Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 23 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rob boyce massimisi how's everybody doing i'm back almost back to normal the valdic yesterday was special if you look at the screen i want to show you a very interesting picture that they don't even know that i have somebody sent this to me it's shy gross and velvee angle at tri-state fleet learning the daf it's a beautiful sight it's a very nice thing i have just one haha if you're so desperate to learn taira why do you hire a froome guy to hold a tv screen in front of you [Music] see what's going on here let's see let's get the laser going here you see this firm guy on a ladder he's holding it right he's his hand is on the pole right over here okay gevaldic um this is where i prepare the daf in the morning i took this picture this morning and i'm showing this to you because of the following video i have lights in the in the shelves behind me and it's uh that being said i'd like to present to you the following video because we had one yesterday and this is a rebuttal of yesterday's video here we go you got it nice and loud huh you don't have a picture why not how do we explain that so not can't do it so play it okay everybody so i just feel like i need to give off some hazard so i'm not such a cool maggot sheer because as you can tell i don't have lights coming out from underneath like some other mikey day shrimp do like they think they're on like the set of star wars or something that they have to have lights coming out of their shelves so so i know i get it i'm not that cool but i do want to share something the halogen we know this story the story's been going around everywhere in this story the story when he told his makoton that he can't come to the shove of brachas because he's about and then felt so bad and so maybe we can try to get together maybe make a gofundme a matching campaign for him to my learning and that i have to just give to my learning to which the response from the mahutan was if you're about to you're learning you won't be able to anything else rebel type we have to appreciate ye vomit it's difficult a lot of people are feeling as if it's not making sense you know what else doesn't make sense becoming about life to everybody and everything else in the world becoming a belgrave to your work becoming a balchev to your family becoming balchev to crazy people becoming a balcony to the price of gas becoming a balchev to crazy irs returns that you have to figure out becoming a balcony to all of the craziness that's in this world that you're obligated to have some kind of response on it can literally keep your face down in the mud where you can't breathe because there's so many hovot upon you or you remain about because if you're about and you say hey vishnu i need to have clarity in my life i need to have my bills paid i need to have my shulam bias ironed out i need to have my children happy so that i can paid you my hair and your vamas said in everything else they'll completely settle perfect and calm become a balchev remain a balchev don't walk around as he is saying i used to do the daf be the yid who says i'm still obligated to maid off i know it's hard but you know what being about anything but enough that's so much harder let's do it together about thai let's make ivamot ours or you could you could uh do me but i do want to show you what the the first the first three seconds is why i show you the picture here play this nice and loud hey everybody so i just feel like i need to give off some hezek so i'm not such a cool mogan share because as you can tell i don't have lights coming out from underneath like some other mikey day shrimp do like they think they're on like the set of star wars or something that they have to have lights coming out okay now you understand what he meant i get it i'm not that quick okay that's ari ben shushan he's a rock star from l.a another one here [Music] okay i don't know what that is i thought that was something else no oh here this one here we go you're going to like this knockless view oh it's not on okay fine forget it when we were able to we're able to nah it's not hold it up no we have to go we have to start the shoot already okay fine so i probably have too many videos open or something i don't know the koilo sponsor for this month is mr anonymous and schools of hilleb and sarah dino and rifko basfego they should be zoho to zerkayoma by the lock in lubbock families lakewood as this host for our families parents in honor and appreciation to mrs stefanski and mrs klein that's yossi's wife yossi klein's wife i didn't ask who it is i have a suspicion that somebody from los angeles yeah y'all safe you have no idea who it is oh that's very interesting he doesn't either nobody knows wow okay i was just thinking the connection to my wife nancy klein's wife there's one person i could think of in los angeles but i might be wrong okay now next time don't be anonymous rabbi say we're holding the gimmel plowing along in yavamas now if you look in your art scroll you'll see some very very interesting diagrams on the base do not be psyched out by that those are some of the simplest cases we're going to have and that's part of the issue with uvamis people psyched themselves out literally this is that comes this year he's not here today he told me yesterday he goes i'm not kidding he says i don't know how you do it how do you hold cup with these i'm like they're the cases are simple they're really people are psych even this guy is big he's a big buck history in the whole thing psyching himself out don't look at those pictures you'll see mine it's like ma literally simple two lines inshallah israel now yesterday we finished off like us so true it's so true which part of it is so unbelievable hold on no they don't have charts really but when they have charged the shimmer okay all right we have here on the on the here's one of these charts we had yesterday when you have a relationship with your sister so this tupsuchen plastic test and prosecute aleph one says you shouldn't be with your sister the other one says who also happens to be your sister at the end of the pastor there's no two dads i couldn't fit them in whatever it didn't work so you're over two isurum one for the blue one for the red ruby icy says no you're only over on one in fact it says he is a miot okay so the mara says what about so rabbi is he has an extra pasuk kaham used the second pasok as a second answer what does it is he do with the second apostle he learns from it that it's asious of vicha it has to be ishos illegal marriage and therefore if someone had a relationship with a guy in the illegal relationship so that sister is not your real sister you're not over in that it's not it's you're not over for a sister okay says the gemara and then the gemara asked yesterday and what about maybe the pasik is coming to say if you had a relationship with someone he violated not a guy you violated maybe that's not your sister no you might prove it from rava that it's a it's a real sister anus is a real sister okay now we're holding top words maybe rabbi is possible you see the paw silk the red paw sucks bastards who told her baec to say that it comes to exclude an andrew maybe he comes to exclude a villain let's say a person married a mom zerus he shouldn't it's a sir the daughter that he has from that mom serious is not considered his daughter maybe and it's not your sister omar papa javi laven tafsibukidushin it's not true the kedushin is a good kid right and sorry the person has two wives one is beloved one is he hates arashi and twice both explain beautiful we're talking about yerusha one kid should not get you yerusha over the other yeah adam is that if your son let's he goes off to there he becomes lit fish you know you can't take him out of the arusha it's awesome to take him out of here and in fact even if your kid goes off to derek you're not going to take him off the uruguay because maybe the gemara explains we had also you about it maybe his his descendants will be from so you think that who cares whether you love this wife or you don't love the wife how has that how does that fit into the parsha of yerusha [Music] says hello it means that hashem hates her marriage why does hashem hate a person's marriage because it's an illegal marriage she shouldn't have gotten married says that's considered a marriage sienna there was a person who hated his wife and he went to the rep of aidso how do i how do i what do i do here did i ever said very very simple i think i mentioned the story a while ago because i'm remembering now what story is it oh yeah you know okay so i'm going to say it anyway the dialogue here knows it but the new guys are just starting involvement so they're ever said i have a great eight zone you want to get rid of her donate a mikvah and don't don't pay it if you don't pay it what happens is the wife goes bye-bye you get rid of her kill her a great idea so he's annoyed at himself i'm donating and make fun but then she wasn't dying so whatever said he goes back to the rebel you promise that she's gonna die she says you don't like her right you know you don't like her then it doesn't work you have to love her in order it has to be your real wife and then this whole thing of a nether that the ghost on the wife oh so he started working himself and he he loved his wife but then he's really worried that his wife will die she goes back to the rabbit he says reba i'm scared my wife is going to die i love her she says okay so then pay the mikvah who told you he's come to exclude the guy maybe comes to exclude krisos one of the arias so if we look over here when it comes to isha khaisa that's one of the arrays the torah says lois there's no there's no there's no conducion if you are married if you're married to one sister and you try to marry the other sister luis it's not going to work so maybe that's what's going on over here omarovo before we said the whole reason why i can't be javilavin because it's a good conducion but over here but heavy creases the condition doesn't work you can't be with her vomit even in a marriage where it's high because and you have to get rid of her forget about it get she's not yours but the product of that marriage is your sister ahoy you want to go you want to do that to me you want to say that means even in such a marriage so let's step it up a little bit let's go to the case that you spoke about [Music] so i want to exclude javi krisos who said to do what they're both bad they're both you're supposed to get rid of it we go with simple logic mysterious boys if i have a possum that tells me that this is not your sister i'm going to say it probably it's talking about a non-jew and not a javi crisis chicane has every other man in the world can marry her every other jew can marry this woman your wife's sister everybody in classroom can marry besides you okay so it's why did you move sadik i want you over here okay but if you're talking about logic there's another way to say that this sister although she could become muted to you i'm thinking now okay that's a different shiloh but right now today this sister is always awesome to you and this non-jew could become multiple to you do you yourself forget about all of claudius gagarin you're asking me what the answers oh you just tell me more okay says no this is the answer what are you telling me you're telling me that you could take this this woman and be my guy and it's muted to you so it's more logical that you should be muted her and that her daughter should be your son's sister no william a guy or a person as we had yesterday brannu so somebody else we're talking about somebody else who really can't you can't you can't be me might aggiores you're going to be mad instead or reboot whatever not to get confused ruby iec says that a sister from a a a guy is not a sister a sister from crisis is and it makes more sense like that who don't have this extra possible they already used up both sukim and everest passages the vehicle used it to teach us the tui surum so how do they have extra apostles how do they know that a sister that comes from a relationship with agoya is not your sister yesterday that the children of if the master gives his evidence to the children have like the mother they are slaves so if they are slaves they're not your sister they're slaves they're not their father's children and they're certainly not your sister verb what is he going to do so you should be allowed to learn that so one teaches him is going to talk about and the possibility before he's talking about you can't learn one from the other the shiv interesting a slave a shift loses she doesn't have why because the torah calls elias it's a nation similar to hammer therefore there's no there's no hijos but when it comes to a real guy the torah calls a guy by also his father rashid brings down bill adam bin biladan baladon so the torah says the son of so-and-so so god does goes by the father he was by the father but a slave once she becomes a slave a shift she loses all her eukos so melo i would think if a slave doesn't have therefore her child [Music] is not associated with anybody and it's not your sister but a you know why she's not your sister because the guy is not having any mitzvahs that has all the mistresses of a woman because we learn lava so maybe i would say that her daughter is considered your brother your sister komash malone each one has a reason why i would think that it's not similar to the other i need a special basic for shifkha a gaya and a special possum for that tells us that the daughter of a shiva is not your sister or versus they only have one possum you cannot learn now from why we just explained that a goya and a are different now if you look at the screen we already had this but it's kadai to see it again the stups impossible possible says it's talking about the shiva um you shouldn't marry into them it's talking about a father marrying off a son and marrying off his daughter possible don't give your daughter over to a guy will be toy and your own daughter don't give a his daughter don't take for your son okay what does this next plastic say [Music] what's going on in here thank you what does that mean who's gonna who's gonna who's this yasir who's gonna sway your son away and and make them do uh aveda zara who no kyocera is is a man he doesn't think he talks sir a second ago we're talking about the father marrying off his daughter his son and now it says kyo okay so we're obviously moving away from the father marrying of the son we're talking about the guy himself that married your daughter the guy the guy that your daughter married is going to convince your grandchildren bin chanel turned into a grandchild a second ago binha bitra is your own daughter it's talking about the father marrying of his daughter now we're talking about a grandfather was saying you grandfather that married off your daughter to a non-jew that non-jew is going to take your grandchild binha so it's talking about the daughter your daughter who married a non-jew but what about your son that marries a goya puzzle doesn't talk about it why because it's not your it's not it's not it has no shakasya anymore that's it not considered jewish so here's the aside everybody knows and the college is that if your mother is jewish it's from this apostle because the non-jew is going to have an influence on your grandchild and make him work out do have a desire what about she the non-jewish wife will take your grandson no it's too late already it's not your son anymore binha the toy considers it your grandchild still why because the mother is jewish it's binha oh if so let's see [Music] the the deal is rabbi you have to pay attention here i'm not making this up rashi says it once you know the passing before we understand what the vehicle is in the second possible we have to understand that the puzzle before it talks about both so then why did the deposit go with only one of the two to tell you this deal he says the son of your daughter is still considered laurelen who jewish a goya how common it is today it's unreal what goes on in huslarets especially with israel israelis have no no idea because they come they they live here and it's not a thing come to america it's a volume it's like the bedford don't want to marry jewish or something you should know it has no sharks through this kid oh so mellow how to so we see from here that if somebody if a person has a relationship with a guy that kid is unbelievable it's not even your son's sister there's no shyness to you au review basically what we just discussed if the father is an andrew the son remains jewish so it seems like the child is 100 good culture but that's temple says i'm not going to call him kosher let's not go listen don't push it he's not a monster you're right caution emily harvey but he's not kosher you saw a possible victory whatever it is he's a he's apostle can't shouldn't marry that that child but he's not a kosher he's not a he's not a he's not a momser he's not a culture he's in between that's the gemara bomb kasha but the whole passage that we're learning in the village is khat and bomb is talking about the shiva omics the seven nations have been shiva umassive says the gemara kiosil rabbo is called amicirim so our voices is a big crop here a very nice cup what's the hop why does the torah tell me what the reason is star says the sauce it's awesome you can't eat hazard shot i don't need to know because it causes this disease and this and this and that it makes you stupid whatever i don't know what it doesn't say it says why does it say you shouldn't marry a guy or a guy because the guy is gonna make your son do your grandson do have a desire so once the tire is telling us a reason there's no there's no reason for the tire to tell me a reason i can figure it out myself i could have my own reasons you're going to see in a second darshan's time with the crow he figures these things out himself like in martin luther he figures whatever i'll figure out the time so why does the torah have to tell me the time that whole time that whole reason is extra and if it's extra i can learn something from it i'm going to learn that all guy you are like that any guy that could convince your child to do of a desire can't marry to the point in a second we're going to see but if it's maybe it's a good that's not so strong enough of a desire now honey in the darkest time of the crowd this these words kiyose are extra only according to the manda on my russian by who holds that i could learn time of the crawl i could go into the reasoning of akash baruch and therefore the torah didn't have to say because i could figure it out myself hello or a bonon if if the tire didn't say it i would never know it i need it i wanted to tell me and to the point where rashid says that the the guy there's yes they do have a desire but they don't do it because they really believe in that desire to do [Music] everything works out great it's nobody else but rip shrimp that's what we have to say and the story of gimaloma the base sponsored by moishihorn in honor of shimli sugar and the original sugar shaker sponsored in honor of atkins versky brian bernice and iri miller for learning the daft now we have another sponsor because the official michelle brown response for the next 18 mishnais sponsored by the md whitetail group where we're down for a fussy show should do him for clyde's role and for our mdy family we just had the very sad story with the the guy was holding his newborn uh he was talking about his two-year-old daughter that had the machola and somebody was asking me what happened she she's still in treatment she needs a report but mdy they died for every day join us at thehillem.8mindf.com me so here this is the mishna this is the mission i want to tell you this mishna is really one case and the mission builds on it if you understand the first case you understand the whole mishna and the first case is super super simple do not psych yourself out of yavamas a person he went and he was makadish one out of two let's see twins and he has no idea which one his wife is now he cannot marry one of them and let the other one go because it might be the sister of his wife sakai sisha now you're laughing but there's a story about riverstein he told the shahanas he says i might look at the at the girl if i think it's negative to me so the chatranis calls up the girl after the the date knew how did it go she says not a very good date hey he didn't look at me once at the end and the end of the date he looked at me for a minute so she said oh mazeltov okay fine so there's people that don't know exactly what their date looks like this one that one now it's a mix-up now we're going to see in the gemara it makes a lot more sense if you sent the shleak to be my catis a woman she and her sister sent the shleak to receive the conducion and there's a big confusion there okay maro so here this is this is the big the big charge rabbit side big charge do you see no this is it i'm not kidding you yeah you have twin sisters or sisters rahul and leia reuven performed kidushin he has no idea what to do he doesn't know who now what happened is mace i didn't even put a mace in there okay mace he went bye-bye and he has a little brother called shimon khoi let's listen he does khalita to both women rabbi said this is the whole mishna that's it we're going to take this case and expand on it but it's this is it seriously we have to understand why does he do khalid to both why can't he do khalifa to one and ubum to the other so now khalid's about very simple he just releases both of them they have no problem could he be me yabbam rahul before he does khalid absolutely not why because rachel might be the sister uh she might be the ibama great but what if she's the sister of this cuca in other words let's say leia is the real wife to ruvain so she's kuka to ruvain if we hold zika she's bound to reuve so rahul is what ah and it's 100 us to marry the sister of his cuca what if he gave khalitza to rahul give khalid and now he wants to do yibum on leia and they'll say like this if leia you're my really obama great i'm kind of a mitzvah and the khalid did to rocco's zero and if you're not my obama let's get married obviously with consent she likes him everything is good you're married no you can't do that why not so we just learned two things that's it that's all we need to know one is the once you perform khalitza rahul and she might be the real true ibama and it's a good khalita that brother shimon and that brother alone cannot marry leia because she is the sister of a kalutsa what about levy you the suckers villain could they marry that other woman yes because there's no ah when another brother performed the khalita they don't have that answer next well we didn't get to the other brothers she he she was released released maybe the right one maybe not the right one okay let's get there let's get there yeah i hear what you say if he's alive he gives a get to each one and he has one brother that one brother and okay we just explained why hoyulesh nayim if he has two brothers gotta tell you a little quick joke here because we have a lot of time left there was a few families that sent ashley to get a bunch of hassanim to get son-in-laws so they they send the shliyak they got out they picked up a bunch of son-in-laws or two of them and on the way back one of them got killed so the the mother-in-laws were very upset they all wanted the son-in-law so they went to the president went to the bedroom they said what should we do so the dying had a great idea he's going to be like melee he said we're going to split the guy in half we're going to cut him in half give each one each one a half a son-in-law so one said no way crazy going to kill the guy the other one says yes do it so that's the sh that's the mother-in-law that's her name with me one okay now the very interesting so now we have two brothers oh we just added to the chart another guy made it much more complicated so what do you do either she's the real wife of rouvain and levy is marrying the real wife of ruby and that's beautiful it's a mitzvah t-bone or she's not the real wife of reuve she's just the sister of rocco who received khalidso she's a high school but guess what levy could marry that only shimon cannot marry that joyco huh what do you mean because it's the rabbana on the horizon is all in there button they weren't guys are on another brother oh no hold on no we're not talking about zico hold on hold on we'll get to the the zeke in a second okay uh i don't i don't know if we have to get to that holy on this on this you you looking right now once he spoils okay i was gonna say it in a second but we'll say it over here once he's highlights then the it's again a second but it's even more important later once he's highlights the zika is removed mma la there's no ah but so could he marry the other lady could he marry the other lady the one that did khalid so could he marry the other sister why not but it was nifka so how does it help the brothers i'm asking how do i help the brothers no no hold on a second wait wait okay so now that one could do you could move the conduit over here this is what you're talking about card move a console if the brothers went ahead and they were miyabim [Music] if they were me abem then now we don't take them out why what's going on here shimon and levy they marry these women so what's the problem the problem is that maybe he's being so let's say let's go back why do you go off the chart go go back to the chart for a second so we're gonna have to show this uh fight what happens is it's it's very important to be on what so let's take the cable oh here it is how about now very good okay so if the two brothers they went in there with me what happens is that yes let's say shimon marries rahul so what happened either rocco is rubin's wife and was a great evil but what if shimon is not ruffles ruffles not chimney's wife and you and shimmer when it was miyabember so he's over sir but that's it he's over here yes sir and then by by him marrying her he is mafia the zika that there is and levy could go ahead and be me abem leia el tell okay now we move on we got to go looms here ready for chakras oh now it gets interesting two brothers were makadish two sisters but it's the same idea at boys i was just adding pieces to this zenith they both have to give two divorces because these women cannot get married to anybody they might be married to each one may so and if the brothers died there's no difference if there's two two people there are kind of two women or one person in college two women each brother performs like we said before in this case here's one brother he does khalifa to do now here's the interesting case it's the same case right boy you say i'm telling you it's not hard if one brother that was a covetous woman and has one brother and the other brother does mccarthy's one woman has two brothers because if one brother has one one guy that dies has one brother that guy performs khalid as we said in the beginning admission to both but if we said in the second case if there's two brothers one performs khalitza one performs eboom so there's no difference if there's two men and two women it's the same exact case first the the brother on the right has to do khalitza then the two brothers on the left one does halita and one does ibum yeah it's the same cases that we had as we had before nothing changed what's interesting is this case two different families this is i i had to use one baldwin in that because these are all the guys i have i have six guys one family's room in chimalevi one family is plumber dentist dude they're different families not related rouvene was mikadish one woman either leia and yehud uh yehuda was makadish either leia it's two different families so the same thing as we had in the second case if the two brothers jump in and and marry them we don't take them out now the zest this is the case on the screen now they're each brother has two brothers a total of of three on each side reuven hashima nalevi you that has the plumber and the dentist so listen to this before we go inside very very simple let's take the right side okay step one is that one brother has to do khalifa from both sides first goes khalid number one it says one over there you do khalitza to who one brother on this family does khalid to one woman to rahul and one brother from the other family does khalid to the other woman okay so there's two khalifas that were done here then once that happens so let's think about it if we just look at the right side shimon performed khalitsa to rahul now the the and and the dentist performed khalifa to the other one so there's no we don't have a concern that maybe levy lady's going to come in and he's going to be me abbam who leia only leia khalifa was done to rahul his brother did khalid he's going to be me i'm the other sister it's the same case that we had before just a lot of people why because lady says like this if she was married to another guy yehuda to the other family she got a khalita she's free to the world now if she's not related to yehuda she was my brother's wife somebody miami is that difficult for boise why why are these pictures like arrows i think this is very very simple real vein let's start from the beginning reuvet and yehuda the guys on the far far ends of this picture they were makadish one of the two women on top they don't know who's who they don't know who they were makadish and then they die each one of those brothers on the far end left two brothers so what do they do one brother the middle brothers they perform a khalita to only one woman so shimon performs khalid dentist performs khalid talaya the other brothers that are left the two brothers that are left the the inner inner brothers levy and the plumber they're miyabim the other sister not the one that their brother did the other one why and it's step two they cannot be miyabin before the khalida happen because maybe they're marrying somebody that's married to another man or fell to even to another family but once the other family performed khalid so everybody did khalito so now she's 100 mutter because if she was in fact let's take let's take levy the factor guy the x factor levy wants to marry leia and only leia he can't do anything with rahul he wants to marry leia now what happened to leo she she got a khalifa from the other family so if she was actually the other family's relative she was married to yuhudo then she got a khalito and now she's free to marry anybody in the world so she marries levy but if she wasn't yehuda's wife she was rubin's wife so levy's going and he's me became mr sebum so everything's gevaldic and the same thing in the other family the plumber is going to marry rocco hold on it's either or it is it could be done by somebody else the wrong person here let's look at it let's let's take let's take the plumber what happened there his brother the dentist performed halito time out look let's look at this family look look look hold on arie look at the side the pl the dentist performs now it could be it's not a good khalid it could be the is a good helita but what happened to rojo the plumber goes and marries rojo if rojo was you who does hold on you're not listening you're going to not you're going to miss the case if rocco is yehuda's wife then the plumber is doing a perfect eboom not kiddushin he's doing eboom rocco was married to you though we just don't know so the plumber's marrying his his brother's wife why did the dentist do halita on leia because he didn't know it was nothing zero that was khalita to a a strange woman the in the street but if the binyamin but if rocco sorry rahul was really married to rouvain and shimon did khalifa on rahul so now the plumber's marrying rocco a stranger in the street and it's kidusian you're right in that case it's conducion so fifty percent chance it's kidushin 50 chance it's yeah boom have a wonderful day you