anymore because i believe he's a khrushchev so you gotta i'll look into the beijersham and find out more details because we're going to get it's a bigger segue later on so he could marry baz garim and since he's a cayenne he'll give truma to this guiras says the gemara but who again remember i told you to underline who's asking this question who said this in a second we're going to see later on today the rebellion and answer will be shy of this exact question could shaft give truma to a g-irs will it possibly and he didn't know the answer this is moro itmar i'll tell you why because what happens in this very very unfortunate situation where a guy is in a car accident he becomes a krushafrah after he's married for 20 years to his wife for 20 years he feeds her truma he's a crying he feeds her true everything's great and then he turns into khrushchev and he gets the terrible news not only are you crucified only you just wake up from a coma after two two months in the hospital but you have to divorce the wife that you were with for 20 years so he says okay but not today we'll do it in a week from now a month from now i'm not no relations we're going to stay away from each other but not now says she could eat truma they're not over any surum there's no relationship he's just not divorced so she's still married to a cayenne so in that position of being married to a cayenne she still eats true mo rava omar holy he could still allow his slaves to eat truma so about you israel is saying a good vart you don't have to talk about a a very specific case of a guy who decided not to get divorced talking about sadiq he married guillermos but at the end of the day he's giving truman not to the guillories because that rubishah didn't know if that what allah is but one thing he knows that he could give truma to evidence therefore he is in the power show so it's very similar to our mishna what are you asking me you're asking me why is what's the connection between a khrushchev getting engaged and our mission of a cayenne getting engaged to a divorcee al qaeda and getting engaged to the divorce he's in the parish of truman could give anybody who wants true many other wife in the world besides divorcees khrushchev can't give anybody truma no the answer is he could ah he can't give a guillorious he's a lot of merry yours we don't know if he could we don't know yes no rabbi shaya you're right we're not going to go based on that but we're going to base it on something else akuru shafra who was married legally and he just turned kushafra today he continues giving his wife for a few weeks or however long until he divorces her or a krushafrah whose krishafla from the day was born could give truma advisor to a slave so he is in the parish of truma mma we have the mukhlaikes in the issues making indigenous you know why abaya says the the case where he doesn't ma he doesn't divorce his wife because he wants to say something that's similar to we're talking about issues now we're talking about marriage the affinity indices i don't want to learn it like rava from a slave don't bring me a raya from my wife that you were married to 20 years because she was eating truma the whole time legally now in order to knock her off the bandwagon you have to get divorced so it's not a raya that a khrushchev has the ability to give somebody truma he doesn't have the ability the reason why she's eating truma because she always ate trouble for 20 years what's what's stopping her because he's in a car accident that's why she has to stop eating druma what's stopping her is when they get divorced or when he dies okay they didn't get divorced yet on now we had the swara the other day which i don't understand about i have to tell you i'm on rob's side but again who am i i just i don't understand them so well he brings a raya bassist oh who gets married to cayenne and she doesn't have children and the husband dies when he dies according to you continue eating once you start eating continue eating forever obviously you can't do that so what's the difference over here that he turned into khrushchev because she should also of course says abaya she should stop eating trauma because of his khrushchev viravah and rava says obama answer how some poca kenyone when the husband dies then [Music] the her heter to each roma dissipates goes by back in a different way but over here he's still alive so what stopped the feeding truma only again there's no get guffa now this is the question that we said before which i didn't have an answer to it after they got married and everything is good to a doctor he married her who's boiler mouse she's a guillorist and he's a petsu a dhaka and we know absolute dhaka can't marry israelis but could he marry a giorez and give her truma ishtak value my legal but right then and there another goggle came in and asked him a question and he did give him an answer um sluggish this is the famous so the two of them are there are we are going to ask this question about absolutely getting married to aguillaris and he didn't answer him and rashad asked him another question and he answered him oh my review then ishai he asked me something that there's no answer to says rashi nu de la farsa and the bach sticks in chain anir the elephant so according to the bach rashi is saying i don't know how to answer this but others could answer it okay says gamora man so just as a small acdoma to this gemara there are two problems here in the gemara we have the the patsua dhaka himself could he marry could he feed and we have the woman getting married to him there's a problem on him and there's a problem on her there's two problems the guy the man and the woman they both have an issue says the gemaram le man who's the problem according to if sudako marries a guillotine you have a problem well who's the problem no matter what this woman can't eat i'm a mother beautiful mama if a daca remains a cayenne for every halacha he's a kai and he remains in his he's a cayenne and therefore he he has a problem being married to her yeah me man of childhood either this is what they are going to say very very simple if he's a full-fledged client then he can't be married to guilleres what is he doing and if he's not a cayenne then she can't be married to him so we might have shocked we have a problem she can't eat true mo so that can't be rubbish is problem okay inside themselves says you're going we're asking in the review though in reissi review that says no matter what she doesn't need rabiis says no matter what she does eat i think what is going to say it's the third mandomer vlasimiyakov reviewed himself says she has like a hollow she's a guillorist so he's not allowed to marry her if he's a cuddle if he's a if he's a pure client he can't marry her and if he can't marry her he can't give her true mate he's not a real client and therefore what he could marry her he could marry absula right but she still can eat on calgary he can marry absula but he can't marry her because she's a cahao we're going according to he says he himself review this says that aguer is considered kahal and what does the positive say but hashem so either way any way you look at it according to your view that's not even a shiloh no way could she eat rumors so when rabiani came to ask him hey that got this married to yours could could she eat rumor the answer is according to you though no now if we look at rubio you see the ruby ic where there is a full-fledged coin in the netflix coin if he's a full-fledged coin to omar afghar sagiris beat the cheryl kahuna because aguillares aguer in other words if you look over here uh afghanistan let me see if i have this here yeah here's the thing stop you wanna when is a guilleress motor to account according to your view do we have a three-way machine according to your view though the mother has to be israelis according to blesser benjakov either or even if the father is israel also aguileras is multitained and according to the ic you need that both of them should be even not not both you don't need even if both them are gayrim two garum get married their kid is mother lucuna so look at this the ha oh my rebecca says afghanistan no both of them are because she yeah that's what she is yeah mascara afghar shannon and if she's not kaddish if he's not cuddlish he's not a he's not a full-fledged client she also eats why though my cow gave him loyal so if he doesn't have a geducho and she's not from the kahal great that's what it says in the pasta a khrushchev could only not marry somebody in the car but he holds that game are not in the cahaul so he could marry him so invite yourself any way you look at it according to your uic you could eat to ask your vichai the question could agiaris married to dakota could she eat rumors answers contribute yes according to review did not so then what was the question [Music] of the standard bless me he said that there is when the mother when you add a mother to it does she become more kosher the kahuna but she doesn't become more culturally kahal she becomes kasha kuna hold on maybe she becomes muta kaho there she comes mother alcohol then she becomes assertive because if she becomes if she has a mother that is jewish then she becomes so so kosher that she's culturally she becomes part of the cahao part of the kahal is no good for pursuit says [Music] who married is the daughter of garen now he brings a positive to say that she could eat says the gemara exactly what we just said up until this point no kid this year that what if we just repeat about we said according to ryuda she for sure doesn't eat so i don't need a pasta she for sure doesn't it according to me i see she sure does it saturday pasta so what do you bring me apostle be there if you guys see loma lee craw i'm sorry lemani let me really realize so it's against this puzzle if you'll ever see lemonade crawl you don't even need a pasta you see from here that she doesn't become you see from here that she becomes kosher sponsored by mushy horn in honor of the gold star multi donut sponsored anonymously from ventureshine in both rookleys and kashmiris listen to this this is incredible so if you look at rashid you can do rashi now inside so now we're not talking about like in the mishna rashi said in the chat over there we're talking about that he married israelis no we're talking or a regular queen who marries a grusha but listen to this he brings her into the hopper villain there's no beer and not only that um and it was not even irishman he did a very funny thing here he skipped anderson didn't finish anything he went straight to chupa and only hopper [Music] now he says a different russian later he says it's cravolibia it's the the closest thing it's the step right before so i'm that say that arusin if you get engaged you do errors and i didn't get i don't like the word engaged if you do arusian this this lady this grusha who's getting engaged every single kind could eat roma ruins it all yes so listen to this she's a bass client she eats truma all day long she's already 18 years old she's been eating tree machines she's a baby her formula was truma everything was true about 18 years straight she goes to and she's a divorcee she goes another cayenne and says let's get married it's a big no-no because she's a divorcee she says let's do hopa before harrison that moment that they did this funny thing called chopa which doesn't do anything didn't accomplish a thing she can't eat truma for the rest of her life she's a khaloa why because she's a step before bia and it's as if she's nival to somebody that's possible to her people are going to say xavier is the whole thing that's it she's done don't exaggerate there's nothing going on here who's abba rav rav who's older than him he calls him rav abba but you know if you have a girl who's not rogue libila libiya it's not right libya less than three years old the whole point is that square of libya but there is no beer by a three-year-old but you know where there is by a three-year-old this kidushin the father could accept kedushin on a two-year-old [Music] i just want to pause there for a second because we have four minutes left if you look in evan ezra here i have it here i actually evan ezra at the end of aleppo alright then it says and then he says physically speaking republican going back and then he says here unbelievable thing what what's so significant about this is that you see in this video if a girl is one day before three years old sule one day after three years old or absolutely physically don't come back if there's a ibra yar if there's an extra month then all of a sudden she gets 30 extra days and he'll soon come back physically says yeah look hello go go eli this is the xiaomi this is one of the places you see in jazz the ham changed nature based on based on how they do the the calendar nature changes it's right in this think about it you also gave me the eyes but it's not and that's the whole point it's three years that's the whole point it's three years of years i know that's what you'd say you would say that's what you'd say but the you shall be says not like that you go the the the nature changes based on what i'm passing it's one of the most famous places in here okay if she's one day old then the bia is considered to be uh and the condition and as we had if she was if there's a boom here what a what a story she's less than three years old she's already married her husband already died and now she has a second husband already even though she's three years old if somebody else has relations with her um i have a picture here if this three-year-old isn't either and she sits on ten mattresses in this case three then the bottom bottom mattress is like her it's unbelievable because usually avatuma makes what once it will go go to that chart avatuma makes a re-shine if avatuma touches something else that something else becomes a re-shine like a cli arisha he makes a shiny but in this case the nida there's a concept called mishka vu something she sits on and lays on like a couch in our house everybody's couch is tummy because of this becomes avatuma so the avatuma could create what what does avatuma do a re-showing that if it touches a clay the clip becomes stomach however this guy that was with her when she was a neither he becomes anida tomas nido so first of all he becomes tommy for seven days but his mishkav is slightly different he goes down juan madrega even though he's like anita but the mattress the bottom mattress even though listen the shares that they're not even touching the neither didn't touch it there were one under the other and they all become atomic but over here it goes down one madrega to a re-shine and a region could do what to make food tommy how are you doing danny have a rich uh avatuma makes resent and rejoin makes oil tummy next mrs lecoin and if we're just saying the difference between a three-year-old and under three years old that rav is going to admit that since he did choppa to somebody that's not in the parish of beer at all then she doesn't become possible for eating tremor but if she's over three years old but absolutely she becomes possibly eating trauma bachelors she's three years old in one day therefore the be account and that's why she becomes apostle but less than three years old says shmuel according to rav the let me pass be uh to be a zero it doesn't have any effect lemon pasta what's the whole point why is huppa so bad and that you're mental to her truman you can't eat true matthew with a cutting because it's carvalabia it's about to be beer but over here there is no beer with a three-year-old less than three years old so mela it has zero effect even according to rav have a wonderful day [Music] you