Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 3 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning oh no welcome welcome to all the regulars there are so many bleh and her guests all of you get over here all of you where's the saddle guns where is he he's sitting all in the back well i have to welcome all the guests but for me today i have to highlight two very special individuals that we all we all owe a tremendous encouragement to first of all my partner betsy friedman is in the house in the background over there i would not be able to learn tyro the way i do if he wasn't around and he wasn't taking care of the business so tremendous we all owe him a tremendous acquires a taif and secondly we have nasana ganz who is the marketing genius behind mdy i warned the other shurim and the other companies not do not touch our guy he's our man anybody else there's a lot of people from london here no manchester manchester i mean obviously let me show you some pictures let me show you some pictures of our boys sai here we have the brooklyn serum on cedar muy than jagiga and then we have over 200 people in toronto if you look in the right top corner you'll see mdy logo there unbelievable right below that we have they gave out stenders with the mdy logo to the kids that were messiah unbelievable talking about standers i got a gift here i'm yeah yeah i'm not far we got in the house shimmy leifman not lifeman [Applause] is it really leafing we changed it hashem and all it says ah this is beautiful look what it says there maggie cheers schmuck to learn or to do the duff i'm daffing you know what let's let's use this today we'll use the stender how about that is that a good idea yeah let's see how that works no it's going to be like i don't know it ruins it it's not ruins the okay fine let's try it let's keep on going right side montreal and check out the screen manchester the valdec they have the sign chicago the 200 people that showed up this is a fleischke restaurant over 40 people london see them 200 people in london by the way i just want to go back real quickly to toronto toronto five months ago there was i think 40 or 50 people at the cm and in five months they quadrupled and here's london look at this look at this table in london look what they served there how they served it look at the chair on the bottom under the food you see all the merch i don't know if i could zoom in on this no and rabois yo nitscuits and rafal the barber are on the way and guess what they attack the guy that's sitting between and he had no choice he says right sonny he took a gemara this is i guess from the new york serum the the gemara cake and the cookies the larger one is actually smaller it's a blow up of okay huh oh behind paris levine or parrot sky levine whatever it is he's in the house here's the cookie unbelievable [Laughter] uh i i believe we should start i just want to say that i didn't read any emails today we received a tremendous amount of emails and um i actually had some people two people that wrote in what a chutzpah that i didn't show the woman's face what kind of generation are we in uh but nobody complained that they were not sneers so hashem to that we had a few complaints about the names the names were confusing the people recommend that we go back to ruben chim and levy so maybe we'll try that out today we'll do the names didn't stick so maybe we'll do it happens to be the dr flacter is the lady so called flacter lady dr baldwin levy levy baldman and then what who's older between the two of you guys no i'm his older he's ruvain and uh the one that looks like avi is shimon okay let's um today share so i just want to say also the um it was very confusing yesterday we went through a whole lot of new ideas and we saw him at a very high rate of speed uh people went back and watched the share again and they still were confused bazer hashem we're going to go through all the ideas again much slower and much we if you think about it we put in 15 different cases and only 30 minutes is it was hard so if you didn't get it yesterday don't feel bad a lot of people didn't get it a hundred percent in addition i was thinking as i was walking here what better day to recruit your friend than today they missed that first mishna they sneak into receptor without them even realizing what happened you started off gimmo great unbelievable such an easy miser so don't be worried about telling them to join today even though they missed the first dive no just the sheath is you start from that gimbal it's great don't tell them about that face figure they'll figure it out in a month from now the pirates of haides is mr anonymous that is by the way we have with us a birthday boy jacob kessler from new york right where is he right here you came in special to see him wow unbelievable it's his bar mitzvah trip which his bar mitzvah fell out during kovid so they pushed it off and now he's got the beer for the sheer and the whole thing the whole shabbos and everything but julie rosenfeld apparently remember my dear friend judo logging balm by the lock and lubbock families from lakewood as it's close to our families by jonathan davidov in memory of the ben paneer made in having aliyah anonymous the arts of moshe ben amra mushroom appreciate an appreciation of the share what in the house who i can't hear you who's he saying he's in the house okay i can't see him and i don't hear you look boys started off with the rebelli and ariel kramer in honor of such incredible hosts jacob and michael lebowick your weekly area aberrant whoa oh sal rosenberg was my grandfather of shimon bar biases paying attention josh berkowitz success in learning the dive success to the halo gear of velvee engel i got nervous there for a second by mark brown so true so true the haley gear of velvet angle mark brown dedicated to the guys that put together the chicago cucum all right here we go we are holding on daff bay's on the base by the gemara the gemara now is going to attempt not attempt actually succeed in explaining the wording the mishnah and the order yeah okay fine we'll we'll try to stick it in somewhere so why is the wording the way it is why is it in a certain order and you know what let me just show you this chart that i made here to make the sugar much easier i believe so the chart that's on the screen right now you see it starts out with bitoy basbite bass binoy very similar the old daughters the red one is also all daughters basis and the blue underneath is his mother-in-law the mother of his mother-in-law and the mother of his father-in-law okay now if you notice on both sides of it of those three lines it says they all have the same punishment they give the person to drink hot molten whatever kill them with fire if you look at all those nine you could actually narrow it down to just one very simple it's it's a daughter it's a daughter in different directions it's the daughter of a daughter it's a daughter of a son it's the daughter of your wife your daughter of your wife's son it's your mother-in-law it's a grandmother and her daughters it's really just one person if you think about it it's not that complicated it's one and then we have another category a sister from a mother your mother sister and your wife sister so these are sisters so there's one category easy to remember sisters you're a sister from a mother your mother sister and your wife sister and then finally we have the the last category category on the bottom asia's these are not really related and the by the way the purple one there's no miso but they all only chorus and so to the final line there's no real misa with the other vessel doesn't kill besides the final final one it's really small colossal your daughter-in-law that's the only one that has skill or nats rafa okay so that those are the 15. as we're going to sing the gemara we learn the whole idea of this is comes from akhoi sisha what is akhoishishan so if you look here you have two brothers you have levy on top levy baldwin and ruben baldwin they're married to two sisters very similar berko ladies one is holding an mdy umbrella and one is holding sneeze but they're sisters now if levy bald man bye bye so reuben baldwin who's already married to the sister cannot marry lady's wife because their sister is gonna it's gonna turn out that he's married to two women i wanted to do this two sisters i wanted to do i don't think i can move it okay on the other one i was able to not in this okay i want to pull the green one down what happens is the green sister is is kuka she's ready to go to she should be ready to go to ruben baldwin and the problem is that she is going to be a co-wife with her sister and two sisters cannot be married to the same man and therefore she's potter okay that's a khaizi that's where we learn all 15 from by the way very very interesting from all that i rise in the torah a sister or a mother they're never mother there's never a header for arise but for a hoist isha there is a hatter you're permitted to marry your wife's sister after the wife dies so the mesh says the directioning time of the crow he says when they're alive then thesaurus the rivals the terror doesn't want them to fight over the same husband but when the woman the woman dies who does she want to take care of her children no one more than her own sister and the tiger said okay you could you can marry her sister and he says its ways are sweet and perfect if you think about it there's a there's good logic to that to that issue disappearing you let her marry because that's what the mace wants that's what she herself would want who could take care of her children better better than the ant yeah we saw yeah yeah yeah at levaya yeah what the half mandy what half was in he uh he said you want to be muscadish yeah and he goes in to say that all tsars by the way sarah it's not fear let's say let's say the yavam is a real slump and his daughter is the tsara so two women are married to the of them one of them is a daughter right let's see if we are here this case levy baldwin dies he was married to two women burka and your xiaomi so now they both fall liebam too shimon baldman jimin baldman cannot marry either one of them he can't be miyabe his own daughter obviously and because he can't be me i'm his own daughter he cannot be miyavin the co-wife that sorrow so he says what if shimon balm is a disgusting guy so the the burka lady is going to be very upset she'll be like now i'm stuck with him my co-wife gets out of it because she's a daughter why do i have to suffer and on the on the flip side what if he's a great guy he's a very successful lawyer or something and she wants to be married to him and she's gonna say it's not fair so we can sir the third said sorry zappata it just went and continued that theme of that that this this chakra to the tire okay so so if you look at this chart what's on top of the chart the first one is b types is highlighted in light blue all the way at number 12. why if we're learning everything from it but baby we started with beta because it has the most severe punishment and it goes according to the recipient of what is the most severe punishment from besan srifa and look at that whole list the whole tab is also okay then if so why is his own daughter from his anusha number one in the list it should be his mother-in-law why the ig because that's where the main parasha of srifa comes from then let's skip all the way to the last last one on the list which is his daughter-in-law and the bus is straight for skill of hamura why does it have two lines in there of people that don't have any miso bidet adam the purple line and the black line is just karas you have to wait for hashem to do something but bezen doesn't take care of them and if so but kalos at the last last number 15 on the list is kilau so put that right after the list of srifa the bus is rafa skill hamura as you're going to see we learned already just recently that a daughter from anuso non-marriage daughter we're going to see the possum that we don't want to know you can't kill somebody from logic even though it's his own daughter but it doesn't say isis over there it says it's a rice so mela i wouldn't know that she's awesome and since he had to come up with russia to figure it out as we're going to see in a second when you come up with something you love it it's schmack it's yours it reminds me of the darshan in the south you know i once said in the russia while ago this and this like the covenant duma you were probably all there you heard about my hush with rush i once gave him or this guy at the end of the day who likes the drudger the most the guy the guy that darshans himself id kiev in the assembly russia have evolved there's a guy once darshaning and one by one after three no this is not good i'm serious no it's not good i need to see my buddy here what are you doing here what's going on anyway one by one they started leaving one by one there's one guy left in the speech so he walks over and he says for sticking around you know he says no no i'm next in line i'm the next speaker anyways kevin asked me a drasha he loves the dress shirt no but over here it means drasha as we're going to see kuluna with russia the fact that you're part of you so you just said that russia that she's user the whole idea that a daughter from rape is usur is a drasha kumar josh also but all the 15 are also joshua not that they're authors that's my first in the torah says rashi that deposit from evil neither you mastered russia yes you're right that is a drug show but ike surayu the fact that there they're arising but bittoyi but your own daughter not through marriage super midrasho that came from a joshua dolma roblox so here we go here's the positive one position so it says those two words we're going to use those two words but it does say in the past isha isha means isho's that there's a marriage to exclude a daughter out of wedlock for that you need seven took him earlier and prosecuted it says and we take the word hey no and we match it up to the heinous later on and just like the the impossible so there's an israel so with the daughter out of marriage asazi nazima and that the the word zima tells me as you're going to see here the next pasok you burn them and it says zima on that burning so now i know that this burning by a daughter at a wedlock even though it doesn't mention the the this idea of daughter at a wedlock in the torah it mentions a real daughter a regular daughter but not out of wedlock so we learned that from xavier so since he came with the exam java when you come up with your own torah doesn't matter if it's exercise whatever it is you come with your own thing it's give out like it feels good you want to tell everybody about it first you start off the mishna with bitoy and the rest are also man who saw samantha say the first three established anything that comes from russia is beloved to you listen so then just say ah which is the main part of the mishnah you should say it all the way at the end we're talking about sisters so we're talking if you look at the purple it's a line of sisters it's a category of sisters uh my brother married my sister for my mother and by the way if i didn't mention yesterday eboom only applies to brothers from a father paternal brothers only not maternal that's why if you have a maternal brother it's possible that he married your sister and she fell to you liable now you can't be miami obviously because she's your sister from my mother so since we're in the purple category of sisters so i'm going to stick in a also a sister fits right into the category you're right maybe logically speaking it should be at the end end of the mission because it's the number one this is the least of the drushes everything was fit with the drasha besides that one no go back to the chart please so then put the whole purple at the end why is purple before black why is isha sahib and khalasi all that at the end if the where we learn all 15 from is from the highlighted blue that should be the last last one i you want to put it in the purple category take that whole purple category and put it at the bottom ello you're right tana curvy corbinoka the tano was talking about the how related are you to these people we start off tana bitoy there's nothing more related than your own daughter basibito your granddaughter who passed benai and your grandson they cried the attorney these are my relatives what yeah what is this right granddaughter from the sun you're right thank you your granddaughter who passed the daughter of your son and you spoke about his relatives now you go back to the chart and you see that the second category is basis it's all the same there's a couple that were fighting in the car they had a big fight and they were passing by the zoo so the wife says the husband says maybe you want to go visit your relatives in the zoo she says yeah i want to visit the schweinsteiger but craving asked me you gotta see your vomit since you found your body's side steve almost jokes his craving her craving my my my kids got the defect from your parents another guy from yours look at what happened over here microwaving your craving the bottom line is first goes microwave and then goes hercules invited internationally and go back to the chart garrison you can just leave it there for a while it's the seder now you're going to hammock the mother-in-law and the mother of the mother-in-law you're going you're taking the grandmother and going down three generations you go but it's the same idea as the daughter and the daughter of the daughter that kind of thing by the craviate and then the fourth category in purple is his sister's the sister category but listen i'm not really related by blood to my wife's sister to my sister-in-law but i'm talking it's a category of sisters it says now if you go to the final final category kala daughter-in-law should be before asia's you know what we could talk about it for a minute because yesterday we went through it here we go giveaway picture we're out of space people are watching from their cars we gotta expand everybody's side here's somebody watching what kind uh this is an electric this is a tesla so it's a local guy you don't rent one of these yeah uh somebody's watching in this tesla right outside the door cause there's no room in the in the house give all the uh garcia you could show the room if you want for a second but uh the nissan against leave already yeah he's upstairs somebody's watching on youtube here in the room thank you appreciate it thanks for taking up the bandwidth because we don't need it um so here go back beautiful picture go back to that thing what happened was you have shim and baldman married to the burka lady and you have lady he's the new guy the new guy from new york it's okay you recruited 50 people how many people do you recruit over a hundred people get over here you got to get over here 100 people for 100 people you get over here i know there's a hundred guests here in the house but here's a hundred a century sarah mayo unbelievable unbelievable wow wow wow what's awesome how did you do it one time what i thought you got anybody on the plane like rafal the barber everybody spoke on the plane unbelievable in paris levine is the kind of person [Laughter] it's all the same okay go back please to this uh so as you can see you have two brothers here they're baldwin brothers the bald the baldwin brothers one is shimon baldman and the other one is yehuda baldwin yehuda balman was married to stam lady not not they're not sisters at this time late and he died after he died he had a brother a store came and the brother was dropped off that little guy in the stork is user to be me abem the ushami lady with the chicken in her bag why because he wasn't alive when his brother died the other brother shimon balman he is miyabamir but if shimon baldwin has another wife so the store kid can never marry any of the wives because now they're at sarah vatsara she she said sarah sorry the other one is it sarah this you xiaomi lady is to the store kid he cannot ever marry her he can't do ibum and if shimon baldman does eboom over here so let's do it again very very simple it's the one of the baltman brothers had another brother but he came into existence after one of the bulman brothers died and what the bald man brother that died yehuda that died you the bald man that died he's his wife is has to do ye boom or halita to the brother that was alive when his brother to shimon baldwin so if he does and shimon has another wife that other wife is also user to to the store guy the baby boy fine baby bowman baby balman nachman you're going to be asking him to be one of these characters one day absolutely not too much no no we're looking for non-baldmans all right we got enough we gotta not a bad idea we're working on miranda kash we need a smartie all right if you look at the list carlos is the last last on the list but no colossus should be first why should kalashi be before rabbi sai anybody know why why should allah be the first not that one here oh very good in this list right over here why should carlos say be before ash akhiv because skila and asia zakim doesn't have shalaya doesn't have a skeleton it just has what karas next oh yve we're running out of time here don't worry we have mutsu shabbos no we don't have muchabiz we have to do a quick share about the shabbos oh yeah the live is from corvo with that zero yeah it's not a good idea to make coffee during share the lawyers cause i'm very sensitive even to the wind the delivery from gubernatorial id right let me show you that we're talking about siblings here tanya's if you look at the list i can't see it because garcia took it away again i can see it over here and challenge our brothers they go together and then kalasa comes last says gemara um choice let's talk about we're just talking about lassen over here the wording in the mission let's understand the wording what's going on here it says that these 15 women patter they if you so going back it's a little for me it's confusing still i need to do here going to this one right over here you have two baldwin brothers and but two women were married to lady baldwin but one of the women happens to be shimon baldman's daughter you see how that red line goes it's his daughter so why is it cut off i don't know his head is cut off on the screen so because shimon balmy cannot be miyabim his own daughter so you also cannot be me about sorrow so if i ask you what is it sorry i asked the kid yesterday what it saw is he didn't know so i was very very not happy he went to the sheer and he didn't know what atari was that means that we didn't do a good job yesterday we're flying through stuff sarah means a co-wife levy baldman had two wives the co-wife but since one of the wives is user to the brother he cannot perform ye bomb shimmy cannot perform even because it's his own daughter that patters he cannot do ibum on the birken lady who's called atsara she's a co-wife there's no eboom here but it doesn't mean that they're not potter from eboom completely they're not doesn't mean they're potter completely what if there's a third brother they have to go to the third brother because the third brother is not it's not his daughter so they are having you for this particular brother that's yesterday we showed a picture of kalman today we're calling him reuben kalman has it has to be me album if there's five brothers they all have to be me the only one that's potter from yevo but why is it called potter user it's awesome for shim and baldwin to be able either one of those listen to the oysters ethan give me the wrong idea that the evil was also but i can perform khalito come ash malone says the marvelousness so i'll get out of the idea just say it's awesome to do it says you're allowed to take off somebody's shoe she's allowed to spit at him what is always to the right to do that he says no allah it is a sir it's awesome in their abundance when you don't have to you know people might get confused and say that if they perform the halita here you could also do ibum that's why it's awesome to do so in the making videos with sharia check this out this is very important if there are two people they're not brothers you have shim involvement they have this guy climb from a clayton's rule klein is married to two women one of the women is shimon's daughter that would that that remains a constant but the two guys on top are not brothers what happens when klein goes bye-bye could simmon baldwin marry his daughter's co-wife the answer is yes yeah she's not she's at sarah but not not for me she didn't faulty evil her husband their husband died it's interesting there's no the only thing that creates atsara is when you cannot perform even because you're then the kawaii becomes awesome but since they're not brothers those two guys baldwin inclined and it happens to be that client was married to baldwin's daughter but it's okay says that's why it says potter because you should know it doesn't answer another woman it's not because they're together it's patters why did it say halita first listen or not sorry here's another question just say ebon first why should it say ebon only because the main part of the mist was to do eboom yutani naibum right if you have two things in front of you what should you do if it would say just evil if you could do you could do khalid if you can't do you you can't do khalid listen first if that if it's the icker say it first so if you look at rashi if somebody marries listen to the unbelievable thing that we have to know somebody marries is the obama because of personal reasons he likes her says rashi forget i think that the vlad is going to be manzier because he had the wrong intent intended not for other reasons and that's why michelle says it's a dangerous thing who's going to say oh i had no ulterior motives and my mela don't marry her don't be miami or do khalid's instead says why does it say this 15 everybody knows how to count in fact very interesting when i got on zoom yesterday after this year i go a few minutes on zoom live one of the guys there says review five categories of three and it's 15. i asked him you have a gemara in front of he said no i know the guy we he's in a college campus he doesn't have a game or whatever great guy but he said he counted and schmacked that he counted but he didn't count so maybe that's why the mishla says 15 but anyway why why does it have to say 15. and mignonette sorry why does it say 15 um what do i need let's say it repeats itself is like another time counter says the martin luther dirab with the ravasi so we have here here's the here's the chart radha ravasi ravasi says that if a person's wife was a psycho we call her a satan meaning a zaina not not like we understand the sight that you bring to the base of mikdash and just eat them and a wife that caused him that he can't have relations with her anymore he has a divorcer if that soy that has a sorrow she has a co-wife and the husband dies so the brother shimon bolgman is not many of them the saita creates the isr to the to the tsara to the co-wife that's what he says and we hold not like that our mission says no only fifteen not sixteen you just added another one wither abbasi uh the rav the mutated is islanders that is if a person knows for a fact that his wife will never have children she's an eyeliners and he marries her anyway that islandness potter's the co-wife there's no yibum for that couple for all the brothers it's not for him for all the brothers so when he dies all the brothers can't touch either one of them the ravelry of asia why does it say the mishnah number if they have 16 in fact and the quran is going to ask if they have 16 why is it not in the mishnah there's a great answer for that but they have 16 not 15. so what's what are we excluding it's really that if they hold of each other they hold that there's actually 17. will add one more that if a father married off his young daughter and she didn't like the yavam that she fell to and she's mine she didn't mean to the other not to her husband then you have to do khalita to the other one to the tsara over here a person divorced his wife and his wife married another man and now he's not allowed to remarry her but he married her anyway he was over he married her anyway and then she fall he dies and she falls leave them to shim and baldman shimmer balm and can't be miami why because his brother had no right marrying her in the first place she's a divorcee his own divorcee that married another man so that patters the tzara if reuben baldwin was married to two women shimon balman doesn't marry any one of them sponsored by michigan sugar and the original sugar shaker sponsored by michigan's burskie was here yesterday in honor of brian and talia edgar says maro i i did vlog look at you when you edit the video you'll see like that maybe and this is the simplest thing if you hold of the other one you hold together to the 17 um so one mention of a number is to exclude your friend rav will exclude rivassi oh it starts so rivassi is islanders or saita and the vice versa we have four things here we have island so with all four things we understand why the mishnah has a number well the revelation but if they're coming the same there's more arise than the mission why doesn't say the mission of 16 cases 17 cases none of the brothers can marry an islanders or a saito if the brother has a saita so none of them so it's never possible look at this chart right over here we have if uh we had the case of tsar sorrow right sorry sorry it's already 8 o'clock so we're going to get to it again sorry sorry means we've described it before that is if shimon baldman has a daughter who's married to his brother so shimmy can't be me having either one of levy baldwin's wives who comes along another brother third brother ruben bowman could be me out of him either one of them he's me abem the tsaro the co-wife the burka lady but he already has another wife the five town woman so now roulette baldwin is married to two women five town and burka but because burka was oscar to shimon so now five town becomes oscar to shimon so if rouvey bowman dies and both of his wives five town and sarah fall again to shimon this is the second time women are fallington he can't marry either one of them even the five towner because she's related to the tzara who's related to his own daughter that's a sorrow of a sorrow something tomorrow it's better with names like that okay we're changing to reuben shimon forget about kalman [Music] got your way mandy that's right listen a good r is a good aura oh it's always amazing your shots are not holding there but the other cases this this whole thing that we just spoke about happens with the daughter happens to this does not happen with the saito all brothers even reuven even levy yehuda they're all us to a saita to the brother's wife zaina okay how do i know this whole idea of sarah and sorry everything we just discussed is you should not take your wife's sister litzrow it's a lotion of sorrow of a rival double ocean vasa let allah to be married when she's alive what's so i see from here that yee boom pushes off so i think that even pushes off all right even your own daughter i would have have i mean imagine if shimon's daughter forced him to leave him she would have to be miami's own daughter unbelievable i think so why because something else like that happened your wife's sister became i'm sorry um your brother's wife yeah your brother's wife how do i know to go to the next step to the co-wife double lash and should it say lotsur not let's how do you know that the power goes on forever she goes into the marriage as a hundred percent power and then to the next 100 keeps on giving off she keeps um contaminating what's the word infecting the other woman 100 percent forever 100 hours mainly allah what's special what's what's unique about this ah seashore like those we mentioned yesterday two two women two sisters married two brothers what's special about it's uh in all other cases in the world that means to include all the other rights as really of them all 15. we learned from al-qaeda and that now you can understand why before we said it everything we learned from her she's the most important she should be first whatever vainly ella sir sami knight how do you know you go to the next step to the co-wives marco is all these things this is a there's a freebie oh the only thing we added is uh and the co-wife is awesome of course so she goes fifteen women that are arise pattern the y the the the that airva your daughter the daughter of a daughter but sorry sir same and the co-wifes of your daughter and the co-wife of your granddaughter minekalito ibm even a hundred times over yahoo should we go invite her okay rabboissai have a wonderful day welcome to all the wonderful guests well schmooze after shockers based on if you stick around you