Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 52 by R’ Eli Stefansky (Fixed)

[Music] so one of the final days here in chicago tomorrow bazer australia new york brooklyn new york wt guys cop how many people signed up over there it's unbelievable um 450 people four signed up and we're not we're not we can't it's not enough 450 is not enough we need we need we need a thousand we need a thousand minimum okay why is that here's a guy caught in lakewood in one of the bakeries there and here's rabbi payson waxman learning to dive with his grandson in lakewood new jersey revised if you're wondering what rafale the barber does when he's not giving haircuts here somebody caught him through the glass in a pizza shop holding two gemaras in his hand trying to convince somebody to join the daf i'm sure the guy's already whatever you the noble dolph on the plane nothing better than that on the plane and here you have robbie vandeveld who signed up three people in his restaurant three people close the deal i believe he is and here we have a email from mr anonymous and we've heard that all the many people did not miss a single daft this month even with all the preparations the end of itself it's a great accomplishment to call kavot to all of them but i think it's equally important to mention those like myself who did miss some days of course so we talk about it all the time especially right after pesach we know that many people fell off the bandwagon and many people are missing daphne it's normal it's all part of nafiomi the question is what do you do when you fall behind and that's the trick that's why we have a very high success rate because of this one trick listen to this i live in the new york area i know what you love when you're anonymous so we won't even mention the borrow he lives in a borough though he doesn't live in the five towns he's going to borrow okay that's good enough and i have thought that having this shirt at normal time would be great stays up to 1am to listen to share live she figured when i'm in arizona stays up to 1 30 a.m to 30 a.m 2 30 a.m so i'm in the states it would be a breeze but it wasn't shopping and cleaning and the whole thing preparation for yantev helping the wife the that schedule just never worked out for me and the reason i stay absolutely usually because i just can't push myself to learn from the recordings i find the something to learn this year is live and if i miss it it's sorry for me to learn when the share is live if i miss it's hard for me to make it up so here's where the important part comes in i'm still holding with the daf i skipped what i missed and i've continued from where we are currently holding that's the trick whatever that you missed all these daphnes start today definitely base pretend nothing happened i hope to make up the law stop him though i can't make up for the lost days yeah yeah move his legalist going fine but the daf it's not worth dropping the dot because he missed a bunch of davin but using your solid advice i did not throw in the towel saddle car metallic four seven dimes barnes shame you have a lot of foul that didn't fall but you should know rebellion they have many followers who did but i've gotten back up because i believe almost every single person probably missed the dot for two there's no such thing it's almost impossible thank you very much today this month's carlos sponsors anonymous the scrolls should do him for his nieces um paris by the lock and leibovic families might be their last day of this 30-day sponsorship lakewood new jersey because toyota is the best segula sponsored by lee leaders though this is again if you're in the new york area the new jersey come tomorrow night just be my classic each other you know what it means to see five six hundred guys from the same share something similar to what we had a room have a chance everybody knows each other it's going to be a massive singing dancing it's going to be gevaldic so even if you're a very shy person or you live very far and you have a lot of excuses come anyway all sponsored the the whole um the refreshments i don't know what there is nothing major not like you know chinese or anything but refreshments sponsored by murad nakash and everything else by miranda cash all the audio visual and everything so you subscribe around aaron [Music] got this morning i got pulled over picture right in front of the show got pulled over by a cop in a range rover autobiography you know what i'm driving now what year is that car that you gave me 2006 honda civic or uh what's going on here crv it's unbelievable the lights are yellow the whole thing is unbelievable stick shift over here in the morning no i was talking about your car that's what i was talking about all right 206 and autobiography that's razor rifleman's razor razor boys here we go if this is your first year and we got to prepare for tomorrow there might be some people that never learned to vomit in their life there's a lot of concepts that if you didn't learn your moments it might be difficult so we'll try to go through them very very briefly but everybody knows what a get is and the business stated that if the other let's say two vamas falter to him the brother dies without children and had two wives and one brother one of them gave this yavama get and then gave another ibm again or one one ibama and two vomit gave again and again so it might be could die just to see the loss in the dimension let's see if we can see it's a very long mission that's so the second person who gives a get didn't accomplish anything according to him leo in other words you don't become answered to that woman's relatives or yourself yeah now haram said there is a get after god and there's a mime after a reminder and then six lines down it says keita very much appreciated says we start off the mistletoe there's no get after it get home say there is the get after you get what should be the next thing kate is how do you what happened how do you have a get and then i get no that's not what the kimora says that's not what the mission says okay sad mimer and then again it's a little little interesting says the gemara i don't i don't understand the lotion kate said also mimer says is that what we're looking for that's not really what we're looking for you're right it starts with the get and then another get great what's very interesting is the mission is not going to talk about it the mission is not going to describe it that we did yesterday in a braiso then now we're going to another case there's one of them and he had one yavama so obviously he's not going to give your two guitars because that's completely ludicrous so what he did was kate said haters on how to get out of this awesome first he did a minor now what is a member if you're brand new mimer is the concept of kidusha giving a woman money for conduction a ring just if you do it tell your vama it's called you don't like it i just don't like the angles a little bit on a i like straight dead on you know also venus the way you get out of that is by giving a khalitsa she removes the shoes she spits the whole process but first there's a mimer then there's a get the get is not strong enough to get rid of the zika or the bottom that there is between your vamana and the other for that you need khalifa the gut is strong enough to get rid of the mimer which is like conducion so like in a typical couple there's classification there's a ring you want to get divorced you give it get but there's still a bond between them with the rice there's a bond called zika so what are you doing next awesome says if he gave her money and then he was miyabim her then it's perfect that's the missing attire that's not really what the torah says the torah says justin straight direct okay of the opinion that maybe this guy hold on let me just direct traffic here okay great ravuna opinion don't do what the tire says do a little bit more give her a case of key douche give her a ring be a little bit more mensch love more what's the word civil this might be a better word okay like we do today in our society says it's not a good ride from our missionary it's another way of doing it if you give mimer and they can do evil it's also the myths but in other words this is the real mitzvah directive without any money involved you want to give money you're awesome accountability says though like what did he do he didn't ruin anything no it's a big thing if a person gives money to zivama so the zika the bond flies away it dissipates now he's more like a regular husband or wife this aerosol this sort of like an engagement but not really and is soon and then the skiduci so hey my life mister coffin since you got rid of the ebon mitzvah maybe got rid of it completely and all your makaim now is just a regular marriage but you're not being mikayam the mitzvah to give your brother a memory alone the bottom line is and i mentioned this a number of times today is that you should if you are going to do you first of all we don't do evil but in societies that you do there are some inspired events it's better to do it with kidus like rafuna okay goofah omar ravuna interesting swiggs today by the way yeah yeah that's right well there's three ways to get married right right and we're actually going to talk about all them today exactly what words he says and how he says all different things because he might mess it up by by but it's a good point where you're saying he might be missing no it is that's kasif my main case is very equal just today we're not talking about a regular marriage between a husband and wife we're talking about marrying your sister-in-law which usually is forbidden to you but because she felt to you the brother died without any children then you're allowed to marry the sister-in-law and instead of being able to just taking her home he decided to perform kedushin because he thought that's what he's supposed to do does it work how does it work that's what we're discussing that's the subject yeah yeah it's just a fancy way to say conducion and it's to differentiate between conduction money that you give to a wife and money that you give to involvement it's the same thing it's just called and it's not in the torah tara says to do that the way to do it when your sister-in-law falls to you is first you give her money and then you take her home your miata vimble but if he if he first was miyabim and then he gave her kasifkidushin kano well involved also my rap what do you mean she's already his wife 100 so but we gave her a ring so it's just a gift what do you have to do with anything though is there any kind of that's one of the three ways to be kind of well the main way to be the only way really to be kind of midday is doesn't mean you miss understood we said if there is it just flows revlon says you should do ebon you should first do my mirror then even what if he jumped in the evil what is raven that's what he meant to say it but it says that if you do what the torah says it's very interesting you do what the target says you get malcus now how do you get malcolus malcus is a director it's a it's a concept in the torah that if somebody is over whatever you get malcus so the fact that he's getting malcus tells me that midori so you have to do kedusan and because he didn't do kidus and he didn't do mimer he gets marcus no we're not talking about that kind of malcolm's machismartism in the reborn this is the rabona type of amalgas it's not 39 lashes it's whatever they decide it's a different it's me they're abandoned to to make sure people are doing that there are barons and now the gemara goes in very interesting stuff the rahav menager is the lost from yes the mission including says that one of the three ways to be kind of a woman is bibia but don't go ahead and do it and if you do it you should know that the rabbi are not happy with you it's preachers it's not a wage you should act and you get malcus um if a person goes over to a woman in the bus stop however that something gives you a hundred dollars it's a ring it's also not a not property get married in a hall you might have like a mention a show not in the middle of the street not a middle of the marketplace on how we act and we shouldn't act like behemoths is really what we call an engagement they call it then it calls aerosol which is not engagement is really what we call conducion already it's like what yeah probably even more than that you have to get a divorce after that you can't just say oh that's harrison uh but not what we did today so if somebody cancels a get meaning a person sends a get with a messenger and when it's on the way or whatever he tells them it calls up the messenger don't give it that can lead to a lot of issues the messenger could say i didn't get the message he could just fight him on divorce her anyway it could lead to terrible things if i'm saving et cetera so whoever cancels get when it's in route once he gave it ready to the slayer he used to give him malcus um now a person could always be myself let's say you could say i'm i'm forgiving you alone let's say you owe me a lot of money i'll say look you owe me a million dollars just give me a half a million dollars and i'm about to the rest but he could go to two ways and say listen i'm going to tell him i'm about there but there's no way in the world i'm giving in i'm i'm michael and with half a million that's moisture what about a get the best thing comes you know like uh this famous people in new york that are sitting down in jail their job is to get people that that deny get them agunus that's their job we have it in chicago one of the famous robotim here had a few stories so a guy they beat him up they're beating him up and he says you know if the turrets are tweeted i'm gonna give a get i'm gonna give it a get we should know i don't mean to give it i just don't want them to beat me up she's moisture it doesn't really work it doesn't work at all however if you even say it you might be putting a coil so there'll be rumors about this get and therefore you gave malcolm's it's not fundus marcus people could die from it it's very very very painful umand the pakistani uses a very easy lesson it's somebody who's very christmas to the what happened great so there's no surprise you should have your room by surprise here we have it it's this is yeah i'll show you guys it's don't shoot the messenger so i just used one of the uh the baldwin brothers who it doesn't represent anybody done don't speak the messenger the guy comes he's actually he did something bad he needs to go straighten it out he needs to go to court and figure out what's wrong and how to get it off he's five she's like they're going to threaten me they're going to put me higher who are they and he doesn't go anywhere oh you don't go for 30 days the top of the shantae and he doesn't appeal the this hair they put him in he should talk it over with them he gets marcus if a son-in-law lives by his in-laws or if they is right so what do we do what do we do we're a boy first of all you did i did but i have to tell you from experience you don't need malcus i think you're you're struggling if you live by your mother-in-law's house you need something else but since the amount there was a guy that just walked by his mother-in-law's house vinegar after he says i'm learning this i live across me from my so i go into my house i get malcus just coming in and out all right i don't live across the vehicle australia i don't i have a house that's across the river because i only i'm only there two to three weeks a year when i lived in lincolnwood i purposely lived four blacks away yeah the nag there is but it happens to be uh dr david will testify because his son lives right next door and his dr david's son is my schwerz aiden law no is his son married my shepherd's granddaughter so you have my fair granddaughter lives next door then her father lives next door to her so she sandwiched and her grandfather lives directly across the street and her uncle lives directly behind them am i exaggerating and you live down the block his brother is gross and you i reminds him who lives across the street too how are you related not related you just provide the cars okay it's a little much for me anyway so you got malcolm just for going by the house over there says gomorrah how made them have a diamond what happened was that there was a shot between the mother and the guru he says that mother-in-law likes the son-in-law so there was a trap between these rumors that something's going on something fishy is going on between the two so you have no business encouraging those rumors don't walk by that house and this is the same saving here there's no malcols if you do two things wrong in one action you didn't get engaged this girl you weren't going out with this girl you just met catherine how do you make this beer then you get malcus now it's kadai to see tyson's over here because this saves us the filo no no that's not the one i want to say the next one is next isis so we today we rely on our diet that's why you yankee you're able to be by your in-laws house right on how long how long was it the amree bakulu nagit i at least i lived in my first house my friend didn't know i was there like the famous mice have told you that the people come in and out a guy emerson my sister guy asked me he's there for like a week he goes what yeshiva are you collecting for his first dessert i've been here for a while i was like whatever it is the guy didn't know that atmosphere owns the house everybody has the code they come in they grab a room and go invite her not you guys that are watching don't don't start calling up now okay next so says tyson that's the only thing why he says this is beautiful enticement look at this there is no cypherim when it comes to their abundance like this these hormones go after this the sheath that's less machmer and therefore the the homura of nasty vice versailles doesn't apply to us today okay hold on we gotta we can't we got you know how many people you know how many people are telling how many people watch this year gotta hold the questions [Music] some say that even if there's an engagement but then you go and just directly you use b instead of ksf that's also malcus because that is considered prietos taraba kate said mimer so what's the story no san lucas have a shovel what is mimer that's what he's asking why is it called manga he gave his yavama not his wife obama he gave her money or the equivalent of money something that's worth something uberstark said if you could be my college with the kes fc should be available guys with the star what's the difference you it's the same thing that you do with a with a regular wife so you can do it with the obama so what do you mean whatever the style you write by a regular woman that's what he wrote over here says the gemara that's how it is so what do you mean what's what do you mean how do you do it with a star he wrote on a piece of paper so oh my god we're talking about the tsuba what kind of extruder did you give you your sister-in-law mrs obama she just lost her husband who happens to be your brother the terrorist says he's from marrier what's the what's in the suba is it a hundred is it two hundred is she almana what is she says the gemara cause of allah i'm not playing by planing my name is so-and-so the son of son so kabil is he has planus i accepted by myself to take this valma and to give her to support her with the fairness of heroin give her everything she needs now what about the tsuba well that's take subwasso let's the state of the deceased if he less law marisha and if it doesn't he didn't leave any money like you know there are about a machine then in fact you have to give the the second guy the brother that's the kind of mitzvah he should do the evil he should give the ksuba because they should lay their calibrated lights here one of the big reasons of suba is that a person shouldn't just divorce his wife in three seconds it should hurt him in his pocketbook therefore i didn't mean it like that but you know what i mean and his fanny thing pack whatever he has he should it's requested boy i buy me rubble nothing will get vomit i react with wrestling many look at these questions everybody say very very interesting questions good love district stuff today if a person gives a get to the obama and he says hi ray gives his wife a get i'm jumping now to a man and a woman a man and a wife i'm skipping what we're talking about just to understand the question you give a person gives his wife again he says but you're not going to marry anybody is that a good guess you're divorced from me but you can't marry anybody in the world not a good guest so the mother wants to know what if you gave that exact get to yavama you're divorced for me but you can't marry anybody else in the world now what's the habanera natural work get involved the whole concept of get is only made up by the rabbana it's not in the torah get them get the letter animations so the simplest part is since this is no good by a regular wife it shouldn't work by it what's the whole reason why you get works by ivana to begin with it shouldn't work worry that people are going to confuse her with other women or they're going to say that if it works here now in this case they're going to get confused between this get and a regular get the whole get is xero so we're going to say here we're going to we're going to see in a second hold on now you're jumping ahead but the point is that people don't know exactly what it says in the get so maybe since the whole get is just like zero get so it has wrong words in it it should still be a problem over here but ignorance is beautiful that doesn't make any sense what if he wrote in it a b c d e f g nothing garnished he just wrote a bunch of words what is the difference between abc dfg and i'm giving you a get but you can't marry anybody in the world they're both garbage they're both equal zero but you tell me that the first zero people don't really understand and they won't know when they get confused so abcdfg is also they'll get confused they see a guy giving you a piece of paper they don't know what it says on a piece of paper of course not it says wait a minute it's not so simple if a client gives a semi-get and he tells his wife you are also to marry anybody in the world including myself you're not married to me and you cannot marry anybody else guess what it has an effect on his wife and she's considered a gruesome but abcdfg is nothing so this is a big difference and the kind should not marry a divorced woman divorced from her husband affiliated even more directions even if she was only divorced from one person in the whole world from all eight billion people in the world she was on divorce from one the husband himself that's considered it's not a real get but it's enough to consider this wife a divorcee which she's asked her now on a cayenne and her husband omar robbie barcoma harry armor effort omar airhead the lavalor a guy goes to the cypher and he says that sorry for soyve gatling resources we're going to see how this has to do with musa vamos the obama but if a guy goes to a cipher and he says listen this guy you know a lot of times in the gemara we don't have such solid people we're talking about far extreme cases that maybe never happened what if they happen but this guy's not a good guy he's about to get married and he he's deciding how he's going to divorce her maybe i was thinking like he's he's like that guy like rav who was it they when they went to a place they said i want to get married for two days so this shouldn't be new show so he's but we're not talking about that we're talking about a bad guy okay he already has he has he has he has plans he's married this woman for for two weeks he's going to get all the money from despair and then vaivra so he he's very he's very muslim he's he doesn't want to show him give in to his temptation and stay married there he's going to get the divorce to get ready to go he's going to surprise her boom like that have the lf dollars that that guy that that mishra and israeli that they there's a whole thing about him from nebraska that went around the world and he did crazy he scammed a lot a lot of women out of their money he came prepared he went to cipher prepare to get scanned them for money and victory it yeah yeah i saw before that oh famous guy yeah i'm gonna marry i'm still waiting to one day i have to still i oh i didn't watch that jordan thing i have to watch the jordan thing then we can talk about any then we'll talk about other videos and stuff like that no the people that don't watch this stuff they don't even know we're talking they don't know who jordan is so nothing happened people watched it say even sure you know what you didn't watch it what's wrong with you it came out three years ago i have robin prower sitting here playing a lot of basketball with me he doesn't understand how i didn't watch it he doesn't doesn't kind of like what you should eat what benny you know they didn't believe me about betting the bull but that's a different story oh my god the lav lord ask what's his name we're here in chicago we should get simcha roman and ohana finds out to testify about benny the ball just in case you don't know what the vending bull is and it was the mask out of the bulls and he sprays snow on there that they always say spray snow so one day he i was walking out and it was at half time he came back to my seat and he sprayed me so i took out two cans of spray and i went like this with both man i sprayed him up so it's on the news it goes fan retaliates to betty the bull then with my yama get the whole thing okay and he doesn't speak he's not allowed to speak so every game he'll come over and goes okay anyway i came prepared because he got me four times before that like anyway omar hurray um because so two people recorded it okay i want to marry her and immediately divorce her so what is that called get yashan basically there's a date a prior date on it for her yeah i guess a little bit of a problem harry is it get it works should be your daily guys because today that answers your question today right now she's a nerusa arusa the only way you can get out of irisen is with the divorce it's a powerful thing harrison in those days he used to do harrison like uh months later they would get married fully but the only way to get out is divorce if she's misana misa the whole thing so sometimes a year but since i could divorce her today some melee works for tomorrow we just turned to the maize on base sponsored by horn in honor of jolly joe crafts and family and honestly [Music] a regular woman who he did not have irishman with ain't get it doesn't work for regular woman why for the same reason that it works for russo myth nature ambiguous the whole reason why it works when you're in gay or arizona is because it works today but a woman you can't just make it get that's not shima it's for a woman that doesn't exist okay so now this is why it has to do with that what if i write a get for the obama before ami abhimir so it should work because she's at least like an arusa they're bound together through zika it's called zika or dilma cave-in delay over by mohammed since he did not perform at miami he didn't give a kid light then they did not really bond strong enough for a get to get works on the mimer part thaiku the kimono remains in a question bye rav khan we know that the get works for the mimer again mimer is mid-rabon and the get is the rabona and the get the get works to undo the mimer but what happens when he says specifically i'm giving a get just for the mimer but not for the zika so mao maimer ilovey ziko karami is mime or something that fits on top of the zika and therefore what kimi garage katsu isha and it's as if he only got rid of half of the wife he can divorce half of a woman like each part stands by itself and if he got rid of the zika now she's oscar to all the brothers think about what's happening what's in afghanistan like this if i was able to get rid of just the zika if i got rid of the zika also then everybody's used it to her because now i took care of this ivama i gave i i severed the bond that she has with me and severed the bond that she has with all my brothers therefore none of the brothers could be me habermer but if all i did was i severed the mimer that's a private affair between me and her i got rid of the mimer that's between me and her now the rest of the brothers could be me having her maybe he himself could also maybe himself can't because of vexera but the point is i got rid of the mimer now let my brothers be behind the mitzvah and that's what the gemara is saying he says gemara attention let me the rav i have a great riot from rava early iran in the messiah it says so i have a lot of charts here for this it starts with chart number three we have three brothers ruvain shimon levy who are married to three women that are not sisters okay we go to the next chart ruvain as usual goes bye-bye reuben is married to patio what do we call her bathya baylor i forgot to write her name b what's her name no no she's not battalion sister at all she's she's like a savarti's twin she's whatever okay now don't forget that shimon is married to another woman battalion the one in the sandals and the white sox with a knapsack so shrimp is married to batain but he should be miyabim now instead of doing that he does mimer is he connected to her through that so the mission says remember we had the whole thing then goes shimon bye bye so now patio to the remaining brother levy you hear what's going on here you're seeing the charge you follow you're not yet it's very very simple first when ruvain dies his wife goes to ebon either to shipment or to levy but shimon took action and and used makati then shimmy goes bye-bye now we have a problem now she falls to levy through two brothers it's it comes from two houses and we said that's a big problem you see the two arrows in charge number seven she comes from being married to reuben and also from being semi married to sherman what happens if shimon gave her a get to the mimer that he performed on her he gave her a mimer and then releases the mimer the locker is says ravanasana get the there's a big check mark he could lady could be me you see patya or baylor are and battalion aren't sorrows now once shimon performed mimer on bayla on batya then he has two wives now and the two wives that fall if one of them is oscar both should be officer now batty is also because she fell from two houses she's lost it to levy after shipman dies she's awesome to levy because she fell from ruben and jimin and that's awesome so then her star should also become awesome but if it's too complicated it doesn't that doesn't sound good to you because for you it's sorry it needs to be like a daughter it needs to be an irv no we said even a saita even you know these different types of tsaras ambassadors how about i brought back my wife when i shouldn't dove after she married another man the story becomes us or you know we had the kimono she does this that over here she fell from two houses so she's an airway you know she's a nervous she's an asian if i erase the mimer my connection with her then lady could be me album the second one the battalion one so if he gave a get to the mimer and not to the zika that's what we have to say he gave a get for the mimer not for the zika you see that it works what do you see you see that i can give a get to get rid of mimer what do you say chart eight yeah charlie you see there that he gave a get to get rid of the mimer but the zika remains says in tomorrow okay great you brought me away from rava la ravi he still is not convinced by rava yes according to rav you have a good answer according to you have a takeover how many minutes are we into this doesn't look good what we are 45 minutes already wow we're deleting a few minutes from here cause it was a minor so we gotta we gotta we gotta put a thing on this we have a lot to do no we can't over review them around rabbit zoo there you did that's why you say no questions all my ravioli double rhymes who there is sometimes questions i want to see the guy yell out tomorrow and ask me a question in front of 600 people yeah later after yeah cause us of either the ogumar is the question and answer calls was the mimer first he performed khalitza then he did omar abudo amarabs zoo divide the kiva that after khalisa the zero khalitza is the way you perform the mitzvah she has no connection to you the fact that you went ahead and you gave her kidus afterwards what is it what happened you gave kid duchess to something you know i want to give conducion to because once you do khalifa you're not permitted to do kevin chile bono even so you tell me that the whole mission is rupakiba who says that the condition doesn't grab um how can you say the mission that goes according to rebecca tony rachel it says in the beginning no sangeet vasa maimur if he gave a get and then my mirror like in this picture right over here step one was he gave this one ruvain went bye-bye shimon gives the one yavama from five towns he gives her a get and then he decides to give her a reminder wait a minute how does this woman need and get for the mimer he already gave her again he started out with the get and then i understand he has to give hillary why get beaver but even the other laget according to him once you give her a get in step one meemahani the mimer shouldn't have any effect at all for all of us once you give a gag she becomes authored to you forever what does it mean she's lost it to you alive the first husband should not be able to loss of the capital should say he should be able to what does it mean that he divorced are you ready the politics says already that he divorced what is that the turret says because meaning once once you sent her without her there's a way when is it asked of you to marry your ex only when she married somebody else this positive is telling us no that's so fast there is a case of allergies just by sending her away just by divorcing her she becomes entrepreneur to you even if she never married anybody else in what case the case of yeebo if she's your obama and says this is rubikiba and you gave her a get that get tells me also to you forever and ever ah so and then he went and did my according to kevin shouldn't work at all why because for you to marry her is this the right so you're right just the love but according to ruby kevin just the love makes it that the condition doesn't grab oh don't bring me away from that whole sugiya the whole concept of a get by if um is only there upon it can't be that there's a pausing in the target that says after you divorce the obama you can't marry her that's a passing the idea of a get to yevamah is not even in the torah that possibly is just something to give a hint to allah to be once you give your khalid so that's it she listens to you like like a raise yes it does work now listen to this this coming line is going to trigger six shot them we're only going to do three today and hopefully we get to them in new york for the rest vanier says rebbe i say when is there a concept of khalitsa that after khalid this is the something grabbing you could do kidus i give khalita i should be done over in darwin no something else happens when i'm makadashire and i say i'm big macadashu like he said haram kudasali so i want to make you my wife then it works if i said i'm i want to make you my obama after what what happened think about what happened there i gave her khalitsa there was halitsa she removed my shoes she spat at me she said oh everything she needed to do and then two weeks later i say harry asked me who dances league i want you to be my obama what is that called a mistake kedushi toast you thought you could be mikado your ex ibama and you can't if you're not trying to make your you vamo you try to make your your wife you said i react incordaciously that's not a mistake in you're being over so then then it does grab but if you try to be me or make her uh not me yeah make her yo as the eboom as as going off what the terrorists said that if your your system will fall to you you should be happening you didn't realize that that's a mistake and nothing happens if you said i want you to be my wife nothing to do with eboom then it grabs a little bit you need to get [Music] but if he says themselves from yamus i want you to be my obamacare if a guy goes in the street he thinks he thinks this woman is the obama so he thinks and she's not any involvement so everybody you agree you agree that the condition is nothing he thought it's the involvement it is over here also he thought that he could be mikanda's ibama if he went to a random woman in the street you're asking that she doesn't become his obama so too this woman also it's a mistake fine says doesn't matter what he thought you have to give forget now we're going to start the three shot them in review what is rebbe talking about he thought about kedushi and he thought about this what's going on here beautiful stuff really this there's a lot of depth there and there's a lot of gishmaking things that we can learn from this stuff my time with the redmi what's going on here we know that if a girl dies without any relatives he doesn't have anybody to inherit him so anybody could just go and grab all his belongings so imagine the guerra has a 10 million dollar home in a very nice neighborhood you go you you do some sort you you start you take a shovel you start uh hoeing the the front the the yard he doesn't have gives his children doesn't have anything whatever so whatever that life is if they're not considered as children we're not getting into that the point is if he has a child after you came together then there's no question goes to the child talk about a guy has no relative every jew has relatives doesn't matter because you keep on going up up up up this great great great grandfather you can go to the side every jew has a relative not every convert has relatives so therefore because this kind of this guy goes to another though the point is if i have intent to acquire his field his house it becomes mine but what happens crazy aloha unbelievable if a person thought that he's guarding his garden and didn't realize that his garden all these years this ganev he took three feet from his his comfort neighbor it's really the converts garden you look at the uh the survey and he looked at the survey afterwards when his when his neighbor said oh you know i hopped the gara's house he says what the guy died he says yeah he says how did you hop it he said oh i went to the front front yard i got the 10 million dollar house goes what do you mean when when did he die he died in travis sunday i i gardened look no it's not yours you know why it's not yours because you didn't know what it was you didn't know it was the garris you thought that you're gardening your house unbelievable so you see from here a tremendous desire back back to the study that we always talk about what so it's the same it's my that's that's what you describe is based on carvana you could do the same mitzvah every single day put on twitter you go like this it's very possible you know i'm kind of in the midst i don't know maybe a little bit so but if you take that one second and you think okay i am now putting on two because i haven't told me to put on filling up so now you acquired a 10 million dollar mitzvah if you think in your mind that you want to acquire that 10 million mansion just by me going like this three times the shovel whatever it is lock the front door it becomes yours just because i had the intent without the intent it's a big fat zero you need to have intent so my melo what happens over here erase your safe erase fight i'll go bottom what does that have to do with us this who depends what age depends what age i don't know yes the rabbi anyway next so the no you don't have to the that what does that do with us he gave he went he didn't realize what he's doing he was mikados he thought that he's mccarthy rivieras was explaining he didn't have the right intent he thought he's being mechanically vulnerable meanwhile it's not a obama she's not a involvement she already got khalifa she's done so it doesn't work at all listen to this it gets better what happened you got a phone call in the middle oh my god oh me don't me don't you put on do not disturb then okay okay we're almost done meet dummy he says it's not there's no connection like by the guy plowing the front yard he had no intent he thought he's gardening his own garden he wasn't trying to acquire anything so therefore if you don't want to try to acquire anything you're not going to acquire the converts and the hazard comes from the making but over he goes over to a woman he wants to perform conducion just he said the wrong thing he thought she's a yobama but she's not you see this alumnus give all of your stuff you know what this is about it's another case this is similar to a different case there because obviously he thought he's in i'm not going to mention any names he thought in this guy's house meanwhile it's another guy's house some other guy owns it also again he didn't have who the owner is he's trying to acquire it he's trying to do a mice opinion but to the wrong person over also trying to make a kenyan in the woman just the wrong type of woman hello i have another shot how am i kidding what's wrong talking about oh if he said ye bomb it doesn't it doesn't it's not he says israel what's the difference says that i have absolutely been going to um he said i want you to become me kurdish to me i read the mimer fits right on top of zico it works hand in hand with zika they go together one fits on top of the other vasoya and when he performs khaleesa right this woman what's the case first she got khalita then she got mimer but there is no zika for the mimer to fit on top do it where's it gonna fit in mid-air when he performed khalitsa they took a shoe with the shoe went to zika out the window so where's miami going to fit nowhere it doesn't have a shelf to lay out vera no there's no connection between the one doesn't sit you don't need the mimer to sit on top of the zika they are obviously in yeshiva they'll describe it in a lot better terms but the bottom line is they're independent of each other they have nothing to do with each other mikari elo omar leschatz if he just said those words it would work so it works now because they're independent of each other rob alma let's just finish this if not says if he says those words you should be questioned to me with the mimer of the of them honey thank you uh one of the kids hit the lights how do you go back on rebbe so where mama's done rebbe says there is a concept of zika there's a bandwagon so therefore if there's a constant zika the khalifa has enough power to get rid of the zika and mma law nothing to do with it and zika we'll see you tomorrow in new york be there or be square have a wonderful day you