Daf Yomi Sotah Daf 4 by R’ Eli Stefansky

hi so I wanted to show you these pictures the other day of revenant who's nifter at the very very young age of 39. here he is in sheer in mdy in the miss madrish and here's a picture of him all the way on the right the sun in Miami came to Miami seal so the Trump should have an Aliyah could her belly I'm super pumped after attending the amazing seal from yourself it's not the arranged by Dove Harris Thursday evening go there's green London Chavez I'm still buzzing it was amazing to see people of all ages walks of life the fact that three teenagers from different backgrounds were uttered made it even more special than on and off ER book stands picture attached were given out for free yesterday to see them and are being put to good use natural responses this is a picture of the seam of Manchester that's not how many people learned that I've imagined through in the scene that I was there Manchester there was over 350 people they are a big Force is supposed to set up a freaking in the Americas that's in RBS on Friday afternoon together with haki and my son shua things were going a bit slowly most of the target crowd inglos appeared to be whole already until Aaron Kemp and his children showed up with absolutely no shame and tremendous iron approached nearly every person who passed us and gave each one a sales pitch that spoke to their directly to the individual Sharma with the healthy those of Jewish guilt at the end we were fortunate enough to be able to recruit between 8 and 10 people in an hour and a half pictured here with us the one that recruiters would be sure Highlander from the most touching moment of the day can one guy we recruited came back to us five minutes after taking leave with this freaking Morrow I assume that he's having second thoughts and wanted to give us back the immoral instead with tears in his eyes he said to us I was already back in my car and ready to go home but I just wanted to come back and say thank you so much for doing this thank you thank you thank you we have the opportunity to change people's lives every day all takes some sincerity so freaking Morris and a little bit of tremendously honored to be a small part of this ever growing family shamashi this is shamshi slap Rock an amazing time with Qualcomm and he comes every day this year I love when he comes here he is shamshi is the one right by the sign I don't know if you can see him but okay the one holding the blue gamar that's shamshi I'm a fifth grader from Brooklyn I was told by my friend about mdy I'll still get my freaking Martin I'm really excited I'm starting to listen to the documentation I'll learn the whole site though it's real parrots Weissman so today I was in uh bcde show here in Lincolnwood and a nine-year-old kid David Ray's son Yale Ray's uh grandson comes up with me and Mill davening he says I want to tell you that I really enjoy watching you share like are you nine years old like it was unbelievable like the word how it came out as like they came over to me afterwards to thank me again he's doing brachas he's doing things all over shots it's nine-year-old unbelievable okay uh the coilover we're up the sponsors already and Adam's from Lakewood for the month the corresponsive for the second one Reuben Klein up an honor my daughter at least becoming a coward that's behind native from Toronto sponsored by no one the person in Los Angeles by West Side friends yo one of the first first guys to hook up on YouTube every single morning four years ago my dear father is actually five years ago yard side the round of Nissan and by Phil Burton I feel in honor of the yard side of Donna hoganets pagonists what's the story there another one should have an Alia art of the month for complete reform heimtv Ben lay up Royce we have amazing we're starting to get into that stroke husband warns her not to seclude herself that's called quinoa then she secludes herself with that individual it's called stero how long okay does it last that stero in order for it to be a full stero so the gemara gets into some very technical things in order to determine the type and part of the time has to do is the psychological component there's a physical component and in fact if you look at tices the top Tysons Tyson says here call Ellen sure when I've been talking about the clothing component but you have to take everything into consideration there's a physical act and to get to that act there's certain things that have to take place says the gemara of a comma Shira the first words on top of that how long does this last you see a very very interesting there are nine cheetahs [Music] and nigamara tells us they all have to do with their individual experience how what was the quickest time they were able to get to the beginning of the ACT that's it what's the quickest and think about gives these very interesting Shooters instead of saying one minute three minutes ten minutes to run around the tree to do this to do that very interesting starts off also very interesting four things kedetoma that she should be Tommy in other words there's an act which means could they be up the initial part of that not the entire act just the one moment and that is the sheer what is the sheer to go around the tree a palm tree interesting number one is to go around the palm tree he was going to ask so just say to go around the palm tree we're just saying could they be okay you could take it out some of the things in the middle is going to say each one comes and tells the Finish mm-hmm USIC as long as it takes in the time of the gemara they had very very strong wine they were diluted with water one-third whatever it is so I just want to show you real quickly this this chart right over here this is some of the Cheetahs not all night but just to be familiar with it so right now we have Bryson number one says the Republic as long as it takes you how long does it take to take a glass of wine which is a reverse the minimum ship and add some water to it mix it up however long that takes okay and the Bryson number two there's another brightest thing tomorrow is going to bring says the same mandarama really hasn't instead of saying he goes with a completely different thing the time it takes the palm tree to to go back and forth in the Wind again I mean these are unsure like I don't know how it helps people okay that's the shield next how long does it take to drink or reveal some wine yeah very before I forget I don't want to forget this I didn't write it down so I don't want to forget it where moisture therapist says an amazing thing I thought it was a phenomenal thing Lila say there he says the number one important thing about the wine is not what color is not what if it's wine or not wine the number one thing he says and that everybody should be Immaculate is they should enjoy it do not drink wine that you can't stand its battery says I couldn't believe it better to drink grape juice than wine that you don't enjoy enjoy the wine don't get I'm not going to say the name of the bread you know what I'm talking about don't get that brand because it's easier to go down or you must he says number one I'm see I couldn't believe it grape juice who says grape juice is okay drink grape juice and not a wine that you don't enjoy because that is the number one important thing that's Allah say there take that to the last say there the number one wine that I enjoy I think a lot of people know the brand but I just can't do four cups out of it and maybe that's what he's saying like enjoy one two but by the time you get to the fourth cup it's so heavy so I have to go down I should that me personally I should downgrade to something much lighter and something I enjoy because at that point I'm not enjoying it cup four with that good stuff I don't enjoy anymore according to him I thought it's fascinating okay is it talking about wine here how long does it take you to drink the wine now if you look at the if you look at the screen on the right side he says in purple same reviews says what's going on there okay let's keep on going there today is going to point out was never married so how could he tell us from his personal experience how long it takes it's a very good concert some say that he was married he was married to her but keep his daughter but he certainly was younger than Kiba a talmuda rubikiva and he's brought before rabikiva because it goes in order as long as it takes to roast an egg OS either his father-in-law or maybe even his certainly is revi but maybe his father-in-law comes second after this and says listen your your uh roasted egg I'm saying as long as it takes to eat that roast today these are all different shoe room I'm not exactly sure which one is shorter which one is longer I don't know review them and say Roy America day like you might as well three eggs Maybe could be so we have to be mahmir maybe with the with the shorter shear but you know because we're talking about somebody's life here or somebody's embarrassment if she was Mr I don't know how long it takes for the for the for the branch to go poof oof in the wind you know you're talking about seconds here okay so if you take a look at the chart for a second review and Sarah says three eggs but in the second Bryce he says one egg okay you know he's gonna talk about all this that's pretty much almond Olive and then we get into the series they gotta do Nemo all right so here is one of these uh you know it's a big thing back in the day to weave and a weaver is is a pro at tying the string you know because I'm assuming those days didn't have very long threads and it was constantly the issue of tank he's a pro he's a better tire than you and I so it's a lot quicker ever long it takes him you know has to grab the two I guess it's hard you have to take two ends with two hands and also make the knot you know okay foreign they used to use toothpicks and for a woman who's better at it I guess than a man to pull out the uh a toothpick that she has stuck between her teeth it could be this some sort of you know some sort of meaning behind us going to say soon did she room have this like a little hint the the words that they're using here are hinting to to some sort of mice I don't know as long as it takes a person to stick your hand into the basket and pull out a bread is going to ask these interesting questions what kind of bread is it soft is it hard is this is the baskets uh smooth not smooth taco Beach deposit doesn't mention anything about taking out a bread from a basket but you see the the idea of Snus and bread and the same possible so there's some sort of hint that is that that's the sheer the shears as long as it takes to pull out the bread from the best foreign that's not enough today so say whatever it is why I have to say four things to the other person this is a psychological component here you can't just go and do an act this is a you have to be ready for it and that takes time also so you think that the shear that we're talking about is both commercial could they be a no we're not talking about the psychological that you'll take care of before you step into the room maybe it already happened once they go in they're already ready to go and how long does that take Canadian means the full act no commercial it's just the initial part the ashmunity explains in the beginning we also said that artist is not a part of it now we're saying again or two so but I'll think that Hara just the initial part listen it doesn't make sense just that part maybe it means together with what's the word I don't like the word they use um Can ties to to get ready tomorrow and now what is the sheer what does it mean how long does that thing as long as it takes a human being to go around the tree you talk about a few seconds says wait a minute we have a Bryson that brings all these sheets we just said nine different shoe room and most of them are in this bracelet in a completely different way what's going on well that's not very small okay but we said now is this very small sheet and not the other ones yeah yeah yeah we're just we're picking one it says how much is that the first sheet the first sheeta is they're killed okay and then you fill in the Gap We're not gonna go through all nine cheaters now very many minister of a common shoe stero low Shimano says in the Torah that she secluded herself but how long is it a two hours five minutes so over here it says all four of the shiners but the fourth lotion is different it doesn't say to go around the tree it says for the tree to come back for the palm tree to come back they really is it's the same really as it talks about a palm tree now it's coming back foreign the chart side by side now we're in pricing number two today music is to take wine and they loot it what did he say before the time it takes to drink the reviews we know from let us say that we're drinking reviews we try to do it in one shot how long does it take 10 seconds I don't know how long it takes not very long it's not a minute yeah that's right we're talking about seconds here but we wanna we we're gonna take somebody's life here we got to be we have to know the seconds whether we're taking our life or we're embarrassing her to the point that it's like taking your life it's not today loot it it's to drink it now look at Bonanza here then as I hear and it's done very well here I didn't do this Yoshi did this look at the two purpleshwa on the right side says in purple all right that's a big problem because now the two two tanoim are saying the exact same thing that makes no sense is going to tell us that they don't say the same thing foreign yeah you like the chart it's good so far but you see the purple it's very clear you I also have here been as I saying they literally it's baits on the right and say because they lose this up two yellows what are they doing here okay let's just beta which is not good because you know the time it takes to eat an egg and now you're saying to uh you're right it seems like it's going around a lot of chronological order that today let's should take a lot longer than going around the tree and everything else if rhythms to eat the egg I'm here again rubikiva said like orange in here says also the same sheer Marcus is started off saying going around the tree and then it's hazard's Deco may be meant to come back to the same point maybe it's the same also maybe says there argues so you see that it's not the same thing which one is it one is to go around the tree and one is that the wind blew the palm tree the the branch this way and it came back where about you what does this mean exactly it means that the the branch went to the right and came back to the left of us went to the right went to the left and then came back to the center where it belongs so that's even a longer shear so I forgot how you say his name Lord Jonathan text that's how you say it Rabbi Rabbi Lord Johnson sex exactly he said once that before he became a rabbi this makes a lot of sense in England that'll give him a stress test they told him you got to go on the treadmill you have to do the thing yeah like a president you can't just become the rabbi bro so he's on the treadmill and he's asking the doctor while he's like huffing and puffing he says what am I doing here you want to see how fast I could go how long it could last what do you try so the doctor says neither we want to see when you get off the treadmill how long will it take your body to come back to itself so he said this is I'm just saying because you know the the Branch goes back forth comes back to the center back to itself he said sometimes gives people an asylum he's not interested to see so much how they act acting a site at a loss or whatever how they act because people act so he wants to see how you're gonna bring yourself back to normal how long does it take you to what's the word recalibrate recuperate how long does it take some people less than their sign forever some people come out of it very quickly that's what that's what he said okay interesting idea music so let's go back to the Chart top one River as I said in the first Bryce uh to pour to to mix to they loot the wine and then he says for the branch to come back that's a good answer okay listen I can say it in different ways I mean the same thing today music is a college takes 15 seconds decal takes 15 seconds one day I use this Marshall one day I use that it's all the same I didn't change my sheet and my sheet is the same 15 seconds for instance second one on the line the purple as long as it takes to drink the reviews in order to diluted says the gamarra no I'm not going to say that that's the same thing what I'm going to tell you is it's both so are you sure you got to take both of them the purple and the red if the purple takes 10 seconds and the red takes 10 seconds is 20 seconds why don't you say like you said by rebelie azer that it's it's the same thing you just use different muscle it's the same time and it's only 10 seconds but sometimes you use do they literally somebody says look in the top right so you can't say that he said either or really sure couldn't say the same exact thing as herbalizer if you just said it's the red then he's saying exactly right because he has to say the red and the purple together whatever Shear that is beta in the first bright song he said it's as long as he takes the rest of the night as long as it takes to drink the reviews okay now what about the nazai he says only to drink is he similar to be sure that says to drink no because it refuses us to drink and today loot as we said before possible the one in the first Bryce Arabic says in order to the shears to eat an egg and now he says to roast an egg like you said before hey you have to combine the two things it's a double Shear as long as it takes to roast an egg and then the long take to eat eggs the one we say the simple answer that's the same exact share doesn't mean both of them together means it says and he's by himself so you have to say but as I said the sure is so Rose tonight everybody using yes to roasting egg but also to eat egg so he's much longer than benaze I know he has a whole thing going here is this better I don't know huh yeah see this interesting stuff [Music] foreign guys so I'm I'm doing it together with you this is you see so it's very interesting sometimes this equals that sometimes it's together says that's together you have to need both that's what you just did now says okay this is basically going well you Maya childish beta okay now this world awesome he says the cheers to eat three eggs only one which one is it says it says roasting and eating the egg she tells them why are you telling me two different two different theorem it's very confusing it tells them so roast an egg and to eat an egg just tell me how many eggs to eat let's let's take one thing and tell me that one thing is it three eggs three eggs why are you tell me to roast an egg and to eat an egg it's all over the place okay no just eat it that is that's Tyson says he said so he says we're not including clothing or anything so when it comes to that we're not including peeling Nemo what does it mean to to tie a thread is it far away close foreign used so it's smoother or or it's older it's older so it's smoother and newer is not as smooth what kind of bird talking about hot cold if it's hot it's a little soft and it's harder to grab and that on base of the sorry we're talking about uh wheat or barley what are you talking about wheat is a little bit softer so harder to get up is it foreign he's talking about his own experience how quickly he was able to get to the beginning of that what's going on there one of the people here is the famous gimoro that says when as I said they said why don't you get married I'm so involved in learning I can't do it let other people remember so how in the world discuss a topic and a subject that has no experience in it no he was married to to maybe keep his daughter and he got divorced foreign right and we've given him argue we've seen the chart they're not saying the same thing oh here Ruby Cuba came you want to see it again here let me do it again remember talking about in riverkiva oops knocked it away great the reason himself says one egg he's saying you rub a key but you should have said 3x very nice great job Yoshi okay the secret and that he was just saying over what he we got beside okay there's two stories first of all the famous khazanez there's in parador it says that was once asked about a certain surgery drew a picture of a brain or something and he said the surgery going from here and there and do it like this they show the certain surgeon couldn't believe in other words in the gimbara entirely have a lot everything and Hashem gives it to the people that understand they understand it's not a story about a rabbit yeah that's what's a shot of a story about a Reba the casa came to the rabbit he said should I buy this in this Forest I want to buy Forest he says no don't buy it but I want to buy this is no so you bought it but the forest and turns out that all the trees were very warming and it wasn't good it wasn't good stuff comes back to the Rabbit crying rabbit I didn't listen to you I bought the forest it's full of worms which I do so there is that I told you I knew he said you know that it's full of worms how come you didn't tell me she says I didn't know it's full words I just knew you shouldn't buy it I told you not had it how do you know she said listen he came here and you kept and said I'm gonna buy it I'm gonna make money I'm gonna sell I'm going to buy a buy for his cheap so for more than we didn't say one time that Bezos Hashem it's gonna work you said you're gonna do either I knew I had a feeling in other words sometimes they have this intuition say the certainly array of certain certain site a certain way that they think that we don't have Doris heard this from both the famous but depends where he was and how the crowd was he would say it in different names it was tell me them you said in his name rasi's tell me them this way foreign if you eat bread without washing your hands as if it's as if you're with the name is because of the bread it's like it's like you're a designer because of the bread not because of the designer the bread because of the bread designer that's what you said if you don't wash your hands it's like you're right it starts with designer if you're a designer at the end it's gonna come to a point where you're not gonna have parent also the Zona takes away your parent also debenham yoga says that uh a wife is called she is the Brach on the house for parent also and when a person doesn't treat his wife well and he looks somewhere else so it causes foreign if a person here come where's my baby you want to come help him also they come this way this way this way on this side yeah you go on that side also yeah hold on hold on you're gonna hold this for a second let me just say this first if a person eats bread without washing his hands necrom and oil it causes miso why because Raji brings we're talking about rashes I believe I'm so excited about this rash not to put down the run or tices but I love Russia anyway Rashi says that says it says in the positive about Pirates if you break it through and there are people that are never not so magnetism so I'd like to show you once we're here I want to show you something that I noticed many many times it's important to the SUNY coming up something about the kill said I I think we should be more Macedon and that is right here maybe oh you know what you hold this all right they can see you then down off and maybe come you can take this and let's see how we're gonna watch well let me show you first what I want to do here nothing really I don't have to wash my hand and I don't even have a towel I don't know okay if I don't worry about it but the bottom line is that until the dime has to be up to here it goes up to their uh it has to be up to the wrist when a senior in the gamara this is where the tumor is up to the wrist so the Ireland should be mocked from here to here and on this side from here to here and even on the first time we're going to see coming up in the Sergio the first time has to be all the way to the wrist because you want to get rid of the Tomah immediately here let's go let's do it now did I get this part yeah up to here now what I want to show you that's it hey you go back to your seat for a second foreign I need some water here it's good it's good it's coming up amazing he was he was in a house there's a Suitor there and they were all washing hands and thank you thank you and he went into the kitchen and he comes out and he washes his hands like with the least water he could imagine the least and everybody else was was they saw the house watching with the least once they also did that's one shot so he said I went into the kitchen and I inquired who brought the water here you know they didn't have Faucets in those days who and they said this woman over here who doesn't have a husband No Mono she says this is our mother her job is to go get water it's on her husband I'm gonna be a big Sadiq and wash my hands with all these amounts the least amount of water possible so she doesn't have to go slip water it's a beautiful thing of caring about another individuals talking about not wiping your hands because since it's a disgusting thing to eat bread with wet hands so it's like Tomah Rivera okay um I skipped big time let's go back let's go back I thought I was getting all excited gonna finish early today anymore it's not so good but we'll explain anyway when you wash your hands you're supposed to go like this upwards in other words the water should drip downwards pass your wrist because if it's like this we're gonna have a problem not because the city no a better shot right and when you wash your hands then you go downwards why listen to this we wash our hands two times on each hand two times one very very possible the first time that you wash your hand it takes the tumor of your hands right we say I mean there are button our hands are coming so the first time the water goes and makes our hand taller but the water is coming so I have to go a second time that's why it's not so good to go one two one time takes the tumor off my hand one time takes it here slow song yeah the second time takes the Tomah the water that's Tommy takes it off the hand now are you talking about negov answer yeah we're talking about bread now yep two times one two the villagon actually says that for negrovasi do four times because exactly what you just said three times to take the time off but you need the water so Tommy so the fourth time takes the the tummy water off okay that's something else let's talk about this only two times listen what happens here you go like this one and now the water of the Tomah if you go like this what happens is if it's downwards and you didn't get the whole the whole hand now the water becomes the water remains coming now you go like this you didn't do everything it Go the water that is tomate will go back and or a part of your hand if you go like this so now everything goes down down this way but if you go this way so now you have a part of your hand that might not have been washed completely and that will get the second water when you do and the second water is tummy because you know you have a part of your hand that didn't re that it didn't reach and the main law it will be the time of the rest of your hand will come in the water and it's no good so that's why when you wash your hand if they go upwards like this so everything drips downwards toward the passing wrist says is because your hands are dirty but your hands are dirty so you want to get the dirt the filth away from you so you go downwards honorable possibilities we said before we skipped so if you eat bread with out wiping your hands you have wet hands the wet hands creates it's disgusting so it's like too much um now we're going into a little bit of diver one of the suggest I think was in the uh in the advertisement of of saita of all the gishmakers that we have a person is haughty things highly of himself uh I have a problem with that also hi nephew Chicago he's not a we're not you're talking about a bug Giver are you saying that this person's talking about a guy but that's not gaiva it should say nevish gavaya a person who thinks highly of himself it should say she traps him it doesn't say she travels and says tatsun will be trapped worth more than Nino then how do you say premium in English pearls see pearls goes by the size not so much weight like like uh like uh like gold gold goes by weight cleaning goes more like Purity size so check this out this is the famous chart that I always use foreign you have that Zorro halfway through halfway the halfway line to the right is that Zorro with the music with Miss bath and then you have that heavy black with the red arrow over there that's the hey ho but where the red arrow is that's the question that's inside the hey the inner inner no one ever goes in there ever only the Korea keeper as we have the orange once in a while the gamar tells us that they used to repair the walls there people go in a box they couldn't look they couldn't see they would just make a quick repair listen to this it's unbelievable a person who learns Tyra is in a higher level than they call him God all that goes in the question keeper your career evening greater than the coin god all sitting and learning the daf has a bigger sauce than the coin godo who goes into the question foreign is not going to help him to get at it again I think it's important places here because I unfortunately one of my good friends told me that he was not challenges and they went through I bought him and they told him about this Tysons over here people should be aware of this is foreign to the point where she becomes us with her husband has a divorcer Nitro has been I alone he will get the death penalty it's as kosher wait a minute assistant bottom line is the robot and told him yes the true button is in fact in a process of sugar for many years already doing true but he does a lot of a lot of stuff that everybody told him to do because for everything and Torah by the way as everybody says foreign two ingredients it's very thin it doesn't have any haughtiness it doesn't have it's just it's a symbol of a novel although even that symbol is erased a little bit because you know my mats is thinner and better tasting than your matzo Etc okay you can throw on some guy into the Mata too huh not all spider meat that stuff yeah tomorrow Obama gotta show you my favorite picture of myself people ask me what it is I love this one two guys playing tennis on mdy chord and then there's a little bit of a bummer in the backyard that he parked this teslan on the ramp s foreign okay the other yard is not good hello because if you're gonna go by the Posse even if he accepted the tires directly remember from hashem's hand to his handsome doesn't matter who you are even if you receive the tire from Hashem directly and you're over nation's dish it's bad news from my hand to your hand even though I received the Torah from hashem's hand from Mia from his hand that was that it's not two hashem's hand it's from hashems I realize this is not going to say Sir even a big static the biggest highest level of its docker to sieve like our good friend just give all that stalker not a single person knew about it I mean nothing yasi Klein didn't know what he looked like and he spoke to him every single day you're seven they live in the same city they said sir I met him he never said when I spoke to him he never said hey I'm the guy that just gave forty thousand dollars to MD wife never said it never said a word I'm the guy that sponsored another I think I didn't say it to me sir if even though he's doing tremendous missiles he's giving all this stalker and nobody knows about it but he's over and she says [Applause] have a wonderful day