Daf Yomi Sotah Daf 39 by R’ Eli Stefansky

So just want to remind all of them it's going to be I think five sheerum in New York details to follow probably tomorrow we'll have a lot more details exactly where when And now I need to show the oil lamp something very very unique and different. You're not going to believe this. This is unbelievable. Listen carefully. You're ready? Here's a video from Yevamot daf ayin gimel. Guys ready? If you could please hold on to the coffee for a second cuz we're doing volume here. You ready? Here we go. [Music] One more time. You're going to you're going to be shocked out of your mind. You're going to be shocked You're not going to believe this. Hold on a second. Here we go. You ready? I get the last year Pesach thought of an idea that I'm going to sponsor every Reb Shimon of the daf of like boy man. And I think there's five or six Reb Shimons over there. And they already announced to each one of the Reb Shimons that my daughters should be blessed with children. With the help of Hashem, my first daughter had exactly nine months later had a baby and my second daughter this past Friday three days shy of like boy man had a baby boy. I wish them health and in the merit of the mitzvah of the Torah supporting MDY you see it really works. I hope Hashem should make many more simchas all of us together because in time have a good day. Which which moifes is bigger that nine months in a day later she had a baby boy or three days before like boy man she had a baby boy? Both both tremendous listen Reb boy say I have to make a tefillah that it shouldn't get to my head. This shouldn't get to my head. But I did check. There is there is one Reb Shimon Bar Yochai on the daf of like boy man and I don't think we're going to sell it. $10,000. Okay, we'll see. We'll see. Maybe we'll give it for free to Peretz Chaim Levine or somebody that brought a lot of people to this sheer. Have to see. Too much pressure too much pressure. Two daughters two Reb boy say we're here in the great presence of our tremendous chaver who was here from all the way in the beginning four years ago Reb Tzvi Aryeh Rishon shalom aleichem. Thanks for joining us today. Wow. Oh, Yossi Eisenberg is here? Machuten Yossi what's up with the machuten? Yeah, you should come more often. Who else? Shalom aleichem. What's your name tzaddik? Lazy Goldman from Manchester shalom aleichem what's up tzaddik? What's your name? Shalom aleichem. I see you all the time. What's your name? Ah, Gershon Roth. I know you. Oh, wow. Gershon Roth from the status. What's going on with the status? It's not about the daf it's about the clips. Wow. Is this a eight minutes? Ah, there's 30 seconds for the clips for the WhatsApp status clips. How many people joined you because of your clips? 20. Now with the new moifsim you're going to get a lot more. How many? 500 guys in the group and you they're all doing statuses and zochin bringing guys. All right. It's a multi-level marketing scheme. Shkoyach. Yes. I know Shimon there shalom aleichem. Who's the who's next to you? [Laughter] Shalom aleichem. What's your name tzaddik? What? Ronnie Picciotto from Australia? I don't know from where. Huh? From Baltimore. Ah, shalom aleichem. And next to you is Moshe Kanarek. Oh, really? Shalom aleichem Moshe. Oh. Ah, shalom aleichem. What's your name? Jack Septimus. Septimus sounds familiar. From where? Shalom aleichem. Shout out to the Leah Chevreh. You sent me an email or something once? I don't know. It just sounds Two emails. That's what it is. Okay, beautiful. That is a big sponsor Yakov Chanik. Oh, really? Okay, give it up. Huh? Oh, beautiful. Shkoyach. Some regards. Really? I agree. You know why? Because he gave the $35 to the Gemara you not to put a minyan on the door. That's why. Mazel tov. Mazel tov. So that's some moifes. Reb boy say Reb Moshe Bamberger was here the famous mechaber seforim and he has a lot of sheerum on Torah anytime he was here the other day and his talmidim I'm on the left with him and his talmidim did some sort of kind of a joke on the right. It says seven minute daf on the right that's the eight minute daf on the left. And each picture they mimicked one to one thought is very interesting. And on Friday we had a Satmar chosid with his two Satmar sons. His name is Yossi Mizrachi. He's from Monroe. And he was about to go smooth with Baruch Foreman in the back and Baruch was doing chazarah on on shas Shabbos. I told him you're Satmar you're not allowed to talk to that guy because he went to the army. So he jumped on him he started kissing him hugging and kissing it was unbelievable. So here's a picture that I chopped. Yitzchok Arnold first of all big shkoyach for the fun entertaining sheer after watching it online a few times I finally got around to going in person this Shabbos. It's mamish geshmak. I just wanted to make a clarification about something that I said in sheer that a kohen wants to rely on his netilas yadayim shel shacharis for duchaning has to have in mind during the netilah that it's for that. After looking up the Mishna Berurah and some other places it seems that there's no need for explicit kavana about that during the netilah but rather he has to make sure not to have hesech hadaas. You know that I have hesech hadaas from the time you wash in the morning to the time you duchan netilah shel shacharis until duchaning. I'll be grateful if you can say that correction in sheer. Thank you. Do we have Okay, real Thank you for the engaging exciting sheer. I just wanted to say hi to all the Brits who have been gifted a day off work on Monday in honor of King of the King's coronation. In the last 12 months we had a royal jubilee a royal funeral and now a royal coronation three opportunities for more steiging. Erev Shavuos Erev Rosh Hashanah and now again on Erev Lag BaOmer. Thank you Hashem for the royals. Call to of Chaim from Manchester UK. And now the koilel sponsored by anonymous from Lakewood Maseches sponsored by the fasting of the neshamos Menachem Dov Berkovich Menachem Mendel and Shimon Yisrael Chaim ben Yisrael Dov. Parshas Chodesh l'iluy nishmas Chaya bas Yisrael l'iluy nishmas of Chaya bas Moshe Reb Wolfstein Reb Mendel Yoel ben Yisrael Dov three sponsors a month. And finally it's sponsored the day Yisrael Helper and ooh shkoyach. Yahrtzeit of Devorah bas Akiva Cohen born in New Haven Connecticut 60 years. She was a Hebrew teacher and did a tons of zochin. Stuck it all that all that and yeah. Daf of the month for complete refuah for Chaim Tzvi ben Leah. Reb boy say we are holding by a new sugya Omer Adam Omer Reb Simlai the bottom line of the chosid on the base like where it becomes wide two lines down from where it becomes a little wide. We're in the middle of the beautiful sugya of Birkas Kohanim. Last night I started off the sheer with a riddle and here's the answer. How's it possible that you have 10 people in the tzibur about to hear Birkas Kohanim and one person walks in and all of a sudden all 10 go up and they duchan. So here's the Gemara right here. Omer Omer Adam Omer Reb Simlai Beis Haknesses she kulah Kohanim kulan oilin l'duchan. If you have a shul that's only Kohanim they all go up to duchan. So now you could look this up it's fascinating. There's an island in Tunisia called Djerba and from the time of the Beis Hamikdash from the churban a bunch of Kohanim went to this island and they established a Jewish community. Look it up on Google. And the basically the shuls are only Kohanim 100% Kohanim. They went through a lot of tzaros over the years and different the Christians came in and the Muslims came in killed and this and that. We are zocheh we have in our neighborhood a guy by the name of Amir Cohen. He lives right next to you. Amir your neighbor on Zaviton right here. He didn't have children for 17 years and he went to Reb Chaim Kanievsky. Reb Chaim Kanievsky told him not the other neighbor it's a kohen that also lives right next door to you who didn't have children for 22 years. Reb Chaim Kanievsky told him to build a mikvah. He told him you're a kohen write a sefer on Birkas Kohanim. He wrote a sefer gave this to me a few months ago and I was looking through yesterday beautiful stuff A of interesting these kind of halachos all sorts of you wrote a safer and after 17 years he had a baby baby boy. You wrote a safer what? Huh? No, the nine months have No, no, no. It's from when you go to the guy. When you go to the guy okay, fine. I'm a lot more expensive than him. Okay, so if the whole shul is they all go up to the well, who are they saying the they're supposed to say the all the people that didn't make it to shul any if you even stand behind the 90 degrees. This is the line right over here. Anything behind that you don't get the uh like uh the uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh So Rashi says over here that we're talking about people that go to work. They're uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh You have to go to work. You have to make a so you couldn't make it there. But if you stand behind the you're showing that you don't care about the uh It's a lack of care. That lack of care removes you from the you don't get the cuz you're showing So if you're having the there and you you whatever your you can't move that's something else. And if you can't come there because you are working in the field the works. What about the wall behind the shul? How does the go through the wall? Uh that's coming up. the name of name of person If you have a shul in uh he says no, not everybody goes up. Some remain on the floor. Some go up and make and do and then the people on the ground like uh If you have 10 people so then they all go up and they uh uh But let's say you have 12 people. So two go up to 10 remain behind and listen to the again if you have exactly 10 people and there's nobody to be in the audience so they all go up. But if you have 12 then because you need 10 to hear. You need 10 to listen. If you're not going to have 10 to listen one guy goes up to and nine are going to listen that's not a minyan. So you might as well have all of them go up. But if you have a minyan to hear the so put a minyan on the on the ground and whatever's left over the two I'm saying two because it's better than one. So two two go up on the on the by the they do uh uh uh Now what happens? The door opens up and in comes a a tourist uh uh uh uh uh Then all 10 go to So now you have 12 and one listening that's the answer to the riddle. If you stand behind the uh uh You're not included in the uh says the this is if you're a short guy and you're standing in front of a tremendous tall guy of course you his body doesn't create a between you and the uh What if the is pulled slightly forward and you're behind the uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh The sorry the is behind the somehow. He got stuck there and he's doing It's not what about a wall? So even cannot stop the from happening. What about the sides? So we learned we're saying yesterday 90 degrees. What's the uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh This is the this is a that happened in the shul here. This is the highest of thing. This is you take this something like this and you dunk it in water. Huh? I know. That's what I'm about to say. You dunk it in the water. You have a mixture of water and ashes from the they used to pile up thousands of trees and burn it together with the they had ashes for many years. Dunk it in. And one day I dunked this in and I want to spritz it on Noam and it spritzed on and hardly on Noam. Remember? That's the cigarette here. What happens or like whatever there's some people you know they throw a ball they go and it like falls behind them. That's what happened over here. He tried to He tried to be this way when he he wound up and he hit the guy that's standing behind him or a anything that becomes uh uh uh touch that person needs uh uh the third day the seventh day etc. If it hit the guy in the back in back of him it's possible. Why? Because the says There has to be intent. You have to want to make the guy you have no idea that he's behind you. [Music] the uh uh Now anything in front of him he has he has the mind he has intent. He sees it in front of him he says okay everything in front of me. Including says the uh on the sides. So anything on the side but anything slightly behind the side the 90 degree whatever you want to call this right behind is not the and therefore not the uh This is one of the saddest in all of uh uh Once the uh uh Once the uh is according to Rashi read from or opened according to some uh also uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh Are you allowed to learn between uh uh Are you allowed to look in a to look at different on the between uh uh The only thing that you're allowed to learn between is uh It's also to learn it's also to learn any uh I was talking to uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh And I told him I said you know this he said yeah. He used to learn all the time between uh as soon as he learned this that's it. He stopped cold turkey. And it bothers him a lot like it feels like there's a lot of extra time there. There's there's it's very hard to find that. Well the brings different different ways that if somebody's which we don't have today nobody's uh the back says it's okay. But in general as a as a general rule it seems like it's very hard to get out of this as the says straight out also the uh Huh? It's also the whole well look in the the says the reason is and then okay. People think oh it's not so here we have that it's hard to remember it's hard to fathom this uh uh It's it's a hard that's what I'm saying it's one of the saddest uh uh You're not allowed to even learn even learning uh uh No, no, no. It means from the time that it's open till the end. That's what it means. Now according to Rashi you have one little break. From the time you put the down until the first until the first when he starts reading until the end though until all the way to the end. According to once he places down on the on the takes off the that's uh but the point is from beginning to end you have to sit there like a just concentrate. No. I don't know about that. Maybe yeah I don't That I never saw anybody uh what do you mean for a person on the uh uh He's going for a record that we have to edit his things at least once a year. It's like Certain people come to the shul straight he's a thousand day editing straight. uh uh uh on the uh says on the uh Listen so we have to be what it says here. When they opened up the everybody stood. So the you must stand right? No. The doesn't mean that you stand that they stood it means they were quiet. They didn't answer more when they stood meaning standing means they didn't speak cuz they were quiet they didn't speak more. So the you can be from this and that's how they uh uh that you don't have to stand by uh uh The that it says in the is not uh so you have to be quiet you don't have to stand But, the Mishnah Berurah says even though from here it's muktzeh that you don't have to stand, but when you're listening to kri'as haTorah, and this is very important cuz I think a lot of people miss this. They think that kri'as haTorah is like a joke. You can go out, kiddush club, come back in. Kri'as haTorah is you're supposed to think to yourself that you're at Matan Torah at Sinai. And at Sinai they stood. Says the Mishnah Berurah, if you want to be machmir, should be machmir to stand. Now, there's another very, very important thing here that I learned today, more important than I thought. By barkhu, you must stand. When you answer baruch Hashem baruch le'olam va'ed, you must stand. So, people go like this, they lift the you know, the the the an inch. It's not it's You have to stand. Okay. This is No, this is that's the reason whatever. Okay. But, you should stand by barkhu. Baruch shem k'vod malchuto le'olam va'ed. The only issue, the big issue is that if you stand for barkhu and then you sit down for kri'as haTorah, it looks like you're mevalzel kri'as haTorah, but it seems like that's not such a k'veid. But, certainly you should be machvid to stand by barkhu. Do people actually get out of their chairs to stand? They do a little bit. Is that a standing? Okay. I guess when a you know, gadol comes into the room, people also do this. They don't like stand malachim asah. Okay. Something to remember, I forgot who it was, maybe the Mishnah Berurah speaks about how I saw in some sefer like people are not makpid on this. He see he he says like he sees in shuls people are like literally sit through the barkhu and it's a big no-no. Okay. Reb Zeira amar Reb Chisda me'ahacha v'ozneihem kelal um el sefer haTorah, their ears are towards the Torah, they're listening, they're not doing anything else but listening. V'amar Reb Shimon Levi kol kohen she'eino nofel al yado leisas kapav. Uh I think it's a big uh if somebody's able to control himself and not do the davening during or whatever he's doing cuz he has chiyuvim and he doesn't he doesn't have time later. It it's like the That's a huge I think a huge mitzvah not to learn when you know the halacha is not to. You you're showing that you're not learning stand because it's a chiyuv and you're trying to check it off. Oh, I did it. Even though it's a little bit against halacha in this. You don't learn during chazaras hashatz cuz it says you shouldn't learn during chazaras hashatz. learn during bein gavra l'gavra. It's hard, it's difficult, of course. You get even more sachar. V'amar Reb Shimon Levi kol kohen she'eino nofel al yado leisas kapav. If you don't wash your hands, you shouldn't duchen. She'ne'emar su yedeihem kodesh u'vorchu es Hashem. So, it should be similar to this right over here. In the Beis Hamikdash they had a kiyor and the kohanim would wash their hands and their feet. So, we're doing something similar to that. Su yedeihem kodesh u'vorchu es Hashem. So, there's a machlokes Rishonim and that's what that I forgot his name already that I wrote the email. He wanted me to correct him, but the machlokes Tosafos brings Rashi here. Says whoever wrote the Rashi made a little bit of a mistake. Must have been a talmid. Tosafos is of the opinion and he holds that that's what Rashi holds, that the netilas yadayim has to be someuch le'birchas kohanim. It has to be really, really close. You can't just do a netilas yadayim in the morning when you get up and an hour later do birchas kohanim. That doesn't work, says Tosafos. Has to be someuch. The Rambam holds that you could be someuch on the netilah of the morning as long as you're not me'aseach da'as and you don't touch a a dirty place. Right? I think you were mentioning yesterday Mordy, the shoes and that you know, that sort of thing. And then we had somebody here, I forgot who it was, the guy that sits like where Levi Freeman's sitting. He's sitting there last night and he said an interesting halacha. I don't know where he got it from. We have to look into it. He said that if a kohen like in in MDY because it's so narrow here and a lot of times you have people davening Shemoneh Esrei while the kohen So, instead of pushing the kohen to get to the sink and you to push the Yisrael to get to the sink because you have to wash your hands and you're going to disturb him in tefillah, it might be better in that case to just go duchen without washing your hands and be someuch on the Rambam that that's what he said. Okay. I don't know where he got it from, so I'm not I'm not taking any respon- I don't take In general, I don't take responsibility for halachas. I'm just learning the daf here, what comes out of the daf, not halacha le'ma'aseh. The only halacha le'ma'aseh I can tell you is what it says in the Mishnah Berurah, you shouldn't learn during bein gavra l'gavra. That I'll take responsibility for. Sha'alu talmidei Rebbi Eliezer ben Shamua Gadol haDor Rebbi Boisai Chaper Ra'anan Chaper Ra'anan is a gadol. Put it in your storage tank for a little Gittin also has beautiful aggadah. Does. Very, very nice aggadah. We know you know, bein hametzarim b'Tish'ah B'Av we learn the Gittin aggadah, but there's a lot of good aggadah there. Bameh they asked the They asked the talmidim of Rebbi Eliezer ben Shamua Bameh arechta yamim? What did you do to live so long? Amaleihem miyomai lo asisi Beis Haknesses kompandria. I never used the shul as a shortcut. And it says meforesh, what's the shortcut? To get to the row of houses behind the shul. And we right here in MDY, we have a living example of this. There's a Beis Medrash right over here called Avi Ezri where where we all daven there. Most people in this room daven in that Beis Medrash Avi Ezri. And there's a door right by the Aron Kodesh. And if you live on that side of Beis Medrash, it's very easy to open up the door and come right through. And through davening, the entire davening, there's people coming through and they plop down for a second and go and they come out because you're supposed to say pasuk. Don't make it a kompandria. That is 100% a kompandria. That's using a shul as a shortcut. I'm not judging them. They might be doing okay if they say a pasuk. Some of them forget to say the pasuk. Oh. So, very good. If the shortcut was there before them, then they they could go through. And then some people learn that that's what he was saying here because it's halacha le'ma'aseh not to use a shul as a kompandria. So, what is he saying? He's boasting, "Oh, I never broke the halacha in the Shulchan Aruch." Or the Gemara, whatever they had. Because what? They they use it as a shul. Okay. Beis Haknesses. Same thing lechayus, the same. It's a bizayon to the Beis Medrash also. Sometimes Beis Medrash is more chomer. One minute. Huh? So, it's not a shortcut cuz when he says a pasuk, then he's as if he's learning, as if he's davening. No, I didn't say it doesn't work. That's what you're supposed to do. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it does work. I That's that's that's the trick. [Music] If you have You're saying it's mashma Okay, I don't know what the sugia is. We learned it back in the day. You're saying that if you have another way around it, doesn't work. Okay. Fine. Learn for 5 minutes. Do more than a pasuk. The point is, one minute, I was in the middle of a thought here that they say, but at the end of the day it's halacha, so what's What is he boasting? You hear? What is he bo- He's mekayem halacha? No. So, that's what Jonathan was saying, that he didn't He didn't use it even though he was there before the they before they built the shul. It's his shortcut. They didn't have a right to build the shul there for him. He could still go through it. He he didn't use it. Okay. Bameh arechta yamim? What were you zocheh to live so long? Lo pasati v'lo pasati roshi am kodesh. And when you know, in those days he used to sit around the tanur learning and he had a a front seat, so he never like it looked it he didn't do something that looked as if he's stepping over people mevi'esh the talmidim that were there. V'lo nasisi kapai b'lo bracha. And I always made a bracha before I duchen. Today everybody makes a bracha. It's not a big thing, but it seems like that you could just go up there and duchen without you know, just start Y'varechecha Hashem v'yishmerecha. Um B'lo nasisi kapai b'lo bracha. Some want to say that it's assur. It would be assur for a Yisrael. That's what it says. It's halacha. It's Be assur for a Yisrael to get up there and duchen. It's a special thing that was given only to kohanim. And it has to do with this this line over here, b'lo nasisi kapai b'lo bracha. There was a a ma'aseh where a boy noticed that only kohanim got to kiss Maran Reb Ovadia Yosef. It was like on Rosh Hashanah and Kippur and they put a thing around them and they didn't let do them come close to them. But, kohanim got to come over and kiss his hand. So, the second day of Rosh Hashanah, he got up there, he became a kohen. Now, he said he didn't he didn't make the bracha. He just pretended. He did the whole thing. He did the ghost dance or whatever, the back and forth. Yeah, chash v'shalom, not the ghost dance. So, he He went back and forth and he got to kiss Reb Ovadia Yosef's hand and they they told him some rav said, "That's fine. Kilo, if you had such a cheishek to It wasn't It was It was It wasn't ne'evis da'as. That's You know, sometimes you have to do crazy things to to get close to the rebbe." Okay. Hint, hint, hint. There's a a guy who who seemed to to have a big arichas yamim. They asked him, "What What was your What was your trick?" Says, "I ate pizza every day. I drank soda. And at night, a cup of vodka." So, he said, "So, but b'emes?" Yeah, b'emes. "How old are you?" He says, "I'm 42." Bameh borchu? So, what What's the bracha? Amar Reb Zeira Reb Chisda she'kiddeshani b'kedushaso shel Aharon. This is to me is one of the biggest tongue twisters. B'kedushaso shel Aharon. It's very hard. Even kohanim have to say You see, 40-year-olds getting mixed up with this word. B'kedushaso shel Aharon. V'tzivanu levarech es amo Yisrael b'ahavah. That they the kohanim have to have love. They have to love Klal Yisrael. They can't be in a fight with anybody. They have to love everybody in the city board. If somebody doesn't like them, they shouldn't they shouldn't do that. I have to say this story even though I said it 14 times since the beginning of shacharit, but my very very good friend you the frailest was he did a lot of hero of in Chicago. We had a big organization there before he came back there to Israel and he told me that my sister was as big as day. He rents a hotel. He still goes back there every year for for Yom Kippur. Hundreds of three 400 Israelis come together. So he says who's the kind of here and they say okay take some outside and say you ever did do coming not really. So he says listen very simple just repeat after me I call the said there. So they get up there and he says I shall come and stop him there. My sister Raya. Okay but see one of them. The one of the ministry of health about that they have love. The ship and people say so we have love because it says like we learned yesterday has to be put him up on him and put him up on him is um means affection means with love. He can carry my owner. This is what boys have to admit. I never knew. I don't think I knew this and I would be Sean Berg and Danny you guys do this? I'm sure you do. Look what it says here. When he when he moves from his seat towards the order and to do the cleaning All my what did he say? He says he wrote them before I shall be kind of a broken tooth to be sold in the house of Israel lawyer Michelle Obama and shouldn't be a stumbling block. The brother shouldn't be a stumbling block and shouldn't cause a verse. I was going to say this every day. Danny So now I feel better. If you don't know about it then I don't you're supposed to say it. There's no Okay, yeah. Are the kind of who else not? You say it? And do you say something afterwards? What do you say? Every day is everybody shall I am? How does it say? Let's hear. Let's hear. Okay. Nice save. Nice save Daddy. You say the one after though? But not the one before. It's a little bit different also. Okay. Ah, you say you do say it. Hold on. Stay at work to be someone of the worst of me so I have to lay my work on my sister and I would be sure to open cloud method of a little. Right. Very good. And when you say it you're supposed to finish it together when everybody says amen. So the amen should go on the amen of the city board goes on your order. For instance during the cleaning thank you. During the cleaning you know people say I would be in the room and you have to do the the girl doesn't but okay. But you're supposed to say if you do it like a kind of a line or whatever you're supposed to finish the last last words together with the kind of so that the amen goes on your order as well. What's the shot over here? This should be a mixture. It's very interesting. Imagine if the kind of gives you a brother and you win the lottery. It could be a big problem. Look it up and I say this kind of cuz I am I am a small from this guy Jack Whittaker won 315 million dollars. You think his life was unbelievable. It caused him I believe four or five deaths in his family. His granddaughter overdosed his grandson his wife people dying everywhere. This is my sugar now. He had 540,000 dollars in cash stolen from his car. One day he had a life of nerve and life afterwards. He said afterwards he wishes he would never won the lottery. So that's what we're saying over here. You could have such a brother but you have to know how to use the brother. Just just cuz you have a lot of cash you win the lottery and that doesn't mean that sometimes it's bad for you to win the lottery or to whatever it is. Okay. Says the okay over Mhm. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Good idea. Never happened. Okay. When he's done with what does he say? I would be after I would go over the door and she said I would be I would see you we did exactly what you told us to do. I say that I would be based. I must have told you what you promised. I shall keep my own culture coming in the show my way etc. Sponsored by Gabriel for brothers and promoters of bills. For my entire family rebellion everyone learning the death amen. So now I know you all knew this but I didn't that the kind of whisper stuff to themselves every day when they do as they're going up and as they turn around they say I would be in the room I would be in the room and I would be saying I am. I shall be in the room and I would be saying I am. So we had this beautiful rendering that Yossi did yesterday. This just shows according to some sheets as I I saw afterwards that other people hold that's not touching but over here the way he drew it you could see that there are five ear spaces between the fingers. Here they are. And the kind of should keep that position and one of the kind of yesterday told me that maybe in his drawing not this one that the elbow maybe might be below that be very careful to be it should be nice and straight and with the shoulder 90 degrees to the shoulder straight in line with the shoulder. But the kind of doesn't put his hands down and doesn't get out of this position actually I have zero and I see when they turn around and face the kind of then that's when they could bend their fingers again. I would be saying I would be saying I am and I would be saying I would be saying I am. I would be saying I would be saying I am. So he doesn't say kind of you have to be careful here Gary's not here today. But the one who screams at kind of should be careful that everybody finished saying amen kind of does amen the last guy says amen then you say kind of very brother I would be saying I would be saying I am. And the kind of cannot start saying the brother until everybody until he finishes saying kind of don't jump it. What's the problem here? Straight call on me standing. You can't hear the two sounds two voices are impossible to comprehend. As twice as so then you have three four kind of up there and they're saying it together straight call on me standing so it's twice as very simple. They're saying the same exact thing. They're all saying on pace. That's okay. But when the kind of is saying kind of and they're saying those are two different words and they contradict each other it's hard to it's impossible to hear both. You don't hear any. So on this I want to say and it's one of my pet peeves that there's a certain tempo to every song. Nobody sings shall there's a certain tempo and there should be a certain tempo when it comes to a universal tempo and beat. That comes the kind of and for college cuz what happens is this one is a big kind of he goes brother [Music] and the other guy is they should be flying and kids are straight call on me standing then you have a big problem. You have to be in sync. Now it's not fair that everybody should be like you the kind of and like him the Russia. So that's to be a middle ground a certain standard you would be I shall be like normal standard beat. That's it. If everybody could do that great but nobody does that. I don't know why. College also we shouldn't be having two kind of this shouldn't be in the show where two people say kind of. It shouldn't be because you're ruining it. Nobody's going to do anything. Unless you could be in sync 100%. That's why I asked that whoever says kind of should come to the beam over here. But they don't want to come to the beam of so they want to be out of sync so you're kind of you're not going to do it. Whatever you're doing to the show throw it out. That doesn't work. This guy is saying this guy said it is true. Look it up if it's not in sync you're not going to do it. Finish. You have to only have one guy saying it in the time of the only one time later on generation everybody says it but it's far from the hustle says it nobody answers on it. Okay. And everybody says I don't know what's going on with the everybody said but I would be I would be everybody saying fine. Together. It has to be whatever it is in sync. If you're going to do it you be over in the saying kind of I am. Say together. Great. I would be saying I would be saying I am a universal beat. Maybe maybe right. Huh? Yeah but if nobody sings it that's not the minute and you sing it then you're off. When? [Music] Oh that. Okay. But you can't be too slow or too fast. Look this three it's like a like a medical procedure. I shall tell us. [Music] No I spoke to I seriously spoke to one of the kind of here he was 100%. He was a little slower than everybody else and it made a little bit. I spoke I explained to him he said yeah you're right and he picked it up a little bit. Okay. And we got to talk to the younger guys. I never spoke to younger guys but they're at in and out and I want them to come so I don't want to bother them. The younger guys is a guy here that comes he says the whole brother in 3 seconds. Nobody says amen to him and then they wait for the other guy to go slow. Okay. Why? I don't know about that, but okay. Now you're not allowed to say amen for the same reason until the Kohanim finish completely. When the Kohanim [Music] it just seems from the Gemara over here that the Kohanim jumped into without a without a brockem. He said straight out okay. Right. So Sefardim all Sefardim They they don't they they they don't wait for the chazzan to say brockem. They say the brockem amen and they start right away. Then okay. That's what's much from the Gemara right over here. Okay. They don't care about that. They rather with You know they have they have good muscles over here. They're these are developed from years of doing it. They shouldn't turn around until the chazzan says amen. Huh? Start what I say? it says start it. And they shouldn't leave the duchan until he finishes saying amen. I think it's important now to just go to Rashi for saying cuz Rashi does a whole of the whole Sugya. It's things that we know but it's good to have the inside. This is how it works. He he starts walking towards the duchan in middle of when he comes to the to the Aron Kodesh. And he says This is what I was saying. He should finish off the brockem that he's saying exactly when it's over and everybody says amen. And the chazzan it says here the chazzan. And that's Sefard. Some people say that the gabbai does it. That's Ashkenaz. [Music] Rashi was asking us okay Rashi you have the answer or no? You guys would say what? What's the answer? Oh. Chazzan means the chazzan in the shul says according to okay very good. I knew he knows the answer cuz we discussed yesterday. If there's only one any of them will He starts on his own if he's a single coin. One Rabbi said and we pass like a Rabbi you don't take to one. We should call the when he's finished saying the words have to make sure he's completely finished then he starts the brockem. And when the tzibur finishes saying amen completely only afterwards they turn around They turn they can move their fingers if they want. During while he's saying interesting. I'll see you and here listen to this. Did you know this? This also says on. You also finish this one together with the after tzibur. And after they're done and everybody says amen on their they whisper to themselves and I didn't know about the they go back to their seats. And over here in our base managers we have shoehorns. They don't have to touch a thing. Yeah what? Oh. Say yeah yeah yeah yeah. [Music] Don't do that. I hear. He's saying that he has to go and go and like every word. Okay. Says the Gemara we're talking about now. So He has the the the tzibur has to hear the brockem completely when he's finished as every other brockem in the world then you say amen. Now listen to this. This is the the minag you know? We have a minag that the the goes Amen. What's going on? Now sometimes especially with bar mitzvah boys everybody says amen and they they pause like for 10 15 seconds and all of a sudden it goes amen. That is really bad. Bad. No good. That's the amen you say whatever you want to call it. It's not a good amen. [Laughter] My son he goes Amen. So that's why because he cannot start saying the until everybody's done done with their amen. So he makes his amen. He starts with everybody he just elongates it. But he doesn't start amen after everybody's done amen. That's wrong. That would be a bad amen. You don't say such a terrible thing the Gemara says. In those days every pasuk they said it and then they said it in Aramaic cuz that's the language they spoke. So he shouldn't start it. Don't don't don't rush. Wait until he's finished. That's the also yeah. It's unbelievable. And by the completely different. Each one lays by themselves cuz no one lays. So you get an it's your job not to lay even if you're 14 years old. All right Levi. I missed out something. No. Oh. Yeah this one I missed. You're right. Thank you. In the house. Do not go. Rabbi just send the money over here so you don't have to leave us. What do you what's going on here? The guy saying the the Aramaic has to wait until the finishes and the should wait until the finishes. All right Levi. Don't just get up there and read from the you should get an before. That's why we have this little called the worst by the way. People pay big bucks for it but it's only because it's a compensation for the person that gets the the This is a very interesting we know that the guy doesn't start saying he doesn't say the brockem until we're completely done with the Why? What's the reason? Anybody know the reason? The reason is what? Wrong. I also thought that. The reason is we consider it to the guy that just did Why should he miss out on the He's busy going like this. We're going to wait patiently for him to finish. But on like a Monday Thursday you could start saying and Another In those days they'll take the out and hide it somewhere in somebody's house and then they would undo the entire bema. The it's a to watch the guy take the take it when it when is over then break down the bema. You're not allowed to leave until they put the in its place until the is gone completely. The is no If there's another door so as they're taking the out the door the could leave from the other door. But if there's no other door covered to the and wait for the to go out first then you follow suit. I heard from an called Bar China. The pasuk says you should mimic you should but if you read it as is you should follow you should follow after the I guess that's why there's a minag you know a lot of people walk after the as it's coming to the in. What do they say? They say They say a pasuk for every every stanza. Every They say one pasuk for each. You should bless all of That's the continuation. You have to add something that's different. Again we're blessing all of them. Why are you going to another parent? Just continue. You should bless you. It's in the same parent. Bless Hashem. Not Hashem should bless us. The same as we have to go to another parent to find the third one that talks about us. Giving a brocha to Hashem, not Hashem giving a brocha to us. Now, we don't do dukhaning unfortunately during the day but men in Hawaii because of shikkurs, because people used to drink a lot. But on a taanis that nobody's drinking, like the so you could do dukhaning. So here in Eretz Yisrael, Raboisai, I don't think I've ever seen it. Cuz I usually done in the earlier minyan, but in the later minyan, they do dukhaning. The one that's close to shkiah, they do dukhaning here because it's like Neilah like we're going to see tomorrow. Raboisai, have a wonderful day.