Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 122 by R’ Eli Stefansky

ah [Music] okay you can do it we're here in a very private location by our very good friend Moshi horns basement um thank you for having us they asked us the the organizers of the big seam tomorrow they asked us that we shouldn't do any in the tri-state area because people come to this year may not come to the CM and they want the biggest turnout possible so all five of you here better show up at the seam for having us we should go for coming and supporting so in only two days we're starting with Southwest and I have to give you the update the daily update running into exubus 687 people signed up new people signed up from us and we're hoping to get that thousand I don't know how we're gonna do it how are we going to get the Thousand right so we need help two days you gotta push every single guy that you get to come to learn player you share in their Tyra and just today in this interview I'm not going to tell you I was interviewed in a certain place you'll see Beijing next week I mentioned knocking Gordon was one of the five people here today I mentioned him in the interview because I said you don't understand that he has yes it's a how did this interview you can't imagine how many people came over to me and said I started this year because I saw you a meaningful people it's it's in the hundreds I'm not kidding the amount of emails and and feedback nahi gets to share and every one of those people that started learning players learning Pyro even if he himself might not be doing the duff today he was doing it he just fell off like some of the people fell off during your moments he gets to share those lessons so you can also yes you don't have that platform that you're out there and and 30 000 people are going to hear your interview whatever it is but you have your friends you have the people and you get one guy one neighbor one guy in the show you're sharing those awesome uh what else who who's no sound but is this recording sound I don't know well it's a big problem how about the cameras the camera recording okay okay so tomorrow the Israel Hashem in bellworks right that's the name of the place bellworks 1235 tickets sold nothing you coming the Bell works tomorrow again put him on the spot foreign again you understand this number 1235 and that's without all the people that are going to come to the door and all the people that are going to sign up today and tomorrow so there might be 1500 people dancing and celebrating and meeting each other for the first time you're gonna meet all the characters all of this and the debt the people from the mishpak it's going to be incredible unbelievable atmosphere so I very highly encourage everybody to come out there no sound mm-hmm okay let's start uh we'll do a couple emails here what do you need is it the internet no move okay yeah but you have to start the streaming again nope I love this because when I was here by myself that guy was a nice straw he says I understand why you guys always mess up right your OBS problem the most amazing program that never crashed you're serious okay no sound or this that's why we love being in our base measures with our equipment dear belly it's been a year since I joined this year in sukkah and what a year it's been I want you share daily oh yeah I can't read this could you move this over a little bit please this is cut off I can't put it towards impacts head on me and my family my daughters often compete against each other I'm reading this because this is somebody from this neighborhood maybe you may be sitting here in the room my daughter's having a compete against each other who does the best good morning my boys attached to the letter my daughter wrote to you a few weeks ago of transcribing in case you have a hard time reading it she's eight and a half years old dear belly but yehudas brought a singer Inwood New York I'm an eight and a half year old who loves learning about the five pounds lady thank you for everything you do when you're learning the dog can you say that you're learning new English mass review who the are you lame Bender Israel though I did not sponsor but can you do it for free he's my savior was lifted during Corona you just brought a singer Inwood New York the suburbs should have an allele do we know these people you spell singer anybody by Adam how do you pronounce this o-h-a-y-o-n INE Ohio and mayor Plankton from Toronto prayed for rebellious success with MD wine especially for his North America Tour looking forward to seeing him in Toronto for the seam here they are by Usher Coleman here's a nice story I just learned to die from my own but I had a long playing trip in unfortunately I can never learned on the plane the idea of listening to Shear to help me to help hit me and so I download a few episodes wow episode it was such a pleasure and condition Hashem I would have enjoyed every minute if Gary Gary you check it please no you're in the picture thank you okay so just that way what about Zoo okay so we start the whole I think we start off on a rough Patcher that's okay so fine sit down I was so stressed about missing my connection to San Francisco spending the night in my trip because our flight was three hours late I'm reading this because everybody almost everybody is flying now knows about these delays and the the cancellations then it hit me I pledged to donate to mdy in the hope that somehow in the schools that we make it and we did our boy said you hear that you have the news Google you donate to be why the connecting flight was delayed two hours and we made it in the nick of time this is all very nice but the true decision is that the enthusiasm is smart with the oil on the time take your belly and all your creating this beautiful thing now I want to share with you a great story I didn't say this last night if you had a screen over here you'd be able to see here's my ticket to Baltimore yesterday it's on the screen and you can look on at it later I show up at the airport yesterday all excited going to Baltimore I asked her my my uh my bag is two pounds overweight is it okay she said it's okay but you have other problems I said what she goes you're two weeks early I'm not kidding that's problem one problem number two that the fight you want to be on is all sold out it's not a single spot left but I think to myself I should have listened official he said why don't you make a couple of tickets and different airlines just in case one fails I said no no and there's a thing I made while I was learning in surgery right I was learning the day before and like I have to go to Baltimore tomorrow oh this looks great boom boom and then she says you know what there's one spot available there was one spot in the entire I thought it was a tremendous Brothers the wrong way goes two weeks away and I was wondering why was 109 tomorrow it's a great deal and then they were passing close to 400. Hashem I made it so as well have brought us and here just one last one just came to see you and say hi and have cars I told you last night this woman came she said she's related to me and she gave me a beautiful thing first of all picture of my mother with my mother's handwriting on the back but also my bar mitzvah imitation which I don't have with my mother's handwriting the dress to her so I thank her very much for Robin uh your mother with a note they give us the in-day out it's not about the Dallas you make a difference in my life as well in countless others the feeling I have are not easy to describing words let's just say I wasn't this is her son-in-law talking I wasn't a learner now I've been learning every day since mcgillo beautiful I looked at the calendar and still have a fish on my birthday [Music] my mother-in-law is ruthfully at Goldman she Wards she's the daughter of the famous Rabbi Schwartz from Chicago who's just left there and she said that your mother was like being a sister to her to see gratitude with Ellie and Patrick higher brother Baltimore all right I think this is it for today notice more yeah I'm gonna have to do this a different time [Music] the coil responsible but like in love with families Lakewood New Jersey because third is the best Google foreign a tremendous success in my new business oh my in honor of slimy Adler of Boulders green completing his first Miss second with mdy London is so proud of you once again tremendous tamashi horn for hosting us and we want to give our four Slama to go the bass brother Freda we're one of them at least all right here we go this is a very emotional death it is the final daf of the sentence I know a lot of us struggled with the evalness including myself it wasn't the easyness after most likely the hardest massethane chess for many many of us and here it is the final final Duff we're holding three lines from the battle and again it's lighter suggest lighter in Mars we're talking about nemanos who's believed to say that somebody died can we trust it on you can we trust a woman we learned that certain women we can't trust especially a mother-in-law seriously different women especially a co-wife they have different intentions but in general we're going to see you we could trust to the point because we're dealing with agunas don't want these women to be stuck for the rest of their lives will trust even I'll I'll give it away a bus Club a voice without a human being behind it you heard a sound You Heard a Voice somebody said so and so died there was an Andrew that told the Jew now we'll see a guy in general might have other different ideas why he would be saying different things but sometimes he could trust in the avocado is the rise of culture to cut the wheat that's pasta the the father for the behemoth on Charles vilai and if you don't cut it on Shabbos I will kill you know the planet by Israel I can kill that other Jew yeah you remember your neighbor he disappeared a few months ago you don't know where he is I killed him I killed him why did I kill him the Army leg possibly David I told him cook something on Shabbos Village and he didn't cook it on Chavez we got tilty and I killed him her boy's side if a guy comes over to you and says I'll kill you what do you do a lot of people call Chavez so perhaps this Jew if the story actually happened maybe you didn't know that he gave away his life it's like Allah if it happened now that woman who her husband disappeared months ago here's this crazy story that a guy admits to killing her husband foreign they waited for yantev or for different times that uh get together when they come to darshan in her office there's a story about the block the the late Russian from Tales from Europe talking about 100 years ago he never went to weddings he had a minute you wouldn't go to weddings he didn't have time for it always I'm always I'm the spa when I see like how can I see coming to a wedding how does he have time for it to get into that car and drive it's hard he has to do all that I don't know how they did it I mean he I know he's learning the whole time to go in and then dance one after another fight he didn't go to weddings and they saw him at a wedding they said what are you doing here and he said I had I was very bothered and I figured that if I go to this wedding it's going to be there that could discuss the Suki with so that's the same idea over here let's let's go and let's wait for the title to gather and let's ask them can you get married based on a testimony of a good threatening a Jew I'm gonna kill you like I killed that other Jew no I mean if we heard a guy say that we might think that ourselves that he's bluffing he's just threatening the guy he's not he's not really admitting to it is that consider himself if he too much is a sharp knife yeah it's is it is something is is that how they said in English also he's sharp he's a sharp knife it's interesting that a process we learned that rabo is the sharp One review is more of the Bucky I guess but compared to everybody else he's really sharp go ask him oh so she went to him and she told him the whole story so he he learned from this image you have a guy screaming in the marketplace now this shoulder this guy he's always going to fool everybody by saying that these are really fresh new fruits from a tree that's only two years old not knowing that a Jew can eat from a tree that's less than three years old it's Arlo also to eat he's sitting there in middleman's showroom screaming away some days prude are only two years old is a a city outside of Arizona's role so what's going on here Rashi brings it down over here sorry it's a Isaac Hashem it's a really good it's really good fruit energy strong now he was in Huts Lawrence and telling people how great the fruit are there for married to stroke from aseka some say this next there's a he I think it was him maybe some others she would like him but there's more let's say was Robert Martha he asked us tell me them coming in from America he said listen I love oranges and they you know it's our legendary destroy it says it's shimited Israel I can't really get the oranges get me some orange we come from from America bringing some oranges and they brought his oranges it takes a look at the heart there's a big sticker on the orange protests of Israel so he's enhance Lawrence telling everybody how this is fruit from Meredith's role which is no good it's the middle shemit though same story just in reverse should never Rebellion these are fruits from the fourth year so from the fourth year has different allahs you can only eat inside your slime you have to be tired the fruit is dark problematic lilac Flume why learning is of course the guy's screaming in the marketplace he'll say anything that you should buy this product he doesn't know what he's talking about it's it's fresh fruit it's from here it's anything that you'll buy so I made law the same idea he was bluffing he wants this Jew to cut the wheat on Shabbos so he tells them listen I'm going to get rid of you I'm going to do it she looking at you like y'all know about this looking job you guys you should know man I got a suit from uh from the garage here in Brooklyn because I'm in bro I'm like close to Brooklyn I could say to myself I just said it probably a week ago and we were coming out of the we got the suit and we're pulling out now everybody says the suits they fall off a truck this yeah I don't know what's it's a crazy neighborhood over there the Italians so I come out of the I pulled out and I nicked the guy now it's a minute in Brooklyn to as you play you bump the car in front of you bump the car behind so I just did my mid-hug and this guy was not happy he's like you know get over here and he looks at me this massive guy with the little guy next to him he says hey Joey what's the what's the damage takes a look he goes hey boss it's 500 dollars there's nothing give me five hundred dollars so like I don't have five listen you go home and give me 500 otherwise I'll do looking at you okay so I went home and I told my father about this he said you better go back and give him 500 we'll come after you they know where you live so I gave it my father you know didn't have any money whatever he had to go and get the fire again I went back and says okay you met Ivana you gave me 500 that was it took the 500 I didn't even Nick his car nothing zero but I didn't want to get a she looking I don't know what a she looking is but I didn't want to find out so this guy said I'm gonna do it she's looking at you if you don't do if you don't cut the wheat I'm gonna do she's looking at you everybody's messy it's just fooling him he's never happened all right next myself there's a story about the June 900 they're going on the fire on a trip and when the guy got back he said what a shame he's a really good guy that guy is now he didn't assume that he's dead sometimes you see a guy getting attacked by a lion by soldiers you could I buried him there's nothing stronger than I bet he's 100 dead they see which time they said that's enough of testimony to say that his wife could get married so another story because a bunch of people together says we're actually show him how can some say coiler means that they were chained together the color because a lot of times we have demarius like you're bringing him to his death so sometimes they were chained together because the bottom line is a group of people so many others how can I play them say that each story has a bigger goodness than the one before over here sometimes it's a lot of people you think oh people would know about it hear about it no nobody heard about it Alpha PK and the God is believed so when the other thing I trust them all and they married off all the waves Michelle makes a decision there were 60 people oh boy if the guy didn't intend to testify it's not coming to be matter women he said oh it's a terrible story you're not going to believe what happened all these people died and I bear it all so based on how he says it and who he says it we can trust them and we can marry off the wives the official mission is answered by the MD whitl group where we Daven for foods mdy tell him that is so typically you know when we're learning what's the best way to do because now in our days a lot of people say it's not as good as a flashlight but there's many people in our Market just within there and some people do have been there in the beginning and they flip over to the flashlight my father after burning down in our house on his 13th Street and now he does flashlight only me even Laura and they're myself well not literally Burns it down but he burnt it enough that we couldn't live there for a long time me and Lauren so now we're telling you the the coolest you could marry off women based on you saw the the body it was really was a candle it was it was it was a little bit of the the Moon our city folks don't even know what the moon could produce it does produce something like basketball there's a little bit of a needle what it means is it a Heavenly Voice or it's like a strong somebody yelled out so so-and-so died it's not so much Heavenly as much as it is a voice that you don't even know where it emanates from myself there's somebody standing far away on a Mountaintop and he said ish planning been playing him about complaining mace he described the person he said he's dead he's on top of uh what's the amount of everybody in class and they die yeah I mean like I don't know what the percent is but a nice percentage don't make it to the top and they find these bodies every once in a while here she's standing on top of Everest someone says that here he's dead okay fine hopefully they go who who scream out they go to the climb to the top of the mountain nobody's there nevertheless is this is another disposal and salmon is very enemies a guy screaming in pain I just got bit by a snake I know the snake this is not a good one I'm not gonna make it I don't have an antidote I'm dead meat however tell my wife that I'm dead and she doesn't have to be in agulo explained they couldn't recognize his face because because of the bite from the snake and he married off his wife [Music] um just going to repeat what we already had but basketball argue on the mission they say we can't trust a voice you need to see the person testified or we still learning basketball now we passing like this like the mishna Michael it's our mission that's anonymously foreign the holiday months when somebody scream on the mountain top they couldn't find them the Dilma should have them interesting how do we trust a voice maybe it's a shed now in those days they used to live with Shaden was a big common thing shaded what's a shade the little that we see from gemara is Shaden they look basically like human beings they were a creature that was created that got stuck they're human beings that got stuck at chases made Bridges at the cutoff line so they have a lot of characteristics of human beings they actually have relations with each other they have children and they die but they could be invisible and they can sneak in through different halls and stuff like that but they look like humans and they're a bunch of liars we see this from different suggests so they could try this to fool people they'll say uh they'll scream a basketball why not mess with the human beings practical joke or something yeah so-and-so died and now the woman goes and gets married so Pastor Gamora if you don't see a human being and you can't interview him you can't interrogate him how do you know it's not a shed all right because it looked like a human being he says they don't seem like you they look like human beings you ever have like at work some some real messed up person that messes with your life and you hate his guts he's probably a shed or something but never shut up I'll review them a rap surely you know I mean you see like he has a shadow he says they also have shadows I nobody could you can't really understand what this means there's there's a very heavy Shadow and a lighter Shadow similar to like those people that say that NASA never landed on the moon because the shadow was to this and they have a whole player in the shadows I don't understand anything about Shadows there's something about the sun I never tried it out there's the the closer Shadow and the further Shadow shading don't have those two Shadows we once learned also in harriers that if a person doesn't see his double Shadow during a serious it's not a good sign the sign is not going to make this the year so don't maybe during a session make sure don't check out the Shadows whatever okay I'm not amazing in the shadows whatever it means they were able to tell that he's not a chef nothing more says you know it's worse than a shade sorry I have it maybe it's the co-wife so Rashi says that maybe it's a woman that this guy married that nobody knows about not like a known side wife like he he had somebody nobody ever heard about so you can never know you can't interview his wife his second wife his third wife because maybe it's a fourth wife that we don't know about and as we learn co-wives figures they're all no good we can't trust them so maybe here you have a wife who's so jealous that her husband spends more time with the other koi so she wants to mess up the co-wife and she's screaming from the mouth on top hey so-and-so died knowing that we could trust the basketball then she disappears they go up to another time nobody's there and the co-wife that she hates is going to marry another man and because she didn't do enough research we're going to tell her she has to get divorced from that other man and she's gonna have her husband all for herself maybe it's the code and therefore dollar has changed we we give uh we do certain things without the typical protocol and over here we're going to believe this bicycle even though it might be good sorrow another mission of official mission of sponsored bye the MD white home group with a diamond for Refuge like that that child that was just down for what's her name Bravo what's her name oh you just said right before yeah oh yes at least three golden broken oh go the bus brother oh my relaxation we had the story managed other day but it's emotional that Rebecca who could do uh ibr who could add a 13th month a year only investment and they do the 9 straw but if this is Sakana they're going to allow it so they take the door we know that Rebecca was probably right up there as the greatest Jews that ever lived so certainly in his generation who's the gamara says he's like mushroom couldn't believe that my charmain was because we had the unanimous vote that he's the gods are he went to Hustlers and he made uh the the extra month for the for the year ibrushan because she wrapped in our dog the house of a pale I don't know I looked on Google I looked for a nice picture of a pale house I couldn't find one unfortunately so much I heard that even one egg forget it we're saying bass cause of all these things even a male one guy is not believed but you live in Bubba said it's okay you may see lawyer and Anthony says basically I believe is the only time in shots right here because I heard from zaken that you could trust her name is he's very happy but not a popular review of uh seems like he didn't know that his grandfather says they say because it's before the but after the hormone there was a disconnect between the grandson and the and the grandfather but then and as they're talking he remembered that they were it was a killing in talarism the answer is married off their wives based on the testimony of a single lady we'll also going from then on they we decided Messianic paid we could even use testimony one eight that heard from another a maybe event even from a slave repeat it no you can't use a 180 seems like he says you cannot use a woman you can't use a heaven but seems like you could use uh he doesn't really says tomorrow what he says you can't use the testimonial woman well Italian Menace a woman can bring her own get and we said this the other day also because it's not really her testimonies to get itself a woman who can is not believed he says a woman is not but what woman about herself she's not believed that her husband died so Milo sorry where am I um if a woman does not believed to say that her husband died you believe to say to bring your own again so oh Mickey Mar says we're only saying the five women that we enumerated the mishna a mother-in-law a co-wife the daughter but everybody else all the other one women do have them on us so why are you tell me in the name of the mission says give it says women are not believe is different School physical Israel now we're talking about that it's after when we started believing women testifying about other women's husbands died and that we do believe the official vishna armor light myself there were Levine that went so this place called Iraq Martin one of them got sick and they brought him into the hotel um they said you know what marriage good friends here rest up over here the the situation is not it's not going to get better we can't help you really have a nice rest over here we'll be back to pick up the body a little later have a good night it's not a comeback it says did they tell the the in owner where's our friend that we left there he was like uh he was on his way out but where is he now so she tells them mace he's dead what you what do you think is going to happen to him he's dead and I buried him now some people want to tighten up that you know if you have a hotel the best way to make money if you have a hotel is to put Kirito right there by the lobby you know you know that fine so she says I he's dead I buried him right outside and based on her testimonies am I going to say she was not she was not Jew she said he died so he trust her we see you as sister why says the mission of Allah the uh a woman of cayenne any Jew but even like the top level Jew I I how do I describe the top level we know Robinsons but in terms of you have a woman who's a client she's a daughter of a kind you're going to tell me that a guy is believed more than the more than a cleanness that doesn't make sense so it happens to be that this is like a sprout people say this all the time like people will tell um Quail guys and I just stroll they when they want to stuff a Kyle guy and say loitia H if you're in coil you're shouldn't be any less than a public is it shouldn't be any less than a guy that goes to work how come every guy that goes to work he's out the door by seven o'clock he has to work at 7 30 to Beat the Traffic that you kind of got to show up at 9 30. some pasta dish oh yeah that's like a stock to the thing but he brings this gemara also and he says there's a there's a buffer that came to him and he said no what do you learn and it's unbelievable that he talks about this because I hear this all the time the guy says I don't learn much he says why not so he says because I'm used to learning I'm learning I learned in yeshivas I learned lambdas I learned you know this is all kind of guys and people say this why don't you learn the daf I learned this you know my head is alone as we talk about it all the time that's what they taught us you have to learn people isn't that so he told them like Tia Johannes your least the least you could do is learn sometime every day a little bit so you don't see none but but you're a guy that learned in yeshivas certainly should learn a little bit of tyro and he gave him a muscle he said there's a guy that they went into the hasten Mikvah says the guy went a very very hot Mikvah and it wasn't good for him he felt that he's gonna pass out and die so he started screaming give me give me a cop to Mexico put my body in a cold Mickler and the guy said I don't have a cold book but I'll bring uh I'll bring a pail of cold water I'm probably he said no I need a cold mixer look the guy is on his way out he's dying he got burned he's he's literally passing out she's not gonna take a cup of water and a pail of water no only the whole Mikvah now this is Marshall well the only way you can learn is if you're going to learn love this and and that's the best way to learn and that's the only way to learn and if you don't have that you're not going to take anything if this is what we have we have definitely we're about them and this is what we have we gotta we gotta hop around we can't just say oh I'm not going to do this I'm not gonna do anything you can't have the All or Nothing added to it would like to go ahead is can hold the kiss so is China is you're telling me you can't trust a woman but you can trust the god oh [Music] she said look at this if a Jew is as the punticus then we'll Trust that why happens she didn't just say he's dead and I and I and I buried him she has good proof here's his walk mistake here's his knapsack and here's a safetyro yes so now I can believe her now I trust her is that he's dead if he didn't die from every disease maybe she killed him but he's dead he's dead and she buried him we should say this together sponsored by Marshall and moisha come here boys where are you get over here come on don't want to know what you look like sponsored by mushy horn in honor Robin srimadeski we haven't received that scheme get over here come here and see no come come go go go ahead wow here let's see if you can get in there this is this way uh no this way how you doing uh for everything and this is the guy that says he's better than me in basketball oh so what we have a minute let me see I I would stand up and I'll be out of the picture I heard you talk about the best well there's another guy that's okay one of the best it's a big thing you took that basketball skills that you have now you're revving your shoes what what grade I think sixth grade wow okay does it help you that you used to play ball you tell the kids yeah you trash talked in the whole thing I teach sixth grade because I can still meet them [Applause] get into here he said he teaches sixth grade because he could still be enough okay oh that's somebody else doing it okay says the Gamora might goes to the publicus why are they saying that the public is that the kohenes is greater than the publicist from The Innkeeper says we're talking about a non-jew so of course a Jew should be more believed she was just losing shooting the breeze and in her schmoons she mentioned that the guy is dead foreign what happened was when they showed up she started crying she was crying that he's dead and then they said yeah they started a conversation after they saw that she was crying over the hand maybe supportive myself tell me what happened how do you know that this husband died and this woman is permitted to get married we were walking we're on the way the roads and the soldiers the enemies started chasing us he jumped onto the tree and he ripped off a ranch with his guys at home he took the branch you know in those days no guns no machine guns no tanks just a branch of stick he chased away the enemy you saved my life foreign Chaser guy says how do you know my name is Arya okay that's my nickname my name is my name is they call me the lion is that the first time I took a school up and then he continues his testimony he says so in his testimony he threw out his name his nickname everything the hazy retirement system based on their retirement married of the wife that's the gemara over time how come you didn't cross-examine him is the same story you like that decision a guy came to testify how do you know tell me what's going on here Taylor see this is a little different before it was the Olive Tree this is a fig tree he ripped off a branch of emphasis the other story This Is A variation language it does so he says how do you know my name is [Music] he tried to flip his name around sounds very very similar foreign the names are interchangeable so you try to see the is he really good with the name they're just making up on the spot on my Lane hello he took out the word Aria now you stuck it in didn't try to say come back get them from here from there the Kevin is always saying it the right way that his name is anyway you see they supposed to cross-examine try to trip him up don't let him just sing one testimony in Finish he says foreign and then interview and go back and watch like you know those would you love and imagine if you every time you buy lent money to somebody the the Witnesses are going to get interrogated and many times after you interrogate Witnesses you can trip them up and you and you pass all the eight those nobody's gonna lend money oh you're eating my check here so in order that people should lend money we they did away with this whole interrogation [Music] it's unbelievable I know we made it you know remember supers is going to be a schmuck if you fell out during your vomits Now's the Time to hop around don't try to make up your bubbles copyright jump into supers it's gonna be an amazing journey have a wonderful day thank you for having me here in the five towns it's always gevaldic great day