Daf Yomi Sotah Daf 25 by R’ Eli Stefansky

the very last year for now here in Chicago baseball providing I make my flight tomorrow today is the 17 days [Music] the big news the Life share in New York is awesome tomorrow uh hundreds of people signed up already I think it's for something okay it is only room for 1200 people so you don't sign up it might not let you in promises to be an amazing event so hope to see you there if you're in New York hope to see you there yard side to catch up on all the shurim he missed over PESA with love Morty Strauss keep it up brother foreign some people can't stand live stream because they can't put me on one and a half speed like I am talking too slow to speed is too too fast I don't like group speed 1.75 is good I attached a picture that was taken when we met in Chicago at the not to see them your tablet's in sukkah why should Wilner hope to recognize you there in the crowd Dear Valley I'm learning the stuff and now writing to you from the dermatologist's office I'm parchisters to treat pastels psoriasis of all things exactly it's being related to Terrace no problem he says I love insurance as well as kahoot so thanks again if you don't know what kahoot is uh we provide questions after this year we've got vlogging I don't know exactly how to do it I've never really done it myself but it's a computer um a computer kind of test it's uh multiple choice and you the faster you do it the higher the score is and the computer keeps score track of all the scores Etc people like it it's a way to keep Focus during share not fall asleep so thanks for everything you do in the whole new Wedding part they're doing inspiring us day in and day out I was particularly inspired by what you taught us about gariba how it simply a person's belief even if not reflected in action that he or she is better than anybody else I think about this a lot now in all my interactions and I've noticed that people are more receptive to me allowing for deeper interactions perhaps I needed a spiritual cure before we sing a physical one at the doctor's office cultive anonymous possible he's anonymous so I won't read is Daniel okay fine that's it he's not getting the lesson you know I don't care but I don't want to deal around on a Russian horror email my voice is sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood the Mississippi sponsor by myself Mr Elise sometimes known as Charlie was Elliot Mattingly's young son just turned one and was Nifty Thursday afternoon about a month ago in Boston series [Music] and the art is and uh let's let's get into it we're holding that off hey and I'm hoping because our days is so short we'll try to do a lot of them and Olive because this is basically it's repetitive so let's see a very interesting okay that's yeah you have a woman who's not really doing good luck everybody thank you for joining us I wish I had a camera that could turn around you gotta okay you could take pictures fine you know what after share if you don't mind before you run away let's come to the front we'll take a group picture of the Chicago tomorrow very nice oil tonight for coming out a woman who goes out with the hearing cover a woman goes out chewing gum however but she's she's weaving in middle of the street she doesn't care she's pressed and Ratchet says the person called Adam she's flirting with everybody it also has to do a lot with what Society considers trust and not Prost she says she's not being over at a particular area but she's not doing what's acceptable what's accepted in society is taking this as a simple thing that shall lose certainly if she was born but what about if she wasn't worn she went in the street she's talking with men in the middle of the street but he just divorced her without a warning and not give her a super it's okay at the end of the day she's not keeping the tire up so you don't need a Warner bro the other but maybe she'll take it back Warner at least Warner once and if she's ever won she'll lose her but maybe after water foreign what we learned yesterday you have two women who are not married yet the engaged woman today I brought a little bit of a picture to show what a arusa is an Engaged woman it's not like we have today in engagement this is with a ring so what's in a sewer is with hopa I have to give her the ring and because of then you do hope arusso she's not married yet she's still hype skill options she's not married again the woman whose husband died without children she's waiting for her husband's brother in other words her brother-in-law to decide is he gonna marry her or give or they're gonna do halitza but it's the in-between stages they're not married he warns her as they're engaged engaged he says listen you want me to marry you my brother said you're a good wife you want me to marry you you have to behave I'm warning you don't seclude yourself with this man foreign she secluded herself she doesn't drink the water the arusa doesn't drink the water she has the Obama the album doesn't drink the water but like this too and then she doesn't get it soon like she doesn't go through the whole process there's no water being she doesn't drink the water but there is a kinoy he doesn't want her lamight for what purpose isn't it also foreign so you have to wonder in order to for her to lose exuber you have to warn her you have to be my kind of and then she loses the subo you can't just take away your tsuba because she was spinning she was weaving in middle of the street all right perhaps she loses aksuba without escrow so then why does why does he have to warn her lost for a completely different reason something you didn't think about he warns her and once she she doesn't listen to him she goes and she's missed out there with that guy now she becomes awesome to them the morning is to ask her not to take away the Suba but she'll lose the Suba even without a warning maybe we don't know can't prove it from it another reason is possible familiar with a lot of the stuff that it this woman she veered she steered she strayed away she was married to her Isha means her husband she's married so to warn a woman while they're engaged that doesn't fit it as possible however says an amazing finish that he could Warner when they're engaged and that is enough for when they're married later on so he warns her in 2023 when they're engaged in 2024 in the married already and she goes and she secludes herself with that person that the husband warned or not to he doesn't have to warn her again you're ready when they're engaged that's why you're asking why did he warn her he doesn't have to warn her to take away the super if she spins and she weaves in the middle of the street and she talks to Men of the street she loses like super without a warning so why did he warn her because he did one warning he saw that he has a problem with this individual so he warned her two years later they're married that warning is enough it doesn't work to warn her while she's in arusa in order to give her to drink when she's at Roosevelt we just learned but it does work to Warner while they're engaged and it will work for later you don't have to warn her again it's bottom line here's the question are you various out that somebody who doesn't keep the Toyota she does she she speaks to men and she loses Suva without her husband warning these are marriages that are illegal Almanac and American godo I'll call you in a regular coin camera a regular Israel can't marry moms there is in a casino versus okay maybe it's enough maybe take off that um that sound thing misinformation it's not easy to live with you also know the people are watching The Shield you know what I look like they see me here thanks for arranging everything even though you weren't here every year I know you're very busy but you did arrange all the stream behind the scene and the seal subscribe for that too anybody flying into New York for the big share in New York no ah you mean you barely come here okay I get it was a big help with the camera and this oh and it gave me gifts here Thai and Sasha Shimmer out not only does he come every year and takes videos but he also buys a good gift of them of the country oh really that's what it was it was okay fine [Music] there is super okay so we have a whole list of women who their marriage is illegal but they're married nevertheless and the husband warns them they don't drink and they don't get a tuba Mr delicious so the same kind of sport that we said a second ago in the first case second of idea why does the why does the husband warn her this coin Global why is he warning his El mano obviously he's not trying to make her user on him because he's living in sin he's living business interesting God that was married to a mother she gets aksubo yeah there's uh we had a new vamis a few reasons because she was the one that enticed him whatever different reasons you hear this it's interesting it's an illegal marriage she should not marry the grand Gallo she still gets like tsuba so why did he warn her he warned her in order to divorce without him or have you done with this car though [Music] that's not all right okay see from here they have to warn her in order to get rid of the super it says it says reviewed them in the sky is it's in order he warned her that if he divorces her or he dies she can never get together she can't marry the naive guy that's why he wanted he wanted to get her good had he not warned her she would have had both worlds divorced this guy marry the guy she she wanted and that's it to both the husband and the knife again what's the question If a woman is not acting properly she speaks to people Mill the street cat doesn't divorce or not give her a super without warning her again it's part of the mission that we just learned that the best then has the right you all safe all these javarium calls did not oh you think okay that's fine yeah picture is fine okay great so right so we had this we had this case best then sometimes steps in and does a keynote for the husband when he's not available when is a husband not available sometimes he's not available up here he became a little bit of a Shanta sometimes he's put away in jail it's just not available [Music] don't think that they're going to take it through all the way to the end and give it to drink and she's going to explode hello for one reason to get rid of the tsuba so what do you see more loves this Raya it's ends off with the in other words the reason why bezen steps in is for one reason only to make this woman losing if the husband comes out of jail he's not gonna be able to bring her to the base I mean gosh and try out the water but he will be able to divorce on the spot without giving your exuber but why she is a Scyther what was she doing when he was away in jail terrible stuff she's secluding herself with another man she's married to this guy in jail meanwhile she's with another man isn't that worse than speaking to man in the street yes so isn't that a various of that's Israel she's certainly in a very nice as well so she theoretically he should come out of jail give her a get say listen I heard that you were started with so-and-so it's worse than weaving something in the middle of the street here's a get goodbye nope super if you can't do that how do we know he can't do that because the mission says that the best and steps in and warns her for what reason so she loses herksuba but that's only bezen stepped in without besides Warner in order for her to lose this loves this ride Robbie Rosen I just said I don't want you to run away I have to share we want to take a group photo if you don't mind how you doing I called to say it again yeah I know I fooled everybody every day we're starting 20 minutes late listen after 25 days we finally stopped how to do it with only five minutes late it was it was a nice it was a big nice tonight because matisy Shabbos usually I need at least two hours to do all the all the charts and everything and write my notes and stuff that I cash out and now here in Chicago because I only got home about you know after a dollar at nine o'clock it was only an hour plus after driving yeah I was able to do it and be here on time so there's a big a big Seattle she might okay if I I still have to pack but that's a different story I don't have to do in the morning four o'clock in the morning it seems like such a beautiful strong rise how come no one else said this Raya we had a bunch of riots for my Russo from all different parts of the mishna not from this part of the mission why not says um maybe it's different when you had when you married to somebody in jail the less light aims to the battle Cloud so this is fascinating she's not scared of her husband that scared of her husband is a reason to think think about it for a second if you stop here and don't look in rashy what would you say you'd probably say the opposite of the real shot foreign if a woman is not scared of her husband is that a reason to take away herksuba or not take it away Mario understands that's a reason to not take away your Cuba why because since she's not scared of her husband and she speaks to a man in the street she's not so crossed this is rationally she doesn't have Sarah you know what's really bad when a husband tells his wife don't speak to so-and-so she completely disregards what he says and she speaks to so-and-so what's not as bad is when the husband is in jail and she has no clue what's going what he has no clue what's going on and she went and she moves with somebody for that she was alone we're not going to take away super says again it's interesting Sparrow it's a little bit counter-intuitive different than what we would think no masking no now that I said it almost makes sense but I would think she has no fear of her husband there's no cell phones in those days no how is he gonna find out that she's moving somebody she's not so therefore I would think don't take away tsuba foreign so now we have to go a little bit dig in a little deeper to see what's going on here this woman who schmoozes with men in the street she she she acts crossed she doesn't act like a tired is the husband permitted to keep her as a wife he wants it he wants to keep her me I'm going to be faded about um do you say that has to do with the husband and his his being Macbeth he doesn't he doesn't like this kind of wife doesn't care those are discoverable is a son-in-law by the low vision Survivor and by square yeah if I know what I'm talking about it's got to have certain pages they might put on this one you know what I'm talking about I paid on this they don't eat this and they don't do that they paid on the the shoes whatever so he's telling the division server about all his faders so the visitor ever told him by us we only have one paid though not to have to pay this yeah you hear this myself no okay welcome so maybe it has to do with the husband the copied copied now obviously this this doesn't mean exactly what it says because it just said a second ago Lloyd cup and he doesn't care what it means is but since normally typically a person is not good when his wife acts this way so maybe that's enough to make her ulcer and finish he can't be with her missions pheasant steps in and does a keynote for someone that's in jail somebody doesn't have the Das the average roads but if it's up to the husband is it possible that bezen will do something that against his will you can't hurt somebody or no we have to take the Rave or more than rhyme storm in the middle so even though I very sadassi a typical husband will be very happy if Benson steps in for him and that's it okay says now this question is if we just we'd finish this so you don't really have an answer to it but if in a various outdas if somebody who doesn't keep all thou office if you could keep her and he warned it he said don't be mistacted with so-and-so and she went and she secluded herself and so-so and you could keep her if you feel like Universal as you keep her Bounce Your Mother what if he's Michael he's meccano he says you know what I mostly don't do it again I'm mostly I'm not taking the business could he do that is it dependent on the husband right Behavior I don't know if we have to see this possible but oh whatever yeah it's all about the husband deciding to bring nobody else can bring him beside his husband foreign [Music] down and he comes and he undoes it it's not right again no since 99 of the time best the guy will agree to best in being me kind of he won't undo it so we're not worried about the cover the best man um when a guy goes off to the basement to give his wife water he has to go with two times or no one available with his own wife we shouldn't be with her and he will be with her the average what if he has the right to undo everything from from he just he will never have she's not even a Scyther the sterile the quinoa is all gone white because the husband decided it's God what's the big deal why do you need to prevent him from being over this or he could undo this is by himself all he has to do it says okay now we're back to being married again that's exactly why we sent to them in perhaps we're not forced into arrive why because just if you're concerned that he's going to be over with his wife so you don't have to send to them you could send to amaratsu two guys that are watching him they give me because they know how to learn and they learn if he decides to get back with his wife they tell them how to do it they give him advice here just be my color and you don't do it so anyways we don't have a riot from him zero Finish Line told me three things that about so if we stop right here we have straight out Riot to what we're asking can a husband be Michael here it says in your line they said that you know if he's finished and the story let's continue well we are only 20 something minutes so you have what of the the Golem over there who went against the entire Sanhedrin so he's Hive me so and best and decide we're going to be my father Muslim woman who's up to no good and we're concerned he's going to turn out to be a big red it's going to be a last time let's get rid of him when he's still young the parents give me Michael Limerick I just want to show you real quickly because Russ talks about the Lucas had gazas says that the Sanhedrin was in positions I just showed you where it is it's right off the Azara there's a room for Bush is that's what the Sanhedrin they gathered seven percent and they were passing so if the Zaki membrane goes against the San Andreas what's very interesting is that in those days there's no machlaikus at all had an argument they would settle it and if they couldn't settle the argument they'd go to the to the Sanhedrin and whatever the right was that's it there was no argument there's no oh he does this meaning I do with Clay Israel had one way of going there's no maclagas whatsoever only later generations when we didn't have it anymore weren't able to to straighten things out like that is foreign one thing they didn't want to agree with me on the zakimabra why is it listen to this this is the middle of sphere cymer yearbook is being strong it shouldn't matter is going to say this way they're going to say that way now we're going to have a machoitis and learning my flight is in Clyde Israel these guys are eat good Bros these guys don't These Guys these guys no because everybody agreed that the husband could be Michael so we have a very straight out right here that a husband can be muggled to the Cure I just want to emphasize again we see that when it comes to Arias [Music] one thing we're going to put our foot down s we're not going to agree with you do not tell me that we could be much called a guy that's going to create when it comes to my colleagues we get we get rid of my focus he's a guy that's causing issues kill him we're not We're not gonna be anybody with you everything else I Rise and Street was dumbing that's fine so we go we'll do away with the parents want to be Michael to retail okay so we'll have a little recap running around Clyde's room not going to tolerate No towel not tolerating seriously please so what exactly this happened what is before we understood that's even after so you know one says once she secludes herself it's all over and one says I can't understand he says that you can be mindful once she he warned her and she secured herself he's gonna be my wife no it's not up to him anymore doesn't make sense I want you to secure yourself that he could be wonderful mimai see what it says how do I know this because because what happened from the fact that the answer you see that once the stereo no you can't be Michael anymore beside your ability we learned this now when a husband takes his wife the site today is the problem you question him in the house even though it's much more severe it's a chorus has a lab here's the love well right this is this time a regular get but we learn it also recite the other ones he suspects her he cannot take her back they can't take her back certainly the husband should be trusted that exactly over and what's the obvious answer what's the difference huh probably what does that mean oh no explain a little bit more oh very good says the yamara exactly um eventually she could get out of it so you'll save so what's the question what you just said so so also he could eventually get back with her how just get Michael Learned that's all you know could it be muscle or not be Muffler if he could be muscular So eventually she's muted him after him his muggling it's even quicker but that no but that's exactly the same thing the whole ride yeah but he wants to be with her he wants to be with her I hear what he said that's the whole ride hold on so let's finish it and then we'll get there I'm just preparing you for the ride yeah you can never get back together with her be honest theorem off the law but if he has a way out of it he can be my color and it could be with his wife the Heather is all he needs to do is saying and that's it they go back together again so you see from here that there's no way out of it from the fact that they even use this as a writing so listen armor light they told her to be icing what are you talking about there's a huge enough Community never gets you can't get back with her so like he said here's the lotion of hospitality okay good you're not passing Sally forever no the responsible salad if I won I could get back I don't want to be over you soon I'd rather be Muffler not be like but I can't be Muslim you see for me it can't be much foreign what happens if a husband those kittens Theory and and before he has a chance bring his wife up to base Amigos he dies that she gets it that she gets she gets six so I want to point out there's the places over here on our almond that I could have said and should have said enough from that doesn't matter it's right here all the same thing why is it as toys verse that over here she gets a folk super but yet when there's a Shyla because we don't know not mizana we don't know but those means God so we don't have a chance to give it the water says a star that's about it's ready you if you hold the star it says if you you you're in possession of the money so now the guy dies the ocean say we don't want to pay our stepmother or whoever she is we don't want to pay her the tsuba she says well I have a it's my super it's as if I ain't ready it's already my hands my possession these are you have to bring a ride on her last Tyson how come it is when a husband and a wife are in the house a little later like happened over there in Surfside building collapses we don't know who died first the husband or the wife yeah they both thought it happened no the was there a couple that was Nifty there I don't remember I know father and a daughter Maybe was lifted I don't want to use them as an example but just that idea serve side I think we even learned this marriage that day or something after so but now we have a Shiloh the she the do her yard shouldn't get the tsuba or his we don't know who died first because if she died first then she's not entitled to Suba so here's the original gonna have to pay anything what if he died first so she's entitled she's an armada for a millisecond maybe she was alive for five minutes over there who knows under the rubble so maybe she's inside Shiloh what's up sock 50 50. over here we have a shy law she was she gets 100. so in Surfside the answer is because in server side we don't know if she was ever entitled to the superna we don't even know over here she's in town soon just we don't know maybe she was Mazar or not she was married she definitely she was definitely divorced it's different over there she might not even been alive she might have been dead before her husband died okay fine it's pointing at a time it's a beautiful tits may say because the the awesome of the husband are under her possession because Shadow Emily voice when you have a star means as if she's already in The Possession says members of the HBA group and their families voice so therefore she doesn't have possession of it so she's the monkey she's the one trying to collect from the assignment Sheen has to bring your eye on how many minutes anybody okay we got some time yeah so the mission says another illegal marriage is to marry a woman who's pregnant because it might kill the child or the middle of the whole thing and also the mission discusses what about a old lady who can have children and an island who can't have children a person who doesn't have children shouldn't be married 10 Islanders shouldn't be married to a woman who's uh who is the older lady isn't that you drink the water doesn't drink the water so the tarajama says she doesn't drink the water Revolution says she should drink the water or why because there was that a sparrow that even if you're married too an island is even if you married this guy now you could marry somebody else you could be behind your midst of a proof with another woman so you can you can remain married to Islands no is it to be married tonight illness if you married to somebody else this there is if you're married you've never had children and now you're married to an island that would be a problem brings another Apostle it says that you can marry a second woman is a great sorrow but guess what it doesn't work by an eye illness why are the Nixon Israel Sarah said an apostle that the water is going to show that foreign she's gonna have a child the whole thing me is only somebody that was able at one point to have children even a scandal you're right today she can't have children but she's a woman that that was in the pirate show this island is she can't have children look at her she her voice is different about everything is different about her so now the gemara brings a bryzer that's 20 lines long and a very simple bright cell we learned almost all these allahs already even today it's like Hazard to what we learned the bottom line is all the way at the end of the Bryce it says that a Islanders drinks okay after the 20 lines says that an island is can't drink because it says impossible the Knicks of an Israel let's see the price basement foreign if a person does kinui to his engage he already gave her a ring and I rules of the time in the gemara but they're not married what does the positive say look at the positive or ish that's is the Parish of sight is only when they're completely married she's not in the parishion okay also another woman who's not married yet to him her husband died now she's waiting for a brother-in-law to decide I'm gonna marry her they're in between imagine if he's meccano he said do not seclude yourself even though we're not married yet I'm warning you if you want to be married to me I'm not talking about especially the Obama don't be Mr so-and-so and she didn't listen okay I love what we learned today there's another is a woman you now want to be married to your friends in other words she's already pregnant a woman who's already pregnant and ready nursing we're concerned about the baby that if she becomes pregnant again all spoil her milk and the baby will die somebody look you can't marry her for 24 months 24 two years and nine months this lady can't get married absolutely love it so we had this another day where mayor Halls of this is don't marry this woman because he might kill the baby and if you married her even if you divorce her you can't wait to 24 months and marry afterwards like how am I going to say in a second why because he holds the canas loyalum how am I really think she is nice I'm saying no you could you could divorce her and wait the 24 months when the child is old enough get married again a young man he doesn't have children she has no business marrying a woman who's in our car what's in that Coral nakaro is not somebody that was born unable to have children if someone is born with the ability to have children but she drinks some sort of medication something destroyed her ability to have children so in other words she wasn't the power show right now she can't have children also she wasn't the Parish of having Jewish now she can anyway you show upon him he currently never had children before but show yourself this is an illegal marriage therefore there's no drinking she loses her soup because okay this is not only that that we learned on Friday we learned that today says it's not illegal it's illegal if he doesn't have children what if he's married to a second woman who could have children from her so it's not it's not awesome foreign [Music] his wife know anybody it's his wife well he's looking in the article on the bottom you you now the answer is very good valve Rashi says because I would ever have Amino that since she's pregnant she's going to explode with a with a pregnancy with a baby maybe you don't have a right to kill the baby you could have killed a baby you should I say embarrassment yes you're right she's married to you but Heather so she's a a good psycho but maybe she shouldn't drink the water not to kill the Vlad imagine yes all right Vision you see this we're going 20 lines to get to the castle we're not here yet a young man who married an accordion but he does have children so he's allowed to be married to her this old lady again she should drink foreign is already free so now he's a real Jew the island is oh finally that's it this is what we want right over here so nightliness goes according to rebellious says the what you can be married to the Islanders because you can marry another woman what's that Allah she does drink ing said that she doesn't drink this is special parcel that she has to be mixed up in his research has to be available able to have children able to be in the parish this is I don't think I ever in since the beginning of the death did I ever go this is one of these in the book of David you're not permitted to go even one word into the next stop and here we are like a half Ahmed in but because of the sheer tomorrow the lives here in New York and different whatever and we have some time good we'll finish up right over here autonomy Island fine we could stop over here in other words don't ask me questions from a price that says that are those drinks this is you can the brother says you're good but boys I have a wonderful day your Square for coming out for those of you the special obviously everybody else thank you Daniel for doing the video thank you guys for organizing well sure everything you will Phil for organizing everything you do thank you Steve I know this is hard for you resign shout out to everybody if I'm missing something