Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 112 by R’ Eli Stefansky

there are 12 days left to the beginning and the start of one of the most amazing meseptus merceptus every shiva buckler's favorite subus cotton now if you don't know this already if you bring one person to the sheer or to any shear or to any tyre you share with that person it's one of the easiest ways to accumulate exposure now i was thinking about it today i'm just going to go on and i'll come back to this thought there are 730 tickets sold already for the seam in deal there's a guy by the name of shulim goldstein from montreal who's driving he told me the other day on zoom he's driving seven hours to get to the seam so if you live less than seven hours away you have no excuse we missed it's addict they're saying i heard rumors that they're closing down the registration this thursday so hop around your tickets don't be one of those guys outside looking at the beautiful mansion and not being able to come in cop your ticket boys side here on the screen as you can see the beautiful screen right over here what's going on with the screens the whole system is restarted yeah fine so you guys don't see this i will show you the picture this way yaakov yosev ayal called up pesach perez hayem levine and said i want to put a stand in the street fair on avenue m in flatbush he said no problem i'm not going to be able to be there but i'll set up you so he sets up the stem why because the power of bringing one person to this year one person to torah he hopped over 20 people without gemaras the gemars are still in storage waiting to be shipped he didn't get any demarcus convince people here he is together with how many did he give out [Music] he gave out do you give it a little merch it seems like on the table jack of zaret who says not in the back hiding usually likes to hide working the booth on the avenue m thing you'll be able to see it later on on youtube that's your son is he a shy guy by nature a little bit shy but here he is he came out the capsule okay this one i'm going to skip because the screens are not on david vandevilled with four new victims they took the hebrew one i guess he has gemmarus already for some reason okay they look like hebrews speaking hebrew oh yosef kitai spotted today in muncie here it is a car full of the merch and i was thinking to myself when i put this picture in imagine you come up to shamayim they say oh you have five thousand dollar gemara he says but i only learned one myself in my life he said no but i never even brought somebody to tara you did you had a magnet on your car and somebody's thinking about it and they looked it up and they came to the chair and goes you're wearing a cap you could also get missus like that i just boarded a flight to brussels i spotted a yid with an mdy cap and he had vomits i asked him if i could take his photo here you go for your information i'm a williamsburg listening to you daily i get a kick out of the humor you put in daily keep up the brachavats keep up bro friedman this picture is not here but this is the yid a non-satmir that he hopped learning the daf on the plate bart horowitz all my name is bart howard from lakewood new jersey by the way there's no clock oh there's a clock over there so okay i'm from lakewood new jersey i can't say enough how much your shares help me my cabrusso you saw my coin nova seller during receptions of us he wants to thank you he wants to say i'm in yeshiva and don't work i would love to come to the deal see them by the way in the house here is david badil talking about deal shalom and his father what's your name tatik stephen badil from england manchester united malayalam thank you for coming and your name morgan i'm from los angeles welcome who else do we have here south africa yeah what goldberg schmolly goldberg so i'm like yeah but you were here a few times yeah yeah but still all the way in the back who's next to you tomorrow new guy now your brother aussie ah yeah you're awesome okay tommy who's the guy next to you i want to thank you for that listen to this he's in deal and he wants to come to the seam but for yeshiva guy the price is a bit steep so i want to know if there's another option and possibly free thanks so i'll tell you like this avi and i we also tried to get a free ticket to come and they wouldn't give us avi had to pay for my ticket so i'm not sure how easy it is to get we'll work it out we'll have to get them a ticket somehow ms did you pay for my wife and my kids ms no you didn't you're going to be stuck outside it's just me cheapskate rabbit here you go check this out this is one of my favorite license plates ever are you able to show this or not yet [Music] okay fine here we go we're going to see in a second mdy daff and talking about license plates here's another one all in one day eight minutes it's a stuck to the old program and now we're ceiling here in the basement hi rebellion thank you for giving me that gizmo dive i joined share the beginning of vlogmas i never thought that i would be looking forward he looks forward every day to learn to dive with such a difficult miscellaneous please see attached picture spot in brooklyn looking forward to see you at the cm in dl shimon g and finally by charlie engelhardt i'm a member of mdy currently serving in the idf i do that for mdy when i get a chance but most but most of the week i don't have access to my phone the messifta makes pocket-sized guimaras which is able to import from england involvement is unable to find oh he's able to find free bombs it's not for exuberance because if anybody has some pocket-sized supers for this kayal let us know we got to get him some pocket-sized messiftas here and there is this row yeah well the idf is an israeli thing no is there any chance you can get the packet size fine the kylo is sponsored this month [Music] b3 bikes in lakewood the lock and leibovic families they renewed and they're on again to tell us that because hashem told me to give all my money to her belly i didn't read this and because toro is the best gula b3 he wrote me an email and he said that i should know that the more he gives them i'm not joking the more he gives them the why the more money he makes that month he wanted to know that i did not read this so that was a good one because hashem told me to give all my money to rebelli so all he has is 2 600 bucks i guess otherwise he's not listening to hashem huh yeah yeah he's sponsored he's the one the knock show and he jumped in and he's the first guy to give ten thousand dollars towards the same by the way which we don't want to be stuck with the bill so you could help out a stickle b3 kayamir goldberg for shmuley f152 and yossi f 170 goldberg nishmas i know that is that's the name what is it you ran out of characters it is zev with the aleph okay now we know uh oh right now oh good news let's go back to the email what's his name barack horowitz from lakewood i want to i want to tell you that because you requested somebody donated how many 20 tickets for yeshiva who want to come to the ceo for that person who donated it yeah oh yeah it's probably avi kamianski pretending somebody that texted him it's not him okay rabbi so here we go we have a very very ishmaka very easy with 30 charts we're a little late today but it's fine we're holding five lines from the bottom obama declared within 30 days of her yi boom that she was with the yavam that she didn't have relations she wasn't missiab and now she requires a halito so what do we do now if it's after 30 days we ask him nicely if it's before 30 days there's a concept that a pas a possibility that the oven controlled himself and therefore we force him to do halita now think about it i failed to mention this yesterday we're we're running towards then but if she says she wasn't messiab and she shows up with a get in her hand he says i don't have to give her khalid i gave her a get but she says no i was never messy abhim i need halita so that's called shavian she's making herself awesome to the world so because she's making yourself us to the world if it's less than 30 days we force him if it's more than 30 days we don't force and we ask him nicely who says that a person can control himself for 30 days there's a very famous trial done the stanford trial was done 50 years ago i just looked it up this morning and the trial wanted to prove that if they gave marshmallows or candy to a kid and they said listen here's one candy and if you control yourself for 10 minutes you don't need it i'll give you two and then they walked out of the room the kids that control themselves they followed them later on in life they were much more successful they had a better body mass index and all these great they had a better diet a better job better this better that they want to prove that if you you're able to control yourself as a kid you're you're more successful in life i thought that the study was just because maybe you're talking about smarter kids it's not a kid that could control yourself a kid that knows fine and they did another study literally two years ago the first study but let's go with the first we can go with the first study language it makes you feel better minis it's your mayor the sanyo tainas constellation we're getting there tim you marry a virgin you get she gets a two hundred zuz suba and almana gets a hundred he says after the case and he says i didn't find sulim she's not absolutely she doesn't deserve that suba if he says i wasn't with her because as soon as he's with her he doesn't have the time anymore he has 30 days to claim that he wasn't with her and as soon as he got it just happened yesterday i found out yesterday where were you for two weeks i wasn't with her i didn't know the real mayor in other words when mayor holds he could control himself with up to 30 days maybe i see anywhere mr uh if she was missing with him privately in a house louder he doesn't have any time the next morning that's it a day later you don't believe him anymore why don't you believe him because maybe he got into a fight with her and now he's going to he claims i don't have to i want to divorce her and i don't want to give it to but so we only trust him for that time immediately afterwards learning if there was no yikud he went away like ishiva guy he went in those days they used to go away for a year more so he has all that time to say that he wasn't with her rabbal mafia tim when you're engaged you know the kala and you anticipate and you're not embarrassed so i'm going to say that a person naturally he's not going to control himself for 30 days the opposite sometimes you hate your brother-in-law you're not thinking about it mrs buzzes me no she's embarrassed and he's embarrassed so maybe you could say there's a 30-day sister-in-law what did i say the brother and sister-in-law both of them he hates this brother-in-law she hates the brother-in-law he hates the system or whatever it is okay right both of them have whatever it is yeah he's inspired from her okay we force him to give khalid why why is evil not an optioner why don't you why is the only thing going on here khalid tell them listen if you want to be me abba what empty evil says as we explain we're talking about well isn't the bigger mitzvah to be miyaban so why are we giving him bad advice to dukhalitsa now we said the other day according to abishal the bigger myth of today at least is to do khalifa because a person that doesn't have the right kavanah and then the kid is similar to a monster but this kind of maybe doesn't hold like that or it's the better mitzvah it's the original mitzvah we're talking about a woman who comes with a get now regardless even if there's no ye bomb he could give her a get i mean there are bonang to get asurzer right we said there is a get by yavim even if they had nothing to do with each other they gave her again and now she becomes also to everybody may space so now that more wants to prove whether or not it's possible that you had to get messed up the ibama says there's no iphone going on this is what we had until now and after 30 days if we don't force him we ask him nicely here he marries navalty now we're talking about after 30 days she says ebon took place roy meir loy balti he says all i need to do is kalisa she says i need to get i raised it yay to beget because after 30 days kazakh a person was me abhim and mma law she requires a get hawaii mayor by altivires la nivadi after 30 days he says yes in fact it was ebon and she says no um even though he comes back and says i was never with her srihar oh here's the problem it says she requires a get now if you're telling me that it's talking about she already had to get she showed up the best with the get so what does it mean she requires a get she needs another get she has to walk away with two giden why does she need halita because she says i wasn't with him if she wasn't with him get doesn't work she's still in obama and she requires khalido to be freed of the world chavez fine but it says over here that she needs a get why does she need to get right it's going back to the ratio it's all the same thing it's all the one thing one case so if over here it says she requires a get that means only in the beginning also when when we said it mimics our mishnah means that there was no get omirobami no it doesn't mean she she requires another get she already has a get like we said she just requires khalidza together with the get that she has not a second get with the first get she takes a khalito that's what it means ravage you on my no ravage says it fits better into the words afl-pi in rashi hassam get the zika we're talking about that he gave her two guitars in she asked me but why she already has again no one get was a completely different guest it was a get that spoke about the the eboom status he tells her you're not my ibum anymore in the get so it's about the zika he's trying to break the zika with the get but then afterwards he had relations with her so now she requires a regular get hassan get lizzy it's too now if we go back he says i had relations with her and then he says nevertheless he has to give her a get fits in nicely now there was a couple and they both come and they say we both agree that we never had relations there's no gibbon ever they were together for 30 days does the kamehameha now to begin with so again the stories to begin with he said i was miaber then he admits that he wasn't you have to stick that in first he says that was me having then he says that wasn't me and he comes with her and brought them together i wasn't miami and it's after 30 days but they both say that he wasn't me adam so what do you do and end the fight is that what we learned no that's different than what we learned oh malay rav shravi larova of attains what are you telling him just to give her khalitza yes you're right you admit that you didn't have relations with her and therefore it's only khalita but we learned before that after 30 days this is a hazaka that a guy's not going to control himself so here she requires a get in addition to the khalita why are you saying that she doesn't need to get um tanya tanya you're right okay if there's such a braiser i'm rava i'm an amara i'm not much to know all the prices in the world i didn't know that bryce so sorry made a mistake so rob admits you have to give a guess was the son of nachman who's wife's name what's revelation's wife's name yalto what huh english is hon and there's a company like the the filing cabinets that's how you pronounce it han okay okay fine also had a daughter her name was dung for real anyways a lot of interesting names here yalta hoon minda rav nachman he asked his father hi nasty father of nothing sir mao so take a look at the at the chart for a second you have reuven he's married to two women leia and if you look closely i don't know if you could zoom in on that what you guys could see okay now how do you get back oh i messed it up oh no oh there so he goes ahead ruvain does one of these he goes bye-bye so now two women fall to shimon they're not related not sisters shimon decides it's gonna be from today he's going with the i've got a lady guess what no 30 days later she comes to bed and she says he was never with me and he's like yeah no wonder [Laughter] so what's allah does leia could that mess up leia because we have halal speaking they were together they went to the same house they were missing it's more than 30 days but shiitain is like this could hurt china affect her tsara herzer says i want to be free there's a evil that went on there i'm free to the world and she says no there's no evil went on here well no evil that went on here is your problem you decided on your own to make it easy for yourself but you can't make me also to the world how does that work on me um so because we force shimon to go ahead and give her khalissa that's why it's going to ruin it for somebody else okay now rashi says this person is a boy allah out there he has relations right away and chaby okay there is hannah if a woman in the mission that says if a woman said i'm not going to have any benefit from the of them from her brother-in-law and later on her husband dies not awesome but there's three women who go out and even though they cause the get they still get exuberant we don't penalize them if the wife of a cayenne she says i'm sorry to inform you and this only works for the kite she was outside somewhere and somebody violated her terrible story it wasn't her fault but since she's married to a client she can't go back to the client so he must divorce her he trusts her because why would she do that to herself why she make herself such a rumor about herself like that and she takes iksuba now you understand the problem there what if a woman hates her client husband she just walk over and say hey doesn't this happen to me and he'll be forced to pay to pay your tsuba says the gemara another case has that you were never with me or that you can't have children that's something that nobody in the world could could testify only hashem he must divorce her and give her ex the act is too painful says rashi and therefore annoy that no from any jew in the world she doesn't want to think that it's something personal no i'll never get married again she says so he divorces her and gives her aksuba but then they realize this is getting out of hand a woman could want to get married to another man and run away to faraway city says rashid that they won't know that she said this this this kind this is the story behind it um she ruins it for us but if she comes up with this story tell me write let her prove it let her go to the hospital and bring it right that this is what happened hashem benny levine oh if she says that only hashem knows that we don't have relations we're not together yasudar bakasha what does that mean says rashi he should start treating her nicely tyson says they should make a nice big meal and they should make up there's a beautiful story one of the nicest i should say one of the most romantic stories i've ever seen in madrid major says with about that a couple who was married for ten years didn't have children rushing by told them you have to get divorced and he advises the husband make a tremendous meal a big pseudo invite everybody a go away party so the husband made a big party and they were drinking and everybody got drunk and the husband told the wife take anything you want from this house one thing the night the best item in this house fine he out of his drunkness he falls on the ground and goes to sleep she tells her servants pick him up and bring him to my father's house so they pick him up and they bring him back to her house he wakes up he's given schwarzenegger he wakes up in his first house can't be any worse what's going on here where am i she said you're drunk so why am i here she said you told me to pick the best thing in the house i picked you so so they went through it he said oh if that's the case i'm gonna dive in then he realized see darwin and nine months later no that's not them the story i mean but they had a child i don't know when but they had a child says sorry i don't want to have anything to do with any man in the world joffre now we know we mentioned this before it's very important to remember a husband could be made for his wife's nidarim and all them if it's negative to him oh it has a lot to do with him so now he could be made for his and say i'm going to be with you nobody else in the world the rest of the people have nothing to do with him shall in fact be also the rest of the world did she mean to the evil did she ever think in her mind that it's going to have anything to do that her husband is going to die one day suddenly without children rav says he you don't have to be me fernando like your husband and she's muttered to the yavam motor to the album means mother to the album not like a husband who has to be method not true he has to be maefer could yavon be made for that this woman's nether no way he's not a husband oh my bad people say there are mistake bro i'll prove to you that right is right it's not honey there's if the woman makes another she's not going to have anything to do with her brother-in-law she hates her koifa noises she acquires in there and she falls to him he must give her khalita because she didn't know that she is going to be a yobamba one day i'll prove to you that rav is right that the woman never thought about ye boom because if she did think about ibum then we can't force him we can only ask him nicely my vaccine is [Music] sponsored by mushy horn in honor of hillsand spanish with vanessa rouhani and kashmir for miranda cash for introducing me to mdy it's a very very easy mission that we're going to see a very long one don't worry about it we'll do it in three minutes how can i skiing on our mission is talking about the issue about him the reason why she never thought for a second that she's going to have evils because she has five kids the goliath she's not she never realized that they're all going to go down in one boating accident or something she didn't like but you're telling me you're admitting to me that if she doesn't have children with action then she probably did have intent not to be missible oh if that's the case the classic gamora question added law so then why does the mission talk about a case where she had havana against the brother-in-law forget about that case live like listen to me though say one case two sides of the case remember my movement is if you're already telling me a case that she has children and therefore she's not thinking about it so the the flip side of that is when she doesn't have children so the mission should say two cases with children without children because a woman never thinks about the evil when she when she's married she's not thinking about that situation that that is just like i said if you look in the mishnahs on your vamas you'll see that this giant mission is actually four missionaries they broke into four for whatever reason the the vilna whenever they print the shas it's one long mishna this is a very very short parrot only two and a half days two and a half daff so we're going to fly through these charts and i don't if you don't mind just leave it on the board i'm going to come if you want to look at the follow me on the board and you can look over there so we have uh two cases over here aheresh marries a pikachus in other words this is the rabbon on marriage or pikayak marrying of the rabbon on marriage if he wants a divorce he could divorce the divorce why because as the lord can explain he got married like that or the mishnah got married like that how do you get married with sign language so he can divorce the sign language the of course he could give a get if he wants to no problem if he wants to remain married no problem i guess i guess you think that maybe you can't be married to them the only robot you could who are deaf mute and halal speaking not it's possible that they have a lot of cycle but in those days when they they couldn't communicate not hear and not speak then their iq is very low with with different advances and the way we we we we know how to communicate today it's a lot different i guess i would assume his shame should question the reason why affairs could give a get is because the whole marriage is the rabbi onto a robot and instituted the takana that he could give a divorce the rabbana kind of divorce the they're only marrying their abundance they leave bidderabana because check out this one you have a normal guy marrying a normal woman and something happened to her now this i don't understand the metis so well how's the possible person with a very high iq loses her hearing and her ability to speak she she her iq gets lower somehow not exactly sure how that works of course you could divorce her why because the pikayak doesn't need das he gives a divorce remotely they get dementia later on in life wow they're not communicating so something their brain starts uh spazzing out a little bit and they get the mention i hear very nice says dr factor finally he says that people with hearing issues and and they can't communicate so they get dementia earlier interesting nistatus so she actually got dementia that makes a lot of sense to mention it's hard she doesn't have a lot of of a pikachu she has the lack of a shout out but if she really became meshuggah la yayati he should not divorce her again it's executed not to divorce a woman that is a shaytan because they'll make her health care the violator whatever niskareshu on estate if he the husband who has to give the gift became a shayta or any mercy illuminati has no ability to divorce allah why is it that somebody doesn't have das could get it could receive a get version is harsh and inviting what's the difference between a man and a girl it's not fair i really don't mean there's no there's no there's no comparison so isha yo it's alert so you know vishal either say you don't need her invites the other side but the man has to have das and he doesn't have dance he can't make it again he testified and that's allah every time you have a deaf mute girl then her father married her off a father marries off his daughter that's their rising marriage so she you beget you could divorce her with again and they told them this pikachus who became in this in this in this case right over here on the board who became a heritage later on in life that's the same thing she started out bidoraiza just like the girl started out with their so later on she became of the rabbun on she lost her mind she nevertheless you get divorced with a gut now we already had all these cases two days ago the very they're the exact same case all six cases there are abundant marriage how if one person in the marriage is a heritage is there about a marriage so we have six cases hell schneider we're gonna start three cases with the both brothers are hershim and what is with the sisters either they're both deaf or they're both not deaf or 101. believe it or not when we go to the two women that they're both deaf as you see in this exact case we're going to repeat this case but we just want to go in order make it easy to remember three on the men's side three on the women's side but i'm saying this case is going to be repeated this is their abundance should be their abundant ship but there are on or two of the sisters are smart normal but because the husbands are deaf it's their about marriage or now we're going to go to the women both women sisters are deaf that's the case we have before obviously or both brothers ah this is the case we have before if we remove the fact that the two women are sisters by putting a big x on the the not sisters the strangers there's no problem let's say in this case that we're looking at let's say the piquet from the bottom dies so the heresh he can marry as many women as he wants they're not related let him marry her vim wrote to the heights you and because he married her it's only their abundant so he could be mighty with the gut next case schneiderin look at this on the screen right boy's eye this is the new maze the potato head falls into pieces so [Music] if the haresh goes by by now that marriage is what adira bono marriage you're with me still what are you trying to figure out there's nothing to figure out here it's terrible death the haresh in the there are bottom marriage dies is there a bottom dikka um marriage so the pikachus who falls to the bequeath who's married by the way topicakas the the top guy he's married to the goddess it's a regular the rise of marriage immediately as somebody forced him a sister foster libra what happens to her she gets bounced because she's a sister you can't have be married to two sisters she gets bounced however may speak but what if the top guy dies and in other words the direction of marriage dies and now sorry and now the the erasing obama forced liberm to the to the rabban on marriage it's a choice only madura bonan in this case he must divorce his own wife because she's a high school kasai the the arisa she falls directly to him that bounces his illegal wife he's not illegal but his semi their abundant wife that he has the asians and he cannot he can't perform khalid so why can't the heritage perform khalifa because he's a haresh mma law he can't do khalifa so therefore the one that felt him is also forever why can't he be me abher two the regular guy who was married there upon a marriage it's the rabona marriage why because she's a heritage and if the normal guy was married to normal woman which is the rise of marriage my as we get about here what should he do with the the picaffe was married to the rabbana what should he do is to beget he must divorce his wife because now he has a problem he has a vomit the arises that felt him he must get rid of his wife and since he's a biker he can he could perform khalid because he's a normal person so he gives her khalifa she's not allowed them like we had the kids before two brothers one is married to the same type of people that they are so they became married to the catholics this sounds familiar because we had it two days ago mace harish here we're going with another type not a broken one the heresh dies that there are butter marriage dies so now the hires falsely bomb only she gets bounced to the robot and gets a bounty mei spike but if they became oh did you guys see this the guys in the back are loving it now they're thinking about coming to that vietnamese dies upside down gray did they raise a guy he's married he rises to the right a wife now his director yevama falls to his brother the herish who's married only in a robot kind of marriage what's going to happen we know what's going to happen should we get he must give his wife a divorce because now a stronger zika or wife came into the picture and his wife is only the rabbit vaishazaka he can't perform khalido why can't they perform khalifa because he's a haresh and shama israel two brothers one is regular one is a big avenue and ocarina is piccolo's but the wives are both pikas however the guy that's he's only married so the guy who's a parish who's only married he dies now check it out they are not sisters the two greeners are not sisters so therefore the smart guy the regular guy can marry as many women as they want including the obama that comes to him from the rabona yeebo [Music] if the the the rise of marriage dies and therefore his wife falls leave him in their eyes he cannot do halita because he's so but he could be why why give me her benny because she falls in with the eraser but he has a problem cannot give a get in the right situation when a herish marries somebody so the whole marriage is the rabbun on in that case what he could give a get because just how he got in that's how he goes out but in this case he didn't ask for this marriage it happened by itself so mela and he might see law hello next case only a few more lines in chakras we started very late that's why we're here what the reason is you can't give a gift the reason in what case we're talking about this case yes okay what do you mean she falls to him and he's kind of sir the because her now what to give a gift give to first man yeah it's a dirt racer it's a you're saying it's because it's because okay i can pick him up to pick him married to two oh i gotta take off that thing over there it says sisters so you gotta remember yourself in chart number 24 you got to take off the word sisters you see it stay i can pick you're not going to be able to just put it on fast speed and edit you're going to have to stop somewhere it's unbelievable that's the first mistake i made here with all these crazy i think i can't the people are waiting next i'll do it afterwards okay fine the the guy that's married in the rabbana on marriage he dies there's no khalito why doesn't it because she's deaf mute so you can't be toilets but it could be me vimrata laity and if he wants a divorce afterwards if they rise in marriage he dies not related so he's allowed to do whatever he wants if the other way around the guy on top he dies though the rice guy dies he can't do khalifa because he's clerish he's kindness have a wonderful you