Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 42 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] this one is from simon had a very bad allergic reaction and need to be treated at i think he means shari tsadek before jantip still good place to do daf here he is in his hat doing the da for four shleima charlie side jacob guindy hi rebellion i was listening to friday afternoon when there came a point that no one knew with the word for a deceased husband if i'm not mistaken the proper terminology is late husband pie as i join you here since miguel and can honestly say that since i started with you i've never enjoyed learning before now thank you haksamer another one from the hospital doing the daf while waiting for my wife who's visiting her dad at maimonides in bar park i don't know to me that sounds like a father-in-law unless they only allow one person into the room he's outside over there okay gevaldo doing the death merry clyde dear robbie stevanski it's two years already that i'm learning gemara and i've never finished a maserta i tried learning with teachers out of school but never succeeded two months ago my brother introduced me to mdy and i started learning it was hard to stay on track every day but for hashem today on heir of pesach i finished my first masseter biscuit and i lit a candle leading this mass my mother rosebus beautiful by nissan nephes how do you pronounce it n-e-f-a-s as one of the few sephardic jews in the new world five towns i have this the part of the community that emphasizes torah learning to after realizing i was not doing that for me he mama just shoved the gemara mcgill in my hands and introduced me to yeshir many times before many times by force is the best way it started me off on a never-ending journey of a lifetime the best things ever happened to me as a bachara i was always participating in other people's assumed so i wouldn't need the faster pesa but hashem today the fourth of the nissan tough shin paybays i had the skull to do a sim i made cotton this should be hastening for the gula for all of us and this is very important i wanted to remind the island the other day and i forgot but it's never too late p.s khalam is is a real holiday if you want to sh whatever that's from us halambayid is real we're learning in mighty cotton over and over and i want to remind oil and what we learned take it we learn and then we take what we learn and we we go with it so no shopping no no working no that unless it's emergency you could you're a client you could okay this week this month's sponsor for the kylo is anonymous so this month this month maybe you guys i don't know could you shift this way so i have like a little bit of an audience out of that my audience is that way i'm talking to mr cohen over here you can go as long as it's this way so i was reading this this uh this week's army magazine had a large article on rav rook and his relationship with raphael kennedy i want to share with you one very interesting story that i read there rav druk lost a child 21 years ago to death he's cavuso with the time kanewski so when he met raphael kanewski's wife she said uh she resides with the twins so can i ask you heard that he says why only twins and they both left and they giggled and uh a year later ravdruck had triplets so i thought it was a cool story it's my sister from a druk and talking about the ivory magazine in that same volume this this week's iron magazine there's a huge article on official gross the official caterer from official gross and there's a lot of stuff about mdy in the golden doves great article so check it out what else do we have here uh pirates of hajj but families like new jersey because toro is the best segulo this is [Music] from [Music] we're holding two lines from the bottom of mem aleph ahmad bayes torah banner so we're going through this whole sugar that a woman who gets divorced or loses her husband needs to wait three months before she can remarry so that we can discern the child whose child is it if she's pregnant we need to know who's the father so trigger allah she has to wait three months so what happened was before she decided not to wait and she received khalitza from one of the brothers her husband died she received khalid and she didn't wait three months you start counting the three months from the day that her husband died it's a big product we don't penalize her we don't say that since she didn't wait you have to start over and start waiting another three months so we're going to take this line right here type of members of an aleph after three months she doesn't have to wait at all she already waited three months says the gemara from this we see have a we could infer from here um since she doesn't have to wait at all so we don't start counting from the khalita we start counting from the death of her husband that's when we do the three months ask the gemara much to me get but if so why is it different than a woman who gets divorced why is a woman who receives khalid so different than a woman who gets divorced from first of all according to shmuel once a husband decides he's going to divorce his wife they can't be together anymore and according to rav we start counting from the nasino but everybody agrees rab also agrees that once you write a get you can't be together that's called to get yahshua you did it together then it caused a lot of problems later down the line people will say rumors wasn't good was it so according to rav that says they start counting from the time of the nasino why is it any different it's you know one from the time that he gave the get not from the time he wrote to get why is it by us that we start counting from the moment of death it should also be by according to wrath from the moment of the xiva since they can no longer be together so why do you wait all the way till the let's say he wrote to get paisakhtai and he gave it sukkah six months later she still has to wait three months from the time she received the get but they weren't together those six months so why wait three months just like my jalitsa if we know for a fact that they weren't together and she's not pregnant then you don't have to count three months so why do i get the after count of three months omarova calverheimer is like this when it comes to eboom as long as you wait three months from the time that the husband passes away that's enough you can be miyaba so and and that's it's a chorus if you don't wait three months and it turns out that she was pregnant so you had no right to marry her what what does that become that's the israelis nevertheless all you have to do is wait three months so certainly in a situation where there's not as a cars it's only it's her lab what's this allowed leicester is amazing says she can't marry somebody else until she receives a khalita that's only love so people gonna say it doesn't make any sense for is it cars you wait three months and for us our live you wait 10 months where's the logic so we don't want to make we don't want people to make fun of him so he said it's three months for everything okay next all women says the mission it doesn't matter what kind of woman all women wait three months and we're gonna go to all the categories absolutely it doesn't matter what krusha is i understand if a person if a woman is a vamos so we have a israelis ah and we're not sure if she's pregnant or not but what difference does it make who the father is when we're talking about a regular marriage okay so you don't know who the father is you think it's this guy it really happens to be somebody else does that make a difference to anybody so we have a number of answers first of all the positive says posix says you have to know the lineage you have to know where you come from if you want to have hashra sasha's when you know who the father is otherwise you have a problem means you have to differentiate between who the father is this guy the first not knowing the father is you hear this this isn't again we were talking about this the different societies they don't know the fathers it's a problem in the shrina there's a problem well we have a problem why in the world do aguero negiera's converts why do they have to wait they are married right i told you the story i have a friend here that owns a very large company in chicago and his wife is a gui iris when they found out that it was it was a reformed gay rose they decided to redo the gyros they became fromer and they wanted to redo together and the bessen told them they'd have to separate for three months imagine you're married to somebody have to separate for three months but why they're already married so what difference does it make you know with the father is the same father we're not talking about oh maybe there's a different father the same thought so why do they have to separate because yes you want to differentiate between azera the pregnancy that happened to the pregnancy that happened so now these three four lines i made 25 charts here so it goes like this you have the burka lady who we have a new guy here doesn't know what's flying why is there a funny lady okay these are all funny characters we have the the the grandmother berkeley married reuven and they had a daughter call her burka okay that's step one step two is that reuben went ahead and married a five-town woman okay step three rouvain goes bye-bye step four the plumber marries the five-towner and they think they have a child that's the problem they think they have a child in fact the five they the plumber married the five-tower without waiting for three months so it's possible that this child are you able to see it over there is very delayed this child is either the plumbers from muncie or ruvines but because now they are married together and all four cases of rava go this way we're gonna we're gonna decide that we're talking about the child is really from the first but they think it's the second you can do other cases you can do the reverse but this is how we're talking now because the plumber now is married to the five-towner and the five-towner had a baby so they treat the baby as their own but what happens this this dentist guy that was born that's not his real father his real father is rooving and look what's going to happen the dentist guy marries the birkelady and happens to be his own sister that's the prowl you need to know your father so you don't marry your own sister next case ab his own sister-in-law but he doesn't have the right to marry his sister-in-law because it's not a sister-in-law from his father's side it's from the mother's side how's that work here we go again burglar lady married ruvain and they had a kid a dentist then he dies and his his wife the widow marries the plumber and they have a kid naftali naftali goes ahead and marries the five towner and he dies so who's going to perform evil the dentist the dentist thinks that he's the child of the plumber so he's going to marry the five tanner to be making the mitsubim but it turns out that he's really rubin's son same same same idea they think he's the plumber's son but he's really ruining son because they think he's the he's the plumber's son he's going to perform ibum before is a case of because he thought he was the plumber's son he married his sister now saying because he's the plumber's son he married a sister-in-law okay it's the same idea no big hit usher mere very very simple cases next one is here i just show that he's miab his sister-in-law okay the icing on the show here goes roubain marries berkeley they have a child a dentist from the five towns reuven dies and his ex-wife his widow marries the plumber without waiting for three months and the plumber goes bye-bye so because they think that he's the plumber's son they're going to let the mother the burger lady get married without anything without khalid's without eboom but the thing is that he's not the plumber's son he is ruvain's son she she has to get evim from the plumber's brother she goes ahead over here you see over here she married naftali when she shouldn't have married islam uh a guy from the shook next the iftar is had his child his name is naftali reuven married another woman the five towner and then reuben dies the five tanner doesn't wait she marries the plumber and have it they have a child they don't know who the child is is the child the plumber's son or the child is rubin's son naphtali goes ahead and marries a woman and then after he goes bye-bye so because they don't realize that naftali that the dentist they think the dentist is from the second he's going to be he's going to patter the obama and let her go bye-bye you're going to say that oh she can marry whoever she wants now rashi points out how does this fit into the case of gerus so it goes like this you have a couple you have daniel dunn and this other woman who became gayrim and then when they became gayrim they had the first child they're not sure if the first child is when they were gayim was he conceived when they were going or after the gyros they don't know they think that both of their children were conceived after they became garu then the one of the children the dentist goes and marries the five towner and he goes bye-bye i hate to do to the dentist it's not very common that he goes bye-bye but we have to do it once in a while what happens when the dentist goes bye-bye his wife requires ibum luchara but not really it's the same case like we had before naftali is not really his brother naftali it's not they share the same mother but they don't have the same father because in reality they have the same father but because the the father impregnated this woman when he was a guy so it's considered as if they just share the same mother they don't share the same father and therefore they have no connection when it comes to ebook this wife they're not brothers from the same father that's rashik says okay end of the charts for today ervo it says that all these women all these ifamas why do i have to wait three months so that they're not being over anurayas they can and the other women mushum takanas vlad in order to differentiate who the father is to know is it a child from the first father and the second father and if according to you rav all these four cases let's say case number one we're concerned that you might marry your own sister you don't know your father's he might marry your sister that's irva that's not vlad that's not the quran for the vlad says [Music] goes into different different ways that we could perhaps get around this three months why three months why do i have to wait three months maybe we maybe there's a way to wait two weeks and we'll figure it out maybe there's a way to wait two and a half months why three months sigma is going to go through all the steps here bishop attempting two months is out of the questions why because we don't know if this baby that was born was born seven months after she got married and it belongs to the new guy or perhaps is a nine month pregnancy from the old guy ella but maybe why don't they just wait one month you guys don't have to hang around there guys you guys you guys have to hang it you don't have to you don't want it let's just wait one month and let her get married why we should be aldo hybrid civil bathroom let's see what happens if she gives birth after seven months and she waited one month so the total from the late husband i like that the late husband is how much eight months it's impossible to give birth in the eighth month according to the gemara villa shibuya shiva ambassador and if she gave birth after eight months so we know that it belongs to the first guy so in autumn if she gave birth after seven belongs to the second guy after eight belongs to the first guy it can't be after eight to the second guy it's not viable in time of the year inaudible i'll tell you why because what if she gave birth after eight months it's very simple she gave birth after eight months but it's really seven months pregnancy it took her a month to get pregnant why is that another option for i get it he doesn't he doesn't have the sheets i get it but it's popping up on my screen so why can't you wait two and a half months why don't you have to wait three full months needless to be all the if it's seven months we know it's from the second guy if he was shitty opalie although and if it's six and a half months it can't be from the second guy who gives birth after six and a half months it must be from the first guy hi participate [Music] if you even if you hold that a woman who gives birth after nine months she can't give birth partially into the ninth month you although should be your lesbian gotham but if she gives birth in the seventh month it's a different type of pregnancy should give birth partially into the month it says that he was born kufa's hayame kufice is plural two seasons yom two days so two seasons means six months each season is three months she gave birth six months and two days in so you see the the kids could have survived fine so it's possible so we still don't know you wouldn't be able to differentiate if it's from the first guy or for the from the second guy asked mario this is a good one let her wait let's say two weeks why can't you check her and rasheed explains how to check you see if she's she's bringing in milk or not and that would only happen after three months so if she's if she already showing signs of milk then you know she's pregnant from the first guy and if she's not then it's from the second guy or suffering both games on a suicidal he's gonna ballet we have a clown you don't check a woman like that because she'll become dis disgusted to her husband or ruin the show and by you so to speak so we don't do it says so i got to tell you this myself just the remote view vomits here with all the charts and everything so two summers ago i was in south africa with my wife great vacation can't wait to go back there and one morning the way it works is you go on these jeeps in this particular place you have a driver you have a spotter this guy is sitting like by the headlight i might have said the story back i don't know you remember this one no so the guy is sitting with his feet literally dangling on the ground he's sitting like on the bumper he has like a little seat by the headlight and his job is to spot different uh footprints so we're driving all of a sudden he says stop stop so the jeep stops he shows the guy here then they say we see leopard's footprints but it looks like he's dragging prey with him showed us like there's a little pull so they turn off the jeep they both jump off the jeep and they go into the bushes and my wife looks at me she goes uh this is like a lion gonna come and eat us like i don't know i noticed that they're the the rifle that they have for protection they left on the dashboard they went without the rifle so everybody in the jeep is getting a little antsy five minutes go by suddenly they they reappear oh we found them they take the jeep and they go over these rocks crazy into ravine and there i i should have pulled up the picture you can show the picture later probably the best thing that we saw in the safari two leopards in one tree and each one had a kill one had a deer one added like an impala another one had a uh was something else it's a rare thing to see a leopard with a kill we saw two why am i telling you this because there are people that their profession that's what they do they check the footprints laura says like this interesting thing i'm not going to go into it and how it works scientifically but rashi says that based on her pregnancy she puts more pressure on her footprints and you can see from her footprints whether or not she's pregnant she'll fake her footprints so the sobriety test she'll try to fake it a little bit why hide she wants to pretend that she's not pregnant so that she could be that her her son will be thought of as the second guy he's a multi-millionaire she wants him to inherit the second guy she doesn't want him to be the first guy's kid and therefore she's going to do something with her footprints and it doesn't work why can't she get married if we know for a fact that she's pregnant she could look higher now we just said we have to differentiate we don't know who the father is but if we know here she's pregnant let her get married i love it you know you saw them with bears have everybody that's a lot we learned the other day that you cannot marry a woman when she's pregnant because they have the problem with the milk and everything right remember that also and if you marry that woman you have to divorce her well the answer is we punish you can't marry forever this is the imara terez xero shemati also boris we're concerned that if she marries the second guy will ruin her pregnancy her the fetus will be destroyed says so then why could she be married to her husband any woman that gets pregnant she shouldn't be able to be with her husband says so we had those two shots that a woman who doesn't want to get pregnant could use some sort of sponge or whatever to prevent the pregnancy or according to the mandolin she shouldn't take care of so what's the difference if she's married to a guy already or she wants to get married let her do the same whatever she's doing with her husband she can do with the new guy says unbelievable the pressure the physical pressure will destroy that the fetus what's the difference her husband will also destroy the fetus so this reminded me also going back i'm in a safari mode now this uh one of the craziest things in the in the in the jungle i thought it was one of the craziest things if a male lion goes into a pack and he he kills the other male he takes over he kills all the cubs that's what he does he crushes their head it goes from one to the next he wants to start fresh new that's what this gemara reminded me kind of says no a guy a human being wouldn't do that but the gemaran thought that for a second he protects his own children a person is going to be he's going to commit murder what he he's not a lion he says like it's like this a regular a woman you have to in those days they didn't have formula to have this so they had their natural milk dilma yarbrough um if she gets married to this new guy he's going to destroy her milk she won't have milk to feed the baby but cut the lay and that's going to cause the baby to die so what's the difference so what's the difference if he marries her or she's already married her old husband will do the same thing she might get pregnant from her old husband it will destroy her milk kill the baby so what do you gain today my master love it if it's his own he could he could buy formula he could do whatever they did in those days eggs and milk and they're uh give me some other food you don't know me so let them do it to her old child from her other husband [Music] why she doesn't want to pay for it not going to pay you for formula for support your husband your ex-husband's a baby so therefore it's a problem you tell her don't get married make sure that your kid survives and then get married says mario will be arsham go go sue the the husband for for support first let me just say that we just turned to members on base sponsored by moisture in honor of jolly joe krause and family in honor of atkins bersky brian kensberski and irie miller for learning the dove supposed to what is it don't tell me you were watching the whole time what's the name again lina smash and that's instead of who kansberski yevaldik anyways i don't know why i can't find your sheets i'll try to look for them at this year okay says the mario listen to this omar abbaya isha boisha lover she doesn't want to she's embarrassed she doesn't want to sue someone and go to bed then and what's going to happen because she's embarrassed the kumara's question was why can't she sue for child support from her late husband's family says because she has bouchon she doesn't want to take them to bed but regas as bino i was just thinking sad thing i accompanied a woman who had yana mahla she's very sick and her husband told me that the reason why he believed she got sick because in their society talking about your xiaomi's and this happens a lot in certain societies that certain macholes that are private areas or whatever people are embarrassed to go to the doctor she waited way too long to go to the doctor until it spread her own body bushy could kill a person over here busha whatever that means she doesn't want to go she's voiced to go by the time she realizes what's happening her son is malnourished says the gemara accessories so we had a whole list of women that have to wait three months basula abula a russo and a surah sa astagmar they're all the same heinous if a woman is arusa she's just engaged so that automatically she's absolutely he knew bulldogs and unisois and if she's a if she's a married woman then she's a bulla so why is it in two separate categories or have you though you're right it's really one long category if we're discussing who became widowed or they got divorced behaviors and batman is it's one long thing it's not a different category it's an explanation when the errors and soon goes back and explains that she was just engaged or she was married lazar alabama midrash story time lamar says her blaster didn't come to the basement what did they say what did they discuss today [Music] so if you look in the mishnah i don't remember that [Music] maybe from the bottom so it's kadai maybe to see the mishna now because we're going to get back to it soon the mission starts off saying that every woman has to wait three months before getting married and then you have rabi huda rabiosi will argue and they say that if a woman is married was married when she lost her husband she'd be she could get engaged and if she's engaged she could become she could get married she would come from arusa so rebecca and paskins like rabiose meaning like your buddha also arashi explains is because right so review says if you'll be working on passes like you're boise then obviously you don't have a bunch of people arguing with them you only have one person because we have yahood virabhim halal even though rabbi is he's always right but not against the majority so it must be that it's one against one he's fighting against one guy one person this is more in botania and i'll prove it to you if this woman constantly went back to her father's house oh yellow casper-based balos brings a lot of cases the same idea basically a woman who was not with her husband for a while she had a fight with him her husband was in jail her husband was sick or she was pregnant when her husband died and then she miscarried she know for a fact that she's not carrying her husband's baby [Music] she cannot give birth nevertheless in all these cases she must wait three months no matter what divorce may here so here you see who argues a singular person a singular tana called remayor review the mata so anyway we see that review i'll explain to you why until now we thought there would a obc's is arguing with a single person called her mayor once revered him realized that it's realistic against a majority then he took it back what happened [Music] why is it called cambria avenue rashi says it all over says it over here as well because in yavina they used to sit in circles like the like grapes because they were like karen biable no matter what no matter your situation even though for 100 you miscarried it's impossible that you're pregnant three months over there [Music] ask them is it possible so now after we know that he retracted the murders just telling us once upon a time they asked does the government really say that allah you see that a woman who is a russian american and a woman can get married could become an arusa mishnah the first 10 lines of our mission whatever it is what's your name from where you just showed up from deerfield really what your father is gabby gotti gotti no way hey gary why where is he i don't know he has his child your age and you're one of the guys that was sponsored did we used to mention your name all the time okay cool anyway you look at the mission on that mallet if we're almost done it is it doesn't say name it says every woman has to wait three months without a name anonymous mishna and then it says subscribe which goes right into mcchoyke's review no i argue on the ratio that's an anonymous against what against the machis you hear you ever knew that you knew that we always thought probably until until tonight the anonymous mission means the whole mission from beginning to end is anonymous no if the ratio doesn't have a name to it it's anonymous then the safa talk gives the name it says the review there are beauty argue says the gemara um how many minutes are we do we know what does it say in your camera we'll say over here out 5-0 okay that means we only get 45 at most zombies [Music] stop hold on why are we going uh ruby icy says that a naruso could become a sword and if she lost resume she'll be coming arusa but the beginning of the mission says you have to wait no matter what what whatever the situation is wait three months and that's established does it even pass whoever asked this question is not concerned about what he choose in other words he didn't pay attention to what he asked that's the beginning of the mishnah is anonymous but it goes right away into bhaktis and then we don't pass it like this no then the love is not like an anonymous that looks like this and then anonymous is at the end and rashi says very interesting even if it's indifferent rashi brings down vengeance as long as it's in the same seder so if you have in ezekiel he brings a a case that there was a macholicus in babakama and then there's an anonymous mishna in baba mitzir is like rebbe the author of the mishnah passkins in bahamut allah should be in babakama as long as it's in the same naziken not jumping to another cedar however if you have stamps that's our mishna you start off anonymously here come come here since you're a guest i got to do a demonstration for a second yeah you still leaving what's your first name shimshi so i hope you don't mind because i'm going to be using you for saying bend down a little bit it's not like this that's my stomach and then you ask me a bunch of caches i'm not telling you to ask me that's what happened over here okay now you can go back to you can sit down over there we're almost done he's leaning his shamash how do you say he realized that he needs him now he's leaning on him so he could ask him whatever you want reminds me slowly at the time i was in los angeles you're taking me around and he started asking me questions about real estate remember that time i was in your car i was stuck when you have an argument and then you have an anonymous vishnu that we learned was like the stop mishna because islam mishnah came afterwards what about the reverse first he's anonymous then he brings back lagers then we don't go with the anonymous because whatever came last now what about stamina we know the mishna is the icker but what if there's a machine in the braiser how does that work we go like the mishnah we don't go like a braiso and finally so what if this is and then this is whose is rebbe rebbe's is rebbe the author of the mishnah so what do you think rebbe didn't know what rubric knows everything requiem knows he got from his rebbe rebbe his name is reby revelation and with that rabbi were finished for tonight have a wonderful day you