Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 27 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rabbi sai ah lili nishmas rossi russ bas mordecai we have some special guests i see some hasidis in the light in the are back allowed to see your name yank you down from bar park and the talent next to you your son very nice bubba i saw goldstein you the kansas city goldstein very nice we have israel here i'm not even going to try this what's your last name fugatis coladas from brazil unbelievable all right then we have the kovacs here again what my way of sleeping by way of cleveland anybody not ever how do you spell that no no not cleveland that for gators thing okay forget about it victories yes okay give all the it makes schlaffrak's name look like uh wow rabbi sai we are here uh yesterday was nissan and a lot of us are in venus mana mode and i want to talk a little bit about it and reflect a little bit about the past month i was just thinking about it this morning i figured i would share it with the island so approximately a month ago we started mesafamus prior to that a month before that i had a meeting in my house with tomer and someone from a huge organization who put out tremendous firearm that i used a lot and he came to discuss with me ivamus she says what do you plan on doing obama's i thought i had this idea in my head he says you don't worry about it i'll take care of it and of course he's millumid he has many sparring that his organization put out and he spent millions of dollars and farm i told him my idea and everything he loved the idea took down notes he says you don't worry about it i got this covered by the beginning of your vlogmas you're going to have your cartoons and everything and he left the house and i looked at tomer and i said okay we gotta hire artists immediately and start working behind this guy's back what if he doesn't come through and we went through this whole thing well he came out with fire and unbelievable safari mandarin he has a lot of experience but we went ahead and we hired the artist and he himself was coming out with his own saver on yavamas but he was going to do us a huge favor and do this project for us a cartoon version of yavamas bar hashem as you know we're using our cartoons he never came through i have no idea what happened to him i really didn't speak to him ever since that meeting but he didn't come out with his safer or our cartoons so it was a big project fast forward we started yvonne's and immediately after starting invas which was very very difficult to get the artist and i interviewed artists there was one woman who put together some very famous art that everybody's familiar with and i said okay she should be our artist i interviewed her and she said yeah she needs one month per character so she needs at least 12 months advance no we're starting in a month a month she started laughing anyways and we found yoshi he said a month that's too much time maybe a month three days later no each character took like three four days but he was he he worked 24 7 and he got the characters out the day of yavamis i had nothing i didn't know what program jack of goldman helped me i sat in his house till two in the morning we were doing different programs okay then of course came to see him i'm saying all this for toyeles because right now we're going to venezuela so came to see them it was an amazing event but in my house everything was on wheels because we were expecting a lot of guests in my house from people coming from coastal arts we brought in contractor painting everything my wife bought all new furniture a mess for weeks okay we got through the scene which was unbelievable and epic the whole shabbos and the gas and this and the seam itself then came along purim now before purim this tinus esther on tinus esther i want you to know it's difficult to prepare shir you're fasting you're this it's it's the shahman is the whole thing okay preparing your shear give the shear when poor morning but that comes after we had a party in our house for my kids until i don't know what one in the morning well whatever it was it was it was levity come to share give a shear what i'm trying to say is that this past 30 days i was reflecting probably the most difficult 30 days since we started four years ago in terms of giving share then to give share to prepare on purim itself was impossible people coming in and out of the house the whole time shall come on this group give a the next morning and then comes i don't know what i got but i got sick that's sick for three days also extremely extremely difficult so everybody say we're coming in now we're heading venezuela people are going to go on trips there's going to be pesach a lot of matzo a lot of cleaning a lot of this no excuses no excuses no matter what try to do that stuff try i know you're traveling to orlando and you're going to be here and you're busy with this and you'll do it after pesach no every single day no matter what whether you're sick whether you're traveling i know and i need dylan seriously i need the island to dive in because to travel and to prepare is very very difficult and to ski and back in the day you snowboard and you come back home get into the hot tub with a beer and not everybody and you and then you just pass out to learn after that is it's not shy so we need we need tremendous broadcasting issues i don't know maybe i'll just won't ski i'm go i'm i'm doing this mamash a thousand percent la shmoop for my kids yeah yeah where's my water is it here no yeah i don't know what happened to my water it is mine okay thanks okay so nakamura try not to miss i know there's going to be hollomide i know the zerif pesac is impossible i try not to miss but many of you will miss and if you miss you know the drill so you'll come back after pesach and we'll start it all over again in your vomits so you finished a hundred and ten daphnia vomits instead of 120 nobody nobody's gonna know nobody cares you did a hundred and ten dolphin one of the hardest miscellaneous one of the most kashmaki's so i don't know if we have time we don't have time um let's just to go to the sponsors today the kylo sponsored this month by anonymous joseph hilleb and sarah new jersey because torah is the best gula if you want seven figures to drop in your lap you know what to do freeman and continue that slogan to rebellion i need it byron freeman gary gartenberg and again i say this all the time for me the most challenging daphim ever that i ever gave war erev pesach exactly a year ago we were learning himself in scotland i had to give three shoe room and himself in 17 hours to the point where i walked into the seder without taking a shower and without getting a haircut i looked me sugar i just walked in like a zombie but it was not bad my daughter-in-law said she never has a should stay there in her life maybe she meant literally i don't know dedicated by david steinloff from montreal in honor of his very special birthday i don't know any more details i don't know what's so special what is it okay rabois here we go today is daf hofsai and we're holding on the bottom of the base two lines from the bottom okay so we're going back to the chart we have here three brothers on top who married three sisters in the middle we have ruvain shimon and levy on the top who married rochelea and zilpah [Music] oh yeah you're right ruvain yehuda and levy ah whatever i tried to kill somebody else not my son but didn't work fine she's going for noticing rocale and zilba and then we have two other brothers on the bottom who so three women fall to two brothers what do you do so we learned that the brother on the right the brother and the blue jacket jimin he gives khalidza to one the brother and the yellow jacket gives khalita another one to zilpah then you have one left it doesn't mean necessarily the middle one it means the one that's left put it in the middle just to mimic the lotion of the kimono that we had the one in the middle gets khalitsa from both why because we learned about khalita guru khalifa guru is that since neither one of the brothers could be miyabim the center woman why can't they meet me because she's a choice so since they can't be me so the whole khalita goes together with evil you could be me instead you're doing over here you can't be me album so you're doing khalito it's a very weak khalito we khalitsa doesn't take care of the problem so much in order to carry the problem both of them have to do khalitza which is very very unique it's a huge condition we never had such a thing either khalito works or it doesn't work to explain it in real terms and long distance terms it's very difficult what is it doing how much is a calorie 50 percent there's no such thing in the torah that you what you're doing is it's either all or nothing either the person is pregnant or not pregnant you can't be fifty percent pregnant so does khalita work or doesn't work okay so that's why we had a hush of a uh rav with a frack last night rabbi mansour from farakaway he said that in yeshiva they learned the sugar for three weeks the those lines okay now we have another shot omar echoed if you look at the chart very very simple shimon on the right performs khalito for everybody i don't know maybe it's easy for you to see israel maybe this one can you see over there it's better you have to twist your neck like that scaring me what's going on here you need a good strong khalitsa if you can have a better khalitsa do a better khalito who's better at the khalitsa than shimon his brother don the guy in the yellow jacket who hasn't performed any khalid so let him do khalid so he doesn't have achilles here why is shimon performing all these khalitas here so it goes like this beautiful chart valdic it's really not that complicated there's a lot of stuff going on but it's not complicated what do you have here in this chart if you look at it you have three brothers and two sisters okay before we had that the opposite we have three sisters and two brothers now we have two sisters rocco and lay on top to three brothers the rouvain is married to one sister yehuda is married to another sister but that he they also have another wife each one has another wife what is that wife called atsara okay back hashem we're almost dirty but they don't know what a tsar star is we're not going to fire anybody yet shane said no i don't know it could be a mother-in-law yeah okay so says the three the two women fall to him it's four women fault him two of the women are sisters he got a package dealer four women if he performs khalitza no good you see that circle no good to perform khalido la nifty rutsaris if he performs khalifa to the two sisters each one is a hoist so it doesn't work it's a weak halito so if it's a weak halita it's not gonna make the the women on the side the five-town woman the battalion women they're not going to become motor to the world la nifty with soros so in this case what should you do so i put it in green he should be toilets to the tsarist to the outer women if he's hoilers that's our eyes then that will patter the sisters when it comes to evil khalidso if you perform khalid to one out of the two women of any particular husband that died in yehuda's case he's married to leia and bataan so if you perform khalita to battalion then leia she can get married to anybody perform khalid's the five towns rahul can marry anybody so shimon should perform khalid so he's the only one the only surviving brother he should perform khalid to the two outer women not to the two sisters because the two sisters is a very weak khalidso oh that's coming up that's the mother's question very good why can't you do halita to the outer one why what's it what why why should it be a problem follow through what's your casual each one is it sorry yeah fine that's kimura's question you're asking humorous so in this case right before where you have an available brother that he could perform khalito call it so we call him shimon an hour because we're we're familiar with shimla calls him the guy in the blue suit is going to perform three khalitas when each one is weak let his brother take over why are you telling why shmuel saying let jim into all three khalifas you see that shmuel doesn't hold to that you see when shmuel has an issue one brother should do khalid two sisters he says not good it's okay but it's not good what you should really do is a much stronger one when you have the the ability to do a stronger khalifa you do a stronger khalifa what's stronger to be highlights to the tsarist it's much stronger than to because of the sisters so he tells you don't do khalid's assistance so you see he's making on strong and weak so why in our case does he say let's let ruben take care of everything let shiman take care of everything and and be heirless to all three yavamas let's see it inside the top line hey for the kai mahalis of the shimon khalifa when the guy in the yellow suit could perform khalitsah khalsa ruben khalid's absula he's going to do a weaker jalito let's go back to that chart when it met when it said that shimon or doesn't say who it says he performs misunderstood what i meant i meant this i meant that the yellow guy is involved he's going to take care of one and shim is going to take care of another but shimon by himself will take care of the middle one of the last one that's what i meant why the last one is messed up anyways there's no good way out of it so we had the argument rap said he should she both of them should do small you don't need it what's the point it's a it's a helita she's she anyways you can't be me so one brother whoever it is shimon uh don whoever it is he'll do perform the khalid in the story and we're talking about the middle one that's the gemara vacuum but that doesn't fit into the lotion of the bryson it says shmuel says one brother should be all of them all that means one two three not one two says even the ruby said that you need so you asked me a question from this case to this case so i'll tell you a big naf camino what's the difference look at this case over here you want to do a khalitza to the two sisters he's going to shum is going to perform khalista rahul and what's that going to do it has an effect on us another person it's going to allow the five-town woman to get married he's going to do hallelujah it's going to allow but ah you're involving another person you must be very strong now now you have to have a really strong khalita but in our case there's only one woman she there's no sorry here we're talking about just lay herself what should layer have let him let him do it he said you need a really strong khalita in this case and that's why i'm advising you shmuel give khalid to the outer women to the tsarist that's a much stronger khalifa and that will affect a proper khalita for the two sisters because you're you're talking about another woman here avomifter or nafsha patrol but when we're dealing only with one woman like over here leia then it's enough to have one khalid khalifa ashfaliz is also good [Music] appreciate it it's one of those days by the way stam as a side note if anybody knows of a good hotel and a good shuttle service and a good anything i don't know where i'm going i have a flight to geneva the guys in switzerland thought i'm going to give share their lives no i'm going to the alps probably the french alps and i used to go to the french alps but i thought i'll just book it it's not available so whatever we worked on until like what time was it to like one-ish two and then we had to start preparing share after that but i still don't have a hotel yet we have a way to get there everything will be misudder if anybody has a good idea let me know i don't have time for that my friend we gotta prepare sheer omaha so now says we just learned shmuel says learning through tsarist talking about this case going back to this case if he performed khalifa on the two middle sisters yeah again what was the case three brothers two of them were married to two sisters the elder brothers ruben and yehuda married the two sisters two sisters is a big problem a person is not allowed to be married to two sisters so when the two brothers die as you see they died they went bye-bye the two sisters fall to one brother they fall to one brother and that's us technically to be married to two sisters but they're not really married it's only zika they're bond by a halacha that says they have to be miabi they're not really married to that guy in the middle so we said be me be toilets to the outer ones to the tsaris to the co-wives don't be toilets to the sisters what are you doing here hello i thought you're going different flight than your brother now we have another another case for boys i pay attention a new new case we're gonna see this chart over and over today in different variations what happened there very very simple one brother ruvain married to two women okay shimon after reuben goes bye-bye shimon inherits he gets these two women and he has to do something with them either he marries one of them or he gives khalita to one of them instead this he goes to cipher writes 12 lines called the get gives the get to ralph i just read the shabbos that they say the reason why to get is because an entire torah you don't have a gimbal and a test together or khaim where you found another nine or ten places in the torah that you have two letters that never you don't have those combinations you have to like know the torah pretty well in order to do that without a computer without a computer you went through the whole somebody asked me how you do it he says i learned tanaka very well okay so so shivan goes ahead and gives her a get what does it get accomplished may they rise there's no such thing as a get to your vama mithurai says there's two things you could do khalitsa yibum but there are bottom there's two things that do cause a big problem either mimer which is like kedushin which is similar to ebon or a get which is similar to khalidsa so ravan said if you're going to do that you're going to give a get we're going to make sure that it doesn't just go in vain you're not going to be able to marry her but what do you do you have to continue what do you do so it says like this hamaimer sorry niftyrotsara if he performed khalitz on rahul after he gave her a get loy niftarotsara listen to this let's say he didn't give a get and shimon gave ahalitsa to rahul what happens what's that both of them go bye-bye they're both free to go but because he ruined it and he gave a get now what do you do it's it's a bra so he gives her a khalita what is that called it's a very very weak khalito it's not a strong khalito it doesn't have an effect on the tsara it works on her on rocco but now that sarah also needs khalid next house [Music] again but if he gave khalid shimon to the bataan lady it's normal that's a regular khalita that works and everybody goes out what about this case same exact case but instead of giving a get he gives rahul mimer gives her a ring kidushan that it works and it's actually appropriate to do that in nowadays and if you gave her my mirror no go if you gave her khalifa to the one that he gave mimer it doesn't affect the battalion lady and in fact not only that if he gave her khalitsa it's not even enough for her what does she need she needs to get for the mimer in addition to the khalid she needs to get whether it's sarah but if he went and he did khalita to battalion everybody goes out free and clear sorry says gomorrah oh now this is the culture that no i'm asking for my life through why is that you said in this case that you should not perform khalid said the sisters it doesn't affect the co-wise that sorrow is because the sisters are like your wives why are they like your wives because they're zika they're bound to you sorry so then how does it help to do khalifa to the co-wives to the torah sorry they're all related now through the zika of the two sisters now each one is a sort of as of a of a of us says now we throw in a wrench oh there's no zika so if there's no zika so then why can't you just do khalis to one of the sisters vomiting well first of all let's let's address something else more yeah firstly the whole parish doesn't make sense you tell me ain't zika we just learned the future yes he's saying according to god this is what's going to happen that is so then why can't you do khalid to one of the sisters they're not connected rocco and lay are not connected to shimon they don't they're not considered his both his wife there's no zika now if you look over there i put numbers there there's a one and a two leia had halita first one rocco had halita because he performed khalid sanllehi first bahadur calls the rochelle and only afterwards he performed callister rafal have aloha why can't why can't it work well for bataan when he performed khalita on leia there's no there's no zika there's no connection between lei and rahul and there's no it was a beautiful khalito anglais go free and clear why giving bad eye and a hard time says the gemara might learn if they're serious we're not talking about leia we're talking about rahul sarah five towns is a problem why is five thousand brown because once he gave khalid to leia now rocco becomes and you can't perform khalifa torah and therefore if you do perform khalid's the ruffle it doesn't work it's not effective for five doubt what sorry is comma it says the plural both have a problem sorry is the alma if you take this exact place and duplicate this case ten times all the five towns in that side are all a problem they're tsaris i'm talking about all the cases of the world the ones on the left are good the all but soros the plural the ones on the right are all a problem yeah you're following why should i repeat again if you don't understand i have to be all these cases that ever happened in five towns well in other cases going to be cavalia and gittle and peril and this but anything like this when you have two sisters i don't care their names if he performs khalita to one that's a good khalid so because it's the first one but immediately the sister peril and cavalia and gito and sprinsa all those other cases their tsara not five towns but four towns and six towns they become a problem they're not it's not going to work for them that's what it means stars maybe again a lot of talking here in that situation all stars in that situation oh schmuck i feel like i have to make another break on this schmuck okay look tomorrow in case you wonder i'll give it away right now belzer khasid in the coil says this is the hardest daffodil vamos i don't think he's that hard personally he says it's hard as diving involved and he said if you know if you do this david poor israel is his third day into ibamas and here we go it's not as difficult as your name i guarantee you says the gemara vatsaurus comma sorry hockey so it's it continues over there right we learned if he performs khalid so to the outer ones then the the sisters become potter that's our s rahul mr all how is it possible to give khalitza to the five town lady and it should it should affect rahul but none okay let me show you this real quickly the there's a mission in that mem and it says these two the shyness pay attention to the lotion it's very very important it's just what word comes first it's usur to be with the tsara of akriva in other words if you do khalitza to one sister the tsara of the other sister is asar but it's mother decree that if you did khalita to atsara then the sisters mother okay let's see inside [Music] so now if he performed khalito if he performed khalid to one of them now the sister is a saras croy sasa she should be us second sister the second sister yeah but soras says it depends where you how you started if the first woman that you were me abhim is leia let's say [Music] marbet soros then you cannot finish off and do five towns you can't do the sorrow of raw this nanos or other sort of square is called sausage but if you started let's say he started with five pounds it doesn't matter which one then you could finish off even with well let's go with the other side let's say you started with bad iron then you could even finish off with rahul or the five towns you see the problem is what's the connection between the five towns and battalion the connection is the sisters in the middle so if you do a khalita to one of the sisters then it's us or the tsar of the other sister but if you're gonna do the khalita on the tsarist now there's no connection really between the two groups so mamela now it's mother now it's green now it's mother cryva sorry now it's mother even to the sister because there's no connection you did khalifa tabat so you're allowed to do khalid or even to any to to to to ruffle or five towns even to rahul we got to continue our boys because we got to on the base here also at the end of the day he says yay zico in this case yay zico and what's the whole problem so therefore if you zk you can't you can't be hoyless the sisters so if you can't because the sisters asks noah which is really the gemara so you can't be toilets that saurus either they're all connected they're tsaris to the the woman that saucer why did you say dukhali to the tsars what is the difference is there between a sister and sarah no this should be in the same boat he says yes there's zika and yes the zika works if rachel and leia are bonded to shimon so are there soros but in a weaker way they are there is a bond and the bond is very very strong between rochelle and leia and shimon but they they come with co-wives and the co-wives also have a little bit of a bond and you know you have to understand what a little bit means but not enough to make them also like their sisters okay that's what he says you can understand that the the the israel comes from the sisters and it it weakens up as it goes spread to the side elim ezekiel is not loyal it doesn't make the sister a pure arab and therefore it's better to give the cis the vitsara i mean the tsar is not a pure evidence therefore it's better to the torah than give us the revashi i have mamash like we said hola again going back to this case on the screen the three brothers two sisters and he did khalid zamasu what we're talking about word for word call us learn if through tsarist holla tsaris niftura it seems like if you do perform khalid to the to the call wise thesaurus it does work my time allah yes sorry careful it must be that's the shot over about no i'll tell you what the shot is the shot is this goes it's going to be shyama you hold the snobbish material the 15 series the first mishna in our messerta that says that if let's say your daughter falls to you boom and there's a co-wife both of them go out without anything michelle may argue somebody said you can marry the co-wife the daughter of course you can't marry but the koa if you could so goes so why give them kalitsa you could you why because people might have the wrong thought they might like the woman for for stamp for liking a woman not for the mitzvah and it's almost like being mizano he says they speak with him if you remember they weren't able to institute it time flew by and they forgot to do it or they couldn't do it in fact later generation they were missing great news sponsored by marshall horne in honor of jolly joe krause and family my boy say again jolly joe krause jolly joe crouch and family in honor of atkins burskie brian kingsbernski and iron miller for learning the death he barlow ballas haguette dubois check this out same story that we had a second ago yeah ruby married to two women krom shimon he's a big macher instead of performing khalid so he gives one a get now to top it off he he does mimer he's a big bono kind of guy he does a get for one a minute for the other instead of doing khalid so for one so what what's gonna happen a is the memphis demonstration now it's much easier now which one should he perform mahalita to the one he gave a get to or the one each one has a milan akasaran balance against maybe should give the one that he gave a get to because she's fifty percent gone so just finish it off top it off with khalid's maybe no he should do a very strong khalitza that undoes a very strong connection he has a very big bond with her because he also gave her kidus oh another case here's the case what happens if he gives a get to one and a get to another big mach like is does the get even do anything when you give a get to that woman let's say he gives one get to rahul now he becomes hosted to all of ruckle's sisters whatever because it's as if he was married to her and he gave her a divorce so you're not going to marry ruffled sister so what if he gave a get to the second one also the battalion so what my number says it doesn't do anything you can't give too get into two vomits they both fell to you either it works or doesn't work another one says no you're also to everybody's cry of him to the right to the left says so review himself holds and get aggregate this doesn't work one gate after another doesn't work um that if he did this case that we're talking about first they get and then a mimer or a mimer then again they do take effect so e f that's right what's going on here why should this work according to a grammar you're asking that two getting one after another doesn't work but getting in a nightmare reminder then again doesn't work so what's up if if a get is better than mimer so then the mimer shouldn't work at all to the second woman that's right so what do you do allah they both have an effect i don't know how much power one has maybe they don't have more power than each other but they have an effect you can't duplicate it get me out of shock if the get works it works and if it doesn't work it doesn't work you can't you can't do something that doesn't work twice in a row but over here obviously mimer has a certain effect ged has deserved it that's why it works bottom line is if in this case he gave a get to one woman and a minute to other he could perform khalid whoever he feels like because they're equal that's it let's let's pick it up tomorrow we gevalde on the alps from here what are we going to do [Music] there'll be no clarity but okay show the guys have a wonderful day [Music] you