Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 21 by R’ Eli Stefansky

last night if you see on the screen we had actually oh we have to do this we had the famous khasana of paris khaim levin and if you look at the picture you'll see he brought to the casano trying to recruit people well here we have and saul rosenberg he's neckballing he does hundreds and hundreds of hours of work for mdy doesn't want any recognition if anybody ever got a gemara from art school it went through him and here we have someone that looks like the five-town dentist let me see your thing for a second here we go um we have here with us what's your name again smari zelingold and your son is doing tightness not on the yummy pace but on a pace he does it with the nike radio and a little bit of online i have some pictures here which i didn't print i'll explain in a second why not because of him because of me anyway so i want to give you a matana i want you to i climbed up myself on that ladder i went over there yeah yeah i didn't let anybody do it i pulled down a gamora tinus one of a kind edition with eight minute daff and mdy i want you to give this to your son and tell him that he should finish this receptor with us and many many more and basically compared to trolls or something yeah so just real quickly today also happens to be thirty percent of shots so if you started with us and breakfast you went through thirty percent of chance it's huge i hope i could get through this without crying too much i pushed it off till today we lost one of our miyazam of the sheer one of the original miyazadam he was very young only 38 years old and he had five or six kids and mandy and i went to the level yesterday and during the level i'm just saying this because robert links i i actually mentioned a few weeks ago literally within the month that it was at his house during the season that i recruited jose billiard robert links and yasi miller joseph miller three people that are still with us till this very day and this was close to four years ago so is the trump should have an alia we okay we made it you can say his name during the levaya i got a call from my son i left my son he wasn't feeling so well left him at home he was had a big stomachache whatever he was shaking the whole thing i gave him some water i got a call from the police they're in my house that saul is there so we run back and the barcelona everything is okay everything's okay he just basically had a panic attack he thought that he was gonna die so he started breathing out and he went into like he couldn't move his limbs kind of thing but whatever he has i also have so you guys are warned emma mela da fal let me just tell you what's going on here we have basically very very easy gemara yeah we're going to go to the sponsors a second we have very easy gemara all the way to 14 lines from the bottom very very easy gemara and base we have 14 lines of a bunch of cases they're not hard cases i didn't sleep much but i got a lot of charts done very simple charts very just like i was thinking like when you say your wife's son's wife you start getting your wife's son's wife okay fine these are they're very simple these things your aunt different types of ant it's your mother's brother's wife but only through a mother your mother's brother's wife through a father these are these are concepts that we're very very familiar with just you throw an extra wrench there through a mother oh what okay so before we go we have to see some of these sponsors yesterday i missed sponsors for whatever reason today we have the parent of sahaja recoil mr anonymous and this house of hilo bansara dina rivka bastego is the lubbock family lakewood as this host for our families friends and family refused yesterday sponsor alan listhouse the famous doctor who donated i think was 20 or 25 thousand dollars towards one of the gemaras and mary and my father joseph list house murder yosef ben aaron i don't know where all the sisters are over there they're all the doctors the homicide of doctors next time my parents live in an honor my daughter rachel's golden dove hasano he attributes it a lot because he donated to mdwa and right away his daughter got engaged from yeshua grossman they should be desired builder buys them we stroll together by effie nationals [Music] it was yesterday happy eighth birthday those are frying pressman by the pressman family abba mommy and the entire mdy family we're foolishly premiering best russ by the brody grandchildren by mr and mrs jack lew on the other side of my grandfather tv all right so here we go we're on the bottom of the huff on the base huh happy birthday too this is love [Music] what happens we're talking about isuri love differently surim that one could be over when he is miyabim his yobama bias we know that sister isa to be for for kangal to be within almana this yobama obviously is an amana she just lost her husband what happens if he's over rebecca blaser one say one says that it doesn't help since the yibum was nothing he shouldn't have been it doesn't accomplish anything he shouldn't but since he did it patters the tsara and the the wife itself he just has to give her a get and she goes out top of the aleph monuments as we had yesterday if she was married then she's not absula anymore and she's an amano so two things are going wrong for her if she was already married in that absolute then of course it's not going to help the igbo the homage is only from arizona not so much engaged but sort of like engaged where she's not she's she's not a she is absula but she's still an almana it's considered an almana somebody asked me what you have to be me uh your cala from anderson yes you have to be miable so now it's one against one you have one average do not marry in almana and you have one mitzvah when you have no other option your option is to be me but there's two options and the gemara is going to say a beautiful thing on that mesa vimba lukanu we had this yesterday if a iser love falls to you you shouldn't be be me you were me anyways kanu isn't that a big question why kano we just said if you have a way out of it you could do khalito so the even doesn't work at all over here some woman who has israel avenue like in our case and i'll monitor coin god all right it should have been that imbalu like on why because it's a way out of it nevertheless it says it works but what about sluggish he came up with this whole idea he invented this concept that if you have a way out then you don't do isa there's a way out here what give her a khalita what's the valdic answer i know in a typical case all over the torah you have a way out so do it just as a i'm throwing it out i didn't think this through it's time a guy wants to do a bris milan chavez but you had a way out you could have made you brought a knife in great but over here what are you telling me you have an equal option you could either be me or perform khalifa khalid is nothing khalid is a last resort when we look the main part of the mitzvah as we've been saying over and over the main thing is like you guys don't get along you want out you do khalifa but that's not a mitzvah it's on the scale from 100 it's a three and to do it's a hundred just for argument's sake so don't tell me i have a way out and perform a weak mitzvah a three that's not it that's not a mitzvah okay omarov don't me added to all the arias in the tiger they added another layer stay away from another generation on top another generation on the battle stay away so where do we see this idea where do they get this idea to do this so we have a number of shots they did all is very strong cautious the first i rise in the third of the 15 they're very severe mccloud like iraq is it seems like that there's another layer and came and with their power they added another layer that's where we get it from well my master with the listen to kasha where do you see at all that ale is very strong but that seems like a contradiction to her lady dumber levy kosher ancient medicine some want to learn this gemara like uh you know me this rice to be a bad person is worse than i rise okay but the simple shot of the gemara me this means measurement if you're a cheater you go to the place it happened to me recently i got a bill on pizzeria and i looked at it like i never listened with that much for a little bit so i waited a day and i went back to the guy said i want to return it whatever and he gave me back like three quarters of what he gave him back a different amount now three cards gave me back a different amount of money he said oh here it is it's different amount but when he took it when he charged me he charged me on a higher thing maybe had a problem with the scale then just didn't make sense i got less money i gave him back one for one and he gave me back less money okay listen we got to be careful with scales the tire says they have different different ways to do it different tricks hot chocolate is a bunch of shy rice lemon explain why it's worse to cheat people in a store with weight than the avira variety by arias it says the word so over here we're saying that what that our rice is really really strong and now we're saying i rise this is weak it's weaker than middles it's a little bit smacked it says gemara what's so smart el kasia they like kosher male it's not true we're still going to go with the same thing that when it says by arise the word ele it's very strong yeah there's something stronger than that something worse than that called measurements gabara is nami but at the end of the day it also says ayla which means very strong so then why are you telling me that measurements is worse than arise when they in fact have the same exact word in both parishes they both say the word ayla no the word by arias is not there to teach us that it's very severe the motif you don't get karis for cheating people so why is cheating people so terrible says the gemara honey honey lawyers says the gemara an incredible thing when a person cheats people in a store he doesn't know who's coming and going and over years all these people he cheated from he thinks by the way he's made a good money cheap there's no way to do truffaut how are you going to pay back how are you going to pay it back a rice you can do chuva everything in this world you can do true but when you don't know how to do the chuva i rise between you and coach and even on that we said you could do chuva just as a big scar in this world but you could do trouba for the actual elevator but guess what are you going to do how are you going to pay back the guy so rashi says what you're supposed to do is you give back money to the city let them build roads water different things in the city but she says that's not a complete truva you stole from a guy 25 and you gave him five dollars worth of water that's not true but what if the guy doesn't live here anymore how are you going to give back fine there was uh something i thought about you should open up an organization niki kapayim it's called nikki cobain if somebody stole you deposit the money by me i'm making the money to the person you stole from and i'm going to wait until mushy comes to decide who who got what but meanwhile the money stays by me let's give all the idea now organization it's great for everybody all right now it reminds me your story with okay fine but certainly certainly yeah but when you steal with measurements there's no way to figure it out well somebody came to uh khan keniwski i heard him i said i know how true he says i cheated for years i used to put less tissues in a tissue pack what should i do she says now you should put extra five extra in every pack and the end of the story is that some government organization came and checked all the tissues and they found that he was he's definitely then so he got like a special okay anyway mario one of those stories i have another source for schnitzel talking about himself he did easen now eason the gemara says is the lotion of usually it's a different logic but over here it means ears he created ears for the tire so very we have to see rashi because it's amazing what did he do you look at rasheed rascal of the isen and then he says that he reminds us that the one that created trump the taiwan for chris atari obviously money taima that or he he learned sorry he learned through the semantium of different things like shall shells means you know she does different things the asparable dummy he also he was able to to learn one thing from another gamma milsim vehicle from and he also warned to to stay away another layer i want you to i want to warn you from the venus he's obviously receiving now over here on the side he brings down the shot he says that in another gimbal brings the things that he did but it doesn't talk about shiniers so he said these are all things that he thought about by himself logically but niace is more of a humra to make together to make another layer something different so not humble so what's the when you have a pot a very heavy pad let's say a chong pat you know 200 pounds it doesn't have handles slips away so he created handles he didn't want the arias to slip away from you so he created a layer to that you stay away you you're careful you don't by mistake have relationship with your aunt on a certain side because it's multur it might be motor but your aunt on your father's side is us so we gotta we gotta make schnee we gotta distance you from all lands is that how they say it in england i wanna say a funny word and okay fine and what's uncle's uncle great um like a path that doesn't have handles means to grow let your hair grow so he added stuff he expanded altaverbo don't do a very stay away from it not stay like stay away but veer away from it so you're not over so in the past it says add expand to the torah add a couple of surum so you're not niksha um let me tell you what this is similar to allah pardon this so i have a picture here it's a little schwab because i couldn't find one that doesn't have all the but if you look closely although in the distance there's a lookout to watch your orchard so if you're in the outside of the orchard you get a good view of the entire orchard people won't come in so that's nice you take it a step back you look at it from the distance but what if he puts the lookout smack in the middle of the orchard he'll go back for a second you go you put the the thing in the middle she's not going to be able to see everything or whatever right there in front of his nose he'll see she'll come here behind him he won't be able to see because he's facing one direction like that guy he's facing the whole orchard but if he puts it a little closer to the center he can't be spinning around all night and all day he's looking one direction he's going to miss the gun of him coming in behind him says it's a joke there's a fail here in this muscle it's not a good muscle hold some sort of fun with me stammer if i'm in the lookout so at least i got five trees in front of me i got something oh if i don't do that siag you might have relations with the nerva you won't even get that one tree of the safeguard the mishmar nothing hard here just a lot of small cases let me tell you what they are if you just want to think about it in the simplest terms grandmother a grandmother is awesome now believe it or not your own grandmother is not also there not also your father's mother you love to marry your father's mother your father's your mother's mother and your father's mother grandmother vaishas avioviv and the asias avi of so your grandfather's wife simple so far so good listen things that we don't need pictures for i don't want to make make them sugar with pictures everybody knows what a grandfather's wife is a grandfather remarried he has a wife you like to marry her afterwards you wanna he divorces you you go marry her the asias avi imoi and your grandfather from your mother's side if you want to marry his new wife you could do the same vaishes why because you might marry your mother's mother your mother's mothers of their iso your grandmother from your mother is there iso so mellow i also said that your grandfather's wife is also awesome you might confuse oh i married a grandmother you didn't differentiate between a blood relative grandmother a mother's mother and a grandfather's new wife that's not related to you zero and the same thing for a mother with geiser one for the other vegetable the let me see if i have a picture here what where are we no questions today i'm sick what do you got hey mimo yeah amy my sorry so what's the zero here um his mother marry his mother so you say you their father's wife is uh sir okay we're already starting on the wrong foot so this is an ant asias your father's brother married somebody right so we all have aunts a real but they rise to aunt is your father's sister or your mother's sister but what if she's married to your father's brother that's also an aunt so that's what we're talking about here but if it's from a father if it's on the father's side and you're it's your brother from the father in other words it's a true brother your father's brother your uncle but a real uncle like we have real uncles he gets married that that woman is also director but everything else a mother's brother even from a father mother that's the red butter we'll see you soon yeah so again not to get confused there voice views so over here we're talking about an uncle who's the brother it's just but they're the brothers only from the mother i do have a picture here but i don't want to go through all my things i don't want to scare you guys all the way at the end here we go hey i have a name this is it hey here show this on the screen please are we in no we're not here we go okay stop if you want to get confused if you want to know how your ant is related to you and get confused by this thing so we have two brothers reuven and levy they are not really full-fledged brothers they're only half-brothers they share the same mother five-town woman you see the woman in the middle the center top that's their mother and now ruben went and married a woman mazal so the nephew can marry her minatora why because he's a she's a distant aunt she's only an aunt threw me a half a half brother she married a half brother to his father's half-brother you see what's going on here they're not reuvene and levy are not full brothers okay vaisha's here we go so what do we have we have a couple they got married and they had two children ruvain and battalion ruvain married mazao it's it's time it's it's it's extra it's gonna confuse you guys but okay and the nephew can marry his aunt she's the wife of the brother of his mother his mother's brother got married right on our mother's side our mother's brother gets married to a woman that's our aunt not you nachman i know what's going on in your muscle not everybody has the ants and everything but okay most of us fine moro vicars benoit and your daughter-in-law in other words sorry your your grandson's wife your son made a shidduch it's your son's daughter-in-law so it's your grandson's wife the cow is bitter and your daughter's son-in-law uh daughter-in-law they're all shiny eyes so now i have to go back here let's see if we have it here oh here we go asia's comments very very simple case the plumber from muncie got married he had he had a he had a daughter ruby marries the daughter leo so who's his father-in-law the plumber the plumber was once married to the five towns so reuben is allowed to marry the five-town lady it's your father-in-law's ex you follow his ex aisha's comment by the way here this is a chart from arsenal i'm not making fun this time this has 30 people in it i really can't see that far but it's very very simple these are the simplest relations that we're talking about today you have the man that we're talking about in the center you have everything above him and everything below him you have all his his his ants and uncles and all that stuff and it goes through the the dark ones are the the rice's and the the squares are not us or they're also the men but the circle ones that are white are the schneers all those are very very simple if we just take one let's see if i get my laser here a man has a father and then he has a father's father a grandfather and that father's father has a son what is that called an uncle and the uncle has a wife that's a director you see right over here so there right so your aunt that marries your father's brother is their iso it just goes through all of them they're very simple you can look in the art school you can look at this you can take it later i have your just to reprint it from our scroll now tyson just points out that there are many times once there was a wedding a guy was getting ready to marry his father-in-law's ex want to marry his father-in-law's acts he had all the suda tom threw all the stuff out he said don't marry her it's a matter of sign don't do it it brings different enough community sometimes we say it sometimes you don't uh um so there's once a couple in hollywood actors and you know actors don't do very well with marriages so they're at a restaurant one night and he gets a call on a cell phone saying excuse me learning things he gets a call the babysitter's on the phone he says what what happened tell me what happened says listen my children and your children are beating up our children that's that's the study right here so that you can understand you could put your head to it this is asia's cargo this is right over here asia's jorge jorge is a stepson now the plumber married five towns five towns had a son from a previous marriage as you can see she's married to the guy the dentist from the five towns on the right they had a son that's a heart reuven is a stepson to the plumber now reuven goes ahead and he gets married that wife is motor if he ever divorces her it's motor to his stepfather yeah in the case of the actor the actor can marry his stepson's wife okay fine it's simple but when you get so i think sometimes these pictures are confusing they're okay okay once we get to the bottom we're just gonna fly on the base bezier ship if we have time here's the bass hardware rabbi's side roofing the steps on had a daughter now the plumber cannot marry that daughter that's a basket guy she's a granddaughter of his current wife check this out ruvain could marry his his stepfather's ex-wife you see but iron lady on the top and he could also marry his stepfather's daughter that he had with battalion uh oh this i love this chart check this out asia's jorge the rouvain married battalion and she could say animators she tells the plumber i myself a mother to marry you you're my husband's stepfather so i'm going to marry you but you cannot marry my own daughter it's a big kiddish you're here you can marry me you can't marry my daughter because my daughter is your granddaughter but i'm not related to you you just happen to be my my husband's stepfather says the daughter of why is it even in this whole sugiya of schnees it's a de raiso a granddaughter the civ is basbita it happens to look it look how it goes sh that girl all the way in the bottom that lady whatever her name is mazal happens to be a granddaughter of five towns that says in the tarot you're not gonna marry her it's basman says like you just said ruben's wife tells the plumber you can marry me but you can't marry my daughter so therefore i wanted to talk about the daughter you're right it's not part of this news but it's part of this case how does he mention her so in order to mention her in order to mention the granddaughter we brought it up here what do you think you think your son is going to be able to do vampires with us but i myself the mother of mother too the stepfather says therefore toleration nami therefore in the race it also says look at this case the five-town woman the ex of the plumber she could say to rouvain ruvain went ahead and married the plumber's daughter leia so she is the father-in-law's wife ex-wife so the father's ex-wife the five-town lady says i'm with her to marry you ruvain because you're not related to me you just happen to marry my ex-husband's daughter emma mela i'm going to marry you but my daughter is also to you you see it's a why because she's a sister to your wife rahul and leia are sisters only through a father they're half sisters half sisters we should call them and the may laruen cannot marry two sisters but he can marry the mother of the sisters you hear they give altic kadesh not comic i'm telling you if you stop for 10 seconds and think about the case not hard at all you have an ex-wife who's marrying her ex-husband's son-in-law that's muthur but that son-in-law cannot marry her daughter okay says marta so why don't we say this case it's a great thing look she can say i'm with her my daughter's also just like we said a second ago look in this case uh battalion says my daughter's also say it also in this case says the same exact thing says look what's going on here in this case lipstickily when ruvin's one of the sisters dies then you are permitted to marry the other sister so it's not a clear karalaka i can't say you can never marry ruffle you can never marry your father-in-law's ex-wife's daughter rahul because sometimes i could marry her when when his first wife draps dead when your xiaomi lady leia dies then you're allowed to marry a daughter so i can't give you that case oh secretly but the basket is always awesome the daughter of a stepson is always awesome um nexu okay so we did the hard thing now we're going a little easier says rav sometimes we don't go to the next generation the next generation we don't say my son's daughter-in-law and then my son's son's daughter-in-law and my son's son son sons daughter-in-law arises going on forever sometimes we make a heart stop what are the four cases when we make a heart stop naked rabbi loss difference rashi learns he only had three he didn't get a tradition from his rebbe on the fourth what are they asia's an aunt who's your mother's brother but the mother and her brother share a father that's a very strong ant from the mother's side or the from the father's side but the only our brother and sister from a mother vicar this we're gonna have to discuss what it means it's daughter-in-law because that's already there right who's here you might have avenged a grandfather's wife he adds who said what the lie there have rav went up one generation when you're talking about aunts and uncles it's only one generation above you when you go into a grandfather that's already two generations above you wrap one up my time i look at kosher lady how come he didn't talk about a great grandfather's wife mikhail foley because he holds us not allowed because it's going to be mixed up with something very similar which is the grandfather's wife who's here los angeles people go to their father's side a lot la jolla vasel and therefore i'm going through over there but not over here fine sponsored we have four minutes gevaldo sponsored by mushy horn in honor of shamily sugar the original sugar shaker sponsored in honor of edkinsburskie brian kinzversky and arie miller for learning the duff asking him over the course of their i see but at the end of the day what do you tell me we're not talking about your daughter-in-law talking about your son's daughter-in-law in other words your grandson's wife says gimbal has been away what it stops somewhere your grandson's wife is considered a schneel and it says it keeps on going on and on or not it doesn't stop like ralph said we must talk about we're talking about the daughter-in-law of through your daughter you know your daughter had a son so it's your grandson you're talking about your grandson's wife but through your daughter not through your son i heard from rebbe ami himself he said a cryptic line a cow was also because of kala and i wanted to understand what it means i didn't understand what it means so the stargazers told me stargazers told me i i don't know we don't have i got to say this myself because imam shaman to me this friday night i dive in another show i usually don't dive in there down another show and there i saw a guy that once upon a time my conversation told me go speak to him he knows how to read hands now i'm not a big you know i'm literally ah so i said let me go test him so he really scared me back then and he looked at my hand and he said you are going to be a big muggy cheer hold russia that's one of the things he told me fine a lot of things were true what he told me back then he also told me that i have to say leading massimo that's what i do with that okay it's done yeah because i was doing um the cecum still okay fine so i saw him on friday night and i was like interesting i wonder what he would say today that he came over to me after the opening and we ended up schmoozing for an hour one of the things he told me is i thought this is fast you guys are going to love it he looks at my hand he wasn't so good this time one thing he says he says i can see here that if you learn in a place and somebody talks in the room it doesn't matter 25 you go crazy you need to learn by yourself in your own room like yeah yeah the wind bothers me yeah okay just so true social zombie mario kaldoy the star gazers told me la font javas you're going to be a teacher oh amino as i said i said what kind of teacher there's two types of teachers amino there's more there's also that wasn't encounter here i mean if you gave a rabbit i know i'll be a goddamn azerbaijai then i'll understand the scripted message by myself the immaculate having if i'm going to be a first grade rebbe i shall remember about and that's the mechanism i'm going to add somebody else with the shadows hashtag and now that i realized it became a goddamn surprise i could i could uh i could translate it by myself it's the riddles it's let me figure it out myself now kyle's been your your grandson's daughter-in-law is only awesome durabanan and now your grandd your grandson from your daughter is also also because of that grandson you have two grandsons one comes from your daughter and one comes from your son the one that comes from your son is the rabbana the one that comes from the daughter is ixar because of that the rabbana but but they're all called in the whole sugya people ask but it's zero exactly no it's one name grandmother the great mother the grandfather it's all within one category over here it's daughter-in-law i don't care how it got to you through your son through your daughter through five and here we have a bunch of freebies only available by sister of asberla i'm going to explain to you children killing kalos of the bay bart he was a person that had a lot of grandchildren running around in his house some of them came from his daughter something from his son rapapo making a call is the baby papa baraba ravage you have a king callous to be maury barissa but different people had a lot of grandchildren at home they're in gary and i don't know what they were certain hungarians and they everybody lives there together again my wife yeah so they're all there so you could get confused sometimes you get confused like my conversation said is that a lava and just recently and one of the grandchildren went on the cavern and people started yelling at him and he was also like why is he doing they were the okay no you have to take a step back you could get confused that's from a daughter that married a israel they're not gonna okay fine ibaylu now we have to go all the way down here ah here we go so you see this case we have an uncle this is the furthest furthest uncle you could possibly have why first of all it's from the mother's side second of all it's the mother's brother but only a half brother yeah the the the dentist is the father of rouvain but the mother they share the mother the five times lady is cheered and reuven went ahead and he married a woman could levy who's a grandson of the plumber could he marry his aunt it's very far why because first of all it's on the mother's side second of all they're only half brother and sister they're not full-fledged brother and sister they don't share the same father ruvain and battalion they only share the same mother what about such a case is that also schnitz where we guys are on that or not says in the other cases of an ant where you have a little bit of a father involved there huda goes robot on they made it like it said over here there's no shemets there's no wreck of a father here it's all mother mother an aunt that's from the father's side and only half an ant is xero so now you're going to make another zero and now we have a bunch of freebies mamash amarava otokula lava xavier alexer everything we learned today was xerox zero for instance and it goes through a bunch of meshalim and they're all easy and simple and fast imoi erva your mother herself is but your mother's mother your grandmother is a shnea the gazura lame of here explains what i was struggling and they said that your father's mother is also because of your mother's mother why basically literally if you translate it into english they call them grandmother rabbasi is grand ima because they're all grandmothers so it doesn't matter how they got to you as a grandmother another example asia's over your father's wife your stepmother is a nervous h is available but your grandfather's that your step-grandmother is only a shneel because rallies they're all in the category of grandfathers next if by the way i'm feeling gavalic i would never say going back to the ant if this is an end from the father this is the strongest and one of the strongest not strongest but really strongest from the father's side and the father and his brother share a father but if they're only brothers they share a half a half a relationship they're only through the mother it's ishmael these are all ants uncles aunts anything that's in that parish i don't care how it got there they're all awesome my so at the end of the day the furthest this case is it's the furthest ant available it's from your mother's side and you only share your mother and her brother are not really full-fledged brother and sister they only share one parent what about that tash he tried to make a good clalia which is a bit of a we have to add a lot that what any time you remove if you in the cave is awesome i'll give an example a mother-in-law she's also human there is a yeah if you insert a male instead of her you take a how do you how do you switch a mother-in-law to a male a father-in-law and you give the father-in-law a wife so now that wife then the wife of that person that you just switched from the cave it does and his that wife is wait a minute your mother-in-law is there anxious but it's not true your father and his wife as we had the whole case with reuben before she's mother the the daughter of your mother-in-law is awesome she's been kamu samutaris but if you switch that to a man it's mother verva the daughter of your father-in-law is ben khamene but if you take your father's son and you marry him off that's mother your wife's daughter erva your stepdaughter is the hero it's just horrible mutations but your stepson's wife his mother as we had vascular acting the granddaughter in other words your your your stepson's daughter which is your wife's granddaughter is benjamin mutares but the wife who married like we had rocco his mother so may love you by sheila we'll just go five more lines my love la soy is just isn't he coming so we just knocked out all these things and it's not true so what is he trying to say what kind of clown is he saying that if you switch a woman for a man it's it's a chenille lucha this case of an ant a very distant man the culture if the because look an aunt your mother sister what's your mother's sister the rabbit under her eyes right boy's like your mother sister doriza doi raiso so since this is the rice here cause um is okay let's just do these three lines how come this whole list we just said your mother-in-law's son your mother-in-law is this all these weeks knocked out but this case of an and we said it's awesome here if you look at this chart last chart and we're done for today ruvain married masal with one kidushin that's how the the guy lady although in the bottom is also to his aunt that's one one condition there's only one marriage necessary but when it comes to mother-in-law first you have to marry your mother-in-law's daughter that's one kidushin and then your mother-in-law has there's another condition going on this too and my melo that that's why we take it out it's not a shnea rabosai have a wonderful day [Music] you