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somewhere else then it never went in front of him it didn't fall in front of him that is a problem she ate garlic and then she spit out i told you this story but it's very negative here we were only married about two weeks my wife has never made a meal in her life today she's a phenomenal cook but back then she never touched the pet she decided to invite her parents with shabbos so for some reason i don't know what the reason is but it gives me a lot of um what's the word you'll understand her father hates there's only one food he hates and that's garlic so she decided to make cornish hens with garlic and it said a clove of garlic mice's shahaya she didn't know what a clove is but she knew what garlic was so she put the entire garlic in every chicken and her father came and he took a bite out of it and he was wow this is unbelievable and he ate the whole thing and he was smiling the whole time and he afterwards he said he wanted to throw up the entire time that's anytime my wife makes something i don't like i just go back to that story it's not her fault like she knew her father hates god she did it anyways what's the shot who knows uh yeah ah tomorrow so if she spat after she ate some garlic might like imagine my shiver spitting afterwards what is it from is it the spit or it comes from the the garlic aqua gargista this is interesting some chewed up clay some something from the ground since we're actually ruxin and she spit it out lyoceville club my time up viarco me atmavina it has to come from her own body not from another source veleka that's why this is the minute today that the the obama doesn't eat from the night before my robots they have to see the spit coming out of the mouth by the way yesterday's video i couldn't i saw it on somebody's screen i really didn't see the spit coming out of that cutout you hear people laughing you don't know why maybe i don't know i didn't have to go back and see maybe blew it up or something that i would not be it's if i was the dying on that case and i and people laughing but you don't you don't see the spit you're not yet so you have to see it coming out of the mouth who announces [Music] the official mission of brand new park is sponsored lily nishmas with mayor hill better above roams so now we're going to be discussing it's only five days this peric gonna be discussing mion so meon just be careful gary this uh don't show the screen me on what's meow so we had a number of times many times after we'll go over in case he's just starting today that is midair i saw a father can marry off his daughter who's a miner below the age of 12. once he dies he doesn't have the right to marry her off or they don't have the the sons well he's dead the sons the brothers the mother don't but midday rabbanan we don't want people to treat her befkeros she doesn't have somebody to discipline her maybe she might go out and who knows what so they allowed the brothers and the mother to marry off miranda but there's a concept called mion in that there are bun on she could refuse the marriage at any given time she could just say i don't want it say maybe different words we'll see or show action that she doesn't want the marriage according to some and it the marriage is gone we have five mahlerson in the mishnah in the kylo they came up with aleph base gimmel dalit arusa bal gomo as you're going to see there there's a guy by the name of gumo dayanim do you need thai on him or not they on him and the last thing in the mishnah is what if she's been mine five times could she do five million or she's only allowed once it's a one-time deal or she could do more aleph based gimmel dalit hey if you want to remember so aleph ella russo is aleph a russo bishop of the opinion that when she's in stage one of the marriage right before the suin comes erusin we call it engagement not really but there's a full ring the whole process sometimes it lasted for a year during that stage she could say i don't want to be engaged i don't want to be a naruso but once she's married shyama it's too late um not true even a married girl she's 11 years old middle of her marriage she gets upset at her husband she says i'm out of here marriage is over. her first husband dies she falls leave him to the brother now what could she continue the same thing she was able to do with her original husband so he died the second husband the the of them takes over that position now she could continue saying it no only the husband the lady of them she could do it to the bomb we're going to see a little bit more in the gemara so that's the base bow beside my ring before ube the fun of the shallow fan of so this is a story in the gemara about gummo not such a great guy so they said you could do it even chile befan of so that's the gimbal gomo so can you do uh miyun could she go to three people to the autumn and say i don't want to be married to him he's a jerk but he's not here he's in europe somewhere skiing doesn't matter i'm telling you today i don't want to be married to him it absolves the marriage beside me four times she does it once next does it again keeps on going overland basilica menace victor i feel like basil are the opinion you can do it over and over what's crazy noisy stroll they are not hefcare huh look over there [Applause] hey is you left me on my tongue here i don't know i had a lot of fun me and gary were laughing for an hour after they left it's unbelievable give out i called up my friend you saw me i said i need i need 10 guys to come to my basement i didn't want to do it outside wake up people in 20 minutes below he goes for 20 minutes two taxis arrived here my efforts on here right over here now 20 minutes maybe 17 minutes [Music] whatever you always anything with your showers after stickle anyways anybody ever hear this alive comes from this missionary right here ella me anderson so she does me on once and then the mission says she does immune a second time i'm sorry if it's nothing she gets married nothing besides i say you cannot do it four or five times you do me on then she waits until she's older and then it says after she's older for time which is a pellet plum what at least somebody enjoyed it he's from beth right get over here come you try get over i gotta do you know these guys a little bit who knows there's a guy hiding he was so serious the whole time the guy in the back left and the guy in the center was unbelievable he's so i know [Laughter] come here and tell me that he said it's going to cost me for the rest of my life he knows what he's talking about that's what i did in the storage not in my house they said should we come to your assets no no no no okay [Music] we have a number of reasons why is it the rektano again she gets married and sorry and cannot do me on y if she's married she can't do me only tonight venezuelan when a person gets married even if he makes a condition with his wife you have to do a hundred jumping jacks everywhere once he gets married and he's with her relations he's michael everything so there's no tonight so if there's no night in a regular marriage people might come and say wait a minute she's married over here venus if this youngster is married i'll say maybe should i be in a suit why is she out of it because she's tonight and she didn't agree tonight people are going to get confused nicholas has to go mario that's great if they consummated the marriage where is the why would he be michael or michael again because he does love her he brought him to the chuppah then he's boyfriend anyways this is the the step right before relations and mma law he's michael at that point as well masara abolish looking but there's another step that's not as there's no closeness like just by giving or not so much the father you have to say rashi right away he jumps on this he's said it a few times in the septa doesn't mean the fathers it means the brothers the kayak of the father but if the brothers give her over to there's no love yet there's no there's no connection between the two there's only two messenger bonus didn't make enough mena between once she's in the parasha of getting married that's it um nobody's going to make mistakes if you still don't worry about it everybody knows that we're talking about a minor below the age of 12 and a minor can do meow rabbit ravioli what's the reason to be shy that octano who gets married cannot do me on time what's going to happen when she decides that she doesn't want this marriage so all the eloise the relationships they had together turn into znos so a person doesn't want to render all his beatles news so he's never going to marry her what's the whole thing want this man to marry her to take care of her and prevent her from going off to derek nobody's going to want to marry her nobody wants to be calm and naif and say that always be so their mellow their whole thing of meon is ruining their takana to get married okay that's great if they had relations with no relations why not why can't you be might mine again the same concept as we he went he did brought in the rash of shiva there's a whole thing and brought the whole thing now it's going to be a choppa that was done by israel's caviar it's like she uprooted to begin with master abuse okay like we had the question before there's no hope yet so what is he concerned about it was only giving over to a messenger loyal grand bana we just have to make one rule that fits everything well so everybody knows that this guy intended to be a good guy he's not annoyed if he's not doing any sure he did everything aloha she happened to uproot the the kidusian luma freya and it turned into be lesnos so that doesn't concern him that much rap papa omar nobody in trouble is going to point at him say oh you know yeah if you boy he'll be lost his nose my time with the we're concerned about her nakasana that she comes in with mixing log like we had so i'm barzo so embarrassing is a salad she comes in with a nursing home he has to give her back with with uh if it went down in value up in value has to give back exactly as is but nixon log he gets to use the uh the payers he doesn't have to be concerned about anything so we're concerned this guy if he knows that she could absolve the marriage and get get out of this marriage no problem he's not gonna take care of her stuff he's just gonna ruin it he's gonna if the rule is you don't plan twice a year just once a year planned three times a year what does he care he'll ruin her field it's not his he's just using it he's trying to squeeze it for what he could get if he's married to her and everything from the field that says he has to take good care of it time it is and retroactively get rid of the whole marriage he'll sit there and he'll eat up the pay rise the soy sauce will make that kaiyama this woman is not going to be his wife so what does he care she brought a nursing home he's not going to upgrade he's not going to do anything he's just going to squeeze the nursing home into the last dime or may still have the rabbit came in the harvesting and if he's scared that she might do me he's going to take good care of her property why suffer the eloy if he won't take care of it it'll like prevail they'll start all the relatives say look at this jerk he's not taking care of you well map killer they're gonna they're gonna give her advice to just just say the words you don't want to be married then done so he's going to take good care of the nursing home row of all my time to be shyama another shot she know them to realize who wants to make a whole wedding with the with the photographer with the band and everything it just goes into the garbage two days later uh i don't want to be married you do this and this with the you know how it goes the first few weeks ah i didn't you're supposed to do the toothpaste like this and the toilet seat like that oops i'm out of here there's a learning curve over there and there he doesn't want a whole hundred thousand dollar hassan in the garbage or basil who call it the issues no they they don't care what happens uh later on he's gonna absolutely she's gonna solve the marriage as long as he has a shame married there's a elder broken chevron like i think he's like 40 something years old he got married and like two days later got divorced he said well what's shot he said no the shidduch market for the divorce is a lot stronger that's why i need i wanted hashem gaurus it's much better okay different names different things eventually you have a beautiful mccoy the the the three in green are like a side map like this we're going to be discussing the main child here is very interesting what kind of power does mion have when this youngster let's call her 11 year old she looks at her husband says i don't want to be married to you what does it do what does it accomplish does it get rid of their marriage but what about if she falls leave him he didn't marry her yet at the album she fell to him she's in that in between stages the zika she's bought to him but she's not his wife yet could she look at the of him and say the same words i don't want to be married to you and it absolves that as well so that's my flag is number one shai says no it doesn't work for zika it only works for marriage and allah says it works for both okay now whenever another much like this just so you have a little hazard when we get there not important for now what happens if there are two brothers and she looks at one brother and she says i don't want to be married to you how does it affect the second brother is she out of it completely or she's only out of it for him or she's not out of it at all those are the three sheets all three mikoto lokatsu if she says i don't want to be married to you i'm not married to all 10 brothers all 10 are not there's no zeke or not only does it not work for the brothers it doesn't even work for him so i can she could marry him after she said i don't want to be married she can marry him or she could pick and choose and say i don't want to be married to you so she's done with that guy but she could be married to the other brother so we'll see that mcleggis as well and somehow that those three are connected in in a way to the first two says the gemara abhishami remember madison she has the right to do meown to mimer in other words if the yavam so i didn't explain it well before if the album goes ahead and gives her conducion we said that conducion only works mid-randon so if she does mean it gets rid of that therabana but it doesn't get rid of the zika of the rice ezekiel that she's bound him she can't get married to anybody else unless the album gives her khalito yeah this is in basil she accepted the kidushin from her yavam matsuyakura that she has power over she could say i don't want it but it happened midday rise to the torah put her there bonded to that yavam layman's talker she can't undo it that's the gemara step before that which is zika she doesn't have power over it and it's a costume says no oh sponsored by mr horn in honor of hillazand sponsored by nissano lots locha rukhni and gashimi from rad and akash for introducing me to mdy we're at nakash doing the crazy amount of work 100 literally hundreds of hours of work to get the seam together the only person that really appreciates it probably is tomer he knows what kind of work goes into that huh it took him like a month to recoup from that scene that we did why could this makes a lot of sense why could she do mion to the zika the band that she has with the album missouri kanbai because what she really what she's doing is not she's not dealing with the zika she's going back to the original marriage yes her husband is not alive anymore when he was alive she had the right to say i don't want to be married to this guy so when he dies also she says two weeks ago when i was married to him i don't want to be married to him and she's undoing that acrobat the very very first mission of ivana's which i was told needs to be redone with newer and better charts kind of turned people away from your vomits that one day that was a disaster not whatever it was the first time using the graphics you're using different software siri just went off i don't know what happened interesting okay sorry by the way i have to i have to announce this because we're getting i'm not exaggerating we got at least 40 emails about this device which is not so clean right now but we have a working prototype we don't feel comfortable yet to send it out but we want to send it out we want to make sure that it's there for the the boys going to camp you have no idea how many parents most of them [Music] are on the bottom the kid sir so obey now it's going to keep on going lemai saw it's a beautiful idea bezier shaman will happen where morty room is working very very hard on it a bunch of people gary's working on it over time vision will have it even for cam if not not but we need to make sure it's a good product that it comes out and so you can't break into it you can't this and everything works fine okay we only want to give out a hundred and we have more than 100 requests so we'll see what happens sell i should say not give out sell unless not when you're sponsoring all hundreds you said yesterday you want to sponsor something i don't know okay yeah yeah yeah for three three i know i got it 100. you have to be maximum a little bit okay ace vera lula cause i i got off track here because i was thinking about that base which was a stickler disaster unfortunately but okay over here you have two brothers the baldwin brothers and one of them shimon has a daughter and then what happened was ruvain marries his niece how does he marry a niece so rashi i said it on the first mission i remember saying it how could how could you get married to uh how could you do meow could only do me on when a brother marries you off not when the father marries you off and over here shimon is alive the answer is because she this is her second marriage she got married and she got divorced she's she's she has a what a life she's 11 years old she's already on her second marriage fight now the guy she married had another wife the five towner and the guy went sideways by the way i don't know if you noticed this there's a new stick all the way up to me it goes from a blue suit to on a side in gray it's a different okay fine so the aloha is that since let's go back to the problem the problem is that two women fall to shimon his own daughter dicta and atsara this is the first mishna these are one of the 15 soros since shimon cannot marry his own daughter obviously what does he do with the with the five town or that felt him leave him what's this problem because she fell to five town in midair iso the the youngster his own daughter only fell in the rabbana and she wasn't really married to the brother halachically midday raisa rabbanan said it's a quasi marriage it's a marriage that if she just says i don't even matter she's out of it it's not a real marriage so for that you can't tell the 510 to go walk take a hike it was a real irv fight but if a real sorrow great it's a real error but not a real tsar so the halacha is we do khalidso at least just get give her something certainly not evil because of the there are bottom problem here that she's at sort his own daughter but give the five-towner khalitza so what's the problem if the little girl could do me on after her husband ruvain goes bye-bye so let her do me in today with that karina lucille come over to him let her do me on and she'll turn out that she was never ever married to to ruvain and now reuben is left with one wife the five towner and that one wife could have igbo suzukimaru tsars er vashani you have to be careful with the source ever what people are going to say it looks bad the tony romney bachelor myan babal if this is unbelievable the the little girl does me on to her husband let's say [Music] she did me on two well this is mar's question letter this this is step before let the girl do me on to ruvain then it turns out that she was never married to there's a different chart she's never married to ruben therefore shimon can marry the five talent sigmar says if the girl was married to to rooven and she did miun to levy a brother then she cannot marry the yovum's father once she did ebon uh mion to a brother she can't marry that brother's father the guy in the the hamburg if she did meon to the husband like to ruvain then she could marry rubin's father it's unbelievable meown absolves the marriage so much so that they had no connection they were never married if they were never married so then she could go ahead and marry ruben's father but if she didn't mean to the brother she can't marry the father alma why bishops nephilo nirius lassoing it looks like a kalo i'm not going to go into that whole story again whereas in hotel there's a group of people there that weren't so religious but they wouldn't eat they were eight comments on pesach but they wouldn't eat anything that looked like gabriel's and and hummus like a piece of pizza that was kosher le pesach they wouldn't eat my sushi they wouldn't eat it but real comets that didn't look like comets that they would eat nearest something that looked we have to be very careful about looks hakanami bishas nafilo and mires so it's it's there are a bunch of things a problem the reason why we don't advise the girl to make me on today so that her co-wife the five towner can marry the brothers because it looks better looks like atari yeah just to go back so everybody's understanding here if we get rid of the girl in this picture it still looks bad shipment cannot marry the five-towner because it looks like he's marrying the co-wife of his daughter even though she absolved the marriage it looks bad omar omar mina bise asure eliza okay so here if this girl did me on to one brother says rav we have a three-year-old macaques remember we discussed this could she marry you she didn't mean on one brother does it affect another brother like yehuda rap says yes it affects this author mean if a girl or a woman any obama receives a get from one brother all the brothers are usur sumeon works similar to get buzzed us to all the brothers she's allowed to marry yehuda will they damage the balance i get it there's no correlation to get balance again who they call it love but when a man gives a get to a woman he doesn't pick and choose who they get to work for he gives her one get that's it she's divorced to everybody so ruins it for all the brothers but meown she's doing meown and she says i don't want to be married to you but i want to be married to him she she's picking and choosing how can you go to the bay never yeah yeah we're talking about your vomit mirror one one of them she said i don't want you the other one i want me to move does nothing here i could she can marry even the guy in this picture lady she could marry him even though she did me says gemara limited shy spirit lay so revisha is this the one that says that mion only works for mimer doesn't work for zika you see on the top over there it doesn't work for zika so the fact that she's looking at levy in the face and says i don't want to be married to you riverside says it doesn't do anything zero so melissa you can marry him isn't that what ravasi is saying no what he's trying to say is that she can't pick and choose once she says i don't want to be married to you it it it includes all the brothers from that one zika that she had she can't say i want to be married to you not to you divorce half one guy and not the other guy it doesn't work like that he also robin i said divorce i mean mion but in la saber's house and like a divorce she's looking at all the brothers i want to divorce you get rid of you i don't want it doesn't work like that all or nothing so he comes along and he says if she doesn't mean in one she's muted to the brothers but what does that mean muted to everybody even the one she did it to or only able to the other brothers they didn't they didn't agree with him milo heidi what does it mean uh rav rav didn't agree to this what does rav say look at ralph raph says meena bazaar sura lazer raf says once you do one min all the brothers become awesome so it doesn't work with the rebellion raymond says no she's muted to the other brothers shayo rabishaya says that you could do meow only to miami not to zika so it didn't work doesn't work at all why because when he says it's mashed with daft of the brothers rashid says rashid explains rabbi again says mutter to the brothers it doesn't say mutter remember not to the one she's looking at and talking to but according to vishaya it would work for the one she's talking to because it doesn't work on zika it only works on mimer so melo rabbishaya and some say that it disagrees with rivassi there have as he says even to him himself on that he's arguing he says no rubio only said only to the brothers not the to the guy that she looked at in the face okay bishop let's try to get to the mission here bishop remember you see that you don't have to be in front of the guy she doesn't have to be in front of the husband to say i don't want to be married to you what's the savara i saw him showing him sometimes if you're in front of the husband she's embarrassed maybe she won't do it maybe she has a little bit more confidence she's on the other side people are convincing her do it in front of the guy see michelle well you see by pisanagama you didn't they didn't say he was a ghana if he's a bad guy instead of filling up a whole cup like this when you tell it's a muscle he would use the the underside of the cup the smaller side he was a ghana basically he took her nixie malog like we were talking about before and he was he was he was abusing her property so he they punished him this is the gemara ho perry so if he's eating nixie milo nasui you you don't get nick same look you don't get to use the nursing home if you're just engaged or if you're married unbelievable in the mission of beijing say you can't be married only arusa no mion says the gemara incredible thing trey kitri abdubay they pulled off two schticker two tricks first of all they said that a a married woman could do me in this case only because he's a bad guy and second of all it doesn't have to be in front of him ask tyson do they bring to your xiaomi you can't do it how could you be mata asia because you want to punish a guy meow doesn't work when you're married so this goes on to say that it does work according to meshami just they said it doesn't work or afkinora as we learned in the mission of base no dalid dayanan you need the aeon you need three abayoma basil the fact that in the mission they say you don't need that younim you don't need best doesn't mean you don't need bezen what they're saying is you don't need professionals with smirko [Music] you need three people everybody knows besides they need three the question is what type of three laymen or you need [Music] after the fact it seems like the max are if you did only with two ayden which is incredible because yesterday we learned in the name of nachman that you need three and in fact the kimora made it that's why they proved that one is right this one is not so right because if you have its requisite that means he really said it with the with the trihusa you could do me on four or five times what do you mean and afterwards the mr says that she should go ahead and be mine afterwards when she's when she becomes ignore what she already did is when she gets older she says i approve of the me and i did when i was 11 years old i still don't want to be married to that guy in other words if she says i don't approve then she could undo the meal that she did and be married to that guy the guy is up the creek you can never marry that that that age group tony no you don't do me on twice what the mission means to say is oishita marvel tagged about the artist either you do nissuen because it is suin would it you can't do me so make sure you get married and therefore there will only be one million in this girl's life the other option is out there i'm sorry would i say oyster tagged with the either you get engaged again but when when you're ignola or to my between hustle out there or she could get married right now and she's a china because if she's in a sewer she won't be able to be mine anymore so the kits are what he's saying is there's only one mion in the mishnah but two different cases i understand the lotion let's wait until she gets older and then she'll get married you don't need another meal cashier the lotion is not so good because he says wait until she's a doula and make sure she like the meal but that doesn't fit so well into the lotion tasha and cassio have a wonderful day you