Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 119 by R’ Eli Stefansky

we have some tremendous news there is a change of venue we've been pumping the seom in deal to the point where there are way too many people that want to come we already ran out of space and deal we have weather concerns the whole thing just we want we don't want to limit it at 1 000. we're already at 1100 people possibly 13 1400 people will show up to the seal and this guy's backyard is not going to hold more than a thousand people just so we are moving to bellworks never the bell works the ball ball room of bellworks where there'll be enough restrooms enough parking and we don't have to take golf carts to get to the place it's going to be gervaldic i see over here they added the shira is it the shira the mizam room some i can't even see let's see uh does uh she require you can read it awesome okay so now there are no excuses also another very good thing is it's 20 minutes closer to almost everybody 20 minutes close to brooklyn to lakewood the munzee is just closer the only people they're going to suffer are the guys from deal no we'll ask them hilo so no excuses again we are holding just a few days five days to subas friday is the beginning of subus so bring your friends again if you bring a friend that friend gets a free gemara artscroll how much does art school cost today forty dollars and if you bring that friend you also get a good mara so it's a win-win situation i didn't hop last night chewy levy's here the kid that i brought up to the front his father is bringing him to the seam in new york why because he's finishing yavamas with us every single daf it's unbelievable so his father sending his kid to the ceo i'm all the way from chicago what about you that you live in the five towns or you that you live in the tri-state area or you you're coming right he's not so sure all right uh my name is jonah rose i'm from baltimore i've been a talmud since baitsa youth gimmel i've not missed the dobson's rosh hashanah i'm so grateful to you and the mdy family for helping me create it otoro you're coming a couple of days yes i am i'm going to be in baltimore based on sham this tuesday in two days from now it's going to be a big event i want to introduce myself and tell you that i'm excited to meet you in person i bring my 13 year old son gabby rose with me who listens to the daf and the car rides to school and now to camp thanks so much and see you in a few days rabbi say if you're an introvert come to the seam come to baltimore you got to get out of your skin you got to meet them oh my voice i the one and only yoyly doppled check this video out i hope there's enough sound here if my haside um employees came on a sunday to finish this demo drop oh wow look around it's ready okay bonas diaz primos bonas diaz mis amigos bias all right beautiful beautiful okay um what else do we have today this is from israel mayor cohen for all the way from alaska shalom rebbe your mdy student from anchorage alaska here's a picture of me doing the daf on the alaska railroad okay you can see it all the way in the corner over there you see it great by the window i recently got to meet some of my wikileaks yeshiva my nephew at my nephew in baltimore i am with my eight-year-old son david enjoys listening to the shoe whenever he can as well as showing you the felder on the left we're looking forward to the semen deal listen to this he's coming even though i have to run out an 8 30 why because he has to make it back to say for my sheer and the themed semen cake i give the daff weeknights as well as some shabbasas as well as i told you when we met at art scroll i couldn't do it without the great daffodil mystery such as yourself and someone from lakewood whom i also hope to meet one day passaic new jersey and here's a license plate from a telemember in new york been a listener for the last two years was driving by in the five towns and couldn't help but notice a deaf promoter who's also a police surgeon it says on the bottom police surgeon whatever that means mazel tov an upcoming museum anonymous [Music] all right he made this video joining us all right boys uh here we go so unfortunately yesterday at the tail end of this year the last literally 20 seconds of the share were cut off we actually had a recording of it but whatever got lost in the post-production so just so that there's if you are one of those very few people the ten thousand not the two thousand they got lost somewhere along the line that are doing your vomits from cover to cover you don't want to miss these few words so we're middle of a sugya why would a woman want to get married great reasons even if this guy is as short as an aunt he has a problem he's um what's uh how do they call today he is um yeah but they use that they say he is uh vertically challenged a woman wants to be with him she wants to get married we saw this part of tavla mesa tandoo mila mesa environment was better to be with somebody else than living alone and running out of time yesterday but it's kadai to maybe focus because in the beginning with plenty of time focus for a moment and say to yourself many people think themselves oh wow i could have done better why did i marry this person oh i wish i could be divorced i wish you'd be dead right now and then you think you so then when it actually happens i should have appreciated when she was around so why wait until they die to appreciate appreciate today seriously how many people out there don't have shidduchim and are suffering and they wish they could be married to anybody anything and you're married you're happily married you chose this person so you have to focus and stop thinking about the negative thinking about the positives and be happy that you are happily married almost so with that being said the gemara's final reason four different reasons even if a person has a bad job we said his wife would be very happy and i was actually in the middle of these words and that's when he got caught off ravage omar the last line on kofi khashoggis the khul sagara even if he has a blemish with his zikos kidro you know what's good about a guy like that hopefully i don't know if it's true in our days with the husband that we have but a guy that has a blemish in his ears he's not going to be a loud mouth he's not going to complain about the lentils that she makes him she makes him terrible food he knows that he's she's not that good of a cook but he has a blemish with his ears he's going to be quiet tana and this is a sad one the coulomb mizanos no and if somebody asks what do you cut out the last words on purpose absolutely not it was a complete mistake ton of akulam is with toilets these women unfortunately if they have if they suffer in their marriage then they'll go on the side in the video and with that he said allah and now the final final perique in vamas is the third hoisho that we have third paragraph the husband takes his new wife leaves his old wife at home or he could take a different one but just the cyber size he goes on a trip with one of his wives your husband died loyti no sebelita now she has a problem she shouldn't get married and she shouldn't be missible what forever lamar's going to discuss it the concern is that maybe her co-wife gave birth if her co-wife gave birth then she doesn't follow the ebon there's no there's no piracy even there's no mitzvah because her husband died with a child so she has no business marrying her brother-in-law which is it's her karas if there's children what's going on now sponsored yesterday yeah you know what there are no that's it sponsors are done so if anybody wants to sponsor the mishnais it's i think eighteen hundred dollars foreign thank you but if you look at the lotion here it says what should it say sarasa maybe her tsara is pregnant it doesn't say that it says mubarak's heat sarasa what does that mean we'll say hamas we don't have to be concerned that maybe in our zistral especially even here it's very very popular for in the euro xiaomi circles in the cathedral circles and now in a lot of other circles where people are getting married at a younger age you have grandparents that are in their young low 40s so it's not so far-fetched to say that the grandmother the mother-in-law had another child it's very possible so what if the grant what if the mother-in-law had a child meaning she introduced to the world a yovam she had one son the son got married the someone oversees he's dead now the wife doesn't have to have ibum why because she doesn't have a brother-in-law that exists but maybe we have to be concerned that there's another brother-in-law somewhere in the world maybe her mother-in-law gave birth to malaya now if the mother-in-law went with the son-in-law now this is this is a nightmare of a story we don't understand why his son-in-law would do something like this maybe that's why he's dead today who knows but he went on a trip with his mother-in-law and he he when when she left the mother-in-law was pregnant now it makes sense that perhaps she actually gave birth to a boy now giving birth to a girl is not going to do anything here because a girl is not a obama if she gives birth only to a boy you see the difference the difference between the beginning of the mission and now the beginning of the mission is if a man goes to hutzlar's and he has a child of christos doesn't matter what child it is it can be a girl it could be a boy there's no yi bum if he has a child but when it comes to our mother-in-law the only thing we're concerned about is a zachar because we're concerned maybe she introduced to the world and the oven is only a male not a female so if she went out pregnant why did you say we don't have to be concerned she went pregnant what do you mean why why aren't you concerned because what are the chances she gave birth to a boy her boy's side what are the chances no not 50 50. why why less than 50 50. miscarriages you gotta take into consideration the miscarriage before corona what was the percentage of miscarriages huh i thought it's more like 15 25 is very high you're a doctor you know this stuff 25 i heard that since corona went the 25 went up 550 percent i'm joking it's the corolla blame everything in corolla nothing went up i don't think okay anyway no because of the vaccines together with the corona anyways yeah if you show up blame everything in corona says imara let's just address the word he also what does it mean you have to be concerned that maybe the co-wife got pregnant but why does it say the word i'm concerned about this particular co-wife but i'm not concerned that maybe he got married to another woman over there i believe it's the yamcha slayman says i forgot the name i think the answer is says that's because he went with a wife but the rules change if a man goes to chutzlars by himself then we have to be concerned that maybe he would use makbit or whatever like we had in the gemara that would get married for one day maybe this guy also he decided maybe he has to get married who's the lord so rules change but we're not concerned that the husband married another woman there we're concerned what's the story with the one he went with the co-wife is she pregnant or not praying i understand why she should not have anything to do with her yavam the dilma mabro of the kapagaba asia sachtleriza because the uav if there's no mitzvah vibham then to marry a brother-in-law is this or the rise occurs why can't you get married to somebody else let's go with the rove nosh and miss abrasive all days we could assume that the co-wife had a child has arrived now is roy when you go with majority is that a sorrow is that common sense or it's a special alaha in other words to to assume if somebody dials a phone number he knows most of the numbers you know at least five out of the seven so what are the chances he's gonna get the number right very very few oh but he has the raw eve he knows the majority doesn't help me majority so it's not really common sense it's a local de raiso that we go with the majority says the gemara perhaps layma remarry the famous mayor we had over and over mayor's the one that says you always have to be concerned with the meal that what rashi brings a story with the kusim that guys aren't all the kusum because they found a little bit of a available few they all became i'm i'm concerned with the minority layman this is don't worry about it we're not going into deep sugars here we're just flying through it on the surface passing by just to remind us some of these very interesting al-aqsas and that is when we use the majority as a rule that's a majority that's in front of us that we could see not a general majority of the world we can't can't take the whole world into account when we're doing arrive a guy finds a piece of meat steak a nice juicy steak there's no temple on it there's no harsher on it whatsoever however on this what do you call strip of stores there's nine kosher stores one of them is not kosher so now because the nine stores are in front of us they're here we could see them we're going to say the majority of the stories of kosher the meat is probably kosher right go tell it to some guy today go you can eat this meat majority of the stores of course you're going to say crazy what is it i don't know what some actually he doesn't like bison edgary there's another 23 you have to go by the majority you have to have 12 against 11. it's because the sanhedrin they're in front of you avaruba the lesser come don't go by the road they don't they don't use the majority when it's not in front of them so mother tries to slug that off again that we mentioned number of times throughout the miserta the cotton tana right we have a minor government could could a minor yavan perform evil he's not bar mitzvia the ruby the alaska money it's understandable why a kid shouldn't perform khalito because it says both of them have to be daily you have to be an adult but what about akata what about why can't the nine-year-old before me even biased what are the chances that a child when he grows up is going to turn out to be a soros very very few in the world right it's a very small percentage yet ribby mayer is concerned about the minority we said the very small percentage so omar so that's that's remember timothy islanders and the same concern is with katana she's going to grow up she's going to be one of these kids that can't have children if she has all these simone and her voice is different through this her whole body everything she can't have children but that's a minority and rem remains concerned venomous huh it turns out since the islanders is not in the parish of e-boom right islanders can't be a vama so if she can't be obama she's with her brother-in-law illegally and that's what that's what let her get older let it let's see whether or not she could have children if he's a soros if if she's islands let's see very boring why do they are younger take the majority of the world verification lobsters i bet you it's one out of 100 i don't know maybe even less who knows but it's certainly right 51 percent of children grow up and they're not serious him they're not islanders but the problem is silva's right has worked on us well what's the problem that he they're taking into account all the kids of the world we just said it has to be in order to use the majority the majority has to be in front of you like the nine stores are in front of you i see them you don't say all the stores in the world because if you say all the stores in the world most stores in the world are traff so i'm saying all the stores that are in front of me right now but you see not like that you see that rabona take into account all the kids of the world so therefore let's go back let's take it back it's in fact ruby mayor who's heist for the meal says i came to your mayor but if you're going to tell me it goes to the corn government amen how do i explain the rest of hamas oh she has a mother-in-law i'm not concerned that maybe the mother-in-law gave birth to a boy in the boise of them raven national cypress violence most women give birth get pregnant and give birth me with my pillows okay the small percentage that miscarry the holy letters and now once you take the ones that have viable births 50 50 it's harder than caves i actually saw once i have no idea if this is accurate throw it out there that for every thousand boys there's a thousand and three girls in the world something consistent like that besides in afghanistan anybody ever hear that okay fine maybe i may maybe some poor my read it i never know it what no that's because they manipulated in china it's something else you can't if you're manipulating and manipulating or something that doesn't count talking about natural everything okay over there yeah okay good luck how could it be remay or if the mayor is concerned about the minority so you're right a male is a minority yeah the white males males are minority why because you have 50 50. and you have also everything in the count the fact that a woman killed miscarry but romania doesn't care about minority he's crisis he's concerned about it so maybe the mother-in-law gave birth to yahweh she gave birth to avam i have no idea she did it she did it if she did how could this woman go ahead and get married maybe there's the other somewhere in the world says once there's a hazaka we establish the that how do you say in english that previously she was when she when they left to huslars she didn't have a yavam in the world so this hazaka this woman is a predetermined or whatever they call hazaka it's a pre something is the best word this is this woman that she doesn't have to be messy album a presumption okay no but uh presumption fine maybe dumbo given who that's what they say there's a legal presumption that she doesn't have to do yep and now you want to say that perhaps something happened to undo that status quo i like static is that something to do with something with those words status quo like there's a certain status now she's not high view you want to make a high view so we say no let her take the the the original status that she had which she wasn't having says the gamora oh rachel this has equilibrium the ratio where what that she was hiv and why because when her husband went with the co-wife on a trip she if her husband was dropped at that minute she would be hivo so nothing staying again so we have the same status going through in the ratio she's high view safe so we're concerned that maybe that sarah gave birth safa this her love what's the safer that we're concerned that she's going to go marry somebody when she shouldn't marry somebody when she has to be missy album what is that like that's why we're not concerned um their eyes uh it makes no sense what you're saying if you look at rashi the bottom rash reaction explains it beautifully when i have a get there with the rabbana i have offense that ham said don't go past his fence because you might do an issue so it makes sense to say look this is a very big issue that's why we're very concerned about it this is less of an issue weren't so concerned so they didn't make it together but when it comes to isaiah so when hashem says in the torah don't do this don't do this how could i say hashem says this is more than others it's in the torah it doesn't make a difference if this one has chorus and this one doesn't have cars yeah there's it happened here in chicago my friend told me he was very into a cure over here you're the frailer he had an organization told me it happened i said the story a number of times i i mean it's funny it's very sad you know i laughed when i heard him but it's very sad he was telling the guys that they should accept upon themselves like one thing one you know put on filling every day something every day so a guy accepted by himself he's going to go to the mikv every day and then he gets a call from the here this is the mick for hearing tui he says one of your guys is coming in shops in a car every every shop as he pulls up in the car he accepted upon himself and make fun of me shows up in a car but it's not a joke you know why it's not a joke because i heard that there are people in there just roll that they go to the mikvah on shabbos women not to be ivor isakaris of nida but driving car there's no such thing by a college borough this sister and this is their equal there's no add rabbit this is skela this is cars in terms of insurance even worse little shabbos but you don't like those kind of coachbinders we shouldn't make those kind of things they they do whatever it is it is says the imaro therefore robert doesn't like that nafcamina that this is a smaller sir it's only a lav that's why there's a biggerist zacarus says rava raja khazakalibum take a look at this for a second if you can see it oh yeah yeah let's see okay oh i changed some of the colors later on fine it goes like this basically if you have a scale you have rife rive women give birth to viable baby blah blah okay see everyone that is more powerful than hazaka kazakh the status quo of the woman that she should be she's a potential yobama because when her husband left with the co-wife and her husband didn't have children and if her husband got killed right then and there on the spot she would behave ibum so that hazaka should take her into the future that's not as powerful as a rove so if you have rave on the one hand and a hazak on the other hand what's going to win what's going to bring the scale down the rave is going to be more powerful step number two is however if you add another because we're dealing with two principles and now we're introducing a third principle if you add the principle of meal that there's no there's no vlot here that together with the kazakh is going to equal 50 50. you see without the black box the rover is going to win but now i'm going to add a little bit of mute i'm going to add the meat part the milk i'm going to add the meal to the hazaka the mirror and they make the rave equal with them so it's 50 50. what do you do when you have 50 50. so you have a woman that can't do eboom because maybe she is not hivo but she can't get married she doesn't do anything status quo 50 50. let's see it inside rachel when what uh sponsored by moisture horn in honor of robbie tremendeski the worst basketball rebbe that ever lived sponsored by nisano latzlakha rokhani and gashmi from miranda kai i'll get more of a so now i'll get phone calls sponsored by the son of a star it says here he's the best the bet i don't know how why he decided the best i heard he's very good actually very good he was back in the day remember back when we used to play in camp and he scored 50 and roman mu in this oh he was from rome we're sorry yeah what was the name of the candidate raym and kate is not as strong go back to this picture over here kazakh is not as strong as roy vais now take the miot because there are some women that miscarry smart zaka you add the black the black basque a scale that both sides weigh the same so what do you do [Music] great saver when it comes to the story of the mother-in-law the reisha is the co-wife the safe is the mother-in-law and we're concerned that perhaps the mother-in-law gave birth to a boy and she gave birth to a boy her husband the the obamas is is high bibum now here now you take the hazak and arrive you put it on one side of the scale before they were enemies the kazakh and the river were opposing principles now they're together then the same team so you have a very very strong team you have a hazaka that when the evol when her mother-in-law left she wasn't pregnant she didn't have a java in the world so she has a hazak her status quo is no ebook you also have derive what's the right now a different route the most women don't give birth to boys because if you take into consideration the miscarriages then you don't have a zakar so now i have a kazakh enrolled on one side of the scale and a little tiny miot then maybe she gave birth to zachary against the kazakh so we're going to call that a mioci be meal because it's a nothing over nothing compared to the other side of the scale it's a little sliver it's a one pound on one side of the scale compared to a hundred pounds on the other side so we'll call it a meal should be higher to me with is very concerned about the meat i have to be concerned that this boy might grow up to be a sauron so this girl might be over here it's so far fetched that's not even a me it's called it's considered an immediate mute roommate is not closest to it says so the husband and the co-wife go to hutzler and they hear that the the husband died the nothing happens to she is she's stuck she says what she she can never get married so do khalid let her get married she for herself she always has to wait three months why does she have to wait three months like we always said throughout the sector we have to know who the father is right like that story with the rebbe manuel feldman from atlanta i think i said i'll say it again why not he's doing a divorce in atlanta and he tells the woman by the way now that you're divorced you have to wait three months because that's allah so she went crazy she goes what about my husband that's why three months she's not you can get married right now oh you hired him you you make up these rules you're anti-femi male chauvinist she went crazy she says listen i understand could your husband get pregnant now no could you yeah so we need to know who the father is you understand oh that makes some sense now i understand okay so so she has to wait three months for herself now this is a very serious thing you cannot perform khalita during the nine months that we're waiting for the co-wife to get from the moment we hear that the husband died wait nine months why because the co-wife might give birth and if you did khalita during those nine months it's possible it doesn't work and then after the night then you perform jalitsa omar you do khalito and you say look if there's a government somewhere in the world here's the khalid and if not not i'm saying if she has if they had a kid then you don't need khalid if there's no kid so the khalifa fight is very mean over here it's not mean but it's like it's a it's a very sad alarm that comes out over here it comes out this woman can never get married forever and it seemed like seemingly in the restraining mask they're all over this like it doesn't make sense but that's what he passes the concern is that what if this khalita was in vain there's no there's no reason to do the khalito there's a kid somewhere in the world so now she's grusha are the same right akain doesn't marry a grusha he cannot marry kaluta but she's not a haluta why is she not a kalooza yeah she removed the shoe but it was it was nothing it was a fake act why because there's a kid somewhere in the world so now you have to go and and go on them on the microphone like in may sharim go around the whole neighborhood screaming okay so do it so they'll scream there's going to be a guy that went out of town he didn't hear the ram call him the army and the the problem is he's going to come back and see that she's married to okay so when we learned the last time we learned to this time the roots asked the question don't get married to cayenne whatever the problem is i think i think he says this if i'm not mistaken that we're concerned that she's going to do fighters stick behind the table she is going to go marry without a she she knows that she's not a kaluta so she'll do she'll go get married something like that she we learned yesterday she's claimed that she had a son and if she has a son what does that mean she doesn't have to do ibum and then she says vamana may's benny bach bali but she says but my son died first and if my son died first now i'm high of imam so that's not a problem why because when she left she was high vibe no sonora now she comes along and she she created a son and then she got rid of the sun so nothing happened without her testimony she didn't have a son and she's hiv so now with her testimony she had a son and the son died not a big deal we believe her that he that he was alive and now he's dead but nothing changed however if she changes the facts she says mace bali now she wants to say that she's potter from ebon because she has a son somewhere who died and in that menace now she's not believed however if a question is varela we do have to be concerned about her words [Music] the speakers in the street and somebody's not going to be there and then they're going to say oh she got married there's no concern because she's a gruesome to begin with and she can't marry you're it's a valid concern but we're talking about somebody who's already divorced who can't marry queen anyway says gomorrah her whole testimony is that nobody saw us at all it's impossible we're in a cave me my husband and the child my husband died he you can't have an aide that comes and says well so-and-so died first the husband died first the son nobody can testify because it was in a cave in a closed room says the mishnah sponsored by yosebu yeah b marty's past your bedtime okay good luck over there says daily mission state of vamos we had two brothers married to two women uh let's see if we have the thing oh okay two ifamas married to two two two women married to two brothers right the two baltimore brothers we're slowing down with them one more day two more days it's going to be sad stay obama's zoo maris mace bali now rocco says my husband died eddie mouzin died that means but there's another woman here the five-tower she says visuy mars means bali now according to the five-towner she doesn't even have a husband so if she doesn't have a husband then rocco on the right doesn't have to do ibum she only does evil if there's a yovam alive but the album is dead but that's only based on a woman's testimony and a woman can only testify about herself she can't testify about somebody else we cannot the five-towner cannot rely on the testimony of rahul that her husband's dead so according to the according to rahul doesn't matter if that her husband is dead or alive five town or has the oven somewhere in the world until you can bring witnesses that he's dead rocco cannot rely on the five town or that the five-towner's husband is dead and therefore rachel has the of him somewhere in the world and she cannot get married luzu adam what happens if rocco has two guys yossi clan with a strymo and some other guy they testified that reuben went by by so if roofing went bye-bye guess what is that good for rockhold or beverage is that good for five town or bad for five town that's excellent for the five-towner because according to the aedim the five-towner doesn't have a of them he's dead but according to rocco it's bad for her because yes her husband died we would believe her anyways we don't need ayden that her husband died the problem is that there's yevam in the world his name is shimon who says shimon is dead the only one that says shimon is dead is the five tower we can't trust the five towner when it comes to rahul rahul she cannot get married the chainway then the one who doesn't have it is counter-intuitive the five-towner who doesn't have aid them she's allowed to get married to everybody because they aid him from the other lady are good for her lizubonim let's say rocco has two children you like the children they put there you didn't even notice one of them is a potato head she has kids so if she has kids she's not having evil but the other one is the bottom uterus if the two women they had they went with them they found the of them somewhere there was other brothers around they got married um listen what happened there they had eboom the five towner got got got had ebon from don the rocco had another baldwin brother levy remember levy he's not in here but he's somewhere but listen what happens the two above him now go bye-bye the question is do we have to be concerned about reuven and shimon right each woman couldn't get married to the world because there's a reuben in the world and there's a shim in the world and nobody testified that these evam we said when it comes to yi bomb you can't trust a woman we could trust a woman to prefer to get married she's in a guna but not to say that somebody's potter okay you hear you don't hear the shyla i don't have it it's not here on this chart i think this is the last one yeah ran out of time again pretend that there's two more brothers and there was yebum with those two brothers and those two brothers now there's four dead brothers but just because they did the eboom why didn't get rid of the original problem that we had we said rahul cannot marry anybody in the world because maybe five town's husband is still alive and then she finds the of them somewhere so she's miyabe and then the of them dies but maybe five town's husband is still alive how could she marry into the world her of him that she married died without children so how could you marry into the world so therefore the tanaka says if they had ibum um any of them died as soon as they said they can't marry anybody else he says once you allow them to marry leaving yehudah mary the entire world let's just do one little piece here three more lines interesting i don't know where that stop tana liz lloye didn't live one woman has aiden that her husband died but she also has children so she has children she's potted from ebon what about the other woman she doesn't have vadim and she doesn't have children but guess what she doesn't need aedem her yovam her supposedly of him is dead based on the testimony of to adam so therefore both of these women don't have evil very simple there's no big kid in fact isis asks what's going on here we're the kids [Music] the entire world based on the marriage to the vomit rabbi sai have a wonderful day you