Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 18 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] i bet you there's a bunch of people that don't even know about it they're going to show up in middle shear what's going on here so like this half well nobody because the place is empty today empty unbelievable there's room so i have a few uh things i want to share with you about reprimand last week today is when we got the terrible news so i've been saying before he sniffed her already i was saying look i don't know of anybody that says that kaneski was a tremendous illusion everybody says he's a very hard worker and that he's if you have a human being that could finish the entire babili all of shaas which takes us seven and a half years he can do it in one year all of you xiaomi all of i think madrid said frosted free everything of course everything all in one year so and then this clip is going around it's a famous one but it's kadai i'm sure some in the room didn't hear it rav gifter that tells the rush of shiva 35 years ago 35 years ago when rebecca koniewski was only like 60 years old less than 60. listen to her of gifter a lot of it is maybe i'll translate he rav gifter always used to have he used to complain about the yeshiva baghram he used to say that there are marathi in two languages in english and in yiddish i'm even a bigger amaranth i'm i'm art in english hebrew and yiddish i speak all three of them but none of them proficiently perfect in a real proper english now listen to this if you could blast it because it's kind of low here we go [Music] you have to work hard he says you ask a businessman who has an asic can he be lazy and succeed he'll tell you crazy if you want to succeed you've got to put your whole self into it then [Music] i promise you if you learn like that you'll know shots you know the entire torah [Music] [Laughter] [Music] this is 35 years ago 35 years it was already known as that every single one of you could do to learn shots everyone that can do it what do you mean you can't do it you must do it if you will do that in your receiving years then you could afford to have it okay then we have this this is a video do you have you have your video on yeah video [Music] m [Music] foreign [Music] and he touched his dog tag and he cried and he said that he's together with rupturing by a fight okay i want to read you this real quickly i was wondering that since the dapchi is so successful maybe you should start a real estate chair that is easier than the homicide i would be the first subscriber also do you know if the oil mahabala i get for learning the daf will also be at one and a half speed [Applause] my son finished megillah let's see if we i want to go back to the charts for a second let's see if we could do a there you go which one there's another one [Music] i i only do the the parts that are true i know i know they're illness i cut it out on purpose this is my son finished magilla for purim and is now doing hagigo with rivelli after a long ding shiva comes home and learns the black with the share he doesn't have the video only the mp3 is proud father here it is on the screen here we have if you were looking for ruvain baldman here he is in dubai learning what he's not he's dubai and here you have akiva sulkowitz on the plane i was thinking to myself he says that this is not a posed picture that he caught his friend and he's pointing his friend learning but his friend has a little bit of a smirk there so maybe he's really enjoying the thing and his mask is down so even if you say i was thinking even if it's posed look what people are posing for they're not like you know like this they're posing with the gemara and learning how schmuck is that it's unbelievable what else do we have that's it okay gevalde the part of survivors for the coil is mr anonymous no not mr anonymous another anonymous hasidis anonymous person from borough park in this course of you don't know nobody i don't think anybody knows who it is hillel ben this is the last last day for shirley rosenfeld in the memory of my dear friend yehuda ogenbaum you scrub shawley it's a big inspiration seriously 2 600 from a nineteen year old parents by the lock in libya families lakewood as a source for our families i forgot okay you forgot to remind me i'll say this is also the last day for paris jonathan davido for that of zika zika what is zika besides that i don't know if anybody got it this is azikon zika what are they what's it called an english strap a zip tie thank you ziptie in hebrew it has a similar meaning or it's called azikon like a zika so what is it exactly that's what they're debating yeshivas for months upon months depends on what you shiva go to at least a month two months is it as strong as kidushin absolutely not in other words if you hold yesh zika and there's a bond between the obama and the ovum and she goes out and marry somebody else she's not misa she wasn't over like if a regular woman has kidushin and she goes and married somebody else she's kind of miso and what and if the two brothers she fell to two brothers yes zico there is a bond to the two brothers how could you be maquoted to two men so obviously it's not as strong as conducion but it does something what does it do what is together they sit and they discuss and they so we're going to see a lot of it that's if you hold your zika if you hold enzika what is the issue what's not the issue so we're holding the middle of the tsuyo i believe we're holding by none yeah does somebody know okay so two four six eight ten eleven lines from the bottom so i just want to show you this chart for a second gary we're going to have like this if a woman is there for it to be messy album no matter what no matter what what you hold if you hold the yes zika if she's there ready to be a yavama the mother is user the mother of the obama you can't marry her even if you hold a zika that there's no bond you'll still hold she's also why because by you marrying the mother you automatically can't marry the daughter if you can't marry the daughter then you can't be behind the mitsubishi bomb you're my battle of mitsubi and if you hold yay zika then you're somewhat connected to this woman you have a banter so that you cannot marry her mother anyway if you hold the hd kit simple if you hold ain't zika you still can't marry the mothers that's what if one of the brothers goes ahead and gives her a khalito perform zebum so there's no more zika so this is interesting because if you were married to a woman you could never marry her mother there's never a hater in the world even if the wife dies but so you're you have zika you have some bond to her but if your brother performs a khalida that bond goes away now you're allowed to marry the mother so once again you see zeke is not kid using what if the obama dies where does the zika go does it remain or not remain is going to tell us it remains so on the flip side over here you have zika that's stronger then some sort of kidush in conducion if you make edition and the person dies well not so much with a mother has other application over here you would think that the zika dissipates the obama died there's no connection anymore between you and her no something remains you're not going to marry her mother so what is zika says the gimbal now we're going to have the other yesterday we had the mando ahmad who says there's no zika the name of rav so okay eventually so if the obama died so you see on this chart over here reuven is married to a woman and reuben dies what happens to the woman i wasn't able to get the the arrows yet she sent it to me but they're not working so well so i have to go with my rudimentary connected dots those yellow dots that woman rojo has a zika to shim it he's supposed to be miyabimur now shimon is married or what happens if the obama dies you see in step two ruckle dies she was a shrimerity of them she was standing she was ready to get married to shimon and she dies so she's allowed to shimmer is the ladder marry her sister now in any way any anyway in a real life situation where shimon is married to rahul and then rahul dies you're allowed to marry the sister after she dies the only one is allowed to marry here is leia it doesn't say anything about leia's mother so it seemed like it's austerella's mother because why would chimney be australia's mother because of rahul rahul fell to him and they had a zika look at that yellow line they had a connection and once they have a connection jimin can no longer marry that woman's mother but he could marry her sister it's a good duke so what do you see from here the fact what it's the fact that he cannot marry the mother you see that there is ezekiel says there's no zika and you can marry the mother by the detonation i'm just following i'm mimicking the language of the ratio duration is talking about the wife sister so i continue to say right it's the right so to marry a mother ever even after the death of the wife you know marry the mother-in-law okay it's not a good writer yet where have you domar shimeres rav you just passkins that you're never allowed to marry the yavama's mother what does that tell me yes there was a bond and that bond lasts even after the death of the obama so almo zika you see the review to hold yes so let's just if we pause for a millisecond here raviod was the talmud of who oliver shas omravudo omar rav omravudo omar shmuel both of them raf says enzika and review the homes now yes zico where did he get it from he made it up he's he's arguing on his own rebbe obviously if we just stop here for a second this is going to talk about it also not a big tsugyo he obviously got it from his other rebbe named shmuel why is he saying the whole story srimaris you have himself he's also to the mother and the point is that the zika that's why he's also to the mother there's a connection between them and this woman which this allows the the marriage to his mother he should just say straight and simple yes zika similar relation to what we had yesterday if see this picture right over here ruvain goes bye-bye and he has two brothers shimon and levy so i would think that when do you have zika zeke is very strong when it's one on one she has no one else to marry but you you're the only of them available so the zika it's a tremendous bond but what over here you have two yellow lines she could go to either one it's maybe a bigger mitzvah for the older brother but if the younger brothers and the older brother doesn't want the other younger brother steps in doesn't ask any question steps in of course she's married to the younger one so maybe maybe there's no zika when it's two it's a very s it's a very schwa bond here's the first carbon the thought that the clocks continue i'm just kidding not you not you're you're yaking what we're before chakras coming come on in 6 30 minions he's here for the 6 30 million i would train zika valkyrie betray please says the gemara what are you talking about this this case is where review the set is at lockhart we had yesterday two brothers he argues that there is zika if you would have said yeshiko just a a a simple statement yes what would i think when this obama is alive there's a bond there's a connection i would think that the death of the obama severs the bond commissioner no you still lost it to her mother she's dead the mother is still lost or there's no severance is that a right word not here servants means payment no could you say servants on this also i don't promise you didn't say it like that commercial so you see from here review the wanted to be first of all yes i hold the hd code but i also want to tell you that death of a ivamo doesn't make the zika go away it's stronger than what you think says let's see if we have this yeah this one right over here yeah the obama you see her sideways it's not a good picture i couldn't get yoshi he was very busy yesterday so she died with the chicken and then the fish and the cart everything she doesn't look very dead she's just sideways huh it's falling out there what happens knew she fell down with the car the obama dies shipment can marry the sister we had this a minute ago same question what it seems like he cannot marry her mother no it's a great riot the zika that's why he can't marry the mother no i don't know if he will be ima he couldn't marry the if you look at the mission over there it's referring to a case of ish mesa only talking about his wife and it's describing that the wife is mother after she dies he learned to marry their sister this is the right to marry a mother-in-law forever so we just mimic the same lotion but we didn't really mean it oh now we're going to go with our favorite case of a satchel about ilamari which is this case right over here it's working we have yoshi's drawing you'll see when i step in and take over without the proper arrows let's give up so where do we have we have muscle rav also about my mirva mace so if you look closely it's hard to see i stuck that in there step one is that their two brothers reuben and shimon they were married to two separate women not related ruvain goes bye-bye goes to dubai bye-bye dubai and oil and madness comes shimon now mazao falls the shipment he should be miami what does he do instead if you look do you see what's on top of shimon's head over there a ring what is that what do we call that mimer mimer in this case it's mimer he gives her a ring so awesomer and then he goes bye bye and then what happens there's a little the little brother is born it's just ah he was born after this shnew i'm sorry no no no no sorry not after before so step one is they're married step two is he go ruben goes bye-bye step three is he was born you see it says three he was born step four if you look at step four that's where he gives the mimer awesome so now we have an issue that is the baby was he alive when shimon was married to masala or not was he married to his ow the fact that he gave her maimer was that marriage and it says but battalion lady gets khalito from the little kid so the mother says time of dawg it seems like the whole connection between shimon and mazal is because there was an engagement ring over there hello my mother but if you there's no connection at all but what should really be is there a connection between masala and shiman well if you hold the age zika there's a tremendous connection forget the ring they're bonded together to the point that that iron lady is a sarah she's the co-wife of this banded lady she's a soras kukasoi shimin is zokok tu mazal and shimin happens to be married as the baatai so now the little guy can't marry either one of them one of them is the skooka of his brother shalom when did the bond between mazal and simon happen when the brother died the brother died before yusuke was born so they already had a bond together and he came into this world before his brother died after his brother died and but there was a zika between masala and shimin so why are you telling me that shimon did a mimer he gave her a kidus and he gave her a ring it has nothing to do with the ring there's more than a ring it's a zika so you see that zika doesn't count over here no he came to the world after his brother died now if shimon this guy shimmy you don't know this guy's shaming you just asked a question it's funny it's like from a different world if shimon goes bye bye step five is there a zika between sahar and jimin and jimin's wife mazao so that's the mahlikis we have that we're gonna see in the next mishna he came into a world where shimon was already together with masala so clappy them he was in the world but clapped a ruvain he wasn't in the world how do we view it our mission views that it doesn't matter he wasn't in the world with reuben that's what counts you're right the case doesn't need a ring i threw in the ring just to get somebody else upset a different mandomer you saw her the little guy would never be able to perform ebola he has to do khalifa regardless of the county minor so why is the mission over there why does it say a case of a ring of money of mimer of kidushin la pukemi bishama listen to this aloha this you're not going to believe this we never had beside the army be nice do it properly don't jump into even right away no we shall be saying hiduchin that's the way to do it first you do conducion she becomes 100 percent yours midday right so that's bishamai and i'm telling you even if there was a ring ignore the ring the boogie maybe show me that i remember me and gomer and i'm telling you commercial and we hold this doesn't do opinion at all um yeah okay this is just the from the sugar that we just learned this just shows that masala zika and mazal has zika too she's the the sorrow but ayan is at sora tamazaw you see the connection between the two okay what happened no it's a different thing okay stay over here for a second hmm fine maybe i skipped no all right boilermaker you have two brothers this is a typical case of evil two brothers who may remember vlad and one brother died without a child vomiting as they last his mother and the other guy wanted to do mimer but like his big glass so he's her actually acclimates he wasn't even able to do a my mercution so the one brother dies and before he was able to do anything another brother was born so real quickly his story story from ezmitseon said that he witnessed this there was a a couple that couldn't have children for many years and finally i had a child and when that child was 18 years old the child passed away and kenya was very bitter he went to be unbelievable their only child they had one child the child was lifted when he was 18. so at the shiva the mother told her heimkinevsky that she wants another child so he said okay basically i have one next year and she had one the next year but the crazy thing is she was 61 years old he says okay he witnessed it ladies and gentlemen i didn't have time to look up 61 years old okay ladies the first one so here's the here's the thing here what happened was shimon in this case i should really let's get uh forgot to put my laser on this is my well they forgot they didn't give me my mouse back huh huh you took it somebody took it yesterday brought it in the kitchen okay fine i'm gonna look sideways today like i always do shimon wanted to do a mimer too mazal but he didn't and what happened to nearly up and then step three is this little guy was born and then step four is that this guy went bye-bye what's that lockhart so hurry up this one let's see if this works yeah it does but it's a little bit better yeah but i'm it's better for you because i'm looking at you i know but i'm i have to look at the camera if i go like this my head is like this i know i gotta get used to it fine anyway this one right over here masala yeah it's not moving good it's okay fine maybe i could go like this not look over there i'll look over here mazal right over here doesn't need anything she go no no evie no kalita why because if this guy and her asia's he wasn't around when his brother ruben died but this one right over here look at the green line that's my superimposed ugly green line i did it over his red line because i couldn't manipulate it that tells me that what he is mother in this woman right over here why because shimon never did any mimer or yibum with mazal as i state but the question is but look there's a yellow line right over here if there is a connection between mazal and shimon how in the world could this guy marry shimon's and she's connected to shimon through zika so this bad iron lady is a sorrow is a co-wife to that woman who's bonded to very simple the boy says anybody finding yvonne is difficult i'm serious it's not even difficult it's not famous that's great so let me see go say good morning remember you guys are laughing i i think it's very easy right what's the point of your mind does he need a memory no i mean according to bisharma it makes it their right so according to everybody else it adds a little bit of uh it gets all the brothers out of the way you know he gets the money he he he locks in all the all the cash there's a big thing he's worried his brother's gonna hop around he goes you want this ring yeah okay now then he can take his time i think he could come back two years from now rebecca oh my spirit later and mayor ain't ziko so okay this is not a big casual you asked me one we just showed that there's different opinions zika hey because he asked me this girl is going to the mayor which was actually mentioned over there that that it's him so it is remaining i'm not just throwing a name there he's in there already remaining in zika i remember all saints but the problem is is he really holding i saw his name there but is he really holding ziko he's really like we had this case don't get all nervous from this you have reuben jimmy you though you have the baltimore brothers and you have the two you shall be ladies who are sisters rocco and leia two other brothers are married two of the sisters a lot of cases in this in the sugar that's why it's going to take us a long time to finish this um you see they both went by by those two brothers but let me see how you see this is a khalifa shoe right next to levin yudha the only thing they could do is perform khalito why because the two sisters you're not only married to two sisters and guess what happened both sisters have a connection to each one of the brothers you can't have a connection to do to two sisters levy's connected to rochelle and leia yehuda is connected to rachel and leia they both fell to ebon we don't know who's to who they automatically both go to both by the way it's very similar toward a parachute our power show it was four brothers two of them died without children and the unbelievable real quickly because we were running like shik says an unbelievable thing how come in this case there's no um and this gives us a little bit of a peek to the inside into the insides of how even works he says based on the desire that says that when you perform evil when you have a child that child receives the neshama of his dead father but how you going to do with two women when you have zika from two separate two two fathers to this it doesn't work the what the the kid is going to have tuna shamas that's what he says muramshik just uh behind the scenes kind of thing says if you hold remain says there's no zika so there's no bond between rocco and leia to levy there's no bound between rockhampton they can just take whatever they want but there's no bond there's no like semiconduction there so let them marry whoever they want holy it's insane it's like people that are scared of sharks right you're going through the water you're scared of sharks how many people died this year from sharks or boys in the entire world 10 people 10 people how many people died from dogs let's say 100 000 the number how many people die from mosquitoes this year a million over a million right so 10 people die from sharks who's scared of a mosquito no one who's shy i don't go in the water don't go in the water because even in the lake because maybe the shark jumped from here to there yeah okay that's what we're worried about over here something like that's what remains the fight the furthest in the world you hear what's going on here it's possible that one guy is going to do evil then the other one is going to the other government's going to die and there's not going to be any no miss is going to be unbelievable a problem bimivato where do you see that we don't care about the bum it's not him unbelievable mom is running out of time here we're having a lot of fun and running out of time basically what we have here is two brothers reuben shimon reuben is married and i i don't know if you could see well but i didn't have good sisters that one of them is gershon hi what's going on now we're in the middle of the chart over there if you don't mind so the the sisters okay that your xiaomi lady and that miner is is our sisters the miner we know could do now what happens is that rouvey went by by leia who's an adult should be able to perform e-bomb with shimon shiman should be able to marry leia but what's getting in the way a sister you're not going to be married to sisters but she's not really married to shimon that little one it's a quasi marriage if she just says i'm out of here she's out of there so let her say i'm out of there and then then chipman could be me i've been laying it properly so that's what we do but rooney says no don't worry about it let her get older and then shimmer will be married for real to the to that youngster but now she's ignora and leia is going to go out because she's the sister of us of of your wife can't marry two two sisters so he's advising to be my vat of the mitzvah he's saying just wait let it let her go bye-bye not bye-bye like that but the dollar type of bat yeah she has to wait all those three years yeah 100 or or 12 years whatever it is so you see first of all there's no zika because if the zika then they would be connected anyway and you see that you're allowed to be the mitsubishi obama he doesn't even care about not performing even at all so mario how could that be the makata lakota one is so macmillan one doesn't care at all whoever doesn't care at all another one that cares about even okay omelette by the reverse tells us red bean review i want you to know and we touch upon it and we explain a little bit ravi hoodoo says yes he got it from his other rebbe called shmuel not from his who we learned yesterday the rap holds ain't zico four minutes from the base shreem brzee over here we have a lot less charts falls to the brother and one of the brothers goes ahead and performs kidushin just like here you see levy decides to be makadesh leia leia is the the sister of the one that felt him are ready to eat them but there's another brother let jimin take care of rahul i want to marry leia sponsored in honor of shimoli sugar the original sugar shaker sponsored in honor of atkins bersky bryant's birthday and harry miller for learning the davis um and what's going to happen then there's no more zika between levy and rocco and lady could go ahead and marry and and and do heirs and this with leia that there is zika says so shmuel says that there is zika so would there be who to get ravi to get his idea that the gesiga from his rebbi shmuel who says yes and what's the big deal the rav you're bothered that if raf said the zika and shmuel and ravi who they got it from rav what's the problem cash that is holds enziko and now you're going to tell me that raff holds yeah that's a contradiction what raf said what's the big deal it's not the first time it happened maybe two to tell me them rav yehuda and ravuna argue what the rebbe rav said he says okay that's that's when you don't have a choice but now that we know that another one of his rabbi called says specifically yeshika he got it from him why make him macholikis for no reason which made the wrath and we're not going to leave a solid source called shmuel and go to between what rap said and what he didn't say so shimon says you have this whole svara that doesn't make sense that this is what raf said wherever you want to get it from from schmuel and the story i mean once we have this it's possible um that what do you say if the obama dies you're still asked to marry the mother allah yeah why can't you marry the mother you have no connection between the obama obviously you have a very strong connection called zika and that zika doesn't allow you to marry the mother forever she's your mother-in-law forever by the way yeshika and by the way that looks like you view them and say that it says what did i just gain says meaning if i would just say those words two words we had this already you guys are familiar with this when is one brother it's very strong one brother one year vomit okay there's a band i have a betrayed lawyer but if there's one you vomit the two brothers it's very weak maybe the zika doesn't exist commercial on even two brothers that's where you themselves yes you're not this mishna is identical to the mission that we had yesterday besides one nafcamida sponsored by official the official mission of official the coventry in honor of in honor of in honor of the birth of his granddaughter in honor of the upcoming sponsors you're familiar with this uh chart because we had it already unless you just joined us today there's a difference it's basically the same case the same nice case that yoshi made but this is the difference between mace and mace the only difference is like what mehndi was saying before he was me yapping first and then it was the the the little guy was born or the little guy's born and then there was evil between shimon and the obama right so the first mishna is mais neuilad even reuben dies a new brother comes into existence then shimon the one of the original brothers he's miyabim rahul and he has a co-wife batayan this mishna now if we stop over here he was you see the little guy he was in the world when shimon married rahul so maybe we view it as he has a big connection between shimon and rahul so if shimon dies he should be able to give me album the second mishna which we're about to learn now is just telling us what if he comes into existence after everything so it's a big difference if you hold like tanaka or you hold a group of shaman says over here so step one or step two the one brother died shimon did what he had to do and he's you see step four happened after step three step three is that there was ye bone between masal and jamin and step four is that the little boy was born his ishla but now he's in the islam he came into existence when his brothers already married him the first one goes out because she's the masala is the vashniya mushroom terrazzo and battalion lady is the co-wife of shimon and she's the co-wife together with the tsaro mazal because he came to his brother's married shimon his brother is married to mazel he doesn't care what happened 20 years ago that reuben once upon a time was married to masala right now shimon is married so it's it's my brother's wife i have to be miami and lemar is going to explain how that works what time is it i have no idea i don't see the clock what oh it reads okay a few more minutes i don't want to get used to this and doing it we started kind of on time and weren't so late but a lot of cases when there's a lot of charts it goes a lot slower remember no and wait this is one daft i don't want to tell you which this is it's coming up in 10 10 days a lot of charts not hard a lot of time um this is a massive even in the case of mace so he comes into the world and he finds a brother that's dead and a wife an almana so he's mama's right at this moment he's issues actually by a llama he's ushered to marry that almana called rahul and then shimon comes along and marries thou manna hebrews me admir says rabshiman he's this woman who's ostrich than 100 percent a lot of people having her after shimmer dies ligament is going to explain why my i'll tell you how i know this the mission of the first mission and the second mission are identical there's only one detail that's different so why does the mission have to repeat itself bubba the racial amount katana why did i even have the first missionary lame of the rap born on if the little guy came into the world he found the perfect world his brother is happily married to rahul and in that case we're about on hold that is considered issues actually there's no evil between the little guy even though he came in and they were already married so certainly if he came into the world when they weren't married he came into the world and he finds an almana that is the classic case of isaac so why do i need the first mishna so it's not for them so who is it for rip shimon who by the way is not even mentioned in the first mishnah illegally so certainly in a case where he came into the world when she was in almana and then only afterwards so i want to tell you the first mission to tell you the the big giant this is criticized even though you saw who comes into the world and he finds his sister-in-law and al-mana you light up in me abhimher you suck and give me me if provided that his other brother did the ibum and they were married and his other brother died he was being polite he waited for abandon to say everything they had to say we'll stop right over here we'll have to finish on what's the shop is your boys once the shop is i forgot to look at the clock we have to get back to the island what time is shira monsta chavez two hours after uh mairev when is that 9 30 9 30 sorry guys 9 30. have a wonderful shop it's a wonderful day you