Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 12 by R’ Eli Stefansky

right now all classrooms and availas so i'm not going to read emails today i'm not going to read emails tomorrow but i was a little worried that the ilam some of them are going to be very happy and it's going to do the opposite effect so i will read one email that has to do with the galador dhiraveli i hope this finds you well i'm bought a simple yid and a foul of your for over a year this is from shimin wagalenther from lakewood new york i know that so many of us are struggling with what to do and how to internalize the passing of the galaxy it's hard to write the words might i make a simple suggestion to all the members of mdy and i think it's truly an appropriate tribute to this torah giant because i'll say that when a girl passes away all is tired is up for grabs so to speak and we need to increase our portion of torah learning after being so inspired by the seam and the impact mdy had so many might i share a message with all of mdy please bring one person to the sheerly nishmas what better way can there be to pay tribute to the sarah torah than to help change another person's life and increase tired learning as well it's simple too i've brought several people to share simply by texting friends and family joining.yoyomi.com and opening a dialogue for them it's not commercializing this is ms this is true i really appreciate the change you made in my life and i hope this message can help others as well shimon wagalanther lakewood new york it says it says new york actually but lakewood is new jersey here it is new york yeah whatever tri-state whatever you want to call it um i had this course of singer primeknivsky as a child rujsky was a goddamn for 40 years at least since i'm since then i'm i'm a kid he was a girl this this guy that pop up later on in life whatever he was a goddess since i can remember at the school of seeing him walk around the neighborhood in the streets i when i learned in part of tana he came to kotzhak from the backyard of the town over there from the eucalyptus trees there's a famous picture of him laying down on the ground on those trees that's where it was right there in the backyard i remember many many different things i've seen him hundreds of times and it's a tremendous tremendous loss for everybody in this room tremendous loss for clients role clydey's role will not be the same the coilo is sponsored by mr anonymous yosef paris show lee rosenfeld in the memory of my dear friend you the organbaum prize of coyotes by the lack of families lakewood as this host for our families various friends and family rufus foreign um raboisei oh let me see if i don't go to the screen yet because i forgot to print this and i wanted to show the islam this thing right over here now you can go to the screen i know it's a little it's on in word but i just figured out today's daf it's an amazing daf and as so many other dapp and we're going to get to learn all these different music you can see how this is mozzarella's last minute without any color or anything we're going to learn about saras max about mion about mimer does anybody know what mion is in this room everybody knows muniz because we discuss it what about mimer does anybody know what mimer means yo what does my room mean who's going to see a little bit of a mimer does anybody know that it's another user we're going to be learning about anybody we discussed it what is it away and then she does it here and now he's no longer able to give her away even the father giveaway but very good very very good what's your name again israeli from flatbush leaving us on tuesday he came here for hassan is here every day even the day after his son daughter so he said that means that a father gives away marries off his daughter a young daughter let's say a 10 year old and she gets divorced so now he no longer is able to marry her off but he marries off that that that marriage is not a very strong marriage not at the right so like the first marriage is and then we have soros islanders it's as if she's her father's alive and she's it's as if she's an orphan when her father's still alive because her father cannot give her away any longer like he was able to before it's just the way to say and sora's island is we're going to see also what the island is you know an island it's a woman who came we're children and it's sorry to that woman so now we are holding david alephone base where mama's in the middle of the septuagus i know a lot of people are still struggling but we're becoming more and more familiar as the days go on we are holding by tashma 2 4 6 8 10 12 14 lines from the bottom of your alif almond bass we're middle of a shiloh what happens now we could go let's see if i could get there easily probably not here go to slideshow here you got it gary okay soras oh no what happened sora's magazine saucer so we had this case the other day let's talk about it again you have ruvain shimon and a plumber so rubine marries a woman and then he divorces the women woman and in step two comes along the plumbing from muncie and marries her at this point reuven can no longer marry his ex if the plumber didn't marry her it's a mitzvah to be mounted but since somebody else married her you can no longer but he goes ahead and he marries her anyway so you see in step three ruvain remarries her plus he has another wife and then reuven is bye bye so they both fall down too shimon lucky shimon but shimon is the shiloh what happens here what happens to the tsara ii the ushami lady could shimin bimiyabimur satoshima hamarzir missionises if ruevane went ahead and he remarried his ex after she married the plumber step three he vitzerosso says shimon must perform khalitza on two women does that make any sense no he if it serosa a man has to do perform khalifa twice he performed khalita once and that's enough for all the women why does he have to do it twice we must revise it a little bit we got to tune up the brycer fix it up one of them either the burka lady the xiaomi lady gets kalitza now what do you see from here this answers the question you see that you cannot shimmy cannot be me abem do you shout me lady what could he do khalito it says mafurish he could either give her khalita or give the other one but it doesn't mention anything about evil so that answers our question okay no even for the sorrow she says towards the community's law you already had a fix up the bryso the way you wanted to so so since it's a price that's mushu bush it has issues so just fix it the way you want it maybe after sticking the word missy albemas also and therefore we don't have a raya that there's no evil perhaps there is a question sarasomau okay does that sound familiar that's the exact case we're talking about on the screen after he divorced his wife somebody else married her and after somebody else married her either divorced or died the first guy rubin goes ahead and marries her sarasa mao what about the xiaomi lady what why are you asking about the sorry the xiaomi lady what about the burka lady cochimian mary that wasn't a question i'm going to say kavanaugh check this out here it's the same exact thing but i'm just showing you how the calculator works is very simple in step one when reuben is married to burke a lady is he allowed to be married to her yeah it's his wife so there was a point in time when it was muther she was muttered him at that point in time was shim and aladdin merrier no it's his brother's wife and even if his brother if his brother had children no so at that point shimon can never marry her so what are you telling me that after rooven divorced her and the plumber married her and then reuben married her illegally you want shimon to be able to marry her even reuben wasn't able to marry her he married her illegally not only that and i was thinking a little bit of a nature everything well there's another problem it's just to add a little bit my conversation didn't like it but i think it's emma so i'm going to say it the whole point of eboom is to to continue the shame of the brother but the brother had no business marrying her so what do you what what's him and what she would have to do over here why why should he be motivated he's not he's not doing it he's not doing anything good here ruben shouldn't have been married to berkeley to begin with fine that's what this is surah she was once upon a time mother to ruvain and today she's also barcelona culture who never had anything to do with her and he was never able to marry her today all of a sudden she should become mother them kikomi bailey sarasamai so the whole question is only through xiaomi lady not burka that we have here that ship has no business with the with the original woman with burglar lady is it strong enough also to push off the tsara the ushamu lid [Music] question his question sorry this question was on the grusha on the burka lady sure bammy says and what about that sorrow before he said could he marry that sorry we asked the question and what about the original now the question is on the original and what about the tsaro and the sparks are going to be the same basically that was passion in other words he takes the the position that the kava climber is strong enough to say look berkeley is also so burkin ladies should remain awesome but it's not strong enough to do anything to her co-wife to the sorrow mma law shimon what about berkeley she was not supposed to be married to ruben at this point but he married her anyways and now ruben dies and she falls to shimon free boom everywhere could i do the shemin or not top of your base and from here a boy's eye we have 17 lines of freebie meaning we learned this already on the base we just learned the piece right now and now we're going to fly well not mamish pretend it's on the base now if a person has two women fall to him to ebon who should he do eboom to one is kosher one is apostle uh who cares if she is roy for a coin not right very quiet and then they for him she's right now right let him do khalid whoever he wants ella rook sharia labe sullivan what does it mean it's possible to him he's not a kain so who's puzzled him oh my name look how we were talking about our exact case i was wondering his brother did something illegally married as his divorced his ex and it says that if two if his brother's ex falls to him to evil and his brother's also married to another woman he should perform ye boom to the kosher one not to the apostle one so that solves a lot of our problems here um as and you asked me what's the difference who is to what's the difference let him do whatever he wants do not spill out water when other people need a drink in other words igemar is teaching us a valuable lesson that it's called what be considerate be considered to other human beings don't be selfish if you have something that somebody else could use give it to them don't throw it out be considerate just stop thinking because we're talking about iphone mirror a guy goes out in the the the girl is not right for him whatever they break up i don't know what read it to somebody else be considerate think about other human beings be considerate so tashma why do perform khalitza to a woman and now she's in the market of shidduchim and she cannot marry all kind of in the world think a little bit think before you do something yes for you it doesn't make a difference are you going to do khalid but make a judgment start whatever you do think about the zulus think about the other person how is it going to affect society what you do it's going to have an effect it's going to make other people not be able to marry her she wants to marry clay now she can't marry coin be nice there du khalito to the one that's already puzzled we had this a second ago mom is word for word if somebody remarries his ex and he dies so both women fall to shemen what does he do that says he has to perform we never heard of such a thing okay so you have to do khalid the two women we have to fix it a little bit and say he could do khalifa the other one but it says that there's no eboom for that sorrow there is a commentary once you're ready answer are you ready fix it up start talking about end of the freebie omar ravalili by memo omar mar uk foreign new case here we go look at the screen for a second so we have a new character for today it's a young girl she's under 12 years old she has a knapsack she's wearing her school clothes and she her her mother married her off okay she's not married at the rise of the her mother brother married her or her off because now in order for her not to be hefcker she doesn't have a father to put in her place if you make her they decided they can't control her now the man of the house is gone let her be married to men okay acceptable in those days all she needs to do we care about her all she needs to do is say in front of two witnesses i'm out of here i understand that even today that's how it is by the muslims they say they say lotion there's no get they say a certain line and bye bye no yes one word three times three times they're out we have to ask the the local guy what okay anyway and she's gone the guy's a little drunk he says one word that's why we have a get so you have to go to the cipher and it takes the whole thing in a process you have to know the right it's 12 lines and by the time that they will learn in guitar eventually within the year how long is going to take us to finish all of satan hashem a year and seven months unbelievable accomplishment no you could say i finished all of say the nation in one year and seven months so my manners here we're learning you saw this today mion this girl all she has to do is my mind i'm i don't want to be married to you finished what does it do what does mian do it retroactively removes the conducion she was never married to ruby here in this picture she's married to ruben now reuven is married to two women she's married he's married to this youngster and he's married to leia so what's leia called in this case sarah smith she's the sorrow of the one who's my mind amazing says the gemara says sorry but sorrow who falls to shimon ah sir now who made meal here we have to understand what's going on here when she was married to ruvin she didn't take the opportunity to say whatever the words are i don't want to be married to you she did it after rouven died and she fell to shimon so let's see the gemara le man who is she oscar 2. you see the green line there's two brothers waiting over there living yehuda she is that sarah leia also to the two brothers hashtag let me turn on laser eyelid likes laser okay she did me onto this guy okay just as the example here this was her husband ruvain and she did me all she has to do with me onto one guy and she goes bye-bye it's as if she was never married to reuben after she does retroactive so sigmar says but sorrow this lady leia cannot marry either him or she can't marry him what are we talking about says what you can't marry brothers hashtag for sharia the mimeness the girl herself could marry the other brothers the only one she can't marry is the one she did me into the one she said i don't want to be married to damascus this guy she's mother living you though why why is she mother she was never married very good dialogue is holding i'm talking about the teenagers over here they're the ones that answer it what's your name tadik from machamesh what yeshiva i'm a letter say what myself okay the kid behind you is going to kick you now because he's going to call you though okay i mean if the girl the girl herself who we consider not married at all she can marry brothers so of course the sarah leia she completely not related over here to the whole situation of course you should be able to marry these guys okay so we have to flip it around hello did they it means that mrs leia the ushami lady the sister of your xiaomi lady she cannot marry shimon why can't she marry shimon because her tsara mrs mimanes so both are awesome um wait a minute but let's understand the logic over here but you told me that the little girls can marry the brother's wife because they said from sifta that she was never married at all she's not even related over here though after bahu maison because the brothers never did any meal with her that nothing to do with her so she can marry them sorry i'll have to be myself so that sarah never did anything to shimon what's what's why is there a problem between sarah and shema there's nothing going on here between them says next slide all i switched there is i added the word beethoven now basically routine married his niece is it allowed to marry a niece yes rouvain dies and the girl the denise falls to her own father and since she got married when she was a youngster she can perform mion if she wants to to her own father what's the question davi's question how in the world could you do me on if the father's still alive if the father is alive that's a real conducion a father can marry off his daughter and she cannot do myon the only time a little girl could do meow is when her brother marries when her mother marries her off so what's the answer that's what he said i forgot his name already that there's something called yusoyma it is possible this is a crazy story advice i know it's a lot of people like what is going on here she's 10 years old she had her second marriage and not only her second marriage but her husband already died and now she has to deal with the halita and the evil from her uncle from her own father now she falls to evil it's not everybody obviously this never happened this homosexual is a theoretical thing it's not it's not like we're in iowa over here and the crazy things are happening it's a it's theoretic theoretical okay theoretical calm down everybody calm down i understand it's hard to it's hard on the ears but it's a it's a shyland aloha what happens it's a crazy situation the father marries off his 10 year old twice first time i don't know what happened to the husband second time the guy dies it happens to be her own uncle that she's married to she falls down to her father now she could be reminding her father and she's my mother she says i don't want to be married to you now people are going to say that in this case shimon go back to the screen for a second shimon could marry leia why because his daughter never felt them she was never married to reuben the denise was never married to her uncle why because then he said i don't want to be married to you tati mela the whole marriage to begin with fell apart mma law scheming can marry the tsar no no no in this case everybody agrees shimon cannot marry the tsara why that we'll see in a second because it looks it looks there's a lot of looks it looks to somebody from the side it looks like his daughter felt him boom and it looks like he's marrying at sarah we don't want people to start talking mamela shimmy can never marry that sorrow so since shim and kam married sorry it's almost like isaiah alexander was showing a mask so made of this case also which is the same exact case but it's not his daughter we say that the tsaro is illegal don't shiman don't marry that sorrow but mrs sarah leia can marry the brothers that's not a problem why because my manus was never married to begin with okay victor a lot of information a lot of new concepts that we're not familiar with they'll all come together victor's been made as me as cyril what is she also they were never married why why can't chimein marry the tsara leia who's the tsar of his daughter who's not really a you vomit him because she did me on and bye bye but reminds me of syrah on it says in our mission of that base by the way we're almost done with the whole mishna tomorrow we're starting a new muslim it says in our minister the and she annulled the entire marriage retroactively you can marry shimon kamari vatsara the miano biman who exactly did you do me into let's take it step by step over here eliminate me i know if this little girl did me into ruvain heine grusha so she divorced him she got rid of him what's the difference if he gives her a 12 line piece of paper called a get or she said hocus pocus and the the the or like the arabs do or like this one does what's the difference the bottom line is they're not married anymore that's the immersed question digmar's answer is gonna be well there's two two ways to get divorced either you could have given a document called the get or she could say five wars them i don't want to be married to you and they were also divorced or more than divorced like completely annulled and they're never married to begin with so because that the governor now thinks that's a question allah be what happened was she didn't do meown to ruvain she did mion after rubin died to the of them to one of the three she has an opportunity to do it to lady did it she didn't do it but it's and it says that shimmer could still marry that sorrow so why are you telling me she can't marry that sorrow because maybe this little girl happens to be his daughter in a different case we have to make zero loyal no we're talking about that she made meow to begin with with the her original husband reuben wu train guy gary yeah he asked me it's it's a type of a get you're right we're talking about two different types of guitar he says that queen of lunas what's the difference when you do mean a husband you retroactively remove the whole marriage to begin with now that she fell to shimon and she says i don't want to be married to you what really happens what happens is she was never married to ruben forget about jim and she's never married to reuben i'll tell you why okay so that's what you say that we're learning until now like the misifti guy said when you do meon we all know that you a father-in-law can't marry his daughter-in-law what is that called khala khalasai that's 100 also there is there is but here's the case that you could marry your daughter-in-law how if your daughter-in-law was aktana she was 10 years old and she did meown to your son so your son and this 10 year old were never married had luckily there were never there's no connection so now the father goes and marries his ex-daughter-in-law miano babal mutters love she's mother to the father be of um but if this is what we're trying to get to but if she did the same exact thing to shim in the avam now asura love she cannot marry shimon's father why alvin a fellow because when she felt evil this yibum looks everybody the whole world knows oh they went to besdin there was a yibum situation here you heard she needs khalito and also she pulled off a trick she did but it's too late she fell the ebon people are not going to know what happened it looks like it's his daughter-in-law nearest sarah and that's why in our case shimon cannot marry leia who happens to be the sorrow of his own daughter even though the daughter knows the whole marriage through myun but it looks because they fell to him people are going to start talking they don't know that i love exactly emma melo she's out of here but obviously he has to perform khalitso shalma israel omar amasi another case if you're not confused yet here we go sora's island is it's not confusing these these kids are really not confusing those who are confused are talking themselves out of it soros islanders asura what's an islands an island this is a woman who we find out or we know we'll see there's two types of violinists it's the same type but whether you knew or not it's a different story so a woman who unfortunately she went to many doctors she can't have kids she even has a different voice a deeper voice she has all sorts of simone she can't have kids why is she called an eyeliners because she's like let's see if i can find the picture she's like this go on the screen it's like an aisle she's like a ram this yoshi did for me i called them up uh about 25 minutes before sheer i said i need this he said okay i have 25 minutes great no this is just the the your xiaomi lady but this particular one can't have children if you notice them now if you look if you look closely first of all her tickle is mdy the kosher phone is much larger than the non-closure phone it's a whole okay fine eyeliners you're going to remember yeah yeah yeah she has two what you just noticed now that she has two phones they all everybody has two phones but usually they tuck it in deep into the tickle and the other one comes out hello you know how many i was i was in yeshiva's and the guys come over to me and they go uh we have a problem how are we going to watch a show we don't have kosher phones we only have coaching phones they're like can you stop with it i know that you have a second phone you're right you're right and they walk away most of the guys he's like so why are you coming over to me it's time to pretend you don't have a phone so yeah my roommate my roommate right my roommate has one right this one has one okay the the two phone thing is w duo i also hide a kosher phone at home i walk around with my iphone the whole day omravasi soros island is a suro now okay so let's see if we can find the case all right it doesn't matter okay the point is so you have an eyeliners a guy a guy is married to two women and he dies and one of the women can have children so the ovum is not marrying any one of them why are you talented we direction deposit a little differently than the pasha shot but it seems like that what's going on over there a voice i you you guys know i could hear everything right shh has to be quiet everyone wants to sit up there quiet so it has to when you do even obviously the whole point even was to lock up shane to to have some sort of remembrance if she can't give birth she can't give birth she's worthless for this point for this uh for this problem so melo she's awesome prattle island and shayna you lettuce very good says ravasi and if you remember this is part of gimbal with base when the gemara asked the question why does the mission have to tell us a number we going to count very well the number 15 is to tell us not 16 not this islanders okay but rivassi holds that an island is creates a torah if one of the two women is a woman who cannot give birth so what's the difference if it's your daughter or if you're to your mother-in-law if it's a woman who can't give birth you can't do gibbon with her because the whole point of you is to have children so you can't do it even with her if you can't do you with her she's us around you she's like an asian socks she remains asian if she remains asian her co-wife that sorry is also awesome to you that's reversing we don't passing like that here we go we have a case of the three baldwin brothers ruvain shimon levy married not the sisters three different women not unrelated women and he does something called mimer what's mimer if ruvin dies shimon and levy could both be miyabim his wife the what are we going to call her this is the sparty lady no she's not about thailand but i ladies you'll see when you see bad night lady you know right away but die later no this is whatever for some reason he thought that the safari ladies wear jean jackets and i got yelled at i fired him no our wives don't wear that okay fine she's more of a cooler one fine so shimon is interested in marrying her so what does he do actually that middle rise all you do is in miyabe it's a little interesting stop like like that let's let's do it like a normal way so you go it gives her a ring i read the qurani but that's only the rabbanam so now shimon and this spidey lady have a connection because he gave her kidushin but it's only the rabban connection because if lady decides he wants to marry he can marry her also she's skooka she's bond to both of them fine boss about shaney miami river maze oh big mistake he decided to encounter what happened to him bye bye he's also bye-bye so now what happens now they all fall to levy who falls to levy everybody sparty lady and this from a lady over here by the way avi this lady lives in your building i based their own lady from your building i see her every morning with a sitter she walks down the street bumping into poles all sorts of stuff i'm not kidding you does she not live in your building avi says yeah okay i took a picture of her with her gym shoes look at that mint pink gym shoes unbelievable stuff and the length of the skirt i don't know if you know anything about it this is like nishtahinishta hair it's like mamash but it's okay she this girl this lady went to yeshiva flatbush she came to her championship from there big time so you know her i know it's not real it's not based on anybody that's why i said you know fine so anyway these two women fall to levy but not so fast says gamora why since shimon did my murder to the spidey lady so now the spidey lady comes to levy the doctor levy over there who left us a second ago she comes to him twice once because she needs to be messiah because reuven died without children but a second time because she has some sort of connection to shimit shimon did a condition to rabbana and a mimer now we know what my mirror is rabbi's side walk home today like whoo island is over here in this case this she comes from two angles that's not a good development if i has to come from one angle only from ruvain or from ximen but over here it's from reuven and jim into levy no good zoo if you think about it for a second it's beautiful mamadou when does this woman become us her to levy she only comes also to levy when shimon dies before shimon dies lady could be miami it's a little bit of a problem now because he didn't mind her but midair isa the spider lady is connected to levy just as much as you connect with the shimmer so we have a situation where the death the bye-bye of shimon causes a problem guess what islandess is the same exact thing give me another case where death creates an issue where does death create an issue eyeliners ruvain is married to nylonis he knew about it he didn't know about it what's the difference he wanted to marry this lady she can't have kids could have kids people get married to 60 year olds who can't have kids you're allowed to marry somebody who doesn't have kids so there's no issue in that marriage it's a great marriage it became an issue when the husband died without children and she falls to the ovum and we say hey stop you can't marry the of them so the issue only happened after death so when i tell you i give you a case this case over the three brothers and one did my murr and then i say at the end i say zuhi sarah says this is the only case so i'm trying to exclude something something very similar what's the only similar case to this case islander's case our case that we're discussing he's trying to say something here right um this is it this is the only one i never i don't know if another case just like this that the death of a brother creates a issue and over here the death of shimon created the issue on the spidey lady lady campbell miyabimur no khalifa nothing i'm saying no no obvious question we explained it already zui limutimay what does it mean this is the only case but not another case lavaloon with it sorry silence i'm just explaining beautifully why is the island similar to this because the islanders is also a case let's say we're talking about a daughter is the daughter becomes us to her father when her husband the uncle died no way she was always asking to the husband there's a mother-in-law becomes us her to the of them when when when when her husband dies no she's always awesome but an islandist only becomes user when the brother dies so mela that's why i'm saying this case of three brothers is the only case that it's also but not islanders so over here you see that islanders doesn't create it is sir that's not a good writer it's coming to say the exact opposite of what you thought the movie taught us not only is this case on the screen of three brothers ladies also to the spidey lady but even highlanders shipment would be oscar to the tsars and everything but what do you mean that's not an exclusion that's a rebuy we're saying only oh but it is an exclusion the kumar explains it is a meal not a rebook yeah if i tell you only this case of three brothers and i say a second later yeah but there's another case called islanders also that she makes it also for everybody so it's not only it's also the voice is no it's only why the is is different this is the only case in the world of three brothers and one did mimer that you have to perform levy has to perform khalito but when it comes to nylon is there's no khalita at all she's a real irva why is mimer not a real herva because only there are bad on the whole the okadushin that that shiman did in with her is only their abortion concept that you could be makadashivami it can't be mikhail midday when it comes to islanders that's a there is a problem like we brought a prosecutor before that she has to be able to have children usher tailored and she can't have jones so mela even her sorrow doesn't have nobody else's elites my time with gamora explains how they're right so they're up on an island this is raiso three brothers this is the rabbit on so therefore it requires a halita you can't pastor somebody from kalisa let her get married to anybody without performing a khalita that's impossible to not we learned in our mission is it says before in our mishna if a woman was found to be an islanders what does it say sir what does that mean that the brother is permitted to marry that sorrow the exact opposite of what ravasi just said rivassi said that an islandist is so strong her issue to marry the young so strong it goes also to the sarah to her co-wife and then before in our mission of base it says that you could marry the co-wife [Music] unbelievable turrets there's a big big difference if a person doesn't know that his wife can't have children he marries her and 25 years later he finds out it's impossible for for her to have children what is that called it's a mistake he would have never married her and therefore what the whole marriage is annulled it's bottle of freya emma melo what hold on hold on and if it's bottle what about it sarah mother mother because that sarah doesn't have it sarah there are no two wives there's only one legitimate wife that that could have children the other wife doesn't count but if when they went into shidduchim they said listen this girl unfortunately we know for a fact she was born without irrelevance whatever she can't have children no and he says i want to marry anyway so it's a good it's not a mecca taus and he dies so now she cannot be a vama she can't be a vampire because she can't have children but it's a legitimate marriage if it's a legitimate marriage she potter's the co-wife she passes sir it's amazing the difference if he knew about her situation then she's a good wife and that sarah is a real sorrow and that sort of support you cannot be miable khan but our mission is he never knew that she's an islanders and since he didn't know she's an island is and he found out later they found out that after he's dead they found out that she's an islander so the condition wasn't how if it wasn't how then her sorrow co-wife is not at sarah and he we just found out today we're turning to daf you'd based on the base oh i should take out my sheet hair there's a new sponsor sponsored by moshi herd horn in honor of shmuley sugar the original sugar shaker and sponsored in honor of ed kinsbursky brian kenzeberski and arie miller for learning oh my ravo comes rava and says soros island everything we just learned about ravasi ignore says raffle we don't pass can like him the filo hickory bow even if he married her knowing that she's an island is so the conducion is not bottle she remains his wife and he dies and both of them folly bomb the album is allowed to marry and a lot of me abem heard sorrow [Music] va filo tsaras bitoy islanus and even if you want to go back here if we can find it somewhere here if his daughter is not a mementos but she's a islanist in this case so that sarah's also mother and we don't say oh we should be khaishi and it looks bad it looks like he's marrying his that service daughter no she's an islanders and she is mutated what about your amazing deok in the mishnah that says it was found out to be that she's an eyelash mashma that he didn't know today shall you we have to learn it not that we're going to change the wording or anything but what it means is that even in the situation where he knew that she's an island whether it's the start of the menace like i showed in the picture a second ago where here let's serve him in mine we had also vacation where was that over here the tsar of the massachusetts reuben was married to a woman then somebody else married her and then he took her illegally and there was a co-wife all that sorrow is on mother we had a whole shy line on the base and we started today's cheer is it saurus martin mutter also the whole thing he's saying it's mother honey rabbi kameron there are three women who because they have a danger to their life for the life of their child they're permitted to use something that will prevent pregnancy so we're talking about the issue of zera typically it's awesome but in this case it's either mutter or yumihoy of two machines russian if it's a hatter or if to save a life the reason why it wouldn't be muhoyev to according to because it's not 100 that it's going to be such a sakana who are these women catano muberes nico a young girl a pregnant woman and a woman who nurses katana sabotage thomas a young girl can get pregnant and that will kill her it's dangerous to her life so she's allowed to use a michael muberes shematasu barasando if she becomes pregnant again and i looked it up back then i didn't look up now but i remember we're learning in nida there is a scientific there are cases like that that a woman could get pregnant twice and what's going to happen is that the second pregnancy is going to crush the first pregnancy i just have the picture here well not mummish like that but i was wondering says rashi that her face won't have a shape at all so this lady could be a sandal theoretically poor lady she's a island sando her baby will become flat like a sandal mini chamatigma biamos it will cause if she gets pregnant while she's nursing in those days there's no formula so if she doesn't have milk the baby could die i just want to point out a quick allah just throw it out there because i think not everybody's 100 familiar with this tamil cow in chaves is uh is a dairy dush so to remove milk from a woman on chavez is is a derisive so is basically that a woman cannot save milk for after shabbos that would be the right she should obviously just light a nurse but just to what spill it out the pastel the different things just figure out throw it out okay so vaesiktano what does it mean akitano who are we concerned about now tyson goes into this whole thing so we should understand what's going on here a person is permitted to be with a skena who can't have children that's not because that's the derek um a person somebody who's pregnant all these things so even aktano can't get pregnant it's not a problem halal now the problem is to do something that prevents pregnancy that's as fast as error because that's not that's not the thera says says we're only talking about a child that's eleven to twelve because anything less than that because there were a mayor there's no need because she's not gonna get pregnant when she's less than 11 and it won't kill her but there's no need we'll explain in a second there's no need to do any prevention will take care of it hashem takes care of things now before we go any further some people are like what is going on here so the message of sharm talks about this is it permitted to go skydiving is it permitted to go shark diving is it permitted to ride a motorcycle is it permitted to go on a on a commercial airline so the neighbors complaining that they bloc there's no parking next door and they blocked them in or something so if somebody's parked over there and they could resolve the situation please do so let's be nice to the name consider it to the neighbors [Music] you don't have to get up this second because everybody knows you so you get up in 10 seconds and pretend you're going to the bathroom so the message disarm says that anything that's normal i was just thinking i don't know if this is accurate the last time a commercial jet an american commercial jet that was serviced by the faa and gone by the rules of the faa i'm not talking about sri lanka and africa i'm talking about united states of america or israel right the last time barak hashem that a jet fell down i think was 20 years ago i think in in in 2001 so so to say people that are nervous when they get on the jet and this and that it's the safest buy the safest and to go in a car to the airport is a thousand a million times because there's an accident every three minutes in america there's fatal accidents every hour whatever when did when did somebody die from a commercial so to go s on something normal like a plane in the in the air not a propeller plane a a jet is the safe is the safe but they go skydiving if you know the the the statistics they're not very good it's like every thousand ten thousand jobs somebody dies so that i probably shouldn't have done and that's why i don't ride motorcycles that much because the statistics are everybody that i know anybody and look it up anybody that ever rode a motorcycle fell off his motorcycle every single person i i missed don't know a single person that didn't fall off a motorcycle so mela what doctors yeah donor donor donor donor organ yeah okay sir so to answer your question you don't say sure mashem riding a motorcycle you know he's trying to have a shot i'm jumping out of a plane because it's not normal something that's normal going crossing the street or even driving a car even though it's very dangerous i would say that's sensation okay stop that so basically what's happening saying look 90 of the chance they're not going to get pregnant if they get pregnant so we have to see are they 100 percent going to die or not so we say show them some it says that some people some katanas they could get pregnant and they could and they could die in other words some of them could get pregnant and not die so what's the problem kane it's possible to come up with the case that your mother-in-law is only 11 years old and if she's only 11 years old from iowa she could do mion here's the case here we go there's a dentist from the five towns who marries an 11 year old you see it says 11 by here 11 years old they had a child because it says in the gemara that it's possible to have a child and not die so they had a child in fact if you go on google yes 11 years are having children today and they don't die and then the dentist goes bye-bye step in these helen rubin and jimin one decides to marry the 11 year old sorry and reuben decides to marry the the seven day old the father the genius he marries off his one month old baby so now reuben and jimin are married to the 11 year old and the baby before he died before he died wait a minute before he died before before he died he fathered a baby when did he die father and he went by when did this 11 year old get pregnant before like in the beginning of the 11th year before she even turned 12 she already had a baby and reuben hops up the baby marries her now you see on the line it says the 11 year old is ruben's mother-in-law yeah understood mother-in-law it's just for fun just to get our brains going it never happened never will happen so but then what happens is reuben dies reuben dies uh no who married yeah sorry shimmy married the mother-in-law shimon died and shimon also happens to be married to another woman so both the 11 year old and leia all the way to the left fall to ebon to who to ruben so now his own mother-in-law falls to you with him and she could be my man she could say i don't want to be married to you and then her whole kidushin is nifkami kara and she's not even so here's why does the mishnah on base on the bay say that it's impossible for a mother-in-law to follow the e-boom here according to what you're saying that 11 year old could have a baby a mother-in-law fellaini bum when she could still possibly do me on what's the answer about what's the obvious answer david's answer is if she had a baby she can't do me then she's already ignored she's not 11 years old she's 11 years old but her logically speaking that's one answer if she had a baby she's a dialogue for all allah so let's see inside the comments from thomas it's possible to have a baby it says in our mission it's impossible says it's impossible for them to be an island is for sure she can't be right eyes means she can't have children she just had a child but it's also says the mission it's impossible for her to do mun because she's too old to do me on but according to you she's not too old she could have a baby when she's 11. says gemara ema shema to saber vet thomas it's 100 that she's going to get pregnant she's 100 going to die dom rabbit barley yeshua it's impossible [Music] it says that they could give birth and as we know today it is possible at least you could say in this film whatever but in our generation it's unfortunately possible you're right she has a chance of dying it's not a hundred percent but you asked me a question here's a situation where he could have a mother-in-law that falls to son-in-law and she can do my own because she's under 12. so we have three tea roots in here omar have saffron bunim harem kissimonen if she has a child she's not 11 years old she might physically be 11 years old but unlucky she's a dialogue this army bought him a difference hey what are you talking about simone uh stay cyrus to see modern right there's no bigger ride that she's mature than the fact that you had a child what the minute she's pregnant correct but over here we're talking about in a case where she had the child before she turned 12 so in order for her to do me on but certainly yeah she had a child she went through the whole process she's alive and well she's nursing now she's igno laminaf kamino what's the difference if it's more than c monomer equal to simone da filo the um rebutta says that a girl could be my mind all the way that she has a lot of dark in other words it's not just too cyrus the buttermilk but wait a minute you can no longer do me on once she gave birth without another turret ain't bon and below you see monum so we had a terrorist that it it's that children are simon we have a terrorist that children are more than a simon and the result says no something practical it's impossible that she became pregnant if she didn't have simone she did have sibo she had through cyrus physically says marvin like what are you talking about if it's a physical thing let's check we know for a fact she didn't she doesn't something you're right there's no way to check it because she had them and they fell off if we're not so concerned why would we be concerned that perhaps she had them and they fell off according to her husband in other words if she doesn't physically have seen modern it's not enough that she gave birth this woman gave birth so this one lost her sim on him but she did have someone so you have those three roots in have a wonderful evening wonderful night wonderful week and we should hipsters tyves [Music] you