Daf Yomi Shevuos Daf 48 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] Good morning boy. [Music] One of the most beautiful good morning. We are back in the dining room with less than a million. Okay. Brings back those memories. But it's a little moreishmak now. A little bit more. Just a little bit moreish. Uh the news. So that if in 5 years from now I go back to this year, I'll know myself. At about 1:00 in the morning, there's uh one of those very scary alarms that come off your phone and you don't have a you don't you can't make it the volume lower and it jars you and says that there are incoming missiles. So when there are incoming missiles, the first thing you do is you go to the window, you go to the porch and bar here in Bamesh, no sirens, but there were a lot of incoming missiles and fireworks. Crazy stuff. Crazy. You see what sets? There's two sets of of I think I might have missed the second set. I don't know where I was at the second set, but uh the incoming there's no sirens here. There's sirens all over Bamesh. All theim. Now, there's one bomb that did you guys hear that one bomb that just went for over a minute? Yes. What was that? It's a bunch. I don't know what that was. That that started my Yes. Like like is that the nuclear? What What is that exactly? Because usually it's a very loud then you see the evaporation in the atmosphere. Some of them just evaporate. They go like that. But you're not supposed to hear that. so much. So the ones you hear and then you see pieces falling very very quickly towards the earth and then you say what what did it hit? I heard that I don't think there's anything I don't think anything got hit. So So that was last night just to give the a little bit of a but I think the first we had a sense of security. They only sent one or two during the day. It's like, oh, they're running out of missiles. It's they're running out of launchers, but then they they they sent like 25 or something. So, it's not over. It's not over. We're still And I I don't this whole idea of having this sense of, oh, we're we're great. We're doing unbelievable. We're we're about to wipe them off the and then there's a certain sense of like, oh, we don't have to say to him even it's it's like not even a war anymore. I I think that's wrong. We we're in a very dangerous matter still, but we don't know it. We don't feel it. So, um here's a a 14-year-old son, Israel, waiting for surgery. Sorry, I have to put it together here on a broken knee. Listening to that, guys. Even if you see it over here, doesn't mean that the sees it. So, remind me. Like, I have to remember to do the button, especially whenever goes on his uh smoke break. Push the button. First listening to the daff he joined the makus daf bay. It just means I love him. I joined the yamus daf bay. He joined the mak base. I joined the d base. Thanks for the amazing shim. Yours pin goldberg for lame this 14-year-old berkov. This is for you. I just threw it in here. Please adjust the new camera and remove the automatic services. After you showed that it swivels for the ne the rest of the shear, your cupboards went forward and backwards as you shuckled and made me dizzy. So, it's my fault. I guess I touched something over here and I I made there's an automatic um it follows you. Good. It's not following me. Amy asked if he's sure. It's your fault, not his fault. It's always a fault and I I'm just being nice. I'm thanking you very much. Can you please announce listen to this ra you please announce that the Cleveland will be honored with having modern Roshi tells David Goldberg as the guest speaker very very oh it's not on that's what I'm saying oh thank you thank you that's what I'm talking about when it's not on these things even the charts during the year I have to little There's certain things that I see you don't. That's what I'm saying. This doesn't show what this shows what I'm seeing. Right. I'm saying even without knowing just remind me, right? Let's see. Oh, do you see this one? I like the way they write it in here. I think Benny started that. It's like one word. I I came to see my brother. He works in something carpentry. Carpent. He works in carpentry. Yeah, you'll hear. And I I I caught him. Caught him hot doing the daff instead of listening to the the news in actuality. What's actually actually Okay. But there such a such a thing from here. Let's here we go. I don't know. He listens to it. [Music] Oh. two people from the UK. Ra lives now here in Raabsh originally from the UK. He is making so did change his life is sponsored by anonymous. Oh, I just want to say here another thing that we could say here in the middle of davening, we had a a siren. Well, not a siren, a warning that there's going to be a siren. So, we had to start like like what do we do? Like, do we start and then okay, so then we went quick and then it's like, okay, we'rema no siren yet, so let's go quick. What happens if you start? You're not knowing if there's a siren. What do you do exactly? But we got the warning. Same thing like at night we got the warning that there was missiles in but not so went through we have here exactly like we had 11 people and anonymous that's the sponsor monthly sponsor TCS Israel powered by talk and save weekly sponsors for that and Yeshua for Yehuda Mayhem save and protect daily sponsors anonymous as a gratitude for my first ever Torah without trauma. TWWT Torah without trauma and as Ellie in these challenging times. Wow. My friend Abi came just texted me it's on my screen that his daughter made it home for the wedding. They're doing go today is the wedding. Wow. And to go through Sham to go through Egypt is is a whole it's 12 hours to basically get there and situate yourself. It's a 36-hour trip. Bas basically you're saying it's 36 hour journey. So just to go there it's a little scary. And then to get to the airport they say it could be dangerous whatever hours driving to the to the desert. That's what it's not by the border. You have to go through the desert and there's sometimes you get kidnapped sometimes you don't. He's going through the whole bar, but if you have to you have to go, you have to go. Yeah. Yeah. I know. They said there's like dangerous stuff in that in that desert. So, you go sometimes with a police uh escort and if if you have to go, you have to go. Moisha Aron Landy our grandmother SGO on her yard. MDY kids monthly official this week's ammy. I don't know if anybody uh here I don't know if we're going to get it. Does it come from America? I don't know. Is it printed here? So there's this the story the story uh on the safari with the with the cheetah killed but you know how to say the word kill. So I I called it the chase and uh it basically started with Molandi that he he said uh if I see the chase in the next 30 minutes I give $1,000. And then the next guy said give a,000 kits. He's always involved. Molandi MD kids official Rifki and Mrs. Defansky. What happened? I don't know why somebody's touching this while I'm doing it. Art of the month for rebelling the whole MDY staff to continue to make so many and in honor of Kle and Marazi for all the work they do. What do we got? Well, yeah. Oh. Oh. Oh. Mosha Cohen from Nebra, who's featured on Aric's new video of What a Day, which didn't come out yet. Although, we have some pirate parts that came out. He made one of these like a luak. It's a It's a what is it called? A place um bookmark. So, we only have two daff left. Two daff left. And uh we're not doing we're not doing good. Over a thousand. That's not good enough. Over a thousand in the Hebrew. I don't know how many people in the English. But we ourselves as Kabur, we didn't do very well. We brought about 150 people for the Hebrew. I still don't know numbers of English. Total of a thousand. But the thousand is from different WhatsApp groups and this that from the from within it's a lot 150 considering that that's a you know compared to other let's say 150 is more than somebody else's sh but we expect larger numbers because it's the to get people wants to get 5,000 people you said to yourself you're not going to do status until the last day. So here it is. Here's the last day. Send that status out. And did anybody take men's phone last night? Yesterday after she Oh, here we go with the excuses. Yesterday's after she there's a borrower and a lender. The uh the lender lent $1 million to the borrower. Million dollars. Does it make a difference if the lender dies and then the borrower or the borrower dies and then the lender doesn't make a difference? Could you see in your mind that in one of those situations maybe the orphans we call them the orphans the of this person doesn't have to pay doesn't have to pay the father died one of the fathers died no more zero nothing they just gained a million dollars could you could you contemplate such a thing so today that's most of our sug actually it's very it comes out that yes if they both die. Yeah. But I'm saying okay one dies first. We're going to see that in one of the cases one of the cases you don't have to pay back the it's uh the was so astounded by this that the Gmorra wanted to like get rid of it rip this out of the and get no ra and both say this okay so let's see that's the we're going to have to get there it's middle of the smack in middle of the that's where that sug starts And then it goes into unbelievable stories. I mean comparely speaking for nothing compared to says the all the way in the bottom of we're talking about this case where let's we could go slow. We have two that say one thing and they contradict the other adim. One says we saw that Ysef is a killer and the other one says Y is not a killer. So what do you do when you have two that contradict each other? So we had like this according to you get rid of these forever. All four are no good even though only two of them are no good but we don't know which one. according to Rauna. So according to Rauna, if there are if they testify in two separate cases, two different then we we view each independently and this has that we don't know that they're bad. This has a we don't know they were bad collectively. If they're two against two, then we have a problem. But since they're indivi they're individual things, the different cases says you let it go. Everybody agreed that if you take one from here, one from from the other one and put them together, there's definitely no good. So that's what we had yesterday. So says here we are. We're talking about So where is it? The picture of Mardice. Okay. A goat a goat stick or something. It's a special stick that you you you get the how pride prod the uh the goat with. Now in those days it was made the same exact size. Everybody had the same size. Call it three foot stick. Whatever. It's a stick. It's all it's always the same size. So one aid testifies that he saw the moon on the horizon. and two sticks, two measurements above the horizon. Another one said it was three. That's not so bad. They were all Listen, you can't we're human. We don't know how to measure exactly by distance. So, we saw the same thing. I bet you if you asked um all of us in this room what they saw last night where the missiles were coming from and how fast they were falling all say something slightly different. We saw it in the way we saw it. We're not lying but that's how it is. What? No. No. The here horizon. This is the horizon, right? When you look at the end of the you look at the that's the horizon out that window. Okay. That's our horizon. That's the how where was the moon compared to the end of the earth. Here's the earth the horizon. And the moon was saying had to be at the same time because of Oh yeah. Yeah. They're together. They have to be together anyway. Yeah. They're together. So this is you're looking at the at at the earth. You're looking at the earth and then you see the moon right over here. And he says, "No, I saw it over here." So you're you're somebody is not saying the truth. But when if if it's similar, it's two to three. Okay, fine. We'll let it we'll let it slide. But but if the difference is two sticks length, then now now we're talking something completely different. Hello. This is unbelievable. They come to Bez and they say, "I saw the moon three sticks above the horizon." Another one says, "I saw the moon five sticks above the horizon." This guy is puzzled forever. You hear this? They're gone. They're done for life. They're they're liars. Shakran. Yeah, they're talking in things. They're not trying to take a million dollars out of somebody's pocket, but they're bad. And then it says, They could go and testify somewhere else. What does it mean? They could go somewhere else. They're good enough to testify that Ruben ow ow ow ow ow ow ow ow ow ow a million dollars. No said that these guys according to when you have two against two forever. These guys are no good. They're known as whatever the the is get rid of them. All of a sudden over here it says says, "No, you didn't understand. These guys are not bad guys cuz look." Ah, let's see here. It's on the screen. I see the new moon. One ax code above the horizon. What does it say next? I'll wait. Oh, we got the next one. Y, I think you need glasses. It's clearly two. You guys have no clue what you're talking about. It's five above the horizon. Okay, but he put them all together. Yeah, but now the Gar is saying, let's see if we could get to here. Oh, so now the Gar is saying that you have a between these two guys, right? It's three and five. Let's say comes another guy. Forget the bottom guy. Okay, these numbers are off. Yoshi did off with to to match the but the idea is the same. The idea is that two guys are arguing with each other and he's saying that they're puzzled. But if one of the guys gets someone else to testify with him and he agrees to him. So they that's what it means with styim in the same case when they come to be and they say we saw the moon like this comes a third guy says I agree that it was let's say three above the horizon. So the guy in the bottom is the liar. The guy on top is going to be is going to be MS manus. It's a good adas and then his will be good for also that the bottom on the b the guy in the bottom is going to be puzzle for life says the right but the upper guy the upper guy not only is he is he is is he is he good for life but he's good in this itself he's good what about three four and five what about three four and five between the three and five is four so the four go three go oh you mean the the the one in such a case my question Maybe three meant four and five meant four. If five meant four and three, maybe they have a mistake with one number. That's what he's asking. If the guy in the middle could be the two like that, he makes them all not lie. Yeah, why not? I don't see it should be okay. The guy in the middle is saying together with him and he's saying like what's the where you have to pick one. No. Okay. Good chilus. Three of them come. If three come together pick two. You say three. He says I said and and now what? And what are we going to go? Where was the moon though? Did the two bottom and the two top? Okay. Great child. But it's not really our just trying to prove could are they good for life or not? And we don't have a right that they're not good for they might it if it's the original case three and five they might be possible forever or not. Yeah, that's good. Oh, sorry. Let me just explain these words. So, in this in this uh thing right over here, you have two the two guys that are saying let's say three against the guy in the bottom. The guy in the bottom loses out. and uh he might lo and he loses out according to him forever telling dinner perish. So he had two stories in the Mishna the story where a guy goes to uh to get some and uh he gives the guy the money and now that there's an argument whether or not he paid for his pukim or not. He has the bag of of of the karim of the nash from the store. The owner says he didn't pay me yet. And he says he did. This is something that happens. So what do we do? So is the according to if the stuff is in his hand, he already has the the merchandise the buyer then he doesn't have to pay. According to the the buyer is going to make a shua that he paid. We have the same exact case again in the Mishna. When it comes to money, somebody goes to the change, Tyrie Simon's change place, gives him he thought he gave him $1,000 in cash and he got back 3,700 shekele, whatever it is today. What's the What's the dollar? Really? I I had no I changed money last week and I had no idea. Is it really the I don't I guess I should look at the receipts. Okay. What's the difference? 3.41. That's what I say. Okay. Is very excited about the shekel, about the dollar. But it's the same story in our days. We understand it doesn't work. As much as I know, you give the guy the check, you give the guy the cash, and then he gives you shekele. He never gives you shekele first. Well, that's uh Oh. Oh, hold on. We should do a talking about the change earlier. How much is Oh, yeah. Face track went on. Wow. This is why we wanted you back. How many days was they not here? Two and a half weeks. The last No, no. What? How many days since Friday? Friday morning. So, you're in a hotel room and this and that. You had the food. Food was okay. How did the manage in Cypress over there with you? I got five new people. How'd you get back? You got on a regular flight. I was on the first flight. The first flight. Did you Did you go with Hill also? He's supposed to be surprising also. So he had business class. Yes. You got this. He got business. I don't believe it. I don't believe I don't believe business class on the on the on the escape plan. How do you say kut in English? Evacuation evacuation flight. Okay, I forgot to tell you guys we're middle of a shear likeing. Oh, I'm so excited to see you Simon. Wow. Okay. Um I don't know if we did. Let's just do uh I got to just do a quick turn around here. Oh my gosh, this thing. Oh no, I'm in the wrong place. We go. No, I'm trying to go to Are you Simon? No, I passed him. Oh, can't miss. Wave. Wave so everybody knows. Stuck in stuck in Cyprus for you know how do I go back? places. Okay. First of all, was very excited about the DAFF. Yeah. But he didn't want to do a video. He was like, but he said the D is a good thing. Very excited about the concept that there's 35,000 people in Oh, I didn't show your video. So, let me tell it's very important. Stop me right now. Rari Simon put the shear just a random daff in the in the restaurant over there in Kabad. He put it on the screen and you I was watching and I was like why is he sending this to me? Everybody's busy eating omelets and no not a single person is looking at the screen. He says after the video he says he sends a picture. I might have put it in. I don't know. I didn't. He sends a picture of a guy signing up. What happened was a guy noticed it. He ate breakfast like everybody else. And you think that you're not influencing anybody and a guy signed up this year. So, so that's it's a it's a it's a big lesson. You got to make your status. It seems like nobody's listening. Seems like nobody's responding to your to your status. Many people will come to you and I heard this literally in the hundreds. I'm not not gma people come to you a year later say by the way because of you last year you put in status. Remember this is my third m I'm finishing. I haven't missed a day. Crazy stuff like that. But they won't tell you in the beginning. That's nature. That's human nature. They won't tell you. If you're lucky, they tell you after a year sometimes you'll never know. These are your these are your children. These are your put out on the status. Okay. Yeah. This whole story is when the fruit is not nobody's holding on to the fruit. It's right here and we have argument. Did you pay for it or not? Says this argues in the it doesn't really add anything over here when he has the fruit. It's on in his knapsack. He has the fruit. Let the store owner grab it to prove it. The change guy. Same story. Ask what do you need? The two stories says you need both of them. This is the same story. One is fruit, one is one is cash. When you read it, it's not understandable. Says the simple language fruit is something that spoils. He's very nervous. He doesn't he doesn't want to wait a second and he gives it. So says Rashi beautifully. If you ever went to you could you could see that such a thing exists. and a very aggressive seller, a very, you know, like a real guy. Guy, he screams too sh you can see you start talking to him. Before you know it, he gives you the fruit and he says, "Noo pay. I didn't want it. Too late." You know those those you go to used car's place and they they do this. They type in the thing. How much is the car? And they I don't know. They have all these silly tricks. So you go init how much is it? Yeah. Before you know it, he's driving. A minute later, he's like 700 check for four blocks. It's too late. I'm already driving. You have to pay. Such a thing, right? An aggressive driver. Aggressive uh store guy. So, aggressive store guy. He takes the fruit because it's going to rot. He doesn't care if you pay him first. He's desperate. So, he puts it in your knapsack and then he makes you pay. Money is money. Diamonds don't rat. do them. Maybe in that case they'll admit that if you're holding on to the fruit, why do they give it to you? Why do they give you cash? It's something that doesn't happen in the change store. They don't give you the the shekele before you give them the dollar. And if it would only say the case of a change. That's why says if it's in your hand, obviously you paid, you gave him the money by agree that it's possible that you got the fruit first. that even in this case says no if you have the the money in your hand I mean sorry the fruit in your hand it's it's proof that you you're the owner and it didn't come there because the guy was desperate and you don't have to bring a ra the store owner has to bring so it says in the interesting thing like we say somebody that has a damaged in other words a agreed that her husband paid part of the kuba having so in order to get the rest she must swear they also they have to swear who do they swear who's swearing over here we have this right wow I hope doesn't uh it's the war the stomach the it's the I'm not exercising I don't know anybody else have an issue with their exercise and stuff. Everybody really you also really my nose runs. [Laughter] Ruain said his nose runs. That's the exercise he's doing. His nose does the running. He does. Okay, fine. Everybody know their own thing. I'm just saying that things are different this week or two. I don't understand. The father doesn't have to swear. So why does have to swear? We had this yesterday or whenever we had it. It's against the wars between the children means 60-year-old kids. They're not but they just don't know anything about the father's business. Exactly. Oh, so what? So this is we have to just remember for the entire there's two types of there's a that the says you have to swear what are you swearing that you know that the guy owes me money and he's a liar. There's a means that they say we're we don't know anything. All we could swear is that we don't know that we're not doing any here that it's not like somebody that we know that this guy paid and we're pretending we found aar. We don't know anything. It's we have aar and we're going to base it on the what happened between our fathers. We have no clue. It's a very weak. And here goes that question that we have before. this that a yish could go ahead and swear and get his money is when the lender died first. Listen to this. This is the whole right here. People are not going to like this. If the borrower dies before the lender says Raven, they don't have to pay. You s don't have to pay a $10 million loan, a $100 million loan. The L dies before the Malva, there's nothing you can do about it. How could the Malva go? Says Rav Rav and which are they always argue in chess over here. Not always, you know, there's a few times that they agree on something. both say get rid of this and this is in a interesting why first of all step number one is that when the dies the only way the mala could get the money out is if the malva swears so that's okay that's doable you can get your money back the case is that the malva also died first the died then the malva died so what do we want we want to take this the malva is supposed to do for the assignment. We have to give a birusha to the to his children. The children of the borrow of the lender. Yeah. The children of the lender have to step into the father's shoes and do the same exact thing that the father did and make a shuah. A real shuah and they can't do it. How could they make a real sha? What are they going to say? You owe us 1,000%. You owe us money. They can't. Maybe there's a deal between the two of them. If you think about your own children now, do any of your children know anything what's going on in your personal business and who owes you what and who didn't pay you? Who didn't pay you? Who did and didn't? I know my children have no clue. Certainly my wife has no clue. So then yeah, some people maybe they if their kids work with them in the business or something, whatever it but so he says, listen, here's the here's the story. Lea dies first, Malva dies second. Wipe the loan off. Why? Because if the lea dies first and the malva is still alive, then we have a way out of this. The malva will will swear. He has to swear to the yam and say, "Listen, your father never paid me." But once the mala dies, that exact goes to his children and they can't swear it. What could they swear? They could swear contested. If it's not contested, they have to pay back. Doesn't wipe the loans. Listen, listen. Time out. Time out. Time out. And even if it is contested, it doesn't wipe the loan. And then the guy's going to go to to get him or whatever. Yeah, I'm not giving a over here. I'm not saying you don't have to pay. I'm saying that that you can't sum in court, right? Shamshi's story that and I'm just saying it because he he sparked something. Shamsi knows of a story. I think he was there or his father. It was your father. Shamshi's father was at a Shiva house and Arv walks in. He sits there for a couple moments and he says, "By the way, your mother, she owes me two months of rent at the Shiva." She was in the hospital cuz she was in the hospital. So instead of like and and come after Shiva. So we wanted to be wanted to be he's trying to do for just went up to the guy is suffering because didn't pay and he's like right now I don't want to suffer during shiv okay listen I want to rub like that he'll collect all my debts his own debts he's very careful about his own debts he doesn't he's not so care okay add the list of people there's things that people say at a people I saw and this might be on the video also but I saw this with my own eyes out of the sh house and a r was smoozing with the with the he was mish front front seat bunch of people and all of a sudden he gets a phone call and he and he says on the call he says and this might be in the videos I saw with my own eyes he goes mazotov mazotov yeah yeah gvaldi okay I got I'm just over here. Yeah. Yeah. First of all, what are you picking up your phone? Okay. Okay. You don't know what's going through this. Okay. Maybe like this this couple didn't have kids in 25 years. You never know. But we took him to the mala can't give the Now there's another that we're talking about that the could do which is a weak and that's not what we're talking about that exact that the father had it he can't give it over to his sons he can't sue the million dollars. So they give it to says no way this can't be. He argues I don't like this what you're saying they should swear the simple of a that as far as we're concerned your father didn't pay our father pay up. So we have a raven. So I'm just going to tell you the end of the now we're going to try to poke different. We're going to go after Raven like crazy because it doesn't make sense to us. But the attendant is going to say listen we don't know what the is and therefore we have ram. But if a by mistake went with and saidim swear that that's okay we can take the money out. That's that's the end of the so seems like was only for like one year or so. So during that period they said it they're bothering me. They keep on sending this question over and over which there's a story with the it's almost nothing to do with her but just jog my memory and it's a story and I had a new deer over here where went to the and said promise me I'm going to sit next to you. So the just ignored him and this guy was persistent. He was drunk and persistent. He kept on bothering the time bothering and bothering. So looked at him and said, "If you accept upon yourself that you'll never talk, I promise you you'll sit next to me." So the guy thought about it, thought about says, "Reb, I can't I can't promise such a thing. How could I say that?" So the Oh, what happened? What What took you so long? He walks back. But this guy came 10 minutes ago. Where were you? That's business class. He went off. He went off first. Oh, he got off the plane first. You did not sit business class. [Music] Oh, that's right. My wife I I want to make a prediction. The Berm when this all goes well, one of the biggest I know for me personally, one of the things that prevented me from making aliyah all the years was the the fear factor. the the sak that Israel is in with all the neighbors once Iran is gone and all these things real estate is going to go up tremendously especially on this tax that's reason I don't even know about that okay the parach by the way the my theory is that they're gonna they're gonna fly on one of these um flights. What are they called? The flights is going to come out of one of them all tied up and they're going to do a whole trial here tomorrow. Okay. So, [Music] oh the story of so was really upset at this. He says, "I offered him an offer of a lifetime and he didn't take it. He told the Bim, take this guy out. take this guy out. So you see from here uh we all know this but think about it. Imagine the offering you a once in a lifetime opportunity. If this comes back to the next day says I thought about it. Let me back in. No, it's a once in a lifetime opportunity. Sometimes you have that opportunity. You either take it or leave it. It's there. You have to make a quick decision. And if you take it, it's sitting next to two days. Oh, I didn't even want to say it. It was so obvious. You have a once in a-lifetime opportunity. And for us, the once in a lifetime opportunity is to get that guy to see that there's once in a lifetime opportunity. It's for some people. Listen to this. Shamshi Schlafreak is one of the most normal people in our famous. You talk to him for 2 minutes, you'll He's a normal guy. He stood in the merkaz with a sign to sign up people. I'm not making this up. Stood with a pile of gar because he he told me he says listen I feel very uncomfortable. It's not something I've ever done. It's not something I ever thought I will do but I want to be another person. How many of us could say that they did that? It's a weirdo stands there with a with a with a with a this only parent is a normal guy. Bam. He's more friends than all of us together. He's normal. Bamis normal. That was our topic in uh in Cypress, right? You guys are You guys are not 100% normal. I'm talking about normal. I'm 100%. It's not normal. What? We're in a rush to What's there? No sirens until you know the problem. Oh, it's already 8:00. Okay, let's go. So, So basically they're asking me so many times that how does it make any sense that the dies first and that you get out of this loan completely. You think if I would have known something good over here I wouldn't have sent it to you. Oh man, you're going to love this one. You're going to love it. sitting at a at a and uh and this hash looking guy, you know that Hasha looking guy niggan I said he says just I said listen there's there's a we're not singing he says no trust me trust me I'm telling you is going to love the you and the whole singing as soon as I'm finished I she said and I thought about here that's listen I I didn't but it just happened to fall on my plate over here so yeah like the guy with the and his glasses every time his glasses fell down he had a m okay. So he says a little bit of over here that this whole that we said is if the Malva goes to Bezdon and in Bezon they say you have to swear and then he drops dead then the children don't have to pay only in that case because he went to it's only because he went to and they instituted a here and then that you can't give over to your sons. But what if he never went to the best and then he dies after the our case but he never made it tod I say he makes a sort of in ramo ravage say that the kids never have to pay not never like said you you're not going to be able to forge the pay that's if they never made it to be if they made it to be raven didn't say that oh now we're we're calmer okay because now it makes a little bit more sense Great. Because they never made it to Bez. They never made it to then the kids do have to pay. It makes no sense what you're saying. What your your only when you get into the like what the walls of the bez make the swear this this is immediately and has nothing to do with with going to listen he says like this this is very very problematic I I can't explain it I can't do justice to it if you believe in it then take it that what that the uh the lea the kids don't have to pay the loan. If the dies first and then the mala and if you don't believe in it then don't believe in it says didn't know what to do he says if you believe in it yes if not not he we know that knew what to do according to what's the dies first the dies first dies according to how much does does the borrower's kids get big zero And now over here he says you get 50%. Is it 50% of zero? So he knew what to do. He knew exactly what to do. Says if you remember in the Mishna in this case I'll show you. It was this something like this here. Oh I did a little over there. Okay. You have a mal and a lova is a bad guy cuz he's a gambler. So you give the shva, you pass the shua on to the malva and then we find out the malva is not the best guy in the world. So it goes goes to or it goes back to the so in that case says no he says and then we explain what did he mean? Did he mean did he mean uh go to or does it mean go back? So on that he said maybe according to not that he himself holds that punish that's why you're talking about the rash over there that was in um because no we said that was a brought a puk of No that was yeah No time out in the in the that in that case the the malva also suffers the consequence he gets a because he explains it that's we had yesterday it's just a punishment of is going to take care of him for for causing a mess here with a guy that's something else forget here Oh, okay. Whatever. Let's go. It's already 8:05. Wow. Time flies when you're having time. What? Same story in England. On England on Perm, everyone gives out checks. Bigum. There's a big that died the next day. So, was the whole question about every check is avoid the katanim. Yeah. This I don't remember all the details over there, but I think it probably plays into this whole over here. That might be the continuation of the story that of that guy I think a big beer in London that died on a day after poor after giving so much money and they asked Kyvki yo man toldki I'm going to the sha house what should I tell the mana so he said tell man that he lived the extra 20 years so something like that and he went he told her and uh and she said yeah exactly 20 years ago and puram he was in a massive car accident but he he came out of it something like that so he got like At least in life sometimes you look at it as wow he died so young. No actually was supposed to be even worse. Okay. Anyway, but that they say there was big fe. No, cuz what do you tell that money? Question was he gave so much and the next day like this is it was anyway what? Yeah. And you're saying that there was a question. Okay. start and and then during Shiva people came to the saying no payoff your father gave us a check they were trying to help yeah so now we're just going into a few cases here um she this woman is she she gets exuba right now when After when when a when a when a woman's husband dies, she has 25 years. It's a funny 25 years to collect exuba. If she waits 25 years in one day, no more it's over. So she dies now she has and her want to collect. So they have 20 25 years from the time that her husband died. Now what's going on here? Let's think about it. The woman herself, she would have to make a she have to swear to the her husband's. If she wants to collect from the from the she has to swear. Now she dies. What happens? Her children want to collect her stuff from the they have to take her that she was going to swear and do the same thing over. Isn't that Raven that you cannot give over such a to? So you see that you could it's a cash says she she swore she did swear. It's not a sh of you have to swear. You're right. Typically you can't swear according to it's a case where she already did the dirty work. She already swore and she died. I'll just tell you real quickly because a lot of women are going to love this uh this misa. So I'll say it for them but please don't repeat this in chabas at your shabas table. There was a a guy on his on his anniversary. He he was like he was making these funny faces, whatever. So the wife says, "What are you thinking about? What's going on in your mind?" He says, "Listen, right after we got married, I I called up the lawyer. I said, "Listen, what would happen if I killed my wife?" He said, "You'd sit you'd sit for 25 years." He says, "Now it's 25 years later. I would have been a free man. So a guy had two marriages from the first marriage he had a son and then his wife from the first marriage dies then he married another woman and then he dies. So the second wife and the second children they come before the first so something called we're not going to get into it right now just to refresh our memories there's something called that the husband promises the the first wife that her children they'll they'll they'll get they'll get the kuba whatever it was now the second wife comes before the first wife. So therefore, she has to swear. It's the same the same that we brought a second ago. She has to swear. She can't swear. So she gives that to her children. Says, so you see from here that children could swear and take money. Not like Ra say that you get zero. How can talking about that the woman herself swore and then she died. There's a funny case where a guy says to his wife, "Don't worry, no matter what, I'm not going to make you make even if you have let's say where we said that she has to swear. You're not going to swear." But if she dies, then the do have to swear. So you see over here once again that the do swear and they take it says the katani there's two over here when it's talking about an alman then herself has to swear but alman knows exactly what's going She knows that her husband her husband uh owes her money or not owe money. But when it's talking about the we're not talking about we're talking about not the Alman herself. We're talking about the Yim is not talking about a widow. We're talking about a doesn't have to make a Yeah. Alman has to make a Why? Because she's taking from Yarim. Her husband died. She's an Alman. She doesn't have a husband. So she has to make awar to that guy. Then she takes that gives it to her kids. But by a divorcee her her ex is still alive. So there's no the kids have to make the kids make aw. But it's not a the whole it's not our case. It's not our case of giving. It's not the mother. It's their own called something else. Sometimes a son's power is more powerful than the father. Yeah, I have two stories here. I'm going to skip them. We had them in the Hebrew. Why? Sometimes the son can collect with awar and a son doesn't have to. What's the case? Our story where the dies first then the ma dies and it says over here that the son could collect money. If we stop right over here, there's a problem with Ravage because according to Ravish, the son does not collect money. Zero he gets according to Ra says what's what does it mean the simple easyw does sometimes even without this testimony at the deathbed that the father said on his deathbed that so and so never paid him back. In that case the Mishna said the brought you know you see that sometimes makes and takes money not like great the answer is it goes according to we don't pass like this there's a story by the what's the story by the she goes to the bid she explodes if that happens there's no she loses in that case what if her husband He couldn't believe that his wife is about to explode. He dies from a heart attack on the spot. So she doesn't drink the water. What about the she was about she about to find out she was she getsa says bish why it's as if she's holding on to it. She's in the it's as if it was already paid off. So we'll say the same same thing over here according to it's as if the kids already have the money in their hand and they get the money. So oh sponsors turning of the daffnovations LC let's let's let's go with the other one adar global making answering questions great again ah you see here in the room inovations LLC in honor of our sons Kmon for learning Sanhedrin makis and rebell you had a flight through the night like what happened exactly they told us at 9:30 got an email that you have a flight at 4:00 in the morning so you guys didn't really sleep much no but you're back what is location. Oh, cmdy.com. We have Miami, Tene, Cleveland, Toronto, we had in Hong Kong, we have in South Africa. Crazy. There's like 14 15 places. Check it out. Cypress. Just check it out for fun. Mdycum.com. Cypress is canceled. Like cancel. We cancelled the one in Cypress. What is this? What are you showing me over here? There's a video from Cypress. Oh, that's the guy signing up after here. You want to push the video? Yeah. Push it for a second because we have a lot of time cuz it's only 8:15. There's nobody. Look, not a single That Serb is real. Not a single person is watching the screen. But you don't know. Right after breakfast. Yeah, it's free. Really? That's cost. $250 a day at least. How much? $250 a day. to pay for place to sleep for food. So people tried to cut cost. Wow. 253. Okay. How much we said already? Oh, and they came to visit him. We got to get rid of this. We gota abolish this. It doesn't make any sense. A guy gives a million dollars to somebody and then that someone dies and then the guy that gave them a million dollars, he dies and it's got doesn't make sense. You think I came all this way all the way from Iran from Paras. No, you came all you did all these all these steps from Paris. You know what we're going to do? We're going to just take it and do the literal words. There's a lot of people that love that. Literal exact words. We're going to take and not go right and left. Not learn uh how do you say it? Um you don't learn anything from it. We'll do only this one case. What does it mean? How do you not expand it? a person who paid off a little bit of his loan. So now is um Muslim. That's what I was looking for. Thank you. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You can't be. So there you have a situation of semi paid off and he dies. Here's a case where we don't say like what what should Ravmo say in such a case? since he had a swear and now he he's giving the the over to his kids you don't have to pay at all. No, in that case the you do make and you get the money. Another he died. Now what happened was our case first the dies and then the malva died. So after the Malva dies and he left over a guarantor so he wanted to say we already established we're not going to we're going to go to the letter of the law and now there's a guarantor involved over here. the guarantor maybe this should be should be different than I'll do what do you mean at the end of the day the are going to suffer at the end of the day have to pay after the guarantor pays the guarant goes to the so you are dealing with when you deal with no pay another guy died so died then the malva died and instead of leaving instead of the malva leaving children he left a brother same story all so you want to be a stickler to the word only said their case it's with a with a son not with a brother it's a different type ofish not true aish is aish we again it's one of these interesting I don't remember myself but I don't remember anything where the says listen this is that we're stuck with it's it makes no sense to us we can't make any sense to it we can't figure out the logic here but it's raal what are you going to do you have Who said that? You're stuck. So, let's just limit it to here. Don't try to expand on it. What's the difference who the Irish is? Whether it's a son or a brother, they both don't know anything. You can't make a over here. Pay them or you don't have to pay the the loan. We don't know if that is like but maybe that love is like you do make and you get paid. If you passing like Raven. Okay. Great. So what do you do when you come up with such a dies first? Then the mala dies. What do you do? Do not rip it up because according to what you do rip up the you can't you can't you can't be with it. So rip it up and at the same time you can't use it to extract money. I can't use it as you pay zero. So don't don't but don't rip it up by mistake. Somebody used it. It's a good thing. somebody passing like not like and he gave the money to the I could bring you a letter from there fix we went to a very very one to ask him about the yeshiva that we're opening up and he he said like a line to us um I hope I don't get into trouble for saying this he said you know I could get you a letter with a lot of on it signed in 10 minutes, less than 10 minutes. I It doesn't even matter what it's I could just this way. You just go and get it signed off in 10 minutes. I said it over to our pass. He says 10 minutes is a gizmo. It's 5 minutes. He says, "I have a letter signed up for is not like Yeah. Yeah. Go, go, go ahead and get me the letter here. It's good. It says that that not only did you not bring me that is not like but if you passing you go like it's good. Let's just do a few more lines here. It says in the there's some people that swear without any at all and here's the I don't have to show it to you. So says the if you just want to do it by the word it makes no sense. Why would somebody make a for no reason? We're talking about crazy people say the simple is typically speaking you have to come to somebody say you owe me a million dollars. I know what I'm talking about. But over here you could also go to your partner and say me and have I don't know who else you have av is very it's a very very difficult thing for a lot of people. I know for myself it's a difficult thing. The only reason I have a sh is because of the sh up until I had a sh I I said I swore I'm not gonna have a and once a 20 years ago was for me it was bad I'm the type of guy look I work so hard and how come you're not working as much I don't know I don't know how people do it they have certain understandings and great not for me you come I did much more than him I think he took under the table look at the car he's driving how did he how could he afford I don't know you always you're thinking things So not my talking about now he's going to watch the going to say no I'm just saying yeah I have a lot of because I could sit and and prepare for instead of worrying about the business it's a that we use today oh what does that mean a guy that comes in and out we're talking about a brother one of the brothers even that takes care of everything. He's in charge of hiring people. Paris, he does all the shopping. So why is different? This is a This is huge in life. Let's see here. This one. What's not this one in English? He's taking stuff out of the He's going to or come on. It's not a big deal. I'll bring back the gar tomorrow. People do that. They go to the takes far out. That's how about this one. This is this is the the animation of just two years ago where we came from. It's unbelievable. Look at his feet not moving because it's so hard to get a guy's feet to move. Look at that. It's crazy. Says bay. The guy's a millionaire. That's a big one. That's a big one. The guy's so wealthy. He couldn't care less if I just You won't feel it. you won't feel it. I'll just take a little bit. I'll drive his car and he doesn't know it's crazy, crazy, crazy. I couldn't believe this, but somebody told me last night this year that he also heard the same thing. So, I'll say it over even though it's a very, very strong member. Whether it's true or not, there's something to be learned from it. The reb was asked at should I take two ky guys or two balabat he says take the balabat because the ky guy is during the day and as somebody that runs a ky I'm not talking about my ky guys but we don't pay them enough we really don't and what happens is the guy says listen I barely get paid anything they get paid $1,000 a month you can't live on that you everybody knows you can't live on it I'm getting $1,000 and he's going to tell me that if I come at 9:15 is going to dock me 50 shekele today. That's what they do in car not by us but you know they're going to die 50 who he's going to tell you know they have all sorts of I'm going to drink coffee now and this that there's a certain he says better use of all of us that's what he said it's crazy to say I'm just throwing it out there whether it's true or not people should be not at work oh he barely pays me and he promised me a raise so I could use my cell phone and and for four hours now and play games like this doesn't matter so everybody I'm saying have problem guys have the problem. He just said it on a but at the end of the day we all have that issue. We do with various. Okay. Should we do one more line? Just one more line. We spoke about this whole that there's a remember but in order to make a swear you need a of two right? We said over there that does the titus start off at two or two plus a little bit. Oh, what you tell me this is says that like no not what did he what did he how do you say fear in English denial war time the denial was two he started off you're right according to Rab start off two and a one he say two two is the denial has to be two rais have a wonderful Hey, merit the of spreading Torah throughout the world. Sponsor a share today. mdysponsor.com or sponsor at mdy.com.