Daf Yomi Sotah Daf 22 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foreign [Music] in America and in other places is the 13th this is I went to Israel for PESA Ave I got this present for my wife for my birthday and basically saying you just realized how much she appreciates his limited he almost started crying almost started crying for being so emotional in that moment every time I took my phone to learn the dab I was looking for something on my phone the screen probably realized she gave me a standard for my gamara and for my phone a double standard two standard thank you so much for giving me the love to learn every day and find out after such a long time that my wife and kids love to see me learning every night slimy Fisher here's the standarim one for the tomorrow one for the phone everybody said yesterday I read an email and the individual I didn't have time to go back to the email but the individuals I wrote the email said that he came to the sheer because David block and I said oh David black I don't know if you remember it's hard to write this last night Dr David black was nifter can't mention any people's names anymore it was with the share since brothus it was one of the one that recruited myself and Furman to the sheer he struggled with the with the rear cancer uh he's only 60 years old he and I went to the CM and RBS in Durham he's my neighbor and close friend always had a smile on his face he loved the sheer and I know he was listening right up to the very end here's a picture of him at the super cm in Cafe remon he will deeply be missed partly an MS gavi Ramada chemish here is a picture of him if you can see anybody recognize him they were black great great person [Music] some should have an allele the kylo sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood sponsored by myself Mr Ellie Stefan he's stuck in it okay very cool thank you Mr Elise events yes by the way I'm not just making up in my daughter's who's the last thing I married my son so my son's invitation I wrote Mr Elisabeth another young person foreign it's probably the same person that he did the reverse name for okay I wasn't aware and the art for complete reforms [Music] okay so I will turn this for somebody as long as I can see it a little bit I guess we're good we're holding two lines from the top Hitman Lord yesterday a person who learns homish and learns but never had any kind of shimosh from Atomic never learned the real meaning behind the missionaries as raj explained yesterday we'll see today again just learning we're very familiar you learning mishna and we really have no clue we think it says one thing it really means something else we don't know who the past can like we don't know the reasons behind it so a person just reasons like to call Mama Ritz for all the new guys there's a whole story behind them we're not going to get into it because the guy's from Chicago and maybe he's listening maybe he's in the room no I'm just kidding he's not in the room he doesn't listen but it's called amharitz in this year because that's what he said he called me an amarit and I said he's such a Namaz he doesn't even know how to say I'm married I'm all right the typical one of Shahs he's not much better than truth or maestros and it's not Macbeth I shouldn't say true it's not my happiness and he's not careful with the Harris Mi says it's one step worse he's a burp I raise a burp in the marriage well how do you say it no that's our marriage okay abort worse he he has he has bad intent too Amara is just it doesn't know so much but he doesn't know much and he's not such a great guy yeah KUSI we know poison shots if the Gary MSG Horizon then come get him sincerely or they became gay because of fear of the Lions regardless they're not so much kind of things and they don't care about them so somebody who doesn't who just learns Tyra just learns the Hamish just learns the mishna and doesn't go deeper to learn from Arabi what it says here he's also considered a cruising [Music] mortgage is a sorcerer a magician a guy that that says spells and certain things happen it's very interesting that I just learned this today because the first thing that came to mind is what's your typical spell what does the magician say okay Abracadabra what does it mean or what does it means oh very good that's that's what Google's told me that Abracadabra is comes from Hebrew from Los Angeles Abra is Evra I'll create Kadabra with my words abracadabra I guess that was a old language the whole thing that they used to say fine I'll create with my words um so this is in other words he's a faker he'll say words he says he has no clue what he's saying like a mother she says he has certain spells he says he has no idea what they mean and what they do says I like this shot the most he says the Army and she because this is actually the same the sorcerer the magician he says stuff spells and he has no clue what he's saying this guy also he says look there's a mishna in saita that says listen this and that you should treat it this way at the end of the day if you didn't learn the guitar you don't know that doesn't mean it doesn't mean something else we have things in our mission literally meant the opposite almost like the typical reading would be this way it means something else um yeah looked it off today ligamara says over there that there was a uh a sorcerer woman who she wanted to fool this guy and she gave him a cup to drink and he knew that something was up with the cop so he split a little bit on the floor and turned into like uh um some sort of insect and uh a craving how do you say craving in English scorpions scorpions thank you and uh the kids are so he noticed right away so he said you know what you drink this he gave her something else and she turned into a donkey and then he started riding her in the street and one of the friends realized that it's her friend and the donkey so she went and she undid it and it turned out he was riding a woman in middle of the street oh that's amazing kids in those days are very busy with this sorcery that's that's what this guy is he's no he's no he's no better than uh than a sorcerer that says spells says that for Allah we have to know this guy this is Mars you guys see it what's the name of it said if he touches something you know we have to be concerned at a stomach thank you uh yeah Mark Ashkenazi is manipulating the buttons it only goes One Way mark it goes from Damaris I have to go back to the screen because I forget them you pull it up okay fine we'll we'll let it we'll let it slide azamores call Shane in Korea mayor a guy is so such an amaret that he doesn't even know how to read Chrisman but it means he doesn't have to read and not so long ago two three hundred years ago there were a lot of hidden that didn't know how to read they simply didn't go to Haider in Europe the time in about shelter that's a lot of the reason why hasida started people were so amarately they didn't know how to read so a guy that can't read not that he not that he knows how to read and he doesn't say Prisma that's a whole different level talking about a guy that doesn't know how to read you can't say he can't read somebody that probably doesn't know other Allah who's doesn't know how to keep two months somebody doesn't put onto filler because it says in creation you have the word philan and we know you can't if you read Krishna without feeling so he made the Shocker you don't put on film as a side note I like doing this side notes there are people today I noticed almost in every show there are people that don't wear it Philip especially it's films of Rush what does that mean yeah in order to be yay to the minister of till you have to wear it if you wear it fill in halfway down your forehead you know yeah it's a if you were an engineering foreign a lot of people don't realize it's where the hair ends I don't know why they insist I'm wearing it all maybe they're they're not as too wide whatever they should go be marking on it because otherwise you're not wearing fill it thank you we might have to call you now Moritz okay so this is a guy that wears down campus just doesn't have titties again so if you notice here these are all things everything you mentioned is increased around the First Parish of creation since this well not really but it's in Korea yesterday the teacher your son's tired I feel a query that's our that's our fit in here others say that if even if you know how to read so you read Tyra you read mishnais but you didn't serve it is called [Music] the zero order The Offspring of an animal literally a person who doesn't learn was a Burma he's considered a behavior but he also doesn't know anything doesn't know much they're between a human being and a baby well somebody who learns who knows Hashem you should fear Hashem and you should fear Kings and those who are considered China different don't don't mix what does it means these are people that we're discussing right now they say over how as if they know that you come to ask him in Shiloh that's Allah not that they're different that they they say over but they repeat the same thing overhead I think it's four or five times in shots brought on the side here given to all of our other life a person sins he knows that it's awesome but once he repeats it over and over it becomes and all the other places and shots besides here you might ask the famous question would you rely it becomes so it says no NASA look after he treats it he forgets that it's awesome you do not Veer up over and over and over you talk to Shannara every day so you think the Russian artist in your mind is mother you know it's awesome but becomes like it's mother tunnel Valley Oil those who say over the Allah they destroy the world those who learn are the Destroyers of the world um all they know is but they say Allah they say look it says my photos in the mission and saita that this that I don't know whatever you want to say anyhow if you don't look it up you say oh it doesn't teach your daughter it's about the things you don't know whatever it is you're gonna pass in from a mishna you're destroying the world because there's a lot more to it and you have to know more of it so obviously says the modern learning is nice is a beautiful thing but you can take a beautiful thing and and ruin it you could do wrong with the beautiful thing you have to know what to do with it if you're a child and you're learning machines or you're an adult and learning which nice you want to finish the beautiful program Mission great but if you're gonna take the mishnah and say I'm a victim and someone comes to ask you a question you say yeah that is that this is the broccoli making this and this food destroying the world it was a uh a Rob that came up to shaman and he sees the bus driver sitting in a better place than he is in Canada he says what's going on here what he said oh you Rabbi when you give a speech everybody fell asleep but this guy when he drove his boss everybody said to him so sometimes you have something good and you don't use it properly sometimes you have whatever it is you have to know how to use your thing but to use a mishnah and pass that's not a good thing we learned something similar yes are the creators of the world they're situating the world it's great it's beautiful he's supposed to learn every day hello so I think let's let's see rash inside like smack in middle of the armored they give over false halophos when you don't know the reason behind the mission so sometimes you think that it's similar and it's not similar because you have to know the reason behind the mishnah and when you know the reason that you can say is this thing similar to something else and that's what Allah is not everything is that tells you exactly this and this and this today in our days we have a cell phone could you do this in his own cell phone or that you compare it to this episode well if you don't know the reason they can't give that Allah is only an individual opinion blessed and we don't pass him like him so having you passing like this Mission we don't even passing like the mission how long can it be me hello there's many reasons why they don't know if Robert keep is against this one they don't know do we possibly repeatedly passing like this the mission is just uh it's not that so you have to know behind the scenes there's a fascinating my shop I'll just read it for you it's in the back over here it says there is halal in the Our Generation oiseum those who open up and they pass in based on what this says in other words if it says straight out okay but they they try to compare what Allah to something else they don't know the reason behind them like that they don't know they should really learn the gemara and learning gemara is like serving you should yell at them so gonna get to us he says something similar and he says over there that that's why I wrote the mission number because it's very hard to make Allah so he came he devised the way to pass in our day so we pass him from a lot of people especially over here in America I know there's a little bit of maybe sometimes resistance where I'm from now that everybody go to Mr mura is the policy government and um he says you shouldn't pass him based on this this is the tour that this and there's different cheetahs of Milo I I broke it down to a way that we could pass it okay I just thought it's interesting some a person can say okay that's fascinating from schneiders because you have to know behind the scenes what's going on all right says the missionary woman who is a prusa what's a good word for prusa she abstains from from the Hana of this world she's a terrible destroyer of the world I'm gonna explain what that means you have an unmarried woman who's a big David she happens all day long a widow who's very friendly with her neighbors and this is going to explain and it means that a person who took years off his life destroyers of the world every line over here is stuff that we have to remember that we don't always get these kind of gamaras beautiful beautiful musagiman life over here asking how could that be on the Mad New Years we learned how to fear Hashem from unmarried women they keep us Mana and how to get extra Sahara we learned from the Widow you are going to tell us a story who's this unmarried woman that we found how to be a Heroes he wants her unmarried woman falling on her face he heard the whole conversation and you also made different types of people foreign fine beautiful is very impressed with this uh that's that's what you down for you know other people shouldn't be Nisha through me this is a story I I didn't like verify the story I heard the story once that there was a woman who felt that she was too attractive and she dabbed in that she shouldn't be attractive should be Maxwell other people and sure enough she became sick oh my son and who the end of the story who's who's her son or some Cipher so if you if you know where the story comes from like to hear I heard this myself so what happened what's the how do we learn from the Widow to to receive more reward for for mental yeah mono they have a big Ninja Storm who had a very nice show right where she lived yet she chose not to dive in there is why are you coming here every day ready and the story Checkmate there's a concept called harpsis and here there's another East Side we can learn it and forget about this line and move on or we could internalize she had two options I'm assuming that the options were equal doesn't say here that the shul and her neighbor they used to talk a lot and she didn't she didn't get the proper whatever she needed from that don't say that it says Herschel was perfect just the show was further away and she wanted to work harder to get to that show the harder you work the more reward you get very simple that's why people they work very hard to get answering very hard to to make matches I mean I personally didn't see anybody talk about it to me I was a little bit I didn't understand like okay so is this because she's a woman or does this apply also to a man for the for the extra 25 minutes and she's going to another show a man could sit down and learn Tire yeah you can sit down quiet and learn I don't know me personally I don't like uh spending hours and hours on matzus even though it's a huge thing my father used to do it and for me I have to prepare to me it's more important to do it so I don't know at what point do you say that's hypsy is yeah it's unbelievable to get more scarred but oh at what cost what are you losing if you're not losing anything you could think in learning the whole time okay I hear stuff I don't understand together exactly that's my own personal problem nothing to do nobody has to worry about it if you have a good answer let me know you see this beautiful idea sharp see us let's say you're learning let's say you're not you don't learn anyways I don't know what it is but to walk the extra block to the next show you get that much more mental some believable you could send a check yeah I don't know why you're a check to the stalker or you could walk to give it you get more sky for walking okay just keep that in mind it's not just the walking it's and any condiments in the world so we said these these unmarried women are terrible what do you mean terrible so what are you talking about I'll tell you what we're talking about TV that's something Mario says so Rashi says a very long story here there was a woman who pretended she was a Victor Vegas she was an old mother she was a widow so that fits in Tower so good is not all our mothers anymore yes our mothers that are unbelievable they walk extra to get the show but this is our motto who would tell women who are giving birth would come there and all of a sudden they couldn't give birth and Shugo Daven she said let me down for you real quickly Davin and all of a sudden the birth was one of the easiest people said wow unbelievable sadakis one day says Rashi she hired a guy to work in her house and she had to go to this delivery she's a big sadakis that helps women deliver and the guy sees in a jar he hears noise coming out of a jar and it sounded like a baby trying to get out of the the womb she opens the jar and you realize that there was a spell in the jar that she was a sorcerer she's a chef and she would put the spell in and she'd create a situation where the woman couldn't give birth and then she would remove the spell just by removing the spell but she wasn't that his darling and she was fooling people that type of person is a terrible person a valley Oiler destroyer of the world next what's this youngster that is not old enough somebody who kicks his robe and he he doesn't treat his ribbing with the proper respect so here's the Apostle of respecting uh a person who doesn't respect is rebellion then he loses ears if he loses ears then he's called the cotton remove some of his ears this is referring to a student who didn't achieve the level of sack they didn't get the yeah whatever it is she because of her many felt that's more adaptations differently many fell because of hers before his right to do so but soon says so you uh holding your eyes oh I just had a shy love the second occurred to me maybe I shouldn't ask it because I didn't think it through but I'll just say you know what I was looking to see two the father and the son okay I'll tell you Ryan can ask in the stapler both will never pass him I believe I know for sure this type of really say go ask him go ask him I don't know I don't know I don't know how did he take care of this gemara Personnel especially in our generation okay go ask everybody Ashley they always say about camel uh so if a person is he came to that to that age and he doesn't and he doesn't say he's also terrible group and their families are made what age group should he not pass him at least 40. interesting Tyson's here Tyson says it means 40 years from when he started learning Allah so for me it would be about 90 years old well so I didn't start yet so wow yeah it's not 40. the age doesn't give you anything it means you need 40 years of experience we all know rabba barely lived to be 40 years old as she says he's descendant of Ali and we had that whole gemara rabbit taught this he was like to that but he only looked for you how could he pass Canal office so Rashi explains the show of him if he's equal to the greatest person in his community so then in terms of Allah and everything so then he could he could pass him how he says different shot them or he comes to a place and there's nobody else there yeah that Rizal wasn't even 40 when he was left there so sometimes when you're the greatest you you give yourself you do your thing is crucial name Gamora says starts off the seven types of these sadikin these crucial now a true Parish person who abstains from obviously helps us helps us all it's like uh you know having a superstar on your team the where team player's role then we have a couple of Cruise shim on the side it helps the whole team but Lamar is talking about fakers the wrong version not the real Persian Shiva Bruce we're gonna explain all of them well just read their names quickly the the guy from foreign oh I think okay so I want to put a video here and I think I should do it I could show it because which follows it on this one I don't think it's in the slides maybe I did put it I just forgot let's see myself so we'll explain to Rashi is me law in order to be with Dino the faker is doing message for the wrong reason this guy also don't Mitzvahs for covered for other reasons he's a faker he's not doing it so Yoshi had a little thing here so everybody if you want to see it goes like this you got to pay attention quickly here's the guy mom is a big daddy now if you take a good look at him so first of all has a nice beard he has peace he's had his doubts he can't he can't see where he's going he's not gonna you look closely he has like the jeans sticking out from the bottom it was his black supants okay and then he goes on his hat falls off you can see if you look closely he has a space this is tied up there with a rubber band this whole beard is a champ here he is okay this whole capata okay this is what he really looks like is this Gap gets a scam that's what the Ramon is talking about he's not a khasid not a garbage now Parish Nick fee a guy who's uh he abstains from oil what does that means he goes with his hand down he doesn't see where he's going and he he bumps his the the stones and whatever on the on the ground and he keeps on stuffing his toe on the stones because he said he walks his Rashi just the you know small steps like a big side he's a he's a fake he's a phony it works like this and he doesn't even lift his foot up so he keeps on stubbing his toe what was the famous mice I'm missing something I think there was a rabbit that told this guy that he should he said he should look he said he should look anywhere she looked down and uh he's walking and he hit a pole he says I I'm sorry How does it go there ever said I told you that but now now every Poe became on the cave or something like that like you ruined it okay fight I'm not gonna survival I forgot the line you know what I'm talking about Simeon what's the line you know the most not for today what does that means again he keeps on bumping into the walls he keeps going on the wall but it's such a sad thing oh so this I wanted to show that I love them and I might have downloaded the whole thing I switched it onto the thing and I forgot to put it up here so let me I just I'll show it to you and then I'll send it to to your safe and hopefully I'll put it in here this is here in Chicago and March took it two days ago in shallots I thought it was for you guys I'm so excited it's the first time in my life doing in the morning [Music] all right [Music] the special music in the background okay it's very interesting I'm not gonna see if it tastes good or not but it was a very as a whole I never done it I have the morning pestle in RBS we got a few of them with mdy logo with the whole thing you always talks about it so the kids are he's bent over a little bit more than usual you know the guy does the extra Shuckle the guy that's faker shop of he's bent over his head is all the way down what do I have to do and I'll do it you see that's that's a good thing um well what else more fake it says so he's he only does Mitzvahs because of the the special reward I'll get he's or he doesn't do a various because of the fear almost that's not good that's not part of the list it's not seven production that's a good thing because eventually you'll do it so I'm kind of Volusia says okay whatever that means it doesn't mean she'll learn for the name of for the sake of Tyra but he also says a very important thing it's another person learns Tyra even though it's it could be loyalishma but let's say you you do the Dove and you're doing it for 45 minutes maybe it's not whatever but there will be within that 45 minutes one minute of the Shema that's it that's all you need the one point that was the Shema you feel like you're doing it for the right reason that one minute so we call but then of course you have Russian Tyson's here the big tices it's the same tices and every time we have the sugya that what about the sugar that says it's better that you shouldn't be created and created or if you learn turgeolution always says that the chat is there are people that learn for one reason the Canter to show other people up to show that they're better that is terrible that's poison we're talking about Regular People Like Us so maybe we don't have the 100 right intent but within that intent and we were working on ourselves to get to the right intent we're doing good that's a good thing all around my YouTube the the thoughts that we have that are hidden are hidden the megali megalio and the thoughts that are out there for everybody to know they're no Medina rabbit but at the end of the day Revolution knows all our thoughts and if we're putting on this big towers like we're a big titic you go out on the street we have the right cup part of the road The Velvet the fur whatever the whatever it works in your community you walk out like that and you think you're uh the Hamburg the Frack you know the two buttons one button no buttons you're such a hush of a guy the buttons flow off or whatever it is the truth what's underneath there is a little bit so his wife was very scared that after he passes away they're going to take the kingdom away from her from her children she says to her like this I'll to see or even a prusa the prusion that hate me you have nothing to fear those are the guys that I killed those are the people I killed did sad Deacon they're not going to do anything to you they might want to Revenge from me but not from you but look at me saying improve shame and not the ones that love me that are not personally love me anyway so what do you have to be careful of elements it's a word in Hebrew means a faker he's colored he's he's a pretender should Diamond Improvement those who act like the push him is the famous life are people that sin like zimri who went with a Gaia and they want the scar of Pinchos who killed zimly and he killed zimmery are those who are ashamed and they deserve nothing but they want their Award of the big time says that it's not how are we doing with time how much 40 something I think it says over there yeah you have any idea what we're doing one time 40 not didn't have 50 yet there's the mission remember apparently commissioner sponsor of the second is and by the way everything you want to learn here this mishna are things that we already learned that we're familiar with foreign in other words if a woman drinks water she's over she's a massage she's going to die immediately and just because she did a good deed what did we say yesterday was the end of the gemara that she sent her kids to learn tairo and her husband there's no such thing that's not going to help her why my toy machine because if you if you believe that you ruined the whole procedure um first of all those women are women are not going to be scared to drink the water because every woman says you know what I send my kids to learn Toyo I did a lot of Mitzvahs I'm not gonna die right away I have nothing to worry about let me drink it that's it B what about the women that really are innocent and they drink the water or people say You're Not Innocent you're gonna die in three years from now you're not you're not so innocent so you ruined it on both sides says representative foreign at the end of the day she's not gonna she's not gonna die right now you're right she has a sauce but you could tell the effects immediately first of all she can't give birth elements she's going to start withering at that moment everything her health starts deteriorating deteriorating until she dies the soil and that shall die exactly like she was supposed to die although in the beginning let me just show you what it looks like in case you forgot she comes to the base I mean sure she is already at the shiny corner that will happen three years later became Tommy so again a person brings flour for them she brings flour and when she says that this flower becomes it has dominatory but it's not a completely kaddish until she puts it into clichardis but in clicharis then it becomes inherently Cottage like uh like a cardboard if the middle became Tommy before okay did I not show that on I don't think I showed another thing okay obviously we'll have to do some editing should I show it hold on we'll pause I'll show it one second you guys are just gonna have to see this again so you also doesn't have to do it there you go live now okay and now we're back pause okay no it's not about that is the same terrible tragic death after three years became Tommy from the time that she brought away something because it's only cottage's number actually McLean before she put it into the clichardis that creates a whole new Medusa it takes it up to the next level of college then it's like in every other world that somebody brings a milk and it's only Constitution you can redeem it but if the minha already because right over here again right there in the circle area by true seduction by The Dashing it's called dashing there's a side of the Miss bath the right side of this man by the right side of the ramp that's where they burn it it's interesting over here I just notice it says the desire we learned that the Father Allah over here it says it should be burnt these are the ones that her guilt so he said once a woman admits her guilt there's no point of making her drink the water she doesn't have to die she admitted what she admits and now we have a problem what about the milk so you burn it or Adam came and said that your stomach no need to drink the water by Marius any choice so that's also we had the other day she refuses two drink the water before they erased the the McGill because once they raise the mcgillah what do we say is we open up her mouth enforce her Bishop what if the husband doesn't feel like seeing her drink the water we need her we need the husband's approval and therefore she won't drink the water and the middle must be burped bishop and if the husband had released with her on the way meaning after she's already a soya he's not allowed to be with her so he ruins it oh it was a mistake a lot of some of these cases we have to say that they the they made a mistake you're right it's in the wrong order especially if you own like rambanon that that the middle Club is all the way at the end so and we're talking about before the mega was okay and you know what this by the way right over here there's a new Mission there's a few this long mission is a few mission is usually it's the opposite like villain would take a few minutes make it one or not really sometimes they take a long mission to make it two fine over here they took a bunch of knives made of one MMA we're gonna stop right over here where it is a new Mission isai have a wonderful day