Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 31 by R’ Eli Stefansky

so here we are we're about to leave to the airport it's early morning in switzerland or the french alps after the taxi is coming in a few minutes so we have to give a giveaway cashier and we're back to chicago a few notes first of all people were wishing me mazel tov on the birth of a grandchild now it was supposed to be a comedic joke my son came in the middle of sheer said mazel tov daddy mazel tov he had a grandchild to imitate a rehearsal shakhtar and i go no no no stop no we're middle of learning torah some people took it seriously they thought i really had a grandchild so you scratch for the well wishes not yet because the taxi is coming soon i'm going to read one email which i wrote with my own handwriting because i don't have a printer i received many many emails yesterday encouragement and kizzuk because of all the hate mail that came two days ago i don't think there was anything yesterday i didn't hear they didn't show me anything yesterday beautiful somebody wrote me a beautiful long poem which he's going to give me riches he said i can't read it but forgive me just to read it if i take out a lot of information that will point to him but at any rate i'm just going to read this quick one because i like this one this is from keith reich thank you ellie for all you do and for all that your family puts up with i've been with you since bro bro frankly we'll probably not still be with you if you weren't a skier pilot scuba diver and a little bit of a lovable nut ah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah let's give all the enjoy the time with your boys you and they deserve it keith rife white plains new york yevalding okay so that being said we've got to jump right into the surya oh no we have a couple sponsors dispatch for the coil is anonymous in schools all main the parts of hoyt is friends and family for a full name of yakov leima new jersey because torah is family mommy tati ain't scroll down iframe hold li lunishmas my grandfather gabriel banester whose your site is today shirley singer and family lily richmond review diary labe here we go so yesterday we had in the mishnah that if a person has two wives one of them happens to be an erva to his brother one of them is let's say his brother's daughter so that when he dies his two wives fought his brother but one of them can't fall because she's his daughter now what happens if she's not really his wife a hundred percent it's a suffolk wife how's it possible he threw kedushin towards her and there ate then we'll see how many we don't know if it fell next to him or next to her is it his property or her property yet when it comes to gerushin the mission doesn't use that example why not the admission is example of a you gave her a get that doesn't have the time in it doesn't have aiden so rabbit says because a woman has a khazaka this woman who's married together with that sorrow she could go free and clear when her husband dies she's not required to do evil so she's mutual she has a pre-existing status a hazaka that she can marry whoever she wants now you want to take that away by creating a suffolk and say i don't know what happened there was there get no that's not going to work to take away a pre-existing hazaka with your suffolk now we're holding that lamin alef ahmed alef amazing you know it's amazing because it's 30 daf into yavamas 30daf i personally don't think that we had unbelievably crazy hard to use yes we're unfamiliar with the concepts but it just flies before we know it we're going to be on the easier messages so take a look at the chart what we have here is by the way i don't know how many emails maybe 10 emails complimenting schlemy rosenberg for his unbelievable idea people are enjoying the sequence the sequence charts so here goes another sequence shards obviously you guys benefit i can't ski more time creating these charts but anyway not that bad a few more minutes here we have two brothers two baldwin brothers rooney and sherman ruvain is married to two women okay two women one is the five town woman one is rahul now rahul happens to be shimon's daughter the brother's daughter so now if when rooving dies they both fall to shimon that's the first mission in the sacraments that tells us that neither one of them follible because one of them is one of them is a daughter what happened was step two house fell on both of them now unfortunately we remember very vividly that that's a possibility serve side you have a building that collapses and you don't find any survivors and the question is who died first did reuven die before his wife rahul and if that's the case then rahul and the five-town woman fell at that moment that reuben died they fell to shimon and therefore they're both potter five-town woman goes out without khalidzo or perhaps the ceiling fell down on ruffle first and then only later on the rest of the department fell on the husband and she died first and she died first that we had also yesterday for one moment she wasn't married at the time miso my palace the the death that's how the first missionary learns and according to what she did both mishnais at the time of death they weren't married anymore because she died they weren't co-wipes the five-town and rockefeller and co-wives no one will ever know achieving what exactly happened so as you see in this chart both rahul and if a house fell on top of reuben and the daughter of his brother shimon when you do ice memes we shine and we don't know who died first or also he lets us but let me see about this is suffolk what's going on here so because there's a suffolk we say that the five tower requires khalid so she doesn't go out without anything that's the good baro okay according to you rabbos for yesterday we should say the same thing when they were both married the five town ended sorrow she told her sorry hey if our husband ever dies i don't need divo i don't need khalid why because i'm your co-wife and since you are sherman's daughter i'll never have halita she goes with that hazaka you want to remove her away from the hazaka because you have a suffolk what happened to the house who died first don't do it according to rabba she doesn't require halita and when you say you know what she doesn't really need you're 100 right she doesn't need helita she had a hazard she had a pre-existing status that she was mutual to marry anybody she wanted so not going to come and ruin that however i'm just going to say but the problem is that's only going to lead to problems because if people see that she requires khalido so some unlearned will say hey you know i have a beautiful idea instead of giving your halita let me marry her and that's 100 awesome cause she is why because like we just said because if you do khalidza it might come to do something wrong like evo my point something that's so uncommon not just uncommon but uncommon that a house falls uncommon that our uncle and his niece were married and they both were in that pointless so for that when we're talking about garrison so the tsar of the air was there so we have a situation that you say that the five towner requires holista so people are gonna say what's going on here why does the five-towner need khalita i thought she's married with a co-wife to the daughter of shimon oh you know why she needs helico realized that she's not really they looked into it they you thought that the get fell closer to him closer to you no i'm telling you you fell closer to her she's 100 percent divorced or not in that subject but whatever the suffolk is gonna as a bystander you see that this khalifa so you assume that did their homework and they decided this is a good get and therefore vasara that's going to bring a big problem when people start doing lumdas and they say hey why is she doing khalid there's a suffolk here no determined that it's not a suffolk so people will come to do ibum but it comes to surfside everybody knows that don't have the ability to determine who died first they're still suffering the suffering remains becoming okay everybody knows that they're not in the vm and they didn't say benevole maybe they are navy but that's not what they determined they didn't determine now this exact question that we asked yesterday that we're talking about today is in fact the mishnah in guitar you're asking me how come our mishna doesn't say the same case by conducion you threw a get that's a suffix whether it fell in the women's rituals or the man's resources why did why does the mission say that in fact it's if the guest fell next to her she's divorced card of lie if it fell next to him and if it's exactly in the middle maguresha's vayne mcgregor's she's divorced but she's not divorced what does that mean she's divorced not the worst imagine if a man is a client and he divorces his wife he can never remarry that wife even though the tiger says there's a mitzvah to remarry your wife after the divorcer not a client a coin is also to marry grusha so this individual who threw get and landed we don't know if it landed in his property or her property he can never marry her the airborne and let's say this wife is his daughter is his brother's daughter sarasa boy that's our mishna right that sarah requires khalid so [Music] now we don't say we don't say oh she's a co-wife with a herba and she doesn't require she doesn't she does require helita oh last again how come that mission is not concerned that if you say you see you require khalito it says that the five tower requires khalid aren't people going to get confused and say oh if you need khalid then you could do evil says we already explained rabbit value the explanation is we're talking about there are two adam testifying that the get fell next to her and two them testifying the opposite that fell next to him should be divorced to come to adam and say the opposite but once they said that it fell next to her they removed the kazakh and therefore once there's no hazako so she requires kalito akasemiro's corporate love applause cover vlog doubles fake their right so so this is considered a sufficient middle right so the government's going to go into it something right so we consider it something right so so what's the difference is very interesting just the simple wording when i read it i thought it meant assad one said of adam testifying that it fell maybe in the middle no rashi says it means you take two ate them and you split them one goes to say that the get fell next to her the other says the get fell next to him the havelay is faking the rabbana and that's only something they're about and therefore she requires khalid why are you saying that our mission is talking about one cat only one eighth for each each opinion says in the beginning then we're talking about so just like we're talking about one eight says this way one eight says the other way and who forced you to say that that's the case is [Music] like this very interesting but that's what gamara understands right now if you have two items that say that she's married that that sorrow is married and that she's a co-wife the airva is a co-wife with the five towns ruffle and the five towns are co-wives they have two i did not say that she's not a co-wife says the gemara by kedushin one two of them say we saw the conducion she got the conducion and therefore she's a koala the other two of them say she didn't get the condition she's not going so at the end of the day this is a hazaka she has the the five towner has a hazaka that she's evo so let her have evil foreign how did you go against him how does the all of a sudden now hazaka means something before we said when there's two against two doesn't mean anything all of a sudden now we're going to listen to the khazaka we have two again that say specifically we saw that this woman is married she's a co-wife so rahul the daughter of shimon is a co-wife with the five-towner and you're telling me that shimon should do yibum to the five-towner even though his own daughter according to two adam are are saying that she's a kawaii how could that pass how could it be how could you even have this for having me now we said a second ago that when you have two ate them against two eight and two against two it's a suffolk do i rise as the gimbal is a subject when you have two against two it's only something there about another is you take two against two i said this once a long time ago i have a very very crush of a grandfather very famous grandfather remartra he used to write to the rugged shopper when he was 18 years old the rugged chair wrote back and he respected him in other words instead of like laughing at him as a as he would commonly not laugh but he would be very very hardish on people he wrote that anyway so myself asked me when i was 11 years old i was learning in a high school in arizona that's a different story why i was there but he asked me what's the halacha when it comes to trey trey so i told him trey trey mandela two against two as they just cancel each other out so he said no it's like no i started fighting with him i said my rebbe said it's it's it's kim on the lesson he's no it's okay let's go okay so anyway i'll never forget that one so says the good morning now if you have two against two [Music] it seems like from the gemara that was right i'm sure he's right he's a lot smarter and he still is a lot smarter than i will ever be but i i've never really figured that one out but it seems like over here he's probably correct that what we might have both been correct it's you cancel them out and then what so the next step is again you can't even trust what i heard or thought i heard when i was 11 years old that's a different story trailer you do two against two vietnamese what do you have at the end of the day after you remove the the two adam a woman who was available to evo the five-towner was available to evil now you want to introduce a co-wife well we don't know if she's a co-wife because we have two against two two against two cancel each other out but that's the versatile so the gemara brings the case of arshatyo here [Music] once in a while he's sane and then once in a while he's insane we don't know if he's normal or not normal so what happened the bar shot is over he sold real estate not fair you tricked him you fooled them you got a great price you know why because you pr you purchased the property from him when he was 100 you know i'll tell you real quick my zone even though i have to go to the taxi um let's give wow okay i can't say what's going on okay it's a middle of learning i'd love to stop and say oh elon look how beautiful this elon is but i'm looking at the alps it's just incredible with the with the you know what i have to show you for a second maybe i don't know if you can see [Music] the clouds are coming in oh whatever okay now that i did that let's see if i can position it normally okay anyways real quickly i was i had a bunch of i still own this property in decatur illinois it's called so many years ago i was trying to buy up some it's a property a bunch of buildings and for some reason once upon a time somebody one of the owners sold off like three buildings the middle of a property of let's say 15 buildings he sold off three so i inherited that situation and have three buildings that i wasn't in control there's a lot of drugs that are not so i was in the process of buying up those three buildings just so i have control hashem today i own all those bullets so so i go to one of the to the owners and he says i want forty thousand dollars per apartment okay this is like ten years ago those were the prices back then in decatur illinois so then i meet another owner identical buildings they're all built by the same contractor and they have a whole lot of shoes with him but he took good care of his building put new windows in the roof the whole thing and he tells me new you want to buy my property i said yeah he says how much do you want to pay me so i learned one of the big you saw this in sales you don't say the first you don't you don't name the price you never know let him say the price say hey what do you want she says listen i i bought this property 10 years ago and i paid 20 000 an apartment but i know he tells me i know i understand that the value goes down it can't be that it goes up it's like a car the value goes down he starts explaining to me real estate and i don't have any more tax benefits so i realized that my property instead of being worth twenty thousand dollars an apartment it's worth sixteen thousand dollars an apartment you wanna you want you wanna pay me sixteen thousand dollars an apartment so i thought real quickly and i was like should i be a hazard knock him down even more that's impossible it's crazy so i told him you know i'll give you the sixteen thousand on condition that we could close within two weeks because i was worried that he's gonna go to his kids and tell him the crazy they saw he's selling an apartment for sixteen thousand dollars an apartment when everybody else is selling for forty the cajava you sold it for sixteen thousand dollars an apartment so it's very well possible that they the kids will come and tell me bar when he told me that we want our money back we want the property back we also betrayed him so you know what we do we take the two-way them that say that the guy was saying and the two-way then let's say that was insane that he's completely in the arrow and the property goes back to barashatya we went to we turned to the laminar from bay's sponsored moisture horn in honor of jolly joe krause and family in honor of elkin zversky ryan zuberski arie miller for learning the dove oh so now we're going back what's the question right boys eye the question is why in the mishnah when it's trying to describe the case of a suffix when it comes to kedush and says the guy threw the ring and it fell in between the husband and the wife and we don't know where it felt say the same exact case but you get why are you telling me a different case get doesn't have the time there's an avedun says it's apostle we're learning from the friend yes the same case that we have like kedushin is going to go to garrison we got by garrison you have a conducion what's the big deal we thought it was obvious we didn't want to tell you what we were telling you a bunch of different cases yes but get also you throw together the lens we don't know where he landed in the garage doesn't like this let's go back to the missionary side this is the case of suffolk condition and then the mission that keeps on going suffolk gary shane what's the subject of et cetera this is the case of garrison so how can you tell me that the mishna means all the cases are one gerush and kidus the mission says specifically this is the case how to do a soviet condition this is the case i do suffocation says hello marova i have a different shot similar to europe shattered by it but not 100 percent 50 calcium conditioning is beginnership you're right any type of suffolk you have by chidushin yeah so if you throw the get next to the woman and we don't know if it's next woman next to the man that's the suffocation as well but there's one thing that garrison has that he can't put back edushin that's why it says what is that one thing is gamora's gonna say in a second there's three types of bad guitar in the mishnah the husband wrote it without adam there's no man without [Music] this is the way to do suffice and not if you don't put the time in the kidusian star that's not a that's not a requirement to put the time in a condition shot so therefore it says zahu by kidusha but by garrison all the spake is applied to garrison so then why does it say the word zou says robert you know what it was just the way the mission spoke since it said zombie edition it also said zou by garrison [Music] is coming to exclude the time that you have to write a time in a get the date i mean but you don't have to write the date thank you duchenne brand new song says in um why is there dates so it goes like this there's a takana that when a woman brings next time a look a woman comes in with real estate intel marriage she comes in with fields and fruit and all sorts of things the husband is allowed to eat the parrots he gets the pay raise he gets all the fruit why because since the husband if his wife is captured and is a shivoya and he has to redeem her they kidnap her he has to redeem her so mellow sacking that she that he gets all the fruit but that only starts once once they're married and once listen to this once he decides to divorce her the sides in his head not physically divorced once he decides the divorcer he doesn't get fruit anymore doesn't get the parrots he doesn't get the the the produce here the produce of the fields and the origins so when it comes to kedushin there's no need to write the time to date because regardless as an arusa he doesn't get any produce but when it comes to get you need to know when he decided to divorce her at that moment that he decided the divorce and he went to the cipher to write a get he no longer gets the produce so we need to know that we need to know when that time is so that if he ate if she says if she claims that he ate produce when he shouldn't don't we need we need a time but by condition that doesn't apply oh this is very interesting if a person is married to his niece and that niece went it was mazana even though he's very upset at her for what she did but he doesn't want her to die he doesn't want desmond to kill her because at the end of the day is his blood relative and he's going to do anything he can to save her life he especially doesn't want a sister who's his mother-in-law because he married his niece to be upset they killed the daughter and you were the one you brother you're the one that brought it to bed and enforced the whole thing so what is he going to do he's going to erase the time on the guest and besner won't know when she's divorced she's going to say oh i got divorced way before it was masano the same thing there should be a date when they were kaddish so that people like this guy this this uncle who married his niece he shouldn't say that there was kidushin after this we should know exactly when the condition happened whether or not because we know the first mission including that you could be mechanical women in three ways one of them is with the star one of them is with money and there are people that are had this with money so therefore and with money when you give a monetary transaction you give a ring there's no there's no place to write we're gonna casually start like talking that you have to do you have to write time what about a slave some people buy with money some people buy with a stock we're talking about his man nevertheless you have to put the date in on the star house because most people do kidus like we know with a ring not with the star and we go with the right and since the wrong doesn't write down this man so there's no there's no reason to write this man because there's no physical way to do it where are you going to write this man in the kitchen you're gonna give it to her she's gonna erase it today and if he gets to hold the star he'll he'll erase it to to save his his um his wife his sister's daughter and if you say that the eden should hold on to it so where you're going to put the star you're going to put the star by the witnesses you can't do that because the amount of if the witnesses remember let them come and testify if they don't remember then they'll look at the star you know how like sometimes you look at a picture when you're like three years old and you think you remember that situation because you looked at the picture and it was like oh yeah they were going to look at the star and say yeah yeah i remember but it's not from their memory it's from looking at the this so say the same thing by garrison where are you going to put the gut you put it by her slow race you put it by him he'll he'll cover for her you put it back so listen to this since we establish now if they see that the the time the the date is erased and their a did not say that she was masana [Music] they're gonna kill her why even though there's no date and she's claiming that she's mizana after she got the the divorce we still kill her why because she has a hazako that she was asian she has a pre-existing status usage and this star is missing the date that we establish we have to put in there the killer however says mishnah official mission sponsored by the md white hill group where we dive in for a fool's issues for clyde's stroller for our mdy family join us says the mission i'm just rushing because taxis coming literally a few minutes and i have to pack up so soon so here we go to the chart we have three brothers married three non-related women three nakhriyas we have bracha bataan in the five town of course i don't know if you notice but the rasha shiva with the frack is married to the five town woman makes a lot of sense um step two is ruvain go sideways so now brava [Music] and then it goes jimin with mimer he gives her a kiss of conduction gives her money how much is bracha related to shimon a little bit the mace the next step is shimon goes sideways so now let's look at it but who did she come from did she come from shimon who just died and shimin was kind of herbermeyer or did she come from ruvain who died initially and she was always a vomit to naftali [Music] if one brother dies reuben dies okay then you could do evil but if two then there's no evil as you can see look what's happening here right now this bracha woman is coming to naftali from two places she initially fell to naftali because reuben died but now that jimin gave her mimer mimer's kind of slightly a little bit so now she falls in number two over here the little braha she was somewhat connected to shimon and now she falls again to naftali so naftali is [Music] says it's not true since mimer says rip shimon and we learned this earlier is of the opinion either works 100 or worse zero it doesn't work 50 50 like we just described therefore if meimer works one hundred percent then she's one hundred percent shimon's wife and when chimin dies then she falls to naphtali one hundred percent from one java because shimon was kinder 100 but if miami doesn't work at all then she fell from rueva shimon had no connection to her emma mayla either way you look at it it could be miyabamir and therefore me melissa shirts have a wonderful day you