Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 118 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning round boys live in chicago live in aries israel sunday morning there in the basement hi guys first of all we have to announce we're just a few days away from us subus i think the new number is 440 new people joining this year is great but everybody should look at themselves and say hey did i bring one more guy to torah did i encourage somebody this shabbos to come join the share if the answer is yes then do it again the answer is no what's wrong with you spotted what is this a frame hud it's like finding a sticker in a sticker stack it's there somewhere the eight minutes off all the way on the right a license plate right corner okay mushroom is rahi high rebellion my name is mushroom israel i'm joining the wise since mcgill and i have to say that that has changed my life i was at a friend's wedding in baltimore and why felder was schmoozing with me about the museum and deal and he asked me did you meet zarak spiro so i said no who's that and he said he's one of the main guys in mdy let me let me introduce you to him well introduce myself says ah it was right then that i felt for the first time i was part of the mdy family thank you rebellion for everything you do for the cloud you should be blessed this is for mortyness i wish you a safe and healthy trip i just wanted to tell you a funny story i signed up for the online upon giving over zoom to improve my hebrew it's a small class of people from all over the map in middle of the class a younger classmate private message me asked me do you do daf you see this younger guy is trying to get other people he listens i answer yes and you he replied i listened to ellie yeah turns out he's been doing the dive with mdy since bezo if possible i'll allow you to make a small shout out to spencer garfield doing the daf all the way from north carolina unbelievable morty ness north carolina guys are doing the dive in north carolina kevin ziegler says my adventures yesterday show what mdy family is all about at about 2 p.m a post went out in local chat by tv cooperman looking for a ride for her son from camp to brooklyn for his daughter's shabbos cherry brothers other than catskills for the day so gladly offered to bring avrumi into the city when we pulled into camp my wife noticed that he that he and i knew each other when i told her rumi is also part of the mdy she was impressed in the car we discussed the camp hookups which by the way didn't happen yet in other words they don't have that screen that we were talking about so i offered a roommate a chance to catch up see attached photo of how he took advantage after a brief stop i don't know if that's the photo kits he was in baltimore he went from brooklyn to baltimore for bruce you travel you stay by family he says akiva you stay by family the grandmother of the baby arranged for me to stay by [Music] describe his reaction is kismet to be part of the mdy family akiva kitser you went to baltimore you stayed by nakam horowitz here's a talking about baltimore here's their um poster that they put up very cool actually it's the lion the wheel it's a kiva and his father learning this kutakeness and all sorts of jokes and funny stuff it's very cool with the official official humor all right here we go our boy sai today's sponsors and the sponsors for the coil the pirates of the kailua nishmas ben today's sponsor dal thomas third your side of hershly town leviton arrival yo shragotsvi ben khayin by his family and by moshe sorcerer and blessed memory of my dear brother joshua bensoria shalom sorcerer all right here we go brand new mishna talent you have two women married to the same guy by the way oh rip i missed you where's simi mandelbaum anybody know give me a call we need him here asap subscribe for coming out i know it's late it's already 11 25 shabbos the island is tired but it's kadai ishmaka oh gary bemoshet is calling oh this is important yeah hello mevo okay do me a favor he wants an evil to go down so i'll tell you what to do unscrew that big screw no no no no no no not that lower on the on the orange part on the orange yeah there's a big no no there's a big screw look at look at this yeah okay all the cameras right and then lower excellent yeah yeah that's what they're talking about good perfect that should be good hello yeah okay excellent thank you so starting the mission thanks by the way everybody my step brother ahri he's made it it's a big history for me that he's here he does every day his son came over to me today he goes i think you're my uncle i said i don't think so who are you he goes no i think you're my father's stepbrother i said ah sham then i'm your step uncle yeah and i said no now that i had him one on one i said see father dude he goes every day he does it with you every day so no you're not lying says you have two sisters two wives co-wives married to the same guy an incredible thing is going to happen here we're going to have a contradiction contradiction a factual contradiction between the two women one says our husband is dead therefore i could go get married you could get married another one says no he's not dead so i can't get married you can't get married sushi mary's maze to not 17 look tsubasa not only could the one that says that her husband is dead she could get married and also take advantage of the tsuba zuzua it's like a contradiction in fact what happened is he dead or alive if he's dead so he should be dead for everybody so both wives should get married but but the second wife can't get married because she admits that he's alive she herself is saying i'm asked her to get married she made an issue for herself even more interesting at least to me they both admit that he's dead the question is did he get shot in the head or did he die from myanmar but they admit that he's dead [Music] they're contradicting each other how he died therefore neither of them could get married so now let's go backwards a second let's go back after marissa mays vacation there's a contradiction here what's revealing mayor gonna say when they contradict each other just on how he died was it with a bullet was it with a disease then none of them came married and when one of them contradicts the other and says he's not even dead shouldn't we schumer may or say it's a bigger problem the more says yeah you're right he does say that he argues on that case as well okay review in the second case we both say he's dead the question is how he died but they agree to the outcome that he's not alive anymore and therefore we could both get married you know so they could get married okay next guess hey doi mermaids you have a contradiction between a single witness one says he's dead one said he's alive therefore according to one the wife could get married according to another one you can't get married isho himeras mays vicious before they have an opportunity before they death as we discussed the other day if ate the effort comes to bed and he says so-and-so is dead we trust him we trust him like to aid them and this story comes another aid five days later too late obviously we're talking about they're coming together they're walking to beds them together so they contradict each other so now we can't listen to either one of them but if one of them already said the testimony that he's dead then he's dead i don't care that the other eight comes later on says the mishnah it says time taiman the umrah makes there's a the first case in the mission there's a contradiction one woman says he's alive one woman says she's he's dead okay the reason why this the second woman who says my husband is alive the reason why she can't get married is because she admits that he's alive what if she was quiet she didn't say anything now here's the problem can we trust a woman when it comes to somebody else we trust her when it comes to herself she we don't want her to remain in laguna but do we take her testimony so seriously that it would allow another woman to get married based on the testimony yes or no says we have a problem how can one co-wife testify for the other that's impossible says mario louie mace it's really the criticism over here is that when she says you're right forget if she's quiet no she's quiet we don't trust we don't trust the other one so then why are you saying so the case the kiddush over here is even when the woman listen to this this is going to be incredible when the woman says the second one says our husband didn't die you're lying you say that he didn't die i would think that we should trust her that he's dead why because if she was just quiet then there could be real trouble here for her co-wife if she wants to get if she wants to get her her co-wife in trouble she should just be quiet and wait until the guy shows up if she knows what does she know think about it it's like one of these riddles what does she know if she knows that he's alive so why would she come and testify that is that he's alive let her trip up by herself be quiet let her get married two days later the husband shows up that's it her co-wife's life is over she has to get divorced from the second guy she has to get divorced from the first guy so what does she know she knows that he's dead therefore she's coming testifying that he's alive ah so we should trust her that he's alive we should maybe maybe we should trust her that he's dead that's the best thing we're saying if i care to what she's saying whatever she says she wants her sorrow to be in trouble that's it the calmer like may so why is she saying he's not dead that he didn't die she wants besson to believe her that he's not dead and if he's not dead her co-wife can't get married but wait a minute if her co-wife can get married guess who else can get married she can't get married so she shot herself in the foot to get her co-wife says the gemara crazy aside but thomas nafsha implicit i think that she's trying to act like shrimp china here i i usually don't like to show biblical figures and their their faces but the other pictures that they had over there that he wasn't wearing a shirt whatever okay this is not what he looked like but this is the story the story is that shim shin aguirre when they caught him finally they tied him to the two beams of this the great arena and in the arena were all the greats of the push them they were all sitting there all the generals everybody and he said hashem give me one last chance let me die but let me die with everybody thomas nasheen polish him i'll die let me kill everybody i don't care if i die with them turns out the ushami says that when they recovered his body he was on top of the pile so everybody got nervous that maybe he he he was he survived the politician didn't touch lies for 20 years they were nervous for 20 years because of what happened but the gemara says that it's possible if we think about it i always had this fascination about why would people kill if you kill somebody you go to jail for 50 years but this is the site i don't care if i go to jail for 50 years i want you dead i hate you so much that so my life is over also thomas nav she implicit that's every murder has this idea of thumbs down being polished brings a story it's now in terms of sinner you know what let me let me tell you about uh maybe i'll say it later but the message is sharp sister charm says incredible story it's at least a martial he says the king saw that the two people that hated each other so he thought he called he called one of them he said listen you could have whatever you want in my kingdom anything you want but on condition i'm gonna give your enemy double so think about it he could have a hundred million dollars right now all his problems south or a lot of his monetary problems south and the guy is thinking himself but if i get a hundred that means he's gonna get 200 and he's gonna be wealthier than me my biggest enemy you know what he told the king he said poke one of my eyes out that's that's sinner that's and that's thomas notching push them i rather have one eye poked out and make sure that my my enemy has both of his eyes poked out i'm talking about sinnoh the beneshkai says there was two sisters that fought their entire life they had major fight one of them was on her deathbed so she decided she's gonna make peace she called the sisters she goes you know dying i'm on my last days over here why don't you come and and say say hello say we'll make up so my sister came and uh she walks into the room and she says come come i want to tell you something oh so the sister comes and leans over and she whispers in her ear and as she whispers in her ear she took a bite out of her ear part of her ear was wet missing and she leaned back and she died with a smile so that's that's sinnoh says to your own sister all right but there there is a muslim like that thomas nashi implicit so now i just pointed it out to make it easier when we're reading the mishnah when they argue on how he died ramirez says wait a minute there's a contradiction how he dies so he can't trust them for anything neither of them can get married but what about the first case of the mishnah when one says he's dead and one says he's alive shouldn't remain jump in and say wait a minute we don't trust him at all the little girl maybe we trust the woman who says is dead we don't and we trust other one that he's not dead so therefore she doesn't get married and according to her mayor we can't trust either of them verb no we could say that the ratio goes according to the mayor as well baha'i failure may or may not argues in the case where they argue between each other if he's dead or alive no they call the calloy mace when a woman comes and says he's not dead we don't trust her at all in other words when two women come forward and they say the first woman says our husband died he died from a bullet shot to the head so what is she saying she's saying i need to get i could get married i don't have a husband anymore exactly the circumstances of his death bullet okay now we listen to the second one the second woman comes in she says he died from a terrible disease what is she saying she's saying i could get married she's not trying to get her sister her co-wife she's just trying to help herself they both have a very selfish agenda they want to get married that's it now they happen to contradict each other how he died okay so for that we'll trust them says says mayor since they since they're not in it against each other five but in the case where one says he's still alive wait a minute now her testimony is not for herself her testimony is just to get her her co-wife and if that's the case we're not going to trust her you hear big enough camino they call lloyd mace when she says he's not dead baby lava kashi we're not going to trust her because she's not in it for herself she's in it to get her co-wife then we don't trust her when you're in it for herself that's something else the last case this contribution between witnesses each marriage may seem remarkably amazed how racist you look to us and she shouldn't get married bishop miller river loves our stomach here in may according to blood we can say okay i know this goes according to goes according to remember but according to that mayor doesn't argue so who does it go according to fashion says my husband died she could get married we trust we always say this entire all these dapping we're learning we trust a woman when it comes that her husband is dead and not only that she could get aksuba however if it's asura that we also mentioned earlier her testimony doesn't help she can't testify for the co-wife she only testifies first up hi sebastian's really cayenne what if the tsara is married to the queen the guy is a cayenne but she is israelis and she eats truma based on her husband now we have a big dilemma listen to this if this is a dilemma how could it be on the one hand you're saying that rahul could get married to anybody she wants because according to ruffle her husband is dead on the other hand you're saying leia could eat truma the eraser she's eating truma because her husband is alive which one is it is the husband alive or dead if he's alive and she's eating trauma so this one can't get married if he's dead because he trusts her then how could she eat truma forget about each person together there's a contradiction here in halacha and matsias nevertheless the mission says go ahead and eat turmoil hey this is a big problem where somebody she's going to be eating truman passively but aveira actually i surely not say this one might be asian this one might not be married to a cayenne so therefore nobody could get married nobody could eat room omra mays if she says first my husband died and then my father-in-law died in other words she's testifying about her mother-in-law and now we said yesterday mother-in-laws and daughter-in-laws don't get along so she has no right to testify about her mother-in-law she now say we trust her about part of her testimony that her husband is dead but the testimony regarding the mother-in-law you don't trust rabbi said one more mother-in-law joke and this one is a good one so there was a funeral the mother-in-law died and they put the coffin on the back of the carriage the the horse and buggy and the buggy the son-in-law and the relatives are on the wagon and they're going towards the funeral get close to the cemetery the cemetery get close to the cemetery and the wagon driver takes a very sharp right turn and the coffin flips right off the wagon the coffin opens up can't believe it the motherland jumps up and walks away they couldn't believe it here's a mason okay mother-in-law continues later on two years later the mother-in-law dies the funeral getting close to the cemetery we get close to that place that turn all of a sudden the sun will start screaming driver watch the turn watch the turn okay fighter omrome is oh where are we yeah so now we're with the motherland hoy sebastian's charlotte coin so everybody on shabbos came over he said i don't think all your mother-in-law jokes you have the best mother-in-law in the world it's true anybody knows susie friedman everybody knows the sweetest woman in the world and i was actually i was replying i told my father today i said it took me to to have a son-in-law to understand what kind of vura you had not to open your mouth all those years he never told me anything i told him one day hey i'm moving to israel with your grandchildren with your daughter he should have like punched me right in the face you know something you shouldn't maybe oh it should be another thing um that's just one example i could say on you know berabim there's many other examples where he could have killed me and he just ignored the whole thing but i only realized that after once you have a son-in-law you realize once you have a child you realize what it means to be a father you know that kind of thing i told them that yeah not the greatest in-laws that's why i'm allowed to make fun that's why i make fun of my wife i make fun of myself get so you could you can do that kind of stuff when it's all jokes and games and my mother-in-law doesn't watch the sheer so it doesn't really matter dude now the if the mother-in-law is married to cain she cleans eating truth same thing as we had in the racial what is the difference somebody's going to be over a very here at yes right maybe the daughter-in-law is not lying and the father-in-law actually died so the father died you should not be any trauma says why do i need two cases one about a sister-in-law a co-wife sorry a co-wife testifying about a husband do we trust her for the other co-wife and about a daughter-in-law and a mother-in-law it's the same thing where becky said in both cases with same argument retirement says we trust her we trust him for herself we don't trust him for this but he says listen since it's possible you might be eating truman don't don't eat truman since you might be with asia's ish don't don't do it but it's the same case no it's the same idea says [Music] if i'd only said the case of co-wives baha'u'llah incredible thing the reason why co-wives hate each other so much is because they have physical pain or a physical sire i should say meaning they're fighting over their husband the husband is 50 let's call it with this 150 percent so they feel it on their on themselves it's a physical thing but what's the problem with the mother-in-law the tsar melee the alma it's just words i don't know if they still say when i was a kid he says sticks and sticks and stones could break my bones but names will never hurt me which is stuss and vom right because sticks and stones could break bones and it'll heal words actually last forever okay fine but that's it's maybe they stopped saying it maybe there's a i haven't heard it in a long time they don't it's it's just okay great the tire the motherboard said a few words it's not it's not a physical thing like a co-wife aim a modulator kiva maybe since they're not in such a fight maybe she's still saying the truth so we can trust her he is my behave and if it's said only by a mother-in-law back of her kiva because he doesn't really hate her that's why he says we should trust her have a behalf but the case of co-wives that they hate each other so we can't trust anything she says in my mother tyrophan don't trust her and therefore she could eat truma therefore she could get married to someone else that love is like your retirement that we trust the women we also learn the mishna meet and liberate we're gonna have it today in the mission if a woman says i had a son be medina and mae's beni so what happens she goes to overseas she goes without a kid without a kid means that if her husband dies and he's dying childless therefore look at this kid he has a sweat get over here for a second yeah come come come around this one i just noticed something very interesting what's your name lee ah your daddy leave your son what are you how did you get here wow look at this show everybody this is tomer levy's uh nephew wow valdic nice to meet you the back come here get it you got the real deal turn around turn around to everybody oh this way this way this way get smacked to do the dot and now this way ah give valve okay same regards where's your father how can him come ah he sends you instead okay you know tomer is coming to america this week you're going you're going to the seal wow anybody else going to see him from chicago yeah you're going from salmon you're going but you're from new york who else you're going to see wow you guys have tickets already over a thousand tickets sold pushing probably like 1200 already there's going to be big news tomorrow about the zoom an announcement to be made i don't want to give it away now but there's a big announcement i hope nobody heard but yeah says a better one a better yeah okay i'm not supposed to talk about it until tomorrow where are we okay so when a woman goes overseas and she doesn't have a child she's going that she would stand liberal she doesn't have a kid now she claims we have to trust her she claims i have a son i had a son and therefore what does his son cause no you boom but you know what happened maize bini my son died so she went from being hive to ebon to being potter to you because she had a kid to being hive again so she didn't accomplish anything she left kaif she came back based on her testimony that's what we call a peshawasara passionate she said that she's not having even then she said she's gets her garnish right now it's a white it's a wash [Music] but if she says my husband died first and then my son and we know that locker that if this if this when the husband died he had a kid even for one moment there's no giveaway she wants to patter herself from ebon now when a person when a woman says i could get married to somebody else we trust her but when she says i i i'm not hypo we don't trust him let her get kalitza let's get even whatever it is we don't trust her because the point is we don't want a woman to be in laguna to stay unmarried but here she has a husband she we we can't translate her husband or that she had a kid didn't have a kid but we have to be concerned for words that we don't trust a co-wife we trust her for herself is sponsored by michael horn in honor of robbie sv medetsky the only rebbe that was actually good at basketball sponsored by nisano la zlohorohuni and gashmi from iran and kash for introducing me to emily says so i want to show you real quickly on the screen here um the two things on top this green and this red green is good red is bad oh a man says i gave kedushin to one of the five women here there's a little bit of a picture i tried to do something tonight the one on the left five women you have the birkeland five towns just to reunite everybody before we say goodbye to them for a while and then we have a case also the mission of a guy says i stole from five men stole from five people what do you do it's the same kind of idea now there's kidushin with giving money the first mission in conducion how do you encourage a woman bia is not such a good thing it's there abandoned said you shouldn't do it like that with kedusha now when it comes to stealing stealing is a very bad thing but taking reminds me now it's a miso if you speak english it's a lot better there's a guy the rabbit told them why'd you steal he says i took it i didn't steal but that's not what we're talking about over here we're talking about taking in other words you go to the store you say hey i see it all the time a guy goes i was in the barber shop oh i forgot my money they do it all the time the younger guys i'll bring it later he didn't steal he intends on paying but he forgot to pay he goes to the store and says you know let me just take some cockash cake i'll bring some money tomorrow and then he forgets about it happens all the time that's not stealing because when he he took it and he took it so when it says kedushin what's the other story going to be together with the kidusian taking what are the two bad ones in this case a guy was boyle he had beeo with one of the five women he forgot which one or he stole but when the mishnah gives us the two cases it takes one from the green and one from the red in black it says ki desh but the counter one should be lock after doesn't say look it says gaza okay we have we're gonna see there's a a mandolin says no in fact it's talking about ki deshin loka and we have riptive and says balling guzzle it's the red and one man thomas says no it's the green but our mission says one and one okay it's not that complicated it's just a very cool story it's just how how how bad was his action he gave ayers and he gave a diamond to one of the five women and all five want to be married to him they all come he's a celebrity or something and they all want to be married and he says but you know i don't remember you all look the same i don't remember where i was in college each one says you i'm the one so what do you do noise and get the collapse of the divorce five of them however um if there was a super for whatever reason he promised aksuba even though it was harrison he puts it in the middle and he runs away let them fight over it so i'm saying puts an embezz in whatever you do but he absolves himself from the skill the riptide requirements again like that's not the way you get out of it how do you think absolutely you don't know you're getting too so pay give each one a full tuba same kind of idea now like i mentioned before instead of zela what should have it said since it said key that she didn't say baal so it's using the finer one of the two from the green so it should have the counter wanted that should have been loka he took but no the mission is going into an extreme case gaza he stole from one of five main danish means godzilla right nothing seltzer bringing he has a whole book about who was it the famous guard that there was mackay people when he came about truva he had to go and he stole from a lot of people and he describes in the book how he gave back every single thing that he stole some oranges from a guy he bricks from another guy you gotta find them and locate them took them five years i think to pay people back to figure out who stole the bricks from you had to go to the city and who deconstruction and that year oh my but you stole over five people right if you steal from people you still from at sebring you don't want to pay back they say you should pay the the city you pay like pay for sidewalks things that somebody said once you guys don't know an hour shoulder stroll between cabal chavez and mario because they want to dive in after this month so you don't have to say creation by the way last night the gaba he knocks on the table everybody remember to say krishna i went on a bunch of people i said how many times have you remembered to say krishna at home that says never never when you dive in early it's a problem in america fight but a guy said as a joke he said listen if you stole from the islam the way to pay back is to give it to russia between kabbalah shabbos and mayor of if you're sorry i ruined the joke if you stole if you guessed shayna from a t-bone if you woke up a bunch of people then you give a draw shot during between cabal chavez and mairev i ruined the punch line but here it is great says the gimbal um you put down the xail you run away rudy river keyboard engineering that's not the way to do it says the guitar now i already said this whole gemara about and here it is inside this katani balikitani if you notice it doesn't use the one from the red it uses the the the nicer thing he gave kidushin it's not also to give condition to a woman but to be kind of a beat that's a problem gazakatani oh that's a big problem to steal so i took one from the red luck on it the easy one the thing that's motor to take and ask the guy permission to take something and i'll pay you back later it doesn't say that money must need any kind of value shipping been a loser it doesn't go according to anybody what's that accomplishment oh i i think instead of retirement should be ripped from minimalizer my mistake on the red i gotta fix that somehow not now this is says the case is the worst all the the two reds the baal and gaza that's what uh says again it's not when he talk it's the two reds it's gaza just like in our mission that part is good with our mission the first part is it's not enough you have to pay everybody now the governor says there's somebody that argues on this and that's the one in green on the small box if i do here no okay whatever you see this guy right over here that's what we're going to be saying now show her retirement is in the red box not in the green midlands solver please so the tanagama says the mcleagan's in the green box the problem is money who's our mission going like our mission is not green box and not red box it's the one from the green one from the red the black and the green and the black and the red it's in gaza it doesn't match any of the boxes on the bottom if you rabbit shimmy and lazar are listening it should say the two really bad ones and fine says shimanolazar it is the two bad ones baal and gaza so then why is our mr say kiddush you know what kiddush means bomb my kid is bibi uh now the marseilles so then why did i say two cases where sega originally goes that he's bial and geisel it's the same thing right republican says you you drop the suva in front of five women you run away you drop your sack of money that you stole and run away why do you need two cases says the i forgot the surgery button of it it's not a big deal he did a little bit of this and not another big answer connors nevertheless he was he he said you have to pay every single person tonight right again if a person was makadish a woman bibiya it's not the end of the world it's one of the three ways to be encouraged to mishnah but don't do it if you do it i'm going to give you a penalty you have to pay all five women exuber tony is to teach us the power of tariffs even though he did a big issue he stole you put the money down in the middle and you run away like on us says the mishnah sponsored [Music] in arizona we're almost done start putting on youtube we'll be there soon before we know a lot about it just a few minutes ago a woman went overseas with a son in other words she's not high b because even if her husband dies she has a son she's father from evil who remains bali my husband died vacation i'm potter for me you know why because my husband was alive when he died he had a son named menace because she left potter from evil and her testimony corroborates that fact that we know that she was positive from even because she left with the sun mays benite but if she changes the facts that we know she says my son died first and therefore i'm having ibu from his bally aydah menace now she wants to be with her brother-in-law maybe she likes your brother-in-law you can't trust her however she needs some sort of repair some tickle but but now you should know i was there long enough and we're actually going to have a whole thing tomorrow that it makes sense most women get pregnant later on okay so she's saying i had a child and therefore i'm potter for me boom boom remains beneath gotham his valley but that son didn't help me out because he died before my husband so when my husband died i was hiv she didn't change the facts that we know however if she's trying to change something makes badly making me my husband died and then my son sam potter from ebon aid in a menace because when she left she was hiv she wants the changes to potential we don't trust her however we have to be concerned from her words you should know when we left two hutzlarz if my husband would have died he had no brothers so i was about to remember but now there's a little guy a little brother-in-law i'm hiding even now if she says my husband died first and now i have a vom and i'm hiding [Music] now she's believed now she wants to be to say something about her brother-in-law that she could get married here's the passage we we said it so many times during the semester to see it again you're not gonna marry two sisters when they're both alive but once one of the sisters dies then you can marry your sister so comes the woman says you know my sister died you can marry me now she goes to her brother-in-law who's married to her sister she says i know her back my sister died now marry me she's not believed and a person is not believed to say you know my brother died so now you're my obama blame and he can't testify about his own wives he can marry the wife sister she says a million dollars for you why because you want it if you knew that he's going to be kind of the million dollars you'd say of course biba shlia what about again could i make you to receive a get for my wife the answer is no because it's the opposite of a million dollars it's a hype and haven't enjoyed the phone if you need a permission but what if the get is a good thing how's that a good thing this is just a story in svat eight years ago a guy was on his deathbed in a hospital and they realized wait a minute the wife is going to be so he told somebody eight years ago receive this gift from my wife but you can't receive a gift for you but in this case you could because i'm saving her from khalita the whole artichoke was flipped over sideways what are you gonna do with this woman it's not a good get it it is a good guy fine but that's what happened there ask him in order to be mizaka the of them is a disgusting creature everybody hates that yelvam i don't want my my wife to fall to give them to my crazy brother so i i'm zacchaeus she's not around she's another country i thought somebody here be zaika writer spend more than a million dollars i'm saving your life kevin is silenced since she hates him it's a great school something i'm just going to be fond of and i can do this no sometimes a system will love the brother-in-law maybe it's a bad thing for me you can't do it i'll prove to you from the mission it says in both cases whether she's trying to be with to have ibum and whether she's trying to get out of ebon we don't trust or we do trust or we say in bulkhead why because it goes on both ways either uh it's a it's good for her or it's bathroom we don't know sometimes the bbc album is good she likes the brothers and she hates him so melee you see so just give her khalid and shalom israel all aravinda accept again but give her khalid listen what if they hate each other there's a big fight right now the husband and wife are fighting it happens in the best marriages they fight it's a normal thing they say oh if you don't fight something's wrong with you great so they're in the middle of the fight now the middle effect they want to get divorced of course then they make solomon everything is not nothing ever happened so in that point when there's a big fight giving this like thought of a day for that moment it's great for her she wants you to make a shliyah for her i don't know it's better for a woman just to be married without being married is terrible now that gemara brings four different reasons why a woman wants to get married be married of tandoo milan mase the famous line it's better to be two people than to be one no matter what the case is we say it even in a crazy case of uh a ugly guy uh what he called whatever fight so even she would rather be with the the the of them than to be by herself and so we're almost done one moment woman i buy over the gabriel even if her husband is extremely short i have a picture no not of a short guy but uh just uh a guy is as short as uh an ant says the gemara he's really short like an ant course she sits with the noble women she's kashev i'm married you know it doesn't matter how tall the guy is physically so now we spoke about being married and then you have even if her husband has a physical defect the rather be married islam real quickly grandchild says they're smaller things than an ant you could say a flea why not because an ant has an ant you say look cell you can learn things from an end so even though he's short in stature but he brings hakuma omar the nap sagabro even though her husband has a terrible job he's a garbage man or he he he what he does is he he works in wool it's in those days a terrible job it doesn't matter ticket received bovo but hey if she sits out on the stoop with him and she schmoozes she shows off she's married rabashi omar they call sagara even bismarck imagine being a rabbi not being married imagine being a principal that they have a principle i know this principle not matter but imagine being a magician magazine not being it's it's certain things you have to be married so it's good to have a name i'm married i don't care who doesn't nobody looks the guy's two feet tall he works in wool i'm married i could be a rubbing rashford the coast of gabriel if even if he has some sort of blemish in his bio tops of the kidro it's good you know why because when he has a blemish in his earplus he's not going to complain about anything you can make you